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“Inconvenient parenting is a willingness to lay down our comforts and our conveniences for the sake of our children to help them become who God created them to be.” – Melissa Hannigan.
Melissa Hannigan holds a Master of Arts degree in counseling from Midwestern Theological Seminary. She is married to John Hannigan, and they have three daughters and a son who recently went to be with the Lord. Before becoming a full-time homeschool mom, Melissa worked with teen girls to overcome abuse, addictions, and trauma. She is passionate about helping people discover God’s best for their lives and families. Together, John and Melissa co-founded Ignite the Family, and she released her first book, Inconvenient Parenting, in August of 2023.
During this episode, Melissa discusses the profound impact of parenting and how to approach it with faith and grace. She shares her personal journey of grief and resilience, diving into the concept of "inconvenient parenting" and the 12 God-given traits that can shape a positive parenting journey. She explores the challenges of modern parenting, the significance of nurturing children's unique gifts, and the delicate balance between meeting a child's needs and instilling a sense of wonder and humility.
Melissa discusses her book, Inconvenient Parenting, and elaborates on the following 12 God-given parenting traits: wisdom, wonder, vitality, sensitivity, flexibility, curiosity, creativity, imagination, inventiveness, playfulness, humor, and joy. She mentions that these aren’t used as a checklist to see if your family has all these qualities; instead, they serve as traits to incorporate organically into everyday life and relationships. She is passionate about helping families unlock the potential that lies within every child and offers practical strategies to nurture and activate God-given traits.
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“We teach our children biblical character, not so that they're better than others, not so that they perform better than others, but because it glorifies God when we put him on display in that way.” – Dr. Kathy Koch.
Kathy Koch, PhD, is the founder and president of Celebrate Kids, Inc., and a child development specialist. She is also the author of seven bestselling parent-child enrichment books. In her latest book, Parent Differently, Raise Kids with Biblical Character That Changes Culture (Moody Publishers), Dr. Kathy reminds parents that if they want to see their children adopt positive attitudes, act righteously, and develop healthy habits, then they must lead by example in understanding and demonstrating biblical character. Dr. Kathy offers practical, relatable, and spiritual-centered insights and strategies for parents and educators, instructing them on how to guide children to develop biblical character so they flourish in life. She further encourages readers that there is “no shame or blame for yesterday and great hope for tomorrow.”
During this episode, Dr. Kathy shares insights on her latest book, emphasizes the importance of instilling biblical character in children, and how parents can guide their kids to develop these values early on. She discusses the importance of gratitude and the connection between a child's beliefs and their character choices.
“I wrote this book because if children don't have character, they will not develop into the people that God intended for them to be.” – Dr. Kathy Koch.
Key Takeaways:
Emphasis on leading by example, understanding biblical character, and the significance of character in children's development.
The impact of negative character traits on children's ability to influence and contribute positively to society.
It's never too early or too late to teach biblical character traits.
Utilization of biblical stories and figures to teach children about character and the importance of redemption and second chances in character development.
The three indicators of maturity in character: completeness, consistency, and automaticity.
The importance of teaching gratitude as a foundational character virtue.
The disconnection between chronological age and maturity in character.
Jesus' belief in the importance of children and their influence, highlighting how Jesus valued and prioritized spending time with children.
Emphasizing the critical role of children as the future and the importance of investing in them.
Encouraging parents to prioritize character development over rule-following and obedience.
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“We love because he first loved us. And it's the same with kids. Kids need to feel love in order to be able to love others. Love can change the world; that starts with us and our kids.” – Jill Roman Lord.Jill Roman Lord is an award-winning author of over 30 Christian children's books. She and her husband have raised three Jesus-loving kids who have flown the coop, leaving them to navigate the empty nest on their own.During this episode, Jill discusses the impact of children's literature on developing a personal relationship with God. She delves into her latest books that focus on teaching children how to love well and incorporate God's teachings into their lives. She also explores the significance of board books in shaping young minds and shares parental advice on navigating the challenges of raising children in today's world.Jill talks about a few of her children’s books and what children can learn from them: Love Well My Precious One – addressing the theme of love and sharing with others; this book teaches children that little acts of love can make a big impact in the world. Noah’s Joyful Ark – a board book for kids exploring the joyful aspect of being on Noah’s ark; this book encourages readers to roar, bark, and hee-haw along with all of God’s creatures, reminding children that even on gloomy days, they can look for God’s love in a rainbow. If Jesus Lived Inside my Heart – a board book for babies that explores the presence of Jesus in our lives; this story helps toddlers learn how to be kind and generous in different situations, while being introduced to Jesus. The Noisy Night – a new twist to the Christmas story of Jesus’s birth, exploring what the night might have been like if all the creatures and people celebrated the birth of Jesus in their own God-given ways.“There have actually been multiple studies done to show that generosity improves the emotion of the person receiving and the emotion of the person giving. It's actually a 3-fold that helps the receiver, the giver, and then the receiver also wants to pay it forward and love also and be generous.” – Jill Roman Lord.Jill’s Website, Facebook, Instagram, & Twitter.RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram PinterestLove this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.
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“Long story short, if someone's name and phone number are not in that contact list, they literally cannot talk to your child. A text can't come through; a phone call can't come through.” – Bill Brady.
Bill Brady is the co-founder and CEO of Troomi Wireless, a mobile phone solution that provides kids with all the good they need from technology without pornography, predators, bullies, and social media.
During this episode, Bill shares his personal journey as a parent of five and how it led him to develop a mobile phone solution that provides children with safe access to technology without exposure to harmful influences like social media, bullies, or inappropriate content. They discuss the importance of introducing technology to kids in stages and the positive impact of Troomi Wireless on children's mental and emotional well-being. He delves into the unique features of Troomi phones and how they can empower parents to protect their kids in the digital age. Bill also offers an exclusive discount code for Raising Christian Kids listeners!
“It's got to be safe, but it's got to be flexible. So that's what we've done with Troomi. Parents can custom-fit it to the age and maturity of each of their children individually and give them all the stuff they need without the garbage.” – Bill Brady.
Key Takeaways:
Troomi Wireless: A mobile phone solution that provides kids with safe technology.
Troomi’s goal is to create a super safe and flexible phone for kids, allowing access to vetted apps for school and promoting spirituality.
Ability to customize the phone experience to match the child's needs.
Safe listing feature for setting up contacts based on the child's age and maturity.
Preventing access to harmful content and protecting kids from negative influences.
Acknowledgment of the negative impact of social media on children's mental health and the alarming statistics of kids encountering mental health issues and isolation due to excessive social media use.
A promotional code RCK listeners for $50 off the purchase of a Troomi device – use RCK at checkout!
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“In chaos, God sees perfection. In these moments of utter despair and brokenness, the most historic tragedy of my life, losing my dad and my family being crushed and broken, yet there was perfection, yet there was he saw us whole.” – Jake Freels.
Jake Freels is a real estate developer, businessman, state champion football coach, avid outdoorsman, missionary, rodeo competitor, movie producer, overseer of men’s ministry, mentor to men & young men, and most importantly, an amazing dad and husband to his wife and four children. The most incredible thing about Jake, though, is not everything he does but the story of how he overcame the tragic loss of his dad when he was a child. This loss sent him spiraling out of control from ages 9 to 19. He then found hope, life, purpose, and healing when he met Jesus in college.
During this episode, Jake shares his passion for mentoring men through outdoor adventures to connect them with God and bring about transformation in their lives. He emphasizes the importance of authentic encounters with Jesus, initiations into manhood, and the impact of the family table. He also introduces his new movie, "Multiplied," which aims to inspire a movement of worldwide revival.
Key Takeaways:
Jake's tragic loss of his father at a young age and transformation and hope through meeting Jesus in college.
Platforms for reaching men – Irons in the Fire
Producing men's events and gatherings, including a stadium event focused on uniting men as a force for positive change.
Emphasizing the importance of men taking ownership for families and in society.
Detailed account of the car accident that claimed his father’s life as well as his miraculous survival and intervention by divine presence.
Understanding God’s vision during moments of despair and brokenness.
The significance of seeking leadership and mentorship from other strong men, understanding God’s role in shaping men, and empowering them to lead and mentor others.
Significance of the family table in building deep and authentic relationships.
The release of the movie "Multiplied" about the legacies of influential Christian leaders and the call to support and attend the movie to spread the message of revival.
Encouragement for men to step up and participate in the revival movement.
Jake’s Resources: Multiplied Movie, Heart of Many Colors, Irons in the Fire Ministry, and Freels Designs.
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“They need routine, they need protection, they need biblical truth, they need things labeled as what's God-honoring and not God-honoring behavior.” -Darby Strickland.
Darby A. Strickland, MDiv, is a faculty member and counselor at the Christian Counseling & Education Foundation (CCEF). She is a contributor to Becoming a Church That Cares Well for the Abused and author of Is It Abuse? A Biblical Guide to Identifying Domestic Abuse and Helping Victims, the children’s book Something Scary Happened, and the mini book When Children Experience Trauma. She writes regularly for the Journal of Biblical Counseling. Darby and her husband, John, have three children.
During this episode, Darby discusses the effects of trauma and abuse on children and offers valuable insight into how parents can support their children through difficult times. She shares tips on addressing trauma with children, the importance of open communication, and the role of faith in comforting and guiding children through tough situations. Additionally, she provides information about online counseling resources for families in need.
Key Takeaways:
Encouragement for parents to face hard truths with their children and the importance of addressing behavior as a clue to the child's struggles.
Advice on how parents can communicate with their children about traumatic events.
The influence of parental reactions on a child's experience of trauma.
The importance of routine, protection, and biblical truth for traumatized children.
Something Scary Happened can help children overcome fear by learning how to express and understand their fears.
The free resources, blogs, and journal articles are available on ccef.org.
When Children Experience Trauma is a mini book that can help parents help their children navigate their fears, guide them through their distress, and assist their recovery after a traumatic event.
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“Being thankful means seeing that God is the source of all the things that we experience in life.” – Champ Thornton.
Champ Thornton is an acquisitions editor at Crossway and the author of several books for kids and families, including The Really Radical Book for Kids, The Radical Book for Kids, Wonders of His Love, The Serpent Slayer and the Scroll of Riddles, A Five-Senses Countdown to Calm: You Count!, Why Do We Say Good Night, and Why Do We Say Thank You?
During this episode, Champ discusses the importance of teaching children gratitude and thankfulness. He delves into the essential role of parents in connecting children to God in their everyday experiences. From fostering politeness to guiding emotional calmness, Champ has a treasure trove of resources for parents looking to cultivate strong Christian values in their children.
Key Takeaways:
Importance of teaching children gratitude and politeness.
The storyline of the book Why Do We Say Thank You? - features a grumpy young boy who learns to be thankful and the transformation of the boy's perspective on gratitude through a dream sequence.
The connection between boredom and gratitude.
The role of parents in helping children recognize that everything comes from God.
Ideas and suggestions for parents to help children recognize the role of God in their lives and the importance of integrating faith into everyday experiences.
Organic ways to connect children to God in their daily lives.
A Five-Senses Countdown to Calm: You Count! can help guide children to manage their emotions through sensory experiences.
Addressing the importance of addressing spiritual topics, such as salvation and the existence of Satan, in children's literature.
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Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining. Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group.
During this episode, Lori and Lee Ann delve into the aspects of parenting prodigal children, offering guidance to parents navigating these challenges with faith and grace. Lori shares her insights on the different types of prodigals, drawing parallels from biblical examples to provide a multi-dimensional understanding of wayward children and give hope to parents grappling with despair and hopelessness while raising prodigal children.
Key Takeaways:
Reference to Luke 15:11-32, the parable of the lost son in the Bible.
The importance of not overreacting to their behavior and choosing when to step in to pursue them or wait for them to return on their own.
Encouragement to rediscover the "jewel" in your child's heart.
The five different types of prodigals:
The heart, soul, mind, body, and the reluctant.
Biblical examples of each type of prodigal discussed: David, Aaron, Paul, the woman condemned, and Samson.
Prodigal of the heart – David (Psalm 51:10)
Prodigal of the soul – Aaron (John 8:12)
Prodigal of the mind – Paul (Philippians 4:8)
Prodigal of the body – the woman who was an adulteress (Romans 12:1)
The reluctant prodigal – Samson (Proverbs 8:13)
The importance of praying for them and trusting in God's transformative power.
Emphasizing hope for parents with prodigal children, regardless of the duration of their absence.
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Help! I Have a Prodigal, by Judy Slay.
Praying for Your Child from Head to Toe, by Sharon James.
Messy Journey: How Grace and Truth Offer the Prodigal a Way Home, by Lori Wildenberg.
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“I want them to know just how much God loves them, how that is demonstrated again and again in the stories in the Bible, and how he loves when we come to him with our emotions, with our needs, tell him what's going on, come to him to ask for forgiveness. That he loves to connect with us through prayer anytime and anywhere.” – Laura Sassi.
Laura Sassi has been a teacher, homeschool mama, children’s ministry director, and more. She is the author of multiple children's books, including Christian Book Award finalist Goodnight Ark, Love is Kind, Bunny Finds Easter, My Tender Heart books, and more. She’s also written poems and stories for various children’s publications, including Spider, Highlights for Children, and Clubhouse Jr. She lives in New Jersey with her husband, two children, and an adorable cockapoo named Sophie.
During this episode, Laura discusses her heartwarming books and the valuable resources that accompany them. She shares her passion for connecting children with God's love through her books and offers insightful tips on helping families incorporate biblical concepts into their children's lives.
Laura also shares what families can learn from her interactive board book series, which includes My Tender Bible, My Tender Heart Prayer Book, and a devotional book coming out soon. By weaving heart moments into her work, Laura emphasizes the significance of connecting daily experiences with God's love and teachings, empowering families to cultivate a genuine and enduring faith in their children.
Four tips for teaching biblical concepts to young children:
Tip 1: Prioritize your own spiritual growth first. It's hard to guide your children if you're not feeding yourself spiritually.
Tip 2: Pray for teachable moments and be on the lookout for ways to connect everyday experiences to biblical concepts.
Tip 3: Use great resources like Bible storybooks and picture books to share biblical stories with your kids, especially during bedtime.
Tip 4: After reading a Bible story, take a moment to connect its message to everyday life, reinforcing the concept of God's love and forgiveness.
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“If we really start undergirding kids with a biblical worldview and showing them how these other worldviews really don't align with reality, then a lot of those questions will go away because they don't have the bad assumptions to begin with.” –Hillary Morgan Ferrer.
Founder and Mama-Bear-in-Chief of Mama Bear Apologetics, Hillary Morgan Ferrer, is passionate about providing accessible apologetics resources for busy moms. She is the co-author and general editor of the bestselling book Mama Bear Apologetics: Empowering Your Kids to Challenge Cultural Lies and the recently released Mama Bear Apologetics Guide to Sexuality. She holds a master’s degree in biology, and she and her husband, John, have been married for 15 years and minister together as an apologetics team.
During this episode, Hillary delves into the important topic of helping children discern truth from lies, specifically in the context of sexuality and cultural influences. She shares insights on empowering kids to challenge cultural norms while upholding biblical truth, as well as practical tips for parents to guide their children through these complex issues.
“Interest, personality, and style are on a spectrum. Gender is not." – Hillary Morgan Ferrer.
Key Takeaways:
Social attitudes and beliefs surrounding sexuality.
Confusion, mental well-being, and helping children discern truth from lies.
Categorizing questions based on ideologies.
Undergirding kids with a biblical worldview.
Addressing naturalism, postmodernism, and Marxism.
Mama Bear Apologetics: Empowering Your Kids to Challenge Cultural Lies serves to equip parents to teach kids how to form their own biblical beliefs about what is true and what is false.
Mama Bear Apologetics Guide to Sexuality is a comprehensive tool for discussing false teachings regarding gender, same-sex marriage, and pornography.
Reasons for children's confusion and refusal of biblical truth and the impacts of societal messages on children's perception and identification.
Awareness of parental influence on children's perspectives.
Deconstructing agendas without diminishing individuals while educating children to think critically and biblically.
Repeating maxims to counteract lies and the importance of familiarizing children with truth.
Encouragement for nervous parents to engage in the topic of sexuality.
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“I think parents today, more than ever, tend to really want their kids not to experience pain or anything negative. And I think that's understandable in the short run, but in the long run, it really hurts them because all of a sudden, they're out in the real world and have a job and, and something bad happens, they don't know how to handle it.” – Steve Hines.
Steve Hines is the author of the recently released book Salt, Light, and Kids: Parenting Well in Today's Culture, as well as a lifelong entrepreneur and musician. Church of the Highlands founding pastor Chris Hodges wrote the book's foreword. In the book, Steve talks about how to raise up good kids who are salt and light to our ever-darkening world. Steve lives with his wife, Leigh Ann, in Nashville, where their children, spouses, and grandchildren live.
During this episode, Steve discusses the many parenting challenges in raising children in today's culture. He sheds light on the impact of technology, social media, and social influences on kids and shares valuable insights from his book Salt, Light, and Kids: Parenting Well in Today's Culture. He emphasizes the importance of awareness, wise parenting, and the need for parents to guide their children in a rapidly changing world.
Key Takeaways:
Confusion and desensitization caused by the media and social media.
Increased hate, school shootings, and availability of negative influences due to technology.
Importance of awareness and the need for parents to be aware of the content their children are exposed to.
Balancing the role of parents as protectors and allowing children to experience hardships and learn from mistakes.
Importance of parents being parents and teachers being teachers and the dangers of teachers crossing into parenting roles by influencing children with non-academic subjects.
The potential impact of early exposure to certain ideologies and beliefs on children.
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Let’s help our children become influencers for Christ!
Tessa Emily Hall is an award-winning author who wrote her debut novel when she was sixteen. She is now a multi-published author of Christian books for teenage girls, including her latest release, INFLUENCER. Her unwavering passion lies in inspiring young women to embrace their unique potential within God’s kingdom. Driven by her dedication to providing clean teen fiction, she launched Illuminate YA Fiction in 2017—a teen fiction imprint formerly associated with LPC Books. Learn more about Tessa here!
During this episode, Tessa talks about her book, INFLUENCER, and how it inspires teens to embrace their unique potential within God's kingdom. Tessa shares her journey as a writer and an actress in the faith-based film industry and discusses the importance of helping teenagers discover their purpose in life.
Key Takeaways:
The importance of teenagers embracing their unique potential within God's kingdom.
Tessa's desire to show teenagers how they can make a significant impact within their sphere of influence.
The influence of peer pressure on teenagers and the importance of being influencers for Christ.
Importance of parents demonstrating the fulfilling nature of a relationship with Christ and showing Christianity as more than just a religion.
Suggestions for parents to help teens envision their future with and without Christ.
The significance of pursuing a relationship with God before entering a romantic relationship.
Connecting the concept of romance to the type of relationship God wants to have with his children.
Encouraging teens to create habits that foster a relationship with Jesus through daily prayer, worship, and reading the word.
Emphasizing the importance of intentional time with God and being part of a supportive community.
Highlighting the influence of the people one surrounds themselves with and the importance of a solid foundation in their faith.
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“Some of these hidden behaviors that we talk about are gossip and forgiveness, criticizing others, judging others. And these are all things that God talks about in His word and how to handle these things. And His word is the greatest authority.” – Dr. Magdalena Battles.
Dr. Magdalena Battles has a Ph.D. in psychology, a master’s degree in professional counseling from Liberty University, and a Bachelor of Science degree in psychology. After the completion of her doctorate in 2005, she went on to post-graduate studies at Harvard. She is a licensed professional counselor and specializes in the treatment of grief, parenting issues, mental health issues such as depression and anxiety, OCD, and relationship issues. Dr. Battles is also a writer and conference speaker. She has three books published- Let Them Play: The Importance of Play and 100 Child Development Activities, 6 Hidden Behaviors that Destroy Families: Strategies for Healthier and More Loving Relationships, and 10 Time-Saving Tips for Busy Parents.
During this episode, Dr. Battles shares wisdom and practical tips on equipping parents with the necessary tools they need to nurture faith, foster healthy family dynamics, and address sensitive issues with love and understanding. She emphasizes the importance of relying on the word of God for guidance in addressing behaviors that can harm family dynamics. She discusses six hidden behaviors that can detrimentally impact families, such as failure to forgive, criticism, and gossip, and offers strategies backed by biblical principles for addressing these issues.
Dr. Battles provides time-saving tips for busy parents, emphasizing the significance of establishing a family mission statement, letting go of perfection, and utilizing organizational tools like calendars and to-do lists, which can help manage the demands of a busy family life.
She also addresses a common critical issue of a child's fear of not entering heaven. She sheds light on the concept of intrusive thoughts and scrupulosity. She offers guidance on how parents can support children dealing with such fears and intrusive thoughts, stressing the importance of acknowledging but not engaging with unwanted thoughts and seeking professional help if necessary.
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“We have to make sure we don’t make a feature of who we are the foundation of who we are. Race is a feature, but Christ is the foundation. Gender is a feature, but Christ is the foundation. But when we take political sides, and we make features foundations, that’s when we see the arguing and the bickering, and we begin to go against the oneness in unity.” -Jerome Gay Jr.
Jerome Gay Jr. is the founding and teaching pastor of Vision Church in Raleigh, NC. He has a vision to see gospel-centered churches planted, disciples multiplied, missionaries unleashed, and theologically sound and culturally engaging leaders raised up and sent out to impact the world with The Gospel. He is the author of African Heroes, The Whitewashing of Christianity, Church Hurt, and the mini-book Talking to Your Children about Race.
During this episode, Jerome discusses the importance of addressing race issues with children and how to teach them about the African American heroes in Christian history. He touches on the impact of historic whitewashing and the biblical approach to engaging in discussions about race.
Key Takeaways:
Emphasis on celebrating the rich history of Christianity in Africa before colonization.
His children’s book African Heroes celebrates Christian history and teaches children about the early church's African roots.
This book focuses on African heroes' courage, tenacity, and strength, highlighting the stories of Perpetua, Felicity, and Athanasius.
Encouragement for children to see beyond skin color and focus on God's creation of mankind.
The importance of equipping parents to teach children about race with gentleness and respect.
Navigating differences without being disrespectful.
Exploring a section of his mini book Talking to Your Children about Race that addresses social issues and acknowledging imperfections while still showing appreciation for specific groups.
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Sharon Jaynes has been encouraging women through ministry for over twenty-five years. She is the author of 24 books with Harvest House, Moody Publishers, Baker Books, Multnomah Publishers, and Thomas Nelson. Sharon is a frequent guest on radio and television programs and currently writes for Proverbs 31 Ministries' Encouragement for Today devotions. Sharon co-founded Girlfriends in God, Inc., a non-denominational ministry that crosses generational, denominational, and racial boundaries to bring the Body of Christ together as believers.
During this episode, Sharon discusses the sixteen areas of prayer from her book, Praying for Your Child From Head to Toe. She also talks about using landmarks when we pray and how Jesus taught his disciples using landmarks, and we can do the same for our children. Sharon shares her passion for encouraging and empowering women to walk in courage and confidence as they grasp their true identity as children of God and co-heirs with Christ.
Key Takeaways:
The importance of covering children in prayer from head to toe using Scripture.
16 areas of prayer:
Mind: Praying for thought life and renewing of the mind.
Eyes: Praying for what they look at and the influence of visual stimuli.
Ears: Praying for discernment in what they listen to.
Mouth: Praying for the power of their words and being good examples.
Neck: Praying for wise decision-making.
Shoulders: Praying against fear and casting worries on the Lord.
Heart: Praying for what they love and are passionate about.
Back: Praying for spiritual and physical protection.
Arms: Praying for strength.
Hands: Praying for the development of their gifts and talents.
Ring finger: Praying for their future spouse.
Sides: Praying for influential friendships and relationships.
Sexuality: Praying for sexual purity and identity.
Legs: Praying for standing on the truth of God.
Knees: Praying for a humble relationship with God.
Feet: Praying for the path they take in life and following God's plan.
The fear and worry present in children due to current challenges and societal dangers.
The need for consistent, daily prayer for children in a changing world.
Using the 16 areas of prayer as landmarks for targeted and comprehensive prayers.
Jesus' teaching on prayer as a pattern for creating our own prayers.
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“And this was a pretty in-depth survey. So, the fact that over 1,000 women took it was amazing, and I wanted to know how much mom guilt was affecting them, and 96% of women said it was." -Alli Worthington.
Alli Worthington, known for her straight-talking encouragement and practical tools that help women reach their dreams in business and life, is the author of five books, including The Year of Living Happy, Fierce Faith, Breaking Busy and her latest Remaining You While Raising Them. She is a speaker, podcaster, and life and business coach who launched Called Creatives, a cohort of women speakers and writers.
Alli Worthington shines a light on the prevalent issue of mom guilt and the immense pressure parents face in the modern world of social media. She shares her wisdom on how mothers can navigate this overwhelming landscape, emphasizing the importance of recognizing and embracing their individual mothering styles. She unpacks the concept of the five mom superpowers and the significance of understanding and leveraging one's strengths in raising children. Alli's reassurance that each parent possesses their unique superpower in nurturing their kids and Lee Ann's encouraging perspective offers a beacon of hope for those struggling with guilt and self-doubt as they navigate the challenges of Christian parenting.
Key Takeaways:
How the impact of social media and comparing it to other mothers leads to mom guilt.
The impact of social media on children, especially teenage girls.
Description of the five mom superpowers: caring mom, ride-or-die mom, protector mom, idealist mom, and cheerleader mom.
The importance of identifying one's strengths in motherhood and acknowledging the potential for mothers to have a mix of superpowers.
Mothers' self-assessment, setting realistic expectations, reminding ourselves of the true qualities of a great mom.
Encouragement for mothers to feel empowered and not let mom guilt destroy them.
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“When we teach girls that they are at least partially responsible for boys' sin, they're far more likely to marry an abuser because we're teaching them it is normal for boys to lust after you and treat you badly.” -Sheila Gregoire.
Sheila Wray Gregoire is a sought-after speaker and the face behind ToLoveHonorandVacuum.com, the largest single-blogger marriage blog. She's also an award-winning author of nine books, including The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and She Deserves Better. With her humorous, no-nonsense approach, Sheila is passionate about changing the evangelical conversation about sex and marriage to line up with kingdom principles.
During this episode, Sheila Gregoire shares shocking statistics and research associated with toxic teachings on sex, self-esteem, and speaking up for oneself. She emphasizes the impact of purity culture on young girls and the unintended consequences of certain teachings in the evangelical world. Whether it's the correlation between modesty messaging, the likelihood of marrying an abuser, or the alarming statistics on sexual assault within church communities, Sheila sheds light on crucial issues that parents and church leaders must address.
Key Takeaways:
The need to raise children with discernment to resist toxic teachings.
The importance of self-esteem and its connection with self-love.
Addressing the misconception that placing importance on self-esteem can be detrimental to teaching children to be self-sacrificial like Christ.
Sheila explains the significance of self-esteem in fostering healthy relationships, mental health, and overall well-being.
Identifying indicators that suggest a likelihood of marrying an abuser based on the research data.
The correlation between teachings related to modesty and the likelihood of marrying an abuser.
The impact of low self-esteem and its association with abuse and negative sexual education.
The emphasis on sex, modesty, purity, and virginity within Christian teachings.
The detrimental effect of placing worth in virginity and the importance of reassessing the teaching approach.
Advocating for children to speak up against toxic teachings in church environments is necessary.
The importance of teaching children at home and fostering an open dialogue to address any concerning teachings encountered in church.
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"We want our kids to feel safe. We want our kids to feel secure. We want our kids to feel loved." -Lori Wildenberg.
Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining. Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group.
During this episode, Lori and Lee Ann discuss the crucial topic of emotional safety for children. They emphasize the importance of understanding a child's emotional age, being trustworthy with confidential information, and handling small irritations with patience. They also emphasize the significance of exhibiting sympathy and empathy and being on the same team as their children when dealing with challenging situations. These insights and practical tips aim to help parents foster emotional security, build connections, and cultivate a safe and loving environment for their children.
Key Takeaways:
Understand a child's emotional or intellectual age, not just their chronological age, and its impact on emotional safety and well-being.
Importance of keeping children's confidential information private and the potential effects of breaching trust with personal information.
Support children through difficult times and understand their personal struggles.
Handle irritations and strategies for maintaining calmness and patience during these inconveniences.
Normalize mistakes and offer assistance.
Avoid comparison among children and embrace each child's unique strengths and weaknesses.
Nurture respectful disagreements and encourage open and respectful communication about differing opinions.
Validate children's right to express their thoughts and embrace their individuality.
Protect their emotional safety from external factors such as a bully.
Provide and demonstrate sympathy and empathy for them when they share their conflicts with you.
Lori’s book, The Messy Life of Parenting: Powerful and Practical Ways to Strengthen Family Connections.
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“So, making digging comments about, ‘I wish your dad would take you to church. I wish your mom would let me take you to church,’ all those things are going to divide you from that that adult child that you're trying to draw to Christ." -Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield.
Three women of Christ on a mission, Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield, Rhonda Stoppe, and Lee Ann Mancini, have joined together to share empowering Godly advice, information, and encouragement for everyone who is raising the next generation of warriors for Christ. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield is a national speaker, author, podcaster, and a licensed professional counselor of 27 years. Rhonda Stoppe is a best-selling author, speaker, and podcaster who has helped countless women build “no regrets lives”!
During this episode, all three ladies discuss the role of grandparents in influencing their grandkids for Christ, especially when the parents may not be believers. The insightful conversation touches on the challenges parents and grandparents face and the strategies that can be used to connect grandchildren to their faith. Rhonda shares powerful insights on approaching this delicate situation with love and respect, emphasizing the importance of building genuine connections, avoiding judgment, and living out a Christ-like example, even when faced with challenging circumstances. Dr. Michelle shares her personal journey as a step-grandparent, offering a poignant portrayal of the impact of authentic faith and love in her relationship with her step-grandchildrens.
Rhonda, Michelle & Lee Ann also touch upon the following takeaways:
Supporting and respecting the non-believing spouse.
Finding ways to be involved in your grandkids' lives without repelling the unsaved spouse.
Emulating Christ’s love through actions, behavior, and prayers.
Living an authentic and genuine faith in front of stepkids.
Asking step-grandchildren about their needs and keeping a prayer book.
Hosting cousin camp focused on fun and faith and building close-knit relationships among cousins.
Upholding and promoting an uplifting and drama-free family environment.
Finding time and prioritizing family over busy schedules and commitments.
Being involved in grandchildren’s activities, co-op, and classes.
Sharing personal experiences and real-life stories with grandkids.
Resources: Rhonda Stoppe’s books & Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield’s books.
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“Our vision is that the next generations may know, honor and treasure God, setting their hope in Christ alone so they may live as faithful disciples for the glory of God.” -Sally Michael.
Sally Michael is a co-founder of Truth78 and has authored curricula and books marked by a passion for developing God-centered resources for children's spiritual development. For 16 years, she served as a minister for children at Bethlehem Baptist Church in Minneapolis, Minnesota, under the leadership of John Piper and her husband, David. Sally and David live in Indianapolis, Indiana. They enjoy spending time with their two adult daughters and three grandchildren.
During this episode, Sally talks about her organization, Truth78, and the critical role of creating biblically faithful material to raise the next generation to know and love God.
Key Takeaways:
Truth 78 is a ministry dedicated to serving the next generation by inspiring and equipping families through comprehensive discipleship practices. Its vision is to instill in children a profound knowledge, honor, and reverence for God and to guide them in living as faithful disciples for the glory of God.
Mothers: Disciplers of the Next Generation is a booklet that empowers mothers to take on the vital responsibility of leading their children toward salvation and nurturing their growth in faith.
Helping Children to Understand the Gospel is a booklet designed to assist parents in preparing children to comprehend and respond to the gospel within the context of their spiritual development.
Her book The Very Bad News & The Very Good News, tailored for children aged 4 to 7, serves as a tool to help teach children that even though the bad news is that people have sin in their hearts, there is sickness and death, problems and pain, there is good news that God sent his only son to take all of this away from us. It offers a simple gospel presentation using the overarching themes of creation, fall, redemption, and restoration.
Her new book series, Bible Verses to Remember, is geared toward teaching preschoolers the art of scripture memorization.
The three parent pages at the end of each book challenge parents to prioritize the spiritual nurture of their children, teach parents how to use the book to instruct children’s minds to engage with their hearts, and show how to help children apply these Bible verses in everyday life.
The five-step process for helping children memorize scripture is to reference the verse, repeat the verse, repeat the reference, review the verse, and discuss the verse.
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