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In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, the host engages in a heartfelt conversation with Carey, a surrogate, exploring her journey into surrogacy, the emotional and physical challenges she faced, and the importance of mental health support throughout the process. They discuss the dynamics of being a surrogate, the relationships formed with intended parents, and the unique experiences of postpartum as a surrogate. The conversation highlights the altruistic motivations behind surrogacy and the profound impact it has on families.
Carey Flamer-Powell, Founder and Director
Carey Flamer-Powell, Founder and Director of Surrogacy Mentor, is an experienced gestational surrogate, surrogacy agency founder and surrogacy non-profit co-founder, with over a decade of experience in the surrogacy industry. She also currently serves as the co-Vice President of SEEDS, The Society for Ethics in Egg Donation and Surrogacy.
As the Founder and former owner of All Families Surrogacy, an award-winning gestational surrogacy agency, Carey spent 6 years helping hundreds of surrogates and parents navigate their journeys. Carey also co-founded and served as Co-President of the Oregon Surrogacy Professionals Association (OSPA), served as the LGBTQ Surrogacy Advisor for Parents Via Egg Donation (PVED), and has served on several committees for SEEDS over the years.
Carey brings her vast surrogacy expertise to Surrogacy Mentor®, in addition to over 25 years in business operations management and PR, to help surrogates find the right agency for them.
In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, the host engages in a heartfelt conversation with Carrie, a surrogate mother, exploring her journey into surrogacy, the emotional complexities involved, and the importance of mental health support throughout the process. Carrie shares her motivations for becoming a surrogate, the challenges of failed transfers, and the unique bond she formed with the intended parents. The discussion highlights the evolving landscape of surrogacy, emphasizing the need for strong support networks and the normalization of diverse family structures.
Takeaways
Carey's's journey into surrogacy began with her own experience of becoming a parent.
She felt a strong desire to give back after her own successful pregnancy.
Gestational surrogacy involves carrying a baby that is not genetically related to the surrogate.
Failed transfers can lead to feelings of guilt for surrogates.
A strong support network is crucial for surrogates during the process.
Mental health support is now integrated into the surrogacy process.
Surrogates often face unique social situations when explaining their role.
The bond between a surrogate and intended parents can be profound.
Surrogates do not typically feel a parental connection to the baby they carry.
The emotional recovery after birth can differ significantly for surrogates.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Surrogacy Journey
02:48 The Decision to Become a Surrogate
06:02 Understanding Gestational Surrogacy
08:55 Emotional Challenges of Failed Transfers
11:47 Mental Health Support in Surrogacy
14:57 Living Life While Pregnant for Others
18:07 The Connection with Intended Parents
21:00 Postpartum Experience as a Surrogate
23:50 Maintaining Relationships After Birth
Keywords
surrogacy, gestational surrogacy, emotional challenges, mental health, support network, intended parents, pregnancy, IVF, family dynamics, parenting
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The conversation revolves around the decision of what to do with frozen embryos. The speakers discuss the ethical and emotional considerations involved in embryo donation and adoption. They explore the concept of embryos as assets versus embryos as life, and the implications of these perspectives. The conversation also touches on the benefits of embryo donation for women and LGBTQIA individuals, as well as the societal and personal factors that influence decision-making.
Takeaways
Embryo donation and adoption are options for individuals with frozen embryos who do not want to use them.
The decision of what to do with frozen embryos involves ethical and emotional considerations.
There is a distinction between viewing embryos as assets versus viewing them as life.
Embryo donation can be a more affordable option for individuals who need assistance in conceiving.
Embryo donation and adoption can empower women and LGBTQIA individuals.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Personal Context
01:26 The Decision of What to Do with Frozen Embryos
07:25 Ethical Considerations: Embryos as Assets or Life?
14:07 Embryo Donation: Empowering Women and LGBTQIA Individuals
20:50 Embryo Donation: A More Affordable Option
24:35 The Conceptualization of Embryos
Sound Bites
"What am I going to do with them? They're currently sitting frozen."
"Giving them to somebody else to then have as a child and then to raise as a child as their own."
"Genetically, but again all a family needs is love."
Keywords
embryo donation, embryo adoption, frozen embryos, ethical considerations, emotional considerations, assets versus life
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Maya, a psychotherapist and filmmaker, shares her experience with embryo donation and discusses her work with Empower with Moxie, an embryo donation organization. She explains the difference between embryo adoption and embryo donation, emphasizing the importance of education and support for individuals considering embryo donation. Maya highlights the need for a more personal and connected approach to embryo donation, where donors and recipients have the opportunity to know each other and maintain a consensual connection. She also addresses the ethical and legal implications of embryo donation and the challenges of navigating the complex landscape of fertility treatment. Moxie matching is a platform that connects embryo donors and recipients, allowing them to create profiles and find their ideal match. The platform is inclusive and provides options for single women and LGBTQ families. Moxie also offers education and support for individuals navigating embryo donation, including genetic and medical counseling. After a match is made, Moxie facilitates meetings between donors and recipients to ensure compatibility. The ownership of remaining embryos after a successful donation can either revert back to the original donors or be jointly decided by the recipients. Moxie emphasizes the importance of expanding the definition of family and providing children with access to their genetic siblings.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Setting the Safe Word
03:08 Embryo Donation as the Next Best Option
07:13 The Types of Families Donating Embryos and Their Motivations
10:13 The Paralysis of Decision-Making and the Emotional Connection to Embryos
13:13 The Difference Between Embryo Adoption and Embryo Donation
16:33 Creating a Personal and Connected Approach to Embryo Donation
21:30 The Need for Education and Support in Embryo Donation
25:33 The Landscape of Embryo Donation and the Importance of Clear Terminology
27:24 Moxie Matching: Connecting Embryo Donors and Recipients
29:15 Inclusivity in Embryo Donation: Options for Single Women and LGBTQ Families
32:56 Education and Support: Genetic and Medical Counseling for Embryo Donation
40:22 Expanding the Definition of Family: Access to Genetic Siblings
Takeaways
Embryo adoption refers to the practice of treating embryo donation as a traditional adoption, which can create legal and ethical complications.
Education and support are crucial for individuals considering embryo donation, as it is not the right choice for everyone and requires careful consideration of the emotional and psychological implications.
Empower with Moxie is an embryo donation organization that aims to provide a more personal and connected approach to embryo donation, ensuring that donors and recipients have the opportunity to know each other and maintain a consensual connection.
The platform is inclusive and provides options for single women and LGBTQ families.
Moxie offers education and support for individuals navigating embryo donation, including genetic and medical counseling.
After a successful donation, the ownership of remaining embryos can either revert back to the original donors or be jointly decided by the recipients.
Maya is the CEO and co-founder of EM•POWER with Moxi, a company focused on education, support and matching/logistics for directed embryo donation. She is also a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and psychotherapist in the field of reproductive medicine and a fertility advocate. Several years ago, Maya and her TV producer husband Noah made a feature length film documenting their tumultuous journey to parenthood, which ended with the birth of their daughter who was conceived via embryo donation. The film, called One More Shot, debuted on Netflix in January 2018 and is now available on Amazon Prime.
EM•POWER with Moxi: www.empowerwithmoxi.com/ IG: empowerwithmoxi FB:@empowerwithmoxi
One More Shot: http://www.onemoreshotfilm.com/
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In this episode, the Julio and Richard discuss the topic of twins, as they themselves are parents of twins. They explore the concept of twins in the context of IVF and surrogacy, discussing the reasons why some people choose to have twins and the risks associated with twin pregnancies. They also delve into the different types of twins, such as identical and fraternal twins, and the various ways in which twins can be conceived. The hosts also touch on the importance of reproductive rights and the impact of the upcoming US elections on these rights.
Keywords
twins, IVF, surrogacy, risks, types of twins, reproductive rights, US elections
Takeaways
The hosts share their personal experience of having twins through IVF and surrogacy.
Twin pregnancies are riskier than single pregnancies, and there are potential risks for both the surrogate and the babies.
The definition of twins can vary, but the hosts believe that twins are embryos that are carried by the same person at the same time.
The decision to have twins is influenced by factors such as cost, success rates, and the desire for siblings to grow up together.
Reproductive rights and the ability to make choices about one's own body are important issues, especially in the context of IVF and surrogacy.
Sound Bites
"Today we're going to be talking about twins."
"If you get two embryos and then you put in the same surrogate, they're twins."
"Anybody telling a woman what they can do to their body is wrong."
Chapters
00:00 Introduction: Exploring the World of Twins
06:18 Understanding the Risks and Considerations of Twin Pregnancies
08:13 Different Types of Twins: Identical vs. Fraternal
11:26 Defining Twins: Carried by the Same Person at the Same Time
14:20 Factors Influencing the Decision to Have Twins
26:16 The Importance of Reproductive Rights in IVF and Surrogacy
Titles
Factors Influencing the Decision to Have Twins
Exploring the World of Twins in IVF and Surrogacy
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In this episode, Julio and Richard discuss the topic of formula feeding for babies. They share their personal experiences and address common questions and misconceptions surrounding formula feeding. They also touch on the stigma associated with formula feeding and the availability of different types of formula. The conversation concludes with a discussion on diapers and the importance of having support and guidance during the early stages of parenthood.
Keywords
formula feeding, breast milk, breastfeeding, stigma, surrogate, nutrition, baby care, diapers
Takeaways
Formula feeding is a common and valid choice for parents who are unable or choose not to breastfeed.
There is a stigma surrounding formula feeding, but it is important to respect the choices and preferences of individual parents.
Formula comes in different stages for different ages, and there are various options available, including vegan formulas.
Breast milk can be donated or purchased from breast milk banks, but it is ultimately up to the surrogate or birth parent to decide if they want to pump breast milk.
Having support and guidance, such as a maternity nurse, can be invaluable for new parents navigating the world of formula feeding and baby care.
Demystifying Formula Feeding: A Valid Choice for Parents
Breast Milk Options: Donating, Pumping, and Breast Milk Banks
Sound Bites
"Did you give your twins breast milk or formula? I was like, no, it was obvious."
"Is milk food? For a baby, there's not a lot to chew until a certain age."
"Breast is best. Trying to promote breastfeeding and all those different things."
Chapters
00:00 Introduction: The Question of Formula Feeding
07:05 Is Milk Food? Understanding the Role of Formula
10:59 The Stigma and Promotion of Breastfeeding
18:28 The Taste of Breast Milk and Formula Ingredients
25:09 Exploring the Composition of Formula
26:28 Potty Training and the Importance of Support
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Cynthia, an embryologist and now working with a technology company, TMRW Life Science discusses the need for tools and technology to improve safety and scale in the embryology lab. She emphasizes the importance of ensuring the chain of custody and specimen record for patients. Cynthia also highlights the role of technology in selecting the best sperm and eggs for successful IVF cycles. She explains the challenges faced by clinics in managing the influx of patients seeking egg freezing and the need for operational efficiency. Cynthia discusses the potential of AI algorithms and ultrasound technology to improve efficiency and reduce costs in fertility clinics.
Keywords
embryology lab, safety, scale, chain of custody, specimen record, technology, sperm selection, egg selection, operational efficiency, AI algorithms, ultrasound technology, cost reduction
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Cynthia's Background
01:27 Improving Safety and Scale in the Embryology Lab
06:13 The Role of Technology in Sperm and Egg Selection
10:03 Challenges and Opportunities in Egg Freezing
17:44 The Potential of AI Algorithms and Ultrasound Technology in Fertility Clinics
Takeaways
Tools and technology are needed to improve safety and scale in the embryology lab, ensuring the chain of custody and specimen record for patients.
Technology plays a crucial role in selecting the best sperm and eggs for successful IVF cycles.
Clinics face challenges in managing the influx of patients seeking egg freezing and the need for operational efficiency.
AI algorithms and ultrasound technology have the potential to improve efficiency and reduce costs in fertility clinics.
Sound Bites
"We need to build some technology and introduce tools to better secure the audit trail, better secure the chain of custody."
"By culturing embryos longer, we have dramatically improved the chances of success per attempt."
"The quality of the sperm is just as important as the quality of the egg."
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In this episode, Richard and Julio are joined by Cindy, a top surrogacy lawyer in Canada, to discuss her personal story of having a transgender child. They explore the challenges faced by both the child and the parents, the importance of support and understanding, and the need for education and acceptance. Cindy shares her experiences with her child's school and friends, as well as the emotional toll it can take on both the child and the parents. The conversation emphasizes the need for empathy, grace, and open communication within families.
Keywords
transgender, surrogacy, parenting, support, acceptance, education, mental health
Takeaways
Support and understanding are crucial for transgender children and their parents.
Parents should seek out resources and support networks to navigate the challenges of having a transgender child.
Open communication and empathy within families can help create a safe and accepting environment.
It is important to give oneself grace as a parent and understand that mistakes will be made along the way.
Titles
Supporting Transgender Children: A Parent's Perspective
Navigating the Challenges of Parenting a Transgender Child
Sound Bites
"Lennox goes to an all girls school. How have they handled this situation as an institution? And also how have Lennox's friends handled this?"
"Has Lennox ever come to you thinking about the prospect that all this is too much, that the change is too much, is debilitating emotionally, physically, and then mentioned anything to do with suicide or anything like that?"
"Parents, children, anybody going through any struggles, you're not alone. You're not alone."
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Background
01:25 The Changing Landscape of Acceptance
03:22 Supporting a Transgender Child
05:11 Finding Support and Resources
08:32 Understanding and Articulating Gender Identity
12:34 Navigating Pronouns and Name Changes
16:19 Dealing with Resistance and Lack of Support
18:41 Supportive School and Friends
21:23 Taking Time for Decision-Making
23:17 Mental Health and Suicide Prevention
25:58 Accessing Support Services
27:13 The Importance of Community and Education
31:03 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
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In this episode, Richard and Julio discuss the topic of vulnerability and what it means to be a family. They touch on the anxiety and challenges they face as a blended family, including the reactions of others and the pressure to say and do the right things. They also explore the importance of celebrating love and kindness, and the rewards and sacrifices of parenting. The conversation delves into the complexities of being a stepparent and the impact on both the children and the parents involved. Overall, the episode highlights the personal struggles and growth that come with navigating relationships and family dynamics.
Being a stepparent is a challenging role that requires patience, compromise, and balancing multiple responsibilities.
The definition of family is fluid and can vary for each individual and situation.
Parenting is hard and comes with its own set of anxieties and self-doubt, but the rewards are immeasurable.
It is important to celebrate love and kindness and to support and uplift each other as parents and family members.
vulnerability, family, blended family, anxiety, challenges, reactions, love, kindness, parenting, stepparent, rewards, sacrifices, relationships, family dynamics
Chapters
00:00 Exploring Vulnerability and the Meaning of Family
09:48 The Challenges and Rewards of Being a Stepparent
23:55 Celebrating Love and Kindness in Family Dynamics
Sound Bites
"What makes a kid yours? When it came from their mouth when they said that they feel like they have three parents."
"I need to become obsolete in my children's lives as a parent. And that's when my job has been done properly, when they don't need me, but they want me."
"Parenting is really hard. It's not a walk in the park and the reward is exponential."
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In this episode of IVFDADDIES, Julio and Richard discuss the topic of sperm donation and the options available for individuals or couples who need a sperm donor to start a family. They highlight the importance of empowering people to make their own choices and challenge the stigma surrounding sperm donation. The hosts also mention the portrayal of sperm donation in reality TV shows and the need for more education and support for those considering this route. They touch on the process of sperm donation, the different options available, and the importance of reducing inflammation for successful pregnancies.
Takeaways
Sperm donation is a valid option for individuals or couples who need a sperm donor to start a family.
There is a need to empower people and challenge the stigma surrounding sperm donation.
Reality TV shows can provide some insight into the process of sperm donation, but more education and support are needed.
The process of sperm donation involves choosing a sperm donor, purchasing vials of sperm, and using methods like intrauterine insemination (IUI) to conceive.
Reducing inflammation through methods like hyperbaric chambers can increase the chances of successful pregnancies.
sperm donation, options, empowerment, stigma, reality TV, education, support, process, inflammation
Sound Bites
"We're empowering people, we're empowering women."
"Why not go, oh my gosh, that's amazing. How can we support you in that?"
"You'll end up with a family one way or another. It may not be the one you thought you were going to have, but the options are there."
Vanderpump Rules
Lala Kent
Kardashians
Khloe Kardashian
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In this conversation, Julio from IVF Daddies interviews Luisana Burgos from HBOT4Life about hyperbaric oxygen therapy (HBOT). They discuss the benefits of HBOT for overall health and fertility, the different types of hyperbaric chambers, the impact of inflammation on the body, and the potential for improving egg quality and fertility through HBOT. Luisana shares success stories of patients who have experienced positive results from HBOT. They also touch on the societal pressure on women to have children and the importance of education and awareness about fertility.
Keywords
hyperbaric oxygen therapy, HBOT, health, fertility, inflammation, egg quality, fertility treatment
Takeaways
Hyperbaric oxygen therapy (HBOT) is a medical treatment that can benefit both individuals with medical conditions and those without any symptoms.
HBOT can improve overall health, boost energy levels, and promote healing and regeneration in the body.
HBOT has the potential to improve egg quality and fertility by oxygenating the eggs and creating a better environment for conception.
There is a lack of education and awareness about fertility, and societal pressure on women to have children can cause stress and anxiety.
HBOT is a promising alternative treatment for various medical conditions, but it requires multiple sessions and a commitment to the treatment process.
The Potential of HBOT for Longevity and Reversing Aging
The Impact of Inflammation on the Body and the Role of HBOT
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Overview of Hyperbaric Oxygen Therapy
03:17 The Benefits of HBOT for Health and Prevention
11:45 Improving Egg Quality and Fertility with HBOT
24:26 Addressing Societal Pressure and Fertility Education
30:52 Success Stories and the Potential of HBOT for Longevity
Sound Bites
"For me, oxygen therapy or hyperbaric oxygen therapy, it is one of the best ways to actually prevent and to put your body in such a state that you are free of a medical condition as long as you can."
"Hyperbaric chambers can heal tissue that cannot be regenerated anymore. Imagine what it can do for your body for something mild."
"80% of our diet is inflammatory. We drink milk, we eat cheese, we eat yogurt. All that causes an inflammatory response in our body."
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The conversation revolves around the experience of witnessing a friend's journey through fertility, from freezing eggs to having a baby, and the emotional impact of being asked to be a godfather. It also touches on the power of hope, support, and inspiration in the context of fertility struggles.
Takeaways
The journey of fertility and IVF can be emotionally impactful and filled with hope and inspiration.
Support and guidance are crucial for individuals going through fertility struggles.
The power of hope and perseverance in the face of fertility challenges is evident in the speaker's experience.
The role of a godparent is seen as an honor and a source of joy and emotional connection.
The impact of sharing personal experiences and providing support to others going through similar challenges is highlighted.
Sound Bite
"I'm not very good at expressing emotions and I typically cry because that's what happens."
"Keep your optionality as far as you can, as much as you can."
"As a gay guy, who would have thought that I would be here, age 48, with twins?"
Keywords
fertility, freezing eggs, IVF journey, emotional impact, hope, support, inspiration
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Aemilia shares her journey of freezing her eggs at the age of 40 and undergoing IVF to have a baby at age 47. She emphasizes the importance of taking control of one's fertility and making informed decisions. Aemilia's story highlights the success of her single embryo transfer and the support she received from her friends and medical professionals. She encourages others to consider egg freezing as a way to preserve their options and break the taboo surrounding fertility treatments.
Takeaways
Egg freezing can provide women with the flexibility to decide when to have a baby and alleviate the pressure of the biological clock.
Choosing a single embryo transfer can reduce the risk of multiple pregnancies.
Having a supportive network of friends and medical professionals is crucial throughout the fertility journey.
Breaking the taboo surrounding fertility treatments is important to empower individuals to make informed decisions about their reproductive health.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Recap
00:56 Aemilia's Journey from Egg Freezing to Motherhood
03:50 Making the Decision to Have a Family
06:41 Navigating the IVF Process with Support
09:26 Preparing for the IVF Cycle
13:26 Choosing a Single Embryo Transfer
20:30 The Wait and Confirmation of Pregnancy
23:25 Emotional Journey and Support
28:11 The Taboo Surrounding Fertility Treatments
31:02 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Keywords
egg freezing, IVF, fertility, single embryo transfer, support, decision-making
Sound Bites
"I had already for a year been doing acupuncture with my acupuncture specialist in fertility and knew about this process."
"All eight are viable. 100 percenter."
"Oh, great. The heartbeat. All of you were in tears. Oh my God. And by God, you're pregnant."
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In this episode, Julio and Richard discuss their experiences at a Men Having Babies conference in Berlin and the importance of educating people about the basics of IVF and surrogacy. They highlight the mix of attendees at the conference, from newbies to those who have done extensive research. They emphasize the need for more education and understanding about fertility and the various paths to building a family. The conversation also touches on personal topics such as divorce and the emotional challenges of deciding what to do with frozen embryos.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Setting
00:30 Attending the Men Having Babies Conference in Berlin
07:14 Starting Conversations and Providing Support
12:02 The Emotional Challenges of Divorce and Frozen Embryos
23:19 Legally Owning Embryos and Future Decisions
26:34 The Emotional Impact of Protecting Children
29:29 The Importance of Providing Information and Personal Experiences
34:57 Conclusion and Future Episodes
Keywords
IVF, surrogacy, Men Having Babies, conference, education, fertility, basics, attendees, research, paths to parenthood, divorce, frozen embryos
Takeaways
Men Having Babies conferences provide valuable information and resources for those interested in IVF and surrogacy.
There is a need for more education and understanding about fertility and the different paths to building a family.
The emotional challenges of divorce and deciding what to do with frozen embryos can be difficult to navigate.
Open and honest conversations about these topics can help provide support and guidance for others going through similar experiences.
Sound Bites
"There is a need for people to understand the basics."
"The need for people to understand the basics."
"Starting the conversation, whether it is good comments or bad comments, it allows us to listen."
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In this episode, the guest shares her experience as a Black transgender woman going through the IVF and surrogacy process in New York City. She discusses the importance of understanding empathy and the challenges faced by minority groups in the United States. She also highlights the disparities in access to healthcare for Black women and the high maternal mortality rates. The guest emphasizes the significance of building relationships and finding a supportive community during the IVF journey. She talks about her criteria for choosing an agency and the obstacles she faced in finding information and support.
Takeaways
Understanding empathy is crucial in supporting minority groups going through the IVF and surrogacy process.
There are disparities in access to healthcare and high maternal mortality rates for Black women.
Building relationships and finding a supportive community is important during the IVF journey.
Choosing an agency that aligns with personal values and provides a sense of affinity can enhance the experience.
Finding information and support can be challenging, but connecting with others who have gone through a similar journey can be invaluable.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction: A Powerful Story of Identity and Activism
03:16 Chapter 1: Empathy and Activism: Understanding the Challenges Faced by Minority Groups
16:14 Chapter 2: Building Relationships and Finding Support in the IVF Process
28:58 Chapter 4: Overcoming Obstacles: Finding Information and Support
Sound Bites
"A powerful story of identity and activism"
"New York City: A welcoming and diverse environment for the IVF journey"
"The importance of love and family beyond genetics"
Sound Bites
"A powerful story of identity and activism"
"New York City: A welcoming and diverse environment for the IVF journey"
"The importance of love and family beyond genetics"
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Summary
Dr. Amy Kaing discusses the basics of IVF and the process of residency and fellowship in the medical field. She explains that IVF involves taking eggs and sperm and developing embryos in a laboratory before transferring them to the uterus. She also explains the concept of ectopic pregnancy and the importance of the uterus for a successful pregnancy. Dr. Kaing emphasizes the importance of early fertility planning and recommends getting an AMH test to assess ovarian reserve. She also discusses the challenges faced by individuals with low ovarian reserve and the options available for preserving fertility. Dr. Kaing touches on the topic of transgender individuals and their fertility planning, as well as the impact of age on the success of egg and sperm freezing.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Background
06:06 Importance of Early Fertility Planning
14:58 Challenges and Options for Low Ovarian Reserve
23:23 Fertility Planning for Transgender Individuals
Takeaways
IVF involves taking eggs and sperm and developing embryos in a laboratory before transferring them to the uterus.
An ectopic pregnancy occurs when the fertilized egg implants outside the uterus, usually in the fallopian tube.
Early fertility planning is important, and an AMH test can assess ovarian reserve.
Individuals with low ovarian reserve may face challenges in conceiving and may need to consider options like egg donation.
Transgender individuals may need to plan for fertility preservation before starting hormone therapy.
Age is a factor in the success of egg and sperm freezing.
Keywords
IVF, residency, fellowship, basics, ectopic pregnancy, uterus, AMH test, ovarian reserve, fertility planning, low ovarian reserve, preserving fertility, transgender, age, egg freezing, sperm freezing
Sound Bites
"IVF is basically a process of taking eggs and putting it together with sperm in a laboratory setting and developing embryos that we can then grow to a certain stage before we put it back into a uterus."
"Ectopics in general are just pregnancies outside of the uterus where they're meant to grow."
"I'm seeing people in their late 20s, early 30s that are just thinking about their fertility. They aren't actively trying, they're not technically infertile, but they're trying to plan ahead."
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In this episode, Richard Westoby interviews Molly O'Brien, a legal expert in surrogacy. They discuss the legal aspects of surrogacy contracts, including the importance of having a contract to establish parental rights, the timing of obtaining a court order, and the potential challenges that may arise. They also touch on the importance of trust and communication between intended parents and surrogates, as well as the financial and emotional aspects of the contract. The conversation concludes with a discussion on termination of pregnancy and the role of compensation in surrogacy.
Keywords
surrogacy, legal aspects, surrogacy contract, parental rights, court order, trust, communication, termination of pregnancy, compensation
Takeaways
Surrogacy contracts are more complex than egg donation contracts because they involve parental rights.
A court order is necessary to establish the intended parents as legal parents and remove the surrogate's legal rights.
Trust and communication are crucial in the relationship between intended parents and surrogates.
Compensation in surrogacy should be fair and not coercive.
Termination of pregnancy should be discussed and agreed upon by both parties in the contract.
Sound Bites
"Surrogacy is a lot more complicated. The legal contract is much longer, more detailed, because we are dealing with parental rights when it comes to surrogacy."
"Everything isn't really completed and secured until after the birth. So in some states there is a little bit of a timeline where the surrogate is technically the legal parent until that paperwork is completed."
"Communication is key. As with everything in life, communication is key."
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Background
04:17 Financial Aspects of Surrogacy Contracts
09:55 Addressing the Sensitive Topic of Termination
16:22 Psychological Assessment and Compensation
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Summary
Joey Guzman, a licensed therapist specializing in fertility, IVF, and surrogacy counseling, shares his personal journey of building a family through surrogacy and egg donation. He discusses the importance of open communication, setting expectations, and navigating the emotional complexities of the process. Joey emphasizes the need for informed decision-making, including considerations for donor selection, single vs. double embryo transfer, and the relational dynamics with surrogates. He also highlights the role of mental health providers in providing education, support, and empathy to intended parents and surrogates throughout their journey.
Takeaways
Open communication and setting expectations are crucial when involving family members in the surrogacy and egg donation process.
Informed decision-making is essential, including considerations for donor selection, single vs. double embryo transfer, and the relational dynamics with surrogates.
Mental health providers play a vital role in providing education, support, and empathy to intended parents and surrogates throughout their journey.
The surrogacy process can be emotionally challenging, and having a strong support system is important for both intended parents and surrogates.
Empathy and understanding are key in navigating the complexities and emotions involved in building a family through surrogacy and egg donation.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Personal Journey
03:21 Donor Selection and Embryo Creation
07:22 Navigating Surrogate Selection
10:43 The Role of Mental Health Providers
23:07 Supporting Surrogates and Donors
25:26 Understanding Double Embryo Transfer
29:21 Personal Experience and Emotional Challenges
35:28 Importance of Support and Empathy
Sound Bites
"It is important to have a support system. It is important for you to be able to express yourself and to have your people there because you need people to help you with this."
"There's more to think about than just the thought of we wanna be parents and I wanna have a baby and I wanna transfer two embryos."
"You nearly made me cry. That must've been so tough. I'm really sorry that you went through that."
Keywords
fertility, IVF, surrogacy, counseling, donor selection, embryo transfer, mental health, support, empathy
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Dr. Rothenberg discusses transgender and non-binary fertility, including the rise in patients identifying as trans or non-binary. She explains gender affirming treatment and how it can affect fertility. Dr. Rothenberg emphasizes the importance of creating a safe and inclusive space for patients and normalizing the fertility process for all individuals. She also discusses the hormone process for transgender individuals with ovaries and the options for fertility preservation. Additionally, she addresses the challenges and experimental options for fertility preservation in transgender children who have not yet gone through puberty. Dr. Stephanie Rothenberg discusses fertility options for transgender and non-binary individuals. She explains the process of fertility preservation, including egg and sperm freezing, and the challenges faced by young people who are transitioning. Dr. Rothenberg also addresses the psychological and emotional aspects of fertility for transgender individuals, as well as the importance of having a supportive family and access to insurance coverage. She emphasizes that there is never a wrong time to talk to a fertility doctor and encourages individuals to make their own choices about starting a family.
More people are identifying as trans or non-binary, but not all pursue gender affirming treatment.
Fertility preservation options depend on the individual's gender identity, hormone therapy, and desired family-building methods.
Creating a safe and inclusive space for transgender and non-binary individuals is crucial in fertility care.
Fertility preservation in transgender children who have not yet gone through puberty is still experimental, but may become a viable option in the future. Fertility preservation options, such as egg and sperm freezing, are available for transgender and non-binary individuals.
Young people who are transitioning may face challenges in accessing fertility care, including the need for a supportive family and insurance coverage.
Coming off hormone therapy can have physical and psychological effects, and it is important to consider fertility preservation options before starting hormone therapy.
Transgender individuals can pursue various paths to parenthood, including IVF, surrogacy, and adoption.
It is important to find a fertility clinic that is knowledgeable and affirming of transgender and non-binary individuals.
Reproductive autonomy is crucial, and individuals should feel empowered to make their own choices about starting a family.
Titles
Creating a Safe and Inclusive Fertility Space
Understanding Transgender and Non-Binary Fertility Finding a Knowledgeable and Affirming Fertility Clinic
Embracing Reproductive Autonomy: Making Your Own Choices
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Background of Dr. Stephanie Rothenberg
01:15 Understanding Transgender and Non-Binary Fertility
12:21 Navigating Hormone Therapy and Fertility Preservation
25:46 Fertility Options for Transgender and Non-Binary Individuals
30:44 Challenges and Considerations for Young People Transitioning
36:20 The Importance of Supportive Families and Insurance Coverage
39:21 Navigating the Psychological and Emotional Aspects of Fertility
41:05 Exploring Paths to Parenthood for Transgender Individuals
42:41 Finding a Knowledgeable and Affirming Fertility Clinic
45:02 Embracing Reproductive Autonomy: Making Your Own Choices
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In this episode, Aemilia Varfis shares her experience with egg freezing and the decision-making process behind it. She recounts how she offered her eggs to a friend but ultimately decided to freeze them herself. Emilia discusses the personal journey of going through the egg freezing process, including the injections and the support she received. She emphasizes the relief and peace of mind that came with freezing her eggs and the impact it had on her and others. Emilia concludes by sharing her current plans to try to conceive naturally with her partner.
Takeaways
Egg freezing can provide relief and peace of mind by buying time and removing the pressure of a biological clock.
The decision to freeze eggs is personal and should be based on individual circumstances and desires.
Support from friends, family, and healthcare professionals can make the egg freezing process more manageable.
Egg freezing is becoming more common and accepted, allowing women to take control of their reproductive choices.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Offer of Egg Freezing
01:26 Supporting the Journey to Build a Family
05:12 Choosing to Freeze Eggs in Greece
06:38 Keeping the Process Personal
07:34 Embracing the Decision to Freeze Eggs
09:26 Injecting and Feeling Supported
10:49 The Two-Week Process
11:46 Harvesting the Eggs
13:11 Recovery and Relief
15:35 Age and Egg Freezing
19:25 Relief and Impacting Others
20:34 Moving Forward with a Partner
21:31 Conclusion and Invitation to Return
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In this episode, Richard interviews Robyn, the owner of Beverly Hills Egg Donation, They discuss Robyn's background and motivations for working in the egg donation industry. Robyn explains how Beverly Hills Egg Donation differentiates itself from other agencies by offering a refund policy and a guarantee for another cycle if the intended parents do not have a take-home baby. They also discuss the screening process for donors, including travel restrictions and medical tests. Robyn emphasizes the importance of matching donors with intended parents based on their preferences and provides support and guidance throughout the process.
Takeaways
Beverly Hills Egg Donation differentiates itself by offering a refund policy and a guarantee for another cycle if the intended parents do not have a take-home baby.
The screening process for donors includes tests for travel restrictions, sexually transmitted diseases, and ovarian reserve.
Donors are selected based on the preferences of the intended parents, which can include physical characteristics, talents, and academic achievements.
The industry has shifted from anonymous donations to allowing contact between donors and children in the future.
Beverly Hills Egg Donation provides support and guidance for intended parents throughout the process.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Background
00:55 Motivations for Working in the Egg Donation Industry
03:20 Refund Policy and Guarantee
04:14 Making the Process User-Friendly
05:11 Understanding Donor Selection and Motivations
06:06 Screening Process for Donors
07:04 Travel Restrictions and Zika Zones
08:01 Additional Screening Criteria
09:21 Testing Ovarian Reserve and Educating Donors
10:46 Evaluating Previous IVF Cycles
12:09 Matching Donors with Intended Parents
13:38 Specific Donor Requests and Preferences
15:00 Counseling Donors and Facilitating Meetings
16:21 Age Requirements for Donors
18:10 Shift from Anonymous Donations
19:08 Modifying Contracts for Contact
20:32 Donor Compensation and Factors Affecting Fees
23:23 Donor Pool and Geographic Distribution
24:40 Attrition Rate and BMI Requirements
26:04 Support and Guidance for Intended Parents
27:28 Conclusion and Gratitude
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