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It’s Valentine’s Weekend—get ready to flirt with women and get dates! In the last of a 4-part series about attracting women IRL, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the final steps in becoming a 1 Percent Man—the rare guy who can confidently approach women without weird pickup lines. You’ll hear ACTUAL AUDIO of Connell meeting and flirting with bright, beautiful women, for an inside look at how simple and powerful it is when you approach with authenticity. Plus, you’ll get great openers for 10 situations, and also learn the 5 biggest approaching mistakes to avoid.
Highlights of the Episode:
03:25: The Night Connell Went from a Panic Attack to Approaching and Attracting Kelly
10:45: How to Become a Confident, Authentic 1 Percent Man
14:05: What to Say to a Group of Women at a Bar to Spark Interest
15:28: What to Say to a Cute Girl at Your Gym to Be Charming, Not Creepy
17:50: What to Say at a Grocery Store to Make Her Laugh
21:00: What to Say in the Elevator to Have a Great Conversation
25:20: The All-Purpose Opener that Works with Women Anywhere
28:33: The 5 Biggest Approaching Fails and How to Fix Them
50:00: EXCLUSIVE! For the First Time Ever, Connell Shares Actual Audio of Him Approaching Women and Getting Numbers and Dates
1:31:27: The One Action to Take Today to Get a Great Girlfriend in 90 Days or Less
Your journey to meeting and attracting wonderful women starts today. Listen now!
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You’re talking to a woman you like—now what? How do you avoid running out of things to say and awkward silences? And how do you ask her out? In Part 3 of this special dating IRL series, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you a simple, 3-step roadmap to keep the conversation flowing, spark attraction, and smoothly get her number. Plus, discover the 7 biggest conversation fails that kill attraction (and how to fix them). And you’ll learn the right way to meet women at the gym, without being “that guy.”
You’re About to Learn:
2:47: The 3-Step Roadmap to Keep Conversations Flowing and Get the Date
5:37: What to Talk About First After You Approach
8:15: The Magic Word that Makes You More Interesting to Her
12:30: The Exact Way to Ask Her Out
21:51: How to Get Her Phone Number
27:07: The BIG Mistake that Will Get You Ghosted
28:45: The 7 Conversation Fails that Kill Attraction and How to Avoid Them
47:10: Why Women Ghost You—and the Simple Move to Fix It
56:54: How to Meet and Charm Women at Your Gym
Listen now to have flirty conversations with women you meet IRL—so you can get dates!
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http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
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http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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You see a woman you’d love to talk to, but your brain locks up. You overthink what to say, and the moment is gone—so is she. In part 2 of this special 4-part series on meeting women IRL, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals his foolproof Natural Approaching Method—a simple, tested way to start authentic conversations and almost always get a positive response. And it works 90% of the time, whether you’re at a bar, coffee shop, or the gym.
What You’ll Learn:
3:40: How to Confidently Break the Ice with a 90% Success Rate
6:08: Always Know What to Say with the Natural Approaching Method
15:33: How to Compliment Women with Charm—and What to Avoid
25:51: The Perfect Icebreaker? Just Ask This One Question
35:00: How to Make Your Openers Fun, Flirty, and Effortless
47:48: The Power of Direct Approaching—When and How to Use It
51:27: What to Say When You Approach, Day or Night
1:02:06: The Mindset Shift that Makes Starting Conversations Easy
1:10:01: Your 24-Hour Challenge—Are You Ready to Take Action?
Listen now and start confidently approaching women—with charm, authenticity, and real results!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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You’re tired of the apps, and you’d love to confidently talk to women at bars, cafes, stores or your gym. But hesitation and overthinking stop you. With Valentine’s Day here, it’s time to break free and start meeting women in real life. Dating coach Connell Barrett presents a special 4-part series to teach you how to meet women IRL the right way—not with weird “approach tactics” but with authentic confidence. In Part 1, Connell reveals the 5 mental blocks keeping you stuck and shares the 5 breakthroughs that will help you meet and flirt with wonderful women—anywhere, anytime.
Episode Highlights:
4:25: Why ‘Approaching’ Feels So Hard and Scary
13:37: Mental Block #1: ‘I’m Not Enough’ and Why This is Total B.S.
16:34: Mental Block #2: ‘She Doesn’t Want Me to Bother Her’ and What Women Really Think
17:18: Mental Block #3: ‘I Might Creep Her Out’ and How This Kills Your Confidence
19:45: Mental Block #4: ‘I Don’t Know What to Say’ and the Simple Move to Fix This
21:16: Mental Block #5: ‘What If I Get Rejected?’ and the Win-Lose Mindset That Hurts You
25:33: Breakthrough #1: ‘I Am Enough’ and the Truth About Attraction
31:45: Breakthrough #2: ‘She Wants Me to Talk to Her’—What Women Truly Want
38:37: Breakthrough #3: ‘Talking to Women Is Attractive’ and the ‘Aha!’ Shift You Need
50:12: Breakthrough #4: ‘I Don’t Need the Perfect Line’—How to Know What to Say
1:02:02: Breakthrough #5: ‘I Cannot Lose’—the Win-Win Mindset that Makes You Confident
Listen now and start confidently meeting women in real life!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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Sick of sending openers that women ignore? Not sure what to write on Hinge, Tinder, or Bumble? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares his top 10 best flirty online-dating openers—tested and proven to get responses. You’ll get copy-and-paste openers for every type of woman to get them writing you back and going on dates with you. Plus, Connell reveals his no. 1 opener that works on ANY woman … and gets him replies 81% of the time!
You’re about to learn:
05:30: Connell’s Lowest Online-Dating Moment
06:45: His Comeback: 3 Great First Dates in 3 Nights—All from the Apps!
09:30: Flirty Opener #10: What to Write… when Her Bio is Empty
12:52: Flirty Opener #9: …when She Has Lots of Selfies14:31: Flirty Opener #8: …when She’s into Partying and Socializing
16:25: Flirty Opener #7: …when She Has a Dog in Her Photos
19:09: Flirty Opener #6: … when She Has Bold, Flirty Pics (Bikini shots, Cleavage)
23:30: Flirty Opener #5: …when Her Bio is Witty or Sarcastic
30:01: Flirty Opener #4: …when She’s Really into Travel
33:40: Flirty Opener #3: …when She’s an Artsy, Creative Type37:00: Flirty Opener #2: …when She’s Highly Career-driven
40:03: Flirty Opener #1: The Best Opener that Works On Any Woman 81% of the Time
Listen now and use these flirty openers to get women writing you back… and get dates!
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TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
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You want a bright, beautiful girlfriend, right? But you’re not sure how to connect with women. And maybe the girls you’re attracted to keep picking other guys over you. Not anymore! Because you’re about to learn the 7 Dating Superpowers. Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the 7 most powerful attractors that make women say, “I want him!” From confident flirting to texts she can’t resist, you’re about to go from Peter Parker to Spider-Man… no radioactive arachnid required! Plus, you don’t need all 7 superpowers—just unlocking one or two can change everything.
Here are the 7 Dating Superpowers You’re About to Learn:
9:43: Fearless Approaching so You Can Start Conversations with Women Anywhere
15:07: Effortless Flirting so You Can Be Charming and Attractive
21:15: Magnetic Charisma so Women Feel Drawn to Your Authentic Self
34:14: Unshakable Confidence so “Rejection” Can’t Hurt You
40:03: Top-Tier Texting so You’ll Go from “Unread” to Setting Up Dates
51:33: Vibe Mastery so Your Dates Feel Flirty and Sexy
59:48: Decisive Leadership so Women Trust You and See You as Boyfriend Material
Every dating superpower is here and learnable. What’s yours? Which one will you master? Listen now.
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Do you ever feel like you’re just not what women want? Like you’re not charismatic or interesting or attractive enough? It’s frustrating. The good news? You can fix it—fast! In this special live coaching episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett guides his client Nick to a powerful breakthrough. In just one hour, Nick transforms from feeling insecure to truly magnetic, simply by destroying his biggest limiting belief. (This coaching session first aired in 2023. Now, in 2025, Nick is dating a wonderful woman!)
You’re about to learn:
2:00: The Real Cause of Dating Insecurity (and How to Fix It)
5:28: The Secret to Confidence: Awakening Your Higher Self
23:05: How to Identify the Limiting Belief that’s Hurting Your Dating Life
38:30: A Simple Way to Erase Self-Doubt for Good
52:17: Nick’s Aha Moment: Ditching his Insecurities and Realizing his True Worth to Women
1:07:14: The Confidence Breakthrough: Awakening Your Most Amazing, Authentic You
Listen now to stop feeling insecure and start feeling confident and magnetic to women.
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http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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Are you just not sure how to talk to women, either on the apps or in real life? Top UK dating expert Hayley Quinn is here to show you how to flirt effortlessly, confidently read women, and get them asking YOU out. She knows exactly what creates attraction—and how you can get better results fast. You’ll learn how to talk to women in a way that feels authentic and sparks real connection, without overthinking or using weird “pickup” moves.
Hayley and dating coach Connell Barrett will teach you:
2:55: How to Overcome Your Fear of Rejection and Attract the Right Woman
4:00: Why Women Prefer Meeting Men in Real Life, and How to Make It Happen
7:58: How Her Client Approached a Woman in the Daytime and Turned it into a Deep Connection
15:30: Why Many Women Want Men to Talk to Them IRL, Not on the Apps
21:03: The Game-Changing Move that Instantly Improves Your Love Life
23:45: Hayley’s Top Tips for How to Read Women
36:33 The #1 Approach Mistake Men Make—and How to Fix It
50:27: How Hayley Changes Men’s Lives with In-Person Coaching
Listen now and let Connell and Hayley show you how to attract your dream girlfriend!
TO LEARN MORE ABOUT HAYLEY OR TO APPLY TO WORK WITH HER: http://www.hayleyquinn.com/
CHECK OUT HER TED TALK THAT HAS 3 MILLION VIEWS:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmUayKnHWWM
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
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TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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You see a stunning woman across the room and want to talk to her… but what do you say? How do you start a conversation without fear of rejection? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client Jason master this skill—live on air. Plus,
hear how Jason conquered crippling approach anxiety and dated an L.A. Lakers Cheerleader! Connell shares actionable strategies to help Jason (and you!) connect with women. No cheesy “pickup artist” tricks. Just authentic confidence that works.
You’re about to learn:
8:40: The #1 Shift to Overcome Social Anxiety and Build Dating Momentum
10:30: How Jason Walked Up to a Woman and Made Out with Her in Minutes (with Connell’s In-Person Help)
18:38: 3 Proven Anti-Flaking Techniques to Keep Her Interested
23:35: The 3-Text Rule that Gets Women Replying and Asking YOU Out2
9:23: The Risk-Taking Strategy that Makes You Instantly More Attractive
41:47: The One Thing She Secretly Hopes You’ll Do When You Approach Her
47:53: What to Write when She Doesn’t Reply to Your Text
52:57: The Right Way to Ask Her Out and Not Get Flaked On
This episode is like getting a personal coaching session with Connell—for free. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
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TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
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What if watching so-called “chick flicks” could make you a chick magnet and bring romance into your real life? It may sound far-fetched, but dating coach Connell Barrett has learned a lot about finding love—what works and what doesn’t—from rom-com movies. Introducing “It’s Rom-Complicated,” a new series that reveals the dating wisdom hidden in Hollywood’s most beloved comedies. In the first episode, Connell and his special guest—his charming, witty girlfriend Jessamin—analyze “Groundhog Day,” the 1993 time-loop comedy starring Bill Murray and Andie MacDowell.
Episode Highlights:
4:05: What’s the One Day from Your Life You Would Relive Again and Again?
10:45 How ‘Groundhog Day’ Helped Connell Escape His Own Dating Time Loop
17:15: The Rom-Commie Awards: The Best and Worst Dating Moves in ‘Groundhog Day’
19:46: Why Arrogant Men like Phil Connors (Bill Murray) Make Women Cringe
26:17: The Best Dating Move You Should Absolutely Steal from Phil
27:39: The ‘Don’t Do This!’ Award: A Dating Mistake to Avoid IRL
31:08: The Creepiest Pickup-Artist Tip Connell Ever Got (And Why It’s So Wrong)
36:20: Bill Murray: Comedic Genius or Total Nightmare on Set? (It’s Complicated…)
44:46: What if ‘Groundhog Day’ got the Cinemax After Dark Treatment?
52:32: The Truth About What Makes Women ‘Chase’ Certain Men (It’s NOT Looks or Money)
57:35: The Movie’s Biggest Love Lesson that Every Man Needs to Know
If Phil can escape Punxsutawney, you can break out of your dating rut. Bing! Listen now!
Introducing ‘It’s Rom-Complicated!’ How to find love by watching—wait! Haven’t we done this before?
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Not getting enough quality matches on Hinge, Bumble or Tinder? Here’s the problem: Your photos aren’t making the right impression. But there’s a simple fix. Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the 6 essential photos that he and his clients use to consistently get good matches on the apps. Connell’s client Ben puts it best: “I went from zero good matches on Hinge to getting 83 matches in one week. Suddenly I had too many dates!” Connell also reveals the 5 photo mistakes that make women swipe left—so you don’t sabotage your own success.
You’re about to get the blueprint for the perfect profile, down to the ideal photo order:
3:40: Essential Photo No. 1: The “Radically Authentic” Portrait to Hook Her Interest
9:25: Essential Photo No. 2: The “Intriguing Photo” that Makes Her Want to Learn About You
12:25: Essential Photo No. 3: The “Aww Factor” Image that Melts Her Heart
15:50: Essential Photo No. 4: The “Man of Action” Shot that Turns Her Head
18:55: Essential Photo No. 5: The “Social Man” Pic that Showcases Your Attractive Life
20:48: Essential Photo No. 6: The “Wildcard” Photo that Makes Swiping Right a No-Brainer
24:01: Plus! 5 Photo Mistakes that HURT You on the Apps!
Listen now, update your photos, and start getting dates with women you actually want to meet.
WATCH THIS VIDEO SHOWING YOU THE 6 ESSENTIAL PHOTOS:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcSb0-cMbsU&t=4s
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
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How do you make her want YOU to be her boyfriend? It’s simpler than you think. Just show her these 10 “green lights.” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett teaches you 10 attraction triggers that help women see you as boyfriend material. And these are NOT sketchy pickup moves. They’re practical strategies to showcase your most authentic, confident self, and create true connections. Because women are drawn to authentic gentlemen!
You’re about to learn…
03:32: Green Light No. 1: How to Be Authentic and Spark a Romantic Connection
09:29: Green Light No. 2: How to Lead a Date with Confidence
12:42: Green Light No. 3: How to Play Up Your Passions to Stand Out from Other Guys
16:17: Green Light No. 4: How to Talk About Your Future in a Compelling Way
19:48: Green Light No. 5: How to Be Playful and Create Instant Chemistry
26:16: Green Light No. 6: How to Flirt in the Way Women LOVE, without Being Cringey
30:04: Green Light No. 7: How to Ask Great Questions that Keep Conversations Flowing
34:40: Green Light No. 8: How to Talk About Your Ex the Right Way
37:48: Green Light No. 9: How to Tell a Story that Helps Her Open Up to You
40:24: Green Light No. 10: How to Make Her Laugh and Feel Instantly Drawn to You
Listen now, apply these techniques, and find your dream girlfriend!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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Ready to finally get great matches on Tinder? Who better to guide you than the man who invented swiping and changed dating forever: Tinder’s visionary co-founder, Jonathan Badeen. Back in the day, Jonathan was struggling to meet women and get dates. (Sound familiar?) He launched Tinder in part to help his own love life, and the world has never been the same. In this exclusive interview with dating coach Connell Barrett, Badeen shares the lightbulb moment when he came up with the swiping idea, reveals the biggest mistakes men make on the apps, and explains why he would absolutely swipe right on Minnie Mouse.
In this episode, Jonathan and Connell talk about:
2:37: Why Tinder is for More than Just Hookups
14:01: The Aha Moment when Jonathan Came Up with Swiping
17:26: Why Authenticity is What Women Want—on Tinder and in Real Life
26:33: The Real Reason You’re Not Getting Good Matches
30:15: The Myth that “Dating Apps Just Don’t Work”
34:04: How to Inject Fun into Your profile to Get Women Messaging You First
35:47: How Shy Guys and “Nerds” Can Win on the Apps
47:01: Why Jonathan Would Swipe Right on Minnie Mouse and Swipe Left on “The Godfather 3”
Listen now for wisdom from the man who changed dating—and start landing great Tinder dates today.
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Ever had a woman ghost you, friend-zone you, or suddenly lose interest—and you had no idea why? Odds are, you accidentally pushed her away. There are 10 invisible red flags that turn women off, and most men don’t even realize they’re making these mistakes! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals these attraction-killing errors and shares easy, practical fixes for each one.
Here are the 10 red flags that turn women off:
04:29: #1 Hiding Your Authentic Self and Being Someone You’re Not
06:03: #2 Coming Off as Insecure or Needy
09:20: #3 Long, Awkward Pauses in Conversations
11:26: #4 Lying or Exaggerating About Your Life
14:35: #5 Using Canned, Rehearsed Pickup Lines
16:01: #6 Touching Her Too Much…or Not Enough!
18:42: #7 Planning Boring, Forgettable Dates
22:38: #8 Failing to Be Playful and Fun
26:39: #9 Bringing Up Your Ex the Wrong Way
29:56: #10 Trying Too Hard to Impress Her
Listen now, to turn red flags into green lights—and get a great girlfriend!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
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Do the apps frustrate you because you just don’t get many good matches? Here’s the problem: Your bio is boring women! Let’s fix this fast. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares his 7 secrets for writing an online-dating bio that women
love—and that’s authentic to YOU. Using his simple formula, you’ll finally get good matches on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge. Plus, his 10 funniest bio prompts will get women giggling… and swiping right.
You’re about to learn:
02:40: Why Authenticity is Your Online-Dating Superpower
4:43: The Bio Mistake that Costs You Matches—and How to Fix It
6:00: Don’t! Do! This!8:45: The Right Way to Flirt on Your Profile
12:00: The 3-Line Bio Formula that Women Can’t Resist
15:01: How to Write About Yourself in an Attractive Way
17:50: The Flirty Line that Gets Her Messaging You First
20:55: A Hinge Hack to Triple Your Matches
23:01: Connell’s Top 10 Funniest Bio Lines that Women Love—Steal Them!
Ready to flood your inbox with good dating leads? Listen now and write a bio that will bring you a BIG step closer to meeting your future girlfriend.
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
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It’s time to “Ask the Dating Coach!” as Connell Barrett takes your questions. If you struggle with what to say on dates, Connell shares three essential flirting moves to help you spark romantic connections. (Farewell, Friend Zone!) He also reveals why women prefer nice guys over so-called alpha males. And a listener has a “sheepish” question about talking dirty in bed.
Highlights from this episode:
01:51: Andrew Asks: “A Woman Wants Me to Baa Like a Sheep in Bed. What Do I Do?”
03:19: How to Talk Dirty Without Feeling Awkward
08:57: Zach Asks: “Am I Too Nice? Do Women Only Want to Date Alpha Males?”
11:25: Why the “Alpha Male” Is a Total Myth
13:48: How Kindness, Confidence and Authenticity Will Help You Get a Girlfriend
24:30: Barry Asks: “Why Can’t I Get Past the First Date?”
25:52: Connell’s Aha Moment that Made Him Magnetic to Women
31:07: Three Flirting Moves to Escape the Friend Zone and Land Second Dates
Hit play and start transforming your love life today
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Burnt out on dating apps? The endless swiping, the lack of quality matches, the fake profiles—it’s exhausting! But Inner Circle is changing the game. Equal parts social club and dating app, Inner Circle is built for ambitious singles who want to swipe less and connect more, forming real, meaningful relationships. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes Inner Circle’s founder David Vermeulen. He shares how his innovative platform helps successful, driven men and women connect authentically—first online and then IRL at fun, exclusive events in cities like New York, London, Paris and Rio.
With Connell and David as your guides, you’ll discover:
4:46: The Dating Horror Story that Inspired David to Start Inner Circle
6:38 How Inner Circle’s Technology Virtually Eliminates Fake Profiles
7:55 Why the Platform’s IRL Events is “Where the Magic Happens”
10:43 A Game-Changing Strategy for Introverts to Meet Women in the Real World
11:25: Connell’s One-Sentence Dating Mantra that Will Transform Your Love Life
19:29: How “Tinder is Like McDonald’s,” in David’s View
27:41: Why Quality Matches Always Beat Quantity
30:54: How to Decide if She’s Worth a Second Date
33:36: A Simple Writing Tip to Make Your Bio Magnetic to Women
35:32: David’s Surprising Rule for Online-Dating Success: “Opposites Don’t Attract”
Ready to finally connect with women on a dating app that actually works? Listen now!
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The new year is here, and now’s the time to attract your dream girl. But not knowing where to start can feel overwhelming. You need a clear, tested plan for success. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares 5 proven strategies that practically guarantee you’ll find love in 2025. These aren’t flimsy resolutions you’ll abandon by February. They’re bold, revolutionary daily rituals to authentically connect with wonderful women.
Using Connell’s tested moves, you’re about to learn:
01:30: Why Resolutions Fail—and How to Build Rituals that Get Dating Results
05:45: What Women Really Want—Authenticity!—and How to Give it to Them
14:20: How to Truly Connect with Women Who are Your Type
24:18: A Morning Ritual that Supercharges Your Motivation and Confidence
38:10: The Daily Practice that Virtually Guarantees You Will Find Love in 2025
51:10: The Online-Dating Secret to Skyrocket Your Number of Quality Matches
1:08:30: What You MUST Do Today to if You Want a Great Girlfriend
Your dream girl is waiting—don’t wait another day to start your journey. Listen now!
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Feeling stuck in a dating dry spell? So was Jake. At 30, this shy, nerdy engineer (and proud Creed fan) felt too afraid to talk to women. And he hadn’t had a girlfriend in a decade. But with personalized guidance from dating coach Connell Barrett, Jake learned how to confidently connect with women on the dating apps and IRL. In one whirlwind week, Jake went on five first dates. “That’s more than I’d had the entire previous year,” he said with a laugh. Then he met bright, bubbly Allie, who’s now his girlfriend. “I knew she was the one.”
Channeling Creed, this episode will take your love life… higher! Connell and Jake discuss:
09:30: The Missed Approach Opportunity that Ignited Jake’s Breakthrough
13:35: The Mindset Shift Every Man Needs to Attract His Dream Girlfriend
16:30: How Jake Landed Five Dates in Just One Week
17:28: The First-Date Aha Moment that Led to a Sexy Make-out
20:25: A 15-Minute Ritual for Instant Confidence22:06: How Connell’s “80-20” Flirting Rule Helps You Know What to Say to Women
34:17: A Playful Teasing Move that Builds Attraction on Dates
40:45: The Wordless Approach Technique that Works in Loud Venues
45:38: How to Help the Right Woman See You As Her Dream Guy
58:19: Connell’s No. 1 Daily Dating Tip to ApplyWith Allie as his partner, Jake’s decade of loneliness is behind him.
Listen now and start your journey to finding the girlfriend you deserve!
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With over 1,000 dating apps out there, it’s hard to know which one is right for you—and which will waste your time and money. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals his top 7 apps that he and his clients used in 2024. Whether you’re looking for meaningful connections or fun, casual dates, this guide will help you find the perfect app to help you get matches and dates… and even find your soulmate!
Here’s what Connell covers in this episode:
1:30: Why Choosing the Wrong App Costs You Matches and Dates
2:45: No. 7: The League—it’s About Quality, Not Quantity
4:45: No. 6: Why Badoo is Great if You Aren’t Hollywood Handsome
7:11: No. 5 and No. 4: Match and eHarmony—Which Long-Term Relationship Platform is Better for You?
12:45: How Coffee Meets Bagel Will Help You Get Coffee Dates with Your Type of Women
15:15: No. 2: Bumble’s Latest Innovations that Make Finding Love Easier than Ever
19:07: No. 1: The Top Dating App of 2024 is… Hinge! Here’s Why Every Man MUST Be on Hinge
22:37: Bonus Tip: A Clever Way Hinge Can Help You Succeed on Other Dating Apps
Tune in now to turn your swipes into sparks—and matches into love!
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