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You can’t get great at flirting without making mistakes, as dating coach Connell Barrett learned the hard way. In this candid and hilarious episode, Connell shares 7 huge flirting mistakes he made—including the time a woman poured a pitcher of ice-water down his shirt. He also shares 7 lessons that helped him crack the code on male-female connection.
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You texted, but she didn’t reply. So you assume you’re ghosted. Not so fast! Dating coach Connell Barrett says that one unanswered text isn’t ghosting. It’s just dating in 2026. On this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell breaks down why most “ghosting” isn’t actually ghosting—and he shares 22 funny, playful follow-up messages that get women writing you back and going on dates with you. Listen now.
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Most guys struggle on first dates by playing it too safe. Same dull questions, same dull answers, same text she sends the next day: “I didn’t feel a connection.” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares a drastic, powerful solution. “Blow up” your next first date! Connell breaks down the three rules to take your dates from forgettable to explosively fun. He also explains why the “risky” move is the smartest one you can make. Listen now.
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You want to meet women in the real world, but you you worry that it’s weird or socially creepy. In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett explains why now is the best time ever to meet women “in the wild.” He shares how he and his clients are proving it every day. Listen now so you can stop overthinking and start approaching women in your day-to-day life.
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Nothing kills a date faster than running out of things to say—and the awkward silence that follows. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and author Connell Barrett breaks down 8 great first-date topics that lead to free-flowing, flirty conversations. You’ll learn how to keep conversations going, banter with charm, and get a lot more second dates.
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You see a woman in the real world you want to meet—but you freeze, get stuck in your head, and have no clue what to say. On this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 31 flirty, funny things to say to break the ice with women. Listen now for 31 openers that are charming, playful and NEVER creepy.
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Do you want to meet women without sounding like some weird pickup artist? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares five pickup lines for men who hate pickup lines. You’ll hear how his client Taylor went from overthinking approaches to confidently meeting and dating Cassie—no cheesy pickup lines needed. And if Taylor can do it, so can you!
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If you feel you’re just not handsome enough to get a great girlfriend, this episode will change how you think. Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett sits down with his client Shekar, who used to feel like he wasn’t handsome enough to date wonderful women. Then he flew to New York City for Connell’s Wingman Weekend approaching bootcamp. Now he can meet women, get numbers, flirt—and he finally feels worthy!
Episode Highlights:
4:31: The “Hand of God” Approach That Changed Shekar’s Confidence
14:14: Why It’s Not Creepy to Approach Women at the Gym
24:45: The Secret to Playful Banter on the Dating Apps
36:35: The Surprising Link Between Self-Improvement and Getting a Girlfriend
1:03:25: How Much Does Where You Live Impact Your Love Life?
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Robbie was once so anxious around women he couldn’t even say hi to his crush, the cute cashier. And the idea of approaching women felt impossible. Then came one unforgettable Friday night. With dating coach and author Connell Barrett as his wingman, Robbie grabbed seven phone numbers and soon met his romantic partner. On this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell and Robbie unpack the aha moments that changed Robbie’s love life.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:
08:25: The Cute Cashier Robbie Was Too Anxious to Talk To
14:15: A Simple Mindset Shift that Made Approaching Simple
24:50: The Playful Opener that Unlocked Robbie’s Confidence
34:15: “I Was in God Mode!” How Robbie Got 7 Phone Numbers in One Night
50:37: How Approaching Women Changes Your Entire Dating Life
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Not knowing what to say or how to flirt on first dates can get any guy trapped in the dreaded friend zone. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 37 flirty things to say that spark chemistry and help her feel a real romantic connection—without using any manipulative pickup artist tactics. Listen now so you can confidently flirt and start getting second dates.
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You see a woman you’d love to meet… and you freeze, overthinking the “perfect” line. And you’re left kicking yourself. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and best-selling author Connell Barrett helps his client Evan flirt so good that women can’t stop thinking about him! From bold openers to “wolfish” eye contact that women love, you’ll learn how to create instant sparks with women.
07:45: How to Get Out of Your Head & Meet Women at Your Local Bar
10:46: Approaching Isn’t Creepy—But Doing THIS Is
19:53: What Stops You From Approaching Women
40:32: “How To Spark Attraction With Eye Contact
55:01: Why Women HATE “Interview Mode”
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You want to date women in your social circle, but you don’t want to be “that creepy guy.” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett helps his client A.J. navigate meeting women in social groups. You’ll learn how to read the room and know what to say, without crossing any lines. Listen now—your future girlfriend might be in your yoga class, waiting for you to say hello.
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If you struggle with what to say to women, this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend” is your flirting cheat sheet. Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett gives you exact lines to use in 7 tricky dating situations. Plus, he shares his flirting philosophy (“Flirting is playing”) so you can stop freezing and start confidently attracting wonderful women.
Episode Highlights:
02:25: What to Say at the Gym (without Being Creepy)
05:40: The Playful Dating App Opener Women Love
09:20: What to Text Her When She Goes Quiet
14:27: How to Ask Her Out and Get the Date
17:36: The Easy Way to Never Run Out of Things to Say
21:45: The Simple Sentence that Frees You from the Friend Zone
26:33: Just Say This… to Get the First Kiss
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You see quality women you’d love to meet—but anxiety gets in the way. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and author Connell Barrett lays out the 7 mileposts that take you from freezing up to confidently getting numbers and dates. Listen to learn why you’re stuck—and what it takes to meet attractive women in real life.
Episode Highlights:
04:15: Milepost 1: Destroy Your Limiting Belief
13:13: Milepost 2: Approach Often (Reps, Baby!)
16:45: Milepost 3: Reach the the 2-Minute Mark
21:27: Milepost 4: Low Anxiety, High Confidence
23:41: Milepost 5: Getting Numbers & Dates (Results!)
28:25: Milepost 6: Confident, Fearless Approaching
31:27: Milepost 7: Your Amazing Outcome: Confidence, Dates, and Meeting Your Dream Girlfriend
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If you struggle with what to say and how to flirt, help has arrived. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett gives you 47 simple, actionable ways to spark attraction with women, without cheesy gimmicks. Learn how to be playful, authentic, and confident, so you’ll never run out of things to say—on dates, over text, or when approaching women.
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Do you feel clueless about flirting, and worry that one wrong move might creep her out? On this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett breaks down 7 flirting mistakes that kill attraction, including one psychologists call the “Slime Effect” (11:12). You’ll also learn exactly what to say to confidently create chemistry. Listen now.
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Things seem to be going well—and then she says, “You’re nice, but I don’t feel a connection.” Friend zone. In this live coaching session of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes his client Matt to work through this exact issue. Connell breaks down how flirting actually works and shares a simple fix you can make so women start seeing you as more than just a friend.
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There are 6 Levels of Flirting—and if you don’t get second dates, you’re likely stuck at a lower one. So what’s your flirting level? And how do you level up? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and author Connell Barrett brings the 6 Levels of Flirting to life through real-life stories. It’s time to stop overthinking, flirt with charm, and get a lot more second dates.
Episode Highlights:
02:24: The Fun Role-play Approach that Sparks Instant Interest
06:53: Ben’s Bold “I Want to Kiss You” First-Date Moment
11:15: How Connell Finally Escaped the Friend Zone
15:55: The Secret to Making Emotional Connections on Dates
18:45: How Trevor Ignited Attraction with Becca
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Being creepy is every man’s worst fear in dating. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares five moments when he accidentally creeped women out. Learn what went wrong, why it happened, and how to avoid these mistakes so you can flirt with confidence, authenticity and charm.
Episode Highlights:
01:45: I Tried Being a Jerk… and Got Ice Water Dumped On Me
04:39: She Looked At Me and Said, “Does This Tactic Actually Work?”
07:45: One Crass Joke and the Whole Table Went Silent
12:05: I Handed Her a Note and Literally Ran Away
19:07: She Came Over with Wine, and I Totally Blew It
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If dating apps don’t work for you, you likely assume that you’re the problem. You’re not. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett breaks down six common lies that sabotage your results. Get ready to fix your profile, attract better matches, and finally turn swipes into dates.
Episode Highlights:
01:39: Lie #1: You’re Just Not Attractive Enough
05:00: Lie #2: You Have to Be Really Good-Looking
08:03: Lie #3: You Need Amazing Openers
11:21: Lie #4: You Need to Say a Lot in Your Bio
14:10: Lie #5: More Matches = More Dates
20:02: Lie #6: Dating Apps Want You to Find Love
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