Avsnitt
-
Do women confuse you? Would you like to get better at connecting on and off the apps, but you struggle to read women? In today’s episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes a very special guest: Instagram influencer and dating expert Lindsey Metselaar, host of the wildly popular dating podcast We Met At Acme. Once a single woman herself, Lindsey is here to help you read women on dates, on the apps, and when you want to approach.
In their fun, lively conversation, Connell and Lindsey discuss:
(8:47) How Connell Went from Paralyzing Approach Anxiety to Confidently Meeting Women IRL
(13:37) How to Compliment Women with Authentic Charm, and Zero Creepiness
(20:00) How Lindsey’s Podcast, We Met At Acme, Helps Millennials Improve their Love Lives
(24:00) Why A Woman You Like Suddenly Goes Quiet
(29:50) How to Tell if She’s into You
(36:07) Why Women are Drawn to Vulnerable, Authentic Men
(48:07) How to Flirt with Women without Being Weird
(52:29) First Date Topics to Talk About…and NOT to Talk About
(53:33) The Charming Way Women Want You to Approach Them
(56:52) Why Humor is More Attractive than Good Looks
(59:36) Women HATE HATE HATE When Guys Do THIS!
(1:01:44) Lindsey’s Top 4 Dating Tips You Need to Know
Are you ready to stop being confused by women, and start understanding how to read and connect with them? Listen now!
READ LINDSEY’S SUBSTACK
https://wemetatacme.substack.com/
CHECK OUT HER BINGE-WORTHY DATING PODCAST
We Met At Acme
GO TO HER WEBSITE TO LEARN ABOUT LINDSEY’S LIVE SHOWS
http://www.wemetatacme.com
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO TALK ABOUT 1-1 COACHING
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH
http://www.datingtransformation.com/flirty30 -
In the pantheon of self-development thought leaders for men, no one looms larger than Dr. Robert Glover. A therapist, coach and public speaker for 30 years, Dr. Glover has helped countless men transform from passive and resentful to empowered and confident. His bestselling book, “No More Nice Guy,” is a self-help classic, sharing the same rarified air as David Deida’s “The Way of the Superior Man” and Brene Brown’s “Daring Greatly.”
In this encore episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett and Dr. Glover—author of “The Dating Essentials for Men”—will discuss:
(5:03) How Connell’s Nerdy Client Ken Got His Very First Kiss Ever
(12:19) A Simple Tip on How to Always Know What to Say to Women
(19:57) Dr. Glover Reveals Why “Nice Guy Syndrome” Is Hurting Your Love Life
(26:20) How Dr. Glover Cracked the Code in His Own Dating Life
(30:33) How Shame Can Hurt Your Self-Esteem
(34:22) Why Indian and Asian Men Struggle with Dating in the U.S.
(42:11) Why a Woman Wants a Little “Caveman” in the Guy She Dates
(43:35) How to Confident and Strong without Being an A-Hole
(50:22) Dr. Glover’s Formula to Be a Man of “Loving Dominance”
(55:11) Why Rejection is Good for You
(1:01:03) How to Stop Feeling Needy with Women
(1:07:01) The Easy Way to Get a Woman’s Phone Number
(1:09:45) Dr. Glover’s Top Tip to Stay out of the Friend Zone
Are you ready to stop being “Mr. Nice Guy” and start being the man women want you to be? Listen now, and take one step closer to getting a great girlfriend!
TO LEARN ABOUT DR. GLOVER’S COACHING, COURSES AND HIS BOOK, “DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN”
http://www.drglover.com
FOLLOW DR. GLOVER ON TWITTER/X
http://www.twitter.com/dr_r_glover
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30 -
Saknas det avsnitt?
-
If you don’t know what to talk about or how to flirt on first dates, this is the episode for you. In part 5 of this week-long series on how to get a girlfriend, host and dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes his romantic partner Jessamin. The couple breaks down the fun, connected first date that put them on the path to love. What do women from want on dates? Jessamin will tell you!
In this episode, Connell and Jessamin will discuss:
(3:20) The Photos on His Profile that Made Her Swipe Right
(3:55) The Kinds of Photos NOT to Use
(13:05) The Right Way to Text a Woman Before a First Date
(15:00) How to Write Light, Flirty Messages to Keep from Getting Ghosted
(18:20) Jessamin’s Top First-Date Tip
(26:30) How to Make a Great First Impression
(29:00) What to Talk About to Never Run out of Things to Say
(30:48) How to Avoid Interview Mode and Not Get Friend-Zoned
(34:15) The Simple Way Connell Went in for the First Kiss
(37:18) How to Ask Her Out for a Second Date
(39:21) Jessamin’s Top 3 First-Date Mistakes that Guys Make
(45:00) Why Women Want Authentic Men, Not Toxic “Alpha Males”
Are you ready to stop hearing “Let’s be friends” and start getting second dates? Listen now.
Quotes
"Seize your first impression in online dating—it's your chance to stand out from the start." - Jessamin
"Great conversations flow when your humor and interests align." - Jessamin
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES: https://datingtransformation.com/contact/
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH: https://datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30/ -
Odds are, you see women you’d love to meet at bars, grocery stores or the gym, but you never approach them. Fear holds you back. You don’t know what to say, and you don’t want to seem creepy. It’s frustrating… but fixable! In this episode, host Connell Barrett—who has approached thousands of women in his 12 years as a dating coach—shares a new way to confidently meet women IRL. His Authentic Approach Technique will teach you exactly what to say to women, so you can get numbers and dates and find an incredible girlfriend. And you’ll talk to women with charm and authenticity, NOT with sketchy pickup tricks.
In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will discuss:
(2:35) The 3 Simple Ways to Approach Women Almost Anywhere
(6:30) Why Women Hate Scripted “PUA” Tactics
(7:15) Why Connell’s Authentic Approach Technique is Basically Rejection-Proof
(8:05) The Night Connell Got 3 Numbers from 3 Wonderful Women
(11:50) The Approaching Mistake that Gets You In Your Head
(12:50) How to Meet Women Using a Power Compliment
(16:42) The Mindset Shift that Destroys Approach Anxiety
(19:42) How to Meet Women by Asking the Perfect Question
(22:30) A Great Approach Opener to Use at the Gym
(27:53) How to Meet Women with A Funny, Flirty Icebreaker
(36:30) How to Be Authentically Attractive, NOT Creepy
(41:15) How Connell’s Client Taylor Approached and Made Out with a Woman in Under 10 Minutes
(43:49) Your Approach Mission for this Episode
Are you ready to confidently meet women and get numbers and dates? Listen now!
Quotes
"Be the charming, authentic man who confidently sparks conversations anywhere. Your natural charm will have her telling her friends." - Connell Barnett
"Use a genuine compliment, relevant question, or unique observation to initiate conversations." - Connell Barnett
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30 -
Do you struggle to write good openers? Do the women you text tend to ghost you? Help is on the way! In part 3 of this week’s special series on how to get a great girlfriend, your host—dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett—teaches you how to write irresistible openers on the apps that women reply to. Then he shares his simple, 4-step texting framework so you’ll always know what to message women, leading to more dates. And you’ll do all of this with authentic charm—no weird pickup tricks needed.
In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett will discuss:
(4:28) The Real Reason You Struggle on the Dating Apps
(7:27) The 3 Kinds of Openers NOT to Send
(9:01) The 3 Secrets to Writing Openers that Women Love
(10:25) How to Personalize Your Openers to Get Replies
(12:57) The BIG Mistake You’re Making in the Apps
(13:45) Why Women Love, Love, Love Playful Messages
(15:30) How to Write the “Opposites Attract” Opener
(17:58) How to Write the “Compliment + Nickname” Opener
(20:56) How to Write the “Pop Quiz” Opener
(28:00) 3 Tested Copy-Paste Openers that Women Love
(29:58) Connell’s 4-Step Texting Framework to Get You Dates
(32:57) A Breakdown of a Flirty Text Exchange with Suzy
(38:30) Exactly When to Ask Women Out
(40:32) Why Connell’s New “Surprisingly Sexy” Opener Works with ANY Woman
(43:15) Your Dating Mission for this Episode
Are you ready to stop getting ghosted and start getting dates? Listen now!
Quotes
"Learn her interests to tailor your approach; discussing them sparks meaningful conversations." - Connell Barnett
"Master teasing by staying light and avoiding sensitive topics like appearance or intelligence. Keep it fun, not personal." - Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30 -
Chances are, you struggle with flirting. You’re not sure how to talk to women, and you run out of things to say. It hurts your confidence and your dating results. But what if you knew exactly how to talk to girls in a way they love, leading to great dates and deep connections? In part 2 of his 5-part series to help you get you a great girlfriend, dating coach Connell Barrett teaches you a new way to flirt. You’re about to harness the power of Man-to-Woman Communication, a simple way to confidently talk to women with charm and authenticity.
In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will discuss:
(4:58) The “Aha!” Moment when he Realized the Power of Man-to-Woman Communication
(13:08) The Reason You Get Stuck in the Friend Zone
(14:28) The 3 Pillars of Man-to-Woman Communication
(16:20) How to Never Run out of Things to Say
(18:30) The “80-20 Rule” to Help You Flirt with Genuine Charm, Not Manipulative Tactics
(20:21) 10 Tested Flirting Moves Connell and His Clients Use
(22:40) How to Make Her Swoon: the Right Way to Give a Compliment
(29:37) The Difference Between Flirting (Good!) and Fawning (Bad!)
(34:00) The Flirty Text Message that Helped Connell Charm His Future Girlfriend
(37:11) The Right Way to Touch a Woman on First Dates… and the WRONG Way
(41:40) The Most Potent Weapon in Your Dating Arsenal
(43:15) 5 Flirting Fails You Must Avoid
(49:20) 3 Back-pocket Questions to Assure You’ll Never Run Out of Things to Say
Are you ready to stop struggling when talking to women and start flirting with charm and authenticity? Learn the art of Man-to-Woman Communication. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
Quotes
"Man-to-woman communication is like turbocharged flirting—it simplifies and authenticates romantic connections." - Connell Barnett
"I think the most powerful tool you can bring to your dating life is playfulness." - Connell Barnett -
Do you want a great relationship with a wonderful woman, but you struggle with flirting and dating? It can make you feel frustrated, lonely and low in confidence. Let’s change that! Introducing the new How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, which launches this week with a 5-part series about how to attract your soulmate. In this first episode, dating coach and author Connell Barrett shares his groundbreaking dating philosophy—Radical Authenticity—to help you confidently flirt, get dates, and find love. Your dream girlfriend is out there, and she wants to meet the authentic you. Listen now!
In this episode, Connell will tell you:
(4:45) What Women REALLY Want in Men
(6:00) The Moment He Learned How to Approach and Attract Women
(10:30) How Connell “Stole” His Girl Away from 3 Charismatic Wall Street Bros
(12:45) How He Moved in for the First Kiss
(16:25) Why Radical Authenticity Is So Powerful to Women
(20:04) The Real Reason Men Struggle with Low Confidence
(24:24) Jaw-Dropping Success Story: How Connell’s Client Nick Escaped the Friend Zone
(30:30) How Connell Bounced Back After His Wife Left Him
(40:45) The Secret that Made Women Start Chasing Connell
(44:30) The 5 Benefits of Dating with Radical Authenticity
(52:00) The 5 Pillars of Radical Authenticity
(56:00) The 2 Missions Connell Wants You Do To Today
(59:25) How to Get Your Free Copy of His No. 1 Bestselling Book, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t”
Quotes
"Authenticity unlocks a paradox: Embrace your worth, speak freely, and let the right words effortlessly flow." - Connell Barnett
"Embrace fear, take courageous actions, especially when approaching women. Courage is the antidote to fear in life." - Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30 -
So you want to talk to women you notice IRL—in bars, coffee shops, at the gym—but you just know what to say without seeming creepy. In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—shares his 3-step approaching framework so you’ll know exactly what to say to break the ice in a charming way. The great news? Connell’s approaching method is virtually rejection-proof! And you don’t need to memorize weird pickup-artist lines. You can confidently talk to women anywhere, while being spontaneous and in the moment. Stop struggling with approaching and start confidently meeting women, and do it with charm and authenticity. Listen now to learn how!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED): http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
Quotes
"Release the pressure to be perfect; authentic words resonate more deeply than the perfect script." - Connell Barnett
"Engage with light, playful compliments and watch simple interactions blossom into memorable moments." - Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Intro
01:01 - Approach Women with Genuine Charm
04:02 - No Perfect Words: Use This Framework
07:28 - Compliment Beyond Looks
10:33 - Ask Sincere Questions, Expect Warmth
16:01 - Tailor Compliments to the Context
17:58 - Smoothie Date from an Indirect Compliment
21:21 - Prep Mentally Before Approaching Women
22:11 - Outro -
Do you struggle to get women writing you back on the apps? Do you get ghosted on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge… and don’t know why? It’s frustrating, and can make you want to delete the apps. But help is on the way! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—identifies 3 dating app mistakes that you make when writing openers. Plus, Connell shares the flirty, 12-word opener that gets him a 77% percent response rate on the apps with wonderful women. Stop getting ghosted and start sending openers that women love! Listen now.
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
Quotes
"Engage women with fun, flirty questions—not just logic and information—to spark lively conversations." - Connell Barnett
"Improve your match success by refining your opening lines for better connections." - Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Intro
01:27 - Crafting Effective Dating App Openers
03:25 - Engage with Fun, Playful Questions
09:52 - Personalize Messages with Profile Insights
10:36 - Initiate Chats by Noting Unique Traits
15:37 - Opt for Fun, Light Conversation Starters
17:50 - 'Opposites Attract' for Engaging Chats
24:03 - The 12-Word Power Opener
28:49 - Value Authenticity in Compliments and Questions
30:21 - Start with Intrigue to Avoid the Friend Zone32:12 - Outro -
Do you feel like you’re just not good-looking or not tall enough to attract wonderful women and find a great girlfriend? Well, think again! Those are two of the 7 deadly dating myths that can hurt your confidence and make it difficult to connect with women. Never fear! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett runs down each of these 7 hurtful dating myths, and offers you 7 new and improved strategies to help you flirt and connect with incredible women… and help you find the dream girlfriend you want. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend
Quotes
"Height isn't everything; a man can make a woman feel protected and cherished through confidence, muscle, assertive speech, and skilled flirting." - Connell Barnett
"If you see a woman you want to meet, approach her right away. Waiting too long lets doubt creep in." - Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Intro
01:11 - 5 Biggest Common Dating Frustrations
03:00 - Debunking Dating Myths: No Need for Perfection
05:25 - Blending Humor with Flirtation in Dating
08:52 - Jason's Genuine Approach Captivates an Attorney
13:04 - Confidence: Key to Dating Success
15:27 - The 3-Second Rule for Approaching Women
17:57 - Conversation Skills Aren't Crucial
22:05 - Rejections as Courageous Opportunities
23:38 - Interest Shifts with Time
27:07 - Outro -
In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix 5 of the most frustrating dating problems men face. He shares texting secrets to help you STOP getting ghosted, reveals why women love nice guys (not “alpha males”), and shares his favorite move for going for the first kiss. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend -
Would you like to stop doubting yourself and start confidently connecting with wonderful women—without using sketchy pickup artist tricks? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett talks about the night that transformed his love life and his self-confidence. Are you ready to harness the power of your own Authenticity, flirt with charm, and find a wonderful woman who loves you for you? Then listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend -
Not knowing what to say is the biggest thing that stops you from approaching women in bars, coffee shops, or at your gym. And if you talk to women sometimes, do you flirt correctly? Or do you come off as boring, or even creepy? It’s hard to know! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you 10 flirty questions to ask women when you approach, so you can confidently know exactly what to say when you approach… and get numbers and dates. Listen now! And remember to approach with AUTHENTICITY! Because women like you for you.
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend
Quotes
"Syncing with emotions is key. It's about embracing the emotional wavelength—fun and playfulness intertwined." -Connell Barnett
“Genuine connections thrive when you show interest in understanding her true self."- Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
01:53 - Mastering Interaction with 10 Key Questions
03:35 - The Key to Engagement06:58 - Love Life Transformation
12:26 - Inquiring About Her Company
13:37 - Turning Misunderstandings Around
17:09 - Breaking Stereotypes
21:54 - Positive Work Inquiries: Elevating Conversations
23:19 - Boosting Attraction Levels25:18 - Outro
Powered by Heartcastmedia -
If you struggle to flirt with women, guess what: You’re likely making some common flirting mistakes, and you don’t even know it! If you fall into any of these 10 flirting traps, you’ll get ghosted or friend-zoned. But if you FIX these flirting mistakes, you'll start making sparks fly and find your dream girlfriend. Dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 10 most common flirting mistakes men make, and he gives you 10 instant fixes—so you can flirt with confidence and authenticity, with ZERO pickup-artist sleaziness. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend
Quotes
"All it took was a bit of small talk, sharing our names, our stories, our vulnerabilities—simple steps to meaningful connections.”-Connell Barnett"
Spice up conversations by discussing your loves and hates, adding depth and interest to your dialogue."- Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
01:52 - Mastering Confident Flirting: Tips to Captivate and Attract
05:06 - Delicately Inquiring About Her Kissing Preferences
09:03 - Elevate Your Dating Journey: Embrace Confidence Coaching
10:44 - Timing Matters: Appreciation Interplays with Woman's Perception
15:11 - Authenticity in Communication: Keeping It Genuine, Vulnerable
18:10 - Embracing Innocence: How a Pure Approach Resonates
20:55 - The Power of Physical Touch in Flirting: Balancing Calibration
25:30 - Flattery: Finding the Sweet Spot for Genuine Connection
28:37 - Playful Banter: Teasing and Joking with Subtle Accusations
32:01 - Emotional Depth: Initiating Connections through Feelings
36:23 - Unwind and Engage: Let Your Authentic Self Guide Conversations
37:22 - Mastering Conversations: Navigating with the 80 20 Rule
38:40 - Outro
Powered by Heartcastmedia -
Have you ever been scammed or catfished on a dating app? It’s infuriating and scary! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett advises an unlucky guy who’s being “sextorted” for $1,000 by a scammer from a dating app. Plus, Connell helps a lonely listener get over the bitterness and resentment he feels toward women. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend
Quotes
"Confidently approach women, excel on dating apps, charm effortlessly, and attract your dream partner.”.-Connell Barnett
"Embrace challenges as pathways to growth, not obstacles to success."- Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
00:49 - Unveiling a Scam Linked to Explicit Photos on a Dating App
03:53 - Avoiding Blackmail: How to Safeguard Your Privacy
04:32 - Reporting Evidence to Stop Sextortion and Promote Awareness
07:12 - Martin's Journey: Overcoming Bitterness in the Search for Love
10:44 - Pain to Purpose: Lessons from Viktor Frankl's Masterpiece
12:40 - Transforming Dating Struggles into Growth: Insights from a Book
13:42 - Triumphing Over Personal Hurdles to Thrive as a Dating Coach
17:18 - Unlocking Personal Growth Through Dating Mastery
19:30 - Conquering Envy, Cultivating Growth, and Building Empathy with Women
20:35 - Understanding Women's Perspectives: Giving to Win Love
23:46 - Embrace Your True Self: Your Dream Girlfriend Awaits
24:00 - Outro
Powered by Heartcastmedia -
If you aren’t sure how to talk to women… if you run out of things to say… if dates end with you trapped in the “friend zone,” then this is the episode for you. Connell is about to give you the secret weapon to STOP running out of things to say and START confidently flirting with cool, cute girls. It’s called Man-to-Woman Communication, a powerful, turbo-charged way of romantically connecting with women. Your dating life is about to change. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND: http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend
Quotes
"When sparks fly between two people, mastering 'man to woman communication' ensures consistent romantic connections.”.-Connell Barnett
"Playfully tease to create attraction, but avoid sensitive topics like appearance, family, job, or pets."- Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Inrtoduction
00:48 - Unveiling Connell Barrett's Secret Flirting Formula
05:51 - Igniting Romantic Connections Through Flirting
09:23 - Categorizing Women's Encounters into Three Frames
10:46 - Booking a Free Dating Coaching Call
14:06 - Balancing Communication: Sincerity and Flirtatious Elements
18:12 - Subtly Appreciating Non-Physical Traits
20:06 - Enhancing Voice Projection Techniques
23:03 - Connecting through Gaze: The Key to Impress on First Dates
24:06 - Unexpected Sparks on an Intense First Date
26:06 - Navigating Playful Teasing: Building Attraction Without Offense
29:15 - Subtle Physical Expressions and Reciprocation Awareness
31:56 - Infusing Fun and Playfulness into Dating Communication
33:24 - Outro
Powered by Heartcastmedia -
Are you five-feet-eight or shorter? Does that make you feel less confident around tall, attractive women? Do you struggle on the apps because you feel women want taller guys? In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell Barrett helps you fix those issues. How? By coaching a lonely, five-foot-five listener who’s considering a drastic step: breaking and lengthening his legs to become more attractive to women. If you’re on the shorter side and you want to confidently attract a wonderful girlfriend, this is the episode for you. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend
Quotes
"Women seek a confident, authentic man who values and cherishes them, regardless of height”.-Connell Barnett
"Build a strong sense of self-worth beyond height. Discover ten unique qualities that make you a great catch."- Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
00:00 - Connell Barrett, Dating Coach, Tackles Height Hurdles.
06:18 - Rise in Leg-Lengthening Procedures for Men.
08:18 - Building Confidence to Attract Your Ideal Women.
12:20 - Height: An Asset, Not a Dating Prerequisite.
16:35 - Most Women Find Height Inconsequential.
19:12 - Enhanced Profiles Yield Dating Triumphs.
21:19 - Boost Confidence, Showcase Yourself, Attract Opportunities.
23:21 - Outro
Powered by Heartcastmedia -
Have you ever had a painful breakup? Have you been so obsessed with your ex that you didn’t want to date? Have you felt, “I’ll never find someone as good as her”?
Today’s special guest can help!
Dr. Cortney S. Warren is a bestselling author, clinical psychologist and an expert in getting over a bad breakup. Cortney joins Connell in this episode to share simple, powerful tips from her bestselling book, “Letting Go of Your Ex: CBT Skills to Heal the Pain of a Breakup and Overcome Love Addiction.” She also offers some practical advice to help you overcome heartache and find someone NEW to share your life with.
It’s time to let go of pain, heal your heart, and find someone as wonderful as you are… and do it with authenticity! Listen to Cortney and Connell’s deep, insightful conversation now.
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend
Quotes
"Thinking about your ex is normal. Yet obsessing over them during dating as a distraction can prevent you from forming new meaningful connections."- Cortney Warren
"Intense love mixed with past traumas can impact relationships significantly. Self-awareness is key to navigating these complexities."-Cortney Warren
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Featured Guest
Cortney Warren
Website: http://www.drcortney.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcortneywarren/
Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
04:24 - Influences of Past Relationships on Future Actions
08:23 - Growth and Authenticity Post-Breakup
10:55 - Resilience and Recovery after Heartbreak
14:47 - Embracing Grief to Achieve Acceptance
17:20 - Gratitude: A Pathway to Moving Beyond Past Relationships
21:01 - Dating as a Catalyst for Personal Development
24:43 - Navigating Intimacy Challenges Stemming from Trauma
28:59 - Coping with Heartbreak and Relationship Advice
30:18 - Seeking Genuine Connections Based on Values and Chemistry
36:18 - Prioritizing Fun Over Perfection in Dating
37:55 - Transforming Disempowering Questions to Empowering Ones
42:01 - The Role of Physical Touch in Enhancing Bonding and Love
44:49 - Authenticity as a Precious Asset in the Dating Scene
46:11 - Conclusion
Powered by Heartcastmedia -
You want to meet wonderful women, make some moves, and get those sparks flying, right? But what if you do or say something creepy, and she rejects you? That would hurt. No one wants to feel like a creep. Here’s some help. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett counts down
The top 7 things that men do that make women go “Eww!” Are you making any of these common, creepy mistakes? Listen now to find out, fix it, and start dating some wonderful women.
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
Quotes
"There's a time to be persistent, but when a woman isn't interested, graciously move on." - Connell Barrett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Introduction03:42 - Navigating the Perception of Creepiness with Composure
06:43 - Truth vs. Fiction: Struggles with Deceit and Discomfort
07:23 - Shedding the Mask for Lasting Connections
04:09 - Gratitude shift: "Not me, the friendly guy over there"
09:51 - Impact of potato chip consumption on pickup artist success
12:33 - Addressing inappropriate touching and respect
15:49 - Pitfalls of objectifying women with body comments
18:14 - Spooky first date objectification story
20:42 - The Threefold Approach of Persistence, Charm, and Empathy
23:29 - Importance of honesty and avoiding manipulation
24:32 - Emphasizing honesty in dating and daily life
25:19 - OutroProduced by Heartcastmedia -
The reason dating coach Connell Barrett can fix any dating problem is because he had EVERY dating problem—and he overcame them. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares 5 game-changing “Aha!” moments he experienced that helped him get great at flirting, approach women with confidence, escape the Friend Zone, and more. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
Quotes
"I used to believe playing it safe was smart. However, in dating and relationships, safety is risky and risky is safe." -Connell Barrett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Taking Risks in Dating Is Surprisingly Safe
05:09 - Courageous Moves: Man Gambles on First Date
06:12 - The Safe Bet on Taking Risks in Dating Approaches
07:18 - Bold Gesture: Risking Rejection by Tapping Her Shoulder
12:11 - Embrace Authenticity: Not Everyone Will Connect with You
15:15 - Transforming Fear into Confidence in Dating Encounters
16:37 - Genuine Connections: Sincere Communication Over Flirtatious Behaviors
18:00 - The Art of Flirting: Balancing Sincerity with Playfulness
20:58 - Unleashing Playfulness in Relationships
21:31 - Playful Dynamics: Debunking Dating Myths Online and Offline
24:40 - Substance Over Style: Personality Draws in High-Quality Partners
26:11 - Outro
Produced by Heartcastmedia - Visa fler
