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Welcome to Episode 441 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell who speaks to me about cultivating intimacy in long-term relationships, navigating sexless marriages, and reigniting erotic connection between partners.
In this episode, we explore what truly keeps the spark alive in long-term relationships and why the common advice of compromise may actually undermine deep connection. Dr. Stockwell introduces her approach of Uncompromising Intimacy, which champions full self-expression over self-suppression in partnerships.
Alexandra Stockwell, MD, aka “The Intimacy Doctor,” is widely known for her ability to catalyze immediate and profound shifts in high achieving couples who want it all–genuine emotional connection, sensual passion, and erotic intimacy.
A physician coach and Intimate Marriage Expert, Dr. Alexandra is the best-selling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program, host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, a wife of 28 years and a mother of 4. Couples who work with her discover the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy, and success isn’t compromise–it’s being unwilling to compromise--because when both people feel free to be themselves, the relationship is juicy, erotically alive, and deeply nourishing.
In this episode, you will hear:
· Understanding The Concept Of Uncompromising Intimacy
· Why Compromise May Hinder Erotic Connection
· Recognizing Early Signs Of A Sexless Marriage
· Emotional Safety As A Foundation For Sexual Intimacy
· How Curiosity Revives Connection Outside—and Inside—the Bedroom
· Practical Tips For Couples Who Feel Like Roommates Or Siblings
· The Power Of Slowing Down And Tuning Into Arousal
· How To Rebuild Sexual Connection After Years Of Disconnection
· Navigating Past Hurts, Affairs, And Emotional Wounds In Intimacy Work
· Why Ongoing Communication About Sex Is Essential For Lasting Passion
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Welcome to episode 127 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a recap episode where I revisit some of our previous episodes to help bring you the best orgasmic tips.
In this episode, we will revisit:
Episode 39
Dr. Laurie Mintz is an author, therapist, professor and speaker whose life’s work has been committed to helping people live fuller, richer lives through the art and science of psychology.
As a tenured Professor at the University of Florida, she teaches the Psychology of Human Sexuality to hundreds of undergraduate students each year. She also teaches and mentors graduate students, helping them find their own niche as psychologists. Dr. Mintz has published over 50 research articles in academic journals and six chapters in academic books. She has received numerous professional and teaching awards, and is a Fellow of the American Psychological Association.
Full episode - http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2017/10/03/everything-you-need-to-know-about-orgasm/
Episode 06
Dr Barbach’s work as a couple’s therapist for more than three decades and the publication of Going the Distance: Finding and Keeping Lifelong Love crafted with David Geisinger, Ph.D., her partner of 32 years, has defined her as an acknowledged expert on intimate relationships. She is skilled in a variety of treatment modalities in treating individuals and couples with problems ranging from anxiety and depression to parenting and communication issues.
Full Episode - http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/04/02/how-to-please-your-lover-by-dr-lonnie-barbach/
Episode 124
Vanessa Marin is a licensed psychotherapist specializing in sex therapy. She’s here to help you stop feeling embarrassed about sex and start having way more fun in the bedroom.
She has bachelor’s degrees in Human Sexuality and Sociology from Brown University, and a master’s degree in counseling psychology. She writes for The New York Times, Allure, and Lifehacker, and has been featured over 1,000 times in major publications like O, The Oprah Magazine, Harper’s Bazaar, Refinery29, and Real Simple.
Full episode - http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/05/21/from-solo-sex-to-partnered-sex/
Episode 110
Dr. Janet Brito is an AASECT-certified sex therapist who also has a license in clinical psychology and social work. She is a graduate of Pacifica Graduate Institute and completed her postdoctoral fellowship from the University of Minnesota Medical School, one of only a few university programs in the world dedicated to sexuality training. Currently, she’s based in Honolulu, Hawaii and is the founder of the Center for Sexual and Reproductive Health, where she specializes in the areas of relationship and sex therapy, out of control sexual behavior, and gender and sexually diverse populations.
Full episode - http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/02/12/fake-orgasms/
Episode 65
Dr. Debra Wickman is a gynecologist with more than 20 years of experience. She completed a fellowship in Female Sexual Medicine at UCLA, and is also trained as a sexuality counsellor. Her model of diagnosis and treatment incorporates programs that uniquely educate, empower, and encourage personal growth, sexual discovery and healing for women.
Full episode - http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2018/04/03/holistic-sexual-medicine-with-debra-wickman-m-d/
Episode 59
Steve Bodansky together with his wife Vera have been teachers of Sensuality for the past 35 years. They met in 1980 and were married in 1983. Steve received a Masters in Molecular Biology at SUNY at Albany in 1979 and a Doctorate at More University in Sensuality in 1992 with an emphasis on female orgasm. He first studied and then taught at More U. thru 1992. Vera started doing one-hour orgasms demonstrations in 1980 and also received her doctorate in Sensual studies in 1992.
Full episode - http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2018/02/20/extended-massive-orgasm-by-dr-steve-bodansky/
Episode 114
Emily Nagoski is the award-winning author of the New York Times bestseller, Come As You Are: the surprising new science that will transform your sex life and The Come As You Are Workbook, and co-author, with her sister Amelia, of Burnout: the secret to unlocking the stress cycle.
Full episode - http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/03/12/female-orgasm-with-dr-emily-nagoski/
Resources
https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/
Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/
Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/
Helen Fisher Ted Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OYfoGTIG7pY
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Welcome to episode 130 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT. In this episode Dr. Cat speaks to me about BDSM, what does a BDSM relationship look like? How many people like some aspects of BDSM and learning to negotiate the rules and expectations.
Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT is a licensed couples therapist #88224, sex therapist, yoga instructor, published researcher, and reiki practitioner dedicated to evolving the relationship we have surrounding sexuality and our bodies. Dr. Cat integrates various schools of thought including neuro science, somatic theory, psychology, EMDR trauma therapy, and sexual health in her work for private practice, workshops, and transformational retreats that are designed to help people create a deeply fulfilling, prosperous relational and sexual life. For personal therapy work, check her out at CatMeyer.com
She is the co-creator of Goddess Celebration, an annual large scale women’s day retreat held in Malibu, CA, dedicated to uplifting and celebrating the goddess in every women.
Dr. Cat is also host to the popular podcast Eat.Play.Sex on iTunes, in which she brings you expert guests talking on how to ignite your love life both mentally, physically, and relationally. She also gives daily advice and wisdoms about all things sex, love, and yoga on Instagram.
In this episode, you will hear:
What does a BDSM relationship look like? The relationship BDSM has with sexual identity The power play dynamics of BDSM How many people like some aspects of BDSM The feelings of shame that arise around this issue When is a good time to bring up BDSM to your partner? How to talk about BDSM to your partner Negotiating the rules and expectations The different types of relationships that can flourish with BDSM The after-care process of BDSMResources
http://Sexloveyoga.com
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-019-09590-x
Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/
Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/
https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care
https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/
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Welcome to episode 131 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Jes L. Matsick, Ph.D and Anna C. Salomaa, M.S. to the podcast. In this episode they speak to me about defining sexual orientation, addressing the challenges around minority distress and the best practice for identifying sexual identity for clinicians.
Jes Matsick, Ph.D.
Jes L. Matsick, Ph.D. is an Assistant Professor of Psychology and Women’s, Gender, and Sexuality Studies at The Pennsylvania State University. She received her Ph.D. in Psychology and Women’s Studies at the University of Michigan. In her research, she studies sexuality, gender, and prejudice, and much of her work is centered on the perspectives and experiences of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) individuals. Dr. Matsick is the director of the Underrepresented Perspectives Lab at Penn State, where she trains undergraduate and graduate students to conduct psychological research with an emphasis on LGBTQ+ issues. Her lab uses social psychological and feminist theories and methodologies to examine contemporary social issues, such as heterosexism, bisexual prejudice, allyship, health disparities, and intergroup relations. Since 2010, she has published more than 25 scientific papers and book chapters in which she examines sexual diversity and the psychological experiences of adults with sexually stigmatized identities. In the classroom at Penn State, she teaches courses that draw on her expertise in sexuality, gender, and health (e.g., Psychology of Sexual Orientation and Gender Diversity, Women’s Health Issues, Human Sexuality, and Psychology of Gender). Dr. Matsick’s research has been funded by the American Institute of Bisexuality, the Gay and Lesbian Medical Association, and the Society for the Psychological Study of Social Issues.
Anna C. Salomaa, M.S.
Anna C. Salomaa, M.S. is in her final year as a doctoral candidate at The Pennsylvania State University in the Department of Psychology; her area of focus is clinical psychology. The overarching goal of her research is to translate mapping the complexities of sexuality to the improvement of sexual minority health. Her primary areas of expertise include (1) issues in measuring sexual orientation in clinical and research settings and (2) mechanisms behind and interventions against bisexual prejudice in lesbian, gay, and heterosexual individuals that contribute to health disparities in bisexual people. In 2019, she received the Pennsylvania Psychological Foundation’s Student Multicultural Award. Anna is also the recipient of the 2018 Bisexual Issues Committee Foundation Award by APA's Division 44 (Society for the Psychology of Sexual Orientation and Gender Diversity). Anna integrates her research focus into her clinical work with sexual and gender minority clients by facilitating nuanced identity development.
In this episode, you will hear:
How they became interested in this area of research Addressing the challenges around minority distress How do they define sexual orientation? Measuring sexual orientation and asking the right questions for quality research The way in which our sexual orientation can change over our lifetime The fluidity of sexuality How Bi-Sexual people will experience social isolation How many people still view being Bi-Sexual as just a pre-cursor to becoming gay What are some of the best practice for identifying sexual identity for clinicians?Resources
https://psych.la.psu.edu/directory/jes-matsick-ph-d
https://psych.la.psu.edu/directory/acs312
Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/
Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/
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https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/
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Welcome to episode 132 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m happy to welcome Dr. Natalie Rosen to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about female sexual interest arousal disorder (FSIAD), the impact of FSIAD on partners and understanding self-expansion and how it can help.
Dr. Natalie Rosen is an Associate Professor in the Department of Psychology and Neuroscience at Dalhousie University, Halifax, Nova Scotia. Her research interests focus on understanding how individuals, and especially couples, cope with sexual problems or changes to their sexual relationship, including low sexual desire. She is an Associate Editor of the journal Archives of Sexual Behavior and has published over 70 peer-reviewed articles and book chapters on sexual relationships. Dr. Rosen’s research is currently funded by the Canadian Institutes of Health Research, the Nova Scotia Health Research Foundation, the Social Sciences and Humanities Research Council of Canada, and the Canadian Foundation of Innovation. Dr. Rosen also maintains a small private practice focused exclusively on sex and couple therapy.
In this episode, you will hear:
What is female sexual interest arousal disorder (FSIAD)? The key part that distress plays in this issue Understanding that we all go through different periods of higher and lower desire How common is FSIAD? The impact of FSIAD on partners How does this differ between same sex / different sex couples? How sexual discrepancies exist between couples from the offset The way in which FSIAD effects communication between partners Recommendations for couples overcoming this issue Understanding self-expansion and how it can helpResources
http://natalieorosen.com
https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090
Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/
Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/
https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care
https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/
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Welcome to episode 133 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Jeffrey Loh-Doyle, MD to the podcast. In this episode he speaks to me about the ways in which neurologists can help men with erectile dysfunction, the steps leading to a penile prosthesis and how the penile prosthesis works.
Jeffrey Loh-Doyle, MD, is a specialist in complex surgical reconstruction of the male urinary tract, male urinary incontinence, erectile dysfunction, sexual health, urethral stricture disease, and Peyronie’s Disease. He joins the USC Institute of Urology after completing his urology residency at USC and further fellowship training in male genitourinary reconstructive and prosthetic surgery under Dr. Stuart Boyd, a world-renown reconstructive cancer surgeon and authority on reconstruction of the lower urinary tract and urologic prosthestics.
Born and raised in Los Angeles, Dr. Loh-Doyle completed his undergraduate and medical school education in the prestigious Baccalaureate/MD program at the Keck School of Medicine of USC, where he achieved degrees in biological sciences, international relations, and doctor of medicine. Dr. Loh-Doyle’s areas of clinical and research interest include erectile dysfunction, male urinary incontinence, Peyronie’s Disease, reconstruction of the urinary tract, and urologic oncology. In addition to urology, he also has a keen interest in health policy and quality improvement and participated in a two-year health care administration scholars program run by the Los Angeles County Department of Health. He was awarded a grant to improve the peri-operative patient experience at Los Angeles County+USC, and he is an active participant in several committees aimed at improving the delivery of sophisticated healthcare to the underserved.
In this episode, you will hear:
The ways in which neurologists can help men with erectile disfunction The steps leading to a penile prosthesis How there is a psychogenic component to erectile disfunctions Allaying the concerns about injecting into the penis How the penile prosthesis works The main candidates for this type of surgery The possible risk and side effects How common is it for people to have mechanical issues? The level of satisfaction after surgery How quickly people can resume sexual activity after surgeryResources
https://keck.usc.edu/faculty-search/jeffrey-loh-doyle/
Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/
Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/
https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care
https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/
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Welcome to episode 134 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome back Dr. Steve Bodansky to the podcast. In this episode he speaks to me about the benefits of self-pleasure, overcoming shame and recommendations to discover your own erogenous zones.
Steve Bodansky together with his wife Vera have been teachers of Sensuality for the past 35 years. Steve received a Masters in Molecular Biology at SUNY at Albany and a Doctorate at More University in Sensuality with an emphasis on female orgasm. He first studied and then taught at More U. thru 1992.
For the past 27 years they have been coaching students as a couple and started writing books about optimum sensual pleasure. They have trained many people over the past 30 years with courses and personal training and continue to do so. A number of their former students have become sensual facilitators themselves.
In this episode, you will hear:
The benefits of self-pleasure Incorporating mindfulness into self-pleasure What is peaking? Overcoming the shame associated with self-pleasure Understanding the need for build-up to climax The way in which pornography gives us a false view of the female orgasm Recommendations to discover your own erogenous zones The common strokes that are helpful for self-pleasure Learning not to be dependable on sex toysResources
http://www.extendedmassiveorgasm.com
Extended Massive Orgasm: How to Give and Receive Intense Sexual Pleasure
The Illustrated Guide to Extended Massive Orgasm
To Bed or Not to Bed
Instant Orgasm
Extended Massive Orgasm: The Novel
Extended Massive Life: A True Love Story and More
Pigetry
Universe of Love: Poems of Yin and Yang
Orgasm Matters
Love and Alzheimer’s
Switch Pitcher: Evolution of Darwin
Fall; or, Dodge in Hell: A Novel by Neal Stephenson
Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones by James Clear
Previous episodes with Steve Bodansky
http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2018/09/11/sex-and-alzheimer/
http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2018/02/20/extended-massive-orgasm-by-dr-steve-bodansky/
Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/
Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/
https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care
https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/
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Welcome to episode 135 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Sari Cooper to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about sexual avoidance, how it affects relationships and recommendations on how you can better understand and improve upon this issue.
Sari Cooper is the Director of Center for Love and Sex, a group practice specializing in sex therapy and sex coaching based in NYC. She is also the creator of Sex Esteem®️, LLC a company devoted to enriching people’s confidence and knowledge about their own or their kids’ sexuality through talks, webinars and her web show, Sex Esteem®️ with Sari Cooper.
She is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and a Certified Sex Therapy Supervisor who is frequently called upon on many media outlets to comment on relationships and sexuality issues. She has appeared on CBS This Morning, Dr. Oz and featured in The Wall Street Journal, Women’s Health, Bustle, HuffPost and Vice Media.
In this episode, you will hear:
How do you define sexual avoidance? The implicit actions people take to avoid sex with their partners The ways in which this issue affects relationships How the incest taboo works in relation to this issue The root causes of sexual avoidance Creating spontaneity and excitement to maintain a healthy sex life Reconnecting with the exciting parts of lust from the early stages of a relationship How partners can view hobbies and interests as a threat The need to break out of your comfort zone to explore new aspects of a relationship How pain during sex can play into this issue Recommendations on how to improve sexual avoidanceResources
Web - www.centerforloveandsex.com
Email - [email protected]
Social Media - Facebook, Twitter and Instagram
Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/
Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/
https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care
https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/
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Welcome to episode 136 of the Sexology Podcast! Today we have a solo episode where I discuss how you can change your sexual schema.
In this episode, you will hear:
How do you change your schema of sex? A personal story from Nazanin to help further unpack this issue How a lack of sex education impacted Nazanin’s life The conflicting messages on sex from society and religion How these messages become instilled as part of your development The feelings of guilt from wanting to experience sex The importance of values within acceptance commitment therapy Analyzing your own biases around sex Challenging the myth that you need to be married to have good sex Taking a look at alternative rebellion Writing down your own sexual thoughts and stories to help further express your sexual feelingsResources
https://sexologypodcast.com
Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/
Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/
https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care
https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/
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Welcome to episode 137 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Caitlin V to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about what men can do to last longer in bed, the underlying issues of premature ejaculation and techniques that men can learn to help with this issue.
Caitlin V is a sex and relationship coach who helps men become amazing lovers and incredible partners. Formerly a sexual health researcher and policy analyst, she was catapulted into internet stardom after a video featuring her went viral.
She works with clients all over the world on ending premature ejaculation, preventing erectile dysfunction, and developing unshakable sexual confidence. Combining personal experience with evidence-based science in her coaching, Caitlin’s mission is to create a sex and pleasure-positive world
In this episode, you will hear:
What can men do to last longer in bed? Simple and effective techniques men can use Understanding how your style of masturbation will affect your sex life How society has the wrong expectation on the duration of sex Learning to control your ejaculation, if only by a small amount How many men don’t know treatment is available Numbing techniques – picturing undesirable things whilst having sex Why numbing techniques don’t offer the best solution Why longer duration of sex doesn’t translate to better sex The relationship between sexual positions and duration Staying away from untested home remediesResources
www.bettersexcoach.com
Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/
Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/
https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care
https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/
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Welcome to episode 140 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Stefani Goerlich to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about working with non-traditional couples, the sexual challenges they face and understanding what it means to be kink aware.
Stefani holds a Masters in Social Work from Wayne State University, where she specialized in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. She has over fifteen years' experience in working with poly/kinky individuals, swingers, commercial sex workers, and child and adult survivors of sexual trauma including human trafficking. Stefani has served as a guest lecturer on minority sexual communities at Northwestern University and is a frequent conference presenter on topics related to Kink Aware Practice and consent. An award winning author, she currently working on her second book entitled The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients.
In this episode, you will hear:
The non-traditional relationship Stefani sees in her practice The stigma non—traditional relationships face when forming romantic relationships Working with sex workers Sexual challenges non-traditional couples face Working around jealousy The importance of negotiation and communication What does it mean to be kink aware? Things that get in the way of therapists working with people from the lense of kink awareness? How 2-5% of the population need a form of kink to be sexually stimulated Misconceptions around working with non-traditional couplesResources
http://www.boundtogethercounseling.com
Bonus Episode, Anorexia Nervosa & Sex: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-anorexia-nervosa-sex/
Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/
Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/
https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care
https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/
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Welcome to episode 140 (a) of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m pleased to welcome Susan Bratton to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about sex toys, why couples are using them, how they can add sex appeal and changing the sexual dynamic of a relationship with a sex toy.
Susan Bratton is a champion and advocate for all who desire passionate relationships.
Considered the “Dear Abby of Sex,” Susan’s fresh approach and original ideas have helped millions of people of all ages and across the gender spectrum transform sex into passion.
Married to her husband Tim since 1993, Susan is an author, award-winning speaker, and serial entrepreneur who teaches passionate lovemaking techniques to her fans around the world. Susan has been featured in The New York Times and on CNBC and the TODAY show as well as appearing on ABC, CBS, The CW, Fox, and on NBC as the “Marriage Magician.”
Millions of couples and singles have been touched by her TV appearances and Better Lover YouTube channel. Through her Insider’s Club newsletter at Personal Life Media.com, Susan gives away, free of charge, countless MP3 audios, videos, articles, and ebooks.
In this episode, you will hear:
The reasons why couples are using sex toys Helping to bridge the orgasm gap Taking a look at certain sex toys such as cock rings What to look for in a sex toy when purchasing one Can sex toys change the dynamic of a couple's sex life? Understanding the clitoral erection Making the most of a clitoral erection How sex toys can add sex appeal Knowing the best times to approach using a sex toy with your partnerResources
Personal Life Media
Instagram@SusanBratton
My YouTube 'Better Lover’ ChannelBonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/
Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/
https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care
https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/
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Welcome to episode 138 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I welcome Michael Vigorito to the podcast. In this episode he speaks to me about out of control sexual behaviour, examining the driving force behind it and understanding the best practices to deal with this issue.
Mr. Vigorito is a sex therapist, author and consultant. As a psychotherapist, he provides individual, couples and group psychotherapy for a range of sexual and behavioral health concerns. He developed a sexual health assessment and treatment protocol with Douglas Braun-Harvey, which was published in Treating Out of Control Sexual Behavior - Rethinking Sex Addiction (2016) (SSTAR 2018 Health Professional Book Award Winner).
As a sexual health consultant for Behavioral Health Systems Baltimore and University of Maryland - Prevention Research Center, Mr. Vigorito designed and implemented capacity-building initiatives to integrate sexual health into mental health and substance use disorder treatment. These programs offered trainings and technical assistance in conducting routine sexual health conversations, sexual risk-reduction counseling and LGBTQ cultural competency within behavioural health systems of care.
In this episode, you will hear:
Defining out of control sexual behavior Examining the driving force behind this issue How common is this issue? Looking at boundary fidelities The consequences of trying to over-control sexual thoughts Is this a behavioral or addiction issue? Understanding not to adopt a disease narrative Using the framework of addiction issues to tackle this issue Are STD’s common for people dealing with this issue?Resources
http://michaelvigorito.com
Bonus Episode - Anorexia Nervosa & Sex: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-anorexia-nervosa-sex/
Bonus Episode - Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/
Bonus Episode - Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/
https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care
https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/
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Welcome to episode 143 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it is my pleasure to welcome Dalychia Saah to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about allowing yourself to have more pleasure, why we struggle to connect with our bodies and finding your erotic voice.
Dalychia Saah (she/her) is a sexuality educator, professor, writer, and speaker. Through her words and work, Dalychia facilitates space for people to connect deeper with their desires for their body, relationships, life, and our world. She is passionate about people unlearning oppressive norms that are externalized, inter-personalized, and internalized that keep us from moving towards a more liberated way of being. Dalychia believes that systematic forms of oppression can be overthrown by a reclamation of intra- and interpersonal power.
Dalychia is the co-founder of Afrosexology, a pleasure based sex education platform that creates educational content and workshops to center the pleasure, empowerment, and liberation of Black people. Afrosexology’s work covers topics such as masturbation, self love, enhancing communication in relationships, radical twerking, racialized sexual oppression, body agency and much more. Through Afrosexology, she has created space for tens of thousands of people of color to reclaim their sexuality and body agency.
Dalychia is a lecturer professor at the Brown School of Social Work at Washington University in St. Louis, where she teaches graduate level courses in social theory, social justice, and sexuality education. She is also a sought after facilitator and keynote speaker for conferences and events related to social justice and/or sexuality.
Her work and words have been featured in HuffPost, Teen Vogue, Allure Magazine, Vibe Magazine, Glamour Magazine, Harper’s Bazaar, Playboy Magazine, Broadly, and others. She has received the Phenomenal Woman Award, Spirit of Social Work Award, Rev. Robert Gilbert Advocacy Award, and Academy for Leadership & Civic Engagement Leadership Award.
In this episode, you will hear:
The internal and external oppressive challenges that get in the way of pleasure A lack pleasure pride in our society How we seek to create goals and aims out of every aspect of our lives The detrimental effect of being too goal orientated Why struggle to connect with our bodies The power of self-care Liberation through masturbation Finding your erotic voice Learning to overcome our fears of allowing ourselves pleasureResources
http://www.afrosexology.com
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EP144 - Getting Off Without Checking Out with Jessica Graham
Welcome to episode 144 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Jessica Graham to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about incorporating fantasy in a healthy way, how sexuality is connected to spirituality, and using mindfulness to increase your desire
Jessica Graham is a meditation teacher, sex, relationship, and spiritual guide for couples and individuals, speaker, and author of Good Sex: Getting Off Without Checking Out. She is a contributing editor of the meditation blog, Deconstructing Yourself and co-founded The Eastside Mindfulness Collective. Jessica also founded Wild Awakening, to help people become more human through psycho-spiritual evolution using meditation and self-inquiry. Jessica is also an award-winning actor and filmmaker.
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In this episode, you will hear:
Why are so many partners checking out during sex? Learning to incorporate fantasy in a healthy way Exercises for body awareness Incorporating healthy fantasies with your partner How sexuality is connected to spirituality Learning about the issue of orgasmic shame How women are very cut off from their pleasure Taking a look at the pleasure activism movement Using mindfulness to increase your desireFind Jessica here:
www.yourwildawakening.com
https://www.instagram.com/jessicaclarkgraham
https://www.amazon.com/Pleasure-Activism-Politics-Emergent-Strategy/dp/1849353263
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Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/
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Welcome to episode 148 of the Sexology Podcast! Today’s episode is a solo episode during which I will respond to listeners’ pre-recorded questions. Here are the questions that I will answer in this episode:
Why do so many women have spanking fantasies? How common are BDSM fantasies? How hard should a “normal” erection be? How do I know if I am “hard enough”? What do I do if I can’t get “hard enough”? How can you get your partner to initiate sex more often? How do you ask your partner to have sex without sounding desperate?If you’ve got questions, I have answers! Record your questions here: http://www.sexologypodcast.com/ or email it to [email protected]
Resources mentioned in the episode:
Books:
Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies
https://www.amazon.com/Arousal-Secret-Logic-Sexual-Fantasies/dp/0312302428
Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life
https://www.amazon.com/Tell-Me-What-You-Want/dp/0738234958
Articles:
http://www.repositoryeffetti.it/2010/agoraDisfunzioneErettile/download/letteratura/efficaciaClinica/Mulhall_JSM2007.pdf
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/jsm.12734
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Welcome to episode 151 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Shane Birkel to the podcast. In this episode he speaks with me about relationship challenges that affect sexual function, how excitement lessens as bonds deepen and ways in which we can assess ourselves in this situation.
Shane Birkel is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in private practice near Boston. He works primarily with couples and is a certified Relational Life Therapist with Terry Real as his mentor.
Shane hosts a weekly podcast called the Couples Therapist Couch that is all about the practice of Couples Therapy. He is the creator of the Couples Therapist Inner Circle which is a membership site supporting therapists in their work with couples.
In This Episode You Will Hear:
Relational challenges that affect sexual function How many people don’t realize the negative habits they have that will impact sex in a relationship Looking at overdependence on our partners for how we feel about ourselves The importance of showing up as yourself as your relationship evolves Getting stuck doing the same things Ways in which we can assess ourselves in this situation Understanding that your partner cannot meet all of your needs Learning to not put too much expectation on your relationship How excitement lessens as bonds deepen Looking at the issue of control101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot
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Welcome to episode 152 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Dr. Shannon Chavez to the podcast. In this episode she speaks with me about casual sex, how to best use dating sites like Tinder and emotionally preparing yourself for casual sex.
Dr. Chavez is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist with a private practice, SHAPE (Sexual Health and Pleasure Enhancement) Center in Beverly Hills, California where she provides individual and couples therapy, sex and relationship coaching, and workshops on sexual health and wellness.
Her work focuses on adult sex education, integrating sexuality and spirituality, and sexual discovery towards personal growth. She frequently appears on national news, radio, and media as a sexual health expert.
In This Episode You Will Hear:
Limiting ideas that get in the way of women having casual sex The importance of exploration and having fun Learning to verbalize your wants and needs How having casual sex can give you the opportunity to take different kinds of risks How to best use dating sites like Tinder Dealing with the issue of liking someone who only wants casual sex Ways to initiate hook-up sex Emotionally preparing yourself for casual sex Making sure to manage your alcohol intake through this journey Morning after etiquette to follow101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot
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Welcome to episode 153 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it is my pleasure to welcome Dr. Alison Ash to the podcast. In this episode she speaks with me about the art and science of seduction, differentiating between friendliness and flirting, and how anyone can develop seduction skills.
Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach and educator, lecturer at Stanford University, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, Aly has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences.
Aly designs workshops and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them.
In This Episode You Will Hear:
How Alison began working in sex education Differentiating between friendliness and flirting Mistakes people often make when flirting Learning to seduce yourself Looking at sleaze free seductions The importance of safety + turn on Understanding the founding principles of seduction Balancing out escalation and de-escalation Learning about the three-part invitation How anyone can develop seduction skills Recommendations if you want to go down this path101 Ways To Keep Your Relationship Hot
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Welcome to Episode 432 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by William Moore, who speaks to me about his incredible journey from LGBTQ+ advocacy to pioneering innovations in male enhancement procedures.
In this powerful episode, William shares his story of growing up in rural Alabama and eventually becoming a national LGBTQ+ rights advocate, culminating in a landmark U.S. Supreme Court case that changed anti-discrimination laws forever. He also takes us into the world of male enhancement, where he developed PhalloFILL - a minimally invasive girth enhancement technique that has transformed the lives of countless men, both physically and emotionally.
William Moore is the founder of the Dallas-based biohacking clinic AdvancedYOU and the visionary Founder of PhalloFILL®, the leading network for non-surgical penile girth enhancement. After launching in 2021, PhalloFILL now spans nearly 30 U.S. markets, Mexico City, and Montreal, solidifying its status as the largest and most accessible treatment for penile girth enhancement. Beyond the clinics, Moore is the President of the Texas Med Spa Association, advocating for LGBTQ+ rights and healthcare equality.
In this episode, you will hear:
· William’s Journey From Rural Alabama to Advocacy
· LGBTQ+ Rights Victory at the Supreme Court
· The Birth of PhalloFILL Male Enhancement Procedure
· Why Girth Matters More Than Length in Pleasure
· Risks of Unsafe Filler Practices in Enhancement
· The Role of Confidence in Sexual and Social Life
· Scientific Innovation Behind the PhalloSleeve Device
· Real-Life Impact on Relationships and Self-Esteem
· Training Physicians Nationwide for Safe Procedures
· Breaking Taboos Around Male Body Conversations
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