Spelade
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This episode is inspired by a question from a crossdresser but we hear many people in the kink community talk about the impulse to throw away sex toys and other kinky things.
Why?
Well, anyone who is into things that aren’t considered ‘mainstream’ can feel the wrong kind of shame or fear of being discovered by family, friends or work associates.
The Femdom hosts will share personal stories of self-acceptance as kinky dominant women and how this podcast started as a way to dispel myths about BDSM, kink, and feminization.
This includes conversations about how crossdressing can give someone access to feelings or behavior that aren’t accepted when in guy mode.
This episode covers emotional or psychological questions like:
Why does someone who loves women want to crossdress or act like a woman?
Does throwing out everything related to your feminization or kink ever work?
Will a decision to stop being a sissy ever last long term?
Why does the urge to crossdress come back even stronger after purging?
Is there a way to process the guilt or come to terms with the wrong kind of shame associated with something that is a huge part of your psyche?
For those into sissy play and feminization, the binge and purge cycle can run into thousands of dollars and causes endless frustration. How to avoid the urge to purge?
Practical tips include:
Understanding why you want to dress in women’s lingerie or women’s clothes.
How to identify when societal teaching is needlessly holding you back.
Learning when and why you want to dress in order to identify where you are in your cycle.
How to find a community that will accept and support you.
How to put away rather than throw away - ie get a storage locker!
If you’ve ever felt alone in your desires, this episode is for you. You’re not alone, you’re not crazy and we get it!
Ms Olivia’s blog Experienced Mistress
Ms Erika’s blog Intelligent Phone Fantasy
Free adult social networking site Enchantrix Empire -
Hosts Ms Olivia and Ms Erika respond to emails that ask some version of: “How do I get my wife to be my sissy Mistress?”
This is a common question. Some of the discussion is about sissy specific issues and some advice will apply to anyone who is a submissive trying to change a partner who isn’t already into kink, fetish or gender play.
The first question to consider is: “Does your wife or girlfriend WANT to be your Mistress?”
If you think she might be open to being your Domme, then this episode is all about how to talk about your sissy desires with her.
What is a FLR or female led relationship?
How does feminization and/or sissification work in a female led relationship?
What happens in the rest of the relationship if he is her sissy cuckold and she is the Domme wife?
What is monogamy in a kink relationship?
How will a sissy perform in a cuckold relationship?
Will a cuckold sissy husband be expected to suck cock and sexually satisfy men?
Will erotic humiliation be part of your feminization or sissy play?
What to do if your partner is also submissive but may be willing to learn to be your Dominant.
Why BDSM negotiations are different with a Pro Domme versus non sex worker partner.
What is topping from the bottom and why is this a bad thing?
How to communicate your needs when you are a submissive.
How do you both go back to your “regular” life when sissy play time is over?
