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In this episode, Paul, with Stacey’s support, will be speaking directly to men, and women too, about how men see relationships. Men tend to view the topic of relationships and marriage as a feminine topic when in reality they need to know what makes a relationship work because they relate with so many different people in their lives.
This episode will help in having men’s voice heard and understood, by giving women an inside look at the masculine perspective. Paul and Stacey will also share some insights on the steps men can take to become their masculine selves authentically and really understand relationship dynamics.
Key Points Discussed:
A man’s thought process around relationships and marriage (01:02)Masculine energy has been wired for freedom and autonomy (03:15)Relationship is a human topic (08:22)Misunderstanding relationship dynamics equals the 50% to 80% divorce rate (12:18)We’re equal but there are differences (15:27)Reacting and trying to run away from it won’t fix it (21:57)The gift is for the person who takes the action (25:32)Additional Resources:
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In this episode, Paul and Stacey will take on one of the most common and pervasive relationship killers, and it's called pleasing. This isn't just about love relationships, because when a person is a pleaser in any of their relationships, they are most likely pleasing in many of their relationships, and that actually causes way more damage than good.
Paul and Stacey will talk extensively about it and share some very effective tools that we can use to stop being pleasers and embrace the relationship development practices that will help us achieve true happiness in all our relationships.
Key Points Discussed:
The difference between giving and pleasing (01:02)Giving feels good but pleasing will always feel not so great (02:33)A culture conditioned to be pleasers (04:32)The emotional guidance scale (05:47)The result of pleasing is resentment (07:52)The dangers of demand parenting (10:28)How to authentically show up in any situation (16:24)The blame-sides-compromise dynamic is very broken (20:48)Pleasing doesn’t actually create happiness (27:51)How to stop being a pleaser (30:44)Additional Resources:
The Relationship Breakthrough Retreat 2019Ask and It Is Given by Esther Hicks and Jerry HicksYou can find this episode and more at:
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In this episode, Paul and Stacey will continue with part two of their reignite the passion series, and talk about what actually kills the passion in long-term relationships.
It is something that impacts almost everyone at some point in their long-term relationship, and yet it remains invisible to almost everyone. They are going to expose that passion killer today to empower you to reignite the passion.
Key Points Discussed:
Passion organically fades in a long-term relationship (01:20)Loves goes deeper with sameness (02:30)Breaking the belief that something is wrong with you (03:33)You have to create that hotter and more amazing passion (08:56)Feminine core energy and masculine core energy (10:01)Being a nice guy mutes who you are authentically (13:24)Suppressing our natural core energy makes us unhappy (16:32)Focusing on yourself instead of your partner (23:12)Additional Resources:
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In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share the truth about why passion fizzles in long-term relationships and what we can do to reignite it!
They will dive into the two most common phases of a relationship where people need help in creating an unleashed passion that is hotter than it's ever been. Paul and Stacey will be very detailed about this so it can help you get the kind of relationship you deserve.
If you are looking to reignite the passion in your relationship, don’t miss out on this value-packed episode!
Key Points Discussed:
The hanging-by-a-thread and the passionless (01:00)The salad versus garbage concept (02:29)Passion is not meant to fade (05:27)Building up walls of resentments (08:12)It’s not your fault and you’re not alone (11:30)Breaking the chains for the sake of future generations (15:02)A height of passion that matches the depth of love is possible (16:10)Additional Resources:
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In this episode, Paul and Stacey will cover part three of busting the myths series, and talk about the “But my partner is …” myths, which are all about how one partner thinks that their partner is keeping them from having their desired relationship because they behave a certain way.
Key Points Discussed:
Depressed spouses and the dangers of labeling (00:52)Everyone changes at different points in life for various reasons (02:53)Whatever comes after the statement “I am” is super powerful (06:31)Showing up differently in your relationship for your partner (09:05)Anxiety is just a pattern (12:03)The masculine dynamic wired into a man’s blueprint (15:19)The widespread misuse of the word abusive (18:27)Physical abuse is not a relationship issue (20:04)Everyone has a unique brilliance (24:49)Additional Resources:
Daily Inspiration for Relationship TransformersYou can find this episode and more at:
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In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the very confusing issue of whether an individual should leave their marriage and give in to divorce. This is something that a lot of people in someone’s life will prescribe when their marriage is in trouble, but the truth is that none of them has the right to do that.
Paul and Stacey will expose that for the lie that it is and tell us the best way to go about an impending divorce situation.
Key Points Discussed:
It’s a lie to say you’ve tried everything and nothing will work (01:59)Noone has the right to tell you to get a divorce (02:54)People prescribe divorce when they’ve reached the end of their skillset (05:08)Calling off the divorce: Suzanne and Don’s story (07:10)Advice is crap and destructive (12:29)Knowing when to leave (14:14)Rebuilt marriage or harmonious co parenting (20:27)Cognitive learning is not enough to save a marriage or turn it around (25:11)Additional Resources:
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In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the invisible force that stops people from living with a relationship development mindset and instead continues to enslave them in a demand relationship mindset. That force blocks people from getting the results that they desire in their relationships and keeps leading them in the wrong direction.
Paul and Stacey will expose it and teach you how to overcome it.
Key Points Discussed:
The Truth: It’s all about blame (01:47)Blaming someone else renders you powerless (02:33)The act of willingly handing all your power to the other person (04:02)Personal responsibility is not a dirty word (06:11)Fault and responsibility do not go together (09:09)Everyone lives in the results of the decisions that they make (12:42)Additional Resources:
YouTube Video: Fault Vs Responsibility by Will SmithThe Relationship Breakthrough Retreat 2019You can find this episode and more at:
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In this episode, Paul and Stacey will explain in detail how it’s possible that it only takes one partner to transform any relationship. There have been thousands of people who have single-handedly saved their marriages, transformed their relationships and divorce-proofed their marriages.
Society has for many years been brainwashed to believe that it takes two people to achieve all that, but the truth is that with Paul and Stacey’s relationship development methodology, one person can indeed transform a relationship all on their own, and they will teach us how we can implement that methodology in our marriages and relationships.
Key Points Discussed:
The most powerful force in human relationships today (02:49)Waiting for the other person to change is setting yourself up for failure (04:37)Men process completely differently than women (08:49)Solving our own triggers (12:16)Disrespect only happens within you (15:58)The empowerment of relationship development (19:56)The fear-based protection (23:42)The relationship transformers community (26:04)Additional Resources:
The Relationship Development CommunityRelationship Breakthrough Retreat 2019You can find this episode and more at:
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In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about how they cracked the code on how relationships are done, what exactly causes relationship problems, and what the solution really is. At the first sign of trouble, couples choose to seek counseling or therapy, but that has failed miserably because it has a divorce rate of 80% which emanates from the fact that they only focus on symptoms and not causes.
The solution that Paul and Stacey offer has a 1% divorce rate and teaches couples how to build an unshakeable love and passion that keeps them going strong well into the future.
Join us at the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat: http://bit.ly/rbr_podcast
Key Points Discussed:
The dilemma of working on things alone (01:02)Relationship development and demand relationship (02:52)Nobody likes being controlled (05:35)Classic demand relationship exit (07:27)Building up relationships with the relationship development methodology (09:07)Breaking the chains of demand relationship (13:43)Be sure to get the free PDF download discussed in this episode at:
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In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share a deeply personal story about the night that Paul told Stacey he was leaving her, and why they do what they do today. We are going to show you the challenges that you encounter in your marriage or relationship, tell you what’s really causing them to be invisible to you and give you real solutions that you can implement to get the results that you desire.
Join us at the next Relationship Breakthrough Retreat: http://bit.ly/rbr_podcast
Key Points Discussed:
The power of the perspective shift (01:28)Breaking open and becoming vulnerable (05:58)Single-handedly saving our marriage (09:06)Creating an unshakable love (11:17)The 1% divorce/99% success rate program (12:35)The amazing eight-step system (17:00)Cracking the code on how relationships are really done (20:42)You can find this episode and more at:
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