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Welcome to this episode of What to Say & How to Say It with Nina Roesner and Licensed Professional Counselor Kyle Hargrove! 🎙️ Today, we’re diving into a powerful (and maybe convicting!) conversation: Are you creating drama in your marriage?
We’re breaking down the Drama Triangle — the Victim, the Villain, and the Hero — three roles you DO NOT want to play if you’re serious about building a healthy, God-honoring relationship.
Are you unintentionally sabotaging your marriage by trying to rescue your spouse?
Are you falling into patterns of blame, manipulation, or emotional chaos?
Or maybe, just maybe, you’re stuck in a cycle you didn’t realize you were even in…This episode is full of wisdom, humor, real-life examples, and biblical encouragement for anyone looking to stop the cycle of drama and start building connection instead.
👉 Take our FREE marriage assessment at https://greaterimpact.org to find out if coaching is right for you or if there are practical steps you can take to strengthen your marriage TODAY.
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Welcome to today's episode of What to Say and How to Say It, the podcast designed to help you fix your marriage! Join Shai Lewis and Nina Rosner as they dive into the topic of the Martyr Complex—an unhealthy mindset that can trap us in conflict and distance within our relationships.
In this episode, we discuss the signs of a martyr or savior complex, how they show up in our marriages, and how to break free from the victim mentality that holds us back. We also explore ways to retrain your thinking and embrace personal responsibility to bring healing to your marriage.
📌 Visit our website greaterimpactwives.org for a free PDF, "5 Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells" and take our free marriage assessment to get started on your journey toward a stronger, more connected marriage.
🔔 Subscribe for more tips on building a thriving, Christ-centered marriage!
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Are you feeling stuck in your marriage? In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner dive deep into the victim mindset and the lies that keep us trapped. We explore biblical truths that help rewire your thinking, build stronger connections, and navigate conflict in a godly way.
2 Corinthians 10:5 – "Take every thought captive and make it obedient to Christ."
Topics Covered:
The 4 lies that keep you feeling powerless
How to shift from a victim to a victor mindset
Why God’s timing matters more than our expectations
Setting healthy boundaries in marriage
The truth about submission & faith over fear
Free Resources! 🔹 Download: Five Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells → Visit greaterimpactwives.org 🔹 Take our Free Marriage Assessment! 💬 Let us know in the comments: Which mindset shift resonated with you the most?
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Welcome to today’s episode of What to Say & How to Say It! Are you the villain or the victim in your marriage? Or is your spouse? Licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove and host Nina Roesner dive deep into how these roles play out in relationships—and how your perception shapes everything.
We’ll uncover:
✅ The exhausting cycle of victimhood
✅ How villains are created (and why it’s not always what you think)
✅ The power of perception in relationships
✅ What God says about complaining and taking thoughts captiveDon't let toxic patterns take over your marriage! Take our free marriage assessment at greaterimpact.org and discover your next steps.
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Welcome to What to Say & How to Say It, the podcast that helps you navigate conflict and build a thriving marriage. In this episode, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner continue their series on narcissism—this time exploring healing.
If you've been in a relationship with a narcissistic person, you know how challenging it can be to regain your sense of self. Today, we’ll discuss:
✅ The impact of prolonged exposure to narcissistic behavior
✅ How healing is possible with God
✅ The role of radical acceptance in your journey
✅ How to stop taking things personally and break free from the enemy’s cycle📥 FREE Resources:
➡ Download 5 Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells at greaterimpactwise.org
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In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, Nina Roesner and licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove dive into three key ways narcissists deflect — and how these behaviors may show up in your relationships. Whether you've experienced deflection or have been guilty of it yourself, this conversation offers practical insights to help you improve communication, take ownership, and build stronger connections. 💬 Learn more at greaterimpact.org 👍 Like, share, and subscribe for more relationship insights!
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We’re tackling the tough and often confusing topic of narcissism — what it really is, what the experts say, and how to handle these challenging behaviors when they show up in your marriage. Are you married to a narcissist — or just dealing with narcissistic behaviors? Either way, you’ll come away with practical, faith-based strategies to help you show up differently, set boundaries, and protect your heart.
👉 Download our FREE PDF: 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells at greaterimpactwives.org
👉 Take our FREE Marriage Assessment to check in on your relationship.
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Welcome to another episode of What to Say and How to Say It! Today, we’re diving into a topic that’s becoming more common in conversations: Are you a narcissist? You may have been called one or wondered if you are—but what does narcissism really mean? Licensed professional counselor Kyle Harrove joins us to break it down. We’ll explore the difference between everyday selfishness and true narcissism, how our early years shape us, and what it takes to build healthier relationships.
👉 Take our free marriage assessment at greaterimpact.org to discover where you stand.
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We often break promises, overcommit, or underestimate the work involved in our commitments—leading to frustration and a loss of trust in relationships. In this episode, we explore how inconsistency affects respect and connection, why follow-through matters, and practical ways to avoid this common pitfall.
Download our FREE PDF, 5 Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells, and take our marriage assessment at greaterimpactwives.org.
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Joining us in today's podcast is Madison Agustini, the leader of the Respectful Wives Club on Facebook, to discuss the book The Respect Dare—a 40-day challenge that transforms relationships by fostering deeper respect and understanding.
In this episode, you'll discover:
How The Respect Dare can strengthen your marriage The power of daily challenges in changing relationship dynamics Why respect is a man's greatest need and how it impacts your connection Real-life testimonies of marriages transformedJoin the next Respect Dare challenge starting February 17th!
Take our FREE Marriage Assessment: greaterimpact.org
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Feeling unappreciated in your marriage? You’re not alone. In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, hosts Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner dive into the silent killer of relationships—lack of appreciation. Learn why couples drift apart without realizing it and how small, intentional actions can break the cycle.
📥 Grab your FREE resources:
📌 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells
📌 Marriage Assessment
➡️ Get yours at greaterimpactwives.orgDon’t let unspoken gratitude create distance. Tune in now and start strengthening your marriage today!
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In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Nina Roesner and Kyle Hargrove explore how shared values shape respect and harmony in marriage. They discuss practical ways to identify, discuss, and align core values with your partner—whether it’s about parenting, finances, faith, or conflict resolution. Tune in for real-life stories, expert advice, and actionable insights to strengthen your relationship.
👉 Visit greaterimpact.org to take our marriage assessment and discover more resources. Interested in working with Kyle? Stay tuned for details at the end of the episode!
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In today's episode of What to Say and How to Say It, it's all about the lack of respect that often shows up in relationships, how it leads to communication breakdowns, and what you can do about it. Whether you're dealing with stonewalling or just a communication gap, this podcast provides actionable insights to help Christian married couples rebuild trust and connection.
We discuss how to make the first move with small gestures, understand the importance of giving space, and even address the complexities of the "no contact" approach when things go terribly wrong in a marriage. Tune in for practical advice, support, and wisdom on how to navigate tough moments and re-engage with your spouse.
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Welcome to today’s episode of What to Say & How to Say It – the podcast that helps you fix your marriage! Join hosts Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner as they tackle the thought-provoking topic: "Is self-love or self-respect selfish?"
In this episode, we explore the fine line between self-love and selfishness from a Christian perspective. How do self-care and dying to oneself, as taught in the Bible, coexist? What does it mean to navigate relationships with self-respect while staying rooted in Christ-like values?
We share powerful stories, including how prioritizing self-respect can transform relationships, and offer practical insights on setting boundaries and expressing needs clearly. Plus, we reflect on the cultural confusion around self-love and the role of faith in guiding these choices.
📖 Check out our free resources at greaterimpactwives.org:
✨ 5 Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells
✨ Marriage Assessment -
In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, we're diving into the buzzword authenticity—what does it actually mean, and how can it transform your relationships? Join Nina and Kyle as they unpack the true essence of being authentic in relationships, explore the challenges of intimacy, and share practical tips for growth.
Discover how self-reflection, vulnerability, and faith play key roles in fostering authentic connections. Don't forget to visit greaterimpact.org to take our marriage assessment and access your free guide on how to stop walking on eggshells. Let's get real—starting today!
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In this episode of "What to Say and How to Say It," Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner dive into practical, faith-based strategies for navigating conflict and building connection in marriage. Learn how to become winsome in your communication, even in tough situations, and discover how these principles can transform not only your marriage but also your relationships with children, coworkers, and others.
Download free resources at Greater Impact Wives and start thriving today!
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Welcome to today's episode of What to Say & How to Say It! 🎙️ I’m joined by my favorite licensed professional counselor, Kyle Hargrove, as we dive into a topic that challenges marriages everywhere: "Truth and Transparency"—and how these impact your relationship.
We’re exploring the tricky dynamics of honesty:
When is telling the truth healing, and when can it cause harm? How do we navigate transparency in ways that build trust without unnecessarily wounding our spouse? Why are we, as a culture, so prone to dodging honesty—often without realizing it?The truth can set us free, but it requires wisdom, timing, and grace. This episode will give you insight into understanding the role of truth in your marriage and practical ways to communicate effectively without blowing things up.
👉 Take Our FREE Marriage Assessment:
Find out where your relationship stands and how we can help at greaterimpact.org.🛑 Need More Support?
Visit greaterimpact.org for tools and resources to strengthen your marriage.👍 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell so you don’t miss our next episode!
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Welcome to What to Say & How to Say It, the podcast designed to help you transform your Christian marriage! Today, we’re tackling a tough but crucial topic: 4 things you need to know when trust is broken in your relationship.
Why is this even a topic for Christian marriages? Because, like everyone else, we face struggles—but with God’s help, we can heal and rebuild.
Join our host and licensed professional counselor, Kyle Hargrove, as we dive into understanding broken trust, its challenges, and how to move forward in a way that honors God and strengthens your marriage.
💡 Key Topics Covered:
What happens when forgiveness doesn’t mean immediate trust. The role of confirmation bias in damaged relationships. How small things, like forgetting milk, can feel exponentially bigger after betrayal. Practical steps for rebuilding trust with wisdom and faith.🌟 Need support? Visit Greater Impact to take our marriage assessment and discover tools to navigate your challenges—whether you’re in a season of struggle or success.
Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with others who might need encouragement in their relationships!
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Welcome to What to Say & How to Say It! In this episode, Shy Lewis and Nina Roeser dive into how feminine energy can be a powerful tool in leadership—whether you're leading at home, work, or in ministry. With biblical insights and practical examples, we'll explore how embracing Christ-centered feminine leadership can help you navigate conflict, build stronger connections, and lead with grace and confidence.
📘 Download our free resource: 5 Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells at greaterimpactwives.org.
🎙️ Don’t miss this empowering conversation about stepping into your God-given calling while staying true to your faith and identity. Whether you're facing challenges in marriage or ministry, there's wisdom here for you!
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Welcome to What to Say and How to Stay, the podcast dedicated to helping Christian married men and women navigate conflict and build connection for a thriving marriage. 🎙️
In today’s episode, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner tackle the topic of mental load. From the unspoken expectations in modern marriages to understanding the biological and emotional differences between men and women, we explore how to manage responsibilities and reduce stress in your relationship.
👉 Free Resources:
Five Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells Free Marriage Assessment💬 Let us know in the comments: How do you manage the mental load in your marriage?
Subscribe for more insights and practical advice on building a stronger, more connected marriage! 🙏
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