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In this episode, Doug and Talia discuss the complexities of workplace friendships, particularly those involving the opposite sex, and the impact these relationships can have on romantic partnerships. They explore themes of jealousy, trust, and communication, emphasizing the importance of transparency and emotional intimacy in relationships. The conversation also touches on the role of couples therapy in addressing insecurities and fostering healthier dynamics between partners. The hosts provide insights into navigating these challenges while maintaining fulfilling friendships and relationships.
Chapters
00:00 Navigating Workplace Friendships
02:51 Understanding Jealousy and Trust in Relationships
05:48 The Role of Couples Therapy
09:08 Men and Women: Different Perspectives on Friendships
11:56 Emotional Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics
14:47 Signs of a Healthy Work-Spouse Relationship
17:59 Balancing Work and Home Life
20:49 Final Thoughts on Friendship and Trust
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This great New York Times article “What Sex Therapists Wish We Knew” really sparked some heated conversations and Doug and Dr. Talia wanted to share all of them with you. We talk about comparison being the thief of sexual joy, updating your definition of sex, and the different types of desire. You will definitely want to listen to this one. And don’t forget to share it with all of your lovers!
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Sometimes incompatibility is a death sentence for a relationship, and other times it becomes clear that the way you are communicating your expectations is a bigger problem than incompatibility. This episode will help you determine whether upleveled relationship skills are what you need, or if your issues are truly dealbreakers threatening your longevity.
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In this episode, Dr Talia, Doug and Shanenn Bryant, the host of the Top Self Podcast respond to jealousy provoking scenarios, and test out the Jealousy Scale. Would you be okay if your partner kept a minor infidelity from you? Would you be upset if your partner showed you cute people they are following online or would it more upsetting to see their likes behind closed doors? We’d love to hear from you!
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Love Addiction, do you feel constant stress about what your partner is up to, if they’re thinking about you, why they’re not checking in with you, if their feelings have changed? You might have a love addiction. Do you feel like you are not whole without a partner? Are you constantly seeking your other half? Do you feel like you must become exactly what others are looking for to be loved and accepted? You might have love addiction. Tune in to Doug and Dr. Talia as they do a quick deep dive!
Keywords
love addiction, attachment theory, relationships, communication, self-love, emotional dependency, anxiety, conflict resolution, personal growth, mental health
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10 signs that you are getting “Throned”. Basically, Gen Z rebranded social climbing, and we love it. Throning is dating someone mainly to enhance your own reputation and boost your ego and credentials by association. Tune into this fun episode to determine if there’s any of this going on in your life! And if so, what to do about it.
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A few episodes ago Doug and Dr. Talia dove into signs you may have had an emotionally immature or abusive parent. If you are finding yourself in relationships that have unhealthy power dynamics or communication patterns, those original emotionally immature/abusive family relationships could be the reason. If you blame yourself for other people’s bad behavior, exhibit self-destructive behavior, fear others’ reactions, long for their approval, or if you bend over backwards to manage or “fix” your partner’s emotions to feel less disregulated, you will find your answers here, along with suggestions for continued healing. We’ve got your back, friends.
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Is your phone the silent intimacy killer in your relationship? If it is your phone addiction that is the problem, you would be the last to know. If it is your partner's mind numbing phone use on the other hand, it is probably all you notice. Doug and Dr Talia discuss how our screen use could be negatively impacting our intimate relationships, and offer baby steps we can take to be intentional with our attention again.
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In this Episode Doug and Dr Talia discuss the signs you might not have recognized as a child that your parent was emotionally immature at best, and emotionally abusive at worst. Were they overly moody? Constantly negative and critical of you? Did they invalidate your emotions? Give you the silent treatment? You’re in the right place. Let us walk you through it, and you might decide it is time to talk to someone. You can finally be free of the negative impacts of the emotional abuse.
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Did you know one in four couples sleep separately? You will be amazed by how these couples describe the experience of intimacy in their relationship. In this episode Dr Talia and Doug discuss the pros and cons of couples sleeping in separate rooms. Great for sleep, terrible for your sex life? Or does the great sleep translate into better intimacy? Tune in to hear what couples are saying!
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In this episode, Doug and Dr. Talia ask some tough love questions about the way you fight. Are you fighting to win? Do you bring up the past? Do you get defensive and shut down? Take a listen and see if there are some ways you can level up the way you fight to strengthen your relationship instead of damage it.
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In this episode, Dr. Talia and Doug agree partially but not totally on whether we are more honest when we are drunk. Are we feeling our deepest darkest repressed resentment but unfiltered enough to finally say something? Well, that never turns out well. Are we no longer able to hide our longing and lust for a coworker at a Holiday Party? The question is whether our frontal lobe turning to mush for the evening helps us unleash our truth, or if what we are unleashing is an immature and distorted exaggeration of the truth and that is why we feel regret in the morning.
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In this Mailbag Episode, Doug and Dr Talia take on the many angles, caveats and exceptions to whether liking and commenting on your ex’s posts online is actually OK when you’re in a committed relationship. We’d love to hear your take!
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In this mailbag episode, Dr. Talia and Doug are faced with one woman’s disgust with her boyfriend’s all too close and dependent relationship with his doting mother. On the one hand, how wonderful that he can connect so deeply, that could only be a great sign for your relationship… Right? On the other hand, if he is not capable of fully taking care of himself, are you even dating an adult? Will he be able to take care of you? Or will you be taking his mother’s place?
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In this episode, Doug & Dr Talia chose their top 5 favorite questions to ask a potential partner! Some of the answers will tell you if you would be a good fit for a strong and healthy dating relationship, and other questions might help you determine if your personalities, lifestyles and dreams of your future won’t be compatible long-term.
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Happy Thanksgiving WNF Family! We got great feedback about this Turkey Day episode from last year, so we are airing it again. In this episode, Dr Talia and Doug respond to some very relatable Thanksgiving mail bags. Then we tackle the most common stressors of the season with humor and one or two harsh slaps of seasonal realism. We also offer some suggestions about creating your new holiday traditions. Whether the holidays are a time of great heart warming joy and anticipation for you, or dread, loneliness and obligation, we embrace you and want to share it with you. Gobble Gobble!
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In the second half of this amazing LIVE recorded episode, Doug and Dr Talia dive into how Rhianna’s history of chronic pain might still be affecting her, and she shares with us the professional knowledge she has gained from both her pain journey and her education. She teaches us about Somatic yoga therapy, and takes us through a powerful exercise in awareness. She gives us tips, tricks & strategies to live a more pain-free life.
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In the first half of this amazing LIVE recorded episode, Doug and Dr Talia dive into Rhianna’s personal story of battling excruciating and debilitating back pain at the age of 25. She shares with us how her unexplainable chronic pain affected her mental health and her romantic, family and friend relationships, as well as how she advocated for herself in the health care system. In the second half, dropping next week, we ask Rhianna how the trauma and grief associated with her chronic pain might still be affecting her, and she shares with us the professional knowledge she has gained from both her pain journey and her education. She teaches us about Somatic yoga therapy, and gives us tips, tricks & strategies live a more pain-free life.
@thereliefspace
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We're Not Fine
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In this mailbag, Doug and Dr Talia respond to our listener “Giuseppe”, who is in love with his girlfriend and wants desperately to be supportive of her, but can’t help but notice that she has conflict with so many people in her life. She insists she is not the problem. People either can’t stand her, or have cut her off and she will tell me that she has spent years putting up with their behavior and has finally created boundaries for herself and will no longer accept their disrespect. Who do I believe? How do I support her if I don’t like the drama that follows her everywhere? Help!
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For the third Halloween in a row, our favorite Mystic, Medium, Psychic and Healer Kaya Jelani returns to answer all of our questions! How can we tell the difference between intuition and our own anxiety? How do we know if something isn’t a hell yes and then what do we do about it? How do we know when it’s time to leave a relationship? How do we tune into alignment and misalignment? Can you read someone’s aura? How do you tell your partner they need to evolve or evacuate?
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