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Summary
In this Episode, Jess and Sav catch up on their weeks and discuss Katie's wedding. They talk about the excitement leading up to the wedding, the Airbnb mishaps, and the kids starting school. They also touch on the topic of children getting their hair done at a young age.
Katie joins the conversation and shares her experience of the rehearsal dinner and the wedding. They discuss the delicious food, the dancing, and the overall joy of the event.
They also talk about the emotions and post-wedding blues they are feeling. They cover various moments and experiences from the wedding, including the importance of turning off phones during the ceremony, the heartfelt vows, the misplacement of vow booklets, funny moments with the videographer and photographer, dancing and partying, and the energetic entrances of the bridal party.
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In this part of the episode, Jess and Sav discuss various topics, including dental issues, upcoming weddings, and their personal experiences with relationships. They also talk about the benefits of therapy and the importance of finding a therapist who understands and connects with you. The conversation ends with a lighthearted discussion about mispronounced words.
They also talk about a strange email they received from a listener and discuss Jess’s recent dream about Sav’s ex fiance and what it may have meant. They touch on the pressure for influencers to continue creating content after giving birth and the importance of taking time for rest and recovery.
In the final part of the episode, Sav and Jess discuss their experiences with Instacart and grocery shopping at different stores. They also touch on their favorite reality TV shows, including Love Island UK and The Bachelorette. The conversation ends with excitement for Katie's upcoming wedding.
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In this episode, Jess and Sav discuss various topics including work stress, allergies, personal hair care, landlord issues, and their dating/marriage situations. They both express feeling burnt out and tired, and Jess contemplates making a career change. They also talk about the challenges of being a woman and dealing with menstrual cycles and how that affects the way they show up for themselves and others daily.
Sav shares her detachment issues in her situation-ship with John, who is busy with work and internships. They discuss the importance of setting expectations and being open and honest in relationships. They talk Bachelorette', back-to-school shopping, and the challenges of therapy in relationships. They share personal experiences and offer advice on navigating these situations.
And in this final parts of the episode, Jess and Sav discuss relationships, parenting, and personal growth. They touch on the frequency of sex in a relationship, the challenges of co-parenting, and the importance of open communication and acceptance in a partnership. They also discuss their evolving views on religion and the need to let go of judgment and control. The conversation ends with a lighthearted discussion about the reality TV show Love is Blind UK and their plans for the upcoming week.
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In this episode, Jess and Sav discuss their dislike for ASMR videos and their fascination with watching young girls on social media. They also talk about their experiences with makeup and receiving PR packages. Sav shares her recent experience at a hair salon and Jess talks about her daughter's dental appointments. Sav and Jess discuss their childhood experiences with orthodontists and reminisce about getting braces. They also talk about their children growing up in a different technological era and how they are more advanced than they were at their age. They mention their experiences with MySpace and the difficulty of accessing their old accounts. They then transition to discussing the latest episode of The Bachelorette and share their thoughts on the contestants. They also talk about the TV shows Lost and Heroes. Lastly, they mention getting their hair done and the importance of finding a backup hairstylist. In this final part of the conversation, Jess and Sav discuss the strong connections they form with their clients as hairstylists. They talk about the different phases of life they go through with their clients, from breakups to marriages to pregnancies. They emphasize the importance of trust and the role of a hairstylist as a listener and sometimes even a therapist. They also touch on the topic of child safety and the importance of teaching children to seek help from trustworthy individuals in case they get separated from their parents.
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In this episode, Sav is BACK! Jess and Sav catch up on their lives and discuss various topics, including dental procedures, childhood memories, their experiences with substances, and their fears of jumping out of a plane. They also celebrate Sav's recent award!
They chat about relationships, amusement park experiences, The Bachelorette, and tampons. They discuss their experiences with relationships and the importance of finding someone who supports and loves them.
Sav's mom's accidentally sending a screenshot of her fiance's genitalia to the family, the strict rules about dog poop in Sav's friend's apartment complex, and the challenges Sav is facing with her landlord and the lack of privacy in her current living situation. They also touch on the frequency of sex in relationships and the importance of communication and understanding each other's needs.
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*Congrats Sav & Indigo Hair Studio on winning Best of Rhode Island's East Bay Color Specialists! *
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This week, Jess and Tim have a solo episode where they answer relationship-focused questions. They discuss their love for each other, their fears in the relationship, moments of vulnerability, and triggers.
They talk about trust, personal phone calls, and their future together. They also share their appreciation for each other and talk about their favorite moments in their relationship. The conversation ends with a mention of a local hair studio that they recommend.
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In this episode, Sav and Jess catch up on their day and discuss various topics, including family outings, shopping, personal milestones, and annoying neighbors. They also mention upcoming plans, such as a trip to Hershey Park. They chat about political divisions, The Bachelorette, and Love Island and share their thoughts on the show.
They discuss bosses confessing their love to employees, having sex with exes, and dealing with the aftermath of a breakup, overstimulation, and a discussion about an 'Am I the Asshole' situation involving a Muslim woman asking her friend to take down bachelorette party photos.
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** Trigger warning** There is mention of Sexual Assault in this episode.
This episode Jess & Sav are going deeper! Finally, the long awaited "Baby Daddy" origin story!
They discuss Jess's past relationship with her daughter's father, and recalls the night when everything started. Jess reflects on the manipulative and hurtful behavior of her baby daddy and how it has affected her. She also discusses the possibility of him wanting to be involved in their child's life in the future.
They reflect on the lack of remorse and responsibility shown by the sperm donor and the impact it has had on Jess's life. Despite the trauma, Jess has found healing and strength in her journey as a mother. They also discuss the importance of keeping records and documentation in situations like these. Overall, the conversation highlights the resilience and growth that Jess has experienced throughout her journey.
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In this episode, Jess and Sav discuss various topics including Katie's bridal shower, dental issues, books, music, and upcoming plans. They also talk about the importance of friendships and shared experiences. Sav expresses her gratitude for having her friend Jen back in her life and the joy of experiencing moments with someone else. They also touch on the challenges of introducing their dogs to each other.
They touch on other various topics, including the dominance of dogs, the challenges of living alone, giving cell phones to kids, and famous people joining OnlyFans to sell pictures of their feet. Sav finds herself in a Google search results, business awards, parenting, and nudity around children.
They express their concerns about the potential consequences of having an OnlyFans account and the impact it could have on their children's lives. They also discuss the challenges and rewards of being self-made business owners. The conversation then shifts to Nick Cannon and his 12 children with multiple women, and the question of how involved he is in their lives. They also touch on the topic of nudity around children and the age at which it becomes inappropriate. In this final part of the conversation, Jess and Sav reflect on their personal growth and the support they've received from their listeners. They discuss their favorite TV shows and plan to share embarrassing dating stories from their audience in the next episode.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Catching Up
00:34 Celebrating Milestones and Making Memories
06:51 The Power of Friendship
09:28 Exploring New Music
15:50 Attending Levitate Music Festival
21:56 The Importance of Shared Experiences
22:48 Considering Living Arrangements
23:15 The Aggression of Female Dogs
23:18 The Dynamics of Dog Dominance
25:29 The Challenges of Living Alone
31:18 Bounce Houses and Family Fun
33:33 The Controversy of Children and Cell Phones
44:13 Lily Allen and the Rise of OnlyFans
45:52 Nick Cannon's Insured Testicles and Co-Parenting Challenges
54:33 The Controversy of Nudity: Jenna Bush Hager's Perspective
01:00:18 Parenting Boys vs. Girls: Different Experiences and Challenges
01:06:41 The Importance of Empathy in Parenting
01:07:30 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Listener Support
01:19:29 TV Shows and Documentaries: Recommendations and Discussion
01:23:17 Calling for Embarrassing Dating Stories from the Audience
01:27:34 podcast intro1.mp4
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In this episode, Sav was missing due to being a bomb boss working babe, so Tim stepped in as the resident understudy! They discuss various topics, including TV shows, listener topics, step-parent boundaries, root canals, and therapy. They share their thoughts and experiences on each topic, providing insights and personal anecdotes. The conversation touches on the challenges of co-parenting, the importance of communication, and the dynamics of step-parenting. They also discuss the idea of billing for playdates and the pressure of time in relation to having children. Overall, the conversation is light-hearted and humorous, with both Jess and Tim sharing their perspectives. In this conversation, Jess and Seth discuss various topics including boundaries, gender identity, love languages, and overstimulation. They explore the dynamics of their relationship and how they navigate different situations. They also express gratitude for their listeners and encourage them to leave a five-star review and share the podcast with others.
Takeaways:
Sweet Tooth on Netflix is recommended as a binge-worthy show
Step-parent boundaries can be challenging, especially when both parents are involved
Root canals can be painful and require specialized treatment
It is important to avoid badmouthing the other parent in front of the child
Therapy can be beneficial for improving communication and resolving issues
Billing for playdates can be seen as inappropriate and may strain relationships
The pressure of time can be felt more by women when it comes to having children Setting and respecting boundaries is important in a relationship
Understanding and accepting different gender identities is crucial
Adapting love languages to meet your partner's needs can strengthen the relationship
Managing overstimulation and finding coping mechanisms is essential
Expressing gratitude for listeners and encouraging support
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In this episode Jess and Sav discuss their recent bachelorette party weekend and reflect on their experiences. They talk about recovering from the weekend, their social batteries, and the fun activities they did. They also mention the challenges of being in a predominantly white area and the importance of respecting dress codes. Overall, they had a great time and enjoyed the company of their friends. In this part of the conversation, Jess and Sav discuss their experience on a boat cruise and their thoughts on the TV show Perfect Match. They also talk about their plans for future cruises and their preferences for cremation over traditional burial. They share their perspectives on the cost of funerals and the idea of affordable afterlife options. The conversation ends with Jess addressing rumors about her marital status. In this conversation, Sav and Jess discuss the different types of moms and the pressures of motherhood. They talk about feeling the need to constantly be in contact with their children and the guilt that comes with being away from them. They also discuss feeling pressured by societal expectations and the added pressure of being a black mother. They share personal experiences and reflect on the importance of self-care and setting boundaries.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Recovery
02:50 Activities: Picnic, Photoshoot, Pool Party, Baywatch Cruise, Bike Ride
08:01 Challenges in a Predominantly White Area
15:48 Addressing Inappropriate Behavior
20:30 Fun Times on a Boat Cruise
22:20 Binge-Watching Perfect Match
26:36 Reflections on Father's Day
28:33 Thoughts on Cremation and Afterlife Options
32:54 Addressing Marital Status Rumors
38:00 Different Types of Moms
44:30 Feeling Pressured by Motherhood
47:01 The Added Pressure of Being a Black Mother
49:18 The Fear of Not Doing Enough
52:04 Proud Moments as a Mom
56:00 Navigating the Pressures of Business and Personal Life
01:01:58 Lighthearted Banter and Reminders
01:02:24 podcast intro1.mp4
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Summary
In this episode, Jess and Sav catch up on recent events in their lives. Sav shares about her friend's injury and the challenges she's facing at work.
They talk about Sav's emotional journey after her breakup and her evolving perspective on dating. They emphasize the importance of self-empowerment, setting boundaries in relationships, the vocabulary of high school students, categorizing people as rats or frogs, their busy schedules, and their thoughts on the Aaron Carter documentary.
They share their experiences and observations, providing insights into their lives and perspectives, conspiracy theories, documentaries, parenting opinions, and school policies regarding gender identity.
They discuss their skepticism towards certain conspiracy theories and their belief in the authenticity of the documentaries they've watched. They also share their parenting opinions, expressing that they prioritize their children's happiness and well-being over academic achievements.
They express their support for their children's choices and emphasize the importance of open-mindedness and acceptance. They discuss the importance of prioritizing their children's safety and well-being, the need to allow children to make their own decisions and have their own opinions, even if they differ from their parents'.
They also touch on the topic of dating and how to let someone down gently. The conversation concludes with their excitement for Katie's upcoming bachelorette party and Sav's salon winning a Best of Rhode Island award.
Takeaways
Work emergencies can disrupt schedules and require support from colleagues. Injuries can have a significant impact on individuals and their ability to work and contribute to their households. Attending events after a breakup can bring up mixed emotions, but having supportive friends can help navigate those feelings. Dating after a breakup involves reevaluating what one wants and needs in a partner and being open to new experiences. It's important to communicate expectations and boundaries in relationships to avoid misunderstandings and hurt feelings. Setting boundaries, especially in a work setting, can be challenging but is important for personal well-being. Teenagers' language and vocabulary can be frustrating for adults, but it's important to remember generational differences. Categorizing people as rats or frogs based on their appearance can be a humorous way to observe and discuss physical traits. Grocery delivery experiences can be frustrating and may not always go as planned. The start of summer break can be overwhelming for parents, and finding time for self-care is crucial. Pets' health issues can be stressful and require attention and care. The Aaron Carter documentary sheds light on the impact of family dynamics on mental health and the importance of believing survivors of abuse. The speakers express skepticism about certain events and question the nature of humanity. They prioritize passion and effort over academic achievement. They are open-minded and accepting of their children's gender identity and sexual orientation. They have concerns about schools providing medical treatments without parental consent. Respect your children's opinions and allow them to make their own decisions. Teach your children to trust their instincts and set boundaries. Honesty and open communication are important in dating. Celebrate and support your friends' achievements.Be sure to Like, Follow, and Subscribe!
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This week Sav had to deal with some business emergencies, so Jess and Tim discuss various topics including, the hardest parts of their relationship, navigating different seasons, postpartum psychosis, and the importance of communication.
They also talk about their highs and lows of the week and the qualities they value in a partner. Overall, they emphasize the importance of support, understanding, and being present for each other.
Jess and Tim discuss various topics, including therapy, postpartum psychosis, autism, TV shows, and social media. They touch on the importance of communication in a relationship and the challenges they face. They also talk about the concept of throuples and polygamy. Throughout the conversation, they share personal anecdotes and express their love and support for each other.
Takeaways
Postpartum psychosis can be a challenging experience for mothers, and it's important to seek support and understanding. Communication is key in a relationship, and it's important to provide feedback and support to each other. Navigating different seasons in a relationship requires flexibility and understanding. Being present and supportive for each other during difficult times is crucial. The qualities of support, understanding, and being present are valued in a partner. Communication is key in a relationship, and therapy can help strengthen the bond between couples. Postpartum psychosis is a serious condition that requires support and understanding from partners. Autism is a complex spectrum, and it's important to approach it with empathy and acceptance. TV shows like 'The Umbrella Academy' and '90 Day Fiancé' can be binge-worthy and provide entertainment. Social media can create a false sense of familiarity with someone, leading to misconceptions and judgments. The concept of throuples and polygamy raises questions about personal boundaries and individual preferences. -
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In this episode, Jess and Sav discuss their recent activities. They talk about their Memorial Day weekends, including beach trips and hiking. They also discuss a disagreement they had about the definition of being self-made. Jess shares her experience with postpartum preeclampsia and the lack of awareness around it. They also mention therapy and the importance of finding a therapist who understands their individual needs.
The girls discuss various topics including a controversial commencement speech, asking uncomfortable questions as parents, a documentary about Nick Carter, and a series of 'Am I the Asshole?' scenarios.
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In this conversation, Jess and Sav discuss their week and recent experiences. They talk about going to an adult skate night, taking mushroom gummies, and the challenges of dating while balancing work and school. They also discuss the issue of microplastics and the impact on the body. Overall, they reflect on their personal growth and the importance of making new memories. In this part of the conversation, the principal themes discussed are: 1) Diddy's abusive behavior towards Cassie, 2) Interracial relationships and the black wife effect, and 3) Parenting and children's mental health. In this final part of the conversation, Jess and Sav discuss the importance of setting goals for their children and teaching them to leave a positive impact on the world. They also talk about the need for boundaries and not giving in to every desire of their kids. The conversation then shifts to the topic of poor hygiene in relationships and how to address it. They also briefly touch on the reasons why men and women cheat in relationships. The conversation ends with book recommendations and a discussion about upcoming plans.
Chapters
00:00 Weekend Adventures and Restful Breaks
03:14 Balancing Work, School, and Dating
07:38 The Impact of Microplastics on the Body
11:30 Making New Memories After a Breakup
15:17 The Importance of Reducing Plastic Use
20:16 Supporting Survivors and Apologizing
21:13 The Importance of Believing and Validating
22:58 Empathy and Imagining the Impact
30:09 Exploring Interracial Relationships
34:55 The Trend of Black Women Dating White Men
41:30 Prioritizing Children's Mental Health
42:11 Teaching Children the Value of Earning Privileges
42:29 The Importance of Kindness in Parenting
42:44 Being Stern with Children and Setting Goals
46:50 Addressing Poor Hygiene in Relationships
47:52 Understanding the Reasons for Cheating in Relationships
01:00:39 Book Recommendations for Strengthening Marriages and Essential Conversations
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Jessica shares her Mother's Day celebration and reflects on the complexities of interracial marriage.
Sav discusses her dating experiences and the challenges of setting expectations.
The girls discuss the importance of communication, being chosen in relationships, pet peeves, off-leash dogs, the need for respect and consideration, and body count.
They touch on the challenges of dating as a single parent and the importance of finding a partner who can support you in all aspects of life. They also reflect on their personal growth and the importance of being grateful for how far they've come.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Mother's Day Celebration
02:00 Challenges in Marriage
04:42 Navigating Expectations in Dating
08:25 Feeling Chosen and Valued in Relationships
27:42 TV Shows and Entertainment
30:11 Enneagram and Personal Growth
41:45 Choosing to Have Children
44:12 Body Count and Relationships
52:49 Tim's 'How to Not Be a D Bag' Segment
53:23 Arranged Marriages and Personal Choices
55:20 Finding a Partner Who Aligns with Your Values and Goals
56:23 The Importance of Core Qualities and Characteristics
59:26 Choosing a Partner Who is Willing to Grow and Learn
01:02:22 Finding Support in a Partner
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In this episode, Savanna and Jessica discuss various topics, including voicemail storage, couples therapy, and the man versus bear movement. They also touch on the importance of teaching children to defend themselves and the challenges of finding the right therapist. The conversation highlights the need for open and honest communication in relationships and the impact of family dynamics on personal growth. They also discuss the disturbing trend of men neglecting their parental responsibilities. Overall, the episode explores the complexities of human relationships and the importance of self-care and personal development. The conversation explores the different experiences and lessons learned from the hosts' mothers. They discuss the resilience and pickiness they inherited from their mothers, as well as the importance of being intentional in choosing partners. They also talk about the impact of their mothers' actions on their own parenting styles, such as teaching their children to navigate chaos and fostering self-awareness. The hosts share their favorite moments as mothers, including witnessing their children's milestones and accomplishments. They also plan a haircut session for their children. In this conversation, Savanna and Jessica discuss their experiences with motherhood and the impact their own mothers had on them. They talk about the importance of having a supportive mother figure during pregnancy and how it can affect mental health. They also discuss the role of mothers in allowing their children to make their own decisions and not projecting their own desires onto them. The conversation touches on the topic of narcissistic parents and the lasting damage they can inflict on their children. They also explore the idea that motherhood is not for everyone and that being a woman does not mean you have to be a mother. Overall, the conversation highlights the complexity of mother-daughter relationships and the importance of creating a safe and supportive environment for children to grow and make their own choices.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Catch Up
02:09 Voicemail Storage and Phone Issues
04:23 Couples Therapy and Finding the Right Therapist
09:56 The Man Versus Bear Movement
13:27 Teaching Children to Defend Themselves
23:01 The Importance of Self-Care and Personal Development
28:42 Lessons from Our Mothers
33:06 Being Intentional in Choosing Partners
38:21 The Impact of Our Mothers on Our Parenting Styles
40:36 Favorite Moments as Mothers
48:42 Haircut Session for the Kids
53:27 The Impact of a Supportive Mother Figure During Pregnancy
54:21 Allowing Children to Make Their Own Decisions
57:30 Motherhood is Not for Everyone
59:43 The Effects of Narcissistic Parents
01:13:04 Creating a Safe and Supportive Environment for Children
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Sav and Jessica discuss their week and share funny anecdotes. Sav talks about going to a museum, losing her dog in the rain, and her frustrating experience with health insurance. Jessica shares her celebrating her anniversary, and starting to read a book recommended by Sav. The conversation also touches on the topic of Sav's ex and their ongoing issues. In this conversation, Sav and Jessica discuss the importance of setting boundaries and respecting each other's boundaries. They also talk about the healing process after a breakup and the need to prioritize self-care. They touch on the topic of marriage and the importance of putting your spouse first. They share their favorite moments from Jessica's wedding and discuss their upcoming plans for a bachelorette party. The conversation ends with a reminder to support the podcast and a manifestation for future sponsorships.
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Catch up with Jess and Sav- This week we talk about how the world did, in fact, not end like Savanna thought, but she did look directly at the sun. Getting asked on a date and getting the ick before even meeting him, as well as another person reaching out about her ex. Jess got her wedding rings resized and can happily wear them again after 3 years. She also discusses how it feels to finally be done having kids and be out of her post-partum depression. We also revisit talking about Quiet on Set since they released a follow up episode. Then we get into our 20 years of friendship and asking some deep questions like How we can be better friends, how Sav felt when Jess got pregnant at 19, our favorite memories together, and then some! Follow, Share, Like, or Subscribe@thisisntapodcast @mrsjessicadurand @savannaosborne
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