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Naomi left the strict Amish at seventeen, and worked for twenty years in adult entertainment, and wrote an erotic memoir about that time. We talk about dating, parenting, boundaries and sex clubs.
1:00 raised as strict Amish, left at 17
4:00 literally pushed to audition by friends
10:00 financial advice from a coworker
14:00 the regret was having to hide it
18:00 online use
21:00 being OUT to family?
24:00 dark days and substance abuse
28:00 coercive partner sex
31:00 leaving the situation
33:00 parenting a kid now
37:00 I know that sex club!
40:00 everybody is different!
45:00 how to prevent sexual assault in small communities?
48:00 communication
53:00 try new things!
Find our guest @AmishInspiration on IG, TikTok
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Miss Mei is a political organizer in Miami Florida and talks sex work, explains what can help prevent trafficking and police abuse, and gives tips on how to look for bad-actor organizations.
3:00 - a friend got her work doing threesomes to begin SW6:00 - they prefer in-person work
9:00 Slutwalk helped lead to #MeToo
12:00 reclaiming the word Whore
15:00 Amber Rose did not invent Slutwalk
19:00 women’s spaces and nonbinary ppl
22:00 no arrests YET
26:00 when the client follows your Other Work
30:00 THEYTALK20 for 20% off MayerLabs.com condoms and lube
32:00 child labor laws in Florida
37:00 a long road ahead about record expungement
40:00 I grew up as a young whore
47:00 @ Jonni_qwest is a pal
50:00 In-fighting
54:00 “Sex Workers and the Left: Pass The Mic” Tryst.Link article
58:00 AOC endorsed anti-SW and homophobic organization NCOSE
1:01:00 “we cannot defeat what we cannot define”
1:04:00 should strippers be able to work at 18?
1:07:00 fibromyalgia and cops
Find our guest at @MultiverseOfMei on Twitter/X/IGFind Decrim305.org
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Mike Stabile is a journalist and documentary filmmaker and ol’ gay activist who has written about and advocated for sex workers and sexual speech for twenty years.
2:00 - I was an anonymous hand once
6:00 - why Twitter is relevant to free speech and liberties
8:00 - Polari - slang speak of gay sailors and sw’s
10:00 gay porn film history and Chuck Holmes
15:00 - what is KOSA and why should we hate it?
18:00 do u want the government to see your searches?
21:00 age verification doesn’t work
25:00 THEYTALK20 for 20% off MayerLabs.com
29:00 do journalists fear cops?
32:00 more fear about retribution?
35:00 why journalists are fooled by cop press releases
40:00 Tim Ballard and Operation Railroad is a scam
42:00 “ending modern slavery” is a red flag
46:00 protecting safety and privacy
49:00 if a journalist contacts you as a SW
53:00 GetTheLayer.com - ELLE code for 10% off
54:00 haters?
58:00 conspiracy theories AGAIN
1:02:00 be your own expert on your life
1:04:00 Lorelei Lee tweet (they/them)
Find our guest on: IG @fauxjob and Twitter/X @mikestabile and https://www.freespeechcoalition.com/staff
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Born in India, neurodivergent, non monogamous, a New York sex therapist who loves sex-positive spaces, let’s talk healing with Nikita Fernandes MHC-LP and learn some healing tips for life and sex.
1:00 meet our guest
3:00 women’s gender studies classes were key to critical thinking
6:00 assimilation as a safety mechanism
9:00 tips for therapeutic movement
12:00 dance, hiking, kink, gym
15:00 medical issues
19:00 The People’s Book of Human Sexuality - Laureano
23:00 coping tips
26:00 more tension release tips
28:00 fantasies around sexual assault
40:00 needing to offload or share to others
43:00 what if I’m not responding to trauma?
50:00 DBT (dialectical behavior therapy)
55:00 partner jealousy and disclosure
58:00 working all the time makes healing harder
Find our guest on: healingwithnikita.com
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He’s telling his life story besides the two random events that led to him working in the xxx industry as a Bull in the cuckold scene. “Thrash: “Penetrating the Business” author talks about filming and life.
4:00 Brickhouse Magazine
6:00 the pros of accessible technology
9:00 @brickhousemag on Twitter
13:00 there’s levels to it
18:00 THEYTALK20 for 20% off lube/condoms at MayerLabs.com
20:00 what is the best part of being a bull?
24:00 filming vs real life
29:00 a one man show on stage
33:00 GetTheLayer.com code ELLE for 10%
37:00 reflecting on the cuck episode
40:00 does Thrash have preferences?
43:00 trends in porn?
47:00 becoming ambivalent to porn
54:00 sex tips
Find our guest on:
IG @thrashculture23
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Pomma is a xxx content creator who tirelessly informs followers on news, legislation, harm reduction practices, and hazards related to online sex work and adult industry work. Let's talk!
4:00 what kind of work?
7:00 money is tight for many
10:00 socialized to be performative as youth
13:00 banned from social media ooops
16:00 FOSTA SESTA
19:00 facial recognition and TSA
22:00 will this get me evicted?
27:00 when your beloved sugar daddy dies
30:00 the athletes of sex workers
35:00 thick models like London Andrews, Valentine Von Bettie
39:00 some advice for receiving shibari ties
42:00 please do not ask to meet us while on paysites
48:00 STRIPPERWRITER 20% OFF FeministTrash.com
50:00 UNICEF supported bad legislation FOSTA and SESTA
54:00 law enforcement raiding Backpage.com owners
57:00 Decrim305, Cupcake Girls, SWOPBehindBars.org
1:00:00 organizations we like
1:03:00 sex tips for our audience?
Find our guest on:
IG: @onlypomma @notonlypomma
Twitter: Succubusluut
Tiktok: Juicypomma2.0 and LeaveJuicyPommaAlone
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His nickname is The Dick Whisperer and he’s spent years perfecting his penis-injections services and science: Meet the founder of PhalloFill . Let’s talk about why some men want to augment theirselves and why you should always follow post-procedure advice!
3:00 - hair removal and penis augmentation
4:00 - the P shot began
7:00 porn, peer comparison, indirect teasing
11:00 how to talk to youth about media
14:00 confidence in the workplace
18:00 let’s talk about complication rates
21:00 increase in sensitivity
25:00 what is Hyaluronic acid?
28:00 explaining the filler and amount
31:00 Phalloboards.info - forum
34:00 he’s the penis master
38:00 more science on filler
41:00 what is fascia?
46:00 example patient who needed a fixjob
52:00 discussing costs
55:00 width vs girth
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She’s a model, full contact fighter and martial arts instructor, genderfluid princess and more: lets meet Sybilla Bakzaza.
3:00 martial arts, baseball, football, sailing, relay racing, US NAVY
5:00 a commentary on Marine culture or US Navy
8:00 (devil dock is a penis joke)
9:00 cross-dressing as an entry
12:00 American assimilation
18:00 what can suck about gym environments
22:00 she has a team of Hulks on her side
25:00 how to screen employers/venues?
29:00 advice on showing up as trans in cis spaces?
32:00 you gotta project confidence
34:00 red flags for clients
39:00 on bullying in the workplace
43:00 what is your support network?
49:00 perception is more powerful than truth sometimes
53:00 some people are only as good/bad as their commanders
55:00 sex tips!
59:00 some inspo and support from our guest
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Let’s explore the history behind masturbation misinformation, pseudoscience and shaming, with clinical psychologist and author Dr Eric Sprankle.
3:00 how he got here
7:00 a vast conspiracy to teach education (elle has worked with PH tho)
10:00 history repeating on anti-porn
13:00 misinformation is the same
16:00 exploring negative online comments
20:00 be a man - destroy your lungs
23:00 how do people feel about the word?
27:00 does ejaculation impact hormone levels?
32:00 what do “sex rehab programs” look like?
36:00 how can masturbation be harmful?
38:00 chemical castration
40:00 high libido does not equal offensive behavior
45:00 sperm vs semen vs female ejaculate
48:00 more about ejaculate fluid
51:00 events causing shame
56:00 online communities and hate groups
1:01:00 white genocide conspiracy
1:06:00 a cute childhood anecdote
1:09:00 Dr Drew - how could you?!?
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Our last episode of this season and O what fun - let’s talk cuckolding! Join Mistress Elle for a chat with her favorite cuckold and hear how he discovered his kinky lifestyle, how he interacts most ethically with the women he worships, and please enjoy some of our funny stories, too.
3:00 how he finds women to worship
5:00 a catholic priest client - Lady Vi
8:00 legal and artistic aid for a friend
10:00 scrotal piercings for a leash
11:00 Mickey Mod and Mistress Gia DeMarco
13:00 first anal cream pie
14:00 Mistress Sandi in Montreal
16:00 his first ever cucking appointment - Mistress January Seraph
21:00 there’s a lot of cum soon
25:00 moral of the story is be yourself
29:00 what’s the best part?
33:00 beneath a woman and helping her
36:00 how to protect yourself from scammers?
39:00 losing friends over it?
43:00 am I gay or less of a man?
47:00 economic impacts?
52:00 Americans are more taboo about sharing
55:00 Shoutout to his Doms
59:00 honored to be the first
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We catch up with our fave herpes educator Courtney Brame for some updates and additional facts about a common virus that many of us live with, and Elle had new experience with. Let’s talk herpes again!
1:00 he gets more topless-views
3:00 a big herpes survey
7:00 clinically massive outbreak
11:00 sex workers + herpes
14:00 consented to not using barriers
17:00 sexual infidelity is a possibility
21:00 herpes location vs Type 1 or 2
23:00 why do lab tests during outbreak?
26:00 20TALKSWIRL2
29:00 sex toy snafu, unrelated
32:00 what is a “normal length” outbreak
36:00 May 2024 results survey + St Louis MO
40:00 how might one get herpes?
43:00 can you get tested without an outbreak?
47:00 sex as a polyam person
51:00 Courtney got a sex toy too small
54:00 jolihamilton.com
58:00 a Feeld app match gone awry
1:03:00 saying no to sex
1:06:00 $2.45Million lawsuit about herpes transmission
1:15:00 elle0ellepdx on TT
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A traumatic attack caused our guest to reframe how she was living her one life. She’s now chosen to work as an erotica writer, a legal courtesan in a nevada brothel, and she’s here to talk about making positive connections between mind-body healing and sex work.
2:00 gang bang playwriting4:00 a traumatic event showed a bird’s eye view of life
7:00 surviving the home invasion assault
10:00 find her at the brothel
14:00 be a nun or get married at 16, literally
20:00 how to screen for clients
23:00 sexting advice
27:00 learn to see the strange as familiar
32:00 on being called “old” now
40:00 a sexy oracle reading
43:00 feel it to heal it
46:00 catholic guilt in the inbox
53:00 empowerment is the underlying theme
55:00 how AI writing scares us
58:00 more sex advice
Find our guest on OnlyFans.com/GoodassGoddess
Find your host Ellestanger.com
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She’s been a top lesbian content creator on Youtube for a decade, now learn what’s next for Bria Kam after years of growing with her audience, and being part of the first successful UK revenge porn lawsuit. We talk love, strapons, and web work!
1:00 how we met
4:00 on making our own porn
7:00 on being “Mommy”
10:00 how did you start filming?
14:00 they won the first ever UK revenge porn lawsuit
17:00 Pamela anderson was done dirty
22:00 only one of us likes sucking D
25:00 advice for people who make X media?
29:00 dating polyam and monogs
34:00 direct porn sales?
38:00 web searching “lesbian porn”
41:00 what kind of porn does Elle watch?
44:00 yes I can orgasm from penetration oooo
49:00 what is your top kink?
53:00 a new hope for love after a breakup
Find our guest on OnlyFans.com/BriaKam
Find your host Ellestanger.com
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Have you ever seen healthcare providers who have no idea what you are experiencing personally? Lucie Fielding is a therapist, sex educator and writer who saw the gaps in healthcare and the biases against trans people by their providers, and works to share info and insight about better clinical approaches to trans sexuality.
2:00 a clarifying anger
6:00 I want clients/people to feel lovable
9:00 psychoanalysis was designed to be intensive
13:00 what does Yes and No feel like in the body?
17:00 “these poor people”
20:00 what is anti-trans sensationalism
23:00 how people are misled to believe transphobia
28:00 what is muffing?
31:00 balls and labia are homologous tissue
35:00 https://fuckingtranswomen.org/
37:00 what are puberty blockers?
40:00 kids choosing their own identity prevents self harm
44:00 “ambivalence is essential to the change process”
47:00 top surgery and boob jobs
52:00 I need help with asking how to name their parts!
55:00 how do we name our parts?
59:00 what is Project 2025?
1:05:00 what’s next for Lucie?
Find our guest LucieFielding.com
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Let’s explore Oregon and and particularly Old Town Portland, which has its roots in racism, beer, gambling and sex work, and predatory policing. This city truly was built by alcoholics and hustlers: Let’s talk ghosts of old-timey Oregon with Weird History Podcast Host and author, Joe Streckert.
3:00 why weird history is important
8:00 tour guide in Portland
11:00 a brief history of Vanport, Oregon
14:00 early Portland history demographics
17:00 beer and gambling and sw
19:00 why is Oregon so white and covertly racist?
23:00 Oro Fino Saloon and enforcement against sex work
26:00 why factory-working women also did SW
29:00 policing and sex work
32:00 Nita Belles is a modern day Lola Baldwin
35:00 psychics, bowling, shooting galleries were targeted by cops too
38:00 Chinese business owners and respectability politics
41:00 Marie Equi and birth control and lesbianism
44:00 a note on eugenics and early birth control
47:00 prostitution and “green” attitudes
51:00 why are Oregon clubs so different from neighboring states?
55:00 all old downtown buildings may have been used as brothels or rooms
58:00 the myth(?) of Nancy Boggs and the floating brothel
1:06:00 QAnon is like early century white saviorism
Find your guest on JoeStreckert.com and WeirdHistoryPodcast.com
Find your host Ellestanger.com
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Bella Cummins has owned her Nevada brothel for thirty-seven years and talks about venue management, what the regulations are like, and how to create a safer and more fun environment for everyone..
1:00 beginning the day at the brothel
3:00 administrative and staff training
5:00 only cis women working here at this time
7:00 decrim vs legalization discussion
10:00 clarification on decriminalization in NZ
14:00 safer working in brothels than outcall
17:00 discounts to Utah residents!
21:00 laundry is important at the brothel
25:00 is this a calling for you?
28:00 how staff can be proactive
33:00 process for business approval by police and city
36:00 law enforcement regulation
41:00 condoms used to be way thicker
46:00 deadname and origin story
49:00 more legal distinctions
54:00 why discounted rates for Utah?
58:00 more on regulated work
1:00:00 sex advice
Find our guest on Bellas.UsFind your host Ellestanger.com
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Do you have sex questions? She’s a Black sex educator who advocates for HIV prevention, sex toy exploration and straightforward communication: Ashley Cobb from Atlanta, Georgia offers straightforward and candid input on common questions about anal sex, penis size, and more.
1:00 began teaching sex ed in 2015
5:00 she thinks redheads are cute
9:00 38 vs early 20’s
11:00 pRep for Black women
14:00 raw sex equals pregnancy or STIs
17:00 syphilis and COVID going up why?
21:00 why to have sex before you get married
24:00 why insecure men might prefer sexually inexperienced women
27:00 how often should I get screened?
31:00 when one of you wants to have sex more often
34:00 ways to be intimate without PIV
37:00 ethical porn discussion
42:00 more anal tips for newbies
45:00 small penis tips and use your hands
48:00 on “sex-negative feminism”
53:00 Somaya Critchlow art discussion
56:00 what’s next for her?
Find out guest on IG @sexwithashley
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She’s a self-taught therapeutic dominatrix and touch provider, who specializes in helping people play and explore boundaries and kinks. Meet Lara the Divine Theratrix and learn about what it’s like to explore feeling big, small, and primal.
3:00 therapeutic approaches to hands-on work
6:00 autism and body language learning
9:00 Dr Stewart Brown - on play and communication
14:00 protection from obsession
19:00 humans are animals
22:00 being fluid and changing
26:00 creative Safewords
30:00 special interests are so important
36:00 JoyClub, Beducated, Fetlife
41:00 discrimination against dominatrix by doordash
44:00 sex workers rights and SWUnionUK
47:00 examples of worker controls or protections
52:00 examples of types of play
54:00 play makes life worth living
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Let’s talk about male bisexuality, biphobia, role-modeling mental health and have a raunchy, fun time with Zachary Zane. He’s an advice writer and the author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto.
1:00 a book about bisexuality and shame
3:00 having OCD as a child and now
6:00 mental health and spirituality
10:00 bisexuality and stigma
13:00 not enjoying sex due to stress
16:00 a darn good therapist session
20:00 how do you role model healthy male sexuality?
25:00 tips on coming out to family members
28:00 more discussion on this ^
31:00 how to address my gf’s biphobia
34:00 Bi-Men, By Women book
38:00 if they aren’t 100% enthusiastic, maybe avoid them
42:00 real non-fiction erotica stories
46:00 theragun in the butt story
49:00 Boyslut things and projects
52:00 cancel culture vs call-ins
55:00 any sex tips for our audience?
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What are your personal ethics around sex work and matrimony? Why do some people share their interactions with spouses and other people hide them? How to support your partner in sex work? Is it cheating to pay for services? Let’s discuss this with a happily married sex worker, Jessie Sage.
1:00 a spicy viral twitter post
4:00 cancer, and caregiver roles
7:00 what work she’s done in sex
10:00 feedback from her clients
14:00 a public-facing nonbinary spouse
18:00 on blaming the sex worker
22:00 oral sex or we aren’t getting married
26:00 helping sex lives of other spouses
29:00 disclosing to your family that you’re dating a sex worker
34:00 keep it simple and name what is happening
39:00 besties who get weird around SW
44:00 outsiders and misunderstanding
48:00 addressing their shame
51:00 how to be a supportive partner article
56:00 @thotscholar, Lorelei Lee writing recommendation
Find our guest on JessieSage.com and Cybelerain.comTwitter.com/Saptiotextual
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