Avsnitt
-
Are you struggling with parenting challenges during the preschool years?
Join Whinypaluza host Rebecca Greene as she chats with Danielle Lindner, an award-winning author, parenting coach, and early childhood education expert. Danielle shares her journey from aspiring lawyer to educator and entrepreneur, offering insights from her book Parent’s Pocket Guide to Surviving the Preschool Years and her work as the founder of The London Day School.
Key Takeaways →
➡️ Parenting is a journey, not perfection. Social media portrays perfect parents, but real parenting is about doing your best.
➡️ Transitions are tough—but manageable. Preparing children for transitions, from preschool to college, helps build confidence.
➡️ Tantrums aren’t just for toddlers. Identifying triggers and responding calmly can help kids of all ages navigate emotions.
➡️ Separation anxiety? Keep it positive. Parents set the emotional tone—confidence and consistency ease the process.
➡️ Technology needs boundaries. Creating a family tech contract promotes healthy screen habits.
📢 Danielle’s Words of Wisdom
🗨️ "Kids mirror what they see—your calmness, your patience, and your confidence shape their behaviors."
🗨️ "Separation anxiety is harder for parents than kids. Set a positive tone, and they will follow your lead."
Visit https://daniellelindner.com/ to learn about her latest book and expert parenting resources.
👉 Enjoy this episode and remember to laugh, learn, and love every day!
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices -
What can we learn from our children as they grow up?
In this heartfelt episode of Whinypaluza Wednesday, host Rebecca Greene and her husband Seth reflect on the valuable life lessons they've learned from their middle child, Ella, who just turned 16. Rebecca shares how our children often become our greatest teachers, offering wisdom and perspective that can transform how we approach life's challenges. Through personal stories and honest reflections, this episode reminds parents that while we guide our children, they also have profound lessons to teach us.
Rebecca opens up about her journey as Ella's mother, from the unexpected early arrival that taught her flexibility to the daily examples of mindfulness and authenticity that Ella embodies. As her daughter reaches this milestone birthday, Rebecca shares how Ella's unique approach to life—her thoughtfulness, her ability to set boundaries, her individuality, and her unconditional love—has shaped Rebecca's growth as a person and parent. The conversation reveals how children can be mirrors, showing us our strengths and areas where we need to evolve.
Key Takeaways
✓ Life happens while you're making plans - Ella's premature birth and NICU stay taught Rebecca that flexibility and adaptability are essential parenting skills. Plans don't always unfold as expected, and that's okay.
✓ March to your own drum - Ella demonstrates the power of authenticity, choosing her path rather than following trends. From celebrating her birthday with a simple game night instead of an elaborate party to questioning information before accepting it, Ella shows the importance of thinking independently.
✓ Live in the moment - Ella's natural ability to be present—whether photographing something beautiful or truly listening to others—reminds her parents to slow down and appreciate what's happening right now instead of constantly racing to the next thing.
✓ Self-care is non-negotiable - Unlike her mom, who loves saying "yes" to everything, Ella models healthy boundary-setting by knowing when to rest, regroup, and decline activities that would deplete her energy. She prioritizes her needs without guilt.
✓ Be a fully present listener - Ella's exceptional listening skills make her a great daughter and a valued friend. She demonstrates that sometimes the most helpful response isn't advice but simply being fully attentive to what others say.
Quotes from the Episode
"Our kids are our greatest teachers, and my kids teach me so many lessons. I think they teach us as much as we teach them." — Rebecca Greene
"If I could go back, I would put things into such a different perspective for myself. The most important thing is that mom is okay and baby is okay." — Rebecca Greene
Connect with Whinypaluza
Website: whinypaluza.com
LinkTree: linktr.ee/whinypaluzamom
Join the Whinypaluza Mom Facebook group for the March challenge
Subscribe to Rebecca's three-times-a-week newsletter for more parenting insights
Look for Ella's special birthday interview episode that dropped on March 7th, 2025.
Don't miss upcoming episodes of Whinypaluza Wednesday—helping parents navigate the joys and challenges of raising kids with humor, heart, and practical wisdom.
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices -
Saknas det avsnitt?
-
What's it like turning 16 and navigating the challenges of high school, driving fears, and ambitious goals?
In this heartwarming family episode of Whinypaluza, host Rebecca Greene sits down with her daughter Ella as she approaches her 16th birthday. Joined by husband Seth, this candid parent-daughter conversation offers listeners a rare glimpse into a remarkable teenager's thoughts, dreams, and wisdom on the cusp of this milestone birthday.
From her surprising candor about driving anxiety to her impressive academic achievements and ambitious goals for the future, Ella opens up about what matters most to her. Between thoughtful reflections on self-confidence, education, and career aspirations, Ella shares insights that reveal wisdom beyond her years while still capturing the authentic challenges of teenage life.
Key Takeaways:
1️⃣ Turning 16 brings mixed emotions – while Ella admits being "scared to drive," her parents provide perspective and encouragement that it's a natural step toward greater independence and freedom.
2️⃣ Ella maintains a remarkable 99.6 average in school through disciplined prioritization, explaining that "the only thing that can't be taken from you is education" – a philosophy that has shaped her approach to academics.
3️⃣ Self-confidence has been a journey for Ella since age 11, but the past year has brought significant growth as she's "proven herself to herself" through accomplishments and challenging experiences.
4️⃣ The Greene family values open communication, with Ella appreciating that her parents "allow us to have hard conversations" while also modeling a strong work ethic and intellectual curiosity.
5️⃣ Ella's ambitious plans include starting a school newspaper/podcast, launching a nonprofit called "Clear Media Project" focused on media literacy, and aiming for leadership positions in drama club and student government.
6️⃣ Her career aspirations include becoming an international correspondent for major news organizations like The New York Times or BBC, combining her passion for communication, writing, and addressing media bias.
Memorable Quotes:
"Trust yourself. You know what you need. You know what's best for you. You know what you are capable of more than anyone else. So the person who it is most important for you to trust in this life is yourself." – Ella Greene
"I think we could all afford to read more so that we could expand our collective knowledge and ability to critically think. That is a change I would make. I would make more people read." – Ella Greene
About the Guest:
Ella Greene is the daughter of podcast host Rebecca Greene and her husband Seth. A high-achieving student with a 99.6 grade average, Ella is passionate about media literacy, journalism, and making positive change. She's an active participant in drama productions, writes poetry, and is developing plans for both a school media platform and a nonprofit organization focused on reducing bias in news media.
Connect with Whinypaluza:
Website: whinypaluza.com
Watch video episodes on YouTube
Follow on Facebook
About the Host:
Rebecca Greene is the creator and host of Whinypaluza, a podcast that embraces life's challenges with humor, authenticity, and a healthy dose of whining. Through conversations with guests and personal stories, Rebecca explores the ups and downs of everyday life, parenting, relationships, and finding joy in the journey.
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices -
How do you stop winter blues from taking over your life?
Rebecca and Seth Greene tackle winter survival mode in this fun episode of Whinypaluza on Wednesday! Rebecca dishes on her winter struggles (she's clearly not Buffalo's biggest fan this time of year) and shares all her personal hacks for making it through until spring. From cozy blanket nests to unexpected winter pick-me-ups, this conversation is packed with real-life ways to boost your mood when the cold weather's got you down.
Key Takeaways:
→ Get cozy and embrace it! Wrap yourself in blankets with a hot drink, good book, or movie - Rebecca swears by this as her top winter survival strategy.
→ Move your body, even when it's freezing. Rebecca forces herself to walk outside, saying the fresh air and endorphins are worth bundling up for.
→ Change up your space! The Greenes repainted their walls from bold red/orange to calming blue/gray, and Rebecca says the peaceful vibes made a huge difference.
→ Cook up some comfort. Winter is prime time for kitchen therapy - the activity keeps you busy, and the delicious smells are instant mood boosters.
→ Light it up! Rebecca's all about brightness to beat the winter darkness - more lamps, twinkle lights, and even special light therapy can make a big difference.
"I want you to get cozy, and think about it - what better time than winter to get cozy on your couch with a blanket, a hot coffee, and a good book or movie?" - Rebecca Greene
"The cold therapy is actually a thing... going out in the cold and moving in the cold creates even more endorphins that make you happier." - Seth Greene
Rebecca invites everyone to join the Whinypaluza Mom Facebook group for more support. She's also excited about Friday's podcast with Diane Sorenson on her "Beautiful Behavior Blueprint." Catch all Rebecca's resources at wineyblues.com, and don't forget to subscribe to her newsletter for regular pick-me-ups!
✅Follow Rebecca Greene
💻Blog https://www.whinypaluza.com/
🎧Podcast https://www.whinypaluza.com/podcast
📙Book 1 https://bit.ly/WhinypaluzaBook
📘Book 2 https://bit.ly/whinybook2
👤Facebook https://www.facebook.com/whinypaluzaparenting
📸Instagram https://www.instagram.com/becgreene5/ @becgreene5
📱TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@whinypaluzamom?lang=en @whinypaluzamom
📺YouTube https://www.youtube.com/WhinyPaluza
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices -
Are you tired of the constant power struggles with your kids? Do you feel like you're losing your mind trying to control their every move?
In this episode of Whinypaluza, host Rebecca Greene talks with Diane Sorensen, a certified Transformational Life Coach specializing in parenting and relationships. Diane shares her incredible journey from traditional parenting to a more connected and empowered approach.
After her own daughter's mental health crisis, Diane discovered the power of relationship-based practices and emotional intelligence in creating a more peaceful and fulfilling family life. She discusses the importance of self-management, setting healthy boundaries, and understanding our emotional triggers. This episode offers a refreshing perspective on parenting and provides practical tools for creating a more compassionate and joyful family environment.
Key Takeaways:
Shift from Control to Self-Management: Traditional parenting often focuses on controlling children's behavior. Diane encourages parents to shift their focus to managing their emotions and reactions, fostering emotional intelligence and healthy boundaries.
Embrace Emotional Intelligence: Emotional intelligence is key to creating safety and trust within family relationships. It involves understanding and working with our emotions and helping our children do the same.
Redefine Your Role as a Parent: Instead of controlling your children's behavior, focus on providing safety, support, and empowerment. Become the change you want to see in your family.
Set Healthy Boundaries: Permit yourself to prioritize your well-being. Setting boundaries is not selfish; it's essential for showing up as your best self for your children.
Embrace the Messy, Beautiful Life: Let go of the pressure to be perfect and embrace the imperfections of family life.
Quotes:
"Triggers are showing up for us, not something that is being done to us." - Diane Sorensen
"It's not about letting them off the hook. It's about creating more freedom for ourselves." - Diane Sorensen
Connect with Diane Sorensen:
Podcast: Beautiful Behavior
Website: https://www.dianesorensen.net/
Instagram: @DianeSorensen.bb
Transform conflict into connection! Diane Sorensen is offering her Drama to Empowerment guide for free, equipping you with tools to navigate power struggles with confidence and clarity—download it today at dianesorensen.net/drama-to-empowerment.
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices -
Are you feeling overwhelmed?
This Whinypaluza Wednesday episode with Rebecca and Seth Greene talks about how to feel less overwhelmed. Rebecca and Seth discuss the importance of setting boundaries, prioritizing tasks, and taking time for self-care. They also talk about the benefits of limiting screen time, practicing gratitude, and embracing imperfection.
Key Takeaways:
Setting boundaries is essential for managing overwhelm. This means learning to say no to things you don't want to do and prioritizing your needs.
Prioritizing tasks can help you to feel more in control and less overwhelmed. Break down large tasks into smaller, more manageable chunks.
Taking time for self-care is essential for managing stress and overwhelm. This could involve exercise, relaxation techniques, or spending time doing activities you enjoy.
Limiting screen time can help to reduce feelings of overwhelm, especially for women who may be more prone to social media comparisons.
Practicing gratitude can shift your focus from what is overwhelming you to what you are thankful for.
Quotes:
"Life is messy. Life is not perfect." - Rebecca Greene
Feeling overwhelmed is a common experience, but there are things you can do to manage it. By setting boundaries, prioritizing tasks, taking time for self-care, limiting screen time, practicing gratitude, and embracing imperfection, you can reduce feelings of overwhelm and create a more peaceful and fulfilling life.
✅Follow Rebecca Greene
💻Blog https://www.whinypaluza.com/
🎧Podcast https://www.whinypaluza.com/podcast
📙Book 1 https://bit.ly/WhinypaluzaBook
📘Book 2 https://bit.ly/whinybook2
👤Facebook https://www.facebook.com/whinypaluzaparenting
📸Instagram https://www.instagram.com/becgreene5/ @becgreene5
📱TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@whinypaluzamom?lang=en @whinypaluzamom
📺YouTube https://www.youtube.com/WhinyPaluza
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices -
How can busy parents help their children develop healthy eating habits without turning mealtime into a battleground?
In this enlightening episode, certified integrative health and nutrition coach Jamie Grupp shares her journey and expertise in helping families nurture their children's well-being through thoughtful nutrition. Jamie provides realistic strategies that align with each family's unique lifestyle, from creative ways to incorporate vegetables into meals to practical tips for school lunches. She emphasizes the importance of balance, education, and sustainable changes that help children develop healthy relationships with food.
Key Takeaways:
➞ Meeting kids where they are is crucial - start with small changes like adding one extra vegetable per day or finding creative ways to incorporate nutrients into their favorite foods
➞ Planning and preparation are essential for success, especially for busy families managing sports schedules and after-school activities
➞ Reading food labels doesn't have to be overwhelming - focus on ingredients you can understand and recognize while being mindful of hidden sugars and processed additives
➞ School lunches should include a balance of protein, healthy fats, complex carbs, fruits, and vegetables - make it a learning opportunity for kids to understand what fuels their bodies
➞ Creating a healthy relationship with food means allowing balance and not completely restricting certain foods - this prevents children from sneaking foods or developing negative associations
Notable Quotes: "I'm not necessarily one to say 'here's what your kids should be eating.' It's more about here are some ideas on how you can take these concepts and make them work for your family."
"The minerals and vitamins that you get from produce do wonders. They help with everything that your body does - they help boost your immune system, help repair muscles and tissues, and support growth and development."
How to Reach Jamie:
Website: fuelinghealthykids.com
Instagram: @fuelinghealthykids
Email: [email protected]
Services: One-on-one coaching, team nutrition training, self-paced courses including sports nutrition and upcoming sleep nutrition program
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices -
How can couples maintain a strong marriage through both simple daily interactions and handling bigger challenges?
In this Valentine's month, host Rebecca Greene and her husband Seth discuss Dr. John Gottman's seven principles for making marriage work, sharing their experiences and insights from their 21-year relationship and a recent marriage workshop they attended. They explore how these principles play out in real-life situations, from handling communication challenges to building shared meaning as a couple.
Key Takeaways:
➞ Love maps are dynamic and require continuous updating as partners grow and change - couples need to stay curious about their partner's evolving interests, preferences, and dreams
➞ "Turning towards" your partner in daily moments of attempted connection is crucial - even small acknowledgments of your partner's comments or concerns build emotional bank accounts
➞ Taking a 20-minute "adult timeout" when emotionally flooded helps partners regulate and return to discussions more productively
➞ Having a 5:1 ratio of positive to negative interactions helps maintain relationship health and emotional connection
➞ Creating shared meaning through rituals, goals, and activities (like reading the same books) strengthens the relationship's foundation
Memorable Quotes:
Rebecca Greene: "I think I have a secret decoder ring for marriage...and I think that the code is to really like your partner. We love them, we fell in love with them, we need to stay in love with them. But I like who Seth is."
Seth Greene: "I learned that all those times of us mentioning stuff during the day is us attempting to connect with each other, and if we respond, then we're putting deposits into our emotions."
How to Connect:
Website: https://www.whinypaluza.com/
Facebook Group: Whinypaluza Mom
Newsletter: https://whinypaluza.beehiiv.com/
Follow https://linktr.ee/whinypaluzamom
The episode provides practical relationship wisdom by combining research-based principles with real-life examples from Rebecca and Seth's marriage, giving listeners actionable insights for strengthening their own relationships.
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices -
Are you and your partner feeling more like roommates than soulmates? Do you struggle to balance communication, intimacy, and life’s daily demands? If so, this episode is a must-listen!
This week, Rebecca welcomes Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo, bestselling authors and hosts of the top-rated One Extraordinary Marriage Show. They share their personal journey from nearly divorcing to creating a thriving marriage and introduce their powerful framework: The Six Pillars of Intimacy.
Tony and Alisa have been married for 28 years, but their journey hasn’t always been smooth. Facing a breaking point, they took a radical step—committing to a 60-Day Sex Challenge. This challenge transformed their relationship and sparked a movement, leading them to write their bestselling book, The Six Pillars of Intimacy, and build a global community of couples striving for deeper connections.
In this conversation, Tony and Alisa reveal how couples can strengthen all aspects of intimacy—not just in the bedroom but emotionally, physically, financially, spiritually, recreationally, and beyond. They offer practical tips, real-life stories, and actionable advice to help any couple reconnect, communicate better, and build a thriving relationship.
✨ 5 Key Takeaways
1️⃣ Marriage is more than just romance—intimacy has six pillars.
Emotional, physical, financial, spiritual, recreational, and sexual intimacy all play a role in a thriving marriage. If one pillar is weak, it affects the others.
2️⃣ Small actions lead to significant results.
A thriving marriage isn’t built on grand gestures—it’s the daily check-ins, small touches, and moments of connection that make the difference. Even just 15 minutes of undistracted time together can transform a relationship.
3️⃣ Communication is key—but it looks different for men and women.
Women often crave deep conversations, while men may prefer action-oriented discussions. Tony and Alisa suggest “Walk & Talk” sessions where couples discuss issues side-by-side instead of face-to-face, making communication feel more natural and less confrontational.
4️⃣ Rebuilding trust takes consistency.
If trust has been broken, both partners have a role in healing. The one who broke trust must show reliability over time, while the other must work toward forgiveness to move forward.
5️⃣ Prioritize your marriage—like you do everything else on your calendar.
Couples often schedule work meetings, kids’ activities, and social plans but forget to schedule time for each other. Blocking out dedicated time for connection—even if it’s just for coffee or a short walk—can strengthen intimacy.
🗣 Memorable Quotes
💬 “We realized that if we didn’t prioritize our marriage, it would fall apart. The 60-Day Challenge was the start, but understanding all aspects of intimacy is what truly saved us.” – Alisa DiLorenzo
💬 “Ladies, if you initiate intimacy—even in small ways—it can be a game changer. And men, pay attention to those signals because we don’t always make it obvious!” – Tony DiLorenzo
💬 “If you’re struggling in your marriage, start small. Baby steps lead to big transformations.” – Alisa DiLorenzo
📲 How to Connect with Tony & Alisa
📍 Website: OneExtraordinaryMarriage.com
🎧 Podcast: One Extraordinary Marriage Show
📖 Book: The Six Pillars of Intimacy
📺 Instagram: @OneExtraordinaryMarriage
Marriage isn’t about perfection—it’s about intentionality. Whether you’re in a tough season or want to take your relationship to the next level, Tony and Alisa provide the roadmap to deeper intimacy. If you enjoyed this episode, check out their book and podcast for even more actionable marriage wisdom.
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices -
Are you tired of hearing negative self-talk about bodies?
In this episode of Whinypaluza Wednesday, Rebecca Greene and her husband, Seth Greene, discuss the importance of body positivity for both children and adults. Rebecca shares her journey towards a healthier relationship with her body and offers practical tips for parents to promote body positivity in their homes. The couple also discusses the impact of media on body image and how to create a supportive environment for children to develop a positive sense of self.
Key Takeaways:
➡️ Lead by Example: Children learn by watching their parents, so modeling body positivity through actions and words is crucial.
➡️ Mindful Language Matters: Avoid using negative language about bodies, both your own and others'. Choose words that promote appreciation and gratitude.
➡️ Media Literacy: Teach children to be critical of media portrayals of bodies and recognize that these images are often unrealistic.
➡️ Focus on Internal Qualities: Compliment children on their character, kindness, and accomplishments rather than appearance.
➡️Mindful Eating: Encourage a healthy relationship with food by fueling the body and avoiding restrictive diets or negative self-talk about food choices.
Quotes:
Rebecca: "I can't tell my daughters to do something that I'm not doing. They're not going to own it. They're going to see right through me, and I have to do it first."
Seth: "I definitely think your self-image is improved. You definitely criticize yourself less."
Rebecca: "I think that beauty comes in all shapes and sizes, and I think that there isn't one form of beauty, and I think that your beauty is so much more than what you look like."
Call to Action:
Share your thoughts on body positivity in the comments below.
Join the Whinypaluza Mom Facebook group for support and community.
Check out the February Valentine challenge on the Whinypaluza website.
Conclusion:
Body positivity is an ongoing journey that requires conscious effort and self-reflection. By practicing self-love, mindful language, and creating a supportive environment, parents can help their children develop a positive body image and a strong sense of self-worth.
✅Follow Rebecca Greene
💻Blog https://www.whinypaluza.com/
🎧Podcast https://www.whinypaluza.com/podcast
📙Book 1 https://bit.ly/WhinypaluzaBook
📘Book 2 https://bit.ly/whinybook2
👤Facebook https://www.facebook.com/whinypaluzaparenting
📸Instagram https://www.instagram.com/becgreene5/ @becgreene5
📱TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@whinypaluzamom?lang=en @whinypaluzamom
📺YouTube https://www.youtube.com/WhinyPaluza
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices -
What’s the secret to taking control of your health and building a stronger immune system without relying on prescriptions?
In this episode of the Whinypaluza Podcast, host Rebecca Greene sits down with Kate Maguire, a health and wellness advocate, entrepreneur, and founder of Benecin, a natural immune-support supplement. Kate shares her powerful journey of discovering alternative health solutions after struggling with conventional medicine in her 20s. She opens up about the importance of self-advocacy in healthcare, simple daily habits that can improve well-being, and how small, consistent changes can lead to lasting health transformations.
From understanding the role of nutrition and movement to breaking free from prescription dependence, Kate empowers listeners with practical tips to take charge of their health.
Key Takeaways:
✔ Listen to your body – You know yourself best, so trust your instincts regarding your health.
✔ Small changes make a big impact – Prioritizing rest, movement, and whole foods can transform your well-being.
✔ Advocate for yourself – Don’t settle for the first medical opinion. Research, ask questions, and explore all options.
✔ The power of nutrition – What you eat directly affects your feelings. Avoid processed foods and focus on whole, nutrient-dense meals.
✔ Natural solutions work – Many natural remedies, like garlic and herbal supplements, have been used for centuries to boost health.
✔ Accountability is key – Surround yourself with people who support your wellness journey and have open conversations about health.
Quotes from the Episode:
🗣️ "Your health is your wealth. If you don’t have a healthy body and mind, everything else starts to fall apart."
🗣️ "Don’t wait for motivation—just take action. Motivation comes from doing, not waiting."
🗣️ "We’ve been taking care of ourselves with nature for centuries. It’s time to reclaim that wisdom."
More About Our Guest:
Kate Maguire is an entrepreneur, wellness advocate, and founder of Benecin, a natural immune-support supplement. After struggling with conventional medicine’s limitations, she embraced holistic health and has spent over 20 years empowering others to do the same. Kate believes in self-advocacy, honest conversations, and simple steps toward lasting health.
A Gift from Kate for our listeners:
Use the code whiny20 at https://bit.ly/40TRsjX for 20% off of Benecin!
📲 Follow Kate: Instagram
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices -
How can couples improve their financial communication and decision-making?
In this episode of the Whinypaluza Podcast, Rebecca and Seth Greene explore Ramit Sethi's book, "Money for Couples." They delve into the importance of financial literacy and open communication in a relationship, emphasizing the need for couples to work together as an economic team. They discuss the four money types Sethi identified: the avoider, the optimizer, the worrier, and the dreamer, and provide insights into how couples can navigate their financial journeys based on their individual money types.
Key Takeaways:
→ Financial Literacy is Essential: Couples need to be financially literate and have open conversations about money to make informed decisions together.
→ Teamwork Makes the Dream Work: One person should not handle all the finances; couples should work together as a team to achieve their financial goals.
→ Identify Your Money Type: Understanding your and your partner's money type can help you navigate financial discussions and decisions more effectively.
→ Start with Positive Conversations: Initiate discussions about money in a pleasant and enjoyable way, focusing on dreams and future plans.
→ Regular Money Dates: Schedule regular "money dates" to discuss finances and keep the momentum going.
Quotes:
Rebecca: "If I can get better with money, you can get better with money."
Seth: "Just because you could do something doesn't mean you should do something."
This episode provides valuable insights for couples looking to improve their financial communication and decision-making. By understanding their money types, having open and positive conversations, and working together as a team, couples can create a more secure and fulfilling financial future.
Go to the blog at whinypaluza.com for more information and resources on this topic.
✅Follow Rebecca Greene
💻Blog https://www.whinypaluza.com/
🎧Podcast https://www.whinypaluza.com/podcast
📙Book 1 https://bit.ly/WhinypaluzaBook
📘Book 2 https://bit.ly/whinybook2
👤Facebook https://www.facebook.com/whinypaluzaparenting
📸Instagram https://www.instagram.com/becgreene5/ @becgreene5
📱TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@whinypaluzamom?lang=en @whinypaluzamom
📺YouTube https://www.youtube.com/WhinyPaluza
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices -
Are you ready to prioritize self-care, break unhealthy relationship patterns, and find financial independence—even if you're not ready to leave?
In this episode, host Rebecca Greene chats with Mary Crocker Cook, a licensed therapist with over 30 years of experience and the author of Bad Taste: Self-Care and Financial Stability for Women with Bad Taste in Men. Mary shares her insights into navigating challenging relationships, fostering self-awareness, and creating small, actionable changes that lead to personal empowerment. With a blend of humor and heartfelt wisdom, she encourages women to focus on themselves, regardless of their partner's behavior, and offers practical tools for improving their quality of life.
Key Takeaways:
Recognizing Patterns: Mary emphasizes the importance of identifying recurring themes in relationships and understanding how early life experiences shape attachment styles.
Honesty and Self-Awareness: Telling yourself the truth about your situation and your partner is the first step toward creating meaningful change.
Practical Self-Care: Learn how to manage finances, protect assets, and establish personal stability—even in the midst of a difficult relationship.
The Power of Humor: Laughter not only lightens emotional burdens but also creates a supportive and nonjudgmental space for growth and learning.
Small Steps Lead to Big Changes: Incremental shifts in behavior and mindset can snowball into significant personal transformations.
Mary Crocker Cook’s book, Bad Taste: Self-Care and Financial Stability for Women with Bad Taste in Men, is a short and practical guide filled with tools and advice for women looking to improve their lives, one step at a time. Learn more about Mary’s work and resources at marycrockercook.com and badtasteinmen.com. You can also find her book on Amazon.
Tune in to the full episode for Mary’s actionable advice and to laugh and learn with Rebecca Greene. Don’t forget to subscribe to the Whinypaluza podcast for more insightful discussions and expert guests!
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices -
What are the lessons Max has taught his parents?
Rebecca and Seth Greene, hosts of Whinypaluza Wednesday, dedicate this episode to their son Max, who is about to turn 18. They reflect on the lessons they've learned from him. The episode emphasizes the importance of letting go as parents, allowing children to make decisions and learn from their experiences. They also discuss the value of setting clear boundaries and expectations, being flexible and adaptable to change, and offering support without constantly trying to solve their children's problems. The hosts highlight the significance of being present and supportive as parents while encouraging their children's independence.
Key Takeaways:
Let Go and Believe in Your Children: Allow them to make their own decisions and learn from their experiences.
Set Clear Boundaries and Expectations: Establish a few important rules and enforce them consistently.
Be Flexible and Adaptable to Change: Embrace change and support your children's evolving aspirations.
Share your thoughts on the challenges and rewards of parenting teenagers.
Do any of the lessons Max has taught his parents resonate with your experiences?
✅Follow Rebecca Greene
💻Blog https://www.whinypaluza.com/
🎧Podcast https://www.whinypaluza.com/podcast
📙Book 1 https://bit.ly/WhinypaluzaBook
📘Book 2 https://bit.ly/whinybook2
👤Facebook https://www.facebook.com/whinypaluzaparenting
📸Instagram https://www.instagram.com/becgreene5/ @becgreene5
📱TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@whinypaluzamom?lang=en @whinypaluzamom
📺YouTube https://www.youtube.com/WhinyPaluza
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices -
"What does turning 18 mean to a teenager on the cusp of adulthood? Max Greene, joined by his parents Rebecca and Seth, shares his insights, goals, and lessons learned as he prepares for this milestone."
In this heartfelt episode of the Whinypaluza podcast, host Rebecca Greene sits down with her son Max and husband Seth for a special family conversation. With Max's 18th birthday just around the corner, they explore his reflections on growing up, what excites and scares him about adulthood, and his dreams for the future. From family memories to advice for younger teens, this episode celebrates milestones, parenting, and the power of family support.
Key Takeaways:
Transitioning to Adulthood: Max shares that while turning 18 feels significant, much of his daily life will remain the same, though he's excited about new freedoms like voting and driving.
Life Lessons: Max reflects on the value of staying busy, noting that he thrives when his mind is active and engaged, avoiding the "slog" of inactivity.
Advice for Teens: He emphasizes the importance of reducing self-imposed pressure during teenage years and encourages others to focus on enjoying the moment.
Cherished Childhood Memories: Max recalls the friendships and fun of his childhood playground days, which continue to shape him today.
Looking Ahead: Max aspires to pursue a PhD in bioinformatics or machine learning, hoping to one day teach and conduct research at a Boston university.
Quotes from Max:
"I’ve learned that I need to stay busy—when my brain isn’t active, I get into a slog, and that’s not where I want to be."
"Don’t feel as pressured as you do during your teenage years. Just do what you like and experience being you."
Conclusion:
Max Greene’s reflections remind us of the beauty of growth, the lessons we learn along the way, and the importance of family support. As Max enters adulthood, Rebecca and Seth couldn’t be prouder of the kind, hardworking, and determined young man he has become. This special episode celebrates parenting, milestones, and the exciting journey ahead.
Please tune in to hear Max's wisdom, humor, and heartfelt gratitude for the family that has supported him every step of the way!
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices -
How do you manage life when your spouse is away? Do you embrace the quiet or brace yourself for chaos?
In this heartfelt and insightful episode, Rebecca and Seth Greene delve into the challenges and growth opportunities that arise when one partner travels for work. Rebecca shares her strategies for managing a bustling household, shifting mindsets, and leaning on her "village" of support, while Seth reflects on the significance of their family dance and teamwork. Whether you're navigating similar situations or simply looking for relatable advice, this episode is packed with valuable takeaways.
Key Takeaways:
Shift Your Mindset: A positive mindset can transform the experience of managing a household solo. Focus on what you can simplify and accomplish.
Delegate and Ask for Help: Involve kids in age-appropriate tasks and reach out to family and friends for support—you're not alone.
Celebrate Wins: Acknowledge your achievements during your spouse's absence, no matter how small they may seem.
Stay Connected: Use technology like FaceTime to keep the bond strong with your traveling partner, especially for kids.
Embrace Imperfection: Adjust your expectations and let go of the need for perfection during a hectic week.
Quote from Rebecca Greene:
"Mindset is everything. When we change how we look at things, we change the whole experience."
Quote from Seth Greene:
"We can do it all, but we really appreciate what our spouse does when we're apart."
Solo parenting and managing the household while your partner travels can be daunting, but it's also a chance to reflect on your strengths, adapt, and appreciate teamwork. Celebrate your successes, simplify when possible, and lean on your support system.
Find community and support in the Whinypaluza Mom Group on Facebook—a free, non-judgmental space to share successes, challenges, and tips. Don’t forget to check out the blog and resources at Whinypaluza.com.
Subscribe, like, and share to keep up with all the valuable insights from Rebecca and Seth Greene!
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices -
Are you feeling exhausted despite getting plenty of sleep? Have you ever wondered why "just resting" never seems to fully recharge you?
In this episode of Whinypaluza, host Rebecca Green dives into the transformative world of holistic rest with Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith, a board-certified internal medicine physician and award-winning author of Sacred Rest: Recover Your Life, Renew Your Energy, Restore Your Sanity. Dr. Dalton-Smith shares her groundbreaking insights into the seven types of rest—physical, mental, spiritual, emotional, social, sensory, and creative—that are essential for a balanced, healthy life. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, Dr. Dalton-Smith guides listeners on how to identify their rest deficits and implement restorative practices to feel truly recharged.
Key Takeaways:
→ Rest is not just about stopping; it’s about restoration. Learn the difference between "stopping the bleeding" and true replenishment.
→ There are seven distinct types of rest, and understanding where you're depleted is the first step toward healing.
→ Emotional rest is about creating safe spaces to express yourself authentically, without judgment or fear.
→ Sensory overload, often unnoticed, can lead to irritability and fatigue. Simple sensory reprieves can make a significant difference.
→ Quality sleep relies on adequate rest in other areas. Addressing rest deficits enhances both sleep quality and overall well-being.
Quotes:
"Most of us don’t realize that just by stopping, we haven’t truly restored."
"Ask yourself: What kind of tired am I? That question can transform how you approach rest and recovery."
More from Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith:
Book: Sacred Rest: Recover Your Life, Renew Your Energy, Restore Your Sanity – Available on Amazon and wherever books are sold.
Take the free Rest Quiz: restquiz.com to discover your rest deficits.
Learn more about her work at her workplace well-being consulting agency, Restorasis.
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices -
What is your word of the year, and how will you stay consistent with it?
In this episode of the Whinypaluza podcast, Rebecca and Seth Greene discuss the importance of setting goals and intentions for the new year. They share their words of the year and discuss how they plan to stay consistent with their goals.
Rebecca's word of the year is "consistent," she intends to focus on being consistent with her healthy eating, movement, work, and relationships.
Seth's word of the year is "centered," he plans to focus on staying calm, focused, and present in the moment. They also discuss the importance of being present in the moment and not letting things get in the way of their goals.
Key Takeaways:
The importance of setting goals and intentions for the new year.
How to stay consistent with your goals.
The importance of being present in the moment.
How to improve your relationships by being more consistent.
The benefits of reading every day.
Cool Quotes:
Rebecca Greene: "I think that eating a ton of protein is really going to help me get to my goals."
Seth Greene: "I am going to focus on staying centered and present and grounded in my awesome stuff."
Thanks for tuning in to another episode of the Whinypaluza podcast! We hope you enjoyed our discussion about setting goals and intentions for the new year.
Don't forget to subscribe to our channel and share this episode with your friends!
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices -
What if shame isn't your enemy but your greatest ally for growth?
In this episode of Whinypaluza, Rebecca Greene speaks with Dr. Abbie Maroño, a psychologist, behavior analyst, and internationally recognized expert in human behavior. Dr. Abbie shares her transformative journey from struggle to success and explores how shame, often misunderstood, can be redefined as a powerful catalyst for personal growth and empowerment. Her insights are drawn from personal experiences and her groundbreaking book, Work in Progress: The Road to Empowerment, The Journey Through Shame. Listen as Dr. Abbie unpacks the science behind emotions, the path to healing, and actionable strategies for overcoming life's challenges.
Key Takeaways
→ Shame is not the antithesis of empowerment; it can drive meaningful change.
→ Understanding emotions scientifically is key to addressing trauma and shame.
→ Facing shame requires self-compassion and a willingness to reflect deeply.
→ Empowerment is an ongoing process of growth, not a final destination.
→ Parents can help children process shame by fostering emotional education.
Quotes from Dr. Abbie
"Shame isn’t the cause—it’s the symptom. When we listen to it, we allow growth and change."
"Empowerment means you can’t use me against me—I understand and accept myself."
Guest Bio
Dr. Abbie Maroño is a psychologist, behavior analyst, and educator recognized internationally for her expertise in human behavior. By age 23, she became a psychology professor and has since been awarded an O-1 visa for extraordinary abilities in science. Dr. Maroño serves as Director of Education at Social-Engineer, LLC, co-hosts The Social Engineer Podcast, and is a sought-after speaker and trainer. Her new book, Work in Progress: The Road to Empowerment, The Journey Through Shame, redefines shame as a catalyst for personal growth.
Connect with Dr. Abbie
Website: DoctorAbbieOfficial.com
Book: Work in Progress
Social Media: @DrAbbieOfficial
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices -
As we look ahead to Valentine's Day next month, we're revisiting one of our most heartfelt episodes of Whinypaluza. Originally aired earlier this year, Rebecca and Seth Greene dive into the transformative power of love languages. Drawing from their personal experiences and insights from the book The Five Love Languages, they explore how understanding your partner's preferred method of receiving love can significantly enhance communication and emotional connection in relationships.
This replay is packed with personal anecdotes, practical advice, and a reminder of the timeless value of expressing love meaningfully.
Key Takeaways:
💖 Understanding your partner's love language is crucial for communication and relationship satisfaction.
💬 Acts of service, quality time, words of affirmation, physical touch, and gifts are explored as people's five love languages to express and receive love.
🤔 It's essential not to assume but to ask your partner how they prefer to receive love.
💌 Simple gestures of love, such as a heartfelt note, can be as significant as grand gestures.
🎁 The importance of expressing love in how your partner desires, not just how you prefer to give love.
Connect with Rebecca:
📘 Blog: https://www.whinypaluza.com/
📗 Book 1: https://bit.ly/WhinypaluzaBook
📙 Book 2: https://bit.ly/whinybook2
🔵 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/whinypaluzaparentingandmarriage
📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/becgreene5/ (@becgreene5)
🎥 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whinypaluzamom?lang=en (@whinypaluzamom)
📺 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/WhinyPaluza
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices - Visa fler
