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  • Hey, Nacho Parents! In this episode, we dive into the whirlwind story of a step couple who faced some major challenges blending their families. They've got a history that goes way back, but things got complicated when their relationship rekindled as an affair. Now, they're dealing with the fallout, especially with one of the kids knowing about the affair. The catch? This kid has no idea that her mom actually cheated first, causing a whole lot of tension and misunderstandings. Join us as we break down how this couple is managing to mend relationships, navigate the truths and misconceptions, and work towards a harmonious future together. You won't want to miss this one!

    In this episode, we discuss:

    Lies cause damage

    Disagreements on household rules and enforcement

    Consequences of affairs on family dynamics

    Do you set the record straight?

    Should you tell your kid the truth about your ex - their bio parent?

    Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories:

    “I Was Ready to Walk Away—Now We’re Stronger Than Ever”

    "Before I found Nacho Kids, I was on the verge of leaving my marriage. The resentment, the constant fights over parenting, and feeling like an outsider in my own home had worn me down. I thought I had to be a ‘parent’ to my stepkids, but all it did was create conflict and push me further from my husband. Learning to Nacho gave me permission to step back, focus on my marriage, and let go of what wasn’t mine to fix. Now, instead of fighting over stepfamily issues, my husband and I are a team again. This method didn’t just save my marriage—it saved my sanity.” ~ Emily S. - USA

  • Welcome back to the Nacho Kids podcast! In this episode, titled "Mother's Day Doesn't Have To Suck For Stepmoms/Stepfamilies," hosts David and Lori dive into the complex dynamics of navigating Mother's Day as a stepparent. With Mother's Day just around the corner, they tackle the often-sensitive issue of unmet expectations and the potential for hurt feelings. Lori and David offer practical advice for stepparents on setting boundaries and communicating desires with their partners, the importance of self-care, and how to embrace Stepmother's Day. The hosts also explore the pitfalls of comparison and emphasize the significance of creating one's happiness. So, join David and Lori as they bring a mix of heartfelt insights and light-hearted banter, aimed to make this Mother's Day a cherished occasion for everyone involved.

    In this episode, we discuss:

    Navigating expectations as a stepmom on Mother's Day Stepmother's Day Focusing on yourself Avoiding comparisons

    Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories:

    The Stepmom Who Thought 'Nachoing' Meant Ignoring

    "At first, I thought Nachoing meant just ignoring my stepkids, but Nacho Kids Academy taught me that it’s really about setting boundaries, respecting my role, and creating a healthier family dynamic. Once I stepped back, I was shocked at how much better my marriage and my relationship with my stepkids became. It turns out, they actually like me better when I’m not trying to parent them!" ~ Amanda R.

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  • In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori Sims welcomes Mae, a stepmom navigating the challenging dynamics of her blended family. Mae lives with her partner, their two-year-old child, and her partner's kids—a 13-year-old girl and a 10-year-old boy. Mae shares the trials she's faced stepping into a maternal role, dealing with stepchildren full-time due to their mother's sporadic involvement. Tune in as she candidly discusses the struggle of balancing her partner’s expectations, managing her stepson's anger issues, and finding harmony through the Nacho Kids method. Whether you're a new stepmom or have been in the role for years, Mae’s story offers relatable insights and genuine conversation about creating a cohesive family. Join us as we dive into these real-life stories, real people, and real help in blending families!

    In this episode, we discuss:

    Behavioral Challenges with Stepson

    Challenges of Disengagement

    Managing Emotions and Responsibilities

    Honesty and Family Conversations

    Future Concerns and Stepson’s Behavior

    Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories:

    The High-Conflict Ex Situation

    "My stepkids’ mom made our lives miserable. It felt like everything I did was wrong, and my husband was stuck in the middle. After joining Nacho Kids Academy, I stopped trying to compete with their mom and started focusing on my own peace. The drama doesn’t affect me like it used to, and my husband and I are finally on the same page. This program saved my sanity!" ~ Kara L., KY, USA

  • In this milestone episode of the NK Podcast, we're celebrating our 300th episode! Join hosts Lori and David as they reflect on five and a half years of podcasting, sharing their journey and the valuable lessons they've learned along the way. From the challenges and joys of blending families to the unexpected twists and turns of stepfamily life, Lori and David dive deep into their personal experiences. They share heartwarming stories of growth and transformation, emphasizing the importance of resilience and adaptability in the face of change. Tune in to hear how the Nacho Kids method has helped them navigate the complexities of stepfamily life and how their podcasting journey has not only impacted their lives but also touched the hearts of listeners around the world. This special episode is a testament to the power of perseverance, connection, and the shared goal of creating better blended family experiences.

    In this episode, we discuss:

    Reflection on Consistency and Challenges

    Adult Children Moving Back In

    Family Gatherings and Dynamics

    Distance in Relationships

    Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories:

    The Stepparent with Adult Bio Kids & Younger Stepkids

    I raised my kids to adulthood, so I thought I knew what I was doing when I married my husband, who still had young kids. I quickly realized step-parenting is NOTHING like regular parenting! Nacho Kids Academy gave me the tools to step back, respect my husband’s role as their dad, and focus on supporting rather than controlling. Now, instead of stress and resentment, our home feels more like a partnership! - Debbie W.

  • In this heartfelt and inspiring episode of the NK Podcast, we're joined by stepmom Whitney, who revisits her story after first appearing on the podcast three and a half years ago. Whitney shares an incredible journey that showcases resilience, compassion, and the power of relationships in the midst of adversity. As a stepmom with no biological children and a 17-year-old stepdaughter, Whitney recounts her experience of supporting her stepdaughter's mother through a terminal cancer diagnosis. This candid conversation delves into the complexities of family dynamics, the emotional challenges of navigating a blended family, and the unexpected bond that formed between Whitney and her stepdaughter's mother. Join hosts Lori and David Sims as they explore Whitney's remarkable story of love, strength, and the unexpected paths life can take. Don't miss this episode, which is sure to resonate with anyone who has faced life's challenges with an open heart.

    In this episode we discuss:

    Challenges in Stepfamily Dynamics

    Stepparent Perspective and Family Dynamics Shift

    The Role of Faith and Support Networks

    Reflections and Personal Insights

    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

    The Stepparent with Adult STepkids

    "I married my husband thinking that since his kids were grown, stepfamily life would be easy. Nope! His adult kids didn’t like me, and I felt like I had no voice in our own home. Nacho Kids Academy showed me how to detach with love and stop trying to ‘fix’ things. Now, I focus on my marriage and let my husband handle his own kids. It’s been life-changing!" - Lisa B.

  • Welcome back to the Nacho Kids Podcast! In today's episode, Lori and David dive into a critical conversation about the challenges and misconceptions faced by stepparents. They explore three common phrases that should never be uttered to a stepparent. First, the hosts debunk the idea that stepparents knew what they were getting into when joining a blended family, emphasizing the unexpected trials involved. Next, they tackle the unrealistic expectation that stepparents should love their stepchildren like their own, highlighting the unique dynamics and relationships within a family. Finally, Lori and David clarify the misconception that stepparents are "parents too," discussing the complexity of roles within a blended family. Join us as we uncover some hard truths and foster understanding and empathy for stepparents navigating these complex relationships. So, stay tuned for an enlightening episode filled with candid discussions and relatable insights!

    In this episode, we discuss:

    General Discussion on Expectations in Life and Relationships Clarification and Healthy Expectations in Stepparent-Child Relationships Understanding Unrealistic Expectations The Complexity of Roles Guarding Against Harmful Assumptions:

    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

    "I thought since I had kids of my own and grew up in a stepfamily that I knew how to be a stepdad. Wrong. My wife and I fought constantly about discipline, boundaries, and how we should treat all the kids ‘equally.’ Nacho Kids Academy helped me realize that ‘equal’ isn’t always ‘fair’ and that my role in my stepkids’ lives wasn’t to be their dad. Once I stopped trying to force things, our home became so much calmer. The biggest surprise? My stepkids actually started coming to me on their own! We owe you so much, Lori & David!" - James T.

  • In today's episode, host Lori welcomes Raffi Bilek, a marriage counselor based in Baltimore and the author of "The Couple's Communication Handbook: The Skills You Never Learned for the Marriage You Always Wanted." Raffi shares his experiences working with couples and emphasizes the importance of effective communication in relationships. He discusses cultural differences in communication, how childhood influences our communicative skills, and the challenges couples face when navigating conversations about money, expectations, and parenting in stepfamilies. Throughout the conversation, Raffi offers insights into improving dialogue and understanding within relationships, underlining the significance of empathy and active listening as keys to resolving conflicts and building stronger connections. Join us as we dive into these essential topics and learn how to enhance communication in our personal lives.

    In this episode, we discuss:

    Communication Skills Expectations and Conflict Empathy and Understanding Emotional Regulation

    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

    Stepmom and Bio Mom

    "Blending families is HARD. I didn’t understand why my husband treated my kids differently than his, and I was constantly frustrated that his kids got away with things mine never would. Nacho Kids Academy completely changed my perspective. Instead of comparing, I started focusing on what I could control—my own parenting and my relationship with my husband. The difference has been incredible. My stress level has dropped, and I don’t feel like I’m constantly walking on eggshells anymore!" - Rachel M.

  • Join hosts Lori and David as they share three very important tips for the stepparent! Listen as they dive into essential strategies for creating a harmonious stepfamily environment. Lori and David discuss the common pitfalls stepparents might be falling into without even realizing it. They explore three crucial behaviors to avoid if you're looking to reduce stress and build stronger relationships within your blended family. From understanding the implications of negative comments about the stepkids to recognizing the importance of not taking things personally and knowing when to step back from disciplining your stepchildren, this episode is packed with valuable insights and practical advice. Tune in to learn how to navigate the complexities of step-parenting and foster a peaceful, loving home.

    In this episode, we discuss:

    Tit-for-tat behavior Avoiding negative comments to family members Adulting versus parenting Expectations

    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

    Childless Stepdad

    "I thought stepping in as a father figure was what my stepkids needed. Instead, it caused tension between me and my wife, and the kids resented me. Nacho Kids Academy helped me see that I was overstepping. Once I let go of trying to parent, my relationship with my wife improved, and the kids actually warmed up to me over time. Now, we get along naturally without me feeling like an outsider or a disciplinarian. We enjoy being around each other now!" - Mark D. “Proud Nacho Stepdad”

  • Welcome to the Nacho Kids Podcast. In this episode, Lori sits down with our guest to delve into the intricate dynamics of blended families. Our guest shares poignant experiences from her life, starting with her father's remarriage and extending to her journey as a stepmother.

    We explore the early stages of blending families, the delicate process of introducing her two children to her new husband, and the joys and challenges of family traditions. The guest opens up about the emotional turmoil and boundaries set with her stepdaughter and the tension caused by the stepdaughter's biological mother.

    We'll also hear reflections on parenting after loss, navigating financial entanglements, and the significance of maintaining boundaries for personal growth. Tune in as we unpack the complexities of family, love, and resilience in this intimate discussion about building a cohesive family unit amidst life's ever-changing landscapes. Let's dive right in!

    In this episode, we discuss:

    Emotional Turmoil Managing Social Media and Family Privacy Emotional and Logistical Complexities Parental Alienation

    Nacho Kids testimonial:

    Transforming Our Family

    "The Nacho Kids Method completely changed our blended family. By stepping back and letting my partner parent, I found peace and clarity. Our home is calmer, and I’ve built stronger relationships without the constant stress. It truly saved us!" - Sarah T.

  • Welcome back to NK Podcast Shared! In today's episode, Lori dives into the intricate world of step-parenting and maintaining a harmonious blended family. Join her as she chats with Jessica, a Licensed Professional Counselor Associate from North Texas, who shares her journey of being a full-time stepmom to a 10-year-old while navigating the complexities of a custody battle and fostering a positive co-parenting dynamic.

    Jessica emphasizes the power of not taking things personally to reduce stress and negativity and the benefits of using Trust-Based Relationship Intervention (TBRI) to build trust and stability within her family. As she discusses the challenges and strategies involved in blending families, Jessica provides invaluable insights into maintaining a neutral role, fostering empathy, and creating lasting family rituals to strengthen bonds.

    Tune in for practical advice on intentional parenting, self-awareness, and effective communication, all aimed at providing stability and joy in blended family dynamics. And of course, don’t miss the hosts’ light-hearted closing where they remind us, "Life is good when you nacho." Let's get started!

    In this episode, we discuss:

    Not Taking Things Personally Trust-Based Relationship Intervention (TBRI) Supportive Partner in Stepparenting Self-work and Personal Healing Stepparent Boundaries and Support

    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

    "Joining Nacho Kids Academy was the best decision I’ve made for my stepfamily. I was overwhelmed, frustrated, and feeling like a complete outsider in my own home. I tried everything — and nothing seemed to work. The constant tension with my stepkids and even with my partner was taking a toll on me.

    But when I found Nacho Kids Academy, everything changed.

    Lori and David’s guidance helped me understand that I didn’t have to control everything. I learned to step back, take a breath, and let go of things that weren’t my responsibility. The method taught me how to respond instead of react, and I finally started to find peace in my role as a stepparent.

    I’ve gone from feeling resentful and exhausted to calm, confident, and in control of my emotions. My relationship with my partner has improved drastically, and my home is no longer filled with constant conflict.

    The support inside the academy has been a lifeline. The resources, Q&A calls, and community have made me feel seen and understood.

    If you’re a stepparent struggling to find your place, stop searching — Nacho Kids Academy is what you need. It’s not just a method; it’s a life-changer." - Lucy R., Nacho Kids Academy Member

  • Welcome to another episode of NK Podcast Shared! In today’s engaging discussion, hosts Lori and David navigate the complexities of family life, from the challenges of gift-giving and planning unforgettable vacations to embodying integrity for their children. They dive into humorous yet heartfelt reflections on their kids' awareness (or lack thereof) around finances while considering gifting experiences over physical items. Lori and David also share personal anecdotes about their grandson, Giddy, and emphasize promoting honesty and respect for parents' wishes.

    Tune in as they tackle the tricky dynamics of holiday preparation, setting family goals, and balancing work-life dynamics. Plus, get the scoop on upcoming events like the Nacho Kids meet and greet and retreats geared towards stepfamily coaching. With practical advice, light-hearted banter, and motivational insights, this episode promises to deliver strategies for reducing stress and fostering harmonious family relationships. Don’t miss out on this fun and insightful episode—let’s make this year the best one yet for your family!

    In this episode we discuss:

    Gift-Giving and Past Expenditures Children's Awareness of Costs Modeling Integrity Family and Business Planning Measuring Improvement and Personal Development
  • Welcome to another captivating episode of NK Podcast Shared! In Episode 291, we sit down with Eliana, a seasoned stepmother of 11 years, to discuss the intricacies and emotional journey of step-parenting. Initially overwhelmed by cultural adjustments, language barriers, and the challenge of blending into a new family, Eliana shares how she navigated these obstacles with resilience and a heart full of empathy.

    Our conversation dives deep into the importance of prioritizing the well-being of children, evolving perspectives on family dynamics, and the revolutionary "Nacho Method," which focuses on responding rather than reacting to maintain peace of mind. Lori, our host, explores with Eliana the common pitfalls in traditional upbringing practices, the necessity of self-awareness, and the powerful role of internal ownership of happiness.

    Eliana candidly reflects on personal growth, the struggles and joys of being a stepparent, and how her relationship with her stepchildren has evolved over time. She also touches on the cultural contrasts she's experienced and how maintaining one's identity while adapting to new environments is crucial, especially in stepfamily dynamics. Join us for an enlightening discussion about the adaptive nature of parenting, self-discovery, and creating new family norms in a blended family.

    In this episode we discuss:

    Self-Discovery and Shedding Societal Labels

    "Nacho" Parenting Concept

    Step-parenting Challenges

    Self-Awareness and Internal Focus

    Importance of Prioritizing Children's Well-Being

    Nacho Kids Testimonial:

    "I was always embarrassed by my dislike for my stepkids. Joining the Nacho Kids Academy, helped me realize why I had those feelings, helped me to understand the dynamics of the blend better and helped me have a happy life!! I will forever be grateful to the Nacho Kids method!"

  • Welcome to another captivating episode of NK Podcast Shared! Today we dive into episode NKP290 with our special guest, Kim Early. Join us as Kim shares her profound journey through the complexities of modern behavior, spiritual growth, and the challenging dynamics of blended families.

    Kim brings her unique philosophy, advocating for the removal of polarizing concepts like right and wrong, and highlights the importance of personal choices and spiritual reckoning. Kim opens up about overcoming initial animosity towards her stepson's mother, revealing how she sought peace and enlightenment amidst conflict. She discusses shifting negative thinking patterns, the essence of self-love, setting healthy boundaries, and spreading kindness through community work.

    We delve into the intricacies of family dynamics, from managing holiday schedules to the emotional strains of step-parenting. Kim shares her challenges and triumphs, including her experiences with strained relationships and maintaining positive energy. Don't miss this insightful conversation that promises to leave you inspired and contemplative. Let's jump right in!

    In this episode, we discuss:

    Philosophy on Right/Wrong

    Mindset and Growth

    Boundaries and Self-Love

    Handling Social Media Conflicts

    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

    "I didn’t realize how much stress I was putting on myself trying to discipline my stepkids. Nachoing showed me that it’s okay to let the biological parent handle the parenting while I focus on being a positive influence. It’s been a huge relief, and I’ve noticed the kids respect me more now." ~ Mark L., Stepfather of 3

  • Welcome back to NK Podcast and we're excited to bring you Episode 289, featuring a deeply honest and emotional conversation with our special guest, West Coast Stepmom. She opens up about the complexities and challenges of navigating a blended family. In this episode, she shares her personal journey, from dealing with communication issues with her husband's ex-wife to the escalating tensions that have affected her marriage and step-parenting role. We dive into stepmom’s reflections on loyalty, boundaries, and the emotional toll of feeling like an outsider in her own home. Lori, our insightful host, guides us through conversations about managing expectations, seeking personal growth, and the societal norms that impact stepfamilies today. Whether you're part of a blended family or interested in the dynamics of modern relationships, this episode promises to deliver heartfelt insights and practical wisdom. Tune in as we explore the balancing act between love, parenting, and maintaining one's sense of self amidst family upheaval.

    In this episode, we discuss:

    Boundary Setting

    Respecting the Ex's Role

    Step-Parenting Roles

    Managing Societal Expectations

    Coping with Accusations

    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

    "The Nacho Kids method saved my sanity! I used to think I had to be a 'supermom' to my stepkids, but it only led to stress and resentment. Nachoing taught me how to step back and focus on being a supportive partner. The change in my household is incredible—we’re finally at peace." ~ Sarah M., Stepmom of 3

  • Welcome to another insightful episode of NK Podcast, where we dive into navigating the complex dynamics of stepfamilies during the holiday season. In this episode, Lori sits down with Claudette Chenover, a seasoned stepmom coach, to discuss the common challenges and emotional hurdles that come with gift-giving and family traditions in blended families. Claudette shares personal anecdotes, including a poignant moment when her sister’s exclusionary gift-giving upset her stepdaughters. They talk about the importance of fairness, managing expectations, and how thoughtful, handmade gifts often create lasting memories. You'll hear practical tips on budgeting, balancing family dynamics, and embracing experiences over material gifts to foster connection and joy. Whether you’re shopping for gifts or planning festive activities, this episode offers invaluable advice to ensure your holiday season is filled with warmth and togetherness without the stress. Tune in as we delve into creating meaningful family experiences and keeping the holiday spirit alive in every member of your blended family.

    In this episode we discuss:

    Navigating Holidays as a Stepfamily Stepparent Dynamics and Gift Challenges Establishing Family Traditions in Blended Families Gift Expectations Fairness

    Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting Success Story:

    “A Fresh Start for Our Blended Family”
    "We were struggling to blend our families and felt like we were failing as a couple. Nacho Kids Academy gave us practical tools to manage our roles, communicate better, and reduce the stress in our home. Now, we feel like we’re finally thriving as a team."
    — David and Lauren P., Married 4 years

  • In this heartwarming and humorous episode of NK Podcast Shared, host Lori is joined by the insightful Laura Petherbridge, also known as "The Smart Stepmom." Join them as they navigate the complex dynamics of blended families during the holiday season. Lori humorously reflects on how blended family experiences have contributed to her gray hair and general aging, even joking about needing a plastic surgeon who offers discounts for stepmoms. Together, they delve into the significance of self-care, the value of laughter, and the importance of maintaining realistic expectations to manage stress and disappointment.

    Whether discussing the intricacies of gift-giving, the emotional impact of holiday music, or the critical need to prioritize real-life connections over social media, Lori and Laura offer practical advice sprinkled with wit and wisdom. They also address the persistent challenges faced by stepfamilies, from navigating holiday schedules to maintaining fairness among children. Tune in and discover why, as Lori puts it, "Life is good. When you nacho."

    In this episode, we discuss:

    Self-care and Managing Stress

    Fairness in Gift-Giving

    Managing Blended Family Holiday Schedules

    Handling Emotional Triggers and Nostalgia

    Holiday Considerations

    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

    “Stepping Back Was the Best Thing I Did”

    "I thought I needed to parent my stepkids for our family to work, but it only caused fights and stress. Nacho Kids taught me that stepping back doesn’t mean not caring—it means creating healthier relationships. Now, I focus on being a supportive partner, and my relationship with my stepkids has actually improved!"

    — Michelle H., Stepmom of 2

  • Welcome to episode 286 of the Nacho Kids Podcast, where Lori dives deep into the unique challenges and triumphs of blended families. In today's episode, we welcome back Becky for her second appearance, where she shares her emotional journey navigating life as a stepmother. From handling misunderstandings and intense discussions on their Facebook page to setting household boundaries and dealing with ex-spouse conflicts, Becky opens up about the complexities of her situation. We'll also explore Becky's strategies for promoting responsibility in her neurodiverse stepchildren and finding harmony within her blended family. Grab your headphones and join us as we uncover the real-life experiences, insights, and heartwarming moments that make the Nacho Kids approach a lifeline for so many. And, as always, remember—life is good when you embrace the Nacho way.

    In this episode, we discuss:

    Respectful Parallel Parenting Challenges of Blended Family Dynamics Complexities of Joint Family Events Managing Conflicts and Boundaries with the ex The Concept of Control and Stepparent Dynamics

    Nacho Testimonial:

    “A Game-Changer for Our Family”
    "I was constantly caught in the middle between my kids and my wife, which was exhausting for all of us. The Nacho Parenting Method gave me the tools to take the lead as a parent and let my wife step back. It’s made our home so much more peaceful, and I’ve become closer to my kids in the process."
    — Tom L., Father of 2

  • Welcome to the NK Podcast Shared! In episode 285, Lori sits down with Becky, a stepmom navigating the intricacies of her second blended family. Lori and Becky delve into the challenges and emotional landscape of co-parenting with a partner's ex-spouse, particularly when negative influences and controlling behaviors emerge. They explore meaningful strategies for establishing healthy boundaries, maintaining positive interactions with stepchildren, and prioritizing the well-being of the family unit amidst turmoil.

    Listen in as Becky candidly shares her journey through past relationships marked by infidelity and deceit, the adjustments faced blending families, and her commitment to staying supportive yet respectfully detached. Discover how Becky navigates her roles while ensuring that her contributions bolster the child's environment positively. This episode offers invaluable insights for anyone dealing with complex family dynamics, emphasizing the significance of boundaries, communication, and prioritizing relationship health.

    Stay tuned to hear more about Becky’s path to rediscovering her sense of self, overcoming obstacles, and maintaining stability in a blended family setting. Plus, don’t miss the details on our upcoming meet and greet in Scottsdale, Arizona, on December 7th. Join us for an enlightening conversation you won’t want to miss!

    In this episode we discuss:

    Reluctance to marry Past relationships and trust issues Communication and Boundaries When bio mom bashes stepmom to the kids

    Nacho Kids Testimonial:

    “A Must for Every Stepparent”
    "I didn’t know how to set boundaries with my stepkids or how to communicate effectively with my partner about it. Nacho Kids Academy taught me how to do both in ways that have improved our household dynamics. I recommend this to every stepparent who is struggling to find their place without overstepping!"
    — Melanie G., Academy member for 6 months

  • Welcome to NK Podcast Shared, Episode 284! In today's episode, host Lori sits down with guest Brian Peterson to dive deep into the financial intricacies of blended families. Brian, with over 16 years of experience in financial planning and a personal background in blended family dynamics, offers invaluable insights into managing finances. They discuss the advantages of placing land in trusts, the importance of financial transparency, and strategies to handle the complex finances of blended families. Lori shares personal anecdotes about maintaining financial independence and the emotional challenges that accompany it, while Brian shares his journey from military service to financial planning, and the unique financial solutions his firm offers to blended families. Don't miss out on their candid conversation about maintaining family bonds, balancing financial responsibilities, and navigating the emotional landscapes of loss and new beginnings. Plus, Lori has a special invitation for listeners in Scottsdale, Arizona—you won't want to miss it. So, tune in and learn how to make "Life good when you nacho"!

    In this episode, we discuss:

    Blended Families and Finances Financial Arrangements in Relationships Financial Independence Financial Communication Financial and Family Planning Tools

    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

    “My sister-in-law told me about Nacho at a family reunion. She saw me trying to help the stepkids and the attitudes they gave me, and then the resulting stress it caused me. She simply said, “I heard about this Nacho thing for stepparents. Check it out. It might help you.” I am so thankful I did! And I decided to join the Academy because what better way to learn about it. I am still in shock of how this changed our family! Everyone is much more at peace and I’m finally happy after seven years of stepfamily misery!” A.Q.