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  • This week's Mojo Monday is a thought-provoking exploration of self-esteem and how we can start living our best lives, even when we don't feel confident or worthy. Join Carly as she shares her insights and experiences, and discover a new way of thinking about self-esteem and living a life that reflects our true worth.

    Carly is a counsellor and coach who specialises in building psychological hardiness — the ability to navigate challenge, stay engaged, and take meaningful action under pressure. Her work integrates modern psychology with Eastern and Stoic approaches, helping people build resilience, live with purpose, and respond to life’s challenges with greater clarity, courage and steadiness.

     

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  • In today’s episode I chat with Kevin Cripe, focusing on the transformative power of education and the challenges within the system. Kevin, a passionate educator with 27 years of experience, shares insights from his career, including the creation of a chess program for underprivileged children and his experiences with changing educational dynamics. The discussion delves into the impact of increased testing, shifts in parenting, and the importance of valuing effort over results. Kevin also highlights the role of chess in developing cognitive skills and self-efficacy among students. Discover how fostering challenge orientation and effort can close achievement gaps and shape resilient, confident individuals.

    Key Takeaways

    The evolution of teaching over 27 years: increased testing, reduced instructional days, and shifting parenting styles The importance of structure, rules, and the role of teachers as leaders, not friends The detrimental effects of over-assessment and the value of valuing effort over results Respect for teachers and societal respect deficits: how classroom tone influences student behavior Strategies to engage and motivate disadvantaged students, including challenging them with complex problems The science behind challenging students for better learning outcomes: cognitive architecture and transfer paradox The power of belief and high expectations: stories of students achieving beyond stereotypes The impact of self-efficacy and challenge orientation on student resilience and success

    Timestamps:

    03:06 The Impact of Testing on Education

    06:06 Respect and Authority in the Classroom

    09:03 Valuing Effort Over Results

    12:10 The Power of High Expectations

    15:00 Teaching Chess to Disadvantaged Students

    18:01 Cognitive Development Through Chess

    21:00 Transformative Moments in Education

    26:15 Empowering Children Through Challenges

    29:49 Understanding the Achievement Gap

    32:58 The Importance of Challenging Education

    36:31 Writing for Change: Kevin's Books

    41:21 Personal Insights on Race and Education

    44:12 The Impact of Political Divisiveness on Education

     

    Resources & Links:

    Kevin Cripe Motivational Speaker Kevin’s Books

    Connect with Kevin Cripe:

    Website Twitter LinkedIn

     

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  • In this week’s Mojo Monday, Carly explores the Stoic exercise known as The View from Above, a powerful practice for creating perspective when we feel caught in stress, worry or emotional overwhelm.

    Carly is a counsellor and coach who specialises in building psychological hardiness — the ability to navigate challenge, stay engaged, and take action under pressure. Her work integrates modern psychology with Eastern and Stoic approaches focusing on helping people live meaningful lives without needing to control their thoughts or emotions.

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  • Most of us are living well below our potential and often don’t even realise it. What if the secret to unlocking your best life isn’t some grand change, but small, strategic shifts that anyone can make? Andrew Horsfield, a seasoned expert in psychology, leadership, and human performance, reveals that the key lies in understanding how to navigate the “messy middle” of life, the space between where you are and where you want to be. This episode dives deep into the power of small steps, the importance of clarity, and mastering the art of character. Andrew shares practical frameworks like the “transition with intention,” illustrating how everyday moments hold the potential for profound growth, whether you’re aiming for career success, better relationships, or personal resilience. This episode will help you escape average, beat burnout, and unlock the full range of your potential.

    Key Takeaways

    The Messy Middle: Growth and progress are inherently uncomfortable. Embracing discomfort as a sign of movement shifts our mindset from avoiding pain to valuing progress. Recognising difficulty as a natural part of transformation empowers persistence through setbacks. Identity Formation: Small, definable moments create lasting change. Aligning everyday actions with the person we want to be solidifies habits into core aspects of our character. This makes change sustainable and integrated into our sense of self. Curiosity in Understanding: Extending curiosity beyond self-awareness to understanding others transforms reactive judgments into compassionate engagement. This fosters trust and influence, unlocking deeper connections. Overcoming Limiting Stories: Stories rooted in fear or past pain, not capability, often block potential. Challenging these narratives liberates us from subconscious barriers, making space for authentic performance. Small Achievable Goals: Breaking down ambitions into manageable steps maintains motivation and builds confidence. This approach counters paralysis from grand plans and promotes consistency over time. Pleasure vs. Contentment: Resilience hinges on accepting hardship. Contentment from handling challenges well provides sustainable satisfaction beyond transient pleasure. Memory Curve: Strategic follow-up and application in learning are necessary. Designing deliberate checkpoints ensures learning persists and translates into sustained behaviour change.

    Time Stamps

    03:04 The Journey of Professional Cricket and Acceptance

    06:11 Navigating the Messy Middle

    09:10 The Importance of Achievable Goals

    12:01 Identity and Character Development

    14:58 Clarity and Transitioning with Intention

    19:59 Living with Purpose and Engagement

    23:52 Framing Life and Courageous Work

    25:30 The Reality of Hard Work

    27:28 Understanding Capability and Potential

    29:23 Overcoming Personal Roadblocks

    35:30 The Power of Curiosity and Reflection

    43:37 Learning from Experience and the Forgetting Curve

    45:26 Final Thoughts on Writing and Life Lessons

     

    Resources

    Andrew’s Book: Better: Escape Average, Beat Burnout, Own Your Life https://www.amazon.com.au/s?k=better+by+andrew+horsfield

    Web site: https://www.andrewhorsfield.com/

    LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrewhorsfield/  

    Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/andrewhorsfields

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  • This week's Mojo Monday episode is a poignant reminder that life is short, and the way we spend our time is crucial. Carly shares a heartwarming story about a lunch date with their dad, who's 88 years young, and the wisdom he imparted to their 20-year-old daughter. This conversation sparks a reflection on how we often get caught up in the daily grind and forget to cherish the present moment.

    As we navigate our busy lives, it's easy to lose sight of what truly matters. Carly invites us to take a step back and consider how we're spending our time. This episode encourages us to take a closer look at our values and how they align with our daily habits.

    Carly also shares a powerful exercise that helps us reflect on our time usage and identify areas for improvement. 

    Carly is a counsellor and coach who specialises in building psychological hardiness — the ability to navigate challenge, stay engaged, and take action under pressure. Her work integrates modern psychology with Eastern and Stoic approaches focusing on helping people live meaningful lives without needing to control their thoughts or emotions.

     

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  • Are you stuck in a cycle of overthinking and information overload, unsure how to move forward? In this episode, I chat with Tamsin Simmons as she shares her journey from healthcare management to becoming a leadership coach and author, emphasising the power of the experiment mindset to create meaningful change. Discover how testing small, process-focused experiments can lead you toward your true goals and improve both personal and organisational performance.

    Key Takeaways

    The concept of the experiment mindset and its application across areas of life Imposter syndrome: transforming it into a growth opportunity rather than a barrier The importance of focusing on processes over outcomes in behaviour change The three levers of behavior change: environment, psychology, and physiology Practical strategies for designing and running personal experiments The pitfalls of information overload and the “procrastination tools” of consuming content without applying it How organisational incentives and environment influence behaviour, both positively and negatively The role of curiosity and a growth mindset in sustaining motivation and joy The universality of the experiment mindset beyond workplace leadership, including health and personal development

     

    Timestamps:
    04:44 - Imposter syndrome: from challenge to growth tool
    06:56 - How perceptions of imposter syndrome evolve with experience
    09:02 - Why the experiment mindset encourages resilience and growth
    11:03 - The motivation behind writing The Experiment Mindset
    13:09 - Changes in leadership and organisational behaviour over the last decade
    14:43 - The failures of piecemeal workplace wellness strategies
    16:15 - Moving from knowledge to action: tackling the knowing-doing gap
    18:42 - Why high-quality information can become a barrier when misused
    20:11 - The importance of treating yourself as your own experiment
    22:40 - Real-world example: personal experimentation with diet and health
    26:11 - Understanding individual responses to health interventions
    28:37 - Limiting biases in personal experiments and avoiding confirmation bias
    30:36 - The three levers of behaviour change: environment, psychology, physiology
    32:24 - How incentives and environment influence organisational and personal behaviour
    34:43 - Rethinking outcome-based performance for better wellbeing and results
    36:26 - The role of physiology and physical capacity in high performance
    37:36 - The impact of environment on physiology and psychology
    39:17 - Simple nutritional strategies for sustained energy and performance
    41:16 - Designing meaningful experiments: aligning with your top-level goals
    43:04 - Managing big change by setting realistic, incremental goals
    45:06 - Focusing on process over outcome to foster resilience and curiosity
    47:35 - The power of curiosity and scientific thinking in everyday experiments
    48:04 - Applying the experiment mindset beyond work: health, relationships, and life
    49:46 - Overcoming information overload and “constipation” in decision-making

     

    Resources

    Tamsin’s book The Experiment Mindset

    Website: https://www.tamsinsimounds.com/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamsinkate

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamsinsimounds

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tamsinkatesimounds

     

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  • Carly is a counsellor and coach who specialises in building psychological hardiness — the ability to navigate challenge, stay engaged, and take action under pressure. Her work integrates modern psychology with Eastern and Stoic approaches focusing on helping people live meaningful lives without needing to control their thoughts or emotions.

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  • In this episode, I chat with Dr. Jeremy Thompson as we delve into the complexities of identity and mental health. We explore how early life experiences shape our self-perception and the importance of understanding one's true self. Jeremy shares insights from his extensive experience in family medicine and psychological medicine, emphasising the need to separate negative self-perceptions from one's core identity. The conversation touches on the impact of societal labels, the role of upbringing in mental health, and practical approaches to fostering a positive self-image.

    Key Takeaways

    Self-identity as a dynamic, compartmentalised system                                                      People’s sense of self is best understood as a mix of core positives and externalised negatives, which should be separated rather than conflated.

    Childhood trauma’s impact is modifiable through focused reframing                                      Traumatic childhood experiences leave lasting imprints, but their influence can be softened by actively re-examining and challenging negative beliefs formed early on.

    Authentic self-awareness guides positive choices over societal expectations                Aligning daily actions with one’s true self and natural inclinations, rather than external pressures or shoulds, promotes genuine well-being.

    Labelling mental health issues risks entrenching identities over understanding                 Applying diagnostic labels too readily risks turning complex mental states into fixed identities, which can hinder recovery and self-growth.

    Cultivating inner energy through awareness enhances alignment with true self               Attuning to moments of positive energy signals alignment with your authentic inclinations, serving as a compass for satisfying pursuits.

    The oversimplification of mental health through excessive diagnoses dilutes treatment efficacy                                                                                                                                            The proliferation of mental health diagnoses, many wishy-washy and overlapping, obscures understanding and can lead to self-labelling that hampers progress.

    The balance of nurturing positive traits while managing negatives is central to resilient identity                                                                                                                                        Strong resilience arises from affirming and cultivating your best qualities while consciously managing and externalising negative forces.

     

    Time Stamps

    02:57 Understanding Mental Health and Chronic Stress

    06:02 The Importance of Identity in Mental Health

    08:53 The Impact of Adverse Childhood Experiences

    12:08 The Mixed Bag Concept of Self-Identity

    14:53 Building Positive Relationships and Resilience

    18:00 The Role of Mental Health Professionals

    21:08 Reflecting on Childhood Experiences

    23:55 Values, Virtues, and the Real Self

    28:46 Understanding Personal Desires vs. Societal Expectations

    32:00 The Complexity of Human Nature and Selfishness

    34:55 The Dangers of Labels and Identity

    38:18 Finding Your True Self and Identity

    42:31 Navigating Change and Personal Growth

    46:59 The Role of Identity in Health and Well-being

     

    Resources

    Dr Jeremy Thompson’s new book: https://www.amazon.com.au/Understand-Your-Identity-Jeremy-Thompson/dp/1636986277/

    Website - https://understandyourtrueidentity.com/

    LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-thompson-41a47969/

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/DrJeremyThompson

     

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  • Marcus Aurelius was a Roman emperor living nearly 2,000 years ago, yet his private journal reads remarkably like modern psychological coaching. In this episode, Carly explores a powerful passage from Meditations and unpack what Stoicism, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Morita Therapy can teach us about managing difficult thoughts and emotions. If you’ve ever felt hijacked by overthinking, caught in emotional spirals, or trapped in the stories your mind creates, this episode offers a practical, stoic framework for stepping back, seeing reality more clearly, and choosing your next move with intention.

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  • In this episode with TJ Power, the discussion delves into the impact of modern lifestyle on mental health, focusing on conditions like mild anxiety and depression. TJ Power, a neuroscientist, shares insights from his book "The Dose Effect," which explores how dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, and endorphins can be optimised to improve well-being. The conversation covers TJ's personal journey with dopamine addiction and how he developed a protocol to rebalance brain chemistry. We also discuss the importance of evolutionary biology, the role of technology in mental health, and practical steps to enhance connection and reduce stress in today's fast-paced world.

    Discover practical strategies to optimise brain chemistry, overcome modern lifestyle disorders, and foster deeper human connection.

    Key Takeaways

    Impact of modern lifestyle on mental health Role of dopamine in motivation and addiction Oxytocin and human connection Serotonin's influence on body-brain health Endorphins and stress relief through exercise Practical strategies for neurochemical balance The importance of behavioural first approaches The science of shared suffering and bonding Effects of technology and social media on dopamine Strategies for lifestyle changes to improve mental health

    Time Stamps

    01:12 Modern Lifestyle Disorders and the Dose Effect

    02:04 TJ Power's Journey and the DOSELAB

    04:16 Research Challenges and Funding

    06:05 In-Person vs. Online Interventions

    08:02 Understanding Dopamine

    10:01 Dopamine's Role in Motivation and Anticipation

    11:58 The Impact of Modern Rewards on Dopamine

    13:54 Fast vs. Slow Dopamine

    16:05 The Consequences of Low Dopamine

    18:02 Behavioural Approaches to Mental Health

    20:00 The Importance of Action in Motivation

    21:55 Practical Challenges for Dopamine Optimization

    23:50 Phone Fasting and Digital Detox

    25:36 Dopamine and ADHD

    28:37 Understanding ADHD and Dopamine

    31:59 The Role of Oxytocin in Human Connection

    38:36 The Power of Connection in Adversity

    46:37 Cultivating Oxytocin in Daily Life

    48:43 Exploring Serotonin and Body-Brain Connection

    01:01:24 The Impact of Endorphins on Well-being

    Resources

    Website: DOSELab

    The DOSE Effect: https://geni.us/UFOm – TJ Power’s book

    LinkedIn -  https://www.linkedin.com/in/tjpowerneuroscience/

    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tjpower/

    Website:  https://tjpower.co.uk/

     

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  • This week on Mojo Monday, Carly explores the power of language in shaping our experiences. She delves into the concept of relational frame theory, which suggests that our minds create connections and meaning through language, influencing how we feel about our lives. 

    Carly is a counsellor and coach who specialises in building psychological hardiness — the ability to navigate challenge, stay engaged, and take action under pressure. Her work integrates modern psychology with Eastern and Stoic approaches focusing on helping people live meaningful lives without needing to control their thoughts or emotions.

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  • If you think ease and comfort are the keys to happiness, think again. This episode explores how deliberately embracing life's challenges—through movement, fasting, cold exposure, and mental resilience—can transform your health, happiness, and purpose. Grant Schofield, an esteemed researcher and author, reveals that life's true reward lies in choosing the hard path, strong in the knowledge that it leads to a more vibrant, resilient life.       

    Choose your path, and in doing so, choose your future. And for those ready to take action, Grant’s new book Choose Your Hard distils these powerful principles into actionable step because the path to a better life is a deliberate choice.

    00:00 The Role of an Emeritus Professor

    02:57 The Academic Publishing Industry

    05:54 Understanding Misogi and Personal Challenges

    09:00 Fasting and Autophagy Explained

    12:01 The Science of Metabolism and Immune Function

    15:04 Psychological Aspects of Fasting

    17:58 Preparing for a Fast: Strategies and Mindset

    20:58 Physical Responses and Adaptations During Fasting

    25:51 The Role of Stress in Health

    27:28 Choosing Your Hard: Embracing Life's Challenges

    35:19 Agency and Responsibility in Health

    40:10 Movement: The Foundation of Health

    46:43 Dopamine: The Devil's Seesaw

    52:41 Hard vs. Soft Dopamine: Resetting the System

    53:28 The Irony of Pleasure and Pain

    55:24 Facing the Elements: Hot and Cold Exposure

    01:01:38 Understanding Emotions and Their Ownership

    01:05:18 Finding Meaning and Purpose in Life

     

    Resources

    Grant’s latest book – Choose Your Hard

    Available on Amazon

    Website -https://profgrantschofield.com/

    LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/grant-schofield-32512728/

    X - https://x.com/grantsnz

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Prof.Grant

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@PREKURE

     

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  • Carly is a counsellor and coach who specialises in building psychological hardiness — the ability to navigate challenge, stay engaged, and take action under pressure. Her work integrates modern psychology with Eastern and Stoic approaches focusing on helping people live meaningful lives without needing to control their thoughts or emotions.

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  • In this episode of the Hardiness Podcast, Kim Keedle shares his fascinating journey from a physiotherapist in Melbourne to a performance coach in the high-octane world of Formula One. Kim discusses his passion for working with athletes, which led him to pursue a master's in strength and conditioning. His career took him to the UK, where he worked with Olympic athletes at the University of Leeds, and eventually into the fast-paced environment of Formula One with the Haas team. Kim reflects on the challenges and rewards of working in elite sports, emphasising the importance of focus, resilience, and continuous improvement.

    Key Takeaways

    High-performance habits are rooted in simplicity and consistency Elite performance technologies can be accessible and scalable Managing life’s complexity requires mental models that prioritise purpose Reflection and savouring amplify performance and well-being The discipline of visualisation prepares elite minds for unexpected scenarios The sacrifice of the elite is often misunderstood by outsiders Regulating self-talk by requesting honest feedback improves growth

     

    00:00 Kim Keedle's Journey into Physiotherapy

    02:54 Transition to Strength and Conditioning

    06:00 Experience in Formula One

    09:04 Life on the Road as a Performance Coach

    11:54 Managing Jet Lag and Nutrition

    15:02 Lessons from Elite Sports for Everyday Life

    18:05 Visualisation Techniques for Stress Management

    22:02 Functional Imagery Training and Its Everyday Applications

    24:14 The Transition from Formula One to Personal Life

    26:02 The Pressure of Performance in Sports

    29:56 Lessons from Elite Athletes and Personal Growth

    33:59 The Launch of Pocket Mentor: AI in Coaching

     

    Resources

    Pocket Mentor: https://pocketmentor.com/

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimkeedle/

    https://www.instagram.com/kimkeedle/

     

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