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Are you facing a challenging divorce or separation and looking for ways to save on legal fees by doing some of it yourself? Do you want to take control of your situation and handle some aspects independently? Listen to this episode to discover "Five Things You Can Do Yourself Without Lawyers to Keep Your Costs Down." Laura, a divorced mother of three, and her mother Lynette Galvin, a family law expert with 35 years of experience, share practical steps you can manage on your own. From writing letters to attending mediation, this episode is packed with tips to help you navigate some of your separation on your own with confidence. Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.
Listen to this episode if you:
Are navigating a divorce or de facto separation.
Want to reduce your legal costs.
Feel overwhelmed by the legal process and want to take proactive steps.
Need practical education on handling parts of your divorce independently.
Are looking for ways to reduce stress and gain confidence during this challenging time.
Are worried that the disclosure process or mediation process is going to drain away all the money you’ve got for legal fees.
Smart Divorce Moves: Five Cost-Saving Tasks You Can Handle
Key Points:
Writing Letters: Tips on how to draft letters to your ex regarding your separation and property settlement.
Figuring Out Your Property Pool: Get an overview of how to identify and value your assets and debts.
Full Disclosure: Discover the importance of full disclosure and how to gather and organise necessary documents with or without your lawyer.
Attending Mediation: Tips on attending mediation without a lawyer and what to expect might happen.
Creating Parenting Plans: How to draft a parenting plan.
Overcoming Barriers: Build confidence to tackle these tasks independently and save money.
Seeking Legal Advice: Reminder to get professional legal advice tailored to your situation when necessary.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family court's views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show, you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it are not liable for the outcome of your case.
For Full Show Notes, go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog
For more support, visit www.thedivorcecourse.com.au
Episodes Mentioned
Can you really mediate with a narcissist?
Creating your own parenting orders or parenting plans with the 12 agreements
DIY Divorce Disclosure and Discovery, for property settlement & child support
Useful Resources:
Click here for our free before you leave checklist
Click here for our free mediation checklist
Sign up here for our next free online webinar
Emergency Contacts:
WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
LEGAL AID
Lifeline 13 11 14
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.
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🤔 Are you facing a challenging divorce, separation, or co-parenting situation with a difficult ex-partner? Are you seeking effective strategies to handle criticism, control, and over-explaining in your communications?
🎧 Listen to this episode to learn how the JADE Method can assist you in navigating these complexities, while being careful not to make mistakes that could come back to bite you in the Family Court or at Mediation with this ever-increasingly popular method.
💼 Learn about practical approaches to maintain composure, protect yourself from post-separation abuse, and respond calmly amidst conflict from a family law specialist with over 35 years of experience who has seen it all.
Listen to this episode if you:
Are navigating a divorce, separation, or co-parenting, especially if it involves a difficult ex-partner. Want strategies for dealing with criticism, control, and over-explaining in communication with your ex. Are breaking out of a coercive control situation while going through the divorce or separation process. Are dealing with post-separation abuse after separation. Are co-parenting with a narcissistic ex. Are interested in understanding recent changes in family law regarding decision-making responsibilities for children.Key Ideas:
An introduction to the JADE method (Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain) and its application in dealing with difficult ex-partners.
Discussion on the importance of not falling back into patterns of over-explaining or justifying oneself, especially if the relationship was characterised by criticism and control.
Explanation of recent changes in family law regarding decision-making responsibilities for children, emphasising the distinction between major long-term decisions and day-to-day matters.
Strategies for responding calmly and rationally rather than reacting impulsively in communication with an ex.
Importance of taking care of one's own well-being and seeking support during the divorce or separation process.
Reminder to seek individualised legal and psychological support as needed.
ARTICLE LINK
Jade Method Article by PsychCentral
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family court's views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show, you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it are not liable for the outcome of your case.
For Full Show Notes, go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog
For more support, visit www.thedivorcecourse.com.au
Episodes Mentioned
(Do I really need to respond to that?! When co parenting communication becomes tricky during divorce proceedings.)
Recent Reforms Episode
Word Salad Checklist and Method
(The importance of record keeping during divorce & separation: the what, why, when and how to help yourself in mediation, family court or even just in negotiation.)
(Affidavits for Divorce Settlement in the Family Law Court)
(Pitfalls of premature percentages negotiations in divorce)
Useful Resources:
Click here for our free before you leave checklist
Click here for our free mediation checklist
Sign up here for our next free online webinar
Emergency Contacts:
WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
LEGAL AID
Lifeline 13 11 14
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.
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👥 Are you facing a divorce or family violence legal battle but are feeling financially overwhelmed? Tune in as Laura and Lyn discuss with special guest Kara Cook the vital role of legal aid and community legal services in providing support during divorce and domestic violence situations for those who cannot afford a lawyer.
💼 Worried about facing your ex in backed by a team of expensive lawyers in court? Kara, a community legal service expert, debunks the myth that legal representation guarantees victory, emphasising that the law is the ultimate arbiter and will help put your mind at ease.
⚖️ Learn about the recent legislative changes, including ten days of paid domestic violence leave, empowering survivors to seek support without fear of repercussions at work.
🏫 Discover the tips and steps to take to access a community legal service in your area.
Navigating Legal Aid & Community Legal Services: Your Lifeline for DV & Divorce
Listen to this episode if you:
Need guidance on legal aid and community services.
Want to understand how community legal services or legal aid works.
Seek insight into workplace entitlements if going through family violence.
Are interested in remote legal assistance.
Require help navigating family law.
Key Ideas:
Access to legal aid and community legal services for domestic violence and divorce.
Geographic accessibility and remote assistance via technology.
Legal safeguards regardless of legal representation.
Proportionality in legal representation and judicial scrutiny.
Workplace rights and entitlements for those experiencing domestic violence.
Availability of ten days of paid domestic violence leave in Australia.
Supportive workplace cultures and confidentiality.
Multifaceted challenges faced by individuals navigating domestic violence situations.
This episode provides valuable guidance for anyone looking to get help through community legal programs, women's legal services or legal aid.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family court's views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show, you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it are not liable for the outcome of your case.
For Full Show Notes, go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog
For more support, visit www.thedivorcecourse.com.au
Useful Resources:
Click here for our free before you leave checklist
Click here for our free mediation checklist
Sign up here for our next free online webinar
Emergency Contacts:
WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
LEGAL AID
Lifeline 13 11 14
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.
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Listen to this episode if you:
Are frustrated with a disclosure issue in your divorce proceedings.
Feel stumped by disclosure hurdles on your journey to freedom.
Key Ideas:
Reframing Full Disclosure: Learn why the term "full disclosure" can be ambiguous and potentially derail your settlement negotiations.
Importance of Specificity: Understand the significance of specifying the exact documents or information necessary for your case rather than demanding blanket "full disclosure."
Leveraging Lack of Disclosure: Discover how the absence of disclosure from the other party can sometimes work to your advantage in court proceedings.
Taking Proactive Steps: Explore proactive strategies for navigating disclosure issues and maintaining control over your divorce process.
Reality Check: Gain insights into conducting a reality check on the importance of requested documents and the potential consequences of withholding them.
Overcoming Disclosure Dilemmas: Your Path to Divorce Victory
This episode provides valuable guidance for anyone grappling with disclosure challenges in divorce proceedings, offering practical tips and a fresh perspective on navigating this often-frustrating aspect of the legal process.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family court's views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show, you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it are not liable for the outcome of your case.
For Full Show Notes, go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog
For more support, visit www.thedivorcecourse.com.au
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family court's views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show, you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it are not liable for the outcome of your case.
Other Podcast Episodes Mentioned
https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcastforty (DIY Divorce Disclosure and Discovery, for property settlement & child support)
https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcasteightynine (Disclosure: the what, why, when & how of disclosure for divorce or de facto separation.)
https://link.chtbl.com/DivorceEpisode116 (Deadlocks in Divorce Strategies for Non-Disclosure, Valuation Fights and Stonewalling)
Useful Resources:
Click here for our free before you leave checklist
Click here for our free mediation checklist
Sign up here for our next free online webinar
Emergency Contacts:
WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
LEGAL AID
Lifeline 13 11 14
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.
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Has your ex just told you that they are the bread winner so therefore in the divorce they will get most of the property settlement? Has your ex just quit their job so they avoid paying child support? Has your ex downplayed your contributions in the marriage. Or are you just plain confused about what is considered in divorce when it comes to income/salary/wages. Well this episode is for you.
Learn about how salary and earnings impact property division and child support in divorce proceedings. We aim to demystify the most common misconceptions floating around at the moment and put your mind at ease.
Join our insightful discussion around the concept of earnings, and let us shed light for you on how the courts assess both financial and non-financial contributions when dividing assets. Additionally, learn about the concept of "future needs," which encompasses various factors such as earnings, age, health, and childcare responsibilities.
By the end of the episode, listeners will gain valuable knowledge and a clearer understanding of how the court strives for equitable, rather than necessarily equal, distribution in divorce cases.
Key Points:
Debunking the myth that higher income guarantees a larger share of the property pool.
Understanding how courts evaluate financial and non-financial contributions during property division.
Exploring the concept of "future needs" and its significance in divorce settlements.
Recognizing the court's aim for equitable distribution, considering various factors beyond income alone.
Learning about the word “CAPACITY” and what it means in the court and what it means for CHILD SUPPORT & PROPERTY SETTLEMENT
Listen to this episode if you want to:
Gain clarity on how salary and earnings impact property settlement and child support.
Understand the factors considered by courts when dividing assets in divorce cases.
Learn about the concept of "future needs" and its role in achieving fair outcomes in divorce settlements.
Learn about what to do if your ex quits their job to try not pay child support.
For Full Show Notes, go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog
For more support, visit www.thedivorcecourse.com.au
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family court's views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show, you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it are not liable for the outcome of your case.
Other Podcast Episodes Mentioned
Your Future Needs and how it affects your divorce and property settlement Part 3: Sorting your property settlement in divorce
How to divorce a statue: 7 tips to divorce an avoidant ex even if they stonewall you or disappear.
Surprising issues that are irrelevant in divorce & separation proceedings. So you can focus all your efforts on the things that your mediator, divorce lawyer or judge will actually care about.
Property Settlement: What is Fair?
Useful Resources:
Click here for our free before you leave checklist
Click here for our free mediation checklist
Sign up here for our next free online webinar
Emergency Contacts:
WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
LEGAL AID
Lifeline 13 11 14
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.
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Everyone seems to start talking about the percentage split in divorce for property straight away. In this episode, you will learn about the dangers of negotiating property split percentages prematurely in your divorce proceedings. We aim to help you discover why it's crucial to prioritise understanding the property pool before discussing percentages, as well as the potential financial and emotional costs of jumping into percentage negotiations too soon.
Understand how focusing on property pool valuations can lead to smoother negotiations and prevent misunderstandings down the line.
Listen to gain practical tips for dealing with different divorce personality types, from amicable to high conflict, and learn strategies for navigating negotiations effectively. With valuable insights and cautionary tales, this episode provides essential guidance for anyone facing divorce negotiations, helping you avoid costly mistakes and achieve a fair outcome.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family court's views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show, you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it are not liable for the outcome of your case.
Listen to this episode if you want to:
Learn why negotiating percentages early in divorce proceedings can be detrimental
Understand the importance of focusing on the property pool before discussing percentages
Gain practical tips for dealing with different divorce personality types
Avoid costly mistakes and achieve a fair outcome in divorce negotiations
The Pitfalls of Premature PERCENTAGE NEGOTIATIONS in Divorce property settlement
Don't Miss Out On These Key Points:
The dangers of negotiating percentages prematurely in divorce proceedings
The importance of understanding the property pool before discussing percentages
Potential financial and emotional costs of jumping into percentage negotiations too soon
Practical advice for dealing with different divorce personality types
Strategies for navigating negotiations effectively and achieving a fair outcome
For Full Show Notes, go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog
For more support, visit www.thedivorcecourse.com.au
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family court's views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show, you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it are not liable for the outcome of your case.
Other Podcast Episodes Mentioned
Untangling the Value: How to Navigate Valuations in Divorce & De Facto Separation property Settlements
Five Proven Steps you can take to finally get that agreement for property settlement or parenting consent orders
Your Future Needs and how it affects your divorce and property settlement Part 3: Sorting your property settlement in divorce
Sorting your property settlement in divorce: Part 2 Non financial & financial contributions during and after marriage
Sorting your property settlement in divorce: Financial Contributions before cohabitation and how it affects your property settlement
Useful Resources:
Click here for our free before you leave checklist
Click here for our free mediation checklist
Sign up here for our next free online webinar
Emergency Contacts:
WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
LEGAL AID
Lifeline 13 11 14
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.
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In this episode, you will learn about the recent changes to family law in Australia and how they affect you. Discover the shift from equal shared parental responsibility to joint decision making, as well as the elimination of the presumption of equal shared care. Understand the importance of prioritising children's best interests and the revamped role of independent children's lawyers. Explore simplified consequences for breaching court orders and gain practical advice for adapting to these changes in ongoing legal proceedings. With a positive outlook and a wealth of insights, this episode will give you an overview of what you need to understand in order to navigate the evolving landscape of family law in Australia.
Listen to this episode if you want to:
Stay Informed: Stay updated on recent changes to family law in Australia.
Understanding Amendments: Gain insight into key amendments affecting parental responsibilities and children's welfare.
Legal Implications: Learn about the implications of legislative changes for ongoing family law cases.
Practical Tips: Receive practical tips on how to navigate the new legislation in court proceedings.
Expert Analysis: Benefit from expert analysis and interpretation of complex legal concepts.
Impact on Families: Understand how the amendments may impact families and parental decision-making.
Optimistic Outlook: Hear a positive perspective on the potential benefits of the legislative changes.
Don't Miss Out On These Key Points:
What's Changed in Family Law: Get the lowdown on the latest tweaks to family law in Australia, like the switch from equal shared parental responsibility to joint decision making.
Find out how these changes affect who gets to make the big decisions for the kids and what it means for consulting each other on the important stuff.
Equal Shared Care No More: Hear about the removal of the assumption that parents will share care equally and how that could shake up custody arrangements.
Putting Kids First: Learn how the new approach prioritises what's best for the kids, focusing on their safety and happiness above all.
When Can You Change Things Up?: Understand the rules for going back to court and the steps you need to take to make it happen.
Lawyers for the Little Ones: Discover the expanded role of independent children's lawyers and how they might get to chat with the kids now.
Breaking the Rules: Get the scoop on the simplified consequences for not sticking to court orders and what it means for those who play fast and loose.
Stopping the Legal Drama: Find out about the new order aimed at shutting down the drama queens (and kings) who keep dragging their exes back to court.
Posting About It: Learn what you can and can't share about your case, including a few sneaky ways around the rules.
Time to Get with the Program: Realise why it's essential to address these changes if you're already in the legal process or gearing up to start.
For Full Show Notes, go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog
For more support, visit www.thedivorcecourse.com.au
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family court's views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show, you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it are not liable for the outcome of your case.
Other Podcast Episodes Mentioned
Decoding the Best Interests of The Children
Useful Resources:
Click here for our free before you leave checklist
Click here for our free mediation checklist
Sign up here for our next free online webinar
Emergency Contacts:
WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
LEGAL AID
Lifeline 13 11 14
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.
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Listen to this episode if you or a friend:
Are nervous or unsure how to report domestic violence or coercive control to the police.
Want to understand the process and what happens after you report it.
Need guidance on evidence collection and seeking support.
Are interested in safety planning and available resources.
Seek reassurance and empowerment in navigating the challenging situations involving domestic violence.
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains discussions of Domestic Violence. If you feel triggered please call 13 11 14 Lifeline and someone is there to listen. Call 1800 Respect if you or someone you know needs support in this area. Call 000 if in immediate danger.
In this episode, we speak with Inspector Dwyer, Manager of State Domestic Family Violence and Vulnerable Persons Unit in the Queensland Police. We discuss the step-by-step process of reporting domestic violence and coercive control to the police. Learn what happens inside a police station so you can take those next steps with confidence instead of being afraid of the unknown. Inspector Dwyer provides valuable insights into the steps that people can take, the evidence required, and the support available to them.
Don't Miss Out On These Key Points:
Understanding the Process: Inspector Dwyer outlines the process of reporting domestic violence incidents, emphasising the importance of collecting evidence such as witness statements or medical reports.
Follow-up and Communication: Victims should expect proactive communication from police officers, who are responsible for keeping them informed about the progress of their case.
Dealing with Insufficient Evidence: If you feel your case has been dismissed prematurely, seek advice from a domestic violence coordinator or specialist within the police station.
Coercive Control: Report patterns of coercive behaviour to the police.
Safety Planning: Create a safety plan with the help of domestic violence service providers to mitigate risks associated with reporting abuse.
Interstate Orders: Orders issued in one state are recognized nationally, ensuring protection for victims even if they move or travel to another state.
Training and Awareness: Details on how the Queensland Police Service has invested in extensive training for its officers to recognize and respond effectively to domestic violence situations, including victim-centric, trauma-informed practices.
Empowerment and Hope: Inspector Dwyer underscores the commitment to eradicating domestic violence and offers reassurance that victims survivors have support and resources available to them.
For Full Show Notes, go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog
For more support, visit www.thedivorcecourse.com.au
Inspector Melissa Dwyer Bio:
Melissa joined the Queensland Police Service in 1991, following her completion of secondary education the year prior.
Initially serving in uniform, Melissa was later appointed to the Redcliffe Criminal Investigation Branch, becoming the first female appointed to the CIB in that District.
She gained extensive experience as a regional Detective, specializing in investigating rape offenses, including those committed within marriage, and leading investigations into domestic and family violence (DFV) homicides.
After 13 years as a regional Detective, Melissa became the Officer in Charge of a Prosecution Corp, serving as the senior prosecutor for DFV and serious and violent crimes.
In 2015, she was promoted to Senior Sergeant in the Strategic Policy Branch, where she played a key role in leading the Queensland Police Service's implementation activities associated with the recommendations of the Not Now: Not Ever Report.
Currently, Melissa serves as the Inspector Manager of the State DFV & Vulnerable Persons Unit, where she was instrumental in implementing the DFV Specialist Courts, earning joint agency Prime Minister's awards and Commissioners Outstanding Awards.
She also developed and implemented the Queensland Drug & Alcohol Court.
Melissa has provided evidence at the Commission of Inquiry into Police responses to DFV and led the development of DFV frontline and specialist training for the QPS, earning accolades at the 2023 International ACWAP awards.
Her training was endorsed by ANROWS as best-practice and shared to assist interstate training development.
Melissa holds post-graduate qualifications in DFV and is actively involved in enhancing collective responses to DFV through membership on external Boards.
Her experiences have fueled her desire to improve the system and change outcomes for women and children while holding perpetrators accountable.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family court's views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show, you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it are not liable for the outcome of your case.
Other Podcast Episodes Mentioned
Domestic Violence and how to get out of it Part 1
Domestic Violence and Family Violence Part 2
Coercive Control in Divorce and after Separation
Stalkers gonna stalk - How to deal with coercive control, tracking & harassment
Post Separation Abuse and what you can do about it.
Coercive Control: how you can help yourself or a friend & what you need to know about the legal changes coming
Child Abuse, Family Violence or Risk and the notice you need to fill in for the Family Court.
What you might be doing that you don't yet realize may have significant ramifications to your property, parenting or domestic violence matters
Family & Domestic Violence and how it impacts on your case in The Family Court
Four things you might not realise are coercive control and the questions to ask yourself to see if it might be happening to you.
Delay Tactics in Divorce: How to counter then & How it can affect your Property, Chlildren's & Domestic Violence Matters.
The Post Separation Abuse Playbook and what you can do about it. Part 1
The Post Separation Abuse Playbook and what you can do about it. Part 2
Useful Resources:
Click here for our free before you leave checklist
Click here for our free mediation checklist
Sign up here for our next free online webinar
Emergency Contacts:
WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
LEGAL AID
Lifeline 13 11 14
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.
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This is the Pep Talk you didn’t know you needed when going through your divorce or separation. This episode serves as both a pep talk and a strategic guide for you navigating divorce or separation. Learn about the importance of proactive communication, assertiveness, and informed decision-making when dealing with legal representation, your ex and the family court.
Ultimately, "Just Ask" serves as an empowering reminder that while divorce proceedings can be daunting, you actually have the agency to shape the outcome if you can confidently articulate your preferences and pursue what you and your lawyers believe is fair and just.
TRIGGER WARNING: A quick warning: This episode contains discussions of Domestic Violence & Child Abuse, Sexual Abuse. If you feel triggered please call 13 11 14 Lifeline and someone is there to listen.
Listen to this episode if you need support in
🔍 Empowering Yourself to assert your needs and desires during the legal process.
💼 Client Empowerment: actively participating in the decision-making and advocating for yours and your children’s interests.
💡 Exploring Options: If you are hesitant in asking for certain provisions, such as spousal maintenance or supervised visitation, or seeking second legal opinions if necessary.
😓 Overcoming Fear: feeling the need to settle for less than what's fair because of discomfort with confrontation.
🛠️ Practical Tips & Maintaining a firm stance when advocating for your needs
For Full Show Notes go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog
For more support go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family courts views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it is not liable for the outcome of your case.
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Emergency Contacts:
WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
LEGAL AID
Lifeline 13 11 14
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
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Tackle the sensitive issue of parental trash talk during divorce and its impact on your children. Lyn, a Family Lawyer and Specialist provides valuable insights into understanding the dynamics of trash talk, its effects on children's mental health, and strategies for co-parents to shield their kids from harmful conversations.
From navigating legal perspectives to empowering coping mechanisms, this episode offers guidance to help you create a supportive environment for your children amidst divorce proceedings.
In this episode you will learn about:
🛡️ Understanding the Impact of Parental Trash Talk:
Are you grappling with the effects of parental trash talk on your children during divorce? Dive into the emotional toll it takes on your kids and grasp the long-term implications on their mental health and well-being. Gain insights into the legal perspective on protecting your children from harmful conversations amidst divorce proceedings.
🔍 Deciphering the Dynamics of Trash Talk:
Discover the hidden tactics behind parental trash talk and how it shapes your children's perceptions of themselves and you as parents. Learn practical strategies to identify and address instances of trash talk in your co-parenting dynamics. Understand the paramount importance of creating a safe and supportive environment for your children during this challenging time.
💪 Empowering Coping Mechanisms for Co-Parents:
Feeling overwhelmed by parental trash talk? Explore coping mechanisms tailored for co-parents to shield their children from its detrimental effects. Gain valuable insights into effective communication strategies that foster a positive co-parenting relationship, even amidst the toughest challenges. Be encouraged to prioritize your children's well-being and create a nurturing environment throughout the divorce proceedings.
☕ Creating a Safe Haven for Children:
As a co-parent, you have the power to create a safe and supportive haven for your children amidst the turmoil of divorce proceedings. Discover guided strategies to foster this environment and prioritize your children's emotional well-being above all else. Equip yourself with the tools and resources needed to shield your children from harmful conversations and empower them to navigate this difficult time with resilience.
Join us on the Divorce Course Podcast for expert guidance on shielding children from parental trash talk amidst divorce proceedings, and empower yourself with strategies to create a supportive environment for your children during this challenging time.
For Full Show Notes go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog
For more support go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family courts views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it is not liable for the outcome of your case.
Useful Resources:
CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE
Click here for our free before you leave checklist
Click here for our free mediation checklist
Sign up here for our next free online webinar
Emergency Contacts:
WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
LEGAL AID
Lifeline 13 11 14
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.
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During your divorce effective communication is key. But what happens when you get sent big long ranting letters that take negotiations in circles instead of to settlement. In this episode you will gain valuable guidance on managing legal correspondence with your ex-partner or their representation. Learn the art of decoding divorce legal letters with their seven-step approach.
🛤️ Navigating the Rocky Terrain:
Discover the significance of detaching emotional reactions from effective communication in legal proceedings. Our experts share insights on maintaining composure and focus amidst the challenges of divorce.
🌪️ The Back Blocks of Legal Gaslighting:
Delve into the world of legal gaslighting and understand the tactics involved. Uncover the subtle manipulations often present in legal correspondence and learn how to identify and respond to them strategically.
💪 Coping Mechanisms and Tactical Responses:
Explore coping mechanisms that empower you to respond strategically to frequent and voluminous legal correspondences. Gain insights into maintaining control over the narrative and protecting your interests.
☕ Sit Back, Relax, and Decode:
Pour yourself a cuppa, sit back, and relax as our experts guide you through the intricacies of divorce legal letters. Find solace in understanding the process and arming yourself with knowledge to face the challenges ahead.
For Full Show Notes go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog
Decoding Legal Letters: A Methodical Approach
For more support go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family courts views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it is not liable for the outcome of your case.
Useful Resources:
CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE
Click here for our free before you leave checklist
Click here for our free mediation checklist
Sign up here for our next free online webinar
Emergency Contacts:
WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
LEGAL AID
Lifeline 13 11 14
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.
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In this empowering episode, a legal negotiation expert shares valuable insights on navigating the challenging terrain of divorcing a narcissist. With a focus on strategy, leverage, anticipation, and personal empowerment, Laura & Lyn provide a roadmap for you to not only survive but thrive in the face of a narcissistic ex-spouse.
For Full Show Notes go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog
For more support go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au
🔍 Key Takeaways:
Strategy is Key: Learn the importance of having a well-thought-out game plan when divorcing a narcissist. Discover how strategic thinking can be a game-changer in negotiations and legal proceedings.
Understanding Leverage: Uncover the power of leverage in dealing with a narcissistic ex. Explore how to identify and use your strengths to achieve better outcomes while protecting your interests.
Anticipation as a Superpower: Delve into the art of anticipating a narcissist's behaviour. Understand how walking on eggshells during the relationship can transform into a superpower, allowing you to stay two steps ahead.
Focus on "You": Explore the significance of personal empowerment and mindset in the divorce process. Learn how focusing on yourself can keep you on the offensive, setting the stage for a positive outcome.
SLAY Framework: Introduce the SLAY framework (Strategy, Leverage, Anticipate, and You) as a practical guide for negotiating with narcissists. Discover how these principles can be applied in real-life situations.
Self-Care Matters: Emphasise the importance of self-care amidst the chaos of divorce. Learn simple yet effective ways to prioritise your well-being during challenging times.
Keeping the High Road: Understand the power of taking the high road during divorce proceedings. Discover how maintaining your integrity and dignity can be a powerful tool in the long run.
Your Comeuppance: Discuss the idea that the narcissist's comeuppance is not your responsibility. Learn to focus on your desired outcomes and personal growth rather than seeking revenge.
🌟 Why You Should Listen:
If you're navigating a divorce with a narcissistic ex-spouse or want to be prepared for any potential challenges in the future, this episode provides practical strategies, expert advice, and a supportive mindset. Tune in to empower yourself and gain insights that can make a significant difference in your divorce journey.
🔗 Connect with the Experts:
Connect with Mia at Grey Rock Consulting
For more information, follow the experts on Instagram: @GreyRockConsulting
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family courts views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it is not liable for the outcome of your case.
Useful Resources:
CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE
Click here for our free before you leave checklist
Click here for our free mediation checklist
Sign up here for our next free online webinar
Emergency Contacts:
WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
LEGAL AID
Lifeline 13 11 14
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.
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The Narcissist's Chess Board: Understanding THE DIVORCE “SLAY” Strategy
You don’t want to miss out on the answer to these questions
What are the key elements of the SLAY framework?
How does having a strategy help in divorce negotiations?
Why is leverage crucial in dealing with a narcissist in divorce?
Can you provide examples of leverage in different situations?
Why is anticipating the narcissist's behaviour important?
How can individuals leverage their knowledge of the narcissist's tendencies?
How does anticipation play into the strategic planning process?
Why is focusing on yourself essential in dealing with a narcissist?
What are some practical ways to practise self-care during divorce?
Why is it crucial to maintain integrity and take the high road during divorce?
How does engaging in negative behaviours affect the overall outcome of your divorce?
Why is it important for individuals not to focus on delivering the narcissist's comeuppance?
How can one find satisfaction and closure without seeking revenge?
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Living beyond the age of fifty and deciding to end a long-term marriage comes with its unique set of challenges and Laura and Lyn are here to help navigate those waters. With a blend of legal insights and personal anecdotes, this podcast serves as a beacon of support for those entering the uncharted waters of grey divorces
In this episode, the essential topics of asset division, spousal maintenance, gender roles, and future planning are explored. Gain some valuable insights into anticipating the involvement of adult children, the complexity of gifting during divorce, and tips on maintaining financial security through this challenging life transition.
From empowering older women to stand up for their rights to discussing the nuanced considerations of future needs and ill health in property settlements, this episode provides a comprehensive guide to those facing grey divorces.
For Full Show Notes go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog
For more support go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family courts views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it is not liable for the outcome of your case.
Useful Resources:
Protecting Property and Pre-Nups Episode
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Emergency Contacts:
WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
LEGAL AID
Lifeline 13 11 14
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.
You don’t want to miss out on the answer to these questions
What are some common challenges faced by individuals going through a grey divorce?
How does property division work in the context of grey divorces?
Are there specific considerations for pensions and spousal maintenance in grey divorces?
How can individuals protect their property in new relationships after a grey divorce?
What role do traditional roles play in creating problems in grey divorces?
How can reverting to traditional roles trigger separations in grey divorces?
Do older individuals in grey divorces often find themselves in traditional roles, and how does it impact their relationships?
What risks are associated with handing over finances to a new partner in a grey divorce?
How can older women in grey divorces overcome the inclination to follow traditional roles and fight for their rights?
What advice is given to older individuals with a traditional mindset to ensure they get their fair share in divorce negotiations?
How are future needs considered in property division for grey divorces, and what makes it different from younger couples?
How does ill health affect property division in grey divorces, especially when one party is significantly sick?
Can adult children become involved in property settlement disputes during grey divorces, and what impact does it have on the process?
Is it possible to give gifts to children during the property settlement process, and what are the legal considerations?
How can individuals make the separation process less painful and more efficient in grey divorces?
Why is it important not to delay bringing a property settlement application in court for older couples?
What unique pressures are faced by older individuals in grey divorces, and how can they navigate these challenges?
How can individuals rebuild their social circles and find support during and after grey divorces?
What suggestions are given for leading a fulfilling life after a grey divorce?
How can older individuals go about finding love again after a grey divorce?
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Tax Savvy Divorce: Shielding Yourself from Financial Surprises
In this illuminating episode, Lyn and financial expert Pedro Marin explore the often-overlooked intricacies of taxation during divorce. Unpacking complexities, they offer insights into protecting yourself from tax debt surprises and potential dramas involving businesses, companies, and trusts. Here's why this series is a must-listen:
Why Listen:
Financial Shielding: Pedro Marin, a seasoned financial expert, provides strategies to guard against unexpected tax debt surprises. Divorce Preparedness: Gain insight into proactive financial management during and after divorce. Business and Trust Insights: Learn about potential dramas involving companies, businesses, and trusts during divorce and how to shield yourself. Empowering Education: Understand practical steps to safeguard your financial future and minimize tax impact. Crucial Questions: Delve into pertinent questions, ensuring you're not caught off guard during divorce proceedings.Lyn and Pedro's engaging dialogue makes complex tax matters accessible, empowering listeners to shield themselves from financial surprises. Tune in to fortify your financial knowledge and protect yourself from tax debt and divorce-related dramas.
Disclaimer: This podcast offers general education only and is not legal advice. The opinions shared are based on one lawyer's perspective of the family court's views in Australia. Do not base your case on information mentioned here without discussing and obtaining approval from your personal lawyer. Seek independent legal advice, as every situation is unique. By listening to this show, you agree that it and the company running it are not liable for the outcome of your case.
For Full Show Notes go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog
Useful Resources:
CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE
Click here for our free before you leave checklist
Click here for our free mediation checklist
Sign up here for our next free online webinar
Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course
Emergency Contacts:
WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
LEGAL AID
Lifeline 13 11 14
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.
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Are you facing intimidation or bullying in your divorce proceedings? In this empowering episode, Laura asks her experienced family lawyer mother to share crucial insights and actionable education to help you stand up against bullying tactics at every stage of the legal process.
Key Topics:
Dealing with legal threats: Learn effective strategies for responding to threats and intimidation.
Documenting incidents: Discover the importance of documenting bullying incidents and threats for legal purposes.Responding to untrue statements: Get valuable tips on crafting effective responses to false statements and accusations.
Role of lawyers: Understand the role of lawyers in dealing with bullying tactics and how they can support you through the process.
Bullying at court: Gain insights into handling intimidation during court proceedings, including interactions with opposing parties and legal representatives.
Post-court pressures: Understand how to navigate and respond to post-court pressures and tactics.
Empower Yourself with Actionable Steps:
Learn how to strengthen your position by documenting incidents effectively.
Gain insights into crafting responses to counter untrue statements.
Understand the crucial role of lawyers in navigating divorce proceedings.
Equip yourself with strategies to stand up against bullying tactics.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.
Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINTor go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au
Helpful Questions Covered:
How do you deal with bullies in a divorce situation?
What happens when you give in to a bully's demands in the early stages?
Can you appease a bully, especially in family law situations?
How do bullies use imaginary or inflated threats during divorce?
What are the consequences when bullies involve children in the process?
How can a person respond to bullying tactics involving children?
What role does documenting incidents of bullying play in court later on?
Can writing a letter addressing bullying behavior stop such tactics?
How do threats of going to court impact individuals trying to avoid it?
What steps can someone take before court if faced with threats?
Why is it important to consult with a family lawyer before making decisions?
Additional Episode Highlights:
The episode covers topics such as dealing with threats, handling bullying at court, and addressing post-court pressures. Listeners will gain valuable tips on documenting incidents, responding to untrue statements, and understanding the role of lawyers in the process. Whether facing threats from an ex-partner, dealing with a cheer squad in court, or handling pressure after proceedings, this episode equips individuals with actionable steps to navigate the challenging terrain of divorce while standing up against bullying.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family courts views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it is not liable for the outcome of your case.
For Full Show Notes go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog
Useful Resources:
CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE
Click here for our free before you leave checklist
Click here for our free mediation checklist
Sign up here for our next free online webinar
Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course
Emergency Contacts:
WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
LEGAL AID
Lifeline 13 11 14
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
These questions cover various aspects of bullying in divorce, including different stages of the legal process and strategies for dealing with bullying behavior.
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Ready to demystify mediation and get the lowdown on five myths that might be messing with your understanding and potentially your chance to settle and stay out of court? Join us on this episode as we unravel the complexities of mediation, offering you insights that will boost your confidence and make you see things in a whole new light. Forget what you've heard, and let's kick off the myth-busting right here on "The Divorce Course Podcast."
Whether it's on your radar or just a possibility down the road, this episode is your ticket to understanding what mediation is all about. Tune in to "The Divorce Course Podcast" and let's flip the script on those mediation myths!
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family courts views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it is not liable for the outcome of your case.
For Full Show Notes go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog
Useful Resources:
Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT
CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE
Click here for our free before you leave checklist
Click here for our free mediation checklist
Sign up here for our next free online webinar
Episodes mentioned:
https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcasttwentytwo (Convincing the unconvincible in divorce negotiations for family law)
https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcastninetythree (Can you really mediate with a narcissist? Mediation and negotiation tips for divorcing an ex with narcissistic behaviours.)
Emergency Contacts:
WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
LEGAL AID
Lifeline 13 11 14
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
The Real Deal With Mediation: Dispelling 5 Common Misconceptions
Don't miss out on the answers to these helpful questions:
What are common misconceptions about mediation that can hinder the process?
How does emotional readiness play a crucial role in successful mediation?
What factors should be considered before agreeing to mediation shortly after separation?
Is there a relationship between child custody arrangements and property settlements in mediation?
How can one handle outrageous statements made during divorce mediation?
Why is it essential to focus on the big picture rather than finer details in mediation?
What role does guilt play in influencing mediation outcomes?
How can one protect themselves from being pressured into signing agreements during mediation?
Is verbal agreement binding in court if not documented after mediation?
Can mediation with a narcissist be successful, and what strategies can help
Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.
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Are you struggling with the complexities of a potential upcoming custody battle, or fearing the potential impact on your parental rights if you leave your partner? If so, this episode is perfect for you. If you’ve just broken up with your ex you may not yet be thinking about these 6 things, but you should. This episode serves as a reminder that during custody battles, past actions may be scrutinised like a "movie star" under a spotlight, and every detail could potentially be used in court. Learn some invaluable strategies to navigate the “unfit mother or bad father false narrative”, especially when dealing with a high-conflict or manipulative ex-partner.
From the importance of positive affidavits to meticulous documentation, this podcast episode provides general education for you on presenting a child-focused approach and safeguarding your position as a parent in your child’s life. This episode serves as a helpful resource for those anticipating a custody battle or looking to reinforce their parental rights, offering practical insights to help you face the challenges head-on.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family courts views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it is not liable for the outcome of your case.
For Full Show Notes go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog
Useful Resources:
Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT
CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE
Click here for our free before you leave checklist
Click here for our free mediation checklist
Sign up here for our next free online webinar
Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course
Emergency Contacts:
WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
LEGAL AID
Lifeline 13 11 14
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
Safeguarding Against Unfair Accusations in Custody Battles
Don't miss out on the answers to these helpful questions:
How do you counter false allegation of being a bad parent
Do kids' playdates and best friends ever get mentioned in court orders?
How can parents handle the struggles during custody battles?
How important is it to maintain your child’s routine during custody disputes?
Can accusations about neglecting a child's health impact custody cases?
What about medication? Can that be a contentious issue in court?
How does the court view non-compliance with medical advice and diagnosis?
Can the court restrict visitation if a parent denies a child's diagnosis and medication?
How does the court view contravention of children's orders?
What role does legal compliance play in a custody case?
How does a judge perceive a parent who consistently violated court orders?
Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.
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Are you facing a divorce, property settlement and custody battle with a narcissist? In this enlightening episode, we are joined by a Master High Conflict Negotiation Coach Mia Madafferi, Founder of Grey Rock Consulting to unravel the complexities of divorcing a narcissist while maintaining your sanity and control.
Explore the transformative power of mindset in the face of legal abuse and coercive control. Gain insights into anticipating narcissistic behaviour, protecting yourself during court proceedings, and effectively navigating mediation.
Discover the crucial role of self-awareness in breaking free from negative relationship patterns post-divorce and maintaining personal well-being.
This episode sheds light on common abuse patterns exhibited by narcissists, offering practical strategies and expert advice to empower listeners throughout their divorce journey. With a powerful mantra—"They are more afraid of you than you are of them"—this conversation serves as a valuable guide for anyone grappling with the challenges of narcissistic relationships and divorce.
Tune in to learn how to slay negotiation challenges, shift your mindset, and emerge stronger on the path to reclaiming control over your life and a better outcome in your divorce proceedings.
Disclaimer: This podcast provides general education and insights. Each individual's situation is unique, and listeners are encouraged to seek legal advice tailored to their specific circumstances. The content herein should not be relied upon as legal advice.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.
For Full Show Notes go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog
Useful Resources:
Contact Mia —> https://www.greyrockconsulting.com.au/contact-us
Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT
CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE
Click here for our free before you leave checklist
Click here for our free mediation checklist
Emergency Contacts:
WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
LEGAL AID
Lifeline 13 11 14
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
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Questions not to miss...
How does mindset play a crucial role when dealing with a narcissist during divorce?
What are some common challenges faced by individuals divorcing narcissists or those with narcissistic traits?
How can a person shift their mindset to empower themselves during and after divorce from a narcissist?
What role does radical acceptance play in changing one's mindset when divorcing a narcissist?
Have you observed differences in the mediation process between individuals who have shifted their focus and those still stuck in old patterns?
What strategies can be employed to gradually extract oneself from the psychological control of a narcissist?
How does the concept of "baby steps" contribute to the process of changing mindset and establishing boundaries?
In what ways do narcissists escalate their behavior when they sense a loss of control, especially during divorce proceedings?
How can individuals protect their energy and mental well-being when they are required to interact with a narcissistic ex during divorce-related tasks?
What practical steps can be taken to minimize the impact of negative communication, such as setting up email rules and avoiding unnecessary text messages?
In the context of legal abuse, how can individuals protect themselves and maintain their power during divorce proceedings?
How does the legal system and court processes contribute to the challenges of dealing with a narcissist in divorce?
How can individuals anticipate and prepare for the tactics of a narcissist in legal proceedings?
Can you share insights on dealing with word salad communication, such as long and confusing messages or letters?
What advice do you have for handling legal abuse by a narcissist and remaining empowered during court proceedings?
How can individuals cope with the emotional challenges of facing legal abuse and ongoing coercive control?
What are some common patterns of abuse exhibited by narcissists, and how can individuals become aware of these patterns?
How can individuals protect themselves from falling into the same negative patterns when entering new relationships after leaving a narcissistic one?
In the fast-paced family court environment, what advice do you have for individuals to take the time they need and make informed decisions?
How can single parents, especially those who have left a narcissistic relationship, manage the overwhelming demands of parenting and legal processes simultaneously?
What valuable lessons have you learned from your experience in helping individuals navigate divorce and separation from narcissistic partners?
Can you share some final words of wisdom or key takeaways for listeners dealing with narcissists in divorce?
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Wondering how your property pool will be divided in your divorce and what future considerations impact your share?
Tune in to this enlightening episode where a distinguished family law specialist, backed by 35+ years of expertise in law, explains what the Family Law Act's Section 75 means in relation to property settlement percentages adjustments.
Gain invaluable insights into the crucial factors that can sway your property split percentage. This episode is your overview look for those going through the process at the intricate landscape of property settlement. The Family Law Act 1975 - Section 75 is the cornerstone of this discussion, unravelling the complexities and helping to provide clarity on the considerations that shape your financial future post-divorce.
Perfect for anyone navigating the nuances of property division in their divorce or defacto separation, this episode and additional podcast episodes are your go-to guide that can go hand in hand with your own lawyer to comprehend property settlement. Listen now to embark on the journey of informed decisions and financial empowerment!
Disclaimer: This podcast provides general education and insights. Each individual's situation is unique, and listeners are encouraged to seek legal advice tailored to their specific circumstances. The content herein should not be relied upon as legal advice.
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What are the future needs that should be considered in determining the percentage of the property split in divorce?
How does age and state of health play a role in determining future needs and affecting the property pool percentage?
Does the court consider mental health issues, such as post-traumatic stress disorder, in relation to future needs?
What factors contribute to the disparity of income, earning capacity, property, and financial resources between parties?
How does having the care of a child impact the property division in divorce?
Is there a financial advantage to having 50/50 care of the children, and does it affect the property pool?
How does the court adjust the property pool based on each party's commitments and expenses for self-support or child support?
What responsibility does each party have to support another person, particularly an adult child with a disability?
How does the court consider a party's eligibility for a pension or benefit in the property division?
Who determines what constitutes a "reasonable standard of living," and how does it influence property pool adjustments in divorce?
Is it common for financial agreements to overlook spousal maintenance?
How does the court adjust property division based on various factors, such as child custody, income, and health?
What considerations are made when tweaking percentages in property division based on future needs?
In practical terms, how realistic is it to consider all these factors in property settlement?
How does the court handle cases where both parties are of the same age, same health, with equal custody and property split?
Is there ever a dismissal of factors in property division, and what conditions lead to such dismissals?
How do parties defend themselves against fabricated claims to secure a larger property pool percentage?
Is it worth going to trial for minor percentage adjustments in the property division, considering the associated costs?
How often do people agree on adjustments without going to court, especially when the differences are minimal?
When dealing with child custody and property division simultaneously, how does uncertainty about future custody arrangements affect the process?
In cases where custody is undecided, do people prioritize settling property matters first?
How do lawyers balance property settlement and children's matters, considering the emotional involvement in child-related issues?
Is there a noticeable difference in stress levels between property settlement and children's matters for family lawyers?
How do you handle cases where one party may be making up information to secure a larger property percentage?
What role does detailed proof play in defending against fabricated claims during property settlement?
Considering the potential financial impact, how do lawyers advise clients on settling versus going to court for minor adjustments?
How does the financial value of the overall property pool impact the decision-making process in property division?
How do adjustments in property percentages translate into real dollars, and do people fully grasp the financial implications?
Emergency Contacts:
WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
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Lifeline 13 11 14
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Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.
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Are you finding yourself staring at the ceiling, gripped by divorce-related stress and anxiety, unable to fall asleep at 2 am? Is your mediation or family court event looming, and your lawyer has said to make sure you get a good sleep? Ever wondered how lack of sleep amplifies the toll on your decision-making abilities during these challenging times? If these questions resonate, then this episode is for you.
Join us as we navigate the intricate connection between sleep and divorce stress with the brilliant Shea Morrison, a seasoned sleep coach. Uncover practical strategies, bedtime rituals, and the profound influence of light on your sleep patterns, tailored to alleviate the specific stresses of divorce.
Listen in for a podcast that not only addresses the challenges of divorce-related sleep amidst heightened stress and anxiety but sets you on a path to tranquil nights, empowering you to make sound decisions for your brighter future. 🎧💤
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Don't miss out on:Unlocking Better Sleep Amidst Divorce: Learn how navigating sleep challenges during divorce can impact your overall well-being and strategies to overcome them.
The Divorce Sleep Struggle: What are the three crucial areas where sleep struggles emerge during divorce, and how can you address them?
Nightly Routine Hacks: Discover simple yet powerful steps to enhance your bedtime routine and ease into a restful night's sleep during this challenging life transition.
Relaxation Techniques for Better Sleep: Explore effective techniques to relax before bedtime, helping you achieve the quality sleep you need during divorce.
The Light-Sleep Connection: Understand the profound influence of light, especially blue light, on your sleep patterns and why managing it is crucial during divorce.
Melatonin's Role in Sleep Amid Divorce: Delve into the science behind melatonin and its significance in managing your sleep-wake cycle during the divorce process.
Morning Sunlight Rituals: Uncover the benefits of getting natural sunlight in the morning, a powerful tool for boosting your mood and promoting better sleep during divorce.
Evening Light and Sleep Quality: Learn how evening light exposure impacts the release of melatonin and discover strategies to improve your ability to feel sleepy when needed.
Creating a Sleep Haven: Explore practical tips for crafting a sleep-friendly environment that supports your well-being, especially in the midst of a divorce.
Navigating Nighttime Anxiety: Gain valuable advice on handling stress-triggered wake-ups and discover the importance of feeling safe in managing sleep disruptions during separation or divorce.
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Emergency Contacts:WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
LEGAL AID
Lifeline 13 11 14
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732
Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.
Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.
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