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    Chad and Jo recently visited Paradise Lakes, a nudist/lifestyle resort in Florida, and they share their experiences with you.

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    You see a lot of cockiness in the LS... people bragging about their sexual skills or prowess. Today, Jo talks about some possible reasons why that happens, and how it's actually NOT about confidence at all.

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    Chad recently sort of hosted an impromptu party at our friend's house while they were out of town, and apparently, it was a great time! Today, we talk about why, and we talk about planning things versus letting them just play out.

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    Disappointment is bound to happen, even in the LS. It happens when things don't work out the way you want them to, and you're left dealing with those emotions. In today's episode, Jo talks about disappointment, some causes and situations, and then she talks about tips for managing disappointment, and some ways to avoid it in the future.

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    Last week, Jo talked about people finding themselves in "natural" D/s dynamics. Staying on the D/s thought train, this week, Jo talks about how thoughts and emotions are ALSO in a D/s dynamic. Thoughts are the Dom (usually); they are in control, or they think they are, and emotions are the sub, the more submissive ones that do as they are told. Or, that's how we WANT to believe. But just like in any kind of D/s dynamic, it's REALLY the sub that has control, and in our bitchy little brains, it's REALLY the emotions that have control.

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    In this episode, Jo talks about basic Dom/sub relationship dynamics, and how they can and often do show up in everyday vanilla relationships. She talks about the benefits that could come from embracing a more structured D/s dynamic.

    The video referenced in this episode:
    What Submissives REALLY Want from their Dominant (youtube.com)

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    If you are already an overthinker, the LS can kick your bitchy little brain into overdrive. In today's episode, Jo talks about overthinking and gives some tips to help you manage it.

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    This is a short mini episode about self-love, and the things that get lost, the things that hide and keep you from the happiness and healing you are seeking.

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    Today, Jo interviews Lisa, who has a different Lifestyle why. Lisa has some medical issues that affect her sexually, so she and her husband use the lifestyle to not just enhance their relationship, but to ensure that sexual needs are met.

    There is no one right way, or one right reason. This episode highlights the many dynamics that are possible, and is a reminder that sometimes, that guy that plays alone really IS for real.

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    Let's talk about sex (baby, let's talk about you and me....).
    Today, Jo is talking about getting better at sex, about being more CONFIDENT about sex.
    Sex obviously plays a big part in the Lifestyle, and we ALL want to believe that we are good at sex. So today, Jo talks about what she believes make someone good at sex and offers tips for getting better.

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    Hey everybody! Chad had his YouTube debut!

    Chad was asked to be a guest on the Open Bedroom Podcast with Jennifer Kaylo. She interviewed Chad and her partner, Scott, in her episode, "Husbands of Podcasters."

    So today, Chad talks a little bit about that experience, and then we share the episode.

    Check it out!
    https://youtu.be/vy2y7qwolIw?si=mCikaTBVs9hVIafQ

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    Aging is something that a lot of people struggle with. Especially in the LS, where so much emphasis is placed on sex appeal and physical appearance.

    But you CAN be confident as you age. That's what this episode is all about.

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    You have a good relationship. And now, you want to enhance your relationship by getting into the LS. You want to bring that added excitement, that extra spark. But NOT at the expense of your relationship.

    Basically, you're worried about f-ing up your relationship.

    That's what today's episode is all about.

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    In this episode, Jo talks about slowing down in your flirting game. Or, what she likes to call drive by flirting. It's when you don't focus your attention on someone for a long period of time, but you keep coming back to flirting with them throughout the evening.

    It can be a super helpful tool for people who struggle with being put on displace.

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    This week, Jo is talking about slowing things down. It's pretty likely that one, or both, of you will want or need to slow things down at some point in your LS journey. And that's ok. It's an important part of building trust in your relationship so that eventually, you both WANT to move forward again.

    It's important to remember to honor the feelings of both people during this time; the person NOT wanting to slow down is just as important as the person that DOES want to slow down. Yes, you should slow down or stop if and when someone needs that. AND you should respect that both people have feelings that deserve to be acknowledged and appreciated.

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    Chad and Jo went to Michigan to check out a party, and they share their thoughts and experiences with you today.
    Plus, during that trip, Jo talks to three lovely ladies, who share their thoughts with you about the lifestyle.

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    Jo may be a coach, but that doesn't make her immune to some a-hole thoughts, and the fears that she's not good enough.

    Today, Jo gets vulnerable and shares her journey for processing and managing those a-hole thoughts.

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    Disclaimer...Jo is high, and she rambles like a MOFO when she's high. You've been warned!

    Today, Jo is celebrating 100 episodes. And in celebratory fashion, she got stoned and recorded this episode.

    Probably not the best idea, but what's a celebration without some bad decisions! So, I present to you, Episode 100, Jo is Celebrating!

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    Apparently when you get stoned, you forget stuff. Who knew??

    Just a little bonus of a few things I forgot because I was in celebration mode, aka rambling high mode.

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    We all know the Golden Rule, do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Or, treat others the way you would want to be treated. It's a great concept.

    I took it a slightly different route with the Golden Pineapple Rule. Treat others the way THEY want to be treated.

    This celebrates and honors people's differences.

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    Check out her website to learn more about Jo and her coaching services:
    Home | The Confident Swinger

    And become a subscriber to support the show and get awesome perks!
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