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Discover the keys to a successful and fulfilling marriage in this insightful episode as Tim explores the principles of love language, gender roles, and effective communication rooted in scripture.
Learn how to cultivate a strong foundation of respect, submission, and self-restraint within your relationship. Understand the importance of adapting and revering your spouse, cherishing and protecting them with the same love that Christ has for the church. Find out about the power of intentional spiritual devotion and the transformative impact it can have on your marriage. Explore the significance of inner beauty and the role it plays in fostering a deep connection with your partner.
Embrace your role in the marriage, honoring each other's decisions and seeking mutual respect and understanding. Remember, love is the bedrock of successful relationships, and when practiced with sincerity and devotion, it can transform your union. Tune in now to discover practical advice and biblical wisdom that will help you nurture a strong and fulfilling marriage.
Episode Highlights:
03:31 - A lot of people put the emphasis on marriage itself, the ceremony, the doves, the train that the bride has on her dress, the bridesmaids, little girls kicking out flowers and rose petals down the aisle. That is but a fraction, less than 1% of what a marriage is, that marital ceremony. The marriage begins actually after you say, "I do."
12:44 - Wives, be subject, be submissive, adapt yourselves to your own husbands as a service for the Lord, for the husband is the head of the wife. Now, you might talk the most, you're not the head though. You're not. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, himself, the savior of his body.
31:10 - When you're engaging your spouse, speak in a tone that's inviting and conciliatory. Don't raise your voice. Don't get into an argument, and when you sense that the conversation is about to boil over, be the one that says, "Hold on. It seems like this conversation is about to kind of get out of hand. Why don't we put this on the shelf and come back to it later when we both have cooler heads?" That's wisdom.
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Join us as we dive into an inspiring conversation with John Haynes III, an esteemed Executive Level Human Resources Business Partner, Coach, and Advisor. With over 25 years of experience in organizational development, HR, and talent management, John shares his insights on success, courageous conversations, and purposeful leadership.
John firmly believes that doing what you love is the key to achieving success. He encourages individuals to tune into their internal voice, to listen to their intuition, and to run what he calls the "God experiment."
Listen to John emphasize the importance of initiating real healing by engaging in open and honest dialogue, even when faced with challenges and hear his advice to have faith and to carry that faith with you in every aspect of your life. Discover why John believes in the power of the three R's: Relationships, Risk, and Reward & Recognition when you tune in to this episode.
Episode Highlights:
08:48 - Do what you love and I firmly believe if you do what you love, you can make as much money as you want to. It was just so crazy that that voice, I just have so much proof that the voice that comes to me happens to be right.
18:46 - I give as much vulnerability as I want to see, and I'm also a keen listener. When people actually see you listening to them, somehow their spirit walks into a safe place when they actually see someone is listening.
34:19 - Racism still exists. Inequities still exist. People have become more savvy at locking people out of rooms and putting ceilings on people's heads and not developing people because of the way that they live their life or the color of their skin. Those things still exist.
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In this episode, Tim elaborates on the prerequisites men should have to help give them the best chances of having successful relationships. In addition to that, he also advises on the necessity for the capacity and willingness for expansion.
Episode Highlights
16:03 - My wife and I had some days that we didn't like each other hardly at all, but we worked through it because our desire was to make this thing work.
19:44 - You grow everyday. You never reach the ultimate pinnacle. You're always learning everyday, continuing education.
21:47 - Before you choose to be a husband, ask yourself, "Can you live up to this standard willfully?"
29:38 - You have to rise above to a place where you are indifferent to the things that she does that can make you sick.
31:36 - You have to have a proclivity to cover nurture and to improve the quality of life. You got to care about what she cares about.
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In this episode, Tim discusses the Relationship Continuum between men and women. So, if you want to maximize your chances of success, he encourages you to infuse and implement the biblical standards and principles into your relationship engagement to maximize your ability for success.
Episode Highlights
13:58 - Sometimes if you are a guy, you can put your beard in. That's just par for the course, but if the young lady is not giving you action back, she doesn't like you.
20:11 - You have to have vision or ambition. What that means is it would behoove you to have some idea of where you want to go in life.
22:33 - One of the things that women won't share with you is that they like a guy who knows where he's going. They also like a guy who can make decisions.
28:20 - So, when you are not in control of your emotions, you can do things that are out of order.
33:07 - So, a work ethic is something that a man prior to a relationship engagement needs to have a proclivity for.
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In this episode, Tim talks to Sheri St Marie, who is a street smart educator, entrepreneur, professional speaker, top-shelf real estate broker, and social media influencer. From humble beginnings, she has persevered and risen above her circumstances. Her unwavering spirit and drive to succeed despite the traumatic events she faced have allowed her to make a success of her career.
Despite the challenges, she continues to use social media as a platform to speak her own voice. Sheri has been able to monetize and leverage social media to help grow her business and she suggests that those who are thinking about getting into social media should not censor themselves. According to her, it is more important to focus on the content of what you are posting rather than the likes.
Learn how Sheri uses her intuition to know what questions to ask clients based on their responses and what it does to allow her to deliver what the client needs, whether it's about purchasing a home or furnishing it. Listen to find out about the fascinating stories Sheri shares in this episode and how she is attracted to both stability and freedom in her life.
Episode Highlights
08:02 - I've always been in love with the underdogs. You're not supposed to have favorites, but my underdogs have always been my favorite because I was one.
36:44 - Here's the big huge trick: forget the likes. Forget them. You don't care. You could have one life that you save their life literally. You would have no clue because you're sitting there with what the social status tells you of, "You got to have likes, got to make money directly from social." If you save one life, because you were willing to get on that post, I think that's pretty amazing.
45:41 - I use my intuition to know what question to ask you based on what you just said, because I was a life coach for a long time. I've listened to hundreds and hundreds of people. I can go, "I heard you say this." They didn't even hear themselves say this.
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In this episode, Tim discusses The Power of Imagination and Subconscious Mind, these are the secret sauce to the keys to Heaven, and access to what you most truly desire to be, to do, and to have in life.
Episode Highlights:
05:04 – The happier and more abundant we are, we tend to be able to exude that same happiness, abundance and joy to other people
08:55 – The original technology was imagination… we have internal Metaverse between imagination and our subconscious
10:08 – You first have to have enough guts to desire what you want. You don't have to ask anybody's permission to desire certain things. You want a better life? Desire it.
14:30 – If you know what you desire, God will give it to you trough a bridge of incidence and divine providence… he will give it to you if you delight yourself in him
15:52 – Whatever you desire, desire that and park that desire in your mind. Don’t erase it ever.
17:30 – You can think for yourself, and you can desire as high as you want to
18:13 – Imagination is the theater inside of you where these things can happen.
20:08 – What the imagination does it gives you a commercial, a preview, a pre-cursor of what you can have in your hand. If you can see it in your mind, you can have it in your hand, so don’t afraid to use imagination.
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Good communication is essential for any relationship, whether personal or professional. In the workplace, strong communication can help to build trust and rapport among employees, fostering a positive and productive work environment. However, effective communication is not always easy to achieve.
In any business, employee retention is vital to maintaining a productive and successful workplace. In this episode, Tim shares 5 effective communication tactics that can help improve employee retention in your company.
Episode Highlight:
04:56 - You want to roll out the red carpet when they are there, once you get them in, the commitment, you have to interview, you offer them the position they accepted, you want to go on a red carpet mode.
10:10 - Trust is the antidote to every toxic workplace and relationship. Trust cannot be undervalued and cannot be over emphasized. The impact that trust has in the workplace and relationships.
15:56 - You are going to reward good employees with great compensation. According to research 63% of employees who quit their jobs said low pay is the top reason.
17:36 - Another good thing to do that can help with retention is to have a stay interview.
20:43 - They conducted research recently and found that 33% felt unrecognized let alone heard by their company. So it is important that your internal communication is deliberate, strategic and consistent.
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Communication is one of the most important skills in any business setting. From writing emails and memos to giving presentations, being able to communicate effectively can make a big difference in your career.
In this episode, Tim is joined by Carl Mueller to discuss the fundamentals of communication. Carl is a corporate communication expert, and he provides some great tips on how to improve your communication skills. If you're looking to improve your business communication skills, this is an episode you won't want to miss!
Episode Highlights:
06:52 - I would describe it as we are problem solvers, in other words people come to us because they have a problem they can't solve on their own.
14:16 - Are we going to see more of this kind of polarization, angry people in the streets and no solution being offered? The communications role is increasingly important to all of that where we're going as an organization and as a community.
24:22 - So what we try to spread throughout the world is the first hour of any crisis is the most important.
30:08 - Did you try to understand your audience or audiences, did you take the time to figure that out and then did you craft your messages based on what you knew about those audiences?
38:59 - I think there's a possibility that we can follow together to help rebuild home ownership, sustain people in their homes, families in their homes, and rebuild neighborhoods in Milwaukee.
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The traditional definition of masculinity has always been a bit of a double-edged sword. On one hand, it is associated with positive traits like strength, courage, and leadership. On the other hand, it also carries with it a sense of violence, aggression, and control. In recent years, there has been an increased focus on the negative aspects of masculinity, leading to the rise of the term "toxic masculinity." While it is important to acknowledge the harmful effects of traditional masculinity, we should also be careful not to demonize all men.Tune in to this episode to hear Tim’s thoughts on Toxic Masculinity.
Highlights:
02:06 I just wanted to speak to, you know, the hearts and minds of men out there and others who are concerned about men, to make sure that as different things are bantered about, we don't paint the entire male species with one broad brush.
05:41 Generally speaking, it brings a certain kind of characteristic to the table and that is not necessarily synonymous with toxicity.
09:16 Both the male and the female have dominion. As you walk out your life, whether you're male or female, you have a domain in the Earth.
15:39 You need to get you different bands of men to help you with governing the people, that's the basis of government.
18:37 Some guys are toxic but they're not toxic because they're males. They're toxic because they are jerks who have character flaws.That's on that individual.
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When you are physically fit, it communicates to others that you are capable and in control. It shows that you are able to take care of yourself and that you are proactive about your health. Physical fitness also indicates that you are detail oriented and able to stick to a plan. It demonstrates that you can set goals and follow through on them. Fitness expert Pete Mueller, Founder of Pete Mueller Performance Group, shares how being physically fit is a sign of discipline, commitment, and hard work. It sends the message that you are someone who can be counted on to follow through on your obligations. Tune in to this episode and learn more.
Highlights:
04:01 So the Corporate Wellness opportunities ahead didn't quite get me excited. So I was freshly married and trying to figure out what I'm going to do.
06:02 I'm not always motivated to work out, but I've developed a discipline and I know that I make it clear with our clients and with our coaches that we’re not motivators.
07:07 And I believe that we're designed to live a long healthy life span.
16:28 So you need to still your life enough to prioritize the fuel that's going in. Guys, food is medicine and I don't know if we really embrace that food is medicine.
23:21 If you're going to prioritize your health and wellness in your Fitness and you know you need to move, you've just gotta make the time for it.
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Emerging technologies, such as artificial intelligence, are advancing at a rapid pace. Indeed, technological advancement and innovation continue to engulf us in a whirlwind. Your host, Tim McMurtry, is joined by Nick Myers, a tech guru and the CEO of RedFox AI. Listen as they discuss more about communication, AI, and how entrepreneurial pathways are not only turning vision into reality but exerting personal effort and recognizing the hurdles to overcome. Don't miss out on this episode if you want to know how to overcome struggles with the help of your past experiences to achieve rewarding feelings.
Highlights:
08:44 We have to be different. Even though I’ve never done anything in technology, I just feel a gravitational pull towards tech.
17:37 I think what is really fascinating and really powerful is—information is the most democratized it has ever been in our history.
18:15 If I can do it just by using resources on the internet, by checking out books from the library, buying books, using databases to white papers, or just by talking to people who are in the industry who are willing to give you advice and mentorship and information; if I can do it, you can do it.
27:51 I thought about my experiences throughout my life to see if it could influence a new direction for us and I found something.
35:39 One of the hardest things starting any business, let alone tech start-up, is product market fit. Is your assumption of the problem in the market place actually there, number one, and is the solution that you built to fix that problem, do people want that?
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In order to achieve success, it's important to focus on what's important and let the distractions fade away. It's not always easy to stay focused, but with a little effort you can learn how to tune out the noise and stay on task. In this episode we'll discuss the importance and necessity of focus, and we'll provide some tips on how you can improve your focus. Tune in to this episode and learn more.
Highlights:
06:11 – Identify what you`re trying to do or desiring to do. This is where focus can become really beneficial because it helps you to narrow down what you really want to do.
15:22 – It helps us to make up our mind, it gives us something to shoot for and once we are shooting for that we then have to make up our mind to take consistent deliberate steps toward what we identified as what we want to be, do, or have.
24:25 – Focus and time management are the wonder twins that when you focus it on something you then have to manage your time to direct your attention toward that.
34:01 – First you have competence. When you become competent you become skilled at it. Once you are skilled at it you become an expert. Once you become an expert you then evolve into being a master and finally you now become a world class.
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It can be difficult to maintain your peace and composure in toxic work environments. However, with a bit of practice and some key principles in mind, it is possible to thrive even in the most challenging circumstances. Do you ever find yourself in a toxic work environment, where you feel like you can't win, no matter what you do? In this episode, we will discuss five keys to maintaining your peace in toxic environments.
Highlight:
05:02 – Making a quality decision
09:33 – You have to condition your mind
12:24 – Controlling your emotions
17:46 – Control your feedback
23:00 – Don’t take it personal
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Music is a universal language that can connect you to people around the world. Tim welcomes the multi-talented Daniel “D’Aych” Harris to the show. D’Aych is an accomplished producer and independent gospel/rap/rock artist from Milwaukee and founder of the Next Level Band.
Tim and D’Aych talk about the world of music and its impact, and explore its use as a communication tool. They discuss intentionality in music and how music is like a conversation where you need to give room for pause to let things sink in. They also explore the importance of humility to receive criticism and the discipline to stay focused and hone your craft.
Listen in as D’Aych talks about his time in solitary confinement and a new documentary that investigates the revocation of his voting rights.
Embrace the darkness to bring out the best in you.
Highlights:
05:42 I wound up being left at home a lot with the instruments. Music really became not only a second language but it became my best friend at that point.
11:13 He said, what you’re doing is good, but he said music is like a conversation. You don’t want to overstep your boundaries in the course of the conversation. You want to be able to say something, and then give room for the other person to say something.
15:57 I’m blessed to have a whole team of musicians that are better than me in my band. All the musicians in my band are better musicians than me and that makes me a better musician.
18:22 If you check not only what your purpose is, but the intention behind your purpose, it’ll help you to stay in the right lane. I found my lane by serving the community through various community initiatives.
28:18 I was developing that skill in a dark place. I think one of the most beautiful things, one of the most beautiful processes is the fact that you can look at a picture, but one of the old school ways of developing the picture was in a dark room. That’s what God did with my life. People see the full picture now but they don’t know that process happened in a dark room.
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In this episode, Tim welcomes Le'Keisha Roberts, Realty Executive Agent of Realty Executives Integrity, Entrepreneur, Event Planning Expert, and a Business Owner. Helping people to get home as easy, stress-free, and successful as possible.
Tim and Le'Keisha talk about the real estate process, sharing best practices and experiences. She also shares some tips on the requirements in getting a house.
Highlights:
10:50 – Location is everything because I can have a 1500 square foot home by the lake and it’s going to be worth $300,000 and I have a 1500 square foot home over here and It's not going to be worth as much and it doesn't mean that the house is any better.
12:27 – Right now Milwaukee is a hot spot! We have people from overseas contacting our brokerage. We have people from out of state contacting our brokerage because prices are great here and you can get a great return on investment.
19:44 – Number 1 is checking your credit, knowing where your credit is, and are you working with a budget. If there are things on your credit that shouldn't be there, things that you paid off. Write to the credit bureaus and tell them you have already taken care of it.
34:48 – Find a trusted real estate professional, whoever that advisor is going to be for you, what they should do is lay out a plan and understand what your goals are.
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In this episode, Tim welcomes Pastor Dumisani Washington, Founder and CEO of the Institute for Black Solidarity with Israel. Previously Washington served as the Diversity Outreach Coordinator for the over 10-million-member Christians United for Israel (CUFI). Dumisani is a pastor, professional musician, and an author whose latest book is the second edition of Zionism & the Black Church: Why Standing with Israel Will be a Defining Issue for Christians of Color in the 21st Century. They take a deeper dive into the nuances of alliance and relationship between people, groups, nations and cultures and the critical role that appropriate messaging and communication plays in strengthening or weakening alliances.
Tim and Dumisani discuss blending Sumasani’s skills together, the pandemic and its impact on people's relationship to the church, the biggest misconception about Israel, the support of black community to Israel, and insights regarding the alliances. Tim shares the first steps to find out more about the situation of Israel, impact and the problems caused and distinction between the terrorist state and the Palestenian.
Highlights:
21:32 That’s one of the ways the black community and the broader american society has been victimized because we don’t have access to the right history. We get a healthy dose of “here’s the bad things going on’. It makes people jaded, it makes them suspicious. Which is why our organization exists, hey no, let’s have a real conversation what’s going on
23:52 When you have some knowledge about something, especially if you see something going in the wrong direction, go ahead and introject that thing.
33:46 These organizations that do this kind of teaching and advocacy will give you tools, downloadable PDF files, videos, these types of things. I also recommend the other ones that do the advocacy, I know sometimes some folds have different feelings but it has a lot of good content.
37:21 Inform yourself, do a deep dive. You’re going to like what you see, you’re going to be challenged by what you see.
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In this episode, Tim welcomes Cheryl McMurtry, founder and president of McMurtry Financial Services. She is an accounting maven with 25-plus combined accounting, CFO, and related professional experience with small businesses, non-profits, educational institutions, and faith-based organizations. They dive into the topics of communications in business.
Tim and Cheryl talk about joining workshops that support small businesses, the importance of getting professional services, financial statements, write-offs for businesses and much more.
Highlights:
06:34 Starting a business is much like having children. There’s no qualifiers to launching a business, much like there’s no qualifiers to parenting children. You just do it.
24:49 Financial statements are key, you can see whether you’re making enough money, what your profits really are and how you can use those profits to actually create a paycheck for yourself.
32:38 Documentation is critical when you are taking advantage of some of those entertainment, vehicles, trips, traveling for business, etc.
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In this episode, Tim shares that reflecting and identifying what is most essential in one’s personal life is very important.
He discusses the keys to identifying your purpose. These provide enough revelatory muscle to help us discover what we’re really put on this earth to do. As we discover and engage, we’ll have a life that is most enjoyable.
Highlights:
05:54 If you like engaging with people, perhaps your purpose has something to do with others in being in some sort of regular engagement with people.
09:32 Know what you’re doing, that is how I can get satisfaction. If you don’t know what you’re doing, get to another purpose because that is not working.
14:20 If you started out in something and you found out this isn’t it, it’s okay to change your mind and do something else. You don’t have to go in perpetuity in doing something that brings you misery. That’s not a part of your purpose.
22:44 Skill is developing the right way to do it and with repetition you get better and more refined. After you get skilled, you become an expert at that. Competent, skilled then expert.
26:19 You are living right now and that thing that makes you live is a divine essence in you and it gives you insight to what your purpose is.
30:54 Past experiences helped to guide me to purpose.
38:33 Purpose is not to destroy you, it’s to maximize your soul so that you can maximize your impact on others. If you keep coming back to something that’s bringing misery to your life, that’s not the purpose for you.
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On today’s episode, Tim talks with William Deck, a success mindset coach and transformation expert through his company Mind Business. William shares why he started his own consulting firm that focuses on organizational transformation and mental fitness training and coaching. He challenges his clients to think about what is possible, not just what doesn’t work and how to use techniques and methods to maximize quality of life.
William and Tim discuss what contributes to people’s low self esteem that need to be unlocked and touch on the topics of diversity, equity, inclusion, code-switching, psychological sabotage. William shares how he got into this work, healing himself and having a mental transformation and challenges us to reassess our internal narrative that’s been in place from childhood to get creative possibilities.
Explore within yourself. The truth is within you.
Highlights:
04:00 There’s a lot of work being done on how to improve processes, how to address diversity, equity and inclusion, that all speak to the external components. But one thing I’ve learned in my journey is that all these have an internal source not as a group of people but as individuals.
06:45 By the time you’re roughly seven years old, your general beliefs about the world and what you believe to be possible for yourself are set.
15:23 One workshop I created was a workshop on code-switching. Code switching is the phenomenon of changing your dialect, the way you speak, as well as your behaviors based on who is present.
18:18 Lets’ talk about things that connect us, not just to be “kumbaya”, but because this is real life and we all have minds. The mind has no face, has no shape, has no color.
27:31 It was always a future state. I had to do more or I had to do this or that in order to be enough. Once I realized what that voice was telling me, I began to dive into deep study on how the mind actually works.
29:42 If you don’t believe that you deserve something, you will self-sabotage. Not because you don’t want to, or because you don’t want better, but because your paradigm or your habitual behaviors and thinking and attitudes will force it.
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In this episode, Tim tells us that being optimistic in the face of adversity is important for personal advancement and improvement. Your mindset is a factor in your growth. You can incrementally increase your capacity to live better.
Tim shares three keys to elevated thinking and living: creative imagination, consistent courage, and deliberate words and actions. See yourself with it, and imagine how it would feel, to manifest good things in your life.
Highlights:
02:08 Although we sometimes have to pause or maintain our best disposition in a certain place for a minute or two as life happens, so long as we can see ahead we can extract fuel for better days ahead.
06:42 There’s no bigger asset you have than the strength of your mind. And the mind is powerful enough to get you some stuff even if you ain’t got no help.
10:54 If you consistently stay with something it will, in time, as you are skillfully applying it, you will grow your skill and increase your capacity.
16:38 So if you’re going through something you don’t desire, stop thinking about that part and force your mind to think about your best case scenario. And think about it over and over and over again. As you put it in your mind, your mind is creating it in the spirit and then it will manifest in the physical realm.
34:30 Think as big as you can think. Outthink your biggest thoughts that you ever had before and know that I’m with you every step of the way.
41:07 If you are feeling some kind of way other than what you’d rather be feeling, you have to re-feel another way. That’s you doing it.
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