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In Episode 95 of The Blueprint Podcast, Jason sits down with licensed marriage and family therapist Talia Bombola for an honest, raw, and empowering conversation about personal growth, healing, and transformation. As the year comes to a close, many people set big goals for the new year, often aiming to “fix” everything at once. But Talia offers a refreshing perspective — it’s not about healing from being broken, it’s about learning to adapt and grow.
They discuss the power of radical accountability, how to navigate life’s inevitable challenges, and why "doing the work" doesn’t mean overhauling your entire life overnight. Talia breaks down the stages of conscious change, the concept of self-sabotage, and the need to stop viewing ourselves as "broken." Instead, she encourages us to see ourselves as people who are always adapting, always evolving, and always capable of more than we realize.
This episode will leave you with a powerful message: You are not broken. You are becoming.
If you’re stepping into a season of change, preparing for 2025, or simply want to understand yourself on a deeper level, this episode is filled with practical tools and thought-provoking insights. Listen now to learn how to:
Shift from "healing" to "adapting"Navigate the tricky terrain of relationships when you grow but others don’tRecognize and break free from the victim mentalityDevelop radical self-accountability and personal agencyUnderstand how childhood programming impacts adult decisionsThis episode is a wake-up call for anyone ready to rewrite their narrative, drop the victim label, and step into their authentic, most powerful self.
Connect with Us:
Host: Jason SmithGuest: Talia Bombola, LMFTSocial Media Links:
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The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care.
Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.
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Episode Description: In this powerful episode of The Blueprint Podcast, we’re joined by bestselling author, entrepreneur, and creative force Brittany Bacinski. Brittany’s journey is one of resilience, creativity, and bold defiance of societal expectations. She’s the author of Reaching for Driftwood, On His Way Back to Me, and co-author of Hippie Eats. Her works have captured hearts worldwide and are now making their way to the big screen.
We dive into Brittany’s incredible evolution from a small-town girl with big dreams to a self-published bestseller with a film deal on the way. She shares her journey through divorce, self-discovery, and the power of following her intuition—even when it defied logic. Brittany’s philosophy of "being a defiant human" is a recurring theme throughout the episode as she shares her lessons on love, independence, and creating a career outside of the traditional mold.
Key Topics in This Episode:
Brittany’s journey to becoming an author: How she channeled childhood trauma into creative energy.
Writing Reaching for Driftwood and On His Way Back to Me: The process of turning life’s hardest lessons into art.
How Brittany’s Reaching for Driftwood and her upcoming TV/film adaptation came to be.
Age-gap relationships, attachment styles, and the complexities of love and dating.
Navigating the "fearful avoidant" attachment style and how it’s impacted her romantic relationships.
The origins of "The Defiant Human" brand and how it became a driving force in Brittany’s life.
Brittany’s disciplined approach to fitness, self-care, and life’s daily challenges.
Her journey of self-publishing her books and how TikTok played a major role in building her audience.
Manifesting dreams on your own terms and overcoming "gatekeepers" in traditional publishing.
Guest Bio:
Brittany Bacinski is a bestselling author, entrepreneur, and host of The Defiant Human podcast. Her books include the memoir Reaching for Driftwood, the novel On His Way Back to Me, and the co-authored plant-based cookbook Hippie Eats. Known for her unfiltered honesty and "defiant human" philosophy, Brittany’s story is a testament to the power of intuition, self-determination, and creative passion. From self-publishing success to landing a movie deal, Brittany’s path has been anything but ordinary—and she wouldn’t have it any other way.Follow Brittany Bacinski:
Website: www.brittanybacinski.com
Instagram: @brittanybacinski
TikTok: @brittanybacinski
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If you’re looking for inspiration to live authentically, take control of your story, and defy the odds, this episode is for you. Get ready for deep insights and candid moments that will leave you feeling inspired and ready to write your next chapter.
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Episode Summary: In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, Jason sits down with the one and only Cathy Heller — renowned teacher, bestselling author, and host of the top-rated podcast Abundant Ever After with over 45 million downloads. Cathy shares her powerful philosophy on abundance, manifestation, and the "Law of Reception." This episode dives into deep, practical wisdom for anyone feeling stuck, unworthy, or unsure how to tap into their potential.
Cathy reveals how to overcome feelings of lack, release old programming, and rewire the mind to receive more abundance in every area of life. They explore how to cultivate authentic power, find creative flow, and become the person who can hold the blessings that are already waiting for you. With personal stories, relatable metaphors, and actionable insights, Cathy provides a guide to stepping into alignment, trusting your inner wisdom, and living a life of deeper fulfillment and love.
Whether you’re struggling to believe abundance is available to you, feeling stuck in your career, or seeking a sense of purpose and joy, this episode is packed with tools to help you shift from scarcity to abundance. Tune in to learn how to become a vessel for infinite possibility and how to access your true creative genius.
Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction to Cathy Heller and the themes of the episode 3:45 - Jason’s reflections on Cathy’s new book, Abundant Ever After 7:30 - What inspired Cathy to write Abundant Ever After and what she hopes readers take away from it 12:50 - Why feeling "unworthy" is a false story we’ve been conditioned to believe 18:40 - How to recognize when your ego is in control and shift to a state of flow 25:10 - The "Law of Reception" explained and how to expand your capacity to receive 30:45 - Why abundance is our natural design (and how nature reveals this truth) 37:20 - How triggers from others are actually opportunities for growth and self-reflection 43:55 - Cathy's personal journey through music, pivots in her career, and lessons on following intuition 52:15 - Why alignment impacts every part of your life, from career to relationships 58:10 - How to overcome the fear of "not being enough" and give yourself permission to thrive 1:05:45 - Why manifestation is about energy and alignment, not just "positive thinking" 1:10:20 - The power of checking in with yourself daily and setting "intention alarms" 1:16:45 - The Christmas lights story and the lesson about capacity and holding abundance 1:22:30 - The takeaway: How to begin expanding your capacity to receive abundance today 1:26:15 - How to connect with Cathy Heller and join her 21-day challenge
Key Takeaways:
The Law of Reception: Abundance isn’t something you "attract" — it’s something you "receive" by expanding your capacity. Just like a light bulb’s wattage, you’re only able to hold as much energy (wealth, love, joy) as your internal circuitry allows.
The Power of Flow State: When you’re aligned and in flow, everything you desire is drawn to you naturally. Flow state can be achieved by rewiring old mental programs and stepping into a mindset of limitless possibility.
Triggers Are Teachers: If someone’s success triggers you, it’s an opportunity to notice what’s unresolved within yourself. Use that moment to reflect, realign, and grow.
Energy Dictates Results: Your energy sets the frequency you’re tuned into, and life’s blessings (people, opportunities, and success) are drawn to that frequency. Raise your energy and watch your life shift.
You Are the Wizard: Like in The Wizard of Oz, you are the one with the power to shift your reality. No one is coming to "save" you — you have everything you need to create the life you want.
Quotes to Highlight:
“Every tree, every eagle, every living being is designed to thrive. So are you.” - Cathy Heller
“If you’re feeling unworthy, it’s not because something’s wrong with you — it’s because something’s right with you. You’re meant for more.” - Cathy Heller
“The more you receive, the more you give. That’s how abundance works.” - Cathy Heller
“There’s no wizard of Oz — you’re the wizard.” - Cathy Heller
“Every single time you’re in overflow, your joy spills over to the people around you. The world needs more people walking around with full cups.” - Cathy Heller
Where to Find Cathy Heller:
Podcast: Abundant Ever After (Available on all podcast platforms)
Website: cathyheller.com
Instagram: @cathy.heller
Book: Abundant Ever After — Available wherever books are sold
Join Cathy’s 21-Day Challenge: Start your most abundant year on January 1st with Cathy’s 21-day manifestation challenge. Learn how to access flow state, receive more abundance, and break free from scarcity thinking. Details here.
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On this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, Jason Smith welcomes Dr. Taylor Burrowes, a relationship coach and creator of the transformative "vetting system" for dating. In this insightful conversation, Dr. Burrowes shares her expert approach to vetting potential partners, overcoming dating challenges, and building stronger, healthier relationships.
Jason and Dr. Burrowes discuss the biggest struggles men face in dating today, the dangers of chasing superficial connections, and how men can reclaim their confidence. Dr. Burrowes emphasizes the importance of compatibility beyond chemistry, emotional regulation, and the power of discernment in both dating and life.
From navigating long-distance relationships to understanding attachment styles, this episode offers essential advice for men (and women) seeking meaningful relationships. Dr. Burrowes also dives into her own personal journey as a former licensed mental health counselor turned relationship coach and new mom, sharing how her experiences shape the unique perspective she offers her clients.
Whether you're dating, in a relationship, or striving for personal growth, this episode is packed with actionable strategies to help you build better relationships and become the person you’re meant to be.
What You'll Learn:
The Vetting System - How to apply logic, desire, and love to find the right partner. Dr. Burrowes explains her tried-and-true system for selecting partners and making sound relationship decisions.
The Importance of Compatibility - Learn how to assess compatibility early in the dating process, looking beyond surface-level attraction.
Avoiding Dating Pitfalls - Discover the common traps people fall into during the dating process, such as "professional dating" and attachment system manipulation.
Emotional Regulation - Dr. Burrowes explains the importance of recognizing when you’re dysregulated and how to use upregulation and downregulation techniques to find calm in difficult moments.
Healthy Boundaries in Relationships - Learn how to establish healthy boundaries with exes, opposite-sex friends, and in new relationships.
Long-Distance Relationships - Tips for navigating long-distance dating successfully, including how often you should meet in person and why constant texting can be problematic.
Why Men Struggle in Modern Dating - A discussion on why older men often feel insecure about their attractiveness, and how to develop confidence through self-improvement and intentionality.
Social Media Vetting - Advice on how to use social media to present yourself authentically and vet potential partners without falling into the trap of "over-sharing" or "online stalking."
Breaking Toxic Relationship Cycles - How to identify and avoid toxic relationship patterns, as well as Dr. Burrowes’ approach to helping clients break free from these cycles.
Accountability and Self-Growth - Learn why taking personal responsibility for your growth is essential for finding a long-term partner.
Memorable Quotes:
"Logic, desire, and love. If you have all three, you’re on your way to an ideal relationship." — Dr. Taylor Burrowes
"Stop trying to impress people or chase people. The most important relationships come from being authentically you." — Dr. Taylor Burrowes
"Vulnerability for men is not oversharing your life story on the first date. It’s being authentic, honest, and grounded in who you are." — Jason Smith
"You’re not supposed to fix people you’re dating. Vet them well enough in the beginning so you’re not signing up for a project." — Dr. Taylor Burrowes
About Dr. Taylor Burrowes: Dr. Taylor Burrowes is a former licensed mental health counselor who transitioned into relationship coaching to help individuals and couples achieve fulfilling, long-lasting love. She’s best known for her "vetting system" that teaches people how to assess compatibility and alignment with potential partners. Dr. Burrowes works primarily with men, offering direct, no-nonsense guidance. As a new mom, she’s also navigating the world of family life while continuing to provide value to her clients and audience through social media and one-on-one coaching.
How to Connect with Dr. Taylor Burrowes:
Instagram: @taylorburrowes
Website: DrTaylorBurrowes.com
X: @TaylorBurrowes
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Meghan Elinor is a dynamic content creator known for her unfiltered opinions, thought-provoking hot takes, and her ability to spark meaningful dialogue on social media. With a career that spans lifestyle, beauty, and political commentary, Meghan uses platforms like TikTok to engage her audience with a mix of relatability and bold perspectives. Her viral journey began in 2023 when she committed to posting consistently, quickly amassing over 100,000 followers with her unique voice and authentic storytelling.
Balancing her role in the plastic surgery industry with her content creation, Meghan brings a grounded perspective to her online presence. She credits her success to her willingness to share real, raw experiences while navigating controversial topics with honesty and self-awareness. A self-described “professional yapper,” Meghan has cultivated a community of followers drawn to her wit, vulnerability, and ability to challenge societal norms.
Outside of her digital persona, Meghan is deeply introspective, highly values self-growth, and uses her platform to inspire others to reflect, evolve, and embrace their individuality. From viral Starbucks debates to nuanced discussions on relationships and personal accountability, Meghan continues to carve out her space as a voice for thoughtful and engaging content creation.
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Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care.
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In this episode, Jason Smith, Host of The Blueprint Podcast, sits down with Amy Morin, LCSW, psychotherapist, mental strength trainer, and bestselling author, to explore the power of mental strength and its role in fostering healthier relationships.
Together, they tackle common challenges like feelings of inadequacy, grief, and the pitfalls of bad relationship advice. The discussion shines a light on the importance of emotional intelligence, self-compassion, and boundary-setting, particularly during the holiday season—a time that often amplifies stress, burnout, and emotional struggles.
Amy shares actionable strategies for managing workplace stress, overcoming burnout, and navigating tough emotions. You’ll also hear practical tips for setting personal boundaries, practicing gratitude, and making small yet impactful changes to strengthen your mental resilience.
Whether you're preparing for the holidays or seeking tools to thrive year-round, this episode is packed with insights to help you take control of your mental and emotional well-being.
Don’t miss it!
Connect with Amy Morin, LCSW here.
TedX Talk here.
Amy's Podcast here.
All of Amy’s books can be found at AmyMorinLCSW.com/books
13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do
13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don’t Do
13 Things Mentally Strong Women Don’t Do
13 Things Strong Kids Do
13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do Workbook
13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don’t Do
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Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care.
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Nick Pollard, Born in April of 1980, is a world-renowned coach and speaker specializing in People Pleasing, Codependency, and Addiction. With over 50 million views on his social media channels, Nick has become a thought leader in personal growth and change. He ranks in the top 10% of coaches worldwide.
Nick had a (in his own words) less-than-ideal childhood. His father was an alcoholic, workaholic, se* abuser. The latter would later push Nick to his psychological end, which landed him in a hospital in 2009. After that, Nick struggled mightily to hold his life together but could not (or so he felt) battle the mounting demons and turned to drugs and alcohol to solve the problem. It did not solve the problem, and roughly 9 years later, a change had to be made. Nick willingly checked himself into rehab, and the PeopleDisPleaser was born. Since then, Nick has traveled the world, learning and helping others and communicating his journey. His love for seeing people grow and the "light bulb go on and then explode" is what he credits, his drive.
Nick has been very successful in business, forming and selling many companies. His first entrepreneurial venture, at age ten, was door sales for his car wash company that would later net him enough money to buy fireworks for the Fourth of July. "My parents said we did not have any money. I knew that was a lie, but I went anyway. I have made my own money since." If you ask Nick what he feels the key to success is, he would say, "Do the work. It is not fashionable or even slightly pretty. Just do the work." He enjoys walking on the beach, working out, and traveling. When he is not on the road, he spends time with his two cats, Azula and Zuko, reading, and working.
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In this enlightening episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith welcomes the inspiring Candace Harmony, a passionate speaker and advocate for self-love and faith-driven living. Candace shares her journey from a challenging childhood to becoming a beacon of light for others through her work on social media and her focus on helping truck drivers maintain a healthy lifestyle.
Key Topics Discussed:
Discovering Self-Love Through Faith
Candace discusses the importance of self-love rooted in faith. She emphasizes that understanding who you are and who created you is crucial for true self-love and confidence.Overcoming Life’s Challenges
With personal anecdotes, Candace talks about overcoming significant obstacles and how her faith has been a guiding force. She likens herself to a "streetlight" for others, aiming to be a source of hope and guidance in their darkest times.The Power of Authenticity
Both Candace and Jason delve into the idea of authenticity and the courage it takes to be yourself. Candace stresses the importance of knowing that everything you need is already within you and that you don’t need external validation to be your true self.Living with Purpose
Candace shares insights on finding one’s purpose not by changing external circumstances, but by focusing on internal growth and standing firm in one’s current position with faith and trust in God.Guidance for the Journey of Self-Discovery
Candace provides practical advice for those struggling with self-doubt and seeking permission to be themselves. She encourages listeners to stop looking for permission from others and instead learn to trust themselves and their own journey.Equally Yoked Relationships
Discussing relationships, Candace explains the concept of being "equally yoked" with a partner. She highlights the importance of being with someone who is spiritually aligned and equally committed to personal and collective growth.Fitness and Faith
Candace talks about her unique fitness journey and how it led her to focus on helping truck drivers with their health and wellness, emphasizing the importance of caring for oneself physically as part of overall spiritual well-being.Candace’s New Ventures
Introducing her upcoming program, "Wellness at the Well," Candace speaks about creating a community focused on thriving in every area of life through biblical principles, ensuring participants are not just surviving but truly living fulfilled lives.Quotes to Remember:
“Our life is our gift from God. What you do with your life is your gift back to Him.”“You are not supposed to love anybody with all your heart. You're setting yourself up for failure because they were never qualified or created to be able to handle all of your heart.”Synopsis:
In this heartfelt episode, Jason Smith and Candace Harmony explore the depths of self-love, faith, and purpose. Candace shares her personal journey of transformation, highlighting how she overcame significant life challenges through her unwavering faith and determination. Her message is clear: true self-love begins with understanding your divine creation and purpose. Candace’s story is a testament to the power of authenticity, faith, and resilience.
Listeners will be inspired to embrace their imperfections, stand firm in their faith, and love themselves deeply. Whether you're struggling with self-doubt, seeking permission to be your authentic self, or wanting to find your purpose, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement for your journey.
Connect with Candace Harmony:
Facebook: Candace HarmonyTikTok: Candace HarmonyInstagram: Candace HarmonyDisclaimer:
The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care.
Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.
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The Blueprint Podcast with Jason Smith and Guest Anna Axiotis (aka The Moody Therapist)
In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith sits down with Anna Axiotis, also known as The Moody Therapist, to discuss the complexities of attachment styles, emotional healing, and the impact of social media on personal growth. Anna shares her journey from being a casual social media viewer to becoming a content creator and therapist who uses her platform to discuss mental health, relationships, and attachment dynamics.
The conversation dives deep into Anna’s experience with attachment styles, particularly avoidant and anxious attachments, and how understanding these styles can help individuals form healthier relationships. Anna discusses her approach to therapy, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, vulnerability, and compassion in overcoming shame and trauma.
Jason and Anna explore the challenges and benefits of being vulnerable online, including the potential for both positive and negative feedback from the audience. They also discuss the importance of taking time for oneself, through practices like relationship fasts and chosen solitude, to better understand personal needs and desires.
Show Notes:Introduction
Jason and Anna introduce each other, reminiscing about how they connected on social media and the common interests that brought them together.Anna’s Journey on Social Media
Anna describes her transition from a social media viewer to a content creator and therapist, sharing personal stories that resonated with a wide audience.Discussion on the impact of her first viral post and how it led to her niche in mental health and therapy on platforms like TikTok.Understanding Attachment Styles
Deep dive into attachment styles, particularly anxious and avoidant attachments, and their impact on relationships.Anna explains the importance of recognizing and working through attachment issues to form secure and healthy relationships.The Power of Vulnerability and Compassion
Exploration of how vulnerability and compassion can help heal past wounds and reduce feelings of shame.Jason and Anna discuss how sharing personal experiences can create a sense of freedom and community support.Navigating Social Media Feedback
The duo talks about the highs and lows of receiving feedback on social media and its effects on mental health.Strategies for managing negative comments and staying true to one’s message.The Concept of Relationship Fasts and Chosen Solitude
Anna shares the benefits of taking a break from romantic relationships to focus on self-growth and self-discovery.The importance of maintaining individuality within relationships and avoiding the trap of codependency.Practical Advice for Attachment Healing
Tips and strategies for moving from insecure to secure attachment styles, including self-soothing techniques and the importance of setting boundaries.Discussion on how to engage with partners about personal triggers and the importance of creating a safe space for open communication.Closing Thoughts
Jason and Anna emphasize the importance of continuous self-development and growth in relationships.Anna shares details about her upcoming breakup/divorce journal, designed to help people process emotions and heal after a relationship ends.How to Connect with Anna Axiotis
Follow Anna on TikTok: @AnnaDoesTherapy and Instagram: @TheMoodyTherapistInformation about Anna’s upcoming guided journal for breakups and divorces, including its launch date coming soon!Connect with Jason here.
Listen now to gain valuable insights on attachment styles, emotional resilience, and the power of vulnerability in building stronger, more fulfilling relationships!
Disclaimer:
The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care.
Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.
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Content Warning:
This episode contains discussions about mental health, social media burnout, abusive relationship dynamics, and references to trauma. Listener discretion is advised.
In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith sits down with Mark Groves, widely known as "Create the Love," and co-author of Liberated Love, written alongside his wife, Kylie McBeath. Mark shares his transformative journey from being a prominent social media influencer to stepping back from the demands of digital platforms. He opens up about the psychological toll of constant content creation, the manipulative nature of social media algorithms, and his decision to prioritize mental health and authentic expression over online metrics.
Mark discusses the profound impact of his break from social media, likening the dynamics of platform algorithms to an abusive relationship. He delves into the importance of boundaries, both in digital and personal spaces, and highlights how he navigated his departure from major social media platforms while still maintaining meaningful connections with his audience.
The conversation also explores the foundational principles behind Liberated Love, focusing on the themes of self-awareness, relational patterns, and the journey toward more conscious, liberated love. Mark and Jason discuss the role of men's groups, personal growth, and the transformative power of initiating authentic conversations in relationships.
Listeners will gain insight into the importance of stepping into one's true self, the challenges and rewards of breaking free from codependent behaviors, and the value of setting boundaries in all forms of relationships. This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in personal growth, relational healing, and the journey toward a more authentic life.
Show Notes:
Introduction and Connection: Mark Groves and Jason Smith introduce the episode, highlighting their connection through mutual acquaintances like Sabrina Zohar and their shared journey in the self-development space.
The Social Media Hamster Wheel: Mark shares his experiences with social media burnout, the decision to step back from content creation, and the psychological effects of constantly engaging with digital platforms.
Comparison to Abusive Relationships: A discussion on how social media platforms manipulate user engagement through algorithms, drawing parallels to abusive relationship dynamics and the importance of reclaiming personal power.
Liberated Love and Authentic Relationships: Mark discusses the themes of his book, Liberated Love, co-authored with his wife, Kylie McBeath. The conversation focuses on breaking free from codependent patterns, embracing authenticity, and fostering conscious relationships.
Men's Groups and Healing: The importance of men's groups in personal growth and healing is explored, with insights into how these spaces support the development of healthier attachment styles and emotional expression.
The Sacred Pause and Moving Forward: Mark explains the concept of a "sacred pause" in relationships—a period of intentional separation and self-reflection that can lead to deeper understanding and growth, either individually or together.
Personal Evolution and Surrender: A reflection on the process of letting go of old identities, embracing new paths, and the continuous journey of self-discovery and authenticity.
Closing Remarks and Where to Find Mark: Mark shares where listeners can find his work, including his podcast, courses, and his book, Liberated Love.
Links:
Mark Groves PodcastCreate the Love WebsiteLiberated Love - Book LinkMark Groves on InstagramTune in to this enlightening conversation and discover how to navigate the complexities of modern relationships, social media, and self-expression with authenticity and integrity.
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Shayla Kummer is a distinguished Metaphysician and Conscious Business Coach, dedicated to empowering individuals to align with their Highest Calling.
As the founder of Lionessencee, Shayla specializes in guiding clients toward personal mastery and spiritual actualization, enabling them to launch impactful brands and businesses that resonate with their true purpose. With a self-made entrepreneurial spirit, Shayla is on a mission to inspire and uplift humanity, creating a ripple effect of positive change across the globe.
She has cultivated a vibrant online community of over 180,000 followers across social media platforms, and her coaching services have reached clients in 14 different countries. Shayla holds a Bachelor's degree in Metaphysics, combining her academic background with her passion for personal development and spiritual growth.
Through her work, she provides the tools and insights necessary for individuals to embrace their unique gifts and make the meaningful impact they are destined to create on this planet.
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Understanding Disorganized Attachment with Talia Bombola, LMFT | The Blueprint Podcast
Description: In this insightful episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith welcomes licensed marriage and family therapist Talia Bombola to discuss the complexities of disorganized attachment. Talia provides a deep dive into this often misunderstood attachment style, drawing from her extensive training in psychoanalysis and her therapeutic practice.
Key Topics Discussed:
Introduction to Disorganized Attachment: Talia explains the origins and characteristics of disorganized attachment, referencing the foundational research of Mary Ainsworth and John Bowlby.
Impact of Childhood Experiences: A detailed exploration of how chaotic and alarm-inducing interactions with primary caregivers shape disorganized attachment, highlighting the prevalence and consequences of such experiences.
Behavioral Manifestations: Understanding the unique push-pull dynamics in relationships and the psychological defenses that individuals with disorganized attachment develop to cope with childhood trauma.
Comparison with Other Attachment Styles: Differentiating disorganized attachment from avoidant and anxious attachment styles, focusing on the absence of consistent caregiving models and the resulting relational patterns.
Challenges in Relationships: Discussing the difficulties faced by individuals with disorganized attachment in forming secure, healthy relationships and the potential for relationship sabotage driven by unresolved trauma.
Therapeutic Approaches: Insight into effective therapeutic strategies for managing and healing disorganized attachment, including the importance of therapy in achieving earned secure attachment.
Personal and Relational Growth: Emphasizing the significance of self-awareness and therapeutic support in overcoming disorganized attachment and fostering healthier relational dynamics.
Join Jason and Talia as they navigate the intricate world of disorganized attachment, providing valuable perspectives for anyone looking to understand this attachment style better, whether for personal insight or professional development.
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The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care.
Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.
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In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith welcomes Jack Donovan, author of The Way of Men and A More Complete Beast, and founder of the men's group Order of Fire. The conversation kicks off with a recommendation from Jason's online friend, Ray Gardner, who introduced him to Jack's work. Jason shares how reading The Way of Men resonated with his own experiences of seeking purpose and understanding one's place in the world.
Jack and Jason delve into the concept of "Vesperance," a term that encapsulates the wistful recognition of a past era and the anticipation of an unknown future. They discuss how the events of 2020 have left many feeling disoriented and the importance of adapting to the constantly shifting landscape. Jack draws parallels from classical philosophy, sharing insights from his studies of Plato and Socrates, and emphasizes the perennial nature of societal upheaval.
The discussion shifts to practical aspects of self-improvement and masculinity. Jack introduces the idea of finding purpose and meaning in life, even in a world that feels increasingly chaotic. He stresses the importance of focusing on what can be controlled within one's sphere of influence and the value of male peer groups in providing validation, identity, and a sense of belonging.
Jack also talks about the philosophy behind his men's group, Order of Fire, which aims to create a supportive community where men can develop and thrive. He shares the group's core rituals and the significance of having a personal system of values that guide one's actions.
Join Jason and Jack for an insightful conversation that explores the dynamics of masculinity, the impact of societal changes, and the journey towards self-actualization.
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Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.
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In this powerful episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith sits down with Jimmy Rex, author of Be One and founder of the men's group "We Are The They." This episode dives deep into Jimmy's journey from a successful real estate career to creating a transformative community for men.
Key Highlights:
Comedy Beginnings: Jimmy shares how he started his journey with stand-up comedy in Utah and how those experiences helped shape his public speaking skills.
Inception of "We Are The They": Learn about the origins of Jimmy's impactful men's group, the inspiration behind it, and the unique challenges he faced while building and evolving the community.
Experiences and Lessons: Jimmy discusses his real estate career, his time spent doing undercover work to combat sex trafficking, and how these intense experiences led him to a deeper purpose.
Creating Be One: Insights into Jimmy’s book, Be One, where he discusses the importance of integrity, being a good man, and how to cultivate deep, meaningful relationships.
Challenges and Solutions: Jimmy and Jason explore the common struggles men face, the importance of finding the right community, and practical steps for overcoming personal obstacles and achieving growth.
Manifesting Success: Jimmy shares a remarkable story of manifesting a giant hammerhead shark during a retreat, emphasizing the power of intention and belief.
Daily Habits for Happiness: Practical advice on the daily habits that contribute to happiness and well-being, and the significance of a supportive community.
The Importance of Integrity: The episode underscores the importance of integrity in personal and professional life, how to recognize and address out-of-integrity behaviors, and the value of true friendships.
Guest Information:
Jimmy Rex: Follow Jimmy on Instagram @mrjimmyrex for more insights and updates. Check out his podcast, The Jimmy Rex Show, and watch his documentary on YouTube. Don’t miss his book, Be One, available now.Host Information:
Jason Smith: Follow Jason for more episodes of The Blueprint Podcast where he brings on experts, authors, and thought leaders to discuss personal growth, relationships, and achieving your full potential.Subscribe and Listen:
Tune in to The Blueprint Podcast on Apple Podcasts, YouTube, or your favorite podcast platform. Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with others who are on their journey to becoming their best selves.
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The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care.
Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.
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Episode Overview: The Blueprint Podcast with Host Jason Smith and Guest Talia Bombola, LMFT
Episode Title: Understanding the Difference Between Avoidant Attachment and Narcissism with Talia Bombola
Guest: Talia Bombola, LMFT - Every Tuesday, Talia joins us to answer questions from social media.
Overview: In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith is joined by Talia Bombola, LMFT, to delve into the nuances between avoidant attachment and narcissistic personality disorder. Talia clarifies that avoidant attachment is not a diagnosis but a response pattern rooted in childhood experiences with primary caregivers. She contrasts this with narcissistic personality disorder, a clinical diagnosis characterized by ego-syntonic traits where the individual often lacks self-awareness about the distress they cause others.
Talia explains that avoidant attachment develops when a child's needs are inconsistently met, leading to a self-reliant mindset and emotional distance from others. This attachment style is malleable and can change over time with effort and proper support.
On the other hand, narcissistic personality disorder is marked by a lack of empathy and accountability, with individuals typically unaware of their harmful behaviors. Talia highlights the difficulties in treating malignant narcissism and the potential for some individuals with narcissistic traits to seek change, albeit rare.
Jason and Talia also touch on the misconceptions proliferated on social media about narcissism and the importance of accurate diagnosis by trained professionals. They discuss the empowerment that comes from understanding one's attachment style and making conscious choices in relationships.
Key Points:
Avoidant Attachment: A response pattern from inconsistent childhood caregiving, leading to self-reliance and emotional distance. It is not a clinical diagnosis and can change over time.Narcissistic Personality Disorder: A clinical diagnosis with ego-syntonic traits, lacking empathy and accountability. It is challenging to treat, especially malignant narcissism.Social Media Misconceptions: Highlighting the importance of accurate diagnosis and the misinformation prevalent on social media.Empowerment Through Understanding: Encouraging self-awareness and conscious decision-making in relationships.Join us for an enlightening discussion that will help you navigate your relationships with greater clarity and compassion. Tune in every Tuesday for more insights from Talia Bombola on The Blueprint Podcast.
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The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care.
Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.
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In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith talks with Kavita Ajwani, a men's relationship coach from Dashing Date. Kavita shares her journey from running a speed dating company to becoming a dedicated coach for growth-minded men seeking love. She discusses the challenges men face in dating, such as confidence issues and the proper use of dating apps.
Kavita explains her transition from event planning to coaching, emphasizing the importance of rebuilding confidence from within and maintaining a positive mindset. She offers practical advice on creating a strong dating profile, balancing online and in-person interactions, and confidently approaching women. Kavita introduces the "Y plus 1 method" for clear communication, helping reduce anxiety and build trust in early-stage dating.
The episode also delves into self-awareness, encouraging men to reflect on past relationships to identify and change unhelpful behaviors. Kavita and Jason discuss red and green flags in dating, highlighting the significance of honoring commitments and rescheduling canceled dates as signs of genuine interest. This episode is packed with actionable insights and strategies for men looking to improve their dating experiences and build meaningful connections.
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The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care.
Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.
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Welcome to another episode of The Blueprint Podcast with your host, Jason Smith. In this episode, Jason sits down with Dr. Kelly Brogan, the author of The Reclaimed Woman.
Jason kicks off the episode by sharing a serendipitous moment where he stumbled upon the documentary Heal, featuring Dr. Kelly Brogan, just as he was preparing for this interview. This synchronicity sets the stage for a deep and engaging conversation.
Dr. Kelly Brogan dives into her background, detailing her journey from a conventional psychiatrist to embracing holistic practices after her own health crisis. She shares her personal transformation story, including her diagnosis of Hashimoto’s thyroiditis and how dietary changes led to her recovery. This experience led her to challenge the allopathic medical system and become a passionate advocate for naturopathy and lifestyle changes.
The conversation takes a turn into the dynamics of family and the integration of masculine and feminine values. Kelly, influenced by her law enforcement family background, discusses the importance of these dynamics in personal development. She also explores the concept of victim consciousness, emphasizing the transformative power of taking ownership of our own suffering and seeing ourselves in those we blame.
Kelly introduces the practice of Family Constellation therapy, explaining its impact on her understanding of relationships and personal dynamics. She highlights the significance of offering belonging and acknowledging all family members, including those excluded or forgotten, to heal ancestral wounds.
The episode also delves into empowering relationships. Kelly shares insights from teachers like Laura Doyle on improving romantic relationships through respect and support. She stresses the importance of seeing your partner’s potential and allowing them the freedom to make mistakes without judgment.
Parenting is another key topic, with Kelly offering advice on raising children with respect for their individuality and sovereignty. She emphasizes giving to children without expecting anything in return and allowing them to make their own choices, fostering a healthy and supportive environment.
Jason and Kelly then discuss the societal challenges facing men and women today, touching on the war on masculinity and femininity. They highlight the need for men to heal with men and women to heal with women to restore natural dynamics and complementary relationships.
As the episode concludes, Kelly shares her excitement about her upcoming book, The Reclaimed Woman, and its companion program, Reclaimed, launching on July 8th. She invites listeners to join her on this transformative journey.
To connect with Dr. Kelly Brogan, visit her website at kellybroganmd.com.
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Check out her podcast, Reclamation Radio, for more insightful conversations. Don’t forget to grab a copy of The Reclaimed Woman, available on June 25th, and consider joining the Reclaimed program starting July 8th.
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Finally, Jason invites listeners to join his communities. The Blueprint is a space for everyone focusing on healing the relationship with yourself, while The Antares Society is a men's community dedicated to networking, support, and brotherhood.
The Blueprint Community
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Thank you for tuning in to The Blueprint Podcast! Stay tuned for more insightful conversations and remember to embrace your journey of self-discovery and growth.
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In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, I sit down with Britt Frank, a licensed neuropsychotherapist and trauma specialist, to explore the many facets of personal growth, self-healing, and relationship dynamics. Britt brings her wealth of knowledge to the table, sharing profound insights from her books, The Science of Stuck and The Getting Unstuck Workbook.
We discuss practical ways to navigate anxiety, trauma, and disordered thinking, providing listeners with actionable steps to apply in their daily lives. Our conversation delves into the importance of self-education, breaking unhealthy patterns, and understanding attachment styles. Britt emphasizes the significance of confronting and transforming one's inner narrative to achieve lasting change.
Whether you're struggling with feeling stuck or seeking to deepen your understanding of secure attachments, this episode is packed with strategies to help you reclaim your personal power and foster healthier relationships with yourself and others. Tune in for a deep dive into the transformative journey of self-discovery and healing.
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The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care.
Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.
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In this insightful episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith welcomes TikTok sensation Steve Bourdo, who boasts over 420,000 followers. Steve, a dedicated father and everyday man, delves into his unexpected rise on TikTok, which began as a way to combat loneliness during the early days of COVID-19. His candid stories range from humorous family antics to deep relationship advice, especially surrounding co-parenting post-divorce.
Steve opens up about the transformative experiences of his two divorces, sharing the emotional challenges and personal growth that followed. He emphasizes the importance of facing emotions head-on, a philosophy he sums up as "you have to feel it to heal it." This raw and honest dialogue explores how vulnerability and self-reflection have been crucial in overcoming life's obstacles and improving family dynamics, especially in co-parenting.
Listeners will find value in Steve's journey from heartache to healing, providing a powerful reminder of the resilience of the human spirit and the importance of community support in times of personal turmoil.
Disclaimer:
The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care.
Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.
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In this engaging episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith welcomes Brianna DiOrio, a dynamic voice in the realm of integrative medicine and personal development. Known for her thought-provoking content on social media, Brianna shares insights into the complexities of modern relationships, drawing from her extensive background in health, wellness, and life coaching. The conversation delves into the impact of social media on relationship dynamics, the nuances of dating in the digital age, and Brianna’s unique approach to content creation that blends personal experiences with professional knowledge. The episode is a deep dive into how we build and sustain relationships, the challenges individuals face, and the personal growth that accompanies our interactions with others. Whether you’re navigating the dating world or seeking to deepen existing relationships, this episode offers valuable perspectives and practical advice to enhance your relational toolkit.
Brianna DiOrio is a dynamic expert in integrative medicine, a clinical nutritionist, and a holistic life coach, recognized for her vibrant approach to health and wellness. With a PhD in Integrative Medicine and a background as a NASM certified personal trainer, she brings a unique blend of scientific knowledge and practical wisdom to her work. Brianna is deeply passionate about educating and empowering individuals to take charge of their health through holistic and functional practices. Her approach is centered on understanding the interplay between mental, physical, and emotional health, which she communicates engagingly through her social media platforms and her podcast, "Brianna Approved." Whether it’s debunking health myths or providing nuanced perspectives on wellness, Brianna’s content is both informative and transformative, encouraging her audience to live their healthiest lives.
https://www.briannadiorio.com/
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The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care.
Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.
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