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We were told that a good person should behave and think in a certain way. Anything outside of that typical framework is abnormal or needs to be fixed. However, what fun is the world if we are all the same kind of mainstream human being! I (Mrs. Tofu) recently came across a community of neurodivergent professionals in HK, and discovered a whole new perspective of the world. There were classroom trainings I attended to learn about neurodiversity in theory. However talking to real neurodivergent people and listening to their first-hand stories are so much more powerful and enlightening. In this episode, Mr. Bolo and I will share some of our learnings and thoughts. We are not abnormal, we are just different.
从小到大，我们被告知做一个乖孩子。任何“不乖”的表现就认为是不对的、需要纠正的。但是，如果全世界的人都是一种样子，那该多无趣啊！本人播主豆腐，最近接触到了神经多样化的职业社群，简直打开了新世界的大门。曾经在培训里学习过神经多样性的理论知识。但是直接和神经多元的人沟通，听到他们亲身故事，更加醍醐灌顶。这一集我和菠萝先生会分享关于这个话题的心得。我们不是不正常，我们只是不同。
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From last year, Mr. Bolo and Mrs Tofu have been travelling in China’s Mainland quite often. Mr. Bolo as a British born Chinese who only visited China’s mainland in early 2000s, has discovered a whole new perspective of modern life in China. In this episode, Bolo shares his experience, observations and culture shocks from our trips in China’s mainland. Stay tuned!
从去年开始，播主菠萝先生和豆腐小姐更多地在中国内地旅行。在英国出生长大的菠萝，上一次在内地旅游还是在二零零几年。这两年的频繁往来，让他当下中国的生活刮目相看。在这一季，菠萝会分享我们在内地旅行中的个人体验、细微观察、文化冲击等等。快来收听吧！
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Do you like your name? Do you have both an English name as well as a Chinese name? Who chose your name? This episode we started talking about the experience of meeting each other’s closest childhood friends, but got sidetracked and somehow started talking about interesting naming conventions in China’s mainland and the west, including how names are given, and even the nicknames we both had as children.
你们喜欢自己的名字吗？你有英文名字吗？你怎么选择自己的英文名的？这一季我们原本要聊对方的发小，结果走题开始聊中西方取名的习俗，以及我们小时候的花名。
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Did you grow up in a different country, city, or area than your parents’ original birthplace? Have you ever felt different to others, not as connected to others around you, your community, or your relatives, as you feel you should be? In this episode, our British Born Chinese host, Mr. Bolo introduces a new term: Third Culture Kid. As an (Adult) Third Culture Kid (ATCK) himself, he’s been learning about what it means, including the challenges and benefits, and other circumstances that revolve around this new-found community.
Book referenced: Third Culture Kids: Growing Up Among Worlds, David C. Pollock, Ruth E. Reken, and Michael V. Pollock.
第三种文化孩子：移民二代的归属感在哪里？你是在父母老家之外的国家、城市、或地区长大的吗？你是否感觉到自己和周围的人不同呢？无论和当地人还是和老家亲戚，都没有完全做到心心相惜？在这一集，身为英籍华裔的主播菠萝来给大家介绍一个新的术语：第三种文化孩子（Third Culture Kid TCK)。作为一个已经成年的第三种文化孩子(ATCK)，菠萝一直在学习这种身份的意义，它所带来的困境和益处，以及如何自洽于第三种文化孩子组成的的新社群。
参考书籍：Third Culture Kids: Growing Up Among Worlds, David C. Pollock, Ruth E. Reken, and Michael V. Pollock.
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What is life like after marriage? Is it anything like the Korean show ‘We Got Married’? How is our lifestyle better or worse now, as a married couple, compared to when we were single? During her teenage years, what kind of study or relationship pressures did Tofu face in China, compared to Bolo in the UK? These are all questions and topics we talk about in this episode!
婚姻后的生活怎么样呢？跟韩国节目《我们结婚了》的内容 一样的吗？对比单身生活呢？关于学习和恋爱，在中国成长的豆腐遇见了什么类型的压力？比较在英国的成长的菠萝呢？这一集，我们唠唠这些的话题！
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We’re back from our hiatus (break)! Did you miss us? It’s been so long… in this episode, we were going to talk about what we did on our break. Instead, we got sidetracked and started talking about some language-learning difficulties that Tofu had, and still has. Can you empathise with her? Listen to find out!
我们的回来了！大家想我们了嘛？在这一集，我们本来打算聊聊休息期间我们干了什么，但是跑题聊了豆腐以前和现在面对什么学语言的问题。你们也感同身受吗？请收听我们的对话吧！
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Our most popular guest speaker, Mr. Tudou ( “Potato” in Chinese) is back!! Mr. Tudou is a respected thinker and career achiever within our friend group in HK. He has been working in the investment banking industry in London and HK for more than 10 years. In his last episode, he talked about finding work-life balance. This year, he moved to a more challenging job, which changes his lifestyle. During our conversation, we caught up with him on changing job experiences and how we deal with struggles in life. Hungry for some food for thought? Stay tuned!
我们最受欢迎的嘉宾土豆先生返场啦！土豆先生在我们香港的朋友圈中是众所周知的人生思考家，他在伦敦和香港的投行业摸爬滚打十多年。在上一期他分享了如何找到生活工作的平衡。然而今年换到一份更有挑战性的工作后，他的生活状态也发生了变化。在这一期，我们和他唠一唠换工作到新单位的经历，和各自面对人生困境的方法。如果你也想get这些心得，就快快收听这期TalkYah吧！
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Last December, Mr. Bolo got down on one knee and proposed to me (MC Tofu). It was a total surprise! In this episode, we will reveal our two sides of the story that we started to consider marriage, Mr. Bolo prepared the proposal, and then the proposal itself. Was it a hard decision for us? Stay tuned to know more!
去年年底， 菠萝先生单膝下跪向主播豆腐求婚了。对我（主播豆腐）来说完全是个惊喜！在这一集，我们会分享各自不同的心路历程。从考虑婚姻、到菠萝准备求婚、在到求婚成功，这是一个艰难的过程吗？快来收听我们的故事吧！
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It’s been such a long time since we say hi to you guys! I can’t believe it’s already February in 2023. How time flies! In the past three months, we had quite a festival season with Christmas, New year, and Chinese New Year festivals following one another. During this period of time, me (MC Tofu) and Mr. Bolo have traveled either separately or together in Taiwan, Tofu’s hometown, and Macau. In this episode, we will share some interesting stories during our trips. In the end, there will be an important announcement!
By the way, early happy Valentine’s day!
真的好久好久没有和大家唠嗑了鸭！不敢相信2023年已经是第二个月了呢！真是时光飞逝啊～在过去的两三个月，圣诞、元旦、春节三个节日一个接着一个，我们在过去的冬季假期有分开旅行，也有一起旅行。菠萝的台湾兄弟之旅、豆腐坎坷的归家之旅、和久违的澳门之旅，我们在这一集将会分享一些有趣的故事和新发现。在最后会有一个重磅消息公布哦！
对了，提前祝大家情人节快乐鸭～
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We recorded this episode right after our trip in Thailand, and finally now broadcasting it to you all! It was our first time travelling together after co-living for almost 2 years, since not being out of Hong Kong for almost 3 years. During the trip, we discovered new things about each other, the destinations, and had lots of fun! Stay tuned to find out what happened in Thailand this summer.
我们刚从泰国回来时就录制了这一季，现在终于公布啦～泰国之旅是我们住在一起快两年，不能出香港近三年之后，第一次的共同旅行。在途中好多欢声笑语，也发现了对方不同的一面。想知道旅途中发生了什么有意思的事情，就快来收听吧！
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We watched the new season of House of the Dragon recently, and we love it! Because of that, I (Tofu) finally started to watch Game of Thrones for the first time (I know I am so late the to party!) and binged it over one week, while Mr. Bolo re-watched it with me as well as read the original book that House of the Dragon is based on. How do we find Game of Thrones as first time and a second time watcher? How do we find the differences between House of the Dragon and Game of Thrones? Stay tuned to find out!
我们最近追了新剧《龙之家族》，非常喜欢！因为这部衍生剧，我（主播豆腐）终于开始第一次看原始剧《权力的游戏》，并在一个星期内刷完了。真是迟到的狂欢啊～同时菠萝先生跟着再看了一遍，也读了《龙之家族》的原版书。首次和再次观看神剧的我们有什么不同的见解呢？这两部剧我们有觉得有什么分别呢？快来收听寻找答案吧！
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Here comes our long-waited new episode about a long-waited wedding! And why haven’t we been uploading? We were away for travelling ; ). Mr. Bolo went to Canada for his brother’s wedding, which had been postponed three times. While celebrating love, it also turned out to be a family reunion for Mr. Bolo after being away from his family for the past few years. In this episode, we will talk about some fun stories during the wedding, as well as the differences between western and Chinese weddings. Stay tuned!
久违的唠嗑鸭小伙伴们，我们终于更新啦！话说怎么又消失了一段时间？因为旅行鸭～菠萝先生终于去成加拿大，参加了哥哥久违的婚礼。因为疫情，婚礼被改期了三次。除了庆祝新人之外，这也是菠萝先生在好几年后首次和家人团聚。那在这一期，我们聊聊菠萝在婚礼的奇闻逸事和中西婚礼的差别。快来听听这一期唠嗑鸭吧！
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We all want the perfect kind of friendship in the classic TV series Friends. I (Tofu) have been pursuing a close group of friends since leaving school, a natural habitat of friendships. After lots of unrequited friendships, I finally came across a podcast episode that gave me insight into what was going wrong. In this episode, Mr. Bolo and I talk about our experiences in friendships, and different ideas about having healthy friendships. Also I will share the podcast that enlightened me - Witty Wednesday by Sandy Wu. Stay tuned!
我们曾经都想要《老友记》中乌托邦式的友谊，当然除非你没看过。校园是建立友谊的温室。而up主本人（豆腐）在离开校园后，也曾经想要组建一个可靠的朋友圈。在多次交友失败后，我终于被吴姗儒（吴宗宪女儿）的一集播客醍醐灌顶。她的这集播客终于让我明白为什么自己总是在交友中绊脚。那在唠嗑鸭这一集，我和菠萝会分享在交友上的个人经历和不同保持健康友谊的方法。同时我也会分享吴姗儒播客（今天星期姗）中的内容。快来收听吧！
吴姗儒播客：今天星期姗 Witty Wednesday
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Why haven’t we done a podcast for the past month? What has kept Mr. Bolo and I so busy recently? The answer is - probably the last thing you want to do in Hong Kong - moving! It has been such a painful and exhausting journey for us during this 1 month of moving, behind which is more than 3 months of house hunting. Has it been rewarding, eventually? Tune in to find out!!
已经一个多月没有更新播客，我们究竟在忙什么？答案是：（在香港最讨厌的事情）搬家！一个月的搬家之旅，再加上三个多月的苦苦寻觅新居，真是一把辛酸泪啊～最后这一切都值得吗？快来收听这一期的唠嗑鸭吧！
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Our lovely audience asked about how we live together and get along well. Truth be told, it was never perfect, but balanced. For the past 1.5 years living together, we have had challenges and frictions, but eventually got through them via communication and empathy. In this episode, we share our experiences and insights that led to a smoother co-living life.
我们亲爱的听众问到同居生活怎么做到和和气气。实际上，我们的同居生活并不是满分，但是平和。在过去同居的一年半，我们有过摩擦有过挑战，最终都通过沟通和同理心解决。在这一期，我们会分享这一年半的同居心得。
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This episode is about 2 cities, London and Hong Kong. Both Mr. Bolo and I have lived in these two cities, and have observed them either from a local or an expat perspective. We never expected these two cities would have so much in common…until we recorded this episode. If you are interested in how similar these 2 cities are, tune in!
这一期是个双城故事，伦敦和香港。我和菠萝先生都在这两个城市生活过。或是本地土著，或是外地人，我们以不同的视角观察着这两座城市。就在录制（唠嗑）的过程中，我们发现这两座城市在某些程度惊人地相似。如果你也好奇他们的相似之处，就快来收听吧！
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We haven’t been able to travel outside of Hong Kong for more than 2 years since Covid19 started in 2020. It seems a farfetched idea to travel abroad freely. Luckily your last travel memories are still fresh. In this episode, Mr. Bolo and I will share some of our last trips before Covid, and other good old-time travel stories. If you also miss traveling, tune in!
生活在香港的我们，已经两年没有离开这个城市旅游了。虽然出去旅游貌似是一个遥不可及的梦，但是我们对于最后一次旅行却依然记忆犹新。在这一集，我和菠萝先生来聊聊疫情开始前的最后几次旅行。如果你也怀念旅行，那就快来收听吧！
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From this January to now, Mr. Bolo and I have watched around 150 episodes of TV series and movies on Netflix already. Not only because it was Covid19 5th wave in Hong Kong, but also a result of Tofu’s passion in finding niche and good TV series. In this episode, we will share some of the Netflix shows we have watched and our thoughts about them. Are you interested in our selections of Netflix shows? Tune in!
从今天一月份开始到现在，差不多四五个月， 我和菠萝先生已经看了近150集网飞剧和电影了。不仅因为正好赶上香港疫情第五波，同时也是因为我（主播豆腐本人）特别爱看小众优质英美剧。在这一集，我们将会分享看过的一些剧和评价。你对我们的网飞剧单感兴趣吗？快来收听吧！
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The 2022 World’s Happiness Index Ranking is out! After 2 years under a global pandemic, some countries still remain happy. Among those countries, Sweden is ranked in the top 10, and this is where our friend Mr. Yang Cong (Onion in Mandarin) is from. In parallel, MC Tofu also read an online article about ‘3 happiness principles’ of Swedish people. That’s why today, we have invited Mr. Yang Cong to validate these three principles. Are you interested in knowing the secret ingredients of Swedish people’s happiness? Tune in!
2022年全球幸福榜单出炉了！疫情两年了，有些国家还是能保持幸福感爆棚。排名前十的国家中有瑞典，也就是我们朋友洋葱先生的家乡。与此同时，主播豆腐在网上看到一篇文章写到瑞典人三个快乐原则。那今天，我们就来让洋葱先生揭秘，看看这些原则是否正宗。如果你也想知道瑞典人民的快乐秘籍，那就赶快收听吧！
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In HK, moving out from parents’ place and renting your own place seems like an uneasy choice for locals. Knowing that some HK local peers have saved up to 1 million Hong Kong Dollars while living in parents’ places, made us to think about the value of moving out and living on your own. In this episode, Mr. Bolo and I will share our experiences, learnings and thoughts about this topic. Tune in!
在租金和房价极其昂贵的香港，对本地人来说要从父母屋子里搬出来住不是一件简单事。我们在香港的同龄朋友很多和父母一起住，有些已经存下一百万。这个现象引发我们思考：搬出来住值不值？在这一期，我和菠萝先生会分享关于搬离父母自己住的经历和想法。快来收听吧！
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