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  • This is an interview I recorded in the winter of 2020 with the inimitable Tigre Bailando, a dear friend and collaborator who passed away on October 1st, 2022 of their own volition. Tigre dedicated their life to the joyful pursuit of dance, artistic creation, unabashed self expression and social justice. In this profound and revelatory conversation, we talk about archetypes, mythology, macaroni art, fairies, the artist as shaman, and battling our inner demons. Please honor Tigre by donating to their legacy at Make Love Visible and Earthseed Black Arts Alliance.

  • In this dynamic interview, the multifaceted Jet Setting Jasmine and I talk about liberation through erotica, dismantling white supremacy in the porn industry, and radical sex education. A psychotherapist with an emphasis on intimacy post injury and illness, Jet Setting Jasmine is the owner of and lead therapist at Blue Pearl Therapy and the co-owner, with her partner King Noir, of the award winning Royal Fetish Films. Together they have over 20 years of experience as adult entertainers, directors, and producers. The duo combines their love of art, film and sex education to produce erotica that stimulates and engages audiences to explore their sexual fantasies. Their work on the decolonization of sex porn and politics has been featured in Huffington Post, Rolling Stones, Paper Magazine, Vice, Playboy, Forbes, Cosmopolitan, BBC, and Psychology Today.

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  • Since 2019, Christine Soyong Harley has led SIECUS (Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States), a national non-profit organization dedicated to advocating for comprehensive sexuality education in the United States. Founded in 1964, SIECUS promotes sex education that is comprehensive, evidence-based, and inclusive, aiming to help people of all ages make informed decisions about their sexual health and well-being. Chris brings extensive executive leadership experience to SIECUS as the former Director of Intergovernmental Affairs for the White House Initiative on Asian Americans and Pacific Islanders under the Obama Administration. Chris is mixed-race Korean American and Piscataway Indian–the indigenous people of Maryland, a single-mom by choice of twin boys, and the first generation of her family to attend college and graduate school. Chris received her B.A. in Politics from Oberlin College and a Masters in Public Policy from the University of Chicago.

    SIECUS works on various fronts to achieve its goals, including policy advocacy, resource development, and public education. It provides educators, policymakers, and health professionals with information and resources to support sexuality education. The organization also engages in advocacy efforts to influence public policy and funding related to sex education, working towards a society where everyone has access to the information and education they need to lead sexually healthy lives.

  • Jimanekia Eborn is a Queer, Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert, Trauma Media Consultant, and Comprehensive Sex Educator. She is the host of Trauma Queen - a podcast for survivors of assault and our allies. The podcast focuses on uplifting voices in all communities and exploring our collective journey to healing. Jimanekia is the Founder of Tending The Garden- a nonprofit in service of sexual assault survivors who have been marginalized, offering retreats, online summits, community and education. She is also the co-founder of Cintima, bringing increased representation to the field of Intimacy Coordination in the film industry. In 2021, Jimanekia joined Lenora Claire Consulting as a SA & trauma expert for film & television productions.

    Jimanekia has been working in mental health for over a decade with youth, adolescents, and adults. She has led trauma-informed comprehensive sex and sex toy workshops at multiple universities including Columbia University, Georgetown University, Colorado College and Rhodes College. She has been the keynote speaker at Princeton Women's History Month 2021, UCSB Women of Color Conference 2019, UNCC & UC Merced's Take Back the Night Events 2022. Jimanekia has been a featured panelist at the MAC Belfast, Soho House, San Diego University, Converge Con and GirlSchool LA. Her work as a sex educator has been featured in Marie Claire, Playboy, Cosmo, Mind Body Green, Well + Good, Nylon, and many more.

  • We go behind the scenes at NYC's hottest sex club, the New Society for Wellness (NSFW...wink, wink). Daniel Saynt is the founder and Chief Conspirator of NSFW, a private club for the adventurous in NYC. Designed to be a safe, judgement-free, cannabis friendly space for sexual exploration, the community has grown to over 6000 members, who connect virtually and at sensual get togethers at the NSFW Clubhouse. Daniel is an activist and a community organizer, and this conversation sheds light on both the magic and the challenges of orchestrating sex-positive gatherings. 

    If you're interested in a more intimate sensual gathering, join us for our upcoming in-person immersion, SACRAL SOUND AND SENSUALITY, a weekend retreat combining ceremony, music, expansive wilderness, alchemical plants, and erotic activation. 

    Recalibrate, heal, and deepen your relationship to the erotic in a ceremonial container Unlearn your conditioning to cultivate a truly personal and authentic erotic ontology Tap into the deep, replenishing well of the erotic to unleash your power and creativity Explore how erotic agency is tantamount to self-actualization Experience new frontiers of pleasure and self-touch with the support of vibrational sound and sacred plants

    Combining INTROSPECTION (the psyche) and INTEROCEPTION (the soma), the immersion will include consciousness raising and embodiment workshops, 1:1 consultations with Strippers & Sages host Lianne Sonia, and a sacred medicinal SENSUAL SOUND JOURNEY featuring live music by multi-instrumentalist and vocalist Petite Celine.

  • SEASON THREE IS HERE!  What does it mean to be an eco-sexual? How are sex, ecology, and climate change interconnected? And why is laughter a key ingredient in both activism and performance art? The legendary duo Annie Sprinkle and Beth Stephens explain it all! 

    Life partners and collaborators since 2002, Annie Sprinkle and Beth Stephens are the authors of the Ecosex manifesto (along with Guillermo Gomez Peña) and producers of the award winning films Goodbye Gauley mountain and Water Makes Us Wet, a documentary feature that premiered at Documentary 14 and screened at MOMA. Sprinkle, the old whore, is a former sex worker with a PhD in human sexuality, and Stephens, the hillbilly, holds a PhD in Performance Studies and is the founding director of Earth Lab at the university of California at Santa Cruz. In 2021, they received a Guggenheim fellowship for filmmaking. They have a new book out called Assuming the Ecosexual Position, which describes how the two came together as lovers and collaborators, how they took a stand against homophobia and xenophobia, and how this union led to the miraculous conception of the Love Art Laboratory. sprinklestephens.org

    https://sprinklestephens.ucsc.edu  |   https://www.upress.umn.edu/book-division/books/assuming-the-ecosexual-position

    *In honor of this episode on ecosexuality, we are holding a FUNDRAISING CAMPAIGN to support the legal defense fund of the water protectors who have been on the front lines PROTESTING LINE 3, a proposed pipeline expansion that would transport nearly a million barrels of tar sands per day through the untouched wetlands and treaty territory of the Anishinaabe people, passing through the Mississippi River headwaters to the shore of Lake Superior. The pipeline is proposed by Enbridge, the company responsible for the largest inland oil spill in the US. Join us in being devoted stewards, lovers, and protectors of the earth by donating here: https://www.stopline3bailfunds.org. To donate to mutual aid, click here: https://mn350.org/line3mutualaid 

  • In this episode, sex educator and pleasure educator Luna Matatas discusses threesomes, BDSM, sexual confidence and butt stuff, which you can learn more about on her podcast The Plug. Luna has over 10 years of experience teaching sexual empowerment workshops. She celebrates body confidence, self-adoration and building shame-free pleasure in and out of the bedroom. Her advice on sex and kink has been featured in Playboy, Cosmo, Vice, Women's Health and Pornhub, and she is the visionary behind the brands Peg the Patriarchy® and Meditate Medicate Masturbate® as part of her sex-positive and feminist merchandise. 

    This is our season finale! We are already stirring up a sensational season three for you. In the meantime, help us grow our audience by dropping a rating on Apple Podcasts and sharing the show with a friend. What was your favorite episode this season? We'd love to hear from you! Reach out at www.strippersandsages.com / [email protected] or on Instagram @strippersandsages. 

    We wish all our listeners a joyful, healthy, sexy new year filled with unparalleled amounts of laughter and pleasure. 

  • In this exciting episode, I interview Burlesque legends Jet Noir, Lou Lou la Duchesse de Rière, and Una Osato about the political, spiritual, subversive, and revolutionary aspects of this radical artform.  

    Lou Lou la Duchesse de Rière, known as the stripping sensation from the Mohawk nation, has been performing her brand of balls to the wall burlesque for well over a decade. Thrice  voted into the Burlesque Top 50 by 21st Century Burlesque (#11 worldwide and #1 in Canada) 2018 Queen of New Orleans Burlesque Festival, She is an internationally recognized performer who has shimmied her way across the stages of New Orleans, Las Vegas, New York, Texas, Detroit, and Chicago. https://linktr.ee/NationalResourcesList 

    Creator of The Black Manifest, the all Black, all masculine burlesque revue, Jet Noir is a sex educator and was the first man hired to dance for the infamous Mitchell Brothers O’Farrell Theatre in San Francisco. He has a reputation for stunning audiences with performances that are joyous, playful, and will have you screaming for more. He’s known as the obsidian obscenity here to disrupt your memories. He dances for work, joy, meditation, and has been heating up stages, internationally, since 2010. http://linktr.ee/JetNoir

    Una Aya Osato aka exHOTic other aka Norms, is a performer, writer, sex educator, CareBear, clown, and stripper from NYC. They are an award-winning actor and playwright who tours their original work nationally and internationally. They are also a co-founder of the queer BIPOC performance company brASS Burlesque. Venmo: @UnaOsato, Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/ThisIsUna

  • Ze Royale (ze/they/them) is a writer, performance artist, sexual anarchist, social worker, and pleasure activist. Ze writes and performs in “post-pornographic” films for Aorta Films, performs chanting rituals in the musical duo Zoid^,  and curates erotic events at venues like Ps 1 MoMA as a part of the production team for KinkOut. They studied psychology and sculpture at Sarah Lawrence, and Gender and Development at the School for International Training in Kingston, Jamaica before receiving their Masters in Social Work from Columbia University. Ze worked for 12 years in youth development and started the international nonprofit Unified for Global Healing, which develops grassroots community health and art initiatives in Haiti, Ghana, and India. They are currently Director of communications for the Sex Workers Project at the Urban Justice Center.

  • Samantha Rose Hill is the assistant director of the Hannah Arendt Center for Politics and Humanities, visiting assistant professor of politics at Bard College in New York and associate faculty at the Brooklyn Institute for Social Research in New York City, where she teaches courses such as Pornography: Aesthetics, Politics, and Pleasure, Sado-Masochism: Economies of Desire and Recognition, Judith Butler: Gender, Sex, and Death, and Beyond Eros: the Philosophy and Politics of Love, among others. She is the author of a biography of Hannah Arendt (forthcoming, 2021).

  • Today I speak with William Winters about inclusivity and diversity in polyamorous and sex positive culture, consent as care, and the intersection of activism and erotic liberation.

    In 2014, the San Francisco Chronicle named William Winters the "de facto king of the East Bay polyamory scene." He's been working to earn the title ever since. An activist, educator, and intimacy coach, William is the founder and co-producer of Bonobo Network, an Oakland-based organization that brings together folks who understand that monogamy isn’t right for everyone and that pleasure comes in many different packages to become more sexually informed, liberated, consensual, communicative, kind, and inclusive so that we can all get the pleasure, connection, and understanding we deserve.

    William has also been an advocate for polyamory in the media, appearing in San Francisco Magazine, KQED's Forum, the San Francisco Chronicle, and the New York Times. He has facilitated conversations about polyamory and sex-positive culture in settings including university campuses, political conferences, living rooms, Burning Man, and beyond. A campaign strategist by profession, a culture nerd by avocation, and a philosopher by major, William lives with his wife and their stupid cat in Oakland, CA. 

    Visit www.strippersandsages.com for show notes and transcript.

  • In this brief hiatus from our regular conversation series, Lianne waxes poetic on Wittgenstein, vaginal secretion, Beverly Hills 90210, the Encyclopedia of Sacred Sexuality, and the importance of relanguaging our erotic consciousness,

  • I interview Lazlo (president emeritus), and Shade (current president of Consensuality), two of the wonderful, big hearted humans behind the Orgy Dome at Burning Man. The Orgy Dome is the playa gift of the camp “..And Then There’s Only Love”.  Originally formed in 2003, the theme camp started out with a small group of sex positive friends, a six person tent and a few air mattress. Since then, it has grown into a 4500 square foot air conditioned structure, a camp of over 300 members, and a 501c3 non profit that provides education about and training in consent culture and consensual non-monogamy. In addition to the Orgy Dome, they host workshops throughout the year on topics ranging from erotic massage to the legal aspects of producing erotica. There is so much care that goes into creating this safe, sex positive, consensual play space for couples and moresomes during their stay at Black Rock City. Lazlo and Shade discuss the ins and outs of running the camp, share some raucous tories, and divulge the heartfelt mission behind the project. 

  • Michaelah Ivie, MA holds a masters in both Marriage and Family Therapy and Art Therapy and recently completed a year-long coaching program taught by Layla Martin at the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality as a Love, Sex, and Relationship coach. She is a wordsMYTH, conscious comedian, relationSHIFT coach, and motivational speaker, using wordplay to re-program consciousness on and off the stage. Her SPELLcial linguisTRICKs and empoWORDing iMAGICnation inspires creative ways of influencing humanity into a universal Love language.

  • Dr. Kim TallBear is Associate Professor, Faculty of Native Studies, University of Alberta, and Canada Research Chair in Indigenous Peoples, Technoscience, and Environment. She is also a Pierre Elliot Trudeau Foundation Fellow and the author of Native American DNA: Tribal Belonging and the False Promise of Genetic Science. Building on her research on the role of technoscience in settler colonialism, TallBear examines the overlapping ideas of “sexuality” and “nature” in the colonization of Indigenous peoples. She is a regular commentator in US, Canadian, and UK media outlets on issues related to Indigenous peoples, science, technology and critical non-monogamy, and is a regular panelist on the weekly podcast, Media Indigena. She also is a co-producer of the sexy storytelling and burlesque show, Tipi Confessions. Dr. Tallbear is a citizen of the Sisseton-Wahpeton Oyate in South Dakota and is also descended from the Cheyenne & Arapaho Tribes of Oklahoma.

    Transcript & resources available at www.strippersandsages.com

  • Misha Japanwala is a Pakistani artist and designer who creates stunning body casts of the female nude to critique and raise awareness about gender violence and the repression of female sexuality in Pakistan and around the world. Born and raised in Karachi, Misha moved to New York City to attend fashion school at Parsons School of Design. Her relationship to her own body and her complex identity as a privileged Pakistani, a woman of color and an immigrant are deeply woven into the fabric of her work. Misha’s debut collection, Azaadi, is an homage to the strength and agency of Pakistani women in the face of domestic violence, moral policing and taboos around female sexuality. Transcript available at www.strippersandsages.com. 

  • Ayden LeRoux is an interdisciplinary artist, writer, critic, and educator whose work explores embodiment, eroticism, and illness, in order to complicate narratives about gender, sexuality, and family structures. Her essays, fiction, and translation have been published in Guernica, Catapult, Electric Lit, Los Angeles Review of Books, Cosmonauts Avenue, Palimpsest, edibleManhattan, and Alchemy, among others. She is the Assistant Director of Odyssey Works, a collaborative performance group, and the author of Odyssey Works: Transformative Experiences for an Audience of One (co-written with Abraham Burickson, Princeton Architectural Press, 2016) and Isolation and Amazement (Samsara Press, 2013). Their work has been features in The New York Times, ArtInfo, Newsweek, BOMB, Hyperallergic, the Marina Abramovic Institute, Vulture, NPR's Studio 360, Fast Company, and San Francisco Magazine. She teaches Disability and Popular Culture at UCSD.

  • Leila Raven is a queer mama, organizer, and prison abolitionist from New York City. She is one of the creators of the #8toAbolition platform outlining specific, actionable steps that cities can take to move toward a world without police, and she has been a founding organizer with the DecrimNowDC and DecrimNY campaigns to end the criminalization of sex workers in New York and Washington, DC. She is also the former director of Collective Action for Safe Spaces (CASS), a DC-based grassroots organization working to build community-based approaches to gendered violence without prisons or policing. This is an extremely relevant and informative conversation given the recent events in the United States. Please listen and share widely! 

    Transcript available.

  • Katherine Rowland, former publisher and executive director of Guernica Magazine, recently published The Pleasure Gap: American Women and the Unfinished Sexual Revolution. In it, Katherine investigates everything from big pharma’s attempts to pathologize low female libido to the neoliberal underpinnings of the sexual self-help industry, arguing that women should take inequality in the bedroom as seriously as we take it in the workplace. (Amen!) It's a phenomenal book that unpacks the various social, scientific, and historical influences that have affected women’s relationship to pleasure and surveys the current landscape. Katherine holds a Masters in socio-medical sciences from Columbia University, where she was a National Science Foundation Graduate Research fellow in medical anthropology. Her writing on public health, cultural criticism, and utopias has been published in Nature, Outside, Aeon, the Guardian, Guernica, and Psychology Today, among other outlets.

    Katherine is brilliant and generous, and her book is incredibly well-researched and provocative. It will make you rethink your relationship to pleasure and how it intersects with other areas of your life. Head over to Strippers and Sages for additional resources and information.  

    Also, if you like talking about sex, reach out to us to be part of our upcoming Street Talks! series - real people getting real about sex. E-mail [email protected]

  • A quick teaser to you know about some of the remarkable conversations we'll be releasing over the next few weeks! Upcoming guests include activist, organizer, and queer mama Leila Raven of Decrim NY talking about abolitionism and decriminalizing sex work; author and medical anthropologist Katherine Rowland talking about her new book The Pleasure Gap: American Women and the Unfinished Sexual Revolution; writer and interdisciplinary artist Ayden LeRoux talking about the aesthetics and fragility of the body and designing intimate experiences for one with the  performance group Odyssey Works; Pakistani artist Misha Japanwala talking about gender based violence, sexuality, and feminism in Pakistan and her work casting the female body into sculptural garments; and performance artist Ze Royale talking about subjectivity, spanking, neuro-porn, and fucking the system. It's a fantastic season, so stay tuned!