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In this unique and deeply personal episode, we bring together 11 men in recovery from pornography and other sexual compulsive behaviors for an insightful panel discussion. These individuals share their diverse experiences, emotional journeys, and the lessons they've learned along the way, offering both moments of struggle and triumph.Together, they answer questions submitted by others on a similar path, covering topics such as:
How has pornography impacted your life?What held you back from seeking help sooner?Why do I feel trapped in these behaviors?Did you experience a pivotal “aha” moment in your recovery?What positive emotional, physical, or mental changes have you noticed in yourself since beginning recovery?How do you practice self-love and self-care in your journey?What does sobriety mean to you?This raw and candid conversation offers valuable insights for anyone navigating their own recovery, and serves as a reminder that healing is possible, no matter where you are on your journey.
This episode is sponsored by Relay, the #1 program for finding lasting freedom from addiction. With Relay, you’ll rewire your brain through daily, guided exercises and the power of a supportive community. Ready to start your journey? It’s just 1 dollar a day! Visit joinrelay.app or click the link in the show notes to get started. And don’t forget to use promo code BSB20 for 20% off your membership.
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- Why do we watch porn?
- What is it doing, "solving", masking for us?
- Why do I trick myself to watch porn"?
- Why do I "need" it?
- Why do I watch it even though I am grossed out by my behavior?
Happy No Porn November! Let's celebrate this month while supporting each other to stay away from porn and its destructive force for 30 days and feel the power of sobriety together! #NPNThis episode is sponsored by Relay, the #1 program for finding lasting freedom from addiction. With Relay, you’ll rewire your brain through daily, guided exercises and the power of a supportive community. Ready to start your journey? It’s just 1 dollar a day! Visit joinrelay.app or click the link in the show notes to get started. And don’t forget to use promo code BSB20 for 20% off your membership.
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Welcome to today’s episode of BSB, where we explore the transformative journeys of those in recovery. In this inspiring installment, we sit down with a remarkable guest who is 95 days sober—a milestone that marks a significant turning point in his life. He bravely shares his powerful story of overcoming pain, embracing rigorous honesty, and discovering the strength within himself. Our guest reveals the daily tools and activities that have become essential to his sobriety, offering practical advice for anyone on a similar path. Join us as he reflects on what it means to be nearly 100 days sober for the first time, and how this journey has reshaped his identity as a man. Get ready to be inspired by his courage and insights on the road to recovery!
This episode is sponsored by Relay, the #1 program for finding lasting freedom from addiction. With Relay, you’ll rewire your brain through daily, guided exercises and the power of a supportive community. Ready to start your journey? It’s just 1 dollar a day! Visit joinrelay.app or click the link in the show notes to get started. And don’t forget to use promo code BSB20 for 20% off your membership.
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In this emotional episode, we explore the delicate interplay between pride and confidence as individuals navigate their sobriety journeys. Join us as we discuss the importance of celebrating milestones without tipping into complacency, and how self-confidence can empower recovery while maintaining humility. Whether you're in recovery or supporting someone who is, this episode offers valuable insights and practical tips for fostering a healthy mindset on the path to lasting sobriety.
This episode is sponsored by Relay, the #1 program for finding lasting freedom from addiction. With Relay, you’ll rewire your brain through daily, guided exercises and the power of a supportive community. Ready to start your journey? It’s just 1 dollar a day! Visit joinrelay.app or click the link in the show notes to get started. And don’t forget to use promo code BSB20 for 20% off your membership.
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We’re diving into the fascinating intersection of brain evolution and neuroplasticity, particularly in the context of addiction recovery. Join us for an in depth discussion with LCSW Aaron Brakahne as we explore how our brains adapt and change over time, reshaping pathways and responses in the wake of addiction. We’ll discuss the science behind neuroplasticity, share inspiring stories of recovery, and uncover practical insights that can help guide the healing process. Whether you’re on your own recovery journey or just curious about the brain’s incredible capacity for change, there’s something here for you.
You can find Aaron and his colleagues at Compass Community Counseling at www.compasscc.org.This episode is sponsored by Relay, the #1 program for finding lasting freedom from addiction. With Relay, you’ll rewire your brain through daily, guided exercises and the power of a supportive community. Ready to start your journey? It’s just 1 dollar a day! Visit joinrelay.app or click the link in the show notes to get started. And don’t forget to use promo code BSB20 for 20% off your membership.
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This episode is 100% dedicated to Nathaniel and everybody sharing his strength and courage to fight porn addiction and all the pain and misery that comes with it.
In this episode, we’re joined by a courageous accountability brother on his day 1 of sobriety who shares his insights on setting boundaries. We delve into what has and hasn’t worked for the three of us and include feedback from six other accountability partners. This episode goes beyond just listing boundaries; it explores the deep commitment required to make them effective. Join us for an emotionally charged and in-depth discussion.
This episode is sponsored by Relay, the #1 program for finding lasting freedom from addiction. With Relay, you’ll rewire your brain through daily, guided exercises and the power of a supportive community. Ready to start your journey? It’s just 1 dollar a day! Visit joinrelay.app or click the link in the show notes to get started. And don’t forget to use promo code BSB20 for 20% off your membership.
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Thank you for all the positive emotions and support from our listeners. We wanted to say a quick hello and give a mid-journey introduction to our series. Looking forward to engaging with more of our listeners in our upcoming episodes.
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License code: VTTHEQEAA4UOLL92This episode is sponsored by Relay, the #1 program for finding lasting freedom from addiction. With Relay, you’ll rewire your brain through daily, guided exercises and the power of a supportive community. Ready to start your journey? It’s just 1 dollar a day! Visit joinrelay.app or click the link in the show notes to get started. And don’t forget to use promo code BSB20 for 20% off your membership.
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This episode features an in-depth conversation with a certified sex addiction therapist (CSAT). Topics covered include the impact of pornography addiction, the challenges of maintaining long-term sobriety, the effect on personal integrity, and the influence of the wounded inner child, among other related issues.
Unstructured Programs and Misunderstanding of Effort Required: Lack of a clear, organized plan and insufficient awareness of the commitment needed for lasting recovery.Incomplete or Absent Initial Steps: Failing to fully engage with the first steps of the 12-step program, including confronting the truth and avoiding superficial approaches.Isolation and Reluctance to Surrender Control: Attempting recovery alone and not fully relinquishing control or seeking support from others.
Key Barriers to Sustainable Sobriety:This episode is sponsored by Relay, the #1 program for finding lasting freedom from addiction. With Relay, you’ll rewire your brain through daily, guided exercises and the power of a supportive community. Ready to start your journey? It’s just 1 dollar a day! Visit joinrelay.app or click the link in the show notes to get started. And don’t forget to use promo code BSB20 for 20% off your membership.
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In this episode we talk with Chandler Rogers, the founder of Relay about the power of community and how Relay has been able to create that for people stuck in addiction.
- Introduction and Importance of Community
- Why Community? Why Connection? Why Relay?
- Gaining from the Community and Overcoming Struggles
- Tools and Features of Relay for Productive Community
- Conclusion and Quote: Addiction Denied is Recovery DelayedThis episode is sponsored by Relay, the #1 program for finding lasting freedom from addiction. With Relay, you’ll rewire your brain through daily, guided exercises and the power of a supportive community. Ready to start your journey? It’s just 1 dollar a day! Visit joinrelay.app or click the link in the show notes to get started. And don’t forget to use promo code BSB20 for 20% off your membership.
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In this episode we get to speak with Charlie about his journey towards recovery and how asking for help has allowed him to move towards giving back and helping others.
Introduction: The Challenge of Asking for HelpCharlie's Journey and Involvement with RelayThe Toughest Parts of the Recovery JourneyBreaking the Cycle of RelapseBuilding a Support System for Life's ChallengesUnderstanding the Basics of AddictionThe Power of Honesty and VulnerabilityThe Importance of CommunityInspiring Stories of CourageAdmitting the Problem: The First Step Towards Healing
We cover a lot in this episode! Here are a few topics we explore during our conversation with Charlie:This episode is sponsored by Relay, the #1 program for finding lasting freedom from addiction. With Relay, you’ll rewire your brain through daily, guided exercises and the power of a supportive community. Ready to start your journey? It’s just 1 dollar a day! Visit joinrelay.app or click the link in the show notes to get started. And don’t forget to use promo code BSB20 for 20% off your membership.
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Rebuilding Intimacy During the Recovery JourneyShifting the Focus from Physical IntimacyThe Importance of Trust and Open CommunicationAddressing Frustration and Rebuilding TrustClosing Thoughts and Call to VulnerabilityThis episode is sponsored by Relay, the #1 program for finding lasting freedom from addiction. With Relay, you’ll rewire your brain through daily, guided exercises and the power of a supportive community. Ready to start your journey? It’s just 1 dollar a day! Visit joinrelay.app or click the link in the show notes to get started. And don’t forget to use promo code BSB20 for 20% off your membership.
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Shame is a powerful and controlling feeling. In this episode we discuss the impact of shame on the addictive cycle and how it kept both of us in bondage for years.
The significance of shame in addictionThe role of vulnerability in overcoming shameBreaking the ice and building courageCreating space and clarity to stand up to shameMoving towards healing and reclaiming self worthThis episode is sponsored by Relay, the #1 program for finding lasting freedom from addiction. With Relay, you’ll rewire your brain through daily, guided exercises and the power of a supportive community. Ready to start your journey? It’s just 1 dollar a day! Visit joinrelay.app or click the link in the show notes to get started. And don’t forget to use promo code BSB20 for 20% off your membership.
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One of the difficulties with sexual addiction is fighting and overcoming the relapsing pattern. In this episode we discuss our early journey and how we overcame this part of the addiction cycle.
The pain and emotion of relapsingLack of self-confidence and denial in the relapse cycleSeeking help and addressing root issues to break free from relapsingThe difficulty of breaking freeThe power of strong boundariesThis episode is sponsored by Relay, the #1 program for finding lasting freedom from addiction. With Relay, you’ll rewire your brain through daily, guided exercises and the power of a supportive community. Ready to start your journey? It’s just 1 dollar a day! Visit joinrelay.app or click the link in the show notes to get started. And don’t forget to use promo code BSB20 for 20% off your membership.
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Join us for a discussion on the book "Unwanted" by Jay Stringer and the impact it had on us early in our journey towards recovery.
Unwanted nature of sexual compulsive behaviorUncovering root causes and doing deep workThe sobering reality of objectification and violenceThe impact of shame in sexual addictionThis episode is sponsored by Relay, the #1 program for finding lasting freedom from addiction. With Relay, you’ll rewire your brain through daily, guided exercises and the power of a supportive community. Ready to start your journey? It’s just 1 dollar a day! Visit joinrelay.app or click the link in the show notes to get started. And don’t forget to use promo code BSB20 for 20% off your membership.
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The journey of sexual sobriety can be filled with lots of unknowns and learning. In this episode we discuss what it is like to be over 100 days and the things we have discovered about ourselves and our journey.
The power and challenges of sobriety days as a metric in recoveryChanging self-perception and behaviorHandling emotions and pain in a healthier wayThe weight of the past during recoveryThe importance of self-care and boundaries
A few topics we discuss:This episode is sponsored by Relay, the #1 program for finding lasting freedom from addiction. With Relay, you’ll rewire your brain through daily, guided exercises and the power of a supportive community. Ready to start your journey? It’s just 1 dollar a day! Visit joinrelay.app or click the link in the show notes to get started. And don’t forget to use promo code BSB20 for 20% off your membership.
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Establishing strong accountability relationships are critical to your recovery journey. In this episode we explore the need to lean into honesty with close relationships and the power of sharing your story and struggles openly.
What does true accountability look like in recovery?How does personal accountability differ from groups or therapy?How and where to start?This two-part episode focuses on how we came about the programs that have worked for us for the last 3 months of sobriety. Listen to our success and failure stories to help you pick a program that works for you.
This episode is sponsored by Relay, the #1 program for finding lasting freedom from addiction. With Relay, you’ll rewire your brain through daily, guided exercises and the power of a supportive community. Ready to start your journey? It’s just 1 dollar a day! Visit joinrelay.app or click the link in the show notes to get started. And don’t forget to use promo code BSB20 for 20% off your membership.
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Finding the right program is crucial for embarking on a successful addiction recovery journey. It's about aligning with a supportive community, tailored resources, and evidence-based approaches that resonate with individual needs and goals.
Does every program work for everybody?What does a 'program' even mean?How and where to start?This two-part episode focuses on how we came about the programs that have worked for us for the last 3 months of sobriety. Listen to our success and failure stories to help you pick a program that works for you.
This episode is sponsored by Relay, the #1 program for finding lasting freedom from addiction. With Relay, you’ll rewire your brain through daily, guided exercises and the power of a supportive community. Ready to start your journey? It’s just 1 dollar a day! Visit joinrelay.app or click the link in the show notes to get started. And don’t forget to use promo code BSB20 for 20% off your membership.
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Day one of recovery marks the courageous first step towards a life of healing and liberation. It's a pivotal moment filled with both vulnerability and strength, where one bravely confronts their demons and acknowledges the need for change.
A day full of fear but also a glimmer of hope. A day of reflection, acceptance, and commitment. A day incredibly difficult to relive, yet important to remember.Join us as we relive our first day of recovery and hope to share an uplifting perspective on what to take away from an important and difficult start of the journey.
This episode is sponsored by Relay, the #1 program for finding lasting freedom from addiction. With Relay, you’ll rewire your brain through daily, guided exercises and the power of a supportive community. Ready to start your journey? It’s just 1 dollar a day! Visit joinrelay.app or click the link in the show notes to get started. And don’t forget to use promo code BSB20 for 20% off your membership.
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