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Delanie Fischer chats with Phil Zuckerman—prominent sociologist, author, professor of secular studies, and founder of the first academic Secular Studies department in the U.S.—about atheism, agnosticism, and theism, including some of the most compelling arguments for and against religion and the existence of God, and how religiosity, skepticism, and secularism shape society. Whether you're a devout believer, a lifelong skeptic, or somewhere in between, this conversation will make you reflect on what you believe, why you believe it, and inspire you to sharpen the arguments behind it.
Episode Highlights:
Atheism, Agnosticism, Theism, Secularism, and Humanism
Debunking Common Stereotypes About Atheists
Religion vs. Secularism: Which Benefits Society More?
How Internet Use, Opportunity, and Welfare Impact Religiosity
An Argument for the Existence of God: The Watchmaker Analogy
Can Both Miracles AND Atrocities Be Attributed to God?
The Problem of Omnipresence, Omnipotence, Goodness & Free Will
The Appeal to Ignorance: The Pilot Example
Can You Thrive Without Belief in God or Gods?
What Can Everyone Agree on Despite Different Beliefs?
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Awakening: The Power of Ritual, Creative Energy, and Nature’s Wisdom with Rebecca Campbell: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/1ba4a939/awakening-the-power-of-ritual-creative-energy-and-natures-wisdom-with-rebecca-campbell
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Delanie Fischer chats with Dr. Jennifer Berman—board-certified urologist, renowned expert in female sexual health and medicine, and former co-host of The Doctors. They discuss perimenopause and menopause, including key symptoms, personal experience, treatment options, why these hormonal shifts are often overlooked (but should be taken seriously), and what your doctor likely isn't telling you.
Episode Highlights:
How Early Can Perimenopause Start?
Staying Sharp at Work During Perimenopause and Menopause
GLP-1s, Peptides, and 3 Lifestyle Factors That Can Improve Symptoms
Persistent Lack of Motivation? You're Likely Deficient in This Hormone
The Role Social Media Plays in the Women’s Health Movement
What Women Can Expect in Their 30s, 40s, 50s, and Beyond
Andropause: Male Menopause and How It Differs from Menopause
Insider Tips for Getting the Right Care, Treatment, and Results
Why Doctors Are Leaving Hospitals for Private Practice
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Delanie Fischer continues the “Subscriber Stories” series with subscriber Milo Jones, who shares her 10+ year experience managing the body-focused repetitive behavior, trichotillomania (hair pulling). They discuss how it began, misconceptions surrounding it, and the tools, coping strategies, and habit swaps that have supported her. BFRBs affect 1 in 20 people and include core disorders such as hair pulling and skin picking (excoriation disorder), as well as related compulsive body-focused behaviors such as nail biting (onychophagia), cheek chewing, teeth grinding, knuckle cracking, finger or foot tapping, nose picking, and mucus fishing syndrome, among others. Whether you personally experience BFRBs or love someone who does, this conversation is relatable, validating, and full of practical insights.
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Episode Highlights:
What to Do When There’s No Clear Treatment Plan
CBT, SSRIs, Mindfulness, and Habit Reversal Training (HRT)
Anxiety or Sensation: Which Comes First?
How “Worst Case” Thinking Can Relieve Pressure
15 Tools, Tips & Swaps for Managing Symptoms
When Others Start to Notice Your Behavior & Side Effects
How Menstrual (and Energy) Cycles Can Affect Symptoms
Watching TV, Sitting in Traffic, Overwhelm, and Other Triggers
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Delanie Fischer chats with author, men’s body positivity advocate, and founder of Notoriously Dapper, Kelvin Davis, about the struggles facing modern men. They explore social conditioning, mental health challenges, and deep-rooted insecurities, as well as guidance for moving beyond the “nice guy” act and cultivating emotional maturity, authentic confidence, and healthy masculinity.
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Episode Highlights:
Cut The Crap: Nice Guy vs. Good Man
How Men Feel About Not Being "Needed" for Survival
Porn, the Rise of OnlyFans, and Fake Intimacy
Cultural Differences: Vulnerability and Mental Health Support
Let's Talk About It: Incels, the Manosphere, and Violence
Why Women Feel "Done" with Dating Apps (and Dating in General)
Love Is Blind: Toxic Masculinity on Display—and What Lies Underneath
Why Men Might Dominate Conversation in Social Settings
Transforming Entitlement and Fear into Genuine Connection
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This episode contains sensitive topics, listener discretion is advised.
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Delanie Fischer chats with activist and educator Rabbi Dr. Shmuly Yanklowitz about the core principles of Judaism, including Jewish mysticism (Kabbalah), and how to meaningfully integrate these 4,000-year-old teachings into everyday life—whether you’re Jewish or not. They explore traditional practices, interpretations of scripture, the evolution of faith, and the concept of repairing the world.
Episode Highlights:
3 Egregious Misunderstandings About Judaism
Netflix’s Nobody Wants This & the Impact of Media
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Does Faith Waver as a Rabbi?
A Recharging Ritual We Could All Learn From
The Hardest Question About G-d
2 Interests You May Not Expect from a Rabbi!
Rabbi Shmuly’s Favorite Message from Scripture
Why “Go Big or Go Home” Advice Falls Short
The Power of Action and Making the Invisible Seen
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Delanie Fischer chats with cannabis, hemp, and psychedelic educator and consultant Adrienne Airhart to explore cannabis for harm reduction, recreation, and the future of healing—plus Adrienne’s personal experience with prescription medication, cannabis, and psychedelics.
Episode Highlights:
Cannabinoid Hyperemesis Syndrome, Dependence & Other Risks
CBD for Seizures: What the Research Says So Far
Gummies, Tinctures, and Topicals—Oh My!
Did You Know You Can Get a Cannabis DNA Test?
How Cannabis Legalization Impacts Alcohol Consumption
Kanna, Kava, Kratom, and Functional Mushrooms: A Breakdown
Psychedelics for Healing: DMT, Psilocybin, and Ketamine
Inside the Cannabis Industry: Regulations, Logistics & Rapid Change
No Legal Cannabis in Your Area? 2 Alternatives to Consider
Harm & Cue Reduction for Tobacco, Nicotine, and Alcohol
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Delanie Fischer chats with counseling psychologist and executive director of the International Cultic Studies Association, Michael D. Langone, about high-control groups and cultic dynamics. They explore key characteristics of cults (they’re more common than we think!), what can prompt people to question their involvement, recovery and healing from spiritual and psychological abuse, and how to lead groups responsibly and ethically.
Episode Highlights:
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What if Not Everyone Agrees Something's a Cult?
Is All Religion a Cult? Why or Why Not?
Creating Real Harmony: Unity vs. Uniformity
Can a Family Dynamic be Considered a Cult?
2 Powerful Resources for Recovery
Michael’s Diagram for Evaluating Groups
How Does Someone Realize They're in a Cult?
Who is Most Likely to Become a Cult Leader?
What Most Cults Have in Common in the U.S.
Michael's book, Recovery from Cults: Help for Victims of Psychological and Spiritual Abuse: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/recovery-from-cults-michael-d-langone/1100879783
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Delanie Fischer chats with activist and social reformer Robin Greenfield about his approach to living in harmony with the Earth. Known for powerful social experiments—like living with zero possessions, growing and foraging all of his own food for a year, and even wearing the trash he created to highlight consumer waste—Robin shares the philosophies that guide his life, practical ways to live more simply and sustainably, and how rethinking our relationship with money, consumption, and nature could transform the way we live.
Episode Highlights:
Robin's Public Vows, Experiments, and Daily Routine
The "100 Changes" List: Easiest vs. Hardest
Robin's Hygiene Swaps: Sunscreen, Toilet Paper, Floss & More
8 Apps, Tools, and Resources for Conscious Living
Why Robin Chooses to Earn Below the Federal Poverty Threshold
4 Books & Documentaries That First Inspired Him
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Delanie Fischer chats with Leslie John, Harvard professor and author of Revealing: The Underrated Power of Oversharing, about the nuanced risks and rewards of undersharing versus oversharing in our lives. They explore how the choices we make about what to reveal — and what to withhold — can profoundly shape our health, relationships, and even our careers. Leslie also shares practical, research-backed strategies for becoming a more effective and intentional sharer.
Episode Highlights:
Impact of Secret-Keeping on Your IQ (+ How Undersharers Are Perceived)
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Delanie Fischer chats with filmmaker and creator of Earthlings Shaun Monson about his creative process, evolving as an artist and activist, and balancing meaningful, niche storytelling with commercial work. He shares candid advice for filmmakers on staying true to your voice while building a sustainable creative career.
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Rejection to Virality: Inspiration + Word of Mouth
Shaun’s Favorite Tools & Inside His Creative Process
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Have You Tried the Opposite of Your Usual Approach?
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Delanie Fischer chats with neuroscientist and author of Smitten, Dr. Tom Bellamy, about limerence. They discuss the evolutionary roots of limerence, why only 50% of the population experiences it, guidance for those amidst infatuation (whether reciprocal or not), when it crosses the line into prolonged limerence, and practical tips for breaking the cycle of romantic obsession.
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Why Romantic Partners May Not Understand Your Feelings
Dopamine: The Common Misconception and How It Really Works
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Delanie Fischer chats with Yousuf Ahmed, founder and CEO of B-SIDES, about upcycling, sustainability, and building an ethical CPG brand—from origin story to sourcing, manufacturing, and growth. Yousuf also shares the routines and mindset practices that keep him grounded through the highs and lows of entrepreneurship, offering practical takeaways for anyone building a conscious business or looking for inspiration to upcycle in daily life.
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Inside the Evening Ritual That Keeps Yousuf Grounded
Where You Start Isn't Likely Where You'll End Up
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Delanie Fischer chats with Cherian Koshy, author of Neurogiving and a leading researcher on generosity, about the science of giving—and why it’s not just nice, it’s powerful. They discuss the research-backed benefits of giving for mental, emotional, and physical health, and how we can leverage generosity not only to help others, but also to improve our lives, work, and relationships.
Episode Highlights:
The $5 Happiness Experiment
The Baby Study: Are We Wired for Generosity or Selfishness?
4 Unconscious Biases That Drive Buying Behavior
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The Power of (Individual) Storytelling: Rebecca the Chicken!
Tips for Nonprofit Workers Who Want to Increase Donation Efficacy
The Power of Identity, Belonging, Framing, and Cognitive Dissonance
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It’s another Subscriber Stories episode! Delanie Fischer chats with subscriber Sadie, who made the bold choice to stop dating for six years to focus on raising her son, deep personal growth, and meaningful friendships. Sadie shares the tools and resources that have supported her most—including ones she created herself—as well as how she met her partner when she was truly ready.
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The Dating App Sadie Met Her Partner On
Destigmatizing Sexuality for Women & Moms
2 Tips for Healthy Non-Attachment in Dating
How to Make a “Bad Girl” List
1 Simple Tool to Release Everyday Guilt
2 Book Recs for Intimacy & Connection
Sadie’s 1-Year Dating Experiment
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Delanie Fischer chats with the host of Cramped, Kate Downey, about why we know so little about period pain. They discuss Kate's experience with endometriosis, as well as her research findings—including expert insights on what might be at the root of period pain and menstrual cramps, little-known biological facts about menstruation and conception, historical gaps in women's health, and the latest innovations in menstrual care. Turns out, periods are way more fascinating than we’ve been told.
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Menstruation Isn't Common: Only These Animals Do It
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Delanie Fischer chats with Dr. Michael Greger, physician, New York Times bestselling author, and founder of NutritionFacts.org, about the impact of meat, dairy, and eggs from both industrialized and local sources on human health. They discuss hormones, antibiotics, contaminants, toxins, and disease-causing pathogens commonly found in animal products, as well as how animal flesh, breast milk, and reproductive cells themselves affect health independent of these factors.
Episode Highlights:
Why Cow’s Milk is Linked to Shorter Lifespan & Infertility
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Protein & Calcium Choices: Baggage vs Benefits
Swap 3% of This for a 20% Longer Life
1 in 5 of These at Grocery Stores Test Positive for Salmonella
Ummm What's the Deal with Rotten Egg Farts?!
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Delanie Fischer chats with biopsychologist and Brave New You author Dr. Mary Poffenroth about how fear drives what we often label as anxiety, stress, and nerves. They explore the root causes of fear and share practical, science-backed strategies and neurohacks for calming the nervous system, navigating intimidating situations, and building trust and confidence in our ability to manage life's challenges—and accomplish cool stuff.
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The 2 Feelings at the Root of Our Fear Response
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Delanie Fischer chats with Kathy Oneto, strategy executive and author of Sustainable Ambition, challenging what we've learned about ambition, productivity, and success. They explore how to avoid burnout, create life-work sustainability, and prioritize focus, fulfillment, and manageability in career and personal life—so you can achieve what you want, when you want, and actually enjoy yourself along the way.
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Right Ambition, Right Time, Right Effort
Ambition as a State, Not a Trait
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Delanie Fischer chats with Jacob Ward, veteran technology journalist and correspondent, about how AI differs from past technological inventions and why this moment feels fundamentally different. They explore some of the inner workings of artificial intelligence including LLMs, the effects of over-reliance on these tools, and what the future may look like for regulation, responsibility, and human connection.
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Delanie Fischer chats with Erin Claire Jones, author of How Do You Choose? and founder of Human Design Blueprint, to discuss how a system integrating astrology, the I Ching, chakras, and Kabbalah can serve as a practical framework for self-awareness, effective communication, and informed career choices—helping us navigate work, relationships, and life with greater ease, confidence, and fulfillment. Highly recommend looking up your HD type so you can follow along and get the most out of this episode!
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A Snapshot of the 5 Human Design Types
1 Question to ask Yourself Based on Your Type
Common Pitfalls When Integrating HD Strategies
The Now vs. Not Now Framework for Projects
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Erin's book, How Do You Choose?: https://humandesignblueprint.com/order-book/
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