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In this episode, Sandi Derby shares her personal story of abuse and trauma, as well as her journey towards healing and finding God. She discusses the importance of facing suppressed memories and the dynamics of memory recall. Sandi also emphasizes the need for safe community and the power of truth in setting us free from bondage. She addresses the misconceptions around memory and encourages empathy and understanding for those who have experienced trauma. In this conversation, Sandi Derby shares her personal journey of healing from childhood trauma and abuse. She emphasizes the importance of leaning into the pain, embracing it, and trusting oneself in order to reconnect with one's true self. Sandi also discusses the concept of false memory syndrome and how it has harmed survivors of abuse. She shares her own experiences of finding healing through her faith in Jesus and the power of intimacy with Him. Sandi's journey includes discovering repressed memories of satanic ritual abuse and the subsequent healing process. She concludes with a prayer for healing and restoration for those who may be listening.
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AmarAtma, a trained Grief Recovery Method Speciaist and Board Certified Chaplain, shares his journey of discovering and working with grief. He discusses the importance of recognizing tangible and intangible losses and the impact of unprocessed grief on the body. AmarAtma emphasizes the need for emotional processing and the connection between grief and trauma. He highlights the role of safety in the nervous system and the importance of releasing stored emotions. AmarAtma reframes grief as an expression of love and discusses the potential for inner peace and world peace through grief work. Grief is transformative and has the power to turn loss into hope, character, purpose, and life. Society often avoids grief, but it is a natural part of life that needs to be actively embraced and processed. Grief is not a problem to be solved or an enemy to be defeated, but an invitation to grow and transform. We were never taught how to grieve properly, which leads to unresolved grief. Living an unscripted life after loss requires courage and can lead to a deeper sense of joy and aliveness. Grief work is not about staying in the grief business, but about embracing life and finding completion.
https://amaratmacoaching.com/
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Letty Wickey shares her experience growing up in an Amish community and the abuse and control she witnessed. She describes the strict rules and expectations placed on women, the lack of education and understanding of the Bible, and the pervasive abuse within the community. Letty also discusses the shunning of ex-Amish individuals and the manipulation and control exerted by the church. Despite feeling that something was wrong, Letty struggled with self-doubt and believed there was something wrong with her. She eventually left the Amish community and now has a different perspective on her upbringing. Letty shares her experience growing up in the Amish community and the religious abuse she endured. She discusses the lack of emotional expression and the suppression of emotions within the Amish culture. Letty also talks about her struggles with partying and drinking as a way to cope with her suppressed emotions. She shares her journey of healing and finding her identity outside of the Amish community, as well as her discovery of the restorative power of Jesus. Letty emphasizes the importance of facing past trauma and healing the heart and soul.
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In this episode of Reflections of the Father's Heart podcast, Sandi Derby interviews Lisa Cynkin-Hardy, the founder of The Lighthouse, a nonprofit organization that provides support and resources for young adults aging out of the foster care system. Lisa shares her personal journey growing up as a messianic Jew and the challenges she faced, including bullying. She also discusses her passion for powerlifting and the importance of taking care of our physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being. The conversation then shifts to the founding of The Lighthouse and the issues faced by young adults aging out of foster care, including homelessness and trafficking. In this conversation, Lisa Cynkin-Hardy and Sandi Derby discuss the issue of human trafficking and the work that Lisa does through her nonprofit organization, The Lighthouse - A Place of Refuge. They share stories of young girls who have been trafficked and the devastating effects of this crime. They emphasize the importance of raising awareness and taking action to combat human trafficking. Lisa also talks about the services provided by The Lighthouse, such as baby showers, prom prep events, and mobile food banks, to support young adults who have aged out of the foster care system. They highlight the need for volunteers and donations to help meet the basic needs of these vulnerable individuals.
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Jessyevell Aggrey shares her powerful testimony of overcoming sexual abuse, rejection, and self-destructive behaviors. She opens up about the grooming and abuse she experienced as a child, the impact it had on her relationships and self-worth, and the cycle of seeking love through promiscuity. Jessyevell also discusses the importance of addressing the shame and silence surrounding abuse and the need for healing and restoration. Her story highlights the resilience and strength of survivors and the power of God's love and redemption. Jessyevell Aggrey shares her powerful testimony of overcoming abuse, addiction, and suicidal thoughts through her faith in God. She emphasizes the importance of addressing both male and female victims of abuse and highlights the need for open conversations about women perpetrating abuse against men. Jessyevell's journey of healing and transformation serves as a reminder that God can restore and redeem even the most broken lives.
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Taylor Leys, owner of Jesus on Every Screen, discusses the impact of social media on reaching people with the gospel and the need for the church to engage in this space. He highlights the prevalence of social media in the lives of young people and the negative influence it can have, such as increased rates of suicide and depression. Taylor emphasizes the importance of using social media as a platform to share the message of Jesus and bring healing to those who are hurting. He encourages individuals to be creative and authentic in their content, rather than copying what others are doing. Taylor shares a personal story of the tragic loss of his brother and the potential impact that a simple prayer on social media could have had. He calls for a shift in mindset, viewing social media as territory to be gained for Jesus rather than something to be avoided. The conversation explores the impact of social media and the importance of using it as a tool for spreading the message of Jesus. It emphasizes the need to overcome comparison and perfectionism, and instead focus on obedience and being true to oneself. The conversation also highlights the schemes of the enemy and the importance of being aware of his tactics. It encourages believers to step out in faith and share their testimonies on social media, as it has the potential to reach and impact millions of people. The conversation concludes with a reminder that God has called believers to be active participants in His plan and to use social media as a means to bring about positive change.
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Ed Owens, Vice President of the Grief Recovery Institute, shares his personal journey of grief and the impact of compartmentalizing emotions. He discusses how his military and law enforcement training taught him to suppress emotions and the price he paid for not dealing with his losses. Ed emphasizes the importance of emotional availability and the negative consequences of emotional detachment. He also highlights the cumulative nature of grief and the need to address it to live a fulfilling life. Ed's story serves as a reminder that suppressing emotions can have long-term effects on relationships and overall well-being. In this conversation, Ed and Sandi discuss the importance of letting go of pain and the transformation that comes from releasing it. They explore the fear and resistance that can arise when facing the process of letting go, but emphasize the need to deal with emotional baggage in order to live a full and connected life. Ed shares his personal experience of going through the grief recovery process and the profound changes it brought to his relationship with his son. They also discuss the significance of being present in the moment and the impact it has on one's ability to fulfill their mission and be there for others.
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In this episode, Sandi Derby and Curtis Reed discuss the damage caused by toxic religious environments and the importance of healing. They highlight how these environments can lead to a distorted view of God and the merging of the leader with God. They emphasize the need to separate God from the church and leadership and to focus on personal healing. They also discuss the role of the enemy in attacking churches and the importance of addressing unresolved grief and bitterness. They encourage listeners to let go of pain and embrace their true identity. In this conversation, Curtis Reed and Sandi Derby discuss the importance of healing from church hurt and the need to address the underlying pain and trauma. They emphasize that healing is not just about exposing the problem, but about finding spiritual solutions and healing the heart. They highlight the dangers of carrying unresolved emotional pain and the importance of completing the grief process. They also discuss the need for empowered and healthy communities that allow individuals to discover their gifts and walk in their calling. The conversation concludes with the understanding that healing and empowerment are God's desire for His people.
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In this episode, Sandi Derby interviews Thomas Staub, an 18-year-old who wrote a thesis on how the church mishandles mental health. They discuss the issues of shame-based teachings, the rejection of psychology, and the lack of understanding and support for mental health in churches. Thomas emphasizes the importance of pastors being educated in psychology and connecting with mental health professionals to provide holistic care for congregants. He also shares his aspirations to become a therapist and serve his church in that capacity.
www.sandiderby.com
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Cecy Frazier shares her journey from a challenging childhood to finding faith and navigating the complexities of religious communities. She discusses the impact of trauma, the struggle for self-love, and the dynamics of submission and suppression within religious circles. Her story sheds light on the journey of healing and self-discovery. The conversation delves into the themes of healing, forgiveness, self-reflection, and personal responsibility. It emphasizes the power of love and forgiveness in overcoming trauma and building healthy relationships. The journey of healing and self-discovery is highlighted, along with the importance of investing in personal development. The conversation also touches on the impact of childhood experiences on adult life and the significance of healthy, supportive relationships.
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Jeff Nobert shares his journey of surrender, healing, and transformation through his experiences of business ownership, ministry involvement, childhood abuse, and marriage. His deep connection with God and the power of surrender are central themes in his story, revealing the transformative nature of faith and trust in God's plan. Jeff shares his journey of marriage, loss, and restoration, emphasizing the impact of waiting on God and trusting in His faithfulness. He discusses the challenges, chaos, and pain he faced, highlighting the transformation and encounter with God in the midst of it all.
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Philip Bloeser shares his childhood experiences growing up in a home with an alcoholic mother and a father who buried his pain. Despite the outward appearance of a normal life, Philip's home was filled with chaos, fights, and threats of significant loss. His mother's near-fatal car accident and subsequent addiction to alcohol and prescription pills further exacerbated the situation. Philip and his brother lived in constant fear and had to navigate through the turmoil on a daily basis. The impact of his home life started to affect Philip when he became involved in the fights between his parents and experienced the toxic environment firsthand. Philip Bloeser shares his journey of faith and healing, highlighting the impact of his mother's mental illness, his acceptance of Jesus at a young age, and the tragic loss of his father. He emphasizes the importance of addressing unresolved emotions and going through a healing process, such as grief recovery, to find clarity and live a more abundant life. Philip encourages listeners to deal with their pain and seek God's guidance and healing.
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In this conversation, Sandi Derby interviews Jenna Winston, a former prophetic deliverance pastor at Bethel, about her journey of healing and freedom. Jenna shares her traumatic childhood, struggles with addiction, and her encounter with Jesus that led to her transformation. She discusses the importance of understanding the Father's heart and the layers of healing that believers often need to go through. The conversation also touches on the topic of satanic ritual abuse (SRA) and the challenges of facing buried trauma. Overall, the conversation highlights the power of God's love and the journey to wholeness. Jenna Winston shares her journey of healing and wholeness, highlighting the importance of experiencing the love and compassion of God. She reflects on her past struggles with addiction and the pressure to perform in ministry, and how she found true healing when she allowed herself to be vulnerable and receive God's love unconditionally. Jenna emphasizes that no one is disqualified from God's love and purpose, and encourages listeners to seek deeper healing and understanding of their own journeys.
Connect with Jenna's podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/through-eyes-seer-prophet-getting-real-jenna-winston/id1510811552
To purchase Sandi's book: www.livingbornagain.com
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Karen Shaver shares her journey of growing up in a dysfunctional home with a mentally ill mother and an abusive father. She discusses the impact of childhood trauma on her relationships and the cycle of abuse she found herself in. Karen describes her desperate search for peace and healing, including her experiences with therapy and her spiritual journey. She highlights the importance of understanding the subconscious influence and the ongoing process of healing and sanctification. Karen Shaver shares her journey of finding love and healing through her faith in God. She emphasizes the importance of self-love and forgiveness in order to move forward. Karen also highlights the role of God's timing and support in her life, as well as the power of unconditional love and healing. She encourages others to seek help and find hope in their own journeys.
To purchase Sandi's book: www.livingbornagain.com
To contact Karen: www.theskinconnection.com
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Dr. David Diehl, a chiropractor, discusses the importance of physical health in fulfilling one's purpose. He emphasizes the mind-body-spirit connection and the need to honor God with our bodies. Dr. Diehl explains the role of the nervous system in overall health and the importance of removing nerve interference through chiropractic care. He highlights the consequences of neglecting physical health and the benefits of adopting healthy lifestyle habits. Additionally, he discusses the battle against spiritual warfare in maintaining physical health and the impact of processed foods on the body's detoxification process. This conversation explores the impact of toxins on health and the importance of nutrition and lifestyle choices in maintaining optimal well-being. It emphasizes the connection between physical and emotional health and the role of faith in the healing process. The chapters cover topics such as the effects of toxins on the body, the presence of toxic additives in food, the importance of nutrition for energy, making gradual changes in diet, the mind-body connection, and taking the first step towards better health.
Connect with Dr. Diehl: https://www.drdiehlchiropractic.com/
To purchase Sandi's book: www.livingbornagain.com
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In this conversation, Sandi Derby interviews Thera Storm, a licensed clinical social worker and grief recovery specialist. Thera shares her personal journey and the challenges she faced as a military spouse living in different parts of the world. She discusses the cultural differences in self-description and the impact of identity on her career. Thera also opens up about her passion for grief work and how her own experiences shaped her understanding of loss. She emphasizes the importance of addressing intangible losses and the impact they have on one's identity. The conversation highlights the need for reevaluating trauma and belief systems to heal and reclaim one's true self. In this conversation, Thera and Sandi discuss the impact of internalizing authority figures and the search for validation from narcissistic individuals. They explore the role of core beliefs in pricing and the importance of healing and daily practice. Thera shares her journey of growth and the transformation of her identity. They discuss the power of healing the inner child and finding passion in the process. Thera emphasizes the importance of living with gratitude and confidence and incorporating healing into daily life. They conclude by encouraging listeners to identify their motivations and seek support on their healing journey.
To connect with Thera Storm: https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/grms/thera-storm
To purchase Sandi's book: www.livingbornagain.com
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Cody and Tirsha Thornbury, lead pastors of Limitless Church, share their journey of faith and the growth of their church. They discuss the unexpected expansion of Limitless Church, including the establishment of a farm and a homeschool hybrid school. They also recount how they met and the impact of their mentor, Kim Clement. Cody and Tirsha emphasize the importance of holding tensions and navigating challenges in their ministry. They highlight the significance of repentance and the power of walking in alignment with God's Word and the Holy Spirit. The conversation concludes with the divine connection between Cody, Tirsha, and Sandi Derby, who specializes in grief recovery and healing deliverance. In this conversation, Cody and Tirsha Thornbury share their experiences of empowering others and the impact of love in action. They discuss their work in South Africa, where they transformed a hospice into a children's village and empowered young adults to pursue education and independence. They also emphasize the importance of balancing big dreams with family and the need to partner with God's heart. The conversation concludes with a prayer for activation and encouragement for listeners to step into their divine destiny.
Connect with Cody and Tirsha: www.limitlesschurchca.com
To purchase Sandi's book: www.livingbornagain.com
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Zach and Vanessa LaFontaine share their journey from a life of darkness and addiction to encountering God's love and transformation. They discuss their experiences with New Age and witchcraft, the struggles they faced in their relationship, and the powerful encounter with Jesus that led to their baptism and the infilling of the Holy Spirit. Through their testimony, they highlight the importance of community and the faithfulness of God in bringing healing and restoration. Zach and Vanessa LaFontaine share their journey of encountering the power of God and the transformation it brought to their lives. They discuss the importance of authority over demons and the excitement of seeing people set free. They emphasize the need for the church to operate in the power of God and the impact it can have on the world. They also highlight the significance of sanctification and holiness in walking in the fullness of God's power. The conversation concludes with a powerful prayer for the listeners to encounter God's love and power.
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In this conversation, Seth Dahl owner of Spirit Led Families, Grief Recovery Method Specialist@ and owner of Jesus on Every Screen shares his personal testimony and discusses the importance of emotional health in parenting. He emphasizes the impact of parental influence on a child's perception of God and the need for parents to model a healthy emotional response. Seth also highlights the significance of processing emotions and the role it plays in experiencing God's love and power. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of cultivating emotional health in families to create a strong foundation for children's spiritual development. In this conversation, Seth Dahl and Sandi Derby discuss the importance of engaging the heart in our relationship with God and the impact of grief on emotional connection. They emphasize that going to church should be an expression of love for God, not just a performance. They also highlight the emotive nature of God and the importance of processing emotions. Finally, they provide advice for parents or those considering parenthood, encouraging them to seek emotional healing and engage in grief recovery.
To purchase Sandi's book: www.livingbornagain.com
To connect with Seth Dahl: www.sethdahl.com
Want to go deeper? Join both Sandi and Seth (and others!) for the Global Online Summit 6/4 - 6/7!
www.completewholenesslaboratory.com
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In this conversation, Austin Noll, author, podcast host and Grief Recovery Specialist discusses his experiences growing up in a fear-based church environment and the impact it had on his relationship with God. He shares how the church's control and shame-based practices affected his view of himself and God. Austin also highlights the lack of freedom to question and the conflation of church authority with God's authority. Overall, Austin's journey highlights the need for a more grace-centered and empowering approach to faith. In this conversation, Austin and Sandi discuss the journey of unraveling from unhealthy religious teachings and the process of healing. They explore the challenges of conforming or pushing against the beliefs imposed by parents and religious institutions. Austin shares his personal journey of questioning and deconstructing his faith, highlighting the importance of differentiating between unhealthy ideas and healthy beliefs. He emphasizes the need to trust oneself and one's discernment, as well as the understanding that God is bigger than the box we put Him in.
You can find Sandi's book here: https://livingbornagain.com
You can connect with Austin here:
https://www.instagram.com/austin_noll
https://www.facebook.com
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-crumpled-papers-podcast/id1659958851
- Visa fler