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In Part 2 of this bold and unfiltered conversation, Eve welcomes back Cidney Green for a deep dive into kink exploration, fetish psychology, ethical non-monogamy, BDSM, fantasy versus reality, communication, consent, and sexuality.
Cidney Green, creator of the viral “Pussy Over Pain” movement and author of All 3 In Me, shares raw insights on phone sex, fetish stigma, healing through BDSM, open relationships, jealousy, threesomes, and the role of honest communication in creating healthy, fulfilling intimate relationships.
One of the most powerful moments in this episode is a role-play in which Eve and Cidney demonstrate how a couple might navigate a conversation about ethical non-monogamy and the possibility of inviting a third person into their relationship or bedroom. Through this realistic example, they model healthy communication, curiosity, boundary-setting, consent, emotional safety, and how to discuss fantasies without judgment. Rather than promoting any particular relationship structure, the conversation highlights that consensual non-monogamy, open relationships, and threesomes can be approached ethically when all parties communicate openly and enthusiastically consent.
In this episode, you'll learn about:
• BDSM and fetish exploration• Fetish psychology and kink stigma• Ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, and polyamory• How to talk to your partner about a threesome• Introducing a third partner into a relationship• Relationship communication and emotional safety• Consent, boundaries, and negotiation skills• Sexual empowerment and pleasure• Women's pleasure and orgasm equality• Fantasy versus reality in sexuality• Healing, growth, and self-discovery through intimacy
If you're interested in sex education, ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, threesomes, kink, BDSM, relationship communication, sexual wellness, consent, body positivity, and authentic conversations about pleasure, this episode is for you.
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In this powerful and unfiltered episode of Please Me! Podcast, Eve sits down with author, speaker, and viral creator Cidney Green for an honest conversation about sexuality, censorship, misogyny, kink, consent, polyamory, and sexual empowerment.
Cidney opens up about her ultra-viral “Pussy Over Pain” video that sparked international conversations around women’s bodies, social media censorship, and the normalization of violence over pleasure. Together, Eve and Cidney dive into rape culture, patriarchy, BDSM communication, fetish psychology, consent, and the emotional truths behind modern intimacy.
The conversation also explores the world of phone sex, erotic storytelling, dominance and submission, long-distance intimacy, and how understanding psychology can improve sexual communication and relationships.
Topics Discussed:• Sexual empowerment and body positivity• Pussy Over Pain viral video• Women’s bodies and censorship• Consent and kink culture• BDSM, fetish psychology, and submission• Phone sex tips and erotic communication• Polyamory and modern relationships• Patriarchy and misogyny• Sexual health and intimacy• Emotional connection and pleasure
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In this deeply embodied episode of Please Me!, Eve welcomes erotic embodiment coach and “Orgasmic Body Whisperer” Patty Alfonso for a powerful conversation on erotic innocence, feminine energy, sensual confidence, sacred sexuality, and reconnecting to your life force energy. Together, they explore how trauma, societal conditioning, shame, burnout, and hyper-productivity disconnect women from pleasure, intuition, and authentic self-expression — and how reclaiming sensuality can transform every area of life.
Eve and Patty discuss body awareness, nervous system regulation, self-pleasure as self-care, embodiment practices, communication in relationships, orgasmic energy, feminine and masculine balance, and what it means to truly feel safe in your body. They also explore how pleasure, curiosity, and sensual living can support healing, confidence, intimacy, and emotional connection.
This episode dives into topics including erotic innocence, sacred sexuality, sexual sovereignty, body positivity, orgasm equality, self-love, feminine empowerment, sensual embodiment, kink exploration, communication tools for couples, nervous system healing, pleasure practices, and reconnecting with your authentic self.
Plus, Eve and Patty step into one of the podcast’s signature role play segments, demonstrating a powerful intimacy and communication exercise called a dyad. Through guided dialogue, they model how partners can safely explore fantasies, desires, kink curiosity, consent, vulnerability, and deeper emotional intimacy through intentional communication and active listening.
If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your body, stuck in performance-based sexuality, navigating life transitions, or craving deeper intimacy and pleasure, this conversation offers empowering tools to help you reconnect with yourself and your desires.
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In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Eve continues with boudoir photographer Vera Glass to explore body confidence, feminine empowerment, sensual self-expression, sexuality, and the transformative power of boudoir photography.
This episode goes deeper into how boudoir can support women through divorce, motherhood, body image struggles, shame, societal expectations, and major life transitions. Vera shares how stepping in front of the camera can help women reconnect with their bodies, rebuild confidence, and begin to see themselves through the empowering lens of the female gaze.
Eve and Vera also explore how boudoir becomes a tool for emotional reinvention — helping women release old identities, rediscover pleasure, and reconnect with sensuality and self-worth at every stage of life.
The episode closes with a playful role play segment focused on intimacy and communication, including dirty talk, expressing desire, consent, and how to bring more openness, confidence, and erotic communication into partnered relationships.
Perfect for listeners interested in boudoir photography, divorce recovery, body confidence, sensual embodiment, feminine energy, sexuality, self-love, intimacy, communication, and personal transformation.
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In Part 1 of this special two-part episode of Please Me! Podcast, Eve sits down with boudoir and fashion photographer Vera Glass for a deep conversation on the female gaze, body confidence, sexuality, sensuality, and self-expression. Together they explore how boudoir photography can become a powerful tool for embodiment, healing, feminine empowerment, and reconnecting with your sensual self.
Vera shares how her photography differs from traditional “male gaze” imagery by centering women’s comfort, emotional safety, confidence, and authenticity. From curated luxury photoshoots and cinematic imagery to breathwork, nervous system regulation, and emotional healing, this episode dives into the psychology behind sensual photography and why so many women leave boudoir sessions feeling transformed.
Eve and Vera also discuss body image, self-worth, intimacy, feminine energy, and how intentional photography can help women reconnect with their bodies after heartbreak, divorce, motherhood, trauma, or major life transitions.
Perfect for listeners interested in boudoir photography, self-love, body positivity, embodiment, sensual wellness, feminine confidence, sexuality, intimacy, and personal growth. Be sure to come back for Part 2 this Friday.
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In this episode of Please Me! Podcast, Eve dives into the provocative world of ethical gender play and doll play with professional dominatrix and kink educator Lady Veronika Kestrel. Together, they unpack how BDSM and intentional kink can become powerful tools for self-discovery, gender exploration, erotic transformation, sexuality and personal empowerment.
This conversation explores the psychology behind dollification, sissy play, dominance and submission, humiliation, affirmation, consent, and the emotional impact of gendered power dynamics within kink spaces. Lady Veronika shares how ethical gender play can help people better understand identity, embodiment, fantasy, and self-expression while challenging shame, stigma, and outdated ideas around femininity and masculinity.
Eve and Lady Veronika also discuss the transformative nature of doll play, the importance of boundaries and intentionality in BDSM, and how kink can be used to build people up rather than tear them down. From fetish culture and trans identity to conscious kink practices and erotic self-acceptance, this episode offers a thoughtful and deeply intimate look into modern BDSM dynamics.
Perfect for listeners curious about kink education, BDSM relationships, doll play, feminization, gender expression, power exchange, consent, sexual empowerment, and alternative intimacy.
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Pleasure ME! Pop-Up is a month-long immersive destination in West Palm Beach for adults who are ready to go deeper — into pleasure & sexuality, into community, and into themselves. Whether you’re brand new to this world and full of curiosity or a seasoned practitioner looking for a rich community experience, this space was created with you in mind.
Each week offers a curated rhythm of healing, education, connection, and play, featuring guest educators, performers, workshops, and experiences designed to encourage exploration, authenticity, and community. The month builds toward an unforgettable 3-day finale that brings everything together in a powerful closing experience.
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In Part 2 of this conversation, host Eve continues her discussion with Dr. Nic and Prof Mike of Divine Guidance, exploring what it means to be blindsided in a relationship and how to rebuild self-trust after emotional disruption.
This episode dives into intuition in relationships, emotional patterns in dating, and the self-awareness needed to navigate both new and long-term partnerships. The conversation unpacks why people stay in misaligned relationships, the difference between hope vs. certainty, and how to recognize early red flags before deeper attachment forms.
Eve and her guests also break down ghosting behavior, why partners come back after disappearing, and how to make confident, grounded decisions rooted in clarity—not confusion. The episode concludes with a practical role play covering communication skills, financial compatibility, and relationship alignment.
Key Topics:• Being blindsided in a relationship and emotional recovery• Rebuilding self-trust and confidence after heartbreak• Intuition in dating and relationships• Emotional patterns and relationship cycles• Hope vs. certainty in love and decision-making• Red flags in early dating stages• Ghosting behavior and why people come back• Communication skills in relationships• Financial compatibility and relationship alignment• Self-awareness and healthy relationship tools
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In this powerful Part 1 conversation, Eve sits down with Dr. Nic and Professor Mike Sebastian from the Trust Your Gut Save Your Ass Podcast to unpack what it really means to be blindsided in a relationship—and how to find your way back to yourself.
Through a deeply personal story, Eve shares her experience of financial manipulation within her marriage and the long-term impact it had on her life, credit, and sense of self. What begins as a reflection on a Netflix show quickly unfolds into a much larger conversation about red flags, intuition, trauma responses, and the patterns that keep people stuck in unhealthy relationships.
Together, they explore how financial dynamics can quietly erode a partnership, why so many people overlook early warning signs, and how societal pressure—especially for women—can lead to compromising your truth. This episode dives into the importance of emotional awareness, recognizing misalignment early, and understanding the role both partners play in relationship dynamics.
Dr. Nic and Professor Mike introduce the concept of “resonance” in relationships—how shared values, habits, and everyday preferences matter more than we often realize—and why ignoring small incompatibilities can lead to major fractures down the line. They also break down one of the most powerful and confronting questions you can ask in any relationship:
“Are you willing to work on this?”
This episode is an honest, nuanced look at love, accountability, and the journey of rebuilding trust—not just with others, but within yourself.
Stay tuned for Part 2, where things get even deeper with a live relationship role-play and communication breakdown.
Key Topics Covered
Financial manipulation and financial infidelity in relationships
Recognizing relationship red flags early
How trauma impacts communication and decision-making
The psychology of staying in unhealthy relationships
Sexless marriage and emotional disconnection
Rebuilding self-trust after divorce
Dating app culture and dishonesty statistics
The myth of “opposites attract” vs. relationship compatibility
Understanding “resonance” and alignment in partnerships
The role of intuition, gut feelings, and emotional awareness
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Welcome back to Please Me! Podcast, the award-winning sexuality podcast hosted by Eve, where bold conversations around intimacy, pleasure, and sexual wellness help de-stigmatize the way we talk about sex.
In this episode, Eve sits down with Luna Rose—ritual artist, kink guide, and herbalist behind Wild Pleasure Sanctuary—to explore the powerful intersection of eco-sensuality, BDSM, and embodied desire.
Luna shares how she weaves together Shibari rope work, plant-based practices, herbal medicine, and ritual to create deeply transformative experiences rooted in presence, connection, and pleasure.
From working with herbs like rose, lavender, and rosemary in sensual play to using rope for nervous system regulation and mindfulness, this conversation expands the possibilities of intimacy, healing, and self-expression.
If you're curious about conscious kink, alternative intimacy, or holistic approaches to sexuality, this episode will open your perspective in a grounded and empowering way.
• What eco-sensuality is and how nature deepens intimacy• How plants like rose, lavender, and rosemary enhance sensual and kink experiences• The grounding and therapeutic benefits of Shibari rope bondage• How rope supports nervous system regulation and embodiment• Why consent, communication, and safety are essential in BDSM• How ritual and plant medicine intersect with sexuality• Safe ways to explore self-pleasure and kink curiosity
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In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Eve sits down with Dr. Jordan Wiggins to unpack how women’s “super traits”—including empathy, loyalty, and responsibility—can fuel success while also leading to burnout, people-pleasing, and a disconnection from pleasure and one's sexuality.
Together, they explore the deeper links between trauma, boundaries, sexual health, and relationship dynamics. This episode dives into how emotional labor impacts desire, why the orgasm gap persists, and how high-achieving women often prioritize others at the expense of their own needs.
You’ll also hear a practical role-play segment that demonstrates how to communicate desires, set boundaries, and confidently center your pleasure in intimate relationships.
If you’ve ever struggled with overgiving, loss of desire, or difficulty asking for what you want—in bed or in life—this episode offers both insight and actionable tools to help you reclaim your power and reconnect with your body.
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Welcome to Please Me, the award-winning sexuality podcast hosted by Eve, bringing bold conversations around sexual health, intimacy, and sexual empowerment.
In this episode, Eve sits down with Dr. Jordan Wiggins, naturopathic doctor, author of Pink Canary, and host of The Pleasure Principles Podcast. Together they explore why high-achieving women often struggle in toxic relationships and how qualities like empathy, loyalty, and responsibility—what Dr. Wiggins calls “Super Traits”—can drive success while also keeping women stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns.
They discuss the connection between trauma, intimacy, libido, and emotional burnout, and why many successful women experience mismatched desire, sexless marriages, or disconnection in relationships despite thriving professionally.
This conversation also explores praise kink, emotional labor in relationships, and how “love languages” can sometimes be weaponized when one partner over-functions while the other under-functions.
In This Episode
• What Super Traits are and how they affect relationships• The connection between trauma and toxic relationship patterns• Why high-achieving women struggle with libido and intimacy• How chronic stress and over-functioning shut down pleasure centers• The role of praise, validation, and emotional labor in relationships• Why pleasure and fulfillment are essential for overall health
Eve also highlights two powerful resources designed to support long-term sexual health, pleasure, and prevention:
The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure
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Welcome to Please Me, the award-winning bilingual sexuality podcast hosted by Eve. Ranked among the top sexual health podcasts worldwide, Please Me explores intimacy, sexual wellness, orgasm equality, body positivity, and empowerment, helping listeners build confidence, connection, and pleasure in their lives.
In this episode, Eve welcomes Genevieve Lejeune, founder of Skirt Club, the world’s first global membership community created exclusively for bisexual and bicurious women. What began as a small gathering in London has grown into a thriving international network with 27,000+ members across 36 cities, offering curated events, workshops, and retreats designed to create safe spaces for women to explore identity, connection, and pleasure.
Together, Eve and Genevieve discuss:
• Exploring bisexuality, sexual identity, and self-discovery• Why women-only spaces support safety, confidence, and exploration• The role of consent, communication, and boundaries in intimacy• How embodiment practices and sexual energy reconnect women to their bodies• The importance of community, autonomy, and self-pleasure in sexual wellness
Genevieve also shares insights into Skirt Club’s international retreats in destinations like Austin, Paris, Bali, and New York, where women experience embodiment workshops, intimacy practices, and personal development focused on feminine empowerment and connection.
Eve also highlights two powerful resources designed to support long-term sexual health, pleasure, and prevention:
The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual PleasureA 3-module, self-paced course designed to help men and women prevent and improve sexual health concerns such as low libido, vaginal dryness, erectile dysfunction, and decreased sensitivity—all from the comfort and privacy of your own home.
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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Becky Gleed, a reproductive and perinatal health expert and host of the Perinatal and Reproductive Perspectives Podcast, to explore how infertility, IVF, and assisted reproduction impact intimacy, relationships, sexuality and mental health.
Eve also shares her personal IVF experience, opening up about how fertility treatments can shift sex from something spontaneous and connective into something scheduled and clinical—often creating emotional pressure and disconnection for couples. Together, they discuss the psychological toll of infertility and offer supportive, practical ways to maintain communication, intimacy, and emotional closeness throughout the journey.
This conversation also expands into postpartum realities, including breastfeeding challenges, identity shifts, and maternal mental health. They highlight the importance of prioritizing the wellbeing of the birthing individual and recognizing early signs of more serious conditions, including postpartum psychosis.
This episode is a compassionate and empowering resource for anyone navigating fertility challenges, reproductive health concerns, or changes in intimacy during the journey to parenthood.
What You’ll Learn• How infertility and IVF affect intimacy and relationships• Why fertility treatments can create emotional stress and disconnection• Ways to maintain connection and communication during fertility challenges• The importance of advocating for yourself in reproductive care• The role of mental health support during infertility and IVF• How postpartum recovery and breastfeeding can impact intimacy• Understanding postpartum psychosis and the importance of early support
Connect With the GuestBecky GleedWebsite: https://www.perinatalreproductivewellness.com/
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In this episode of Please Me, Eve introduces The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure—a proven, clinically informed system designed to help men and women prevent and improve common sexual health challenges before they become long-term issues.
From erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness to low libido, decreased sensitivity, and performance concerns, Eve breaks down why these experiences are not just a normal part of aging—and what’s actually happening in the body when sexual function begins to decline.
At the core of sexual longevity is a powerful truth: sexual function is deeply connected to blood flow, consistent stimulation, and nervous system regulation. When these systems are supported, pleasure, confidence, and connection don’t have to fade—they can be maintained and even improved over time.
Eve introduces a prevention-first approach to sexual wellness, showing why what you do now directly impacts your future sex life—and why waiting until something is “wrong” is the biggest mistake people make.
About the Course:
The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure is a 3-module, self-paced course designed so you can take control of your sexual health from the comfort and privacy of your own home—no need to work with Eve directly to experience the benefits.
Inside, you’ll find:
Module 1: Women’s Sexual Health HacksTargeted strategies to support arousal, lubrication, sensitivity, and long-term vaginal health
Module 2: Men’s Sexual Health HacksPractical tools to improve erectile function, stamina, performance, and confidence
Module 3: Safety Sexual Health HacksA critical, often overlooked component focused on nervous system regulation, safety, and sustainable pleasure—because true sexual longevity requires both physical function and a regulated, responsive body
This private client blueprint is designed to help you restore, maintain, and protect your sexual function for years to come—without guesswork.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
The real root cause behind declining sexual function (vascular health)
How to improve arousal, sensitivity, and sexual performance naturally
The role of the nervous system in pleasure, safety, and intimacy
How to prevent vaginal atrophy and erectile dysfunction
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In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, host Eve Hall sits down with renowned certified sexologist Marla Renee Stewart for a powerful conversation about seduction styles, intimacy, sexual communication, sexuality and authentic connection in relationships.
Marla, founder of Velvet Lips and co-founder of the Sex Down South Conference, shares insights from more than two decades of studying human sexuality and helping individuals and couples improve their sex lives. Together, they explore the three seduction styles and explain how understanding these styles can transform attraction, dating, communication, and intimacy.
Rather than manipulation, seduction is about recognizing your sexual strengths and using them to build genuine emotional and physical connection. This episode explores how visual, auditory, and tactile seduction styles influence the way we flirt, attract partners, and create deeper relationships.
Listeners will gain practical relationship advice, sexual wellness insights, and dating guidance for creating stronger emotional and erotic connections. Whether you are single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, understanding seduction styles can help you communicate better, increase attraction, and build more fulfilling intimacy.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode
• The three seduction styles: visual, auditory, and tactile
• How to identify your seduction style and your partner’s
• Why seduction is about authentic connection—not manipulation
• How communication improves intimacy and attraction
• Common sexual challenges couples experience in relationships
• Strategies to reconnect with a partner sexually and emotionally
• Dating advice for singles looking for deeper relationships
• Why shared values are essential for long-term compatibility
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in this episode of Please Me!, we dive into women’s sexual wellness, intimacy, and confidence with Jennifer Fonseca, a nurse practitioner at Liquivida Wellness.
We discuss how to navigate changes in sexual health due to aging, perimenopause, medications, stress, and lifestyle factors. Jennifer explains advanced treatment options such as Morpheus RF microneedling, vaginal fillers, and how holistic care combined with open communication can enhance intimacy and confidence.
Jennifer also shares her approach to creating a safe, judgment-free space for patients, empowering women to advocate for themselves, and maintaining sexual wellness well into later life.
Topics Covered
Vaginal health concerns: dryness, painful intercourse, and tissue changes
The effects of stress, hormones, and mental health on sexual function
Aesthetic and functional treatments for vaginal rejuvenation
Featured Treatments
Morpheus RF Microneedling – Tissue tightening and collagen stimulation (with a recommended 72-hour intimacy wait)
O-Shot – G-spot injections designed to enhance sensation
Dermal Fillers – Support for labial structure and confidence
Partner communication and introducing new experiences in the bedroom
Holistic approaches to sexual wellness and long-term vitality
Roleplay exercise modeling healthy communication
Practical advice for women to advocate for their sexual health
How to Connect with Jennifer Fonseca
Website: https://www.liquivida.com/wellington
Instagram: @LiquividaWellington
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In this powerful and deeply honest episode, Eve sits down with Xanet Pailet — former healthcare attorney turned sex and intimacy coach, bestselling author, and retreat leader. After leaving a 20+ year marriage that had become largely sexless, Xanet began a transformative journey of healing sexual shame, trauma, and emotional disconnection.
At age 50, she realized that desire doesn’t disappear because of aging or hormones — it fades when emotional safety erodes, communication shuts down, and the body stops feeling invited into the relationship.
Together, Eve and Xanet explore how to rebuild intimacy after a sexless marriage, repair emotional ruptures, heal trauma, and redefine sex beyond penetration to create lasting connection and pleasure.
Topics Covered
Emotional safety as the foundation of sexual intimacy
Why repair is critical in long-term relationships
The impact of childhood shame and medical trauma on desire
Healing sexual shutdown through tantra and embodied practices
Expanding the definition of sex beyond penetration
Navigating erectile dysfunction with compassion and creativity
Mutual masturbation and alternative intimacy practices
How to start difficult conversations about sex
Touching for your own pleasure to build erotic connection
Intimacy Equation QuizA playful conversation starter to explore your intimacy style: https://howtoimprovemylovelife.com
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Books:
Living an Orgasmic Life
The Sex & Intimacy Repair Kit
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In this powerful and deeply honest episode of Please Me!, host Eve welcomes Brent Dowlen, relationship and personal development coach, podcast host, and creator behind multiple shows including Driven To Thrive Broadcast and Dad Hat Shenanigans.
Together, they unpack the rarely discussed realities of men’s sexuality, sexual health, including performance anxiety, shame, stress, and identity — and how these factors deeply impact intimacy, relationships, and mental health.
Brent shares candid personal experiences with erectile dysfunction caused by stress and exhaustion, shedding light on how strongly many men tie sexual performance to masculinity and self-worth. The conversation explores how fear, shame, and societal expectations can quickly turn sex from a source of connection into a source of anxiety — and what men (and their partners) can do to interrupt that cycle.
This episode also dives into foundational habits for long-term sexual health, including sleep, nutrition, hydration, exercise, stress management, and honest self-assessment. Eve and Brent address the men’s mental health and loneliness epidemic, the outdated “playbook” men are still handed, and why vulnerability is often encouraged in theory but punished in practice.
The episode concludes with a realistic and educational role-play conversation, modeling how couples can communicate desires, boundaries, fantasies, and consent — proving that healthy sexual communication can be awkward, playful, respectful, and deeply connecting.
Men’s sexual performance anxiety and identity
Erectile dysfunction, stress, and exhaustion
Shame and fear surrounding sexual health issues
When men should seek support for sexual health concerns
Sleep, hydration, nutrition, and cardiovascular health for sexual wellness
Testosterone, exercise, and healthy fats
Men’s mental health crisis and loneliness epidemic
Why traditional therapy often misses men
Masculinity, vulnerability, and societal expectations
Initiating intimacy and feeling desired as a man
Power dynamics, submission, and stress relief in the bedroom
How to talk to your partner about fantasies and boundaries
Consent, communication, and curiosity in long-term relationships
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In Episode 4 of Season 7, host Eve welcomes back Sam Itshaki, creator of Mr. Get Bigger Now and CEO of the legendary Dr. Joel Kaplan Company, for his second appearance on Please Me! A Sexuality Podcast
This candid, educational conversation explores sexual wellness tools designed to support blood flow, sensitivity, endurance, and confidence — for all genders.
Building on his Season 6 appearance, Sam returns to share the latest data, devices, and innovations in sexual health, including pumps for men and women, endurance training, and the science behind arousal, aging, and prevention.
How blood flow directly impacts sexual pleasure, sensitivity, and function
Why sexual wellness is preventative care, not just a solution after problems arise
The science behind penis pumps, extenders, and female vacuum devices
How regular pumping may support:
Increased sensitivity
Improved natural lubrication
Enhanced erectile quality
Vaginal and vulvar tissue health
The connection between aging, atrophy, and sexual function in both men and women
How women experience arousal and engorgement — and why it matters for pleasure
A deep dive into penile endurance training and edging practices
How men can dramatically increase stamina and control through guided training
Why lasting longer isn’t a “problem to fix” — it’s a trainable skill
How improved endurance can open the door to deeper intimacy, novelty, and fantasy
A playful, fan-favorite role play segment exploring how to introduce new tools into a relationship
Sam Itshaki first joined Please Me! in Season 6 for a powerful two-part deep dive into male enhancement, sexual confidence, and the foundations of blood-flow-based sexual wellness. These fan-favorite episodes laid the groundwork for today’s conversation and are a great place to start if you’re new to Sam’s work.
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Part 2:https://open.spotify.com/episode/6nWGLezGEQW9KqLYfJkyrv?si=SlAXCixtTOu-NaGx25GnPA
Together, these episodes explore the origins of Mr. Get Bigger Now, early research on pumping and endurance training, and how men can reclaim agency over their sexual performance and pleasure.
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