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  • Discover how narcissistic parents' behaviors lead to deep and lasting loneliness in you. This video breaks down key traits and their impact. 👇🏼Join 'The Scapegoat Recovery Workshop' on December 2nd👇🏼https://join.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/scapegoat-recovery-workshop/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=scapegoat+workshop&utm_content=a62Other ways I can help you👇🏼🔥Access my FREE Training - "Build The Differentiated-Self You Were Never Allowed To Have!"https://jerrywise.ewebinar.com/webinar/free-training-10027?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=free+training&utm_content=a62🔥🔥🔥 Join the 'Self-Differentiation Recovery' Program: Get your family of origin of you and stand strong as your differentiated SELF in relationships and life. https://program.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/welcome/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=YNRTS&utm_content=a62🔥🔥🔥 Coaching packages & solutions:https://www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/book-online?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=coaching&utm_content=a62🌐 More free recourses on my website:www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com➡️ Recommended Playlists:Outgrowing dysfunctional family Patterns- https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoYQTW09i3W2Eu-hOf7YkDY7xD-zVq-BRBreak Free From Narcissistic Parents & Families- https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoYQTW09i3W172vXggx0taH1_eHfNDq2aAdult Children of Alcoholics: Heal & Change The Pattern - https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoYQTW09i3W2hxQ_UzQsKEm2d39X8B2hH➡️ You can find me also on:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jerrytwise/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JerrytwiseTwitter: https://twitter.com/JerrytwiseSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3DKjGLpV4bBB2oCZpetM82?si=4a5987b4b8064a39For over 45 Years, Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has helped 1000s of People in the Same Situation as You… As a family system and self-differentiation coach, he uses his knowledge to help clients permanently get unstuck from family-of-origin dysfunction, cultivate healthy relationships and build a true sense of self.DISCLAIMER: This video is not intended to substitute for professional counseling help. Be sure to consult a professional in helping you with these integrate and utilize these concepts.🔥Access my FREE Training - "Build The Differentiated-Self You Were Never Allowed To Have!"https://jerrywise.ewebinar.com/webinar/free-training-10027?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=free+training&utm_content=a62

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  • Narcissistic parents often use tactics that lead to CPTSD, childhood trauma and can have long-lasting effects on you as an adult. This is how I can help you 👇🏼🔥Access my FREE Training - "Build The REAL SELF You Were Never Allowed To Have!"https://jerrywise.ewebinar.com/webinar/free-training-10027?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=free+training&utm_content=a59🔥🔥🔥 Join 'Your New Road To SELF': Break free from toxic family patterns, heal your relationships, and discover your true self! https://program.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/welcome/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=YNRTS&utm_content=a59🔥🔥🔥 Coaching packages & solutions:https://www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/book-online?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=coaching&utm_content=a59🌐 More free recourses on my website:www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com➡️ Recommended Playlists:Outgrowing dysfunctional family Patterns- https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoYQTW09i3W2Eu-hOf7YkDY7xD-zVq-BRBreak Free From Narcissistic Parents & Families- https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoYQTW09i3W172vXggx0taH1_eHfNDq2aAdult Children of Alcoholics: Heal & Change The Pattern - https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoYQTW09i3W2hxQ_UzQsKEm2d39X8B2hH➡️ You can find me also on:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jerrytwise/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JerrytwiseTwitter: https://twitter.com/JerrytwiseSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3DKjGLpV4bBB2oCZpetM82?si=4a5987b4b8064a39For over 45 Years, Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has helped 1000s of People in the Same Situation as You… As a family system and self-differentiation coach, he uses his knowledge to help clients permanently get unstuck from family-of-origin dysfunction, cultivate healthy relationships and build a true sense of self.DISCLAIMER: This video is not intended to substitute for professional counseling help. Be sure to consult a professional in helping you with these integrate and utilize these concepts.🔥Access my FREE Training - "Build The REAL SELF You Were Never Allowed To Have!"https://jerrywise.ewebinar.com/webinar/free-training-10027?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=free+training&utm_content=a59

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  • Are you having trouble getting the narcissist out of you?  

    Jerry Wise is a life and relationship coach and been helping people for over 40 years using a family systems approach to recovery and healing.    In this video he shares 5 keys for helping you get the narcissist out of you.  He talks about using a paradoxical acceptance tool, unlocking the interlocking relationships in the past with the narcissist, stopping systems behaviors and resisting systems feelings, resisting and overcoming obsessive thinking, and turning your obsession to self love. 

    To work with Jerry Wise contact him at:

    www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com

    317-919-6264 

    [email protected] 

    Join Jerry's YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZWHfOsTVegeEFEXV56llWA

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  • -What are the healthy characteristics of a healthy mature inner adult?  

    Many have never learn what is normal for a healthy adult self, especially growing up in a dysfunctional home.    

    KEY POINT: "Resists the forces to fit in with the group ethos when it contradicts their values"  Number 6 of the 7 part series  Our aim is to resist group think, group feel, the family superself, the workplace superself, and following the herd.  Stating I-positions without reactivity, with calmness, and focusing on Self when dealing with others and the group ethos (values, morals, opinions).  Staying in contact means we do not retreat nor do we attack or become reactive in relationships in which we disagree with others.     Jerry Wise is presenting a seven part series of videos on the 7 Characteristics of a Healthy Inner Adult listed in the book by Jenny Brown, "Growing Yourself Up".  He explains each one.  Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has been a family therapist and life and life and relationship coach.  He and his team work with individuals, couples, and families and businesses to become strong self-differentiating people and leaders.  

    To work with Jerry Wise contact him at www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com
    317-919-6264
    [email protected]
    Join Jerry's YouTube Channel,  
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JerryWiseConsulting/
    Twitter: https://twitter.com/JerryWiseRS
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jerrywise.rs/  

    Also all of his videos are on Spotify and Anchor.fm for online and offline listening. You can take them with you in your car or at work.  "Not How but When" by Jerry Wise  https://open.spotify.com/show/3DKjGLpV4bBB2oCZpetM82

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  • -What are the healthy characteristics of a healthy inner adult?   

    Many have never learn what is normal for a healthy adult self, especially growing up in a dysfunctional home.   

    KEY POINT: "Doesn't Expect to be Rescued by Others and Refrains from Taking Over for Others."  Number 5 of 7 part series  Jerry Wise Life and Relationship Coach explains what it means to be rescued by others and taking over for others.  Using Bowen Family Systems Theory he describes the sharing of Self with others.  Giving and taking of self is common in dysfunctional relationships.  He explains how we can identify and avoid this so we can be self-differentiated.       Jerry Wise is presenting a seven part series of videos on the 7 Characteristics of a Healthy Inner Adult listed in the book by Jenny Brown, "Growing Yourself Up".  He explains each one.  Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has been a family therapist and life and relationship coach.

    To work with Jerry Wise contact him at www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com
    317-919-6264
    [email protected]  

    Join Jerry's YouTube Channel,  
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JerryWiseConsulting/
    Twitter: https://twitter.com/JerryWiseRS
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jerrywise.rs/  

    Also all of his videos are on Spotify and Anchor.fm for online and offline listening. You can take them with you in your car or at work.  "Not How but When" by Jerry Wise  https://open.spotify.com/show/3DKjGLpV4bBB2oCZpetM82

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  • -What are the healthy characteristics of a healthy inner adult?   Many have never learn what is normal for a healthy adult self, especially growing up in a dysfunctional home.   

     KEY POINT: "Stays in Contact with Those Who are Upset"  Number 4 of the 7 Part Series  Staying in contact means we do not retreat nor do we attack or become reactive in relationships in which others are upset or are upset with us.   

     Jerry Wise is presenting a seven part series of videos on the 7 Characteristics of a Healthy Inner Adult listed in the book by Jenny Brown, "Growing Yourself Up".  He explains each one.  Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has been a family therapist and life and relationship coach. To work with Jerry Wise contact him at 

    www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com
    317-919-6264
    [email protected]

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  • -What are the healthy characteristics of a healthy inner adult?   Many have never learn what is normal for a healthy adult self, especially growing up in a dysfunctional home.   KEY POINT: "Improves themselves without blaming others". This is Number 3 in the Seven Part Series Focusing on ourselves and how we function in the troubled relationships.  Blaming keeps the focus on others and will keep us stuck. Jerry offers helps to resist SELF-blame and OTHER-blame.   Jerry Wise is presenting a seven part series of videos on the 7 Characteristics of a Healthy Inner Adult listed in the book by Jenny Brown, Growing Yourself Up.  He explains each one. 

    Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has been a family therapist and life and relationship coach. To work with Jerry Wise contact him at

    www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com 317-919-6264 [email protected]

    Join Jerry's You Tube channel, Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram

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  • -What are the healthy characteristics of a healthy inner adult?   Many have never learn what is normal for a healthy adult self, especially growing up in a dysfunctional home.   KEY POINT: "Staying on Task Even When Experiencing Discomfort" Number 2 of the Seven Part Series Identifying and resolving systems feelings can get our true feelings in line with our values.   Jerry Wise is presenting a seven part series of videos on the 7 Characteristics of a Healthy Inner Adult listed in the book by Jenny Brown, Growing Yourself Up.  He explains each one.  Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has been a family therapist and life and relationship coach. To work with Jerry Wise contact him at www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com 317-919-6264 [email protected] Join Jerry's You Tube channel, Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram

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  • -What are the healthy characteristics of a healthy inner adult?   Many have never learn what is normal for a healthy adult self, especially growing up in a dysfunctional home.   KEY POINT: Identifying and resolving systems feelings can get our true feelings in line with our values.   Jerry Wise is presenting a seven part series of videos on the 7 Characteristics of a Healthy Inner Adult listed in the book by Jenny Brown, Growing Yourself Up.  He explains each one.   To work with Jerry Wise contact him at www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com 317-919-6264 [email protected] Join Jerry's You Tube channel, Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram

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  • Self differentiation expert Jerry Wise explains how over-seriousness is a way to maintain enmeshment and emotional fusion.  To break free we need more playfulness, more flexibility in our emotional responses, and less over-seriousness.   When others make things heavier, we must make things lighter.  The world will thank us for this.  (The exception when there is a grief or loss or tragedy), most things people get over-serious about are over nothing or small things.  For more help contact Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC at [email protected] or 317-919-6264

    www.jerrywiserelationsystems.com

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  • Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC is an international relationship coach and self-differentiation specialist and teaches family systems approach to healing and recovery.  In this video Jerry presents a family systems perspective of relationship problems.  Problems are symptoms of deeper problems.  Often we use the same thinking that got us into the problem.  Jerry Wise offers the viewer a way to think 'outside the box' and zoom out to see the deeper sources of our problems.   Listen to his podcasts on Spotify, Itunes, and all the major streaming apps.  Sign up for his May 30, 2020 workshop on his website.  You can contact or work with Jerry Wise by reaching him at www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com or 1-317-919-6264 (USA) or [email protected]   Jerry Wise has clients all over the world, if you are looking for a new kind of help contact him.

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  • Jerry Wise, MA, MS is a relationship expert, self-specialist, life coach. He as been helping people for 37 years. He was a marriage and family therapist, pastoral  counselor, pastor, speaker, and trainer. Contact Jerry Wise at

    317-919-6264 | [email protected] | jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com

    Jerry Wise works with clients one-on-one, couples, families, leaders, therapists.

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  • Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has been a self expert for 40 years. He offers 12 steps to allowing other people to grow up. Over-functioning is a serious problem along with Codependency resulting in supporting the immaturity of others. Jerry Wise stresses the importance of allowing others to grow up we have to get out of their way. This builds self-differentiation as well as maturely placing the responsibility on others to grow themselves up. To work with Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC, Self Expert contact him at [email protected] | 317-919-6264 (US) | jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jerry-wise/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jerry-wise/support

  • Jerry Wise, Relationship Expert, Life Coach - In dysfunctional families ENMESHMENT or over-closeness is a overabundance of a good thing. Just like cancer it is an overgrowth of togetherness and closeness. This enmeshment process is very damaging, emotionally disabling, painful, and pervasive in the lives of those who suffer in enmeshed families. Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC explains the problems faced by those who are still enmeshed in their family-of-origin and uses his 39+ years of experience to show them the way out and the way to maturity and freedom. For professional help in office or through Skype or Facetime contact Jerry Wise at 317-919-6264 | [email protected] | www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jerry-wise/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jerry-wise/support

  • Watch this video and you will understand the emotional system and it works in a much better way!  Systems feelings control so many people's lives.  These are not the true us or the true state of our feelings.  True feelings are pushed out or overwhelmed by these "systems feelings" which arise from our past and our current functioning in relationships.  Jerry Wise is a 40 year veteran of helping people to quiet and resolve these systems feelings.  As a self-differentiation/family systems expert he coaches people to discover their true selves.  Contact Jerry Wise at

    [email protected] | 317-919-6264 | www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com

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  • So you think you are ready to stand up for yourself. This video helps you prepare for those self defining events with your family of origin, spouses and friends by Jerry Wise, Relationship Expert, Life Coach. Being assertive and standing up for yourself is a science. Jerry Wise explains the dynamics of the family systems concept of "declaring self" which is self assertiveness from a systems perspective. For more help contact Jerry T. Wise, MA, MS, CLC at

     317-919-6264 | [email protected] | https://www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com

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  • Jerry Wise, MA, MS is a relationship expert, self-specialist, life and relationship coach. He as been helping people for 40+ years. He was a marriage and family therapist, pastoral  counselor, pastor, speaker, and trainer.  Contact him at

    [email protected] | 317-919-6264 | www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com  

    Jerry Wise works with clients one-on-one, couples, families, business leaders, and therapists.

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  • Jerry Wise has been an expert in helping ACOA/ACA's for 40 years.  Learn the 5 stages of recovery for ACOA's in this video.  For more personal help contact Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC at

     [email protected] / 317-919-6264 / jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com

    Jerry Wise works with clients all over the world.

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  • Loving an ACoA can be a challenge.  Relationships can be a real adventure.  This videos offers help, support and insight to those who are in a relationship with an ACA.    Self Differentiation Expert Jerry Wise uses his 40+ years of experience working with ACOA's to help couples and families achieve a greater sense of happiness and health in their lives.  Contact me at Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC at   

    [email protected] / 317-919-6264 / jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com

    For in office or Skype and Facetime  help online.

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  • Self Differentiation Expert Jerry Wise helps ACA's deal with the struggle for intimacy.  Jerry has been helping people for 40 years with ACOA, Codependency, and adult children of narcissists issues.  ACOA's ask many questions about achieving intimacy and healthy relationships.  This videos will help ACOA's and spouses of those who love them.   Contact Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC at 

    [email protected]  or 317-919-6264 to work with Jerry Wise.

    jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com

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