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In this episode, we delve into the harrowing story of Jodi, whose life took a dark turn when she entered a relationship with a friend. Thinking she knew him well after five years of acquaintance, she never imagined the horror that awaited her.
Discussions in this Episode:
Bloody Noses and TornadoesMeet a listener, JodiJohn moves in, turns out to be a nightmareJodi gets hooked on methPolice frequently visit her homeJohn ignores protective ordersDrains Jodi's life in 10 monthsSons sense troubleJodi struggles to break freeTherapy and support help her regain strengthJodi starts to reclaim her life and find happiness againInitially charming, he quickly turned into her worst nightmare. An audacious narcissist, he manipulated her with ease, saying all the right things to gain her trust. After letting him move into her home upon his release from jail, things spiraled out of control. He got her hooked on methamphetamine, and soon police became frequent visitors to her once peaceful home.
Despite protective orders, he refused to leave, leaving Jodi trapped in a living nightmare. In just 10 months, he managed to drain her of life, both mentally and financially. Even her sons sensed something was deeply wrong, though shielded from the worst of his abuse.
Overcoming manipulation, addiction, and the constant threat of danger, she finally managed to escape. But the battle wasn't over; it was just beginning. The process of healing and rebuilding her life was slow and painful. Therapy and support became her lifeline as she worked to regain her strength and sense of self. It is a journey filled with setbacks and challenges, but gradually, Jodi starts to reclaim her life.
Join us as we explore Jodi's journey from trust to betrayal, shedding light on the insidious nature of methamphetamine addiction and the devastating impact it can have on lives, especially when coupled with the manipulation of an audacious narcissist.
Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, narcissistic abuse, drug use, domestic violence, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.
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In the powerful continuation of Sarah's journey, we delve into a deeply personal and emotional chapter of her life as she confronts the toxic relationship with her mother. Despite enduring years of neglect and abuse at the hands of her father and ex-husband, Sarah's struggles with her mother's racism and lack of love proved to be another layer of trauma she had to navigate.
In this episode, Sarah bravely shares her experiences of growing up with a mother who showed zero love and constantly exhibited racist behavior towards Sarah’s partners and her children. From hurtful remarks to blatant acts of discrimination, Sarah's relationship with her mother was fraught with pain and disappointment.
Discussions in this episode:Behk & LAH banter about stressSarah's hateful motherThe racist stepdadParenting with loveBreaking free from her bullshitFinding a peaceful lifeJoin us as Sarah recounts her journey of confronting her mother's toxicity and the profound impact it had on her life and the lives of her children. Through her candid reflections, we gain insight into the complexities of familial relationships and the deep wounds caused by a lack of love and acceptance.
This episode is a poignant exploration of healing and forgiveness as Sarah grapples with the difficult decision to confront her mother about her behavior. With raw honesty and vulnerability, Sarah shares the emotional journey of setting boundaries, reclaiming her worth, and ultimately finding peace within herself.
Tune in as we witness Sarah's courageous journey of healing wounds, breaking free from toxic family patterns, and embracing a future filled with love, acceptance, and self-discovery.
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In this follow-up episode, we delve into another chapter of Sarah's life filled with struggle and resilience. Sarah opens up about her tumultuous 14-year marriage to William, a religious and controlling man whose manipulation and dominance cast a shadow over her life.
Discussions in the episode:
Behk & LAH banter about trashSarah's relationship with William beginsTheir 14-year toxic marriageHis control tacticsBreaking free from the bullshitFinally focusing on herself and healingShe endured emotional abuse, manipulation, and control tactics that left her feeling trapped and isolated. William's strict religious beliefs served as a weapon to exert power over Sarah, dictating every aspect of her life and leaving her feeling suffocated and powerless.
Join us as Sarah recounts her journey of breaking free from the chains of her toxic marriage. With raw honesty and vulnerability, she shares the struggles she faced in reclaiming her identity and rebuilding her life after years of being under William's control. From finding the courage to leave to navigating the challenges of starting over, Sarah's story is a powerful testament to the strength of the human spirit.
This episode is a compelling exploration of the complexities of toxic relationships and the profound impact they can have on one's life. Through Sarah's journey, we gain insight into the process of healing and self-discovery, and the importance of breaking free from toxic patterns to create a life filled with love, freedom, and authenticity. Tune in as we follow Sarah on her journey of empowerment, resilience, and the pursuit of true happiness.
Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, narcissistic abuse, child abuse, rape, gun violence, kid kidnapping, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.
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In this episode, Sarah, the sister of Amanda who shared her perspective in "A Child Left Behind Part 1 and 2," bravely opens up about her own upbringing in a toxic family environment. From a very young age, Sarah was made to feel unloved by her father, who seemed to harbor deep animosity towards her. But her struggles didn't end there—her mother's indifference and eventual decision to send her to state custody only added to her trauma.
Discussions in the episode:
Behk & LAH banter about procrastinatingMeet SarahUnloving FatherSelfish MotherLiving in state custodyBeing kidnappedWe’ll pick up next week with meeting himJoin us as Sarah shares her heartbreaking journey of growing up in a household filled with neglect and abuse. Through her candid reflections, we gain insight into the devastating impact of toxic family dynamics and the long-lasting scars they can leave. Despite the unimaginable challenges she faced, Sarah's resilience and courage shine through as she bravely confronts her past and shares her story with the world.
This episode is a testament to the power of storytelling in shedding light on hidden truths and inspiring hope for healing and recovery. Tune in as we explore Sarah's journey of survival, strength, and the quest for healing from the wounds of her past.
Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, narcissistic abuse, child abuse, rape, gun violence, kid kidnapping, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.
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Curious about which episode topped our Top-Five Replay list? Just before our hiatus, we revisited it to help our guest, so we opted against another replay. However, the #1 spot goes to... Cue the drum roll... "The Definition of a Bad Guy." Wondering how we determined these rankings? We relied on metrics, selecting the episodes with the highest number of plays within the initial 30 days of their release. We trust you found it as captivating as we did. Now, let's dive back into the show.
In this episode, we revisit Amanda, whose journey through the medical system left her feeling dismissed and judged due to her past, weight, and lack of insurance.
Discussion in this episode:
Amanda from "A Child Left Behind Part 1 and 2 is backHer various stories of most doctors dismissing herHer experience working in the healthcare industryBehk recounts her own experienceJoin us as Amanda bravely shares her experiences with medical gaslighting, where her concerns were often brushed aside, and she was told her condition was too expensive to treat. Her story sheds light on the challenges faced by many who navigate healthcare systems that prioritize profit over patient care.
But the revelations don't end there. Host Behk also shares her own medical mishaps, promising a dose of humor amidst the serious discussion. Prepare to be entertained as Behk recounts her own experience, leaving you in stitches (pun intended) while highlighting the absurdities that can occur within the medical realm.
Tune in to gain insight into the complexities of medical gaslighting and the importance of advocating for oneself in the face of adversity. This episode will leave you enlightened, empowered, and perhaps even chuckling at the absurdities of the healthcare system.
Content Warning: This episode discusses any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.
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Coming in at #2 on our top-five countdown, we delve into the heartbreaking story of Jessica, a dedicated community builder who found herself entangled in a tumultuous marriage with a narcissistic Sheila (an Australian woman). At first glance, her ex-wife appeared to have it all – stunning looks, intellect, and undeniable charm. However, behind this facade lay a dark and manipulative reality.
Jessica opens up about the whirlwind romance that led her to believe she had found her soulmate, only to discover later that her partner had a severe narcissistic personality disorder. Their life took a devastating turn during the COVID-19 lockdown, a time when stress and uncertainty seemed to amplify the cracks in their relationship.
Jessica turned to therapy and her faith to navigate the challenges she faced, but she also sought solace in alcohol as a coping mechanism. Her journey is a stark reminder of how even those in positions of spiritual guidance can fall victim to toxic relationships and the powerful grasp of narcissism.
In this raw and unfiltered conversation, we explore the signs and red flags that Jessica ignored, the emotional rollercoaster she endured, and the steps she took to regain control of her life. Her story serves as a testament to resilience, the importance of seeking help, and the power of faith in overcoming even the darkest of times.
Discussions in this episode:
Meet JessicaA whirlwind romanceBehind the facadeGetting out aliveHealing and finding herself againA message to the LGBTQ+ communityTune in to "Sheila Unmasked" as Jessica shares her story of survival and the path to healing, reminding us all that we can emerge from the shadow of narcissism stronger and wiser than before.
Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, alcoholism, sexual abuse, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.
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Coming in at #3 on our top-five countdown, we delve into the extraordinary life of Nancy, a resilient individual who triumphed over a tumultuous childhood marked by a toxic mother and the devastating loss of her father to suicide. Nancy bravely shares her deeply personal story, recounting the challenges she faced while growing up and the emotional turmoil of witnessing her father's tragic end.
Despite the overwhelming trauma, Nancy found the strength to envision a life filled with positivity and fulfillment. She takes us through her journey of self-discovery, highlighting the pivotal moments that allowed her to break free from the shackles of her past.
As she matured, Nancy made the courageous decision to set boundaries with her toxic mother, a crucial step towards reclaiming her own happiness. The episode unfolds the complexities of navigating difficult family dynamics and the importance of establishing healthy boundaries for one's well-being.
Join us as Nancy reflects on building the life she always dreamed of, defying the odds stacked against her. Her story is a testament to the human spirit's resilience and the transformative power of self-love.
In the later chapters of her life, Nancy experiences validation and hope that she never thought possible. Her journey inspires us to confront our own challenges with newfound courage and determination, reminding us that healing is a continuous process and that we all deserve the love and happiness we seek.
Discussions in this episode:Meet NancyGrowing up with a toxic motherWitnessing her father’s suicideMeeting Linda, a bright lightMoving to TexasHer childrenSetting boundaries with her motherA happier endingTune in to "Unexpected Validation and Hope” an episode of poignant exploration of trauma, resilience, and the triumph of the human spirit—a testament to Nancy's strength and an uplifting narrative of hope, redemption, and the unexpected joys that life can offer.
Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, narcissistic abuse, suicide, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.
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Coming in at #4 on our top-five countdown, we delve into the life of Cheryle, whose childhood took an unexpected turn when her parents divorced. As she navigated the complexities of life, she found herself entangled in a series of disappointing romantic relationships. However, none compare to the tumultuous saga that became a thorn in her side for 7 years..
Cheryle shares her stressful experience with a partner she describes as a parasitic presence – a man who entered her life and seemed to have no intention of leaving. With precision, she recounts the moments when attempts to distance herself only fueled his persistence. He became an unwelcome shadow, treating her with unkindness that intensified over their seven-year "situationship."
Discussions in this episode:Meet CheryleHer childhoodParent’s messy divorceThe Parasite “Xanax Chad”The struggle for autonomyA hopeful futureTune in to "The Parasite of Anywhereville” as Cheryle opens up about the emotional toll, the struggle for autonomy, and the difficult decisions she faced in extricating herself from this toxic connection. Her resilience and determination ultimately lead to a breaking point, marking the end of a painful chapter in her life.
This episode is a testament to the strength it takes to break free from unhealthy relationships and the empowerment that comes with reclaiming one's life. Cheryle's story is a poignant reminder that, even in the darkest moments, there is hope for a brighter tomorrow. Tune in for a riveting narrative of self-discovery.
Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, narcissistic abuse, child abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.
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Coming in at #5 on our top-five countdown, we sit down with Brandy, a counselor and author whose life story is nothing short of inspiring. Brandy's journey has been marred by the long-lasting scars of an abusive, narcissistic father that left her with seemingly insurmountable challenges. Her resilience, however, is a testament to the power of the human spirit.
Brandy's life took a dramatic turn when she reached her breaking point, resulting in her imprisonment. But what could have been the end of her story turned out to be a turning point. During her time behind bars, Brandy discovered an unexpected opportunity to heal and grow through various programs and therapy.
Join us as Brandy shares the harrowing details of her life before and after prison, shedding light on the horrors of an abusive upbringing and the transformative power of self-discovery. Her remarkable journey of personal growth and healing is a testament to the indomitable strength of the human spirit.
After her release, Brandy dedicated years to intensive therapy, self-reflection, and personal development. Today, she has chosen to use her experiences and newfound wisdom to help others find their path to healing and self-improvement. Through her counseling work and her compelling book, she offers guidance, hope, and a lifeline to those who have endured similar struggles.
Discussions in this episode:Meet BrandyHer narcissistic fatherHer time in prisonToxic relationshipsTherapy and healingAdvice from her perspectiveTune in to "Unbreaking Bad – Bred from Toxicity. Brandy's story will touch your heart, inspire you to overcome adversity and remind you that it's never too late to find your way toward a better future. Don't miss this powerful conversation with Brandy as she shares her journey from prison to redemption, and her mission to help others heal and thrive.
Brandy's book and podcast in this episode:
Last Nights Mascara
Tabletop of Doom
Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of domestic violence, sexual abuse, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.
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In this episode, hosts Behk and LAH dive into a whirlwind of random topics, from mourning the loss of LAH's beloved family dog to discussing the latest mind-boggling TikToks of ReesaTeesa's "Who the TF did I marry?"
As they dissect their favorite podcasts and docu-series, including the gripping "Death by Fame" Behk and LAH ponder when they'll be ready to share their own tales with their audience.
However, the conversation takes a poignant turn as they delve into the topic of emotions. With genuine curiosity, they ask: "How are you with your feelings?" This question sparks a candid discussion about navigating emotions, processing grief, and embracing vulnerability.
Discussions in this episode:LAH grieves her family dog passingReesaTeesa’s Who TF did I marry?Their favorite podcast and docu-seriesTo catch a killerWhen will Behk and LAH share their stories?How are you with your feelings?Tune in to this episode for a rollercoaster ride of topics, sprinkled with laughter and introspection.
Podcasts Behk & LAH mention:
LAH's Picks:
Come with Us with Sussy and ResheaPants with Kate and LeishaHandsomeWTF with Marc Maron (audio cut out–so sorry)Armchair Expert with Dax ShepardCrimetownBear BrookBehk's Picks:
Something was WrongEx-Wives UndercoverGoing West: True CrimeNightwatchS-TownSweet BobbyContent Warning: This episode discusses pet death and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.
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In this episode, Behk & LAH engage in lively banter, but amidst the laughter, we are compelled to share a poignant story. We revisit this episode to shed light on a tragic event unfolding in the lives of Bethany and her husband, Jeff. On February 10th, Jeff suffered a debilitating stroke, affecting the left side of his brain. Although he survived a challenging MER procedure to remove the blood clot, he now faces immense hurdles. His right side is paralyzed, his speech severely limited, and tragically, he has lost the ability to indulge in his greatest passion – playing the guitar. We implore you to extend your support in any way possible; whether through donations or by sharing their GoFundMe page. Your contribution, no matter how small, can make a significant difference. Thank you for standing with us in solidarity and for your unwavering support during this difficult time.
We sit down with Bethany, a survivor with a powerful story of resilience, hope, and recovery. Join us as she bravely recounts her encounter with a manipulative sexual predator who turned a date into a nightmarish ordeal.
Bethany opens up about the chilling experience of being taunted and sexually harassed by someone she initially considered a potential romantic interest, and how she summoned the courage to escape from his home. Her escape was only the beginning of her healing journey, as she shared how she sought support from a trusted friend and well-trained law enforcement professionals.
While Bethany's ordeal came to an end that fateful night, the trauma she endured had a lasting impact on her life. She reveals how the trust issues stemming from that dark encounter haunted her for years. Fortunately, her music guided her, and her current husband’s support and understanding led her to therapy and her healing journey.
Discussions in this episode:
NEW: Behk & LAH banterMeet BethanyGrowing up PentecostalHorrible boyfriendsThe bad guyValidation and healingHer musicTune in to "The Definition of a Bad Guy” to hear Bethany's inspiring story of survival, resilience, and the path to rebuilding trust after enduring such a traumatic experience. Her tale is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the power of seeking help when it's needed the most.
Bethany's Support Links:
Listen to Bethany’s band, Plastic Angels
Bethany recommends Help;Hear;Heal, a nonprofit she helps advise that sponsors free mental health therapy for survivors through TriveWorks.
Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, sexual abuse, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.
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In this episode, Heather shares her tumultuous journey with a narcissistic partner she encountered after reconnecting with a hot guy from high school. Heather recounts her initial excitement as she pursued a relationship with him through social media, only to find herself ensnared in a web of manipulation and emotional abuse.
Discussions in the episode:
Meet HeatherMoving back to her hometownInitial excitement and pursuitExclusivity and control tacticsInternal confusion and questioning of her self-worth and sanityRed flags and warning signsEmpowerment and encouragement for listenersAs their relationship progressed, Heather found herself subjected to belittlement and control tactics, as her partner demanded exclusivity and scrutinized her every move. His gaslighting and manipulation left her questioning her own worth and sanity, leading her to seek therapy in a desperate attempt to salvage what she believed could be saved.
Through Heather's candid narrative, we explore the insidious nature of narcissistic abuse and the profound impact it can have on one's self-esteem and mental well-being. Join us as we uncover the red flags, share insights, and empower listeners to recognize and break free from toxic relationships.
We are not doctors or therapists, and you should not take our opinions as medical advice.
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In this episode, Behk and LAH banter for a bit about things like being 40 and recouping from a night out at the club, the gorgeous Tennessee weather, but most importantly why they want to replay Reshea’s incredible story. Reshea is a survivor who escaped an abusive and toxic marriage to a military husband, all while contending with societal pressures and a misplaced belief in superficial standards of partner acceptability.
Discussions in the episode include:
Meet ResheaGrowing up under societal pressuresFalling into the toxic marriage trap too youngThe military marriage dynamicThe turning point and escaping abuseUnpacking the healing processMessage to listenersThank you for joining us on this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! If Reshea's story resonated with you, please share this episode with others who may find it valuable. Stay tuned for more stories of resilience and empowerment in future episodes, and remember that you have the strength to overcome challenges and live a life true to yourself.
Meanwhile, we support our troops and know that this story is not a reflection of all those who serve.
We are not doctors or therapists, and you should not take our opinions as medical advice.
Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of domestic violence, infidelity, sexual abuse, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.
If you feel like you may be a victim of domestic violence of any type or in any way please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788 for confidential and free 24/7/365 support.
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In this episode, we delve into Melanie's story of resilience and determination as she recounts her journey of breaking free from the clutches of a toxic relationship. Melanie, with her idyllic childhood and a heart brimming with kindness, thought she had found a life partner in James when they connected through a dating app. However, what began as a promising romance soon turned into a nightmare.
Discussions in this episode:Meet MelanieMeeting James, the hobosexualJames moves inCOVID-19 Lockdown hellEscaping the manipulationFinally no contactWithin a year of dating, James moved into Melanie's home, bringing along his children from a previous relationship. Despite Melanie's unwavering love and hospitality, James took advantage of her kindness, never contributing financially or helping with household responsibilities. As the world grappled with the challenges of the Covid-19 pandemic, their relationship took a sharp turn for the worse.
James's alcoholism and narcissistic tendencies exacerbated the toxicity of their relationship, leaving Melanie emotionally drained and exhausted. Join us as Melanie shares her courageous journey of reclaiming her life and finding the strength to break free from the Hobosexual trap that ensnared her. This episode offers a poignant reminder of the importance of recognizing and addressing toxic relationships, even in the face of adversity.
What is a hobosexual you ask? A Hobosexual is a person who gets into relationships to avoid being homeless or being financially responsible for a home or utilities.
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In this episode, we continue the harrowing story of Jena from episode five, who escaped the clutches of a cult only to find herself ensnared in another form of darkness. After leaving the cult, Jena thought she had found solace in the arms of Dick, a man who initially seemed like the perfect partner—comforting, strong, and gentle. They swiftly tied the knot after a year of seemingly blissful companionship.
However, the facade began to crumble as Dick insidiously tore apart the very fabric of Jena's well-being and used her past against her. This episode explores the complexities of coercive control, examining the subtle ways in which emotional abuse can manifest in seemingly loving relationships. Join us as we unravel the layers of Jena's experience, shedding light on the silent struggles faced by survivors of cults and those ensnared in toxic relationships.
Discussions in this episode:Pick back up with JenaWhy being called strong pisses her offMeeting Dick the charmerThe blissful slow burn to the truthThe unraveling of insidious abuseHow she broke freeA peaceful existenceListeners will gain insights into the signs of covert abuse, the psychological toll it takes, and the strength it requires to break free from the chains of manipulation. Jena's story is a testament to resilience and the indomitable spirit that empowers survivors to reclaim their lives. Don't miss this eye-opening episode as we navigate through the shadows to find the strength within.
Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, narcissistic abuse, spousal abuse, rape, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.
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In this gripping episode, we dive into the harrowing journey of Jena, a survivor who grew up in a cobbled-together toxic Christiany cult. The cult's roots trace back to Southern California before its leader convinced the members to uproot their lives and relocate to the Bible Belt, White House, TN.
Jena shares the chilling details of her upbringing within the cult, where a rigid doctrine based on perfection and blind obedience dominated every aspect of life. As a survivor of sexual abuse, she courageously opens up about the traumatic experiences she endured at the hands of the cult's leaders and members.
Discussions in this episode:Meet JenaRelocating to CA and joining the “church”Childhood controlled by the cult400+ members migrate to the Bible BeltTrauma of it allExposing and escaping the abusive cultSurviving the stress of the news circusAs Jena transitioned into young adulthood, she found the strength to expose the cult and take legal action against them. Her brave pursuit of justice involved filing lawsuits for rapes, molestations, underage marriage, and a web of cover-ups that extended through generations within the congregation, often comprised of tightly-knit family members.
Join us as Jena recounts her journey from darkness to light, shedding light on the complexities of escaping a manipulative cult, seeking justice, and ultimately reclaiming her life. This episode serves as a powerful testament to resilience, courage, and the human spirit's ability to break free from oppressive environments.
Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, narcissistic abuse, child abuse, rape, religious abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.
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In this episode, Stephanie opens up about her upbringing in Florida, shaped by the traumatic experiences of her parents' own challenging childhoods. The echoes of this difficult past reverberated through Stephanie and her sister's lives, causing tension and discord between them.
With courage and vulnerability, Stephanie shares her personal journey and aspirations. Despite the shadows cast by her family's history, she expresses a deep desire to break the cycle of trauma. Stephanie is determined to provide her son with a different narrative — one filled with love, care, and protection.
Discussions in this episode:Meet StephanieHer parent’s traumatic childhoodHer and her sister’s turbulent relationshipHer parenting style versus her parent’sA healing and loving future for her sonJoin us as Stephanie explores her own resilience and powerful commitment to creating a more nurturing environment for the next generation. This episode is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the transformative power of breaking generational patterns.
Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, narcissistic abuse, child abuse, rape, suicide, animal abuse, gun violence, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.
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In this episode, we continue our conversation with Amanda, a remarkable individual who emerged triumphant despite growing up in the deep rural South with disturbingly toxic parents. From a young age, Amanda faced the harsh realities of child abuse, and neglect, while witnessing unimaginable scenarios that no child should endure.
As we explore Amanda's narrative, we unravel the layers of her resilience and strength. Her teenage years were marred by the deep-seated scars of abuse, leaving her caught in the clutches of a broken foster care system. However, Amanda's story is not one of defeat; it's a testament to the indomitable human spirit.
Discussions in this episode:DHS and the broken foster care systemMeeting her soulmateHer and her husband's loving parenting styleA healing and brighter future despite it allTune in as Amanda shares her journey of survival, resilience, and ultimately triumph. Through her narrative, we gain insights into the profound impact of adverse childhood experiences and the importance of support systems in overcoming seemingly insurmountable challenges.
In this emotionally charged episode, we navigate through the darkest corners of Amanda's past to discover the shining beacon of hope that guided her toward healing and self-discovery. Prepare to be moved as we witness the strength of the human spirit in the face of adversity, and find inspiration in Amanda's unwavering determination to build a brighter future.
Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, narcissistic abuse, child abuse, rape, gun violence, kid kidnapping, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.
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In this episode, we sit down with Amanda, a remarkable individual who emerged triumphant despite growing up in the deep rural South with disturbingly toxic parents. From a young age, Amanda faced the harsh realities of child abuse, and neglect, while witnessing unimaginable scenarios that no child should endure.
As we explore Amanda's narrative, we unravel the layers of her resilience and strength. Her teenage years were marred by the deep-seated scars of abuse, leaving her caught in the clutches of a broken foster care system. However, Amanda's story is not one of defeat; it's a testament to the indomitable human spirit.
Discussions in this episode:Meet AmandaRuthless, icy, and selfish MotherMentally unwell and inconsistent FatherGrowing up in the deep rural SouthDCS and the broken foster care systemMeeting her soulmateA healing and brighter future despite it allTune in as Amanda shares her journey of survival, resilience, and ultimately triumph. Through her narrative, we gain insights into the profound impact of adverse childhood experiences and the importance of support systems in overcoming seemingly insurmountable challenges.
In this emotionally charged episode, we navigate through the darkest corners of Amanda's past to discover the shining beacon of hope that guided her toward healing and self-discovery. Prepare to be moved as we witness the strength of the human spirit in the face of adversity, and find inspiration in Amanda's unwavering determination to build a brighter future.
Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, narcissistic abuse, child abuse, rape, gun violence, kid kidnapping, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.
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Music: No Reason Why by Anchor
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In this episode, we delve into the life of Cheryle, whose childhood took an unexpected turn when her parents divorced. As she navigated the complexities of life, she found herself entangled in a series of disappointing romantic relationships. However, none compare to the tumultuous saga that became a thorn in her side for 7 years..
Cheryle shares her stressful experience with a partner she describes as a parasitic presence – a man who entered her life and seemed to have no intention of leaving. With precision, she recounts the moments when attempts to distance herself only fueled his persistence. He became an unwelcome shadow, treating her with unkindness that intensified over their seven-year "situationship."
Discussions in this episode:Meet CheryleHer childhoodParent’s messy divorceThe Parasite “Xanax Chad”The struggle for autonomyA hopeful futureTune in to "The Parasite of Anywhereville” as Cheryle opens up about the emotional toll, the struggle for autonomy, and the difficult decisions she faced in extricating herself from this toxic connection. Her resilience and determination ultimately lead to a breaking point, marking the end of a painful chapter in her life.
This episode is a testament to the strength it takes to break free from unhealthy relationships and the empowerment that comes with reclaiming one's life. Cheryle's story is a poignant reminder that, even in the darkest moments, there is hope for a brighter tomorrow. Tune in for a riveting narrative of self-discovery.
Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, narcissistic abuse, child abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.
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