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Ever feel like the more “informed” you try to be, the more disconnected you actually feel?
In this powerful episode of The Make Love To You Podcast, host Darnell Davis (aka The Nell Man) takes us deep into the emotional and spiritual toll of today’s media-saturated world. We’re talking news cycles, doomscrolling, social media algorithms, and the kind of overstimulation that’s numbing our intuition and dulling our souls.
But this isn’t just a warning—it’s a wake-up call. Because what might feel like isolation isn’t punishment. It’s preparation. It’s initiation. And it’s sacred.
Darnell breaks down the hidden cost of constant consumption, showing how bad information is like bad nutrition—it weakens the spirit, clouds the mind, and distances us from truth. And just like food, the solution lies in conscious consumption: nourishing conversations, soul tribe connection, and returning to our inner knowing.
This episode is not just a listen—it’s a recalibration.
If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, overstimulated, or spiritually malnourished… this one’s for you.
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There’s a reason you’ve been feeling like the world is heavier lately.
It’s not just the news. It’s not just the politics.
It’s a cultural and spiritual shift—and you’re not imagining it.
In this episode, we go all the way in.
Darnell (aka The Nell Man) unpacks how the current state of the world isn’t just chaotic—it’s contagious. And when you’re sensitive, awake, or energetically tuned in, it can feel like you’re drowning in other people’s disconnection.
But here’s the truth:
People like you are not the problem. You’re the medicine.
You’re not here to be small, agreeable, or numb.
You’re here to be alive. Awake. Connected.
And more than ever, this world needs people like you to stay rooted in your gift and plugged into your tribe.
This episode is a call to remember:
Why you’re wired the way you areWhy the culture feels so off right nowAnd why surrounding yourself with People Like Us isn’t just helpful—it’s essential to your healing
We revisit the early 2000s spiritual boom, contrast it with today’s energy, and explore how disconnection became the norm—and how to return to the soul-nourishing, truth-telling, realness that you’ve been craving.This is not just a podcast episode.
This is a reminder.
People like you are the medicine.
So stop diluting the dose.
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What if healing isn’t a straight line—but a sacred spiral?
What if trying to “fix yourself” is the very thing keeping you stuck?
In this episode, we speak directly to the ones who feel like they’re drowning in the self-help aisle, overwhelmed by advice, and exhausted by the pressure to always be improving. This one’s for the ones who thought they’d be further along by now. Who’ve been trying to heal for years but still cry at night. Who’ve done the work—and still feel broken.
Through the lens of a raw, honest cultural moment, we take a look at what healing really looks like when it’s messy, nonlinear, and deeply human. We talk about the anger that comes with always trying to be okay. The grief that surfaces when you realize you can’t “perform” your way into peace. And the quiet revolution that begins when you stop trying to fix yourself—and start loving yourself exactly as you are.
This episode is a mirror, a balm, and a wake-up call.
Not just a message—but a moment.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re failing at healing, press play.
You’re not alone. And you’re not failing.
You’re just in the middle of becoming.
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Ever felt like the only one who sees the world the way you do? Like you’re the only person in the room asking deeper questions, feeling energy shifts, or craving soul-level connection while everyone else seems content with the surface?
You’re not the only one.
And you never were.
In this third installment of the PLU: People Like Us series, Darnell peels back the loneliness that often comes with being a seer, a feeler, a knower—and offers a powerful reminder: your people do exist. The world just taught you to look in the wrong places.
We talk about:
How to stop forcing belonging in spaces that shrink youThe loneliness of growing up misunderstood and the courage it takes to keep searchingThe metaphysical magnetism that happens when you start living in your truthWhy “fitting in” was never the assignment—and how to recognize when your real tribe is callingThis one is part soul hug, part permission slip, and part GPS for the heart.
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They called it weird.
They called it too much.
They called it demonic, dramatic, overly sensitive, or just plain “not normal.”
But what if what they tried to shame out of you… was actually your gift?
In this episode of Make Love To You, Darnell dives deep into the pain of growing up spiritually gifted in environments that didn’t know how to hold your brilliance. Whether you were the child who saw too much, felt too deeply, or just knew things before they happened—this one’s for you.
We talk about:
Why your intuition, sensitivity, and knowing were never flawsHow religion, family, and society project fear onto gifted peopleWhat it looks like to reclaim the parts of you that were shut downWhy Loving Out Loud means owning your light—even when it makes others uncomfortableThis is the moment you stop dimming yourself to make others feel safe.
Your gift isn’t too much—it’s too important.
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Welcome to a brand new series: PLU—People Like Us. This one’s for the empaths, the intuitives, the ones who’ve always felt like they were from somewhere else. If you’ve ever walked into a room and felt every emotion in it… if you’ve ever been told you’re “too sensitive,” “too intense,” or “too much”… this episode will feel like home.
In today’s conversation, we’re talking about what it means to be spiritually gifted in a world that doesn’t always understand you. The loneliness. The knowing. The beauty of finally realizing: You’re not broken—you’re just built different.
We explore the truth about cosmic belonging, why some of us never quite fit in, and what happens when we stop trying to force ourselves into rooms that can’t hold our frequency. And by the end, you’ll see: loving out loud isn’t just about expression—it’s about remembrance. Of who you’ve always been.
This is for the people who’ve always felt like visitors.
For the ones who came here with a mission.
For People Like Us.
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What happens when you stop pretending? When you stop minimizing, sugarcoating, or swallowing your needs just to keep the peace?
In this episode of The Make Love To You Podcast, Darnell gets real about the cost of honesty—and why it’s worth it. With powerful storytelling and emotional clarity, he shares the true story of a couple who looked like “relationship goals” on the outside, but were unraveling on the inside. When one of them finally spoke up, everything changed.
Through this story—and his own reflections—Darnell explores how telling the truth can shift relationships, clear the room, and force us to confront who was really showing up for us… and who was only in love with our silence.
If you’ve ever bitten your tongue to avoid tension, stayed small to be accepted, or feared that speaking up would make you lose people… this one’s for you.
This episode is a love letter to your voice.
To the version of you that’s done performing.
To the clarity that costs—but also frees.
And it ends with the truth Darnell always delivers: loving yourself out loud isn’t always easy… but it’s always worth it.
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Some friendships don’t end with a fight.
They end with a realization: this isn’t growing anymore—and neither am I.
In this episode, Darnell shares the raw and deeply personal story of walking away from a decade-long friendship that looked solid on the outside but was silently draining him on the inside. It’s a story about access, ego, unspoken jealousy, and what happens when you start choosing peace over proximity.
Because sometimes the most self-loving thing you can do is stop watering a relationship that only blooms when you’re shrinking.
This isn’t about cancel culture or being petty—it’s about being honest.
It’s about noticing when someone only celebrates you when they’re standing next to you, not when you’re standing taller than them.
If you’ve ever had to grieve someone who’s still alive…
If you’ve ever had to let go without closure…
If you’re learning to stop begging for loyalty in rooms you’ve outgrown…
This one’s for you.
Press play.
Because what you water will grow.
And it’s time to start watering you.
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What does it really cost to choose yourself? In this powerful episode, Darnell opens up about the high price of protecting your peace—even when it means walking away from big money, major opportunities, or relationships that no longer serve you.
From turning down high-profile clients to setting boundaries that confused the people around him, Darnell shares what it looks like to love yourself out loud… even when it’s not applauded. Even when it’s misunderstood. Even when it costs you.
Because self-love isn’t always soft. Sometimes it’s a firm “no.” A quiet exit. A decision to disappoint others rather than abandon yourself.
This episode is for anyone who’s ever been called selfish for choosing sanity. For anyone who’s ever whispered their worth. For anyone ready to stop shrinking.
Inside this episode:
Why Darnell walked away from six-figure clients to protect his spiritWhat it means to love yourself in real life—not just on social mediaThe subtle, daily ways you can choose peace over performanceA Soul Work invitation to reclaim space you’ve been told to shrink inYou don’t owe anyone an explanation for your healing.
And you definitely don’t need permission to protect your joy.
This is what Loving Out Loud sounds like.
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You ever catch yourself saying “I’m tired” like it’s your full-time job? Or “I’m a mess” like it’s your name tag?
Yeah… let’s talk about that.
Because in this episode, we’re flipping the script. Literally.
This is the Love Out Loud season—and today, we’re taking the mic back from every lie we’ve whispered to ourselves in the dark. From every label we’ve accepted just to make someone else comfortable.
This episode is all about affirming who you actually are—with your chest, with your joy, with your whole healed heart.
We’re talking:
Why “I’m amazing” isn’t just a cute phrase—it’s a spiritual strategyHow to stop broadcasting your self-doubt and start radiating your truthAnd a Soul Work section that’ll have you speaking life over yourself like never before
If Season 1 was about healing in private, this is your cue to start living it out loud.Say it like you mean it.
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We’re back—and this time, we’re louder. Not just in volume, but in power, presence, and love. Season 1 was the healing. The crying-in-the-bathtub, journaling-at-2AM, finding-yourself-in-the-dark kind of season. But Season 2? Season 2 is what healing looks like in public.
This is the LOL Season—but not “laugh out loud.” We’re talking Loving Out Loud.
The unapologetic, fully expressed, don’t-dim-your-light kind of self-love.
In this fiery kickoff episode, Darnell aka The Nell Man sets the tone for a brand new season of walking your healing out into the real world—relationships, work, brunch, traffic, and everywhere in between. You’ll hear what it really means to show up fully, why saying “I’m amazing” isn’t just a mood—it’s a declaration—and how to stop shrinking just because the world isn’t ready for your shine.
This one’s a love letter and a wake-up call.
So if you’ve ever been told you’re “too much,”
If you’ve ever turned the volume down on your joy just to make others comfortable—
Or if you’re just ready to stop healing in silence and start living out loud—
Press play. And then turn yourself all the way up.
Season 2: Loving Out Loud.
Let’s get into it.
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Before we step into Season 2, we return to one of the most tender, transformative journeys of Season 1: The Inner Child Chronicles. In this powerful finale to our recap series, we revisit the younger versions of ourselves—the ones who felt too much, needed too much, or learned to survive by shrinking. Through story, reflection, and unforgettable moments from Episodes 50–56, we explore how childhood wounds shape adult patterns… and how reparenting isn’t about blame—it’s about coming back for the kid who never felt fully seen.
Whether you’ve been doing this work for years or you’re just starting to ask, “What happened to the child I used to be?”, this episode is a sacred homecoming. And a reminder: healing the past isn’t about staying stuck there—it’s about reclaiming the love you’ve always deserved.
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We gave the people-pleasing a name.
We called out the quiet guilt.
We broke up with the emotional IOUs that kept us stuck in loops of overgiving, overperforming, and underliving.
In this episode, we’re recapping Episodes 43–49—the Dependence Detox series. This was where we peeled back the layers of codependency, approval-seeking, and identity loss. From “Reclaiming Your Wholeness” to “I’m Not Lonely, I’m Free,” this was the series where we learned to stop trading our peace for people.
Whether you saw yourself in the guilt trips disguised as love, the childhood scripts that told you to be useful before being whole, or the belief that real love meant self-abandonment—this series helped us all step out of survival mode and into freedom.
Let’s detox together, one last time.
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What if the superpowers you’ve been searching for have been inside you all along? In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into the energy centers you never knew were quietly running the show — your chakras. This isn’t your average chakra talk. This is about survival. Power. Emotion. Truth. Love. Intuition. Divinity. It’s about how your body has been trying to tell your story, even when your words couldn’t.
We’re recapping one of the most transformational arcs from Season 1 — the Chakra Series (Episodes 36–42) — where we explored how each of your seven chakras holds a piece of your healing, your purpose, and your power.
We start with “The Ground You Stand On” (root chakra) and remind you that real power begins with remembering who you are. We move through emotion (sacral), identity (solar plexus), love (heart), truth (throat), knowing (third eye), and finally rise into spiritual connection (crown) in the radiant finale, “You Are the Miracle.” Each episode unlocked a part of you that was never broken — just buried, silenced, or forgotten.
This isn’t just a recap. It’s a call to realignment. A reminder that your energy is sacred, and your healing is already underway — it’s just waiting for you to plug back into it.
If you’ve been feeling disconnected, scattered, or stuck in old stories, this is your episode. Come back home to your power. Let’s remember your superpowers together.
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Welcome to Part 4 of our Season One recap series. In this episode, we return to the Relationship Rehab series (Episodes 29–35) — the seven-part journey that reminded us the greatest love story we’ll ever live is the one we write with ourselves.
We revisit the heartbreaks, the wake-up calls, and the quiet moments of truth that cracked us open. From trauma bonds to codependency, from chasing closure to finally choosing ourselves — this series was a mirror. And for many of us, it was the moment we stopped waiting to be chosen… and picked ourselves instead.
Whether you’re still healing from a breakup, redefining what love means, or learning to sit with your own worthiness — this recap will hit you in the soul. Because healing isn’t a detour from love… it is love.
Tune in, reflect, and remember: you didn’t lose love. You became it.
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Welcome to Part 3 of our Season One recap series. Today, we dive deep into the Discovering Your Purpose arc (Episodes 22–28) — one of the most soul-awakening chapters of the podcast.
If you’ve ever wondered why clarity feels so far away, or felt like your calling was somewhere out there waiting to be found, this episode will shake all of that loose. Because what if your purpose was never lost? What if it’s been whispering underneath the noise, waiting for you to stop chasing and start listening?
We revisit the episodes that helped you stop asking for directions to a place only you can go — the moments that pulled you out of hiding and into the light of your own becoming. From breaking free of people-pleasing to confronting the cost of playing small, this is the series that reminded us all: you are the purpose.
Whether you’re reconnecting or catching up, this is your invitation to hear it again — not with the version of you who first listened, but with the healing version of you who’s finally ready to receive it.
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After 70 soul-shifting episodes in Season One, we’re pausing to reflect—and this one is personal.
In today’s recap, we look back at one of the most confronting and transformative arcs of the entire show: The Savior Complex Series (Episodes 15–21). This wasn’t just a theme—it was a reckoning. The moment we got honest about all the ways we’ve over-given, over-functioned, and over-sacrificed in the name of love.
From the lies we tell ourselves to the identities we cling to, this series held up a mirror and said: “Enough.”
If you’ve ever struggled to put yourself first…
If you’ve ever felt guilty for walking away…
If you’ve ever made someone else’s healing your job…
Then this episode will remind you of the truth you already know deep down:
You don’t have to save them to save yourself.
This is your invitation to return to those lessons—and release what was never yours to carry.
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Before we move forward, we’re going back.
After 70 soul-shifting episodes in just 10 weeks, The Make Love to You Podcast enters Season 2 with a weeklong reset — a return to the roots. In this powerful kickoff, I’m taking you back to the very beginning: how the show started, what I felt in my spirit when I pressed record for the first time, and why those first 10 episodes still hold the blueprint for everything we’ve built together.
Whether you’ve been here from the beginning or you’re just joining us, this episode will help you understand the heartbeat of this podcast — and what it’s really been doing to your life behind the scenes.
We’ll revisit the foundations:
• Why I created this show in the middle of global chaos
• What each early episode was trying to heal inside of you
• And how you’ve already changed more than you realize
This isn’t just a recap. It’s a remembering.
Because the truth is… you didn’t just listen to this podcast. You lived it.
And it’s time to take that in.
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You made it. Episode 70. The final chapter of The Embodiment Series and the ultimate arrival into your healed, powerful, fully expressed self. But here’s the truth: becoming who you actually are isn’t just beautiful—it’s a battlefield.
In this closing episode, we crown your growth and prepare your spirit for the resistance that comes with elevation. Because new levels come with new devils. The more you rise, the more you’ll be challenged—not because you’re doing something wrong, but because you’re finally doing something right.
We talk comparison, loneliness, spiritual protection, and the sacred responsibility of standing in your truth when no one claps. This isn’t just a celebration—it’s a preparation. The world may not be ready for you… but you’re ready for it.
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What happens when confidence stops being a performance… and starts becoming your default setting?
In today’s episode of The Embodiment Series, we’re talking about what it really looks like to live, speak, and carry yourself like someone who knows they belong. No more deflecting compliments. No more shrinking to make others comfortable. No more confusing humility with hiding.
This is about walking like your soul has arrived—and owning the energy that comes with that.
I share a personal story about the day someone checked me on my inability to receive a compliment, and how that moment became the turning point in my relationship with self-worth.
If you’ve ever dimmed your light to keep the peace or questioned whether it’s safe to take up space… this one’s for you.
Your confidence doesn’t need to be proven. It needs to be remembered.
Let’s go.
- Visa fler
