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Episode Summary:
In Episode 25 of "Living with Heart," titled "The Ladder," Bryan Barley and Dr. Chip Dodd discuss the intrinsic nature of healthy shame and the importance of emotional presence from birth. They examine the metaphor of a societal "ladder of success," highlighting its detrimental effects on self-worth and genuine human experience. The discussion emphasizes the crucial role of parents in understanding and meeting their children's emotional needs, and the importance of embracing vulnerability and authenticity. Ultimately, the episode calls for a return to living fully and truthfully, rejecting external validation in favor of inner fulfillment and genuine connection.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) helping people be who they are made to be so they can do what they are made to do for over 40 years. Also brought to you by The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.
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Transcript - Episode 25 Transcript
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The Ladder - Free download
Webinar on Shame
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Dr. Chip Dodd
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Timestamps:
00:00 Lou Lamour, prolific author of western fiction.
06:07 Our purpose is connection and living authentically.
08:24 Emotions are fundamental to human connection and behavior.
15:16 Identity struggle and parental pursuit of children.
21:32 External validation obstructs genuine self-discovery and connection.
24:40 Pursuit of success leads to unfulfillment and disillusionment.
28:18 Seeking honest feedback for personal growth and success.
32:54 Living authentically and embracing the present moment..
37:23 Small, dedicated groups can overcome overwhelming force.
40:33 Embrace vulnerability, wield it with discernment and strength.
Keywords: Healthy shame, human beings, birth, fulfillment, loss of self, creativity, storytelling, Psalm 8, pure expression, parenting, children's emotions, needs, desires, integrity of children, societal expectations, ladder of success, impulsive decisions, pressure to achieve, addiction, denial, disconnection, identity loss, forsaking humanity, living truthfully, dependence, presence, embracing vulnerability, authentic trust, internal struggles, pursuit of dreams, morning writing routine, living from the inside out, performance vs presence, self-worth, external validation, internal locus of control, Christian Counseling
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In this episode of "Living with Heart," Bryan Barley and Chip Dodd delve deeper into the concept of trusting God's process and stepping away from the illusion of controlling the future. They discuss the importance of honesty, openness, and willingness (HOW) combined with faith, emphasizing the significance of everyday moments over seeking epic events. Through personal anecdotes and the analogy of symphony, they highlight embracing one's unique traits and passions, the emotional impact of major life changes, and the need for patience and growth in daily life. The episode encourages listeners to surrender to their God-given path, fostering a genuine and fulfilling life journey.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction
04:15 Trust the promise, embrace the risk ahead.
08:50 Choosing between two terrible options, surrendering to God.
15:29 Honesty, openness, connection, and being Velcro capable.
21:12 Asking questions, seeking guidance, making our choices.
32:01 Embracing your uniqueness invites resistance, risk, hope.
39:15 Parenting requires commitment, love, and anticipation.
45:05 Embracing limitations leads to better outcomes.
51:35 Embrace struggle, find fulfillment in daily life.
56:36 We become portable sanctuaries, giving ourselves away.
Keywords: Fear, Control, Surrender, Trust, Ego, Honesty, Openness, Willingness, God, Process, Symphony, Memories, Emotions, Authenticity, Passion, Fulfillment, Voidition, Parenting, Growth, Creativity, Christian Counseling.
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In Episode 23 of "Living with Heart," hosts Chip Dodd and Bryan Barley discuss the tension between societal expectations and personal authenticity, sharing personal stories of their own journeys. They highlight the importance of embracing emotions and vulnerability to achieve true fulfillment. Chip recounts feeling the need to switch career paths and the eventual realization of needing emotional and spiritual healing, while Bryan reflects on the societal pressures surrounding success. Together, they emphasize trusting the process, the role of God's kindness, and the importance of acknowledging inherent worth and emotional needs.
Time Stamps:
05:49 Choosing between self-worth and performance-driven life.
08:40 Embrace your true self to find fulfillment.
19:59 Trust the process, value relationships, avoid isolation.
22:50 Winning can lead to addiction, avoid fantasy.
24:18 Life journey of learning, feeling, and becoming.
38:48 Serve the captain and seek righteousness.
42:26 Addiction causes self-mutilation and societal damage.
49:25 Gladness and trust lead to deep sense.
51:11 Feel, tell the truth, trust the process.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.
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Chip and Bryan continue their discussion on the second step of "the process" - telling the truth of what you feel - with a particular focus on talking to others, particularly in the expression of healthy confrontation.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.
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Chip and Bryan discuss the second step of "the process" - telling the truth of what you feel.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.
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Chip and Bryan discuss the practicals and specifics of the eight core emotions, and what it looks like to healthily feel your feelings.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.
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Chip and Bryan have a wide-ranging conversation centered on the first step of "The Process": feel your feelings.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.
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Chip and Bryan discuss the direction and destination of practicing "The Process" by discussing living in "The River" rather than settling for the dangerous banks of anxiety or apathy.
**Dr. Dodd is offering a free webinar on maximizing the opportunities of Summertime - May 9 at 7pm CT - you can RSVP here.**
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.
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Chip and Bryan commence season 2 of "Living with Heart," beginning their conversation on "The Process," with a particular focus on what "The Process" is not (denial and dissociation).
**Dr. Dodd is offering a free webinar on maximizing the opportunities of Summertime - May 9 at 7pm CT - you can RSVP here.**
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.
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**Dr. Dodd is offering a free webinar on maximizing the opportunities of Summertime - May 9 at 7pm CT - you can RSVP here.**
Chip and Bryan conclude their series on "The Needs of the Heart" by discussing the need for fun.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.
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**Dr. Dodd is offering a free webinar on maximizing the opportunities of Summertime - May 9 at 7pm CT - you can RSVP here.**
Chip and Bryan discuss the need for freedom, and how it gives us the courage to dream, create and execute true vision in our lives.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.
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Chip and Bryan discuss how those who give more of themselves actually need more attention, and how our yearning for honor and recognition isn't a reflection of childishness, but rather our design.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.
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Chip and Bryan discuss the need for support, and the cruciality of experiencing a life of thriving rather than settling for mere survival.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.
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Chip and Bryan discuss our need to be heard - how experiencing listening in a safe, trusted relationship is one of the most empowering gifts to allow us to heal, rest, and risk.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.
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Chip and Bryan discuss our need for accomplishment - how knowing limits, stopping, and expressing gratitude and celebration are a crucial component of our work.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.
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Bryan and Chip discuss the need for healthy touch, and how correct expressions of physical affection can positively affect us decades later.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.
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Chip and Bryan discuss the difficult reality that life is full of loss, necessitating a regular rhythm of grieving so that we might obtain joyful memories and experience celebration.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.
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Because this is the first time any of us have lived life, we need guidance to navigate it well. Chip and Bryan discuss our need for guidance, why toxic shame prevents us from admitting this need, and how we can practically find people to help us in the journey.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.
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Chip and Bryan continue their conversation about the need for security, discussing the mechanics of forming a circle of secure relationships, and how that circle often gives us what we least expect - but most need.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.
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Chip and Bryan discuss our need for secure relationships and places, and how we can be a harbor of security for others in chaotic seasons.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.
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