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  • From the education system, to conflicting expectations, to technology and social media… Netflix’s hit TV show Adolescence has raised many issues about how young men and boys are being raised and the challenges they face.


    By ignoring some of these underlying problems, we are letting down our children.


    Our kids deserve to grow up in a world where they feel safe.


    This starts with making sure we - as parents, as teachers, as role models, and as a society - are raising our boys with the skills and the emotional intelligence to thrive in the real world.


    To help you with this, I am going to respond to some of the key questions and themes raised by Stephen Graham’s series, and give you some actionable advice that you can start putting into practice right away.


    This episode is not an easy one, so find a comfy seat, pour yourself a cuppa and get ready for the conversation…


    Highlights from this episode:

    01:19 - Misogyny and Incel

    04:51 - The issues facing young men in today’s world

    06:46 - Start having conversations

    08:51 - Educate yourself

    12:12 - What steps can you take as a family?

    14:24 - Teaching empathy and acceptance

    17:44 - Identity creates agency

    20:10 - Role models


    Additional resources:

    The Lost Boys Report from the Centre for Social Justice: https://www.centreforsocialjustice.org.uk/library/lost-boys


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    DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

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  • If you haven’t yet seen Adolescence on Netflix, what have you been doing?!


    Jokes aside, this TV show has been a triggering one for many of us, but especially those parents of boys. It has brought to light many issues around the manosphere, masculinity, and a generation of children who, without a safe space to have open and honest conversations with grownups, can be easily influenced by harmful content elsewhere.


    That’s why this week’s bucket emptying episode is all about how to have those difficult conversations with your kids. As the grown up in the room, it is your job to take the reigns with this, and I’m going to help you!


    So find a comfy seat, pour yourself a cuppa and enjoy the conversation…


    Highlights from this episode:

    01:56 - We’re not looking for just one deep conversation

    02:56 - Seize natural opportunities

    05:07 - Instigate the conversation if needed

    08:33 - Don’t confuse silence for an opportunity to keep talking

    10:10 - Leave them wanting


    💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025 - https://onemillionmoments.org/


    💚 Let’s grow our village together, please share with at least one friend


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    DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

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  • New research from the World Health Organisation (WHO) ranks children in England and Wales near bottom for physical activity.


    This reflects a world where children are becoming less active… in fact, between the ages of 7 and 16, our kids will spend on average half a year - that’s six whole months - playing video games. But here’s the thing…


    Our children are not lazy, and we’re not heading for some Wall-E world where we all whizz around on floating chairs! They could just be bored.


    I believe we can make positive changes to get our children, and ourselves, living a healthier and more active lifestyle, so in this episode I share my top tips to help you get moving!


    So find a comfy seat, pour yourself a cuppa and enjoy the conversation…


    Highlights from this episode:

    00:39 - Stat attack!

    04:39 - What’s the default at home?

    10:02 - Start from where you are, not from where you think you should be

    13:23 - Explore natural curiosities in other activities

    17:57 - Creating family activity time


    💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025 - https://onemillionmoments.org/


    💚 Let’s grow our village together, please share with at least one friend


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    DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

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  • Does your child always leave their room in a mess?

    Do they leave tasks to the last minute?

    Are they always on their phone, or wanting to be?


    As parents we tend to think of things like this as an issue, but in this episode I’m going to help you pivot, because these are not flaws. They’re just skill gaps.


    When we can reframe these traits of our kids, then we can start to identify how they might need help and support, to gain new skills and overcome some of these day to day challenges.


    So find a comfy seat, pour yourself a cuppa and enjoy the conversation…


    Highlights from this episode:

    00:50 - We’ve all been there

    03:07 - Reframing makes a big difference

    07:50 - Neurodivergence


    💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025 - https://onemillionmoments.org/


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    DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

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  • I am SO MAD!


    Or I was when I first listened to a guest discuss their parenting views on another top podcast. Her guidance - that children should not be in daycare and that women should stay at home for the first couple of years - I felt was too dogmatic, and I immediately jumped on the mic to record this episode.


    That professional’s opinion comes from an informed place. However, I strongly disagree with them, and in this episode I want to share what I believe are the five core things you should be providing for your children, irrespective of family structure and circumstances.


    Because if you can focus on providing these things, your children will flourish.


    So find a comfy seat, pour yourself a cuppa and enjoy the conversation…


    (now who wants to guess what podcast I was listening to?)


    Highlights from this episode:

    00:49 - The story behind this podcast

    05:14 - Secure attachments

    13:04 - Emotional support

    19:29 - Communication

    24:08 - Boundaries and structure

    27:11 - Positive role models


    💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025 - https://onemillionmoments.org/


    💚 Let’s grow our village together, please share with at least one friend


    💚  mentioned in the episodes


    DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

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  • Exams can be a stressful time for our children, which makes them a stressful time for us mums and dads too! There’s a lot of pressure, which can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t need to be like this.


    In this episode I help you to understand the difference between belief gaps, skills gaps and knowledge gaps, how to identify which one (or combination of) your child is struggling with, and share some tips on how you can help them manage this.


    So find a comfy seat, pour yourself a cuppa and enjoy the conversation…


    Highlights from this episode:

    00:47 - Expectation vs Reality

    02:23 - Identify the mismatch

    07:09 - Bridging the knowledge gap


    💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025 - https://onemillionmoments.org/


    💚 Let’s grow our village together, please share with at least one friend


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    DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

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  • Is your child quiet, shy or reserved?

    Do they struggle to get heard in group settings?

    Are you worried their introversion is holding them back?


    As parents we naturally worry about our children, but here’s some breaking news: just because they might be reserved or quiet, it does not mean they lack belief or confidence.


    They may not know how to assert themselves in certain situations as well as others, or even as well as you or their siblings, so in this episode I am going to help you spot the signs where additional support may be needed, and give you some expert advice on how to help your children find their voice.


    So find a comfy seat, pour yourself a cuppa and enjoy the conversation…


    Highlights from this episode:

    01:09 - Some children are naturally more reserved than others

    03:10 - Home is a safe space

    05:48 - The wooden spoon

    09:05 - Does your child need additional support?

    12:14 - Signs of low self-belief or lack of confidence

    14:53 - A compliment is like a non-stick pan

    18:53 - Finding opportunities for your child to test their capabilities

    21:56 - Practice practice practice

    23:36 - What are you modelling?


    💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025 - https://onemillionmoments.org/


    💚 Let’s grow our village together, please share with at least one friend


    💚  mentioned in the episodes


    DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

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  • Do you dread nap time? And is your child always resisting a nap?


    As parents, we know there’s nothing worse than the tantrum of an overtired kid, so in this episode I’m here to help you create an effective routine to help your children rest and recharge.


    Spoiler alert: maybe it’s time to detach yourself from nap time and start thinking about it as quiet time instead.


    So find a comfy seat, pour yourself a cuppa and enjoy the conversation…


    Highlights from this episode:

    01:14 - Why do children need naps?

    03:55 - Tiredness is not an on-off switch

    05:15 - Repetition is effective

    07:39 - Pick up the cues

    09:45 - Creating resilient children through quiet time

    11:50 - Transitioning from naps to quiet time


    💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025 - https://onemillionmoments.org/


    💚 Let’s grow our village together, please share with at least one friend


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    DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

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  • Do your parents criticise your parenting?

    Do you struggle to enforce your own rules on the Grandparents?

    Do Nan and Grandad sometimes think they’re above the law of Mum and Dad?


    If you’re constantly battling with your own parents over your children, don’t worry - we’ve all there at some point! I often had difficult conversations with my own Mum when raising my two children, and it’s not easy.


    In this episode I’m going to help you manage these situations by sharing some top tips on how to approach this tricky topic with your parents, and resolve it before an all our family war breaks out!


    So find a comfy seat, pour yourself a cuppa and enjoy the conversation…


    Highlights from this episode:

    00:28 - We rely on Grandparents

    02:56 - Generational parenting differences

    06:55 - An environment to talk openly

    08:43 - Active listening

    11:48 - Communicate your approach and the reasons behind them

    14:55 - Acknowledge our parents’ feelings

    19:54 - Setting boundaries


    💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025 - https://onemillionmoments.org/


    💚 Let’s grow our village together, please share with at least one friend


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    DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

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  • Do you ever find yourself procrastinating?

    Do you ever struggle to focus on one task at a time?

    And how many things are unfinished because something more important suddenly came up?


    Both children and parents can get so easily distracted - I understand, the world is a busy, urgent place at times, and it feels like everything needs doing all at once!


    In this episode, I help you apply the 5 Minute Rule to help you focus your energy on one thing at a time. By fully zoning in on one thing for even a short amount of time, you will get so much more out of that activity.


    So find a comfy seat, pour yourself a cuppa and enjoy the conversation…


    Highlights from this episode:

    01:02 - What is the 5 Minute Rule?

    03:54 - The 4 steps to implementing

    06:03 - Beware of these pitfalls!

    08:29 - It’s not just for procrastinators


    💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025 - https://onemillionmoments.org/


    💚 Let’s grow our village together, please share with at least one friend


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    DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

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  • We have all heard of LGBT+ or pride, and terms like non-binary, asexual, trans, but do we really understand them? And as parents, how do we begin to have those conversations with our children?


    In this episode I am joined by Amy Ashenden, Director of Communications and Engagement at Just Like Us, to talk about how to normalise conversations around LGBT+ and diversity, equality and inclusivity (DEI) more broadly.


    Amy shares some fascinating insights from Just Like Us’ research, which forms the basis of their Guide for Parents, and you can access it using the link below. Amy is also a lesbian and a mum, who candidly talks about her own lived experience of growing up and living without the allyship she works so hard to encourage from all of us today.


    This is such an important episode that you simply cannot miss, so find a comfy seat, pour yourself a cuppa and enjoy the conversation…


    More from Amy and Just Like Us:

    Visit their website: https://justlikeus.org/

    Get their Guide for Parents: https://justlikeus.org/lgbt-guide-for-parents/


    Highlights from this episode:

    05:22 - What do we mean by LGBT+

    09:26 - Looking past the stereotypes

    13:46 - Parents leading the conversation

    16:54 - Misinformation and social media

    20:20 - “It’s just banter”

    25:03 - Putting the B & T into LGBT

    29:06 - Be an ally, not a saviour

    32:04 - Dealing with homophobia in your own home

    35:58 - Faith and allyship

    37:03 - Just Like Us LGBT+ Guide for Parents Key Points


    💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025 - https://onemillionmoments.org/


    💚 Let’s grow our village together, please share with at least one friend


    💚  mentioned in the episodes


    DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

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  • Anxiety affects us all, and in this bucket emptying episode I’m going to help your children and you as parents, to manage your anxiety and keep your mental health in check.


    I’m going to share with you a strategy called Be Here Now, which consists of five simple questions to help you when anxiety strikes.


    If you do regularly suffer from anxiety and depression, or you just need some additional support with your mental health, please do reach out or contact charities such as Anxiety UK. Remember, you are never alone.


    Highlights from this episode:

    02:38 - Be Here Now

    06:31 - What am I doing right now?

    07:03 - Am I thinking about something other than what I’m doing now?

    08:00 - How am I feeling?

    08:32 - What can I do now to help myself?

    10:10 - Should I schedule time to problem solve?


    💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025 - https://onemillionmoments.org/


    💚 Let’s grow our village together, please share with at least one friend


    💚  mentioned in the episodes


    DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

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  • Who am I?


    That’s what we’re asking In the first of a two part special on social and emotional skills.


    They’re not the things you can really see or measure, and there’s no right or wrong answer, but they are so important to how your children interact with the world, and in shaping who they grow up to be.


    Parenting styles come in all shapes and sizes, but unless you and your children know how to identify your super powers and your skills, knowing how to raise them, encourage them, and support them is just a big guessing game!


    So pour yourself a cuppa, find a comfy seat, and enjoy the conversation…


    Highlights from this episode:

    00:33 - What are social and emotional skills?

    03:55 - Different ages and stages

    07:18 - Self-identifying your strengths

    11:23 - Who am I?

    14:20 - We become what people tell us we are

    17:45 - Having the conversation with older children

    20:00 - Part of a process

    23:10 - How they experience emotions


    💚 Let’s grow our village together, please  with at least one friend


    💚  mentioned in the episodes


    💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025


    DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

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  • As parents there’s always a million things to do and it’s so easy to get overwhelmed, which is why in this bucket-emptying episode I’m talking about the power of one. When you focus on one thing at a time, you will find it easier to deal with, and that’s going to help you and your children.


    This episode is all about the three Cs - central, clarity, and consistency. I’m going to help you understand and apply the three Cs so that you can harness the power of one and channel your inner Super Parent.


    So pour yourself a cuppa, find a comfy seat, and enjoy the conversation…


    Highlights from this episode:

    02:02 - The Three Cs

    04:29 - Working out your one

    06:48 - Create an objective measure

    09:07 - Example 1: pre-verbal children

    11:45 - Example 2: children who won’t listen

    14:34 - Example 3: battling tech use


    💚 Let’s grow our village together, please  with at least one friend


    💚  mentioned in the episodes


    💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025


    DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.


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  • It’s Valentine’s Day and love is all around… unless you have kids. A recent study shows that many parents with children have not had a date night in the past six months. However, as role models to our kids, it’s so important to make time for them, for ourselves, and for our partners.


    So this episode is all about connection. I give you five reasons why you need to be spending more time with your partner and share some practical advice to help you do that.


    Let’s keep the romance alive!


    Highlights from this episode:

    01:46 - Romance is dead… say the stats

    04:00 - 5 reasons to prioritise time with your partner

    06:47 - The secret to a long life

    10:36 - Make time for yourselves and each other

    13:36 - Plan, plan, plan

    15:31 - A change of mindset

    18:49 - Enlist help!


    💚 Let’s grow our village together, please  with at least one friend


    💚  mentioned in the episodes


    💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025


    DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

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  • On this week’s bucket emptying episode, I am joined by children’s author Ebele Bright (Fly Chico Fly and Shake Ben Shake).


    Ebele also founded Announce World to share beautiful stories with both children and adults, inspired by the truths and life lessons she is passing on to her daughters. Her picture books, which encourage deeper conversation with children, are perfect for children aged 3-8, parents, teachers and anyone who has an influence on kids.


    In this episode, we explore how we can help our own children feel more courageous, and how storytelling can be a super powerful way to unlock our kids’ inner superhero.


    Highlights from this episode:

    04:09 - Normalising emotion

    08:57 - Turning on the lightbulb

    12:38 - What would Mama Eagle do?

    15:22 - The mindset to stand when you’re not there

    18:38 - Learning how to fail


    Buy Ebele’s Books:

    Fly Chico Fly: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Fly-Chico-Ebele-Bright/dp/1838294708/?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_w=0si2F&content-id=amzn1.sym.f7cacb80-afed-4bd2-a630-ebf24465f0d7&pf_rd_p=f7cacb80-afed-4bd2-a630-ebf24465f0d7&pf_rd_r=262-7026818-4147105&pd_rd_wg=78N5e&pd_rd_r=5a208941-5a93-4a87-b384-e0cf6b38d170&ref_=aufs_ap_sc_dsk


    Shake Ben Shake: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Shake-Ben-Ebele-Bright/dp/1838294724/?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_w=0si2F&content-id=amzn1.sym.f7cacb80-afed-4bd2-a630-ebf24465f0d7&pf_rd_p=f7cacb80-afed-4bd2-a630-ebf24465f0d7&pf_rd_r=262-7026818-4147105&pd_rd_wg=78N5e&pd_rd_r=5a208941-5a93-4a87-b384-e0cf6b38d170&ref_=aufs_ap_sc_dsk


    💚 Let’s grow our village together, please  with at least one friend


    💚  mentioned in the episodes


    💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025


    DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

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  • When your child struggles to handle their big emotions, what do you do? If you’re like me, you’ll listen to podcasts and read all the books. And, if you’re like me, you probably found none of them helped much in practice. Am I right?


    Well, in this episode, I’m going to help you cut through the noise, to understand the reasons why your child might appear to be acting out or struggling with intense emotions. I am going to help you go back to the source, figure out why they happen, and then help you figure out what to do about it.


    So, pour yourself a cuppa, find a comfy seat, and enjoy the conversation…


    Highlights from this episode:

    00:49 - I don’t like labels

    03:10 - Early development

    08:16 - Is there a skills gap?

    12:35 - Tweaking the brain circuits

    15:00 - Validate the emotions

    16:46 - Label the emotions

    19:41 - Bridging the skills gap

    21:58 - A toolkit for managing big emotions

    23:37 - Change takes time and consistency


    💚 Let’s grow our village together, please  with at least one friend


    💚  mentioned in the episodes


    💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025


    DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

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  • Do your kids like to play rough?

    Can they take it too far until one of them gets hurt?

    Do arguments quickly escalate into physical fights?


    You're not alone! Most parents with multiple children will experience this at some point, so in this week’s bucket emptying episode, I explain what you can and should do when siblings get physical, and share some quick tips you can use right away.


    We explore how you can effectively diffuse a physical altercation between your children, and also help them to manage any big emotions which might be causing their physical outbursts.


    Highlights from this episode:

    01:46 - Stop the fight as soon as possible

    03:42 - Put physical space between your children

    05:12 - Judge the fight, not the people

    07:47 - Talk it through


    💚 Let’s grow our village together, please  with at least one friend


    💚  mentioned in the episodes


    💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025


    DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

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  • Spoiler alert: all children lie! And many of our children will experience self-esteem issues, so it’s really important to understand how to recognise it, and support your children through these difficult times.


    Does your child lie often about silly things?

    Are they not growing out of it like you thought they would?

    Do their lies cause upset or consequences to others?


    If you answered yes to any of these, you’re not alone!


    In this episode, I talk you through the key things you need to know, including what you should avoid and what you need to start doing to help.


    Highlights from this episode:

    01:22 - Children who lack confidence do this…

    04:21 - Lying as a coping mechanism

    09:17 - 2 things you should avoid

    12:08 - 5 things to start doing

    15:12 - Which line is longer?

    18:31 - Praise the process

    22:57 - Confidence is an inside job

    26:34 - White lies


    💚 Let’s grow our village together, please  with at least one friend


    💚  mentioned in the episodes


    💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025


    DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

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  • Whether your situation - be it parenting solo, coparenting, parallel parenting or something else - we can all agree that sometimes parenting is hell! That’s why this episode is all about finding contentment.


    From the Happiness Myth to mantas, I share some top ways you can cultivate your own contentment, helping you stay happy, healthy and motivated to take on whatever life (and the kids) throw at you!


    Highlights from this episode:

    00:48 - The Happiness Myth

    03:03 - A typical scenario

    04:43 - Scan the day

    08:21 - The power of mantras


    💚 Let’s grow our village together, please  with at least one friend


    💚  mentioned in the episodes


    💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025


    DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.

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