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Hilarious internationally touring comedian and host of the We're Having Gay Sex podcast Ashley Gavin is back! And this time she is telling us about her open relationship; how she got into it, the rules her and her girlfriend have, and some hot hot hookups that she has had. She helps to educate Remy about different types of lesbians-- from a list that Remy found on a Reddit thread, advises our listeners on how to hit on women, and finally Remy and Ashley discuss difficult relationships leading to even more difficult breakups, and the passion and pain of sex with exes.
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We are talking about the link between scents and attraction with fragrance expert, perfume lover/advisor, matchmaker, and host of Perfume Room, Emma Vernon. We discuss the science between smell and arousal and all different types of fragrances. Emma talks about how to get a signature scent, the importance of scent with regard to memories, and the evolution of fragrance throughout the 70s, 80s, 90s etc. and how those changes reflects on what was going on culturally during each decade.
This episode is dedicated to our grandmothers-- forever doused in fragrance
Perfumes Mentioned in the Episode:
Iso E Super- Escentric
Shalimar
Daisy - Marc Jacobs
Mademoiselle - Chanel
Lolita
Georgio
Van Cleef First
Chanel No 5
Dior Poison
CK1
Estee Lauder Pleasures
Santal 33 - Le Labo
Glossier - You
Baccarat Rouge
Ralph Lauren Polo Blue
Sicilian Leather - Memo
Chanel Bleu
Serge Lutens - Miel de Bois
Keiko Mecheri - Oliban
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Comedian, ex-model and author of the new book, "You Wanna Be on Top?" Sarah Hartshorne comes on the pod to talk her time on America's Next Top Model; the good, the bad, and the very pretty despite being called ugly. She tells us all about what happened behind the scenes, openly queer models, making friends + having crushes on each other and her body image from before the show to now. We also discuss threesomes, tax law for certain types of queer marriage, Sarah's miscarriage early in life as well as her pregnancy with her daughter and the orgasms that were unlocked after giving birth!
TW: ED & Miscarriage
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Do you have endometriosis or wonder what it is? Learn all about it with comedian and friend of the pod, Ashley Ray. She tells us about living with and suffering through undiagnosed endo in her teens and early 20s and how she finally found out what was going on with her body. We discuss her endometrial cysts, how much blood is actually produced in a "normal" period, how endo held her back socially and sexually and how she went about fixing it!
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In the new FX/ Hulu show Dying for Sex, Jenny Slate plays Nikki, a woman whose best friend Molly (Michelle Williams) is diagnosed with terminal cancer and decides to turn her diagnosis into an opportunity to go on sexual adventures and fulfill all of her desires before the end of her life. The show is based on a podcast of the same name by the real life Molly and Nikki and today we have the pleasure of talking to Executive Producer of Dying for Sex, and Molly's best friend Nikki Boyer. We discuss the kinks that Molly explored before the end of her life; foot fetishes, ball kicking, tickling etc. and the life lessons that everyone can learn from Molly's outlook. Finally we chat about Nikki's sex life and her personal sexual achievements and hurdles.
TW: Death, Cancer, Miscarriage, Childhood SA
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Picture this: it is the early 2000s. The OC is on, the Hills is on and Perez Hilton is forcing Johnny Wujek out of the closet by calling him gay on a blog. Fast forward to LA 2024 as Remy chats with Johnny (Emmy award winning costume designer/ stylist to pop idols including Katy Perry, Ariana Grande, Mariah Carey, and Nicki Minaj) about how he actually feels about being publicly "called out," the benefits of it and the fallout, and what his love life has been like since. We also discuss exciting firsts, tough breakups, and how to sext like no one is watching.
TW: DV mentioned
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Comedian and actor (Sex and the City + The Other Two) Bill Dawes sits down with Remy to tell her about one of the most pivotal days of his life: when a woman told him he was bad in bed. Come on a journey with us as Bill shakes that devastating blow and learns how to get good at sex. We discuss lectures, kundalini yoga, tantra, techniques for eating out a vulva and more. We also discuss cheating, past relationships and how in many ways, if you used to be shitty it doesn't mean you can't get better.
TW: sexual assault and violence towards the end of the podcast
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Comedian, Comedy Central Roast icon, and recent Golden Globe host Nikki Glaser and Andrew Collin; comedian, podcaster, and friend of the pod, joined Remy for a live podcast recording YEARS ago-- and we are finally releasing the audio! It is a hilarious episode about how orgasms are ruining our lives, Nikki losing her orgasm and getting it back, the perils of dry fingering, the joys of dry hand jobs, and many many book recommendations from Nikki that she swears will change your life. We also take questions from the audience and give out sex toys! You will simply love this blast from the past.
Book Rec*mmendations from Nikki:
-The Easy Way to Stop Drinking (Allen Carr)
-The Easy Way to Stop Smoking (Allen Carr)
-Healing Back Pain (Dr. Sarno)
-Getting To I Do: The Secret To Doing Relationships Right! (Dr. Patricia Allen)
-Cupid's Poison Arrow: From Habit to Harmony in Sexual Relationships (Marnia Robinson)
& Waking Up (a meditation app)
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We're talking sex in media with Jourdain Searles; comedian and film/TV critic. Discussing all different types of sex scenes from Babygirl to Severence. We are also chatting about Jourdain's Twitter thread of sex advice that she did earlier this year and how it relates to the "IUD Debate" that took over Twitter for two days.
TW Assault / Abortion Laws
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We have the pleasure of talking to one of the stars of Schitt's Creek; award winning actress Emily Hampshire and her podcast co-host Katie Boland (writer/director/actress/producer). Emily and Katie tell us all about life in the industry, from how they were treated as being female child stars to their treatment now as adults. We discuss their first sex scenes, introductions to intimacy coordinators, and how media they have made has changed people's views on sexuality and gender. We also talk in depth about Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD) - a vastly under researched illness which Emily and Katie both suffer from-- and what medicines they have discovered to make that time of the month a little easier.
TW: Assault, violence, and politics
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Today we are talking about what the dating scene is currently like from a man's perspective with comedian, actor, director, and show creator Dan Perlman (Showtime's Flatbush Misdemeanors and Cramming). Is there a male loneliness epidemic? Or is dating just exhausting? Dan tells us many stories including his experiences dating openly; when he entered into an open relationship in the completely wrong way, times that he has hooked up with people in open relationships, and who should not enter into open relationships, ever, at all. We talk the risks and rewards of putting yourself out there, early first crushes, sexual urban legends that we heard about growing up in NYC, and finally Dan's new film that is being produced by our very own Charlotte Kassimir!
Check out Dan & Charlotte's Kickstarter !
Watch Remy's Belt Loop Video
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Are you dating and looking for new tips, tricks, and pick up lines? Or has your dating life come to an end and you just want to hear some really good dating stories? This is the episode for you! Remy chats with Portland based stand up comedian and Beast Games contestant Megan Otto. Megan rose to internet fame on Instagram and TikTok by going on dates and sharing her experiences with the world. She explains why she started sharing her stories so publicly, what stories are off limits for her to share, and the peaks & pitfalls of being an open book about your private life. Megan and Remy both take a trip down dating memory lane and go back as far as highschool experiences all the way up to their current relationships and then debate: Should you have relationships in the office/workplace? It is a relatable and invigorating episode and we can't wait for you to hear it!
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We can't hold it in any longer! We're FINALLY talking golden showers, water sports, piss kinks-- whatever you want to call it-- with Portland based, and liquid based comedian Mack Lee. Mack tells us about their piss kink; how they discovered they have one, where they think it came from, and where they like to pee/ be peed on (body-wise AND location-wise!) We discuss celebrities who have piss kinks, drinking pee, spitting or swallowing, and the etiquette & proper prep that you should do if piss play is on the menu. Finally Remy and Mack talk about fantasy literature and smut as well as the dangers that AI character chat bots pose for impressionable children and teens. Like always Mack's experience is their own so if you have a different take on piss kinks or different type of piss kink please write in and let us know!
Charities mentioned in this episode concerning the fires in LA: California Fire Foundation, Habitat for Humanity for Greater Los Angeles, Friends in Deed, Dream Center, World Central Kitchen, Community Foundation's Wildfire Recovery Fund, Baby2Baby
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Kicking off 2025 with an extremely fun episode with Remy’s friend, hairstylist and occasional adult film actor Christian Camacho. We’re talking about birthday orgies, fisting, role-play, foot-play, sex work, breath work, losing your mojo, & jacking off: it can be HARD! And not in the good way. We discuss labels in the LGBTQIA community, Christian’s road to self discovery, and how bisexuality and queerness is viewed in the media vs. with people in every day life. Finally Remy reads the Cumpanion’s sexual goals for 2025 and Christian tells us his own goal for the new year. Happy New Year everyone, we hope your wildest dreams c*m true!
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We've c*m back for a brand new season AND How C*m's Birthday, (born Christmas Day, 2017) To celebrate we are talking all things Sabrina Carpenter with drag queen and pop-culture aficionado Poutine Levine and our beloved Robyn Kennedy. We talk about Sabrina's unapologetic horniness, the ability and freedom to express sexuality through pop music, and the hurdles that women in the music industry have to face; not to mention how much harder it is when there's beef between two icons -- what happened to women supporting women? We cover everything from Britney and Christina in the 1990s-2000s to Olivia Rodrigo and Taylor Swift today, the rise of Chappell Roan and other queer icons in the music industry (and get some good new recs) and finally, Rob gives us a rundown of her current relationship which has been long and lovely as opposed to previous short and sour ones. Welc*m back + a happy horny holiday to you all!
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One more episode for this season! Yippee! Remy welcomes her friend, a mystery guest, to talk about an experiment she did -- in which she went on 50 first dates in one year. They talk about why she did it, how the dates went, and what she learned from it. There *are* spoilers from the 2004 movie 50 First Dates in this episode, but it is not an episode about love and amnesia.
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It's the season 5 finale and we are closing it out with a bang-- and Ben! He and Remy are doing something she is calling "The BFF Test"-- (Boyfriend Forever Test) which she created and is basically The Newlywed Game for unmarried people* -- with way more sex questions. They see how their answers match up as they talk about recent rendezvous, adventures in butt-plugging, and how each of them could stand to be more romantic. It is an extremely fun and giggly episode, but if you're related to Remy or Ben, close to both of them, or just don't want to picture them bumping uglies it's maybe not the ep for you! You've been warned.
*Married people can still play, duh
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Aerospace defense engineer-turned-rising adult film icon John Legendary is here to talk EVERYTHING regarding the long-misunderstood ‘hotwife’ lifestyle-- you may have heard about "cuckolding" in porn but he gives us the inside scoop and tells us about his freewheeling adventures as an in-demand ‘bull’ in other people’s bedrooms. He goes into us how he got into the hotwifing lifestyle, how he got into porn, how hotwifing in porn differs from how it actually is in real life and SO much more.
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Actor and Comedian Jade Catta-Preta is back after many seasons and this time she has several life changes to share; she is "so much gayer now" and is also going through pre-menopause or "perimenopause." We talk about everything from getting good at gay sex, to learning to love yourself, to how she felt getting diagnosed with perimenopause. She tells us about how she has been treating it and we run through all the symptoms that come with it in case anyone is going through something similar. It is all parts educational, hilarious, and horny!
CW: SA
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A very special episode with one woman who has NEVER masturbated, and another who has given up having sex with other people! Remy sits down with Lauren Hope Krass- stand up comedian and Betches content manager, podcast host, video star and humor writer, and Rachel B - comedy club veteran and host of the Dating App Disasters Podcast. They answer all questions related to why they do not/ are not partaking in their respective sexual activities and dive into body image, dating culture, after-care and so much more. It is a relatable, heart warming, hilarious and important conversation. Enjoy!
CW: Disordered eating and sexual assault
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