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The conversation explores the topic of underwear and its role in control and oppression. It delves into the societal expectations and policing of women's bodies, the arbitrary nature of professionalism, and the intersection of underwear with race and gender. The discussion also touches on the history of underwear, the influence of capitalism and consumerism, and the connection between underwear and abuse in cults. Overall, the conversation highlights the ways in which underwear is used as a tool for control and the need to challenge societal norms and expectations. The conversation explores various topics related to identity, race, and gender. It touches on issues such as colorism, body image, breastfeeding in public, and the challenges faced by women in the military. The speakers discuss the infantilization and sexualization of women, the pressure to conform to societal expectations, and the importance of understanding and acknowledging one's own privilege. They also highlight the need for white women to listen and learn from marginalized communities, rather than trying to prove their goodness or uniqueness. In this final part of the conversation, Rebecca and Daniella discuss the insidious nature of white supremacy and the need for white people to trust Black people's awareness of racism. They also explore the importance of questioning societal norms and expectations, such as appearance control and underwear requirements. They emphasize the need for white people to deconstruct white supremacy and opt out of the game, leading to true freedom, joy, and friendship.
Takeaways
Underwear is often used as a tool for control and oppression, with societal expectations and policing of women's bodies. The concept of professionalism is arbitrary and can be used to marginalize and exclude certain individuals. The history of underwear reveals the influence of capitalism and consumerism, as well as the infantilization of sexuality in society.
Underwear can be connected to abuse in cults, where it is used as a means of control and surveillance. Challenging societal norms and expectations around underwear is important for promoting body autonomy and dismantling oppressive systems. Colorism and body image issues are prevalent in society, leading to the infantilization and sexualization of women. Breastfeeding in public is still stigmatized, despite laws protecting a woman's right to do so. Women in the military face challenges related to uniform fit, gender expectations, and stereotypes. White women should listen and learn from marginalized communities, rather than trying to prove their goodness or uniqueness. White people need to trust Black people's awareness of racism and understand that they know more about racism than white people do. Questioning societal norms and expectations, such as appearance control and underwear requirements, is essential in deconstructing white supremacy. White people should opt out of the game of white supremacy and embrace true freedom, joy, and community. Deconstructing white supremacy takes time and ongoing work, and it is a continuous process of learning and unlearning. The goal is not to be obsessed as white people, but to challenge and dismantle white supremacy for a more equitable society.Sound Bites
"The history of colonization is just white men going around the world and telling brown and black women to cover up their boobs."
"Professionalism is not a real thing, right? Like right now, I'm here with a straight, like remains of a blowout, Rebecca has natural hair. Your hair is not more professional than my hair."
"I know Victoria's Secret is like a dude made her up. But like how much have we all suffered because of that?"
"That's another part that makes it more racist and more infantilized."
"The death of these cults is the knowledge of them."
"Every state in America, you are allowed to breastfeed your child in public."
"You have to also trust black people's awareness of you more than your understanding of where you are and how they're perceived."
"The way that you go make black friends is doing the work to come out of the cult of white supremacy."
"We have been told for our entire culture that black men are the most likely to hurt us."Chapters
00:00 Introduction: Moving Away from Bras and Pantyhose
06:39 The Control and Policing of Women's Bodies Through Underwear
10:29 The Discomfort and Privilege of Wearing Bras
13:33 Appearance Control and White Supremacy
17:38 The Arbitrary Nature of Professionalism
21:31 Underwear as a Tool of Control: Historical and Cultural Perspectives
25:31 Consumerism and Societal Expectations
30:40 Colorism, Body Image, and the Infantilization of Women
32:37 The Stigma of Breastfeeding in Public
36:41 The Need to Be Seen and Heard
39:39 The Dangers of Trying to Be the 'Special' White Person
44:28 Empathy, Inclusivity, and Recognizing Individual Experiences
01:00:30 Introduction and Latin Credentials
01:04:48 Conduct Standards and Appearance Control
01:06:49 Resistance and Opposition to the System
01:10:10 Identity vs. Anti-Identity
01:12:31 Underwear Control and Prescribing Behavior
01:16:44 The Game of Whiteness and Opting Out
01:19:49 Femininity and Masculinity
01:22:37 The Decade of Deconstruction
01:26:05 Questioning and Challenging Societal Norms
01:28:47 The Freedom of Breaking FreeProduced By: Haley Phillips
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In this conversation, Rebecca and Daniella discuss the concept of body coverage as a form of appearance control in cults and white supremacy. They explore the loaded language and thought-stopping cliches used to enforce modesty and control women's bodies. They also touch on the intersection of race and body coverage, highlighting the policing of black women's bodies and the privileging of white beauty standards. The conversation delves into the influence of cult language and the importance of challenging and deconstructing these harmful ideologies. The conversation explores the limitations placed on professional women in terms of appearance, the power of language, and the impact of beauty standards. It delves into the intersectionality of race and gender, the control and behavior prescriptions imposed by appearance standards, and the need for representation and diverse perspectives in positions of power. The discussion also touches on the troubled teen industry, the importance of storytelling and language, and the potential for change in the political landscape. The conversation explores the themes of identity, white supremacy, misogyny, and the pressure to conform to societal expectations. It delves into the experiences of being a woman and the challenges faced in navigating patriarchal systems. The speakers discuss the importance of self-acceptance and finding one's own mission in life. They also touch on the power dynamics within cults and the need to redefine success on one's own terms.
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Takeaways
Body coverage is a form of appearance control used in cults and white supremacy to enforce modesty and control women's bodies. Loaded language and thought-stopping cliches are used to shut down critical discussion and maintain the status quo. The policing of black women's bodies and the privileging of white beauty standards are examples of how body coverage intersects with race. Challenging and deconstructing harmful ideologies is essential for dismantling systems of oppression. Appearance standards for professional women can be limiting and reinforce patriarchal norms. Language is a powerful tool that can be used to attack or empower.
Beauty standards are often about controlling women and prescribing behavior. Intersectionality is important in understanding the experiences of different groups. Representation and diverse perspectives are crucial in positions of power. The troubled teen industry and its impact on individuals' lives is a significant issue. Storytelling and language play a role in shaping our understanding of the world. Change is possible, and it requires challenging existing systems and norms. Identity is complex and can be defined by both what it is and what it is not. White identity is often defined by not being black, while black identity is not defined by not being white. Societal pressure often leads to black people being marginalized and white people feeling the need to defend their identity. Misogyny and sexism are not the same as hating men; they are about opposing harmful beliefs and behaviors. Criticism and judgment from others should not dictate one's self-worth or define their mission in life. The pursuit of success should be redefined on one's own terms, rather than relying on external validation or societal expectations.Sound Bites
"Body coverage is a big thing in cults, right?"
"White privilege is such a loaded term"
"White privilege is a thought-stopping cliche"
"So often the first response is just to attack because language is so primal and fundamental to us as humans."
"People have no clue what I'm doing. And you could tell, because they're just so upset that I would name myself White Woman Whisperer, that I would even address white women and not be one because then they're so confused."
"People say Swifties are a cult. I'm like, what are they against?"
"Whiteness has always been, we can't live with you and we can't live without you."
"What I hate is misogyny and sexism, and I love men that aren't that."Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Yarn Discussion
01:18 Deconstructing White Supremacy and Cults
05:15 The Power of Language and Loaded Terms
10:34 Thought-Stopping Cliches and White Privilege
14:16 Questioning and Challenging Language
16:16 Creating Spaces for Marginalized Voices
17:59 The Art of Knitting: Patience and Practice
18:25 Body Coverage in Cults: Appearance Control and Conformity
25:46 Policing Black Women's Sexuality: Stereotypes and Double Standards
31:58 The Evolution of Beauty Standards: Tools for Control
36:04 Self-Acceptance and Challenging Societal Norms
39:57 The Intersectionality of Identity and Appearance Control
41:45 Challenging Stereotypes and Expectations in the Military
46:20 The Power Dynamics of White Supremacy and Patriarchy
48:58 The Importance of Diverse Perspectives in Positions of Power
52:13 Valuing Lived Experiences alongside Formal Qualifications
57:58 Rethinking Traditional Games and Systems
01:07:11 Reevaluating Goals and Finding New Missions
01:07:57 The Importance of Self-Care and Self-Acceptance
01:11:30 Defining Success on Your Own Terms -
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In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca discuss the representation of women and people of color in politics, particularly focusing on Kamala Harris. They explore the excitement and hope that Harris's candidacy brings, while also acknowledging the challenges and limitations that come with being a Black woman in a position of power. They emphasize the importance of not expecting one person to represent an entire demographic and the need to address anti-Blackness and white feminism. The conversation also touches on the concept of the glass cliff and the ongoing process of deconstructing white supremacy. In this part of the conversation, Rebecca and Daniella discuss the challenges faced by women and minorities in positions of power. They highlight the need for multiple individuals from a given minority demographic to have a voice and not be pitted against each other. They also discuss the importance of being an accomplice rather than just an ally in the fight against racism. They touch on the power dynamics between white women and black women, the role of white women in dismantling white supremacy, and the need for white men to educate themselves and call out their friends. They also discuss the concept of white women tears and the importance of believing and listening to black women's experiences. They emphasize the need to question and challenge the sense of urgency imposed by white supremacy and coercive control. In this final part of the conversation, Rebecca and Daniella discuss the importance of privacy and the ways in which lack of privacy can be used as a means of breaking people down. They also explore the concept of self-sealing systems and how society has given over its agency to the system itself. They discuss the potential impact of having a Black woman in a position of power, such as Kamala Harris as Vice President, and the need for white women to take responsibility for their own actions and challenge white supremacy. They emphasize the importance of believing people's experiences and not trying to relate or invalidate their perspectives. They also discuss the power of silence and active listening in conversations about race and gender.
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Takeaways
The representation of women and people of color in politics is important and brings excitement and hope. It is crucial to recognize the challenges and limitations that come with being a Black woman in a position of power. Expecting one person to represent an entire demographic is unfair and unrealistic.
Addressing anti-Blackness and white feminism is essential in promoting true inclusivity and equality. The concept of the glass cliff highlights the tendency to put women and minorities in leadership roles during difficult times. Deconstructing white supremacy is an ongoing process that requires self-reflection and education. Women and minorities in positions of power often face challenges and are pitted against each other. Being an accomplice, rather than just an ally, is important in the fight against racism.
White women have a role in dismantling white supremacy and should educate themselves and call out their friends. Believing and listening to black women's experiences is crucial. Questioning and challenging the sense of urgency imposed by white supremacy is necessary. Lack of privacy can be used as a means of breaking people down and is often a demand in systems that seek to control and enforce power. Society has given over its agency to the system itself, resulting in a self-sealing system that perpetuates harmful ideologies and structures. Having a Black woman in a position of power, such as Kamala Harris as Vice President, can bring a different perspective and potentially lead to important conversations and changes. White women need to take responsibility for their own actions and challenge white supremacy, rather than relying on Black women to educate and inform them. Believing people's experiences, particularly when it comes to race and gender, is crucial for fostering understanding and empathy. Silence and active listening can create space for deeper connection and learning in conversations about race and gender.Sound Bites
"Everybody feels like they're being represented now in this election."
"The excitement that it has brought has been incredible."
"We also know how we get treated and how we are spoken to."
"They are not against each other, they are pitted against each other."
"I'm so scared for her, right? Like she is going to, just in the election season alone, she is going to have so much misogynoir thrown at her that it is gonna be painful."
"Stop saying you're an ally. It's not about being an ally. It's about being an accomplice."
"No! That is the widest thing I have ever - Ugh! A creepy hunk to check your underwear!"
"It's so creepy, it's so creepy. That's also how purity culture goes into, you know, pedophilia and sexual harassment."
"Demanding immediate answers, constantly surveilling people, or having purity requirements are means of breaking people down and do not have legitimate reasons."Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Representation in the 2020 Election
03:52 The Glass Cliff: Challenges Faced by Women and Minorities in Leadership
08:51 Centering Anti-Blackness and the Role of White Women
13:43 The Significance of Having a Woman in the White House
20:56 From Allies to Accomplices: Dismantling White Supremacy
34:01 Understanding White Supremacy and Allyship
38:58 Challenging Societal Norms and Holding Yourself Accountable
46:40 The Impact of Surveillance and Purity Requirements
01:00:20 The Power of Transformational Leadership and Diverse Perspectives
01:07:12 The Potential Impact of a Woman in the White House
01:14:46 The Intersectionality of Gender and Race
01:19:03 The Importance of Listening and Slowing Down
01:26:40 Fair Compensation for Podcast Production
01:27:20 The Importance of Representation in Various Industries -
In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca discuss the concept of deconstruction and how it relates to body size and white supremacy. They share personal stories and insights about the control and manipulation of appearance in cults and society. They explore the impact of body size on self-worth and the harmful effects of societal beauty standards. The conversation highlights the need for self-reflection and the ongoing work required to challenge and dismantle these harmful ideologies. The conversation explores various aspects of control and coercion, particularly in relation to body size, bathroom control, and workplace dynamics. It delves into the ways in which control is exerted in different contexts, such as cults, corporate America, and educational environments. The discussion also touches on the weaponization of compliments and the societal pressure to conform to certain body standards. The importance of reclaiming agency and challenging societal norms is emphasized throughout the conversation.
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Fearing the Black Body
The Beauty Myth
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Takeaways
Deconstruction involves tearing things apart to create new solutions and solve problems.
Body size is often used as a tool for control and manipulation in cults and society.
Societal beauty standards perpetuate harmful ideologies and negatively impact self-worth.
Challenging and dismantling white supremacy requires ongoing self-reflection and work.
Emotional labor and the control of appearance are interconnected aspects of oppressive systems. Control and coercion can manifest in various aspects of life, including body size, bathroom control, and workplace dynamics.
Societal norms and expectations around body size and appearance can be oppressive and contribute to fatphobia and body shaming.
Compliments can be used as a form of control and can perpetuate harmful beauty standards.
Reclaiming agency and challenging societal norms is essential for personal empowerment and dismantling oppressive systems.
Recognizing and questioning systems of control and coercion is crucial for creating a more equitable and inclusive society.
Sound Bites
"When you tear things apart, when you spend the time deconstructing things, you come up with ways to create new things and to solve problems."
"It's not like you have good intention and all of a sudden, boom, we are not racist anymore."
"The idea of fat became inherently a negative word... unless you believe we're all supposed to look and be the same."
"Bathroom control is another thing that we always see in coercive control."
"This woman's a cult leader."
"Kids are the new slaves that we just treat."
Chapters
00:00 Deconstructing and Creating
05:40 The Control of Appearance
13:38 Bathroom Control and Emotional Labor
20:04 The Dehumanization of Children
43:38 The Value of Physical Presence in the Workplace
46:05 The Pressure to Conform to Body Size Ideals
52:28 The Role of Compliments and Jokes in Body Control
54:32 Valuing People Beyond Their Physical Appearance
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In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca discuss the impact of white supremacy and cult-like behavior on their lives. Daniella shares her personal experience of being married to a white supremacist and how it made her reflect on her own identity and choices. They explore the pressure to conform to societal expectations and the importance of embracing individuality. They also discuss the power of self-expression and the need to challenge the norms imposed by white supremacy. The conversation explores the themes of freedom, perfectionism, chasing success, self-sacrifice, and the cult-like nature of societal systems. It emphasizes the importance of individuality, self-acceptance, and finding joy outside of traditional measures of success. The speakers discuss the impact of white supremacy, the worship of the written word, and the exploitation of labor. They also highlight the value of authentic conversations, real relationships, and the ability to create one's own path. The conversation ends with a discussion on the power of analogies and the accessibility of knowledge.
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Keywords
white supremacy, cults, identity, conformity, individuality, self-expression, freedom, perfectionism, chasing success, self-sacrifice, cult-like systems, individuality, self-acceptance, joy, white supremacy, exploitation of labor, authentic conversations, real relationships, creating one's own path, analogies, accessibility
Takeaways
White supremacy and cult-like behavior can have a profound impact on individuals' lives and identities.
Conforming to societal expectations can lead to a loss of individuality and self-expression.
Embracing one's true identity and challenging societal norms is a powerful act of resistance.
Self-reflection and awareness are crucial in deconstructing the influence of white supremacy and cults. Freedom is being accepted for who you are and having the ability to present yourself authentically.
Chasing success and perfectionism can be futile and lead to a never-ending cycle of striving.
Societal systems often exploit labor and devalue work that cannot be quantified.
Recognizing and challenging the cult-like aspects of societal systems is crucial for personal growth and well-being.
Authentic conversations and real relationships are essential for personal and societal transformation.
Analogies can be powerful tools for understanding complex concepts and making knowledge accessible.
Sound Bites
"Deconstructing white supremacy like the cult that it is"
"I only find out about this... nine years before"
"I thought that was what I was supposed to do... because I didn't even really, I think, understand the concept of individuality and individual identity"
"I'm gonna wear whatever I want for the rest of my life."
"Perfectionism was my heroin addiction."
"Chasing success is kind of futile at some point."
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Background
04:01 Unveiling the Intersection of White Supremacy and Cults
12:18 The Pressure to Conform: Losing Personal Identity
20:16 Challenging White Supremacy through Open Conversations
26:32 Embracing Personal Authenticity: Breaking Societal Norms
36:19 Embracing Individuality and Freedom
38:32 The Dangers of Perfectionism
40:48 The Pursuit of Success and Its Pitfalls
47:15 Exploitation of Labor and Cult-like Systems
54:30 Authentic Conversations and Relationships
01:07:16 Creative Projects as a Means of Empowerment
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The conversation explores the significance of hair in relation to coercive control, dehumanization, and racism. The hosts discuss the experience of having their hair touched without consent and the emotional journey of embracing natural hair. They highlight the lack of consent and respect in interactions between white women and black women regarding hair. The conversation also touches on the impact of compliments and the importance of language when discussing these issues. Overall, the conversation sheds light on the deep-rooted biases and discrimination surrounding hair and the need for awareness and understanding. The conversation explores the impact of appearance control and surveillance on individuals, particularly focusing on hair and body size. It highlights how these standards are influenced by white supremacy and how they contribute to the dehumanization and objectification of marginalized groups. The discussion also touches on the intersectionality of appearance standards in different contexts, such as the military and corporate America. The hosts emphasize the importance of reclaiming personal style and rejecting societal expectations to truly know oneself.
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Hair is a critical aspect of coercive control and dehumanization.
Interactions between white women and black women regarding hair often lack consent and respect.
Compliments about hair can be problematic and should be examined for underlying biases.
Language plays a crucial role in discussing hair-related issues.
There is a need for awareness and understanding of the deep-rooted biases and discrimination surrounding hair. Constant surveillance and appearance control have detrimental effects on individuals, including dehumanization and objectification.
Standards of beauty and professionalism are often influenced by white supremacy and perpetuate discrimination and inequality.
Reclaiming personal style and rejecting societal expectations is essential for self-discovery and empowerment.
Intersectionality plays a significant role in how appearance standards are enforced and experienced in different contexts.
Recognizing privilege and challenging stereotypes are crucial steps towards creating a more inclusive and equitable society.Sound Bites
"White women's pearls: Clutching pearls to calm ourselves down"
"Hair is critical in coercive control and dehumanization"
"Being called in is not an attack"
"There's a reason that constant surveillance is a form of torture and of breaking people."
"I battle with some of those things, obviously, still. The internalized anti-blackness that I felt towards myself for so long just for having the hair I have."
"Your time in the military gets harder. And when certain men don't understand this, I can just lean into them and say, aren't you short? And immediately they get it."Chapters
00:00 Introduction and the Concept of Clutching Pearls
08:38 Hair as a Form of Coercive Control
15:08 Challenging Microaggressions and Defending Personal Boundaries
28:12 The Emotional Journey of Embracing Natural Hair
33:34 The Significance of Hair in Relation to White Supremacy
39:36 Creating a Safe and Inclusive Environment for Discussions about Hair and Race
41:13 The Impact of Hair on Identity
43:23 Internalized Anti-Blackness and Beauty Standards
48:56 Hair Discrimination in the Military
52:43 Professionalism and Conformity
01:03:28 Challenging Beauty Standards
01:17:03 HWW Intro 16x9.mp4 -
In this conversation, Daniella Mestyanek Young and Rebecca discuss their experiences with cults and the deconstruction of white supremacy. They explore the stages of leaving a cult and the process of deprogramming from the myth of white supremacy. They also touch on topics such as privilege, racism, and the impact of cult dynamics on society. The conversation highlights the need for self-reflection, questioning societal norms, and working towards equality. In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca discuss the importance of self-reflection and deconstructing the systems of white supremacy and patriarchy. They emphasize the need for white women to recognize their privilege and actively work to dismantle oppressive systems. They also discuss the power of vulnerability and the role of social media in spreading awareness and creating change. The conversation touches on topics such as the cult-like nature of societal systems, the challenges of living authentically within capitalism, and the role of art and creativity in personal growth.
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Get an Autographed copy here: https://uncultureyourself.com/pages/uncultured-autographed Takeaways There are three stages of leaving a cult: waking up, cracking the brainwashing, and physically and mentally leaving the cult. Deconstructing from the myth of white supremacy requires a process of deprogramming that can take years. White supremacy is like a cult, and deconstructing it involves questioning societal norms and recognizing the impact of privilege and racism. Cult dynamics, such as the need to defend the good intentions of the group, can be observed in white supremacy and other systems of oppression. Recognizing and challenging the sacred assumptions of white supremacy is essential for dismantling the system and creating equality. Recognize and reflect on your own privilege and the systems of white supremacy and patriarchy that perpetuate inequality. Challenge and dismantle oppressive systems by actively working to create change. Embrace vulnerability and use your voice to spread awareness and inspire others to take action. Question and deconstruct your own beliefs and behaviors to ensure they align with your values and promote equality. Find ways to live authentically and resist the pressures of capitalism and societal expectations. Use art and creativity as a means of personal growth and self-expression. Sound Bites "White supremacy is like a booger" "White supremacy starts radicalizing you the second you set foot here" "Deconstructing white supremacy is a process of self-reflection and questioning" "Hey, black women, if you're alone in a conference room and someone's about to walk in and it's gonna be a white person, would you rather be a white man or a white woman?" "White women are the men of women." "Once you can name it, you can fix it." Chapters 00:00Introduction and Background 02:32Growing Up in Diverse Communities and Discovering Cult Dynamics 05:22Creating Safe Spaces for Black People to Share with White People 07:49Leaving Seattle and Deconstructing White Supremacy 10:11White Supremacy as a Booger and Challenging Sacred Assumptions 13:07The Radicalization of White Supremacy and Deconstructing Beauty Standards 20:49The Interconnectedness of Patriarchy and White Supremacy 25:01The Need to Stack Rank and the Impact of White Supremacy 28:18Questioning the Cult of Capitalism and Valuing Humanization 31:04The Con of White Supremacy and the Benefits of Equality 37:02The Power of Vulnerability and Spreading Awareness 48:56Living Authentically and Resisting Capitalism 53:28Art and Creativity as Tools for Personal Growth
