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  • In the case of Baby Bouffard...Jon, you ARE the father! In this week’s episode, Alex and Jon discuss paternity tests for unborn children, fathers being petty, and security cameras in the house. Do you trust your spouse or do you need security cameras inside your house? Alex may not be doing anything bad...but Jon? We might need to investigate further. Also, stay tuned for the end where Jon and Alex reveal the gender of their baby! 

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    0:00 - Intro
    18:14 - My Boss Hit On Me
    24:29 - How Much Do You Tip?
    27:53 - Friends with Benefits
    30:53 - I’ve Never Been in a Relationship 
    35:06 - I Want a Paternity Test!
    37:54 - My Father Didn’t Come To My Wedding
    42:07 - His Parents Are Too Religious 
    47:26 - Are You Spying or Lying? 
    51:00 - My BF Doesn’t Try With My Kid
    53:49 - Reading Your Secrets
    55:07 - Listener Review
    55:32 - Gender Reveal
    59:39 - What Are You Over?

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  • Kissing your friends is fine…until it turns into a make-out session. In this weeks episode, Alex and Jon discuss friendship kisses, cancelled weddings, and friendships that have gone south. You know, not all friendships have to last forever. Alex’s friendships usually last awhile, whereas Jon’s only last 2-3 business days…or a year if you play Call of Duty. 

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    0:00 – Intro

    30:51 – Risky Towel Business 

    33:21 – How Long Should You Wait To Remarry? 

    36:45 – Is Playful Kissing Cheating? 

    38:23 – My Fiance Cancelled Our Wedding

    41:27 – My Husband Uses Dating Apps

    44:58 – Close Friend or Foe? 

    49:50 – My Sister’s Wedding vs. My Baby

    53:30 – My Wife Makes Out With Her Friends

    58:31 – I Sold My Friend’s Concert Tickets

    1:03:33 – Call of Booty

    1:08:03 – Reading Your Secrets

    1:09:38 – Listener Review

     

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  • Would you call the cops on your own sister? Alex would. In this week’s episode, Alex and Jon discuss driving while high, pole dancing, and stalking your ex. Jon hasn’t stalked his ex in years but Alex just stalked hers last week. Don’t lie, we all want to see if we’re doing better than our exes! Safe to say, Alex and Jon have nothing to worry about.
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    0:00 – Intro
    9:45 – We’re Growing Apart
    11:48 – Balancing School and Life
    14:10 – Say High to a DUI
    17:37 – Should We Move In Together?
    20:56 – New State, Same Business?
    25:50 – I Want Support For My Pole Dancing 
    30:19 – Afraid of the Dark…Circles
    35:07 – Boundaries At Work
    39:15 – My BF Left Me In The Hospital 
    46:26 – He’s Stalking His Ex
    52:48 – Reading Your Secrets
    55:54 – What Are You Over?
    58:26 – Listener Review
     
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  • It’s time we normalized kissing your siblings on the lips…(or not, geez). In this week’s episode, Jon and Alex discuss strange sibling relationships, babies at weddings, and rude celebrity encounters. Just remember, if you ever meet Alex and Jon in public, Alex will want to be your best friend and Jon will want to leave immediately. It’s nothing personal, he just doesn’t enjoy genuine human interaction.

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    0:00 – Intro

    11:34 – I Won’t Speak Badly About My Husband

    13:43 – Our Sex Life is Vanilla

    16:43 – Rude Celebrity Encounters

    20:30 – Kissing Your Sibling 

    24:23 – Fading Friendships

    28:09 – Grandparents or Grandpains in my Ass? 

    33:05 – Reaching Out To My Ex’s Mom

    35:28 – To Move or Not To Move? 

    39:44 – Loaning Money To A Sibling 

    46:13 – Your Baby Can’t Come To My Wedding

    52:25 – Reading Your Secrets

    55:03 – Listener Review

     

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  • In love with your best friend’s boyfriend? Stop. In this week’s episode, Alex and Jon help you fall out of love with your best friend’s boyfriend, find love on dating apps, and confront ex’s about having fake cancer. What’s the biggest lie Jon has ever told Alex? Probably that he’s one inch taller. Guys will take every inch, am I right?
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    0:00 – Intro
    12:17 – She’s Lying About Having Cancer
    16:01 – I’m In Love with my Best Friend’s BF
    18:14 – Finding Love on Tinder
    25:19 – My Best Friend’s Boring Boyfriend
    29:21 – Being Friends with The Opposite Sex 
    35:20 – My Father In Law is a Bigot
    41:29 – Do I Send A Warning Letter? 
    46:27 – Hot For Neighbor
    52:08 – Is It Religious? Or Personal? 
    59:53 – Reading Your Secrets
    1:04:20 – What Are You Over?
    1:06:06 – Listener Review
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  • Is Baby Bouffard finally on the way? In this week’s episode, Alex and Jon make a huge life announcement and discuss all things kids, pregnancy, and promiscuous pasts.  Jon considers getting a vasectomy and Alex dives into what you need to think about before having kids. Is Jon about to become a Zaddy? Is Alex entering her MILF era? Hit play and find out!

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    0:00 – Intro

    12:23 – Do You Want Kids?

    27:51 – My BF is Staying With His Ex

    30:12 – My Husband Wants Kids, I Don’t

    33:59 – Sperm Donor Dilemma

    38:58 – Pregnancy Scare

    42:22 – Promiscuous Boy

    49:39 – Who is Getting Fixed?

    59:14 – How Do I Parent When I’m Not One? 

    1:03:50 – Ready Your Secrets

    1:06:26 – What Are You Over?

    1:07:30 – Listener Review

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  • People need to learn how to say no, especially to brides. In this week’s episode, Alex and Jon discuss bachelorette parties getting too extreme, bedtime stories at 27, and how to handle your first STD. Alex even recalls a cooking class that left her feeling bamboozled, while Jon warns listeners to watch out for scammers. If Jon cares about one thing, it’s his money…and Alex, of course.

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    0:00 – Intro

    22:18 – My Husband Finishes Fast

    25:00 – Do I Pay for Dinner?

    27:07 – What’s Your Type?

    30:55 – I Need A Bedtime Story

    33:17 – STDeal With It

    36:02 – Should My Parents Pay For My Boobs?

    39:02 – My Wife Sent Nudes To My Friend

    45:00 – Bachelorette Blowup 

    54:28 – My Ex is Catfishing As Me

    1:05:56 – Reading Your Secrets

    1:08:04 – What Are You Over?

    1:09:30 – Listener Review

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  • Mother-in-laws are like your husband’s ex-girlfriend who won’t leave him alone. This week, Alex and Jon discuss MIL relationships, workplace affairs, and husbands being TOO helpful? Is that possible? Jon even recounts a story from his music festivals days and crowd surfing. Let’s just say if Jon could go back and relive his glory days…he wouldn’t.

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    0:00 – Intro

    7:37 – Do You Clean Together?

    10:23 – How To De-escalate An Argument

    13:03 – Is My Friend “Mothering” Me?

    16:02 – Leaving Your Dog Behind

    18:55 – My Husband Is Almost Too Helpful

    24:05 – What Does My MIL Really Need?

    29:22 – Yeah, You ARE The Asshole

    38:29 – Your BF Needs AA

    42:44 – My Boss Is Having An Affair

    48:39 – Monster In Law

    55:17 – What Are You Over?

    57:47 – Listener Review

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  • Too afraid to poke your husband’s butthole? Let’s discuss. In this week’s episode, Alex and Jon give their take on work wives, being a confident tall girl with a short king, and sleeping with your fiance’s sister. Other topics include being “friends” with your attractive coworker but hey, if you’re spending more time discussing spreadsheets than bed sheets, you’re probably safe.

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    0:00 – Intro
    11:14 – Men and Their Buttholes
    13:24 – Is having a “work” wife an emotional affair?
    15:31 – Tall Girl Insecurities
    18:24 – Do I Need To Do A 30’s Birthday Trip?
    20:25 – Half Naked Women In My Husbands Phone
    23:27 – My Body Count Got Me Dumped
    26:23 – I Hooked Up with My Fiance’s Sister
    32:01 – To Vacation or Not To Vacation?
    34:43 – I’m Still Thinking About Past Sexual Experiences
    39:43 – Co-Worker, Friend, or Potential Lover?
    44:55 – Should I Take My Husband’s Last Name?
    50:19 – Icks
    54:10 – Listener Review

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  • If you’ve ever been in a relationship, you know how outside influences can do more harm than good at any given time. Even when your gut is telling you the answer, those outside factors can get you to second guess yourself. The truth is, you just have to trust yourself sometimes and go with your intuition. In this episode, Jon and Alex answer listener questions about a proposal that’s not a surprise, setting financial boundaries with your parents, sleeping with your sister’s ex husband, your boyfriend’s suspicious relationship with your stepmom, and figuring out how to say goodbye to your soulmate.

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    (0:00) Intro

    (13:33) Our Listeners Give Their Advice

    (18:30) Is A Proposal Still Special If You Know It’s Happening?

    (20:20) Is It Still The Thought That Counts?

    (24:16) Does Giving Back To Your Parents Need Boundaries?

    (30:11) Why Are You Sleeping With Your Sisters Ex Husband?

    (34:18) How You Start Your Family Is Your Choice

    (37:43) Your House Is Your Safe Space

    (41:22) How To Say Goodbye

    (45:50) Are Your Boyfriend And Stepmom Hiding Something?

    (50:05) Listener Review

    (50:44) Icks

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  • Turning points in relationships are often a result of the impact your choices have on you and your partner. Oftentimes we focus too much on who’s right and who’s wrong instead of looking at what’s in the best interest of the relationship itself. In this episode, Alex and Jon take on listener questions about a marriage of conflicting personalities, whether or not a ring means someone is ready to propose, a twin sister talking to her sister ex, the struggles of a family business, and how all bridesmaids are not created equal.

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    (0:00) Intro

    (11:34) Our Listeners Give Their Advice

    (17:22) A Type A Versus Type B Marriage

    (21:06) So You Finished But Didn’t Orgasm…

    (27:41) Is A Violent Past A Red Flag?

    (31:42) Does Having A Ring Mean You’re Ready To Propose?

    (35:01) Why Would Your Twin Sister Still Talk To Your Ex?

    (39:01) Is This Denial Or Not Wanting To Help Yourself?

    (44:37) Going Into Business With Family

    (48:42) Elaborate Story Or Harsh Reality?

    (56:30) Not All Drunk Bridesmaids Are Equal

    (1:01:10) Icks

    (1:11:18) Listener Review

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  • Everyone has a past and your willingness to understand your partner’s will help you strengthen your relationship and not tear it down. So why do so many people focus on what happened before instead of looking towards the future? In this episode, Jon and Alex discuss the art of talking dirty to your partner, how to handle finding your boyfriend’s spicy online content, the loss of a friendship, being the single friend in the friend group, and when the person you’re dating has a secret life.

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    (0:00) Intro

    (9:08) Our Listeners Give Their Advice

    (13:47) Talk Dirty To Me

    (15:34) You Can’t Live In The Past

    (16:50) You Have To Own Up To Your Farts

    (18:07) So Your Partner Makes Spicy Content On The Side

    (20:06) They’re Just Old Family Photos, Right?

    (23:04) Lost Friendship Over A Pregnancy And A Wedding

    (30:07) Keep The Guy Or The House?

    (35:10) Being The Single Friend In The Group Is Tough

    (39:14) Is It OK To Offer To Help Pay For Your Own Engagement Ring?

    (44:40) When It Seems Too Good To Be True…

    (49:57) Icks

    (52:48) Listener Review

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  • Communication within relationships can be challenging, and it requires constant effort to make it work. At times, expressing your thoughts can be particularly tough, especially when you and your partner aren’t on the same page. In this episode, Alex and Jon discuss listener questions about an open marriage with unexpected consequences, dealing with a husband’s ultimatum, getting caught faking a pregnancy, and how to support your partner’s success while working through your own jealousy. As a bonus, there’s an update from one of our listeners from episode 36!

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    (0:00) Intro

    (8:59) Our Listeners Give Their Advice

    (13:03) How Old Is Too Old To Be Living At Home?

    (17:43) Shoot Your Shot At The Coffee Shop

    (20:28) Your Personal Information Isn’t Safe Anywhere

    (23:38) You Cheated And You’re Mad He Took You Back

    (25:18) Way Too Much Information

    (31:32) Do Ultimatums Ever Work In A Marriage?

    (34:50) Classic Case Of Who Done It

    (40:44) Faking A Pregnancy

    (49:36) Is It OK To Be Jealous Of Your Partners Success?

    (55:39) Listener Update From Episode 36

    (57:41) Icks

    (1:02:32) Listener Review

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  • Relationships come down to balancing your own wants and needs with what’s in the best interest of you and your partner. Things begin to get tricky when the differences between those two are paper thin. So, how do you make the right choice when the differences aren’t always apparent? In this episode, Jon and Alex answer listener questions about becoming a mom and wanting a career change, why one friend can’t seem to lock down a long-term partner, the trials of an unplanned and unconventional pregnancy, and how to deal with a neighbor’s disturbing habit of calling you at the wrong time.

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    (0:00) Intro

    (16:51) Our Listeners Give Their Advice

    (21:47) Does My Partner Miss His Hoe Phase?

    (27:18) It’s Me Or The Dog

    (31:50) I’m A New Mom And Want A Career Change

    (35:55) Should You Expect Help When Planning Your Wedding?

    (37:55) So You Want Another Threesome

    (41:25) Let’s Talk About Wifey Material

    (47:02) A Very Unplanned Pregnancy

    (52:51) Everything In Moderation

    (58:02) Not Your Typical Butt Dial

    (1:07:45) Icks

    (1:16:55) Listener Review

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  • From the outside looking in, what’s normal for your partner and their family may seem strange to others. So what happens when you make an unsettling discovery about your partner’s family and past? In this episode, Alex and Jon dig into listener questions about sleeping with your friend’s crush, a debate on when kids should stop sleeping with their parents, an off limits conversation with a coworker, a fiancé no one has ever met, and addressing a questionable relationship between your husband and his mother.

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    (0:00) Intro

    (8:24) Our Listeners Give Their Advice

    (13:48) So You Slept With Your Friends Crush And Didn’t Tell Her

    (17:34) Does A Change In Travel Plans Raise A Red Flag?

    (21:17) Do Birthdays Give You A Pass To Cancel On Your Boyfriend?

    (24:30) When Should Kids Stop Sleeping In Their Parents Beds?

    (29:02) Not A Conversation You Have With An Engaged Coworker

    (32:21) You Fell In Love With Your Sugar Daddy

    (37:13) Starting To Feel Like Catfishing

    (43:28) We All Have A Past, When Do You Disclose Yours?

    (50:20) Keeping It In The Family

    (56:15) Icks

    (1:01:35) Listener Review

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  • They say history is bound to repeat itself and the same can be said for relationships. If you don’t acknowledge what has happened in the past, can you truly look forward to a better future for your relationship? In this episode, Jon and Alex offer their mediocre advice to listener questions about the denial of being ghosted, when being a healthcare worker and drinking don’t mix, changing family holiday traditions, living a lie after a traumatic event, and what exactly are your duties as a best friend.

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    (0:00) Intro

    (11:35) Our Listeners Give Their Advice

    (17:27) Who Needs A Maid Of Honor Anyway?

    (20:01) Whoever Smelt It, Dealt It

    (22:19) From Being Ghosted To Going On Vacation

    (25:56) Drinking On The Job Never Ends Well

    (32:50) Sorry Grandma, We’re Not Coming To Christmas

    (36:48) The Harsh Truth About Escaping A Traumatic Event

    (40:30) Will Refusing To Go To Therapy End The Marriage?

    (44:09) Dogs, Parents, And Your Kids Safety

    (55:05) What Falls Under Best Friend Responsibilities?

    (1:02:19) Icks

    (1:08:16) Listener Review

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  • Intrusive thoughts are an unwanted part of every relationship but they do need to be addressed when they come up. Avoiding them will only allow them to linger and get worse, possibly to the point of acting on them. In this episode, Alex and Jon answer listener questions about the need for prenups, dealing with insecurities about your partners past, setting boundaries with your aging parents, the negative impact of trauma dumping on a friend, and when a husband’s intrusive thoughts may lead to a scary reality.

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    (0:00) Intro

    (12:56) Is FOMO A Reason To Have A Child?

    (17:55) Money And Prenups

    (22:26) Your Insecurities Speak Volumes

    (24:46) I Have The Perfect Partner But I Don’t Love Him

    (28:58) What’s The Big Deal With Taking A Last Name Anyway?

    (35:31) Setting Boundaries As Your Parents Caretaker

    (38:48) Trauma Dumping And How That Can Impact Your Friends

    (42:12) Comparison Will Only Hurt Your Relationship

    (45:17) When Your Intrusive Thoughts Almost Become Reality

    (50:32) Body Image Issues Are A Real Thing

    (57:34) No Invites For The Black Sheep Of The Family

    (1:01:53) Icks

    (1:05:30) Listener Review

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  • Relationships are a lot of work even when both partners are giving their all. So what happens to a relationship when one partner starts to give more than the other? In this episode, Jon and Alex give their mediocre advice about a boyfriend needing to choose between his parents and his girlfriend, what opinion you can have on your partner’s desire to get Botox, dealing with grief and financial instability, and whether or not you should ignore toxic behavior when it’s a family member.

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    (0:00) Intro

    (14:56) Is It Rude To Go Into A Store Right Before Closing Time?

    (16:57) The Story You Tell Yourself Isn’t Always True

    (19:19) You Are NOT The Father But I Told You Otherwise

    (22:50) Do You Get An Opinion On Your Partner Wanting Botox?

    (27:15) Will He Choose You Or His Parents?

    (30:27) A Grieving Process And Your Financial Stability

    (39:42) Can You Run Out Of Things To Talk About?

    (43:22) Should You Ignore Toxic Behavior If They’re Family?

    (47:45) Sometimes You Have To Know When To Call It Quits

    (53:34) When The Relationship Becomes Too One Sided

    (59:33) Icks

    (1:03:41) Listener Review

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  • Transparency, communication, and expectation setting are foundational to any successful relationship. So why do some many relationships fall apart as a result of ignoring their necessity? In this episode, Alex and Jon discuss navigating opposing religious views, choosing between your career and your partner, where do you draw the line when defending a family member, the unreasonableness of divorce, and the reality of living with an STI.

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    (0:00) Intro

    (11:14) Do You Charge Admission When Hosting Parties?

    (15:03) Conflicting Religious Values

    (18:33) Coming To Terms With Your Sexuality After The Wedding

    (21:21) Choosing Between Who You Love And What You Love

    (24:00) You Can’t Always Defend Your Family

    (29:47) There’s Always Drama When You Brother And Bestie Date

    (33:50) Divorce Is Rarely Reasonable

    (39:07) My Sister Has Main Character Syndrome

    (43:35) Long Term Care Planning For A Loved One

    (46:46) The Heartbreaking Reality Of STIs

    (52:38) Icks

    (58:19) Listener Review

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  • Establishing a relationship means changing your priorities from what’s best for you, to what’s best for us. The key to making these priorities work is knowing when to change them to meet the demands of your relationship. In this episode, Jon and Alex answer some juicy listener questions about a boyfriends secret gambling debt, getting over past trauma to save a relationship, the shocking truth behind an at-home DNA test, when a fathers apology isn’t enough, and what to  do when you lose your father in law’s ashes.

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    (0:00) Intro

    (17:22) The Stress Of Being Laid Off

    (18:50) A Secret Gambling Debt

    (23:13) Is It OK To Make Friends For Your Wife?

    (24:55) How Do You Prioritize Quality Time With Your Partner?

    (29:10) Is Past Trauma An Explanation Or An Excuse?

    (34:28) Family Secrets Get Exposed With At-Home DNA Kits

    (40:10) Asking For Too Much Or Deserving More

    (46:48) You Can’t Take Back Words

    (52:19) There’s 3 Options And They All Suck

    (1:01:55) Icks

    (1:06:30) Listener Review

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