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  • Show Notes:

    Hey friends! Today Dr. Ray Doctor joins us on Fulfillment Therapy to discuss transformative healing beyond emotional scars. With over 28 years of experience and a bestselling book, he emphasizes the power of rewriting personal narratives to achieve lasting recovery from trauma. His approach, including techniques like EMDR, focuses on creating emotional safety and empowering clients to integrate their experiences positively. Tune in for insights that could change your perspective on growth and healing forever!

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

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  • Show Notes:

    In this episode, we tackle the struggle of feeling like a hypocrite when our actions don't align with our values, especially as overwhelmed parents. We explore practical strategies for making small, impactful changes that can lead to a more fulfilling family life, including the 52-minute break rule and creative ways to reconnect with loved ones. We talk about the importance of prioritizing key relationships, particularly marriage as a crucial aspect of parental self-improvement. Join us to gain valuable insights on how to overcome parental guilt, realign with personal values, and create a more intentional, balanced family life.

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    -Kendra

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  • In this insightful episode, we delve deeply into the significance of safe and secure family bonds and their role in establishing a trusting, stable, and emotionally secure family environment. Exploring the implications of insecure connections across generations, we offer healing tips aimed at breaking generational dysfunction and fostering secure bonds amongst family members for a more fulfilling and satisfying family life.

    Our conversation is guided by certified therapist Kendra and delves into topics such as parenting, marriage, personal needs prioritization, boundary setting, communication, and self-ownership. Kendra shares her personal journey towards fulfillment, shedding light on her discovery of meeting unaddressed needs, enabling her to cater to her family's needs with reduced resentment.

    This episode, number 115, focuses on building safe, secure bonds within your family. Backed by Kendra's extensive work with clients and her personal research, we underline the value of these bonds in nurturing healthy, happy families. Notably, we tease the announcement of beneficial resources including a new blog, courses, accountability groups, and more designed to enhance family dynamics.

    In this discussion, we emphasize the value of secure bonds in initiating healthy relationships and overall well-being. We provide pragmatic steps towards nurturing this bond, demonstrating how time and effort investments can greatly benefit every family member. The discussion expands on fostering emotional intelligence and resilience, promoting a safe, respectful, and confident environment for children to express their feelings.

    As the episode reaches its conclusion, we share helpful tips to boost family unity and connection, further underlining the value of safe, secure bonds in every family setting. Kickstart your journey towards stronger family relationships and derive a deeper sense of fulfillment from your family life with this episode.

    For those striving for stronger bonds with loved ones and more fulfilling relationships, this episode is brimming with powerful insights. Learn how you can better connect with your family, heal from past wounds, and build healthier relationships. Discover the benefits of therapy for exploring and healing dormant hurts and how it opens up avenues of increased intimacy, vulnerability, and better communication. You will take away from this episode useful tips on constructing secure bonds and maintain a positive culture within your family. Overall, this episode aids in making your home a haven for deeper connections, greater satisfaction, and self-realization.

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  • Welcome to the first episode of our enlightening show where you'll be introduced to the compelling concept of fulfillment therapy with our esteemed host, Kendra Nielsen. As a licensed therapist, personal trainer, and coach, Kendra weaves her various skills and experiences together as she passionately guides listeners towards creating a life infused with meaning and purpose.

    Kendra lets us into her personal life, as she embarks on an immersive journey sharing her motivation for creating the podcast and her unique approach to counseling that puts you in control of your personal narratives. The episode further explores crucial concepts such as the role of self-development and mindset changes in achieving a fulfilled and flourishing life.

    Filled with quotes from influential figures and candid discussions about her faith and spiritual approach to mental well-being, Kendra's episode challenges you to step out of your comfort zones, shine your own light, and empower others to do the same.

    Get ready as this pioneering episode delivers practical tips, profound insights, and a catalogue of therapeutic tools designed to ignite your life. Kendra's mission? To help you navigate life's journey towards fulfillment, growth, and immediate progress.

    Woven through these powerful insights is Kendra's raw, personal journey, spurred by a tribute to her late brother Jamin. Her experience leads to the exploration of discomfort and how embracing it can foster growth, progress, and happiness. By encouraging visualization and journaling exercises, Kendra challenges you to confront uncomfortable realities, thereby refocusing your life towards fulfillment.

    Step into a fulfilling life by transitioning from the rut to the vibrant growth sphere, gaining insights on self-actualization and self-transcendence as you progress along Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Share your thoughts, leave a review, and join us on this transformative journey towards creating waves of positive change, one small act at a time!

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  • Show Notes:

    On my recent appearance on Be the Change You Need podcast, I had an wonderful conversation with Tara Wiskow about living our lives to the fullest. We explored what's holding us back, how to create real momentum, and the often-untapped power of healing and progress. Tara shared her wisdom on unlocking your potential and pushing past barriers that keep you stuck. If you've ever felt like you're treading water, this episode is packed with actionable tips to help you break through. Ready to take your life to the next level? Then dive in!

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

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    Tara Wiskow:

    Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/be-the-change-you-need-podcast/id1689118909

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  • Show Notes:

    Today's episode offers hope to stressed parents by showcasing how ordinary people create extraordinary ripples of impact in their daily lives. Listen to stories of unsung heroes and relatable concepts like the ripple effect, and discover how small acts of kindness can transform lives. We also talk about practical steps for embracing your current situation, overcoming comparison, and recognizing your hidden influence. Join us to get a fresh perspective on your parenting journey and learn how to let your light shine, even amidst the chaos of family life.

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

    Strong Timber

    (rewritten by Kendra Nielson, inspired by Douglas Malloch’s Poem, Good Timer)

    The tree that never had to fight

    For sun and sky and air and light,

    But stood out in the open plain

    And always got its share of rain,

    Never held a woodland crown,

    Lived and died, potential drown'd

    The soul who never had to toil

    To gain and farm their patch of soil,

    Who never had to win their share

    Of sun and sky and light and air,

    Never became a sturdy soul,

    But lived and passed in their small role.

    Good timber does not grow with ease:

    The stronger wind, the stronger trees;

    The wider sky, the greater length;

    The fiercer storm, the more the strength.

    By sun and cold, by rain and snow,

    In trees and beings good timbers grow.

    Where thickest lies the forest growth,

    We find the elders there of both,

    And they hold counsel with the stars

    Whose broken branches bear the scars

    Of many winds and much of strife.

    This is the eternal truth of life.

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  • Show Notes:

    Join us as we delve into the importance of understanding family history for overwhelmed parents seeking fulfillment in their lives. We explore the concept of genograms as a tool for identifying generational patterns and improving mental wellness while providing relatable examples and expert quotes on why addressing past family issues is crucial for personal growth and better parenting. You will gain insights on how self-awareness can lead to more fulfilling family relationships and improved mental health by recognizing unhealthy patterns and taking actionable steps toward change. This episode empowers parents with practical tools to break free from negative cycles and build healthier futures for themselves and their families.

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

    Quotes:

    "The past is never dead. It's not even past." - William Faulkner

    "Genograms are like a roadmap of your family's emotional journey." - Dr. Monica McGoldrick

    "The unexamined life is not worth living." - Socrates

    "Our parents' lives are the first stories we learn about love." - Dr. Sue Johnson

    "The greatest gift you can give your family and the world is a healthy you." - Joyce Meyer

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  • Show Notes:

    In this episode, we explore the impact of mental inflexibility on our well-being and relationships. Learn practical steps to identify and overcome rigid thinking patterns that may be holding you back from living your best life. We'll discuss real-life examples, share valuable insights, and provide actionable strategies to help you align your actions with your true values, leading to improved mental health and stronger family connections.

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

    Quotes:

    "The Measure of Intelligence is The Ability to Change" - Albert Einstein

    “Self-care is not selfish. You cannot serve from an empty vessel.” Eleanor Brown

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  • Show Notes:

    Today we’ll explore the joys and challenges of becoming an empty nester. Our guests share their personal stories of rediscovering passions, strengthening their relationship, and navigating the delicate balance of grandparenting. With valuable lessons learned along the way, they share advice for parents still in the thick of it. Whether you're facing an impending empty nest or simply looking to enjoy your current stage more fully, this conversation is packed with inspiration and wisdom

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

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    Website: LynnaeAllred.com

    Social: @lynnae_Allred

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  • Show Notes:

    In this eye-opening episode, we explore the concept of hormesis and how controlled stress can benefit overwhelmed parents. Learn about the surprising health advantages of physical exercise, temperature exposure, and intermittent fasting. Discover practical tips for incorporating beneficial stress into your busy life as a parent. This episode provides valuable insights for parents seeking to improve their mental health, physical wellness, and overall family dynamics through personal growth and self-improvement.

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

    "Hormesis is the body's adaptive response to stress. It's how we become more resilient and improve our performance over time."-Gary Brecka

    “Lifting weights to momentary muscular failure signals your body to build more muscle and bone density."-Gary Brecka

    Brecka recommends progressive overload in workouts: "Gradually increasing the weight, frequency, or number of repetitions in your strength training routine challenges your muscles and promotes growth."

    World No.1 Biohacker: The Fastest Way To Burn Fat, Build Muscle & Live Longer -Gary Brecka

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  • Show Notes:

    In this episode, we dive into the challenges busy moms face when trying to stay updated on political issues without feeling overwhelmed. Ashley Moulton shares her go-to news sources and tips for navigating differing opinions among friends and family while maintaining an open mind. We also explore small actions moms can take to support causes they care about, even with packed schedules. Finally, we discuss how to help our kids think critically about the news they consume, ensuring they grow into informed citizens.

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

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    Also, 3 new courses will be coming your way soon! Check our website for more information and listen in to get updates!

  • Show Notes:

    Today, we dive into the tendency to see people as obstacles, especially when we're stressed. This way of thinking can harm our relationships with our loved ones. To help with this, I’ll share some simple yet powerful strategies to nurture empathy, boost self-awareness, and create rituals that foster connection. Join me, and together we’ll learn to shift our perspective and build deeper, more meaningful connections with the people around us.

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

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    Quotes:

    "When we're stressed, we're more likely to see others as means to an end rather than as human beings." - Dr. Brené Brown“Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.” - Ian MacLaren
  • Show Notes:

    Today we welcome holistic hormone coach and Happily Hormonal podcast host, Leisha Drews. As a mom of three and an experienced RN, Leisha shares insights into the significant role hormones play in energy levels, mood swings, and overall health. She shares easy, practical tips like eating balanced meals and focusing on proper nutrition, which can have a big impact on parents' health and energy. Listen in to find out how taking care of your hormones can help improve your mood, energy, and overall health for you and your family.

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

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    Links: Happily Hormonal Podcast

    www.instagram.com/leishadrews

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    Hormone imbalance Quiz: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/661991d29d61e746277e17e6

  • Show Notes:

    In this episode, we sit down with Michelle Reichman, host of Healthy Beyond 40 and expert in sustainable health practices for women over 40. Michelle shares her insights on breaking free from diet culture and focusing on nourishing our bodies through whole foods, adequate protein intake, and manageable exercise routines. She emphasizes the importance of starting small, listening to our bodies, and prioritizing long-term health over quick fixes. This episode is packed with practical tips for overwhelmed parents looking to improve their physical and mental well-being without adding stress to their already busy lives.

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

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    Wounds: Struggles with parenting, early death of father and brother, depression, I was just consuming and surviving.

    Find fulfillment: progress, self-reflection, therapy, live congruently with values, lean in, heal wounds, connect

    How do you learn what your unmet needs are: therapy, journaling, notice patterns and activators, explore your wounds, look for imbalances, ask loved ones

    "By lovingly meeting our neglected needs, we reclaim our power and step into our highest selves, leading to a life of deep fulfillment and purpose."

    “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? ...Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine.... And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” -Marianne Williamson

    I will tell you right now, there’s one word that will give you happiness- one. You’ll remember it as long as you live: PROGRESS. Progress equal happiness. So if you’re asking yourself, “What is my purpose?” what you’re really asking for is progress - a TRUE sense of fulfillment.

    And fulfillment isn’t a luxury or leisure activity - it’s a NECESSITY.” -Tony Robbins

    Healthy Beyond 40

    https://www.micheleriechman.com/

  • Show Notes:

    In this episode, we welcome Jennie Ketcham-Crooks, founder of the West Coast Anxiety Clinic, and an expert on anxiety and OCD. Jenny shares her personal journey through anxiety, addiction, and trauma, leading to her career in mental health. She offers stories and practical tips for building resilience, self-compassion, and finding joy even in tough times. If you’re looking to improve your mental wellness and foster better family connections, I hope you will find Jennie's insights inspiring.

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

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    Becoming Jenny on Instagram

    Look Up: A 30-Day Path to Digital Minimalism and Real Life Maximalism

  • Show Notes:

    Hey, parents! In today's episode, I'm thrilled to have Maddie Duval back with us, a coach who really gets the struggles of healing and loss. She opens up about her own journey and how investing in yourself can create real change in your family life and mental health. If you've ever felt overwhelmed or unsure about putting your needs first, this episode is just for you! Join us as we dive into how to take accountability for your life back and embrace change.

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

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    Maddie Duval

    Getting Grounded Coaching

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  • Show Notes:

    Learn how to channel the wisdom of your future self to live a more intentional and fulfilling life.

    Ever wondered what advice your older, wiser self would give you today? Join us in celebrating our 150th episode as welLearn how to channel the wisdom of your future self to live a more intentional and fulfilling life. Discover simple tips and insights to guide you on this transformative, game-changing journey.

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

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    Quotes:

    "Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakens." - Carl Jung

    "Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves, even when we risk disappointing others." - Brené Brown

    "At the end of life, what really matters is not what we bought but what we built; not what we got but what we shared; not our competence but our character; and not our success but our significance." —Nina Easton

    "The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well." —Ralph Waldo Emerson

    "Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change." —Jim Rohn

    Tips to Learning from your Wisest Self:

    Take some time to write down the achievements and experiences that you hope will define your life. Consider how these align with your current actions and decisions.Reflect on the qualities and behaviors you want to be remembered for. Make a conscious effort to embody these traits in your daily life.Write a letter from your future self to your current self. Include advice on how to navigate challenges and make decisions that align with your deepest values.Identify specific goals and values that resonate with you. Develop a plan to integrate these into your life, setting realistic and actionable steps to honor them.Practice mindfulness and self-reflection regularly. Set aside time each day to review your actions and ensure they align with your long-term vision for your life.Involve your family in discussions about values and goals. Create a family mission statement that reflects your collective vision and aspirations.
  • Show Notes:

    Do you ever feel like a fraud despite your success as a parent, in your career, or otherwise? Today we’re exploring how to overcome imposter syndrome and create a more fulfilling life for yourself and your family. Join me and learn insights and practical tips to conquer these feelings and boost your confidence.

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

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    Quotes:

    "The more successful you become, the more you may feel like a fraud." - Dr. Valerie Young

    “[It was] the same way when I walked on the campus at Yale. I thought everybody would find out, and they’d take the Oscar back. They’d come to my house, knocking on the door, ‘Excuse me, we meant to give that to someone else. That was going to Meryl Streep.” - Jodie Foster

    “The greatest obstacle for me has been the voice in my head that I call my obnoxious roommate. I wish someone would invent a tape recorder that we could attach to our brains to record everything we tell ourselves. We would realize how important it is to stop this negative self-talk. It means pushing back against our obnoxious roommate with a dose of wisdom.” - Arianna Huffington

    “Now when I receive recognition for my acting, I feel incredibly uncomfortable. I tend to turn in on myself. I feel like an imposter.”

    “Any moment, someone’s going to find out I’m a total fraud, and that I don’t deserve any of what I’ve achieved.” - Emma Watson

    “I still have a little impostor syndrome… It doesn’t go away, that feeling that you shouldn’t take me that seriously. What do I know? I share that with you because we all have doubts in our abilities, about our power and what that power is.” - Michelle Obama

    Tips for Overcoming Imposter Syndrome:

    Recognize and Acknowledge Your Feelings

    Tip: Start by acknowledging that you’re experiencing imposter syndrome. Recognize that these feelings are common and do not reflect your true abilities. Write down your achievements and positive feedback you’ve received to counteract your negative self-talk.

    Reframe Your Thinking

    Tip: Challenge your perfectionist tendencies and learn to view mistakes as opportunities for growth rather than failures. Practice self-compassion by treating yourself with the same kindness you would offer a friend in a similar situation.

    Seek Support and Share Your Feelings

    Tip: Talk about your feelings with trusted friends, family members, or a therapist. Sharing your experiences can help normalize them and reduce feelings of isolation. Remember, you're not alone in feeling this way.

    Set Realistic Standards

    Tip: Reevaluate your standards and set realistic, achievable goals. Break tasks into smaller, manageable steps, and celebrate your progress along the way.

    Focus on Your Strengths

    Tip: Identify your strengths and focus on activities that leverage them. Engage in tasks that make you feel competent and confident, and remind yourself of your skills and accomplishments regularly.

  • Show Notes:

    If you’re looking for ways to boost your family's health and longevity, today we’re discovering actionable tips from Dr. Michael Greger's book "How Not to Age" to help you and your family maintain health and vitality and create a healthier home.

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

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    Quotes:

    "The foods we eat may be our most important ally in fighting aging and chronic disease" (Greger, "How Not to Age").

    "Exercise is one of the most powerful tools we have to extend our lifespan and improve our quality of life" (Greger, "How Not to Age").

    "Good sleep hygiene can dramatically improve your overall health and slow the aging process" (Greger, "How Not to Age").

    "Learning to manage stress is crucial for maintaining long-term health and preventing premature aging" (Greger, "How Not to Age").

    "Cultivating meaningful relationships can have profound effects on our health and longevity" (Greger, "How Not to Age").

    Here are some key takeaways from the book, translated into practical steps for parents.

    Nutrition: The Foundation of Health

    As parents, we can start by incorporating more fruits, vegetables, legumes, and whole grains into our family's diet. Try to make small, gradual changes, like adding a vegetable to every meal or swapping out a sugary snack for a piece of fruit.

    By prioritizing plant-based meals, we're not only setting a good example for our children but also providing them with the nutrients they need to grow and thrive.

    Physical Activity: Move More, Age Less

    Make physical activity a family affair. Schedule regular family walks, bike rides, or play active games together. Encourage your kids to participate in sports or other physical activities they enjoy.

    Not only does this promote physical health, but it also strengthens family bonds and creates lasting memories.

    Sleep: The Unsung Hero of Health

    Establish a consistent sleep routine for the whole family. Create a calming bedtime environment by reducing screen time before bed, maintaining a cool and dark bedroom, and sticking to a regular sleep schedule, even on weekends.

    Prioritizing sleep helps improve mood, concentration, and overall well-being, making it easier to handle the challenges of parenting.

    Stress Management: Finding Balance

    Practice stress-reducing activities as a family, such as mindfulness meditation, yoga, or simply spending quality time together. Encourage open communication and support each other in finding healthy ways to cope with stress.

    By addressing stress as a family, we create a supportive environment where everyone feels valued and understood.

    Social Connections: The Power of Relationships

    Make time for family activities that foster connection, such as family dinners, game nights, or weekend outings. Encourage your children to build friendships and maintain close ties with extended family.

    Building a network of supportive relationships can enhance your family's emotional well-being and provide a sense of security and belonging.

  • Show Notes:

    Do you wish you could let go and lean into your fears more often? Do you compare yourself to others with greater confidence and wonder if you’ll ever have that in your life when you often feel like such a failure? If this is you, today’s episode will resonate with you because Karen Manthey, our guest speaker today, shares simple ways we can develop self-confidence and become our best selves. We'll discover how to pivot when life throws you curveballs with wisdom.

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

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