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    In this mini episode, Dr. Tay explores the intersection between evidence-based practices and neurodiversity affirming care in autism treatment. Drawing from her extensive background in research and clinical practice, she discusses the challenges of integrating these approaches to provide tailored, effective support for autistic individuals. Emphasizing the importance of lived experiences and clinical impressions alongside research, Dr. Tay highlights the need for a flexible, patient-centered approach to care that focuses on quality of life. This episode aims to inform and inspire listeners about the evolving landscape of autism care.

    00:00 Introduction to Mini Episodes

    00:49 Purpose and Format of Mini Episodes

    01:33 Today's Topic: Evidence-Based Practice and Neurodiversity

    02:00 Background and Training in Research

    03:05 Challenges in Autism Research

    03:41 Neurodiversity Affirming Practices

    07:34 Intersection of Evidence-Based and Neurodiversity Practices

    11:20 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    13:11 Subscribe and Engage

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

    Instagram @the.dr.tay

    TikTok @the.dr.tay

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    In this episode, Dr. Tay discusses apraxia with Jordan Levan, a disability advocate and founder of The Apraxia Foundation. They explore the differences between apraxia and dyspraxia, signs and symptoms, and the importance of early diagnosis. Jordan shares his personal journey with childhood apraxia of speech, the types of therapeutic approaches available, and how to integrate neurodiversity affirming approaches into therapeutic supports. They also talk about the resources and support provided by The Apraxia Foundation, specifically AAC devices and speech therapy services, emphasizing a comprehensive understanding of each child’s needs.

    00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

    00:40 Meet Jordan LeVan: Disability Advocate

    02:59 Jordan's Personal Journey with Apraxia

    04:06 Challenges and Advocacy in Childhood

    07:10 Speech Therapy and Treatment Approaches

    15:29 Understanding Apraxia and Its Types

    23:11 Dyspraxia Explained

    31:56 Understanding Co-Occurring Conditions with Childhood Apraxia

    32:29 The Importance of Knowing Your Child's Full Disability Profile

    32:47 Personal Experiences with Late Diagnoses

    34:11 The Impact of Historical Treatment of Disabilities on Parents' Fears

    36:58 The Role of Comprehensive Evaluations in Diagnosing Childhood Apraxia

    41:54 Challenges in Diagnosing Childhood Apraxia in Autistic Children

    44:37 Therapeutic Approaches for Childhood Apraxia

    48:53 The Importance of Consent in Speech Therapy

    56:37 Introduction to the Apraxia Foundation

    01:00:50 Connecting with the Apraxia Foundation and Final Thoughts

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ connect with Jordan on Instagram @fightingformyvoice and visit his website

    ⚡️ learn about his nonprofit @theapraxiafoundation and visit the website

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

    Instagram @the.dr.tay

    TikTok @the.dr.tay

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    In this episode, Dr. Tay connects with Neurofriendly Beau, a neurodivergent ADHD coach and parent of a neurodivergent child. They discuss the challenges and dynamics of parenting when the parent and child have different neurotypes. Beau shares insights on her late ADHD diagnosis and limitations of the diagnosis process as well as details her journey through parenthood, and the importance of adaptable and understanding approaches that go beyond traditional neurotypical standards. They also dive into the need for safety, individual accommodation, and the critical importance of modeling self-compassion and advocacy for children. Beau also presents her personal struggles and strategies for co-existing with Autism/ADHD (AuDHD) in an insightful and relatable manner, making this a deeply valuable episode for parents and guardians navigating similar journeys.

    00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview

    00:58 Host's Background and Podcast Purpose

    01:59 Guest's Introduction and Initial Conversation

    03:27 Guest's ADHD Diagnosis Journey

    09:49 Parenting and Neurodivergence

    17:34 Collaborative Parenting Approach

    18:06 Addressing Self-Sabotaging Thoughts

    18:59 Unique Solutions for Daily Challenges

    20:03 Navigating Screen Time Concerns

    22:01 Modeling Problem-Solving for Kids

    24:58 Embracing Neurodivergent Parenting

    25:57 The Importance of Self-Advocacy

    27:44 Shame and Neurodivergence

    31:25 Resources and Support for Parents

    32:39 Conclusion and Next Steps

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ follow Beau on Instagram @neurofriendlybeau and check out her website here, including to learn about her coaching services

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

    Instagram @the.dr.tay

    TikTok @the.dr.tay

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    Dr. Tay, a licensed child psychologist specializing in neurodiversity affirming care, interviews Laura Petix @theotbutterfly about her children's book on neurodiversity. They discuss how to help children understand their autistic brain and neurodivergent traits, Laura's inspiration for writing the book, and her background as a pediatric occupational therapist. The conversation covers Laura's journey as a neurodivergent parent, the importance of educating neurotypical children about neurodiversity, and how her book aims to normalize differences in behaviors and learning styles in classrooms and at home.

    00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview

    01:55 Meet Laura Petix: The OT Butterfly

    02:20 Laura's Journey and Neurodivergent Parenting

    03:40 Understanding Neurodiversity and ADHD

    05:54 Challenges in Getting a Diagnosis

    15:01 Educating Neurotypical Kids About Neurodiversity

    21:17 Understanding Autism and Family Care

    21:48 Book Release and Publisher Transition

    22:35 Importance of Pre-orders for Authors

    24:21 Impact of the Book on Children and Classrooms

    26:36 Key Concepts and Messages in the Book

    30:42 Engaging Adults and Broader Audience

    34:43 Final Thoughts and Resources

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️PRE-ORDER her book here before March 4, 2025 (same link works to purchase the book after that date)

    ⚡️ FOLLOW Laura on Instagram and learn about her other resources

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

    Instagram @the.dr.tay

    TikTok @the.dr.tay

    LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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    In this special episode, Dr. Tay welcomes back special education attorney Ashley Barlow to discuss critical updates impacting special education in the U.S. They delve into the Texas vs. Becerra case regarding the potential elimination of Section 504 protections, explore potential changes within the Department of Education, and highlight the significance of grassroots advocacy. Dr. Tay and Ashley provide valuable insights on how parents can proactively advocate for their children's educational rights, navigate current stresses, and use available resources effectively. The episode underscores the importance of building strong relationships with IEP teams and staying informed about legislative changes that may affect the neurodivergent community.

    00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

    00:10 Meet Ashley Barlow: Special Education Attorney

    00:19 Understanding 504 IEP and Its Importance

    03:18 Concerns About Losing 504 Protections

    08:04 Impact of Losing 504 on Disability Community

    14:20 Advocacy and Grassroots Efforts

    30:21 Potential Changes in the Department of Education

    39:23 Government Efficiency and DEI Initiatives

    40:59 Impact on Education and Research

    42:23 State-Level Implications and Comparisons

    44:25 Project 2025 and Potential Changes

    45:47 Real-Life Impacts on Special Education

    54:48 Advocacy and Legislative Engagement

    01:02:51 Practical Advice for Parents

    01:08:17 Conclusion and Next Steps

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ CHECK OUT Ashley’s $9 training for building collaborative teams: https://ashleybarlowco.com/video-2-from-tension-to-teamwork-harnessing-conflict-for-iep-success

    ⚡️FOLLOW Ashley on Instagram @thecollaborativeiep

    ⚡️ TAKE ACTION and download the 5 calls app and start making calls

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

    Instagram @the.dr.tay

    TikTok @the.dr.tay

    LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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    Dr. Tay welcomes Mercedes Palermo to discuss her experiences as a parent of an autistic daughter diagnosed with ARFID. Mercedes shares her journey, from the initial diagnosis to managing daily challenges, while highlighting her advocacy efforts in spreading awareness. The episode covers key issues like understanding avoidant/restrictive food intake disorder (ARFID), balancing the needs of siblings, and creating supportive environments. Mercedes also talks about her initiatives, including a nonprofit providing recreational programs for individuals with disabilities, emphasizing the importance of community support and neurodiversity.

    00:00 Introduction and Guest Announcement

    00:28 Meet Mercedes Palermo

    01:18 Dr. Tay's Background and Podcast Purpose

    02:28 Mercedes' Family and Autism Journey

    04:08 Diagnosis Process and Early Signs

    06:59 Challenges and Advocacy

    10:14 Understanding ARFID

    12:50 Navigating ARFID and Family Dynamics

    30:35 Community Building and Support

    36:13 Final Thoughts and Resources

    37:26 Closing Remarks and Next Steps

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ Follow Mercedes on Instagram @autismoutloud

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

    Instagram @the.dr.tay

    TikTok @the.dr.tay

    LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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    Dr. Tay is joined by Dr. Michelle Fardella, a clinical and school psychologist from Canada, to discuss the critical topic of sex education for autistic youth. The conversation covers various aspects, including the importance of proactive sex education, teaching body autonomy, consent, and addressing misconceptions. They delve into barriers faced by autistic youth in accessing comprehensive sex education and emphasize safety and appropriate teaching methods. Additionally, the episode touches on gender identity, sexual orientation, and provides practical resources for parents and educators. Trigger warnings and the importance of seeking support are also highlighted to ensure a safe and informative discussion.

    00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

    00:29 Meet Dr. Michelle Fardella

    02:43 Trigger Warning and Sensitive Topics

    03:57 Dr. Fardella's Background and Passion

    06:26 Challenges in Sex Education for Autistic Youth

    08:09 Importance of Tailored Sex Education

    10:27 Parental Mindset and Barriers

    18:03 Starting Early: Teaching Consent and Safety

    20:01 Navigating Discomfort and Finding Safe Persons

    23:43 The Accidental Exposure to Pornography

    23:58 Discussing Pornography with Young Children

    25:11 Proactive Conversations About Intercourse

    26:04 Addressing Misconceptions from Pornography

    28:13 Honesty in Answering Kids' Questions

    30:10 Resources for Teaching Sexual Health

    32:46 Masturbation: Education and Safety

    36:00 Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation

    41:04 Conclusion and Additional Resources

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ find resources for talking about these topics on Dr. Michelle’s blog >> https://www.wondertreepractice.ca/post/a-caregiver-s-guide-to-teaching-sex-education-to-neurodivergent-youth

    ⚡️follow WonderTree Practice on Instagram and learn more about their services here if you’re in Ontario

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

    Instagram @the.dr.tay

    TikTok @the.dr.tay

    LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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    In this episode, Dr. Tay, a licensed child psychologist and parental coach, speaks with Dr. Mona Amin, a board-certified pediatrician known for her social media presence as PedsDocTalk. They discuss critical aspects of navigating the journey of raising an autistic child, including effective strategies for interacting with pediatricians, advocating for necessary accommodations, and understanding the nuances of autism diagnosis. Dr. Mona shares insights on the importance of continual learning for clinicians and collaboration between professionals and parents. The conversation also addresses handling common challenges such as anxiety, behavioral issues, and medical fears in autistic children. This episode is a valuable resource for parents and professionals alike, providing practical tips and underscoring the significance of empathy and communication in pediatric care.

    00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

    00:31 Meet Dr. Mona Amin

    02:50 Dr. Mona's Online Education Journey

    05:32 Navigating Autism Diagnosis

    07:44 State Differences in Autism Diagnosis

    10:58 Screening Tools and Challenges

    15:11 Parental Advocacy and Pediatrician Collaboration

    19:27 Collaborations and Resources

    25:38 Accommodations for Autistic Patients

    26:28 Understanding Accommodations for Autistic Children

    26:57 Creating a Low-Stim Environment

    27:50 Effective Communication with Autistic Children

    28:28 Handling Medical Procedures with Care

    31:47 Addressing Anxiety and Medical Fears

    32:18 Role-Playing and Preparation at Home

    33:04 Strategies for Reducing Stress in Medical Settings

    34:31 Training Medical Staff for Better Care

    40:08 Procedures and Special Considerations

    41:26 Addressing Sleep, Feeding, and Behavior Issues

    47:10 Final Thoughts and Resources

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ continue learning and connecting with Dr. Mona @pedsdoctalk on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, podcast, and her website.

    ⚡️ watch Dr. Mona and Andi Putt @mrsspeechiep's YouTube video on autism characteristics and signs here.

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

    Instagram @the.dr.tay

    TikTok @the.dr.tay

    LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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    Dr. Tay shares a real-time update on US policy changes and their impact for autistic individuals and neurodiversity affirming supports. This episode was recorded and published on Jan 29th, 2025 and addresses topics such as DEI, Medicaid, NIH, gender recognition, ICE, and Elon Musk. This episode is not intended to be a news source but instead encourages you to stay informed and presents the implications for the neurodiversity affirming movement. If you feel passionate about neurodiversity and autistic supports, this is a must-listen.

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

    Instagram @the.dr.tay

    TikTok @the.dr.tay

    LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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    In this episode, Dr. Tay is joined by school psychologist Briana Drimmer to explore the complexities of school eligibility criteria for autism. They discuss the differences between medical diagnoses and educational eligibility, the role of an IEP team, and how to advocate for your autistic child within the school system. The episode also covers the educational impact, specially designed instruction, and other common eligibility categories such as OHI and ED. Tune in to learn how to effectively navigate the school system and ensure your child receives the support they need.

    00:00 Introduction to School and Autism Eligibility

    00:36 Meet Briana Drimmer: School Psychologist

    01:34 Navigating School Systems vs. Clinical Diagnoses

    04:21 Understanding the IEP Team

    05:31 The Process of School Evaluation for Autism

    08:13 Challenges and Denials in the Evaluation Process

    14:52 Eligibility Criteria for Autism in Schools

    21:58 Differences Between DSM and IDEA Criteria

    30:58 Understanding Educational Impact Beyond Grades

    31:05 Communication and Social Challenges

    31:35 Emotional and Adaptive Skills

    31:59 Mobility and Academic Examples

    32:27 Curiosity and Broader Definitions

    32:59 Specially Designed Instruction

    35:10 Accommodations vs. Special Education

    36:27 The Role of 504 Plans

    38:21 Specialized Academic Instruction

    39:24 Behavioral and Counseling Services

    42:33 Navigating School Systems and Advocacy

    51:10 Co-Occurring Diagnoses and Eligibility

    57:32 Final Thoughts and Resources

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ Follow Briana on Instagram @educationallypsyched

    ⚡️ Check out her resources on Teachers Pay Teachers

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

    Instagram @the.dr.tay

    TikTok @the.dr.tay

    LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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    In this episode, Dr. Tay hosts Marissa Ramos, a bilingual English/ASL speech therapist, to discuss the benefits of incorporating sign language into communication strategies for autistic and hard of hearing children. They dive into the overlapping needs of these children, the surprisingly low percentage of speech therapists who are fluent in ASL, and share insights on the importance of early language exposure. Marissa also discusses her personal journey with ASL and her advocacy for its broader use in therapy. The conversation highlights the significance of multimodal communication and introduces listeners to resources for learning and integrating ASL into everyday practice.

    00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview

    03:28 Marissa's Background and Journey into ASL

    05:36 Understanding Deaf Culture and Terminology

    09:26 The Power of ASL in Early Childhood

    13:13 Neurodiversity Affirming Approaches to ASL

    17:06 Sign Language as a Form of Communication

    20:20 Spoken Language vs AAC: Efficiency and Accessibility

    21:25 Understanding the Difference: ASL vs AAC

    22:34 The Benefits of Teaching Sign Language

    25:11 Statistics on Hearing Loss in Autistic Children

    28:15 The Importance of Multimodal Communication

    33:12 Language Deprivation Syndrome

    37:19 Resources for Learning ASL

    39:10 Conclusion and Next Steps

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ connect with Marissa on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook

    ⚡️ check out her resources, including the free 100 word checklist here

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

    Instagram @the.dr.tay

    TikTok @the.dr.tay

    LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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    In this episode, Dr. Tay welcomes Iris Wong, a speech-language pathologist, executive functioning coach, and late diagnosed AuDHD mother with ND children to discuss the importance of executive functions. The conversation covers the definition of executive functions, how they manifest in daily life, and particularly how they impact autistic and ADHD children. They explore practical examples and strategies to support executive functioning skills, focusing on using special interests and leveraging AI tools. This episode emphasizes the importance of understanding individual brain patterns and provides resources for continued learning.

    00:00 Introduction to Executive Functions

    00:27 Meet Iris Wong: A Journey Through Neurodivergence

    01:11 Understanding Executive Functions in Daily Life

    01:29 Welcome to A Parenting Space Designed for You

    02:48 Iris Wong's Personal and Professional Background

    04:31 The Role of Executive Functions in Family Dynamics

    06:53 Challenges and Strategies for Parents

    08:45 Defining Executive Functions

    15:45 Executive Functions and PDA Profile

    18:33 Navigating Burnout and Executive Functions

    21:46 Real-Life Examples and Practical Advice

    23:25 Flexible Schooling and Self-Care Tasks

    25:26 Understanding Body Doubling in Schools

    25:51 Navigating Self-Care with EF Challenges

    26:43 Innovative Self-Care Strategies

    27:54 Supporting Neurodivergent Adults

    28:44 Accommodations for Executive Functioning

    29:43 Demand Avoidance and Overwhelm

    30:04 Personal Stories and EF Challenges

    31:55 Special Interests and EF Skills

    42:28 The Role of AI in Supporting EF

    45:14 Resources and Final Thoughts

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ Follow Iris on Instagram

    ⚡️ Learn about her resources >> www.eftoolkit.com

    ⚡️ Check out her book all things EF >> https://akidsco.com/products/a-kids-book-about-executive-functioning

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

    Instagram @the.dr.tay

    TikTok @the.dr.tay

    LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

    *please note: PDA is referenced in this episode. it is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

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    In this final episode of 2024, Dr. Tay recaps the top 10 most downloaded podcast episodes of the year, reflecting on the amazing growth and impact of the show. The podcast, focused on autism and parenting, has garnered significant attention with an average of 1,400 downloads per week recently, and a total of over 55,000 all-time downloads. Highlighted episodes include deep dives into PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), autism in females, low demand parenting, sensory regulation at home, and various therapeutic approaches. Dr. Tay also discusses future plans for monetization to enhance the podcast's reach and quality, including potential ads and sponsorships that align with the listeners' interests. Listeners are encouraged to provide feedback and topic suggestions for future episodes. Happy New Year and looking forward to the exciting developments in 2025!

    00:00 Welcome and Episode Recap Introduction

    00:51 Podcast Analytics and Listener Engagement

    02:32 Future Plans and Monetization

    03:58 Top Episode #1: What is PDA?

    05:18 Top Episodes #2-5: PDA and Beyond

    10:48 Top Episodes #6-10: Autism Insights and Alternatives

    19:26 Honorable Mentions and Listener Appreciation

    20:37 Closing Remarks and Future Outlook

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

    Instagram @the.dr.tay

    TikTok @the.dr.tay

    LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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    Dr. Tay discusses the pressures of modern life, the need for human connection, and the importance of being present. She reflects on her experiences from the past year, including her professional milestones and personal growth, emphasizing the importance of celebrating accomplishments instead of always striving for more. Dr. Tay also talks about her upcoming plans, including the highly-anticipated membership launch. As she recaps the year, Dr. Tay invites listeners to focus on their own growth and wins, and to remember that epic fails do not define them, but how they recover and move forward does.

    00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

    00:22 Personal Reflections and Social Media Insights

    02:19 The Importance of Slowing Down

    03:27 Taylor Swift and Personal Growth

    07:13 Holiday Season Reflections

    10:41 Epic Fail and Business Update

    13:33 Neuro Affirming Care and Personal Growth

    14:10 Balancing Work and Personal Life

    15:00 The Membership Journey

    17:17 Reflecting on Achievements and Failures

    23:35 Parenting and Personal Development

    24:42 Wrapping Up and Looking Forward

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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    Dr. Tay hosts Betsy Hicks (@betsyonthego) who discusses her journey parenting her 31-year-old non-speaking autistic son, Joey. The conversation delves into Betsy's experiences with autism awareness over the years, the impact of nutrition on Joey's behavior, and the significant breakthrough they experienced with Spelling to Communicate. Betsy shares the process and emotional experience of Joey moving out and gaining independence, emphasizing the importance of following one's intuition as a parent. Dr. Tay and Betsy also address the challenges and nuances of parenting within the autism community and the role of social media in providing support and spreading awareness.

    00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview

    02:23 Betsy's Journey Begins

    03:40 Discovering the Impact of Diet

    04:27 A New Chapter with John

    05:55 The Shift in Understanding Autism

    07:34 Spelling to Communicate

    09:14 Reflections and Insights

    15:25 Navigating Social Media and Advocacy

    29:27 Joey's Progress and Moving Out

    31:54 Realizing Children's Independence

    33:44 Joey's New Caregiver: Nick's Story

    35:29 The Apartment Community's Support

    42:03 Navigating Section 8 Housing

    45:39 Balancing Caregiving and Independence

    49:25 The Importance of Nutrition

    54:30 Wrapping Up and Final Thoughts

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ Follow Betsy @betsyonthego on TikTok and Instagram and learn about her resources betsyonthego.com

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

    Instagram @the.dr.tay

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  • In this heartfelt mini-episode, Dr. Tay sheds light on the disturbing practice of using seclusion rooms for dysregulated children, often presented under names like 'calm down rooms' or 'regulation rooms.' Highlighting the traumatic impact of these practices, Dr. Tay empowers parents with information on how to identify and advocate against the use of these rooms. The episode includes practical tips for parents on educating themselves about state laws, inquiring about school policies in IEP meetings, and proposing proactive, humane solutions. Dr. Tay calls for community unity in advocating for neurodiversity-affirming care and ensuring autistic children are treated with dignity and respect.

    00:00 Introduction to a Difficult Topic

    00:29 Understanding Seclusion Rooms

    01:42 Real-Life Stories and Impact

    02:56 Advocating for Change

    08:32 Proactive Strategies and Solutions

    15:35 Final Thoughts and Call to Action

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

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  • ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

    in this episode, Dr. Tay talks about helpful tips and strategies for autism families navigating the holiday season. we discuss the importance of preparing for potential disruptions to routines, setting realistic expectations, giving choices, and setting boundaries. Dr. Tay addresses several elements including helping your child anticipate upcoming events, being mindful of safe foods, empowering your child by involving them in the process, and handling comments from others. there is an emphasis on the importance of being present during these moments and cherishing the progress that your child has made since the last holiday season.

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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  • In this special mini-episode Dr. Tay, a child psychologist specializing in autism, discusses how extended family members can better support parents of autistic children during the holiday season. Drawing on over a decade of experience and direct feedback from parents, Dr. Tay shares practical advice, such as understanding triggers, recognizing the effort parents put into preparing for events, and ways to offer meaningful help. This episode is what your loved one wants you to know! A special thank you to the parents who submitted their insights and are featured on this episode.

    00:00 Introduction to the Podcast

    01:12 Understanding Autism and Neurodiversity

    02:21 Holiday Support for Autistic Children

    03:29 Parental Insights and Requests

    06:38 Common Misunderstandings and Challenges

    15:07 Sensory and Social Considerations

    18:38 Creating a Supportive Environment for Neurodivergent Children

    19:05 Offering Help and Dropping Judgment

    20:21 Understanding Meltdowns and Neurodivergence

    21:11 Challenges in Getting Diagnoses and Support

    21:51 Validating Parents' Efforts and Experiences

    23:23 Navigating Family Traditions and Accommodations

    27:18 Grief and Emotional Complexity in Parenting

    32:08 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

    Instagram @the.dr.tay

    TikTok @the.dr.tay

    LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

  • In this episode, Dr. Tay welcomes back Ashley Barlow, a special education attorney and advocate, for her third appearance. The discussion dives into the complexities of special education disputes, specifically focusing on mediation, due process, and parental rights. They explore the challenges parents face with school systems, legal options available, and the importance of advocacy and negotiation. Essential resources and strategies for navigating these situations are also shared, providing parents with valuable insights to better support their children’s education.

    00:00 Introduction and Guest Reintroduction

    00:33 Overview of Today's Topic

    01:18 Host and Guest Backgrounds

    02:43 Challenges in Special Education

    03:59 Navigating Special Education Law

    05:21 Advocacy and Negotiation Strategies

    10:36 Understanding Due Process

    23:32 Legal Counteractions in School Disputes

    24:05 Understanding Independent Educational Evaluations (IEE)

    24:43 Financial Considerations and Attorney Fees

    26:24 The Role of Due Process in Special Education

    28:50 Navigating 504 Plans and Anti-Discrimination Laws

    36:44 Alternative Approaches to Due Process

    41:32 Final Thoughts and Resources for Parents

    44:08 Wrap-Up and Next Steps

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️ listen to episodes 53 and 57 for more information about special education from Ashley as well as her podcast The Collaborative IEP

    ⚡️ see all that Ashley has to offer here, including her newly launched IEP Guru Academy

    ⚡️ follow Ashley on Instagram @thecollaborativeiep

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

    Instagram @the.dr.tay

    TikTok @the.dr.tay

    LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

    *please note: PDA is referenced in this episode. it is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

  • In this episode, Dr. Tay invites Alyssa Campbell of Seed & Sew to discuss the importance of supporting autistic students at a classroom-wide level, particularly focusing on their nervous system and sensory regulation. Alyssa, with her extensive background in early childhood education and emotional development, shares insights and practical strategies for creating sensory-friendly environments and understanding individual sensory profiles. They explore the benefits of proactive versus reactive strategies in educational settings, the vital role of teachers and parents in advocating for proper supports, and the importance of normalizing neurodiverse needs to foster inclusive learning spaces for all students. The episode is filled with actionable insights that are beneficial for educators, parents, and anyone involved in the care and development of autistic children.

    00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

    00:48 Meet Alyssa Campbell: Expert in Emotional Development

    01:58 Dr. Tay's Background and Mission

    03:33 Alyssa's Journey and Collaborative Emotion Processing Method

    04:12 Understanding Sensory Regulation and Nervous System

    18:00 Practical Applications in the Classroom

    20:34 Supporting Sensory Needs in Education

    25:19 Parental and Teacher Collaboration

    25:58 Understanding Early Childhood Sensory Responses

    27:17 Proactive Strategies in Schools

    35:13 Supporting Teachers and Parents

    38:32 Managing Diverse Needs in the Classroom

    45:55 The Role of Occupational Therapy

    49:26 Resources and Final Thoughts

    RESOURCES

    ⚡️check out Alyssa and her parent-friendly resources, including the sensory quiz here: https://www.seedandsew.org/parents

    ⚡️check out her resources for teachers and schools, including her certification here: https://www.seedandsew.org/seedcertificationteachers

    ⚡️follow her on Instagram @seed.and.sew and listen to her podcast Voices of Your Village

    ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

    ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

    ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

    Instagram @the.dr.tay

    TikTok @the.dr.tay

    LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

    *please note: PDA is referenced in this episode. it is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110