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What if a simple piece of paper could dictate the course of your life's most personal decision? Today we unravel the world of Biodatas, questioning whether this 'marriage resume' truly captures the essence of a person or merely reflects outdated societal norms. From personal stories of arranged marriage proposals to the cultural expectations that surround them, we shed light on the double standards and frustrations that come with being judged by family prestige and hierarchical status.
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In this episode, we join you on the listening side, as Nida K. shares her twenty-year journey searching for marriage. She opens up about the challenges she faced, the lessons she learned, and her hopes for the future. If you're someone on the journey to marriage, this episode will relate to you in one way or another.
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Why are so many single Muslims still struggling to find a match despite an ocean of options? Using relatable analogies and personal experiences, we explore why having a plethora of matrimonial avenues doesn’t necessarily make the quest for a partner any easier. Is it a lack of awareness? Misunderstanding how to leverage these resources? We untangle these questions and more.
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Join us as we welcome Baba Ali, the man who got us married and the founder of Half Our Deen, a platform revolutionizing matchmaking for Muslims. Baba Ali shares his entertaining and insightful journey, challenging societal norms and debunking the stigma around online matrimonial services. With a mix of humor and wisdom, we explore how finding love isn't always about that first glance, but rather about choosing with intention and expert advice to cultivate successful marriages. Our conversation takes a thoughtful turn as we examine the intricate gender roles and responsibilities within modern marriages.
Want to learn more about Half Our Deen? click here and here. And make sure to follow Baba Ali on Instagram
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Things we didn't expect when we decided to become matchmakers. Which one surprised you the most?
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Zahra Hassan, a seasoned relationship coach with a transformative personal journey, shares her insights on building fulfilling marriages. After navigating the complexities of her divorce and remarriage, Zahra reveals the essential ingredients for choosing the right partner. Join us on this truly inspirational and informative episode to learn how to: identify the 4Cs, use rejections to your advantage, identify red flags, and understand subtle cues.
A podcaster herself, Zahra and her funny husband AJ dive deep into the topic of relationships and marriage on her podcast. Follow the Muslim Marriage Podcast on YouTube and the different podcasting platforms.
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In this episode we navigate the challenges of marrying someone from one’s home country, discussing the stigma and drawbacks, such as long-distance hurdles and the intricacies of the immigration processes. We stress the importance of self-awareness and assessing one's cultural connections when contemplating such a significant life decision. With an emphasis on keeping an open mind, we explore the pros and cons of this viable option.
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Prepare to revolutionize your understanding of intimacy in marriage with insights from Amirah Zaky, a faith-aligned sex educator and vaginismus expert. Amirah shares her personal struggles, shedding light on the significant gaps in sex education within the Muslim community. Through her journey, she highlights the vital importance of educating couples to prevent marital discord and divorce, dispelling harmful misconceptions and cultural myths that have no basis in Islam. In our conversation, Amirah recommends invaluable resources to support Muslims, both before and during marriage.
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Starting with the etymology of the word "Allah" and its intrinsic connection to love in Arabic, this episode delves into whether pre-marital love is acceptable and how it aligns with our deen. We'll navigate through common concerns, offering practical advice for those in love but not financially ready for marriage.
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Things we wish we could say to our clients, but find ourselves bound by the lines of courtesy and professionalism. This episode might sound like nothing but insensitive ranting but we promise you it's not. Listen to the end to understand why we decided to make this risky move and share what we had to share.
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Our story started with no fireworks but blossomed into a deep connection built on shared values and mutual understanding. Discover how we went from "this is a waste of time" to finding joy in our similarities, and learn why patience and realistic expectations might just be the key to your next great relationship.
Today we challenge the common misconception that chemistry has to be immediate. With insights from psychologist Dr. Kelly Campbell, we explore the scientific roles of dopamine and oxytocin in attraction and bonding. We discuss how chemistry can grow over time. -
Today we share the heartwarming story of one of our quickest matches, now happily engaged but facing family resistance to an early nikah. This couple's story sheds light on the broader challenges many face when trying to harmonize tradition with faith.
From the struggle to maintain formal interactions to the family fears surrounding early nikahs, we uncover the emotional and practical implications of delaying this essential Islamic ceremony. We discuss the possible stigmas around pre-wedding pregnancies and how these perceptions, although addressed within Islamic guidelines, continue to influence family decisions. Tune in to gain valuable insights into how to navigate these cultural pressures while staying true to your faith. -
In this episode we tackle the evolving dynamics around marriage timing within the Muslim community. We share candid reflections on how cultural expectations and economic pressures are pushing many to delay marriage.
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Is food compatibility a dealbreaker in your relationship? It certainly wasn't for us! Join us as we open up about our interracial marriage story. From navigating the intricate cultural differences to language challenges, our relationship proves that shared values and goals can triumph over any cultural barriers. We also unravel the broader hesitations that linger within the Muslim community regarding interracial marriages, and how a harmonious blend of Western and Islamic cultures can create a unique and fulfilling identity.
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What if the love of your life is halfway across the world—would you still give it a shot? Join us as we unravel the complexities of long-distance relationships, sharing our 14-month LDR story. We tackle the common fears and misconceptions that often hold people back from pursuing such partnerships. From the anxiety of moving away from family to the perceived risks involved, we challenge the notion that physical proximity is a make-or-break factor for successful relationships. Tune in to hear how successful relationships can flourish despite geographical hurdles, and why your soulmate might just be a plane ride away.
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Have you ever wondered why the concept of mahr is often misunderstood or misrepresented? Join us on this episode as we share the unique mahr request that marked the beginning of our marriage. We contrast our experience with the sky-high mahr demands common in various cultures that often overshadow the true purpose of mahr.
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What happens when a seemingly harmless joke about seeking a second wife turns into a heated confrontation? Hear the firsthand account of a memorable encounter at a festival in London, where a husband's tasteless sense of humor sparked a family dispute.
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If you're a parent with a son/daughter at the age of marriage, then this episode is for you. In this one we explore the complex dynamics between parental approval and the matchmaking journey, sharing personal stories and client experiences. Tune in for invaluable advice to parents on upholding their child's happiness and rights, grounded in faith and love.
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What if the key to finding your perfect match on matrimonial websites lies in the way you present yourself? In this episode we uncover the art and science behind creating a compelling matrimonial profile. We break down the essential elements of authenticity and how presenting your true self can attract the right people. Learn how to articulate your strengths while maintaining a genuine and relatable profile. This episode is packed with actionable tips to ensure your profile stands out and truly reflects who you are and what you bring to a relationship.
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Today I, Hiba, open up and share what I haven't shared with anyone about my journey searching for marriage. The mistakes I made taught me a lot about myself and about the world. And despite how challenging it was, they brought me closer to finding my true love, Zaid.
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