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Money talks before marriage donât have to be cringey, theyâre actually a must. We brought in Jesse Reitberger, an Islamic finance expert and founder of Canadian Islamic Wealth, to break down why itâs not about the salary number, but how that moneyâs made. Spoiler: halal income beats a fat paycheck every time.
Jesse drops gems like the $10K question, halal mortgage hacks, and why men need to own their provider role while recognizing the reality of dual incomes today. Plus, his top tip? Start saving now, even $25 a month can seriously change the game. Whether youâre single, engaged, or just curious, this episode is packed with straight talk and smart advice.
Get in touch with Jesse at: https://manzil.ca/wealth
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đš Heads up: If you only listen to one episode of this podcast, make it this one. Weâre obsessed.
What if preparing for marriage wasnât about ticking more boxes, but about aligning your effort with purpose, intention, and barakah? We sat down with Muhammed Faris, founder of Productive Muslim, and the conversation honestly blew us away. He unpacks what productivity actually means for single Muslims, and itâs not what you think.
We talk about shifting from hustle to heart. From scarcity to trust. From doing more to doing it better, with Allah in mind. Faris shares practical tools and deep mindset shifts that can completely change how you approach your search for a spouse. Itâs grounding, insightful, and exactly what we needed to hear, and we have a feeling you might feel the same.Follow The Productive Muslim on Instagram.
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Letâs be honest, courting can feel like a weird mix of awkward silences and overly intense âSo, where do you see yourself in five years?â vibes. Today, we're sharing a better way: playful, thought-provoking activities designed to spark real connection without killing the vibe.
These arenât your typical icebreakers. One minute youâre ranking your top values, the next youâre arguing (respectfully!) over whether a $3,000 mattress is worth the splurge. And in the process, youâre learning how someone thinks, what they prioritize, and how they deal with pressure or disagreement.
The best part? You might learn a few things about yourself too. Because compatibility isnât just about knowing the other person, itâs also about understanding what matters to you.
So if youâre navigating the courting world and want less awkwardness, more depth, and maybe a few laughs along the way, this episodeâs for you.
Curious to try these games yourself? The Compatibility Challenge lives here: Amazon or halalmatch.ca.
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Ghosting sucks, especially when youâre serious about marriage. You start overthinking: Did I say something wrong? Is it my looks? But usually, itâs not about you. In this episode we get real about ghosting, from both sides. Zaid admits he once micro-ghosted because he couldnât be honest, while Hiba shares the pain of being left hanging. We break down why ghosting happens so much in Muslim courting, why silence feels âeasier,â and what Islam says about honest communication.
Been ghosted or done the ghosting? This episodeâs for you. Share your story on the Single Muslim Hotline!
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You made istikhara... now you're just confused, dreamless, and wondering whatâs next. Sound familiar? If you're in the marriage search scene, you've probably bumped into the mysterious world of istikhara, or worse, been "istikharaâd" (aka ghosted with a religious excuse).
Today weâre breaking down what istikhara is really about: seeking goodness from Allah, not outsourcing your decisions. Weâre busting myths and sharing real stories from our matchmaking experiences where istikhara was misused as an emotional escape hatch.
Whether you're about to say yes to a proposal or just curious, this episode will help you make decisions with your heart, mind, and faith aligned. Plus we have a funny blooper for you to enjoy!
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What do you do when your dad turns into a one-man dating app filter⊠and swipes left on everyone? In this episode weâre talking about something major: when your fatherâs wilayah (guardianship) can actually be removed. Yep, itâs a thing, and itâs not taken lightly.
Weâre diving into real stories, like the woman who aged out of her prime while her parents waited for Mr. Perfect Ethnic Match, and another whose mom basically ran the rejection department. We break down what wilayah is really supposed to be, how it's misused, and what to do if you're stuck in a no-win situation.
Hit download if youâve ever wondered: Is this protection⊠or control? And send this to a friend who's been âalmost marriedâ 17 times.
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Misyar marriageâhalal but hotly debated. In this episode, we break down what it actually is, why some people turn to it, and why scholars arenât exactly cheering it on. Think: waived rights, complicated intentions, and a whole lot of ethical gray area. We cover everything from divorced moms looking for companionship to men using it as a loopholeâand why thatâs a problem. With shifting gender roles and evolving needs, Misyar is becoming more common, but is it the right move? We get into the real talk: when it works, when it hurts, and what to know before diving in.
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What happens when a student catches feelings... for her professor? And what if he feels the same but can't say a word until the semester ends? This isn't your average love story. Itâs a journey shaped by quiet moments, bold choices, and some family drama that challenged what they thought love would look like. Now 25 years in, they're sharing how it all started and what kept them going.
This episode is for every Muslim single who still believes in love. Donât miss it.
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"I wish she gave me more attention.. Why do I have to beg for intimacy?.. Maybe I should consider a second wife!"
Today we're unpacking a trend weâre seeing more often: men considering polygamy, and women actually open to it. While polygamy is part of our faith, itâs not a free pass for avoiding deeper issues in a marriage.
We also talk about the practical side: the legal messiness of polygamy in the West (itâs actually criminal in Canada), the emotional toll on everyone involved, and why itâs not always the solution people think it is.
This episode isnât here to judge, but to offer a real talk on whatâs halal, whatâs practical, and what might need more therapy than a second nikah. Give it a listen. You might come out with more questions than answers (and thatâs kind of the point).
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In this episode, weâre diving into the world of halal courting with the incredible Lama Aboubakr, a relationship coach who specializes in helping Muslims attract the right person they truly deserve. Letâs face itâsometimes, past experiences and old patterns can hold us back from finding the fulfilling relationship we long for. But Lamaâs here to show us how to break free from those cycles and shift our mindset.
Lama shares powerful insights on building self-awareness, understanding attachment styles, and improving communicationâall crucial steps in attracting the right partner. Her approach helps you work on yourself, so you can become the kind of person who not only deserves a great relationship but is ready to build one too.
Tune in to discover how to approach the search for a spouse with confidence, patience, and clarity, knowing that when you do the inner work, the right person will come your way.
Check out Lama's website here and follow her on Instagram here.
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"Muslim Matchmaker" is making waves, and weâre diving deep into it. In this episode, we break down whether the show hits or misses when it comes to Islamic courtship. Does it reflect our values, or are there some glaring mismatches? We chat about the show's ideas and how it stacks up against other matchmaking shows. Does the flashy aesthetic add anything meaningful, or is it just for the 'gram?
Our conversation goes beyond just the drama. Itâs about the principles that should drive real connections, grounded in faith. We want to spark some reflection and critical thinking on how these portrayals shape the way we view relationships and the Muslim community. Trust us, you wonât want to miss this one!
We'd love to hear your opinion on the show, even if you disagree. Feel free to leave a comment or send an email.
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Starting over after a breakup or divorce? We know itâs not easy, but youâre not alone. In this episode, we sit down with therapist Sarah Sultan to talk about what it really takes to heal, grow, and move forward with confidence.
We discuss how to recognize red flags you might have missed the first time around and how to rebuild your self-worth so youâre not carrying past baggage into something new. We also cover the importance of finding clarity on what you need in a spouse, and why you should focus on becoming whole before looking for someone to complete you. If youâre ready to stop feeling stuck and start seeing this as a fresh beginning, this episode is for you.
Follow Sarah on Instagram, or email her directly at: [email protected]
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If youâve ever downloaded a Muslim 'dating' app full of hope, only to find yourself drowning in awkward chats, ghosting, and people who donât seem to know why theyâre there⊠we get it. Itâs exhausting.
In this episode, weâre talking about the real struggles of apps; the disappointments, the confusion, and the moments that make you want to delete them forever. Weâre also sharing tips on how to navigate them in a way that actually moves you forward. Because if youâre going to put yourself out there, you deserve to do it in a way that protects your mind, your heart, and your intentions. Tune in and bismillah.
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Today we're spilling the tea on how social media is turning our brains into mush when it comes to marriage expectations. From scrolling through picture-perfect weddings to comparing our own love lives to influencer highlight reels. Weâve all been there, feeling FOMO because your friendâs husband just bought her a Ferrari, while youâre getting excited about a new couch. Whether youâre married or still in the "single and scrolling" phase, we get into how social media makes us rush into things or feel like our lives just arenât up to par. So, if youâve ever wondered why your marriage doesnât look like an Instagram post or felt like youâre missing out on a hashtag-worthy moment, tune in! Itâs time to laugh, reflect, and hopefully put the phone down for a second.
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In this episode, weâre diving into the classic âI have a career, but Iâm not paying for anythingâ dilemma. You know, the one where women are out here making bank, but somehow, itâs still all on the man to cover the bills. Weâre keeping it real and exploring the balance (or lack thereof) between having a career and contributing to the household financially. Weâre not here to judge. Just a little honest chat with a side of humor to keep things light.
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In this episode, weâre joined by Habeeb Akande, a sex educator and Muslim erotologist, to challenge outdated views on intimacy in Islam. Heâs here to remind us of the true Islamic teachings on relationships. Think consent, mutual respect, and yes, female pleasure, and how cultural norms and misinformation have twisted our understanding of intimacy.
We also dive into how to read religious teachings the right way, without getting stuck in outdated, stuffy views. Plus, we tackle real-life topics like STIs and porn addiction. Tune in for a fresh take on sex and pleasure.
Habeeb is the founder of Erotology Institute For Sacred Pleasur and the author of many books. Find him on his website , on Amazon, and on InstagramGot a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! Weâll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note đđ»
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What does it mean to lead in a marriage? For men, itâs not about being bossy; itâs about responsibility, humility, and knowing when to step up. For women, itâs about recognizing those qualities before you commit.
In this episode, we explore the Prophet's leadership in his family and how it sets the gold standard for modern Muslim marriages. Weâll talk about what real leadership looks like, beyond the big speeches and fancy words, and how itâs built on trust, communication, and action.
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In this episode, we dive into the awkward, and sometimes painful journey of figuring that out. From emotional maturity to basic life skills (yes, knowing how to cook counts), weâre keeping it real and relatable. Spoiler: If you think âromanticâ means sending memes at 2 a.m., you might want to tune in. Weâre sharing stories, tips, and a few laughs to help you level up for the marriage game. Letâs find out if youâre ready to say âI doââor if you need a little more practice folding laundry first!
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In this episode, we dive into the impact of trauma on single Muslims, especially how past experiences shape relationships. A trauma-informed coach joins us; Hana Alasry who shares insights on the importance of hope in healing and how the Prophet (PBUH) navigated immense personal loss with resilience, trusting in Allahâs Qadr. We also discuss how small triggers can lead to emotional breakdowns and the need to reach out for help, even with the cultural stigma around it. This conversation is a powerful reminder that healing is not only possible but essential, and with faith, even the deepest wounds can transform into strength.
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In this episode, we dive into the concept of soulmates; are they just a rom-com myth, or is there something deeper? We explore the idea from an Islamic perspective, discuss the role of qadr (divine decree), and unpack why "waiting for Mr./Mrs. Perfect" might be holding you back. Spoiler alert: marriage isn't the end of the story. Join us for a fun, insightful chat that might just change the way you see "happily ever after."
Brought to you by your favorite matchmakers; Hiba and Zaid with opinions on everything, including Robert Downey Jr.âs early movies.
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