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In this engaging podcast episode, host Simon interviews Johan, also known as B8tem8te, a product designer and passionate member of the bating community. Johan shares his personal journey with masturbation, discussing how it has provided him with control and self-discovery, especially after experiencing a toxic relationship. The conversation delves into the perceptions of the bating community within the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, the importance of communication in relationships, and how Johan navigates his current relationship with a fellow bator. He emphasizes the significance of being open about one's sexual preferences and the joy he finds in the bating community. In this conversation, B8tem8te discusses various aspects of bating, including the use of poppers, the thrill of self-pleasure, and the excitement of outdoor bating. He contrasts the experiences of bating in person versus on camera, emphasizing the importance of establishing rules for group bating. B8tem8te also shares insights into the creation of the Batemates platform, the challenges faced in building an adult platform, and the significance of user feedback. He addresses age verification challenges and highlights upcoming features and updates for the Batemates app.
Takeaways
Masturbation offers control and self-discovery. Toxic relationships can impact one's sexual health. The bating community faces stigma and misunderstanding. Communication is key in any relationship. Masturbation can be a fulfilling part of sexuality. There is no 'normal' when it comes to sex. Transparency in relationships leads to happiness. bating can be a passion rather than an addiction. Personal preferences in sexual activities vary widely. Being open about one's sexual identity fosters connection. Poppers are enjoyable but not necessary for bating. Self-pleasure is a personal journey that can be done anywhere. Outdoor bating offers a thrilling sense of exposure. bating on cam provides a different excitement than in person. Establishing clear rules is essential for group bating. Group bating is preferred over one-on-one sessions. Creating a platform for bating requires addressing many challenges. User feedback is crucial for improving the Batemates app. Age verification is a legal necessity for adult platforms. Upcoming updates will enhance user experience and app functionality. -
In this engaging conversation, b8tem8te discuss the upcoming Batemates app, its features, and the excitement surrounding its launch. They delve into the importance of community within the bator world, exploring personal niches and the journey into gooning. The discussion highlights the vulnerability and self-exploration involved in gooning, as well as the impact of mainstream culture on this practice. Safety features of the Batemates platform are emphasized, ensuring a secure space for users to connect and explore their kinks. The conversation wraps up with personal experiences and the significance of gear in enhancing the bator experience, showcasing the diversity of kinks and preferences within the community.
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In this engaging conversation, SnifferBroSF shares his journey into the world of bating, discussing his experiences, kinks, and the importance of community. The dialogue explores the evolution of bating from high school to the pandemic, the mental and physical health benefits of masturbation, and the dynamics of relationships within the bating community. The conversation also touches on cultural perspectives, the challenges of coming out as a bator, and the excitement surrounding the upcoming Batemates app, designed to connect like-minded individuals.
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In this conversation, B8tem8te and BateBanditXL (X/Twitter) discuss their experiences with masturbation and the importance of community. They talk about how masturbation has evolved for them over the years and the role it plays in their sexual exploration and self-discovery as black men. BateBanditXL shares his journey into baiting and the significance of creating a community for bators of color and much more...
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In this episode B8tem8te meets with Paxx and Dré (@Paxx_and_Dre on Twitter/X), a Bators couple as they openly discuss their experiences as both bators and partners. They talk about how they balance masturbation with their sexual life and the importance of open communication. They also share their personal journeys of discovering and embracing their identities as bators. The conversation explores the challenges they have faced in previous relationships and the positive impact of being in a relationship with another bator. They discuss the intimate and bonding aspects of masturbation and the love they have for this form of sexual expression. The participants discuss the pleasure and intimacy of masturbation, the ritual and connection with oneself, and the concept of quality time and self-love. They also explore the experience of sharing their bate with others and the affirmation and love received from the community. The conversation delves into the dynamics of sharing the bate as a couple and the challenges and boundaries that come with it and much more...
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In this episode, B8tem8te and Unexpected Pig explore the therapeutic and meditative aspect of bating, while our guest opens up about the sensitive topic of being a bator in a relationship. They delve into balancing this aspect of themselves with intercourse in the relationship. This leads to a broader discussion on finding confidence and authenticity through bating, emphasizing the importance of communicating and acceptance in sexual education.
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In this enlightening episode, join B8tem8te as he delves into an intimate conversation with DV, a seasoned Bator hailing from the icy expanses of Alaska. Together, they explore the compelling art of vocal expression during masturbation, revealing how the power of voice can not only guide but also intensify the experience. They share insights on fostering connections with fellow men through masturbation, offering a perspective on its advantages over traditional intercourse. Beyond the physical, they candidly discuss the use of poppers, shedding light on both its appealing and cautionary aspects. The discussion also celebrates the unique bond formed within the bator community, highlighting the deep friendships that emerge from shared experiences. Tune in to discover the unspoken layers of intimacy and camaraderie in this candid exploration of male bonding and sexuality.
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In this compelling episode, b8tem8te sits down with Coolb8trr, for an enlightening conversation that delves into a range of topics surrounding Masturbation and self-identity. Together, they explore masturbation not only as a sexual act but as a journey of self-discovery and liberation. Matt shares his personal journey of overcoming addictions, highlighting the unexpected benefits of bating and the profound impact it has had on his relationship with his body. Furthermore, the discussion takes a meaningful turn as Matt opens up about his experiences as a person of color within the gay and bator communities, shedding light on the unique challenges and perspectives that come with it. This episode promises to be an insightful exploration of intimacy, self-acceptance, and the diverse experiences that shape our sexual identities.
