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Nathan Hammerle is a sexual wellness educator and novelty specialist from central Ohio where the older kids faked them out and gave all the younger kids anxiety about the sex ed videos they had to watch about puberty.
Some things we said...
"Sex is messy and weird and we're gonna fuck up and just like, keep going."
"Safety is the foundation of any successful kink scene."
"How can we get more creative in bed?"
"I loved doing...that's how I sort of transitioned from history teaching into sexual wellness."
"There's room for everyone, but there's a responsibility...that everybody does their homework in this space."
"Electro play is fun...it's not all about pain."
... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!
LA Couples Intimacy Workshop with Arielle on 5/15: https://www.ariellezadok.com/workshops/couplesintimacy
LA Sensual Movement Soundbath with Arielle & Sacred Sounds by Devon on 5/22: https://www.ariellezadok.com/workshops/soundbath
Where to find Nathan:
Intsta: @theshadesofnate
Where to find Arielle:
Insta: @ariellezadok & @birdsandbeesdontfck
Freebies, classes, OnlyFans and more: https://stan.store/ArielleZadok
K, love you, byeeeee
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Raye Schiller is a comedian, screenwriter and professional yenta originally from Queens, NY where they were raised as an Orthodox Jew. Yes, that means we are two Jews from New York which is obviously why this is the sexy yenta episode!
Some things we said...
"We're Jews. We have our own traumas."
"The gender thing was the reason I left. I couldn't exist in that world where I was a second class citizen."
"Relenting is not consenting. Just remember that. If you learn anything today, learn that relenting is not consenting."
"When you're in a subspace, you are, you're present, but you're like shut down, not shut. I don't want to use the language shut down, but you're so, you're like in a trance."
... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!
LA Couples Intimacy Workshop with Arielle on 5/15: https://www.ariellezadok.com/workshops/couplesintimacy
Where to find Raye:
Intsta: @rayeschiller TikTok: @rayeschiller https://www.rayeschiller.com/Where to find Arielle:
Insta: @ariellezadok Freebie! https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com/ Be my DaddyK, love you, byeeeee
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Dr. Alix Agar is a Clinical Sexologist and one of LA’s top Sex Therapists originally from Oakville Ontario where her mom was the cool mom to create safe spaces for her, and all her friends. A literal hero.
In this episode we talk about:
02:06 Early Experiences as a Dancer 03:34 Bonding Experiences through Travel 04:04 Exploring Power Dynamics and Relationships Working On a Cruise Ship 05:55 Open Communication and Supportive Parenting 09:16 The Role of Parents in Sex Education 13:24 The Power of Self-Disclosure in Therapy 21:32 Disarming Clients and Normalizing Experiences 23:00 Spoiler… Therapists Hav Biases! 26:23 Harm Reduction!! 31:23 Lack of Sex Education in Therapy Programs 39:39 Defining Boundaries and Scope of Practice 41:33 You Gotta Like Your Therapist! 44:15 Sex and Politics - They’re unfortunately intertwined! 45:37 Religion's Impact on Sexuality 47:59 The Cruelty of Sex Education 51:36 The Importance of Embracing Childhood Curiosity 59:40 Find Your Community and Get SupportYou can find Dr. Alix on Instagram at @dralixagar and her website https://dralixagar.com/
Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
LOS ANGELES: Join me on Wednesday May 15th for a Couples Intimacy Workshop at Zula Den where we'll be exploring arousal, gaining practical sexy communication tools and embaring on a journey of sensory exploration designed to ignite passion and deepen connection. Learn more at: https://www.ariellezadok.com/workshops/couplesintimacy
Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
K, love you, byeeeeee
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Miss Spent Youth is a Los Angeles based burlesque performer, producer, teacher and pin up princess originally from North Carolina where the girls were afraid to swim on their periods!
In this episode we talk about burlesque, empowerment, creativity, body positivity, power dynamics, body confidence, sexuality, burlesque, sex education, circumcision, shame, open-mindedness, acceptance and SO much more!
You can find Miss Spent Youth on Instagram at @ms.spentyouth and her website, https://www.losangelesburlesque.com/
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Los Angeles! If you’re a femme looking to build confidence, heal your relationship to your body and tap into your sensuality, join me THIS Sunday April 28th for an Immersive Sensual Empowerment & Pole Dance workshop in Downtown LA. Details & registration:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/immersive-sensual-empowerment-pole-dance-workshop-beginner-friendly-registration-875746440177?aff=ebdsoporgprofile
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Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
K, love you, byeeeeee
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Amanda G. Savage is a comedian, host and creator of the show G. Savage Talks originally from the great soft pretzel state of Pennsylvania where she did an anti-abstinence only presentation and we Stan.
Also, happy 420 ya'll! This episode was unofficially sponsored by Bloom, their vapes are so tasty and smooth. If you're into it, I highly (!!) recommend this brand.
In this episode we talk about:
The great G Savage Yelling at men on stage Boobs! Imagine having a different pair every day?! Respecting pussy gets you EVERYWHERE Decision fatigue in dating Growing up wanting to pee standing up (relatable) Prioritizing pleasure Society’s perception of sexual expression Refractory periods… what are they?You can find Amanda on Instagram at @amandagsavage on TikTok at @gsavagetalks and her website www.AmandaGSavage.com
LA you can see Amanda live on April 25th at Holy Water in WeHo for the G Savage Talks premier! Get tickets here!
Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
4/28 Immersive Sensual Empowerment & Pole Dance Workshop Registration: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/immersive-sensual-empowerment-pole-dance-workshop-beginner-friendly-registration-875746440177?aff=ebdsoporgprofile
Check out other upcoming Sensuality workshops at www.ariellezadok.com/workshops
Join the mailing list for weekly Sex(y) Education sent straight to your inbox! www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com
Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
If you’re pickin’ up what we’re putting down please help me spread the word; Like, subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! You can also buy me a coffee if you're a real sweetie (or a Daddy, whatever).
K, love you, byeeeeee
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ShelBee is an aerial performer, instructor and sex worker originally from Taiwan and grew up in an Asian community in SoCal where she was taught using a tampon means you’re losing your virginity!
In this episode we talk about:
03:19 ShelBee got me a gift!! 05:13 Cultivating Eroticism 08:58 The Impact of Positive Examples of Single Women 18:20 Asian Cultural Beliefs about Tampons 23:04 Older Siblings Are Our Saviors! 25:31 First Sexual Experiences 26:28 Understanding How to Please Women 29:18 Creating Mutually Beneficial Relationships 32:26 The Erasure of Female Anatomy In Medical History 35:11 Exploring and Discovering Sexual Preferences 39:22 The Impact of Shame and Internalized Shame 40:46 Coming Out and Overcoming Trauma 41:34 The Journey to Self-Acceptance 45:09 Entering the Sex Work Industry 47:05 Understanding Having a Sugar Daddy / Being A Sugar Baby 49:54 Dispelling Misconceptions about Sex Work 52:37 Unity and Support within the Sex Work CommunityYou can find ShelBee on Instagram at @shelbeestrong and if you’re lucky, teaching or performing at a venue in Los Angeles!
Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
Download your FREE Yes / No / Maybe list, get merch or apply for coaching at www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com
If you’re pickin’ up what we’re putting down please help me spread the word; Like, subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! You can also buy me a coffee if you're a real sweetie.
Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
K, love you, byeeeeee
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Dr. Nazanin Moali is a Clinical Psychologist, Sex Therapist and Host of the Sexology podcast originally from Iran where sex education was TRULY non-existent.
In this episode we talk about:
00:00 The Importance of Different Perspectives 03:09 The Role of Communication in Relationships 07:15 The Impact of Nonverbal Communication 10:06 Changing Attitudes Towards Therapy and Mental Health 12:04 The Influence of Trauma on Sexual Health 15:47 Lack of Comprehensive Sex Education 26:41 Transitioning to Sex Therapy 28:20 Healing from Eating Disorders and Rediscovering Pleasure 31:17 The Importance of Pleasure 36:31 Cultivating Pleasure in Different Areas of Life 41:21 Creating Sensual Spaces 44:57 The Menu of Options 50:12 The Importance of Communication and Planning in Sex 55:44 Cultivating Desire and Erotic MindYou can find Dr. Nazanin on Instagram at @sexologypodcast, her website https://sexologypodcast.com/ and wherever you get your podcasts.
The Yes / No / Maybe list we talk about can be found at: www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com
And the erotic menu can be found at https://oasis2care.com/subscribe/
Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
And if you want to say “thanks babe” you can buy me a coffee!
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Christine Medrano is a comedian, actress and writer originally from Winnipeg Manitoba, Canada where she went to Catholic school and watched an abortion video at age 14, and that was pretty much it!
In this episode we talk about:
03:21 Christine was in a Sex Ed Video! 04:16 We have a pitch… the office, but it’s an STI clinic! 06:29 Misconceptions about Anal Play and Sexuality 10:03 There wasn’t any sex ed at her Catholic school, but there WAS an abortion video! 11:27 Lack of Knowledge about Tampons 13:08 The Importance of Openness and Humor in Sex Education 13:28 The TV Show 'Big Mouth' 14:27 Why you need to consider using Organic Tampons 19:14 Give us pain killers during IUD Insertion! 21:09 Arielle’s alcohol allergy and birth control 23:23 The Neglect of Female Pleasure in Medicine 26:35 The Impact of Shame and Lack of Masturbation Education 29:47 Coercion and Manipulation in Sexual Experiences 35:27 The Importance of Sexual Compatibility 38:21 Openness and Communication in Relationships 47:06 Generational Differences in Views on Sex and Romance 52:09 The Evolution of Romance and Communication 57:37 Reflecting on Traumatic Events 58:06 The ending you were all hoping for.. Ruby the cat Brings us an AvocadoYou can find Christine on Instagram at @chrissymeds and her website http://www.christinemedrano.com/
Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
Download your FREE Yes / No / Maybe list, get merch or apply for coaching at www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com
If you’re pickin’ up what we’re putting down please help me spread the word; Like, subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! You can also buy me a coffee if you're a real sweetie.
Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
K, love you, byeeeeee
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This week we’re mixing things up because Rena Martine (Women’s Intimacy Coach, Author and Ep. 25 guest) and I had the opportunity to park up at the Hollywood Burlesque Festival Bazaar and speak to some of incredible performers from the weekend.
In this episode we’re talking to:
@boogerboobs an Aussie based in Los Angeles Tito Bonito, the @cubabmissilecrisis of burlesque @Sydvici0uz the east coast showgirl gone west coast @tout.dlou the traveling circus showgirl @themissmarquez the green goddess behind @empowermentinheelsYou can find The Hollywood Burlesque festival happening every year right here in Hollywood but since you missed this year (bummer) make sure you follow @Hollywoodbqfest and check out their website to see all of the gorgeous performers at www.hollywoodburlesquefestival.com
You can find Rena on Instagram at @_Rena.Marine_ and on her website www.renamartine.com
Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
Download your FREE Yes / No / Maybe list, get merch or apply for coaching at www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com
If you’re pickin’ up what we’re putting down please help me spread the word; Like, subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! You can also buy me a coffee if you're a real sweetie.
Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
K, love you, byeeeeee
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Michael Hollice is the Founder and Creative Director of The Play LA (that’s a sex party) originally from Los Angeles where his class watched the birthing video forwards and backwards… literally. That baby got sucked right back up!
In this episode we talk about:
00:46 The Play LA and Prioritizing Health, Consent, Intimacy, and Artistry 04:04 Arielle’s Magical Experience at The Play LA 06:19 Sex as a Collaboration 13:18 The Importance of Eye Gazing and Dropping In 15:07 Sexual and Creative Freedom 16:04 Shifting the Culture of Sex Education 26:25 The Pitfalls of Non-Monogamy 34:12 The Nuance of Flirting 37:07 The power of sharing Desires, Intentions, and Boundaries 38:33 No Phones, No Money, No Hierarchy… that’s a good play party! 39:29 How to be a voyeur, but not in a creepy way 41:23 Speaking Desires into Existence 42:49 The Evolution of Boundaries 46:32 Anticipation is Foreplay 56:16 The eroticism of being fed Cookies after an orgasm 59:34 The birthing video… in reverse! 01:02:44 Michael’s First Sexual Experience and the experience that changed it all 01:07:05 Importance of Repair… cancellation is not always the way 01:18:22 Profound Experiences can happen at Play Parties 01:20:15 Creating a Community of Connection and Vulnerability 01:21:35 The Play LA and The Play NetworkYou can find Michael on Instagram at @theplay.la and The Play LA website https://theplay.la/
Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
Download your FREE Yes / No / Maybe list (you'll find out if play parties are on the menu!), get merch or apply for coaching at www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com
If you’re pickin’ up what we’re putting down please help me spread the word; Like, subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! You can also buy me a coffee if you're a real sweetie.
Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
Stay sexy xx
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Morgan Jay is a musician and comedian originally from Mahwah, New Jersey where he was taught that women would derail and distract him!
In this episode we talk about:
04:11 Creating a Sexy and Fun Show 05:46 Transitioning from Stand-up to Music 07:33 The Evolution of Comedy Clubs 12:02 Understanding Different Sexual Preferences 16:20 The Importance of Consent and Aftercare 20:02 Exploring Sexual Wellness and Pleasure Products 25:23 The Accessibility and Variety of Pornography 31:05 The Impact of Abstinence-Only Sex Education 36:55 The Influence of Cultural and Religious Upbringing 41:44 Exploring New Sexual Experiences 46:09 The Importance of Playfulness and Curiosity 48:18 Sexual Connection in Intimate Relationships 49:10 The Consequences of Ignoring Sexual Compatibility 51:42 Having Complex Conversations about Sexual Desires 53:47 Normalizing Sexual Pleasure for All 56:52 Exploring Unique Sexual Fantasies 59:04 Creating Pleasurable and Intimate ExperiencesYou can find Morgan on Instagram at @morganjay and his website www.morganjay.com
Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
HEY LOS ANGELES! Come to the Hollywood Burlesque Festival at Frogtown Brewery on March 9th where we’ll be interviewing performers all day! Get 20% off your festival tickets with offer code: BIRDS&BEES
Download your FREE Yes / No / Maybe list, get merch or apply for coaching at www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com
If you’re pickin’ up what we’re putting down please help me spread the word; Like, subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! You can also buy me a coffee if you're a real sweetie.
Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
K, love you, byeeeeee
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Sarah Tomchesson is a sex educator, fed-up feminist, queer mom and co-host of the Fck Yeah! Podcast originally from a little all over but who had her first sex ed class in Los Angeles where they were interrupted by an earthquake!
In this episode we talk about:
02:02 SIECUS and Sex Education Advocacy 05:21 The Importance of Policy Change 10:17 The Fear of Talking About Sex 11:15 Unpacking Shame and Ego 15:07 Sarah’s Experiences with Sex Education 19:46 Supporting Parents in Sex Education 22:07 The Lack of Education on Menopause 24:59 The Lack of Sex Education in Medical Training 32:34 Sarah's Journey into Sex Education 40:55 The Importance of Normalizing Pleasure 41:08 Upcoming Program with Anne Hodder-Shipp 43:14 Understanding Your Relationship to and Expanding the Definition of Pleasure 49:31 Prioritizing Pleasure in Daily Life 52:09 Navigating Censorship and Playing the Game 53:49 Knowing and Trusting YourselfYou can find Sarah on Instagram at @pleasureguides and their website https://www.s3xplus.com/ and of course you can join her program with Anne Hodder-Shipp that begins on March 14th at https://www.eventbrite.com/e/pleasure-attitudes-building-an-embodied-self-care-practice-that-works-tickets-773968630007
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Download your FREE Yes / No / Maybe list, get merch or apply for coaching at www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com
If you’re pickin’ up what we’re putting down please help me spread the word; Like, subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! You can also buy me a coffee if you're a real sweetie.
Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
K, love you, byeeeeee
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Tyomi Morgan is a Sexologist, Intimacy Coordinator and creator of The Cowgirl Workout originally from Chicago where they went on a class trip to learn about sex!
In this episode we talk about:
03:04 Intimacy Coordinating, obviously! 14:43 The one thing you MUST know as an Intimacy Coordinator 23:00 When Sex Ed is a class trip… 29:29 Impact of Sex Education on Personal Exploration 38:08 Virginity is a hoax 45:03 The importance of authenticity and Communication in Relationships 46:28 The art of Letting Go and Embracing Change 47:23 Fluidity and Exploration in Sexuality 50:13 Recognizing Patterns and Trauma 51:57 Taking Action and Doing the Work 54:20 The Lifelong Journey of Self-Reflection 57:18 The Importance of Self-Care and Boundaries 59:08 The DM slide all sex educators get 01:01:21 Embracing Autonomy and ChoiceYou can find Tyomi on Instagram at @realglamazontyomi and on X (Twitter) at @glamazontyomi get The Cowgirl Workout at https://members.thecowgirlworkout.com/ see her in person at Exxxotica Expo https://www.exxxoticaexpo.com/ or catch her classes at https://www.thepleasureacademy.com/
WE’VE GOT MERCH! Plus a free Yes / No / Maybe list all over at https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com
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Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
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Allison Goldberg is a comedian and creator known for her dating show, Love Isn’t Blind originally from Baltimore where they scribbled some stuff on an overhead projector and called it a day!
In this episode we talk about:
01:25 Allison actually knows about the birds and bees! 02:07 Love Isn't Blind - The Dating Show where men aren’t allowed to talk! 04:47 Pole Dancing and Rock Climbing 06:29 Intimacy Coordination and Other Jobs 09:41 Creating a Community 13:21 Being Organized and Having Tools 16:47 Lack of Sexual Education 21:04 Consent and Desexualization 24:44 New Zealand sex clubs 31:57 Time to figure out the Clitoris 34:32 Dating and Activities 37:10 Understanding the Clitoris and Vulva 41:09 Exploring the Labia and Outer Lips 42:30 Stimulating the Entire Vulva 45:08 Pleasuring the Penis and Balls 52:54 Orbiting and Communication 55:00 Allison’s got a podcast launching TODAY!HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY!!
You can find Allison on all social media at @alli_goldi and on her website https://www.allisongoldberg.com/
WE’VE GOT MERCH! Plus a free Yes / No / Maybe list all over at https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com
Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
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K love you byeeeee
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Christina Calph is an actress, comedian and creator of Comedy Pole Show and The Last Improv Show originally from a small town outside of Buffalo, NY where they were taught demons were going to take over their bodies! Yay!
In this episode we talk about:
01:09 Talking about Rain in LA, because it’s law 02:24 Growing Up in New York 03:37 Comedy Pole Show and the best comedians and pole dancers in LA 15:18 Sex Education in Catholic School 32:26 What even is virginity?! 43:09 Discovering the Power of Female friendships 45:25 Learning About Relationships and Sexuality at Hooters 49:17 Different Perspectives on Sexuality in Different Communities 50:17 Exploring Sexuality and Masturbation 51:46 Navigating Toxic Relationships 01:03 Pole Dance as a Sport and Art Form 01:05 The Perineum! 01:09 How to get your free Yes No Maybe List for Better CommunicationYou can find Christina on Instagram at @christinacalph and her two shows @comedypoleshow and @lastimprovshow
Get tickets to both shows by checking out https://www.dynastytypewriter.com/events-calendar
WE’VE GOT MERCH! Plus a free Yes / No / Maybe list all over at https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com
Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
If you’re pickin’ up what we’re putting down please like, Subscribe, leave a 5 star review and tell your friends so other people know this exists!
K love you byeeeee
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Jean Franzblau is an Intimacy Coordinator, Writer, Performer and Creator of the Cuddle Sanctuary originally from Hollywood Florida where her mother didn’t know she was kinky!
In this episode we talk about:
01:11 Different Roles in the Sex Industry 03:03 The Physiology of Orgasm 04:00 The Impact of Shame on Pleasure 05:23 Creating Authentic Intimacy in Film 08:13 The Complexity of Faking Orgasms 10:32 The Fascinating Anatomy of the Clitoris 12:51 The Grit and Strength of Pole Dancing 15:22 The Diverse Backgrounds of Intimacy Coordinators 23:46 The Potential Benefits of Sex Dolls 25:29 The Importance of Touch and Cuddling 27:22 The Complexity and joy of Kink and BDSM 35:33 The Impact of Shame and Ignoring Red Flags 43:22 The Slow Process of Change in the film Industry 45:33 The Importance of Safety and Pleasure in Creation 48:30 Agents' Involvement in Addressing Behavioral Issues with cast (aka their clients) 53:33 Transition into Intimacy Coordinating 55:50 Experience on Set and Sense of Belonging 01:01:00 The Embarrassing Part of the Job 01:04:43 The importance of Consent and BoundariesYou can find Jean on Instagram at @jeanfranzblau and her website https://hollywoodintimacycoordinator.com/
You can catch Jean's sex positive one woman show, "My Mother Doesn't Know I'm Kinky" on March 3, 2024 in Los Angeles. Find all of her performances here: https://mymotherdoesntknow.com/
Support the show and give us a 5 star review… and if you’re really into it, https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariellezadok
Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
Want to get more of what you want in bed? Download your free Yes / No / Maybe list at www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com to get clear, get inspired and get what you want!
LOS ANGELES: Join Arielle and Nadége as we celebrate the release of Rena Martine’s new book “The Sex You Want” on Feb 7th at The Ripped Bodice. Tickets here: https://www.therippedbodicela.com/events-and-tickets
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Demi Wilde is an author, educator and content creator originally from Visalia, California where he had to GTFO as fas as he could!
In this episode we talk about:
02:57 The Commodification of Connection 10:23 Demi’s journey into Sex Education 17:02 Growing Up Religious 21:13 Those First Wet Dreams 25:33 Poetry as Therapy 31:35 Demi Dishes the Dirt on Sh*tty Dating Trends 38:04 A Hookup Horror Story (obviously) 45:13 Reflections of a Bad Date 46:37 The Gift of Rejection 48:03 Finding Love on Grindr 49:29 The Importance of Timing and Emotional Availability 50:57 Being Present and Transparent 51:55 Burnout and Miscommunication in Dating 54:15 Communication and PresenceYou can find Demi on Instagram at @demitriwylde_, his website www.demitriwylde.com and you can get his podcast “Hookup Horror Stories” on YouTube and wherever you get your podcasts.
Help support the show and buy me a coffee! (Spoiler, you can also book a coaching session with me there!)
Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
Classes coming soon to Elxr.Life!
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Jil Chrissie is a comedian, writer and host originally from Denver Colorado where she was not quite sure if she should be looking at a lady’s vagina with a baby’s head in it in the third grade (sound familiar?).
In this episode we talk about:
00:50 Pretty Privilege is a thing 02:08 The Misconceptions Around Virginity and Hymens 06:01 The Trauma of Early Sex Education 07:44 The Terrifying Reality of Childbirth 15:05 The Importance of Women's Sexual Pleasure 16:27 The Need for Sexual Exploration and Communication 20:38 The Stigma and Shame Around Masturbation 26:44 The Hypocrisy of Men's Sexual Preferences 29:08 Different Types of Orgasms and Sexual Scripts 30:30 The Importance of Clitoral Stimulation 32:10 The Benefits of Sex Toys and Masturbation 37:16 The Impact of Sexual Satisfaction on Relationships 41:22 The Impact of Aging on Sexual Function 45:26 Animal Behavior and Sexual Interactions 47:10 Symptoms and Treatment of Gonorrhea 51:00 Overcoming Stigma and Fear of STIs 52:49 Creating an Audio Book and One-Woman Show 54:34 Promoting Sexual Liberation and Expression 56:24 Persistence and Pursuing Dreams in the Entertainment IndustryYou can find Jil on Instagram at @jilchrissie and on YouTube at @MsJilChrissie
Speaking of YouTube, this show is on it! Check it out here. YouTube
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Catch me on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & @ArielleZadok
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Anne Holder-Shipp is an award winning Sex & Relationships Educator and Author of ’18 Modern Love Languages’ originally from Wolfurrow, New Hampshire where they learned more about sex exploring the library’s card catalog then they ever did in a classroom!
In this episode we talk about:
01:34 Pandemic Era Transition to Online Teaching 11:11 The Balance Of Fair Compensation and Accessibility For In-Person Classes 14:11 Marketing and Censorship Challenges 18:22 The Reality of Sex Education Work 20:02 Growing Up in a Conservative Town 26:28 Limited Sex Education in School 34:23 Neutral Perspective on Sex Leading To Expansive Values 38:06 Unique Background and Entry into Sex Education 38:26 How They Became a Sex Educator 41:10 Working in Treatment Centers 43:07 Harm Reduction and Abstinence-Only Education 46:09 The Challenges of Sex Education in Treatment Centers 52:11 Understanding Desire and Collaboration in Relationships 55:58 Anne's Epic Responses to Trolls on TikTokYou can find Anne on Instagram and TikTok at @TheAnneHodder and their website https://www.annehoddershipp.com/ and of course if you too are interested in becoming a Sex Educator or simply learning more, visit https://everyonedeservessexed.com/
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Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
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Ify Nwadiwe is a Comedian, Actor, Writer and Thot Dad originally from Los Angeles, CA where his Catholic School taught him religion instead of health and his public School made him sign up for sex ed as an elective as if learning about your body was the same thing as learning photography or Roman history.
In this episode we talk about:
04:31 LA vs. New York 14:42 Sex Education in School 18:05 ADHD and Mental Health 21:38 Therapy and Sexuality 28:54 Successful Non-Monogamy 45:13 Trampling Over Boundaries 47:06 Problematic Relationship Coaches 50:22 Co-Creation and Personal Boundaries in relationships 51:48 Understanding Kitchen Table Polyamory 56:38 Monogamous Reactions to Non-Monogamy 57:27 First Reactions vs. Real Reactions 58:23 Excuses and Alternative Lifestyles 01:00:37 Ify’s upcoming Comedy Show!You can find Ify on Instagram at @ifynwadiwe and his website www.ifycomedy.com.
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