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  • Alejohndra are back with tales of their Egypt trip.

    — (1:25) John and Alexandra recap their retreat to Egypt— (9:05) What about the aliens? / the construction of the pyramids had to be an exercise in presence and intention — (16:23) The femininity of Egypt— (21:04) Egypt peaked early and then fell off hard— (31:06) Special John the mystical guide / the inner quality of the group— (37:50) The descent down into the deep chambers — (45:22) The acoustics of the pyramids— (52:55) A sacred culture that honors the divine and human animal nature— (58:48) Egypt activates something in you that values the sacred— (1:13:05) Hexad conversion therapy

    Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Princess Diana, P-Diddy, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

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  • In this episode of WILTBY Josh interviews Louis.

    — (4:50) Josh processing his 2-wing and meeting Louis at the zone / the team love vs team truth confrontation— (11:45) 3w2 facilitating and orchestrating connection vs 3w4 distant excellence— (16:35) The philosophy of truth vs love in psychotherapy— (20:49) Carl Rogers unconditional positive regard— (29:30) What Josh finds annoying about 4 skepticism of love and connection— (33:39) Louis’ identification with predator swag — (42:24) 3w2 vs 3w4 in a team scenario / team vs self orientation — (48:31) How Josh realized he had a 2-wing / Louis’ social mode of separateness and why he became a therapist— (57:41) Differences in processing negativity and aesthetic frustration— (1:09:51) The 3w2 tenet of always having something to appreciate about anything — (1:24:08) The ideal ego fantasy for 3w2 vs 3w4

    Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Jennifer Lopez, P-Diddy, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

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  • We watched Poor things right before recording our impressions and thoughts. Call the nota4 hotline at (323) 696-0647.

    — (2:40) Overview of Poor Things and its ode to the head center— (8:40) The surgeon is a 5— (13:22) 6 reactivity leveling the playing field with negativity— (16:30) hexad vs attachment response to suffering in the world— (23:45) The artifice of polite adulthood as a hindrance to growth— (30:52) The necessity of conveying complex ideas and orientation through symbol— (36:31) Bella developed so quickly because of her hunger for experiences like a child who views enjoyment as a necessity — (49:34) Social hexad vs attachment orientation with parents and formative attachment figures— (56:35) Bermuda adjacent hexad types seeming more hexad by pushing off attachment

    Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Josh Brolin, Frank Herbert, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

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  • They don’t want you to know.

    — (3:10) Nines are everyone’s least favorite mud cattle— (6:38) Sixes are annoying cult maintainers— (11:13) Sevens are the slutty surprise suicide

    Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Josh Brolin, Frank Herbert, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

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  • A must-watch for every 9 and 9-fixer. Watch Dogville and then come back to this.

    — (8:42) Why we’re talking about Dogville / Plot overview— (19:53) The hope of attachment vs the leverage of rejection— (24:30) How things went from bad to worse— (30:04) The arrogance of 9— (37:32) Grace confronted by the Dogville principle— (47:14) Grace representing the unprotected innocence of the body center— (53:00) The 8 tenet of first protecting your self and life force— (1:03:39) Why Dogville is a must watch for 9s and 9-fixers

    Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Toni Morrison, Osho, and The 145 Bermuda Overlay and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

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    Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

  • Live from Harlem tunneling thru the catacombs of the heart.Watch here: https://youtu.be/tnkHm0LCX_c

    — (2:18) Alright.. the heart center live— (6:45) The value of shame / heart-2nd impresisons— (13:15) Josh’s core 3 image and sensitivity to self-abandonment — (16:07) Decoupling emotion from the feeling of the heart center— (20:40) Shame shame shame— (30:05) The developmental view of the centers / the moment to moment self vs the fixed self— (35:25) “I’m this type of person now” / your identity is what you pay attention to and care about— (43:37) 3 image adaptability vs 4 image rigidity / the freedom and fluidity of identity— (55:12) The social instinct bridging to the heart center — (1:00:27) The passion and creativity of identity

    To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/

    Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on David Blaine, Yorgos Lanthimos, and Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

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  • New insights emerging on having your heart center last.

    — (4:22) Alexandra’s new insights about heart-last and image being a cultivated sense of identity — (12:27) Being a social-blind image type / reinforcing who you are to yourself— (16:28) Painting your self-portrait and updating how things reflect on you — (23:18) Aesthetic of personality and unearthing an ocean of values— (26:08) What does neglecting the heart center cost you?— (33:02) Heart last and 4 fix reflex to wince away from being seen— (39:00) Heart lasts underestimate how what they’re doing will cause them to feel shame— (44:33) Events of the world as heart-last phenomenons— (56:20) Heart last and what’s valuable about me

    To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/

    Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Katt Williams, Yorgos Lanthimos, and Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

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  • We’re back at it looking at reactive harmonics.

    — (3:22) Reactive vs frustration / harmonics is how we resolve a situation— (7:16) ‘Hopeful’ better describes what positive outlook is up to / reactive aims to uncover where the other is located under duress — (9:51) Katt Williams and 6 exposing the worst case scenario — (12:34) 4/6/8 testing to see if you can hang with negative realness— (19:54) Reactive types are provoking the authenticity of each center— (26:09) 4 vs 8 purging poison and creating space— (32:35) The audacity of hope for positive types— (40:35) Do we need a better name for reactive?— (48:56) 6 is the most psycho reactive type / Katt and reactive 6 comics— (1:03:39) M6GA

    To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/

    Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Katt Williams, Charles Bukowski, and Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

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  • Looking back on 2023 with libations. Happy new year you filthy animals.

    — (2:20) Our impressions of BHE year IV / shifts in the business of the enneagram— (8:31) Why interest in the enneagram is taking a dip — (14:27) Do people know about BHE or nah— (20:06) Enneagram reddit thinks Naranjo is the truth— (27:31) Highlights of 2023 episodes / the zones and the 7— (38:39) Social pain and the attachment support groups— (43:00) Frustration underlines the suffering of the personality— (49:41) Plans for 2024— (59:20) Love is in the air / beauty to scary ratio— (1:01:52) The return of trump— (1:13:25) Igbo spirituality market days

    To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/

    Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Malcolm Gladwell, Charles Bukowski, and 269 Trifix . Join to watch typing classes and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

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  • Chatting the enneagram in the movies.

    — (2:48) Non-romantic sexual instinct in Suspiria / sx-middle teases / Twin Peaks’ weird sp/sx— (10:32) Holy Mountain and Enter the Void as sexual instinct movies— (14:39) Paul Thomas Anderson and attachment stories— (16:38) How rare sexual is in the stacking / most movies are sp/so / Ari Aster makes deranged sp/so movies— (21:08) Get Out and Parasite as so/sp / what social type movies focus on / 10 reasons why Wes Anderson sucks— (32:52) Passages sx/so 6 attachment madness— (44:39) The Assistant sp/so bermuda hell— (49:23) 8 directors / Possessor and hexad with attachment fixes / Tyler Perry’s a 2 director— (56:47) 5 directors / Kubrick as so/sx— (1:03:53) sp/so body gore, zombies, and romance— (1:06:57) sx/sp romance flicks

    To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/

    Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Matt Rife, Andre 3000, and 269 Trifix . Join to watch typing classes and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

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  • Od’s with us this week to dive into the interesting world of astrocartography.

    — (10:12) What is astrocartography and how’d we get into this?— (16:08) Moving to significant areas on your astro map— (21:17) How to create your astrocartography map / what the circles on the map mean— (25:25) John’s lines confirm his love affair with Egypt— (29:04) DG’s meetings with dark men and misadventures in Africa— (34:02) Alexandra’s lines and the birthplace of her love— (38:12) And reconnecting with her spanish roots— (44:57) How far away is too far from a line?— (49:00) What it means when your sun line goes through a place— (57:03) How to look at this with your LocalSpace map— (1:05:20) What your mercury line goeing through somewhere means

    To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/

    Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on 269 Trifix, Andre 3000, and Jeremy Fragrance. Join to watch typing classes and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

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  • Continuing where we left off with Ikram and the Objective Personality Social Types. We’ve been typed #3 for DG, Alexandra, and John. #2 for Emeka. #4 for Ikram.

    — (6:16) The sp/so framing of the social roles concept makes it smaller / does social roles have any implications for the sexual instinct?— (8:40) Emeka vs John sx/sp with responsibility vs specialization— (11:43) Flex masculine identity vs Friends feminine identity— (18:23) Specialization and responsibility minimize personhood in lieu of what i’m doing— (20:40) Responsibility-specialization tidal waves— (34:01) What is responsibility vs specialization — (40:35) Sexaul display as a Social Role 1 and 4— (50:48) What you need to integrate for each social role

    To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/

    DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Cesar Millan, The Stockholm Trifix, and Jada Pinket Smith. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

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  • We’re talking about the Objective Personality Social Types this week with Ikram. We’ve been typed #3 for DG, Alexandra, and John. #2 for Emeka. #4 for Ikram.

    — (7:55) *Gasp* John is taking responsibility / intro to OPS social roles— (14:18) What does flex mean?— (20:03) Flex vs friends— (27:39) Friend saviors get their flex through connections with people / Flex alienates friends— (31:44) Distribution of social roles / Jesus is a #1?— (34:01) What is responsibility vs specialization — (40:01) How specialization last shows in Emeka— (43:38) Your social role is the position you take in a social dynamic— (45:36) Flex last for Ikram / Flex last doesn’t mean a lack of drive or ambition— (56:32) What’s specialization?— (1:04:20) #2 flexes by making things happen for everyone— (1:08:31) #4 friends have flex by not having flex— (1:12:48) How your social role contrasts with your enneagram type

    To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/

    DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Cesar Millan, Tabatha Coffee, and Jada Pinket Smith. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

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  • Live from Brooklyn backrooms answering your questions.Watch here: https://youtu.be/WlHQcWEglks

    — (2:32) How important is trifix order?— (12:10) What feels like boring chores to the sexual instinct?— (17:31) How DG experiences his lines of connection as a 9 with no attachment fixes— (25:26) What cakes would each of us bake?— (30:13) How to rizz up the 3-7 stem?— (36:56) What are the holy ideas and higher centers?— (45:10) Insights from the baaaack roooommms - attachment is the seed for object relations— (52:39) Is so/sx what is represented on all the memes on extraversion?

    To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/

    DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Tom Waits, Snobby vs Peopley, and Tabatha Coffee. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

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  • The wet heart types. Live pod this weekend. Be on the lookout for details.

    — (4:35) Assertive hexad types being out of touch with their shame— (6:26) Shame is not a great word for what the heart types are experiencing / identity needing to feel special— (12:57) Heart types needing to reinforcing pictures to feel a felt sense of specialness— (15:17) Confusing heart type shame with feeling ashamed / shame is the emotion of being out of alignment with value— (25:30) 4 and 4-fix shame— (34:37) Denigration and disgust is the 4 fix reaction to shame— (42:41) 3 and 3-fix shame / being a 3 is like climbing up a downward escalator — (46:10) 3 vs 4 fix compliments and value recognition— (58:32) 2 and 2 fix shame— (1:02:14) 2s supply their own validation— (1:09:07) 2 reaction to shame is to go straight to moral rage and indignation

    To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/

    DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Katie Porter, Snobby vs Peopley, and Iyanla. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

    Help us buy new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone

    Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

  • The fuming and stewing gut types.

    — (4:03) Alexandra wants to be led when she’s in the mood— (9:05) David is very angry at the sun— (16:49) And the plague of bread people— (20:35) Alexandra finally admits she has a rage problem— (30:30) Emeka’s rage is the fuel that keeps the car running people over— (34:25) 8 vs 1 fix anger and boundaries / the games begin once the 8 lets you in— (42:41) 4s and 8s are drama queen inversions of each other— (45:59) The cutting denigrating rage of 1s— (50:02) 1s think they know the one best way to do everything

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  • Delving into the fear and anxiety of the head types.

    — (3:57) 5 fear of being contaminated— (10:40) Avarice is a sense that personhood isn’t robust enough to be fully exposed in the world— (11:30) The 8 line to 5 and the 2 line to 8— (16:30) Ways to work on 5 avarice— (19:18) 5 fear as one way endless monologues— (24:17) How Emeka and John experience 5 fix fear— (33:52) 6 fear of fear itself— (37:02) 6 considering all possibilities / fear disguised as responsibility and logic— (46:48) 6 preemptive call outs and self-deprecation / the essence quality of 6 is to be the universe’s eye— (50:33) 5 subjectivity vs 6 objectivity— (57:37) Toxic 7 fear— (1:06:30) 7 is running from the limitations of what is— (1:10:47) 7s need to get in touch with their own generation instead of just consuming— (1:15:04) 7 anxiety showing up as manic consumption

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  • — (8:25) Riffing on new terms for social / resonance and frequency— (15:08) Social as a 3D matrix / What is the big deal with what social types are looking for?— (20:15) We feel social chemistry with those who we feel regulated by— (23:17) Social boners and turn ons / the sensation of social in the body— (26:42) Social-blinds aren’t updating social impressions as the connection evolves— (30:03) Do the social-blinds confuse sexual attraction with socal attraction?— (39:52) How do the social-blinds recognize when they’re being cared for or that they care?— (48:03) Social resonance is either there or it’s not— (51:58) Are we not seeing our social impact? / leaving behind a graveyard of missed connections— (1:00:12) The essence of each instinct and it’s distorted

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  • A sexual 4w5 and a social 4w3 walk into a bar.

    — (4:21) Vulnerability and sensitivity as a 4— (7:21) The difference between 9 sensitivity and 4 sensitivity— (10:55) Type 4 is over-individuating to express singular identity— (13:30) Joseph won’t laugh at your jokes / 4 image ego self-editing and controlling natural heart expression— (16:37) John’s 4 frustration shows up in his romantic relationship and creativity— (21:05) The crippling self-limiting image rigidity of 4— (25:06) Joseph’s social 4 frustration and shame with social chemistry— (29:57) Getting dumb and allowing humiliation as a pathway to loosening up 4 image rigidity— (46:02) Feeling deficient about getting into the body— (52:27) Getting embodied in sexuality— (57:51) Timeless sense of identity of heart types— (59:26) Dat sweet syrupy line to 2 overcorrecting for being self-absorbed

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  • A horde of social types attempt a roast of the social-blind legends.

    — (7:55) Let the roasts begin — (10:50) Creeps and Homewreckers— (13:19) The limited personas and channels of engagement of social blinds— (14:33) Joseph’s social 4 impressions of working with social blinds / social blinds being terrible judges of people— (20:21) Podcasting in the dark vs the social of communicating and being perceived on video— (29:36) Are the social types actually roasting the social-blinds? / social blind roasts sound like personal grievances — (37:30) SX/SP’s annoying fixation on romantic relationships and inappropriate sexual heat— (42:50) The social blind life or death objectifying approach to social connections / the stagnation around sx flavor— (50:14) Missing out and not participating in the field of relatedness and social co-regulation— (1:03:10) Social blind obliviousness is hilarious and freeing— (1:08:14) The personal personhood of social vs the personal flavor of sexual — (1:10:36) Personal anecdotes of the feeling in the body of each blindspot— (1:15:26) Why the social blinds are so amazing— (1:23:29) What the social blinds hate about social blinds

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