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  • Lily talks with Patricia Cardona, who is committed to training parents on how to prevent child sex abuse. With passion, experience, and unmatched knowledge she speaks openly on Beyond The Current Situation. For full uncut version in video and a BONUS video with exclusive content, subscribe here! Patricia's work in educating parents has been critical in helping our children and children's children escape the unfathomable acts of child sex abuse around the world. This episode unveils the horrifying truths and facts on CSA (child sex abuse) and highlights some of the phrases and responses parents should learn in order to support their children against predators of sexual abuse. Moreover, Patricia Cardona stresses the importance of making these practices as a parent, a daily habit. It is a parenting habit that is to be adopted and cultivated in order to ensure a child's safety against CSA.Her new book, "Phrases You Should Never Say in the Face of Sexual Abuse" is currently available in Spanish. She is looking to circulate it throughout all of Spain, and Latin America. Patricia expects to have it responsibly translated and written in English for the USA and all English speaking countries to use as a tool to train parents around the world.Book available in paperback and digital: Frases que nunca deberías decir ante un abuso sexualAbout Patricia Cardona:From Mallorca, Spain is a warrior survivor of intra and extra familial child sexual abuse. She is a self-taught poet, a radio broadcaster, a speaker, an actress, and a telecommunications engineer. She collaborates with RANA (Red de Ayuda a Niños Abusados, or Aid Network for Abused Children), and she is a Steward of Children by Darkness to Light.She is an activist as well. She is part of BraveMovement, a survivor-centered global movement fighting to end childhood sexual violence. She has already made two trips to Brussels at the TownHall Europe and the European Parliament to speak with members of Parliament. These trips were to stress the need of having the COM (2022) 209: Proposal for a REGULATION OF THE EUROPEAN PARLIAMENT AND OF THE COUNCIL laying down rules to prevent and combat child sexual abuse passed and to request to strengthen the law with support to victims. Next trip to Brussels is on 18th September. She broke her silence publicly in April 2019 in a poetry event. The guests told her she was brave. Since then she understands the value of telling her story and creating a safe space to talk about trauma and overcoming it. Her missions in life are to break the taboo of child sexual abuse and to bring survivors out of the shadows for them to dazzle the world with their light and strength. Patricia gives child sexual abuse prevention workshops and talks about transforming pain into purpose, overcoming fear, forgiveness and breaking the silence.

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  • Lily Sanders talks with her recurring guest, John-Michael Lander. This is essentially peeking into a chat between two friends who come together with no intentions and wind up creating powerful insight that brings you back to love. With unveiling ease, they roll out talks of passion, purpose, and truth as if it were the fragrance of rose whose pedals we have forgotten to smell. You will experience an organic conversation that delights in positive reframing and insights. Balanced by what your "thinking mind" tells you, and what you innately know, choosing conscious presence will guide you back to your truth. Lily and John-Michael express this in their own unique ways that come together like a symphony. A little about Lily's guest:John-Michael Lander a Voice for the Voiceless and the founder of "An Athlete’s Silence". As an athlete, he silently endured sexual abuse and trafficking from the adults entrusted with this training while winning gold medals at the Norway and Danish Cups. He broke his silence with the TedTalk, “An Athlete’s Silence”. He has appeared on ABC, CBS, NBC, CBC news, been interviewed for the TIME and for the George Clooney Productions Company. He has two novels, Surface Tension and Cracked Surface.Resources:

    Truth To Triumph by Lily Sanders

    Surface Tension by John-Michael Lander

    Cracked Surface by John-Michael Lander

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  • Lily talks about alcohol and how it is unique in its effects. She has an eye opening conversation with her returning guest, Dr. Todd Ovokaitys, on the cascade effects from alcohol: physically, cognitively, and physiologically. He talks about why and how it is unique from other substance addictions like opiates and narcotics that is astounding. You will get a powerful download on the membrane effects, cholesterol levels, fatty livers, and much more. We also share the CAGE questions and H.A.L.T. to assist in self-inquiries and as a tool to adopt healthier life style habits. The other thing that makes Lily's conversation on this topic unique is that she and Dr. Todd, speak to it without judgement. The love, non-judgement, scientific facts and studies set this podcast apart from others.

    If you or someone you know might want to explore the ways you can become more sober and work on healthy habit changes, leave a comment here. Also, we are inviting those who want to be part of a new study with Dr. Todd to connect here, or on Lily Sanders' website: https://lilysanders.live You can also message Lily Sanders directly via DM on her Instagram lily_sanders_author

    Dr. Todd was first in his class in High School and at Northwestern University and was accepted after 2 years of college to the premiere program at Johns Hopkins Medical School. He then did further training at Georgetown in Internal Medicine and Pulmonary and Intensive Care Medicine. He has become a leader in laser biophysics research and has developed a stem cell protocol that has reversed biological age at the DNA level more than any other method in medical history. He has been granted multiple patents in stem cells, nutraceuticals, pharmaceuticals, and even agriculture. He also composes chorale and instrumental symphonic pieces. The transcendental choirs he has created and produced all around the world, with up to 900+ choristers, rejuvenate the body while immensely boosting personal vibrational and awareness sates. The combination of the biomedical and esoteric reflect his passion for the full exploration and expansion of the human potential.
    Dr Todd's Instagram: drtoddo Dr Todd's website: drtoddo.com

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  • Learn how to unlock the ability to reverse your age starting with three doable steps. Tune in with Dr. Todd and me and discover the reality of why you age and what you can do to start reversing it.

    Dr. Todd talks about the emotional, physical, and cognitive connection and how it significantly determines our aging process. We discuss emotional youth, stress and how we digest it...or not...and why it affects our physical and cognitive outcomes.

    To catch the full uncut video version of this episode, and astounding images from Dr. Todd's great age reversal works on real people, subscribe. As a subscriber you receive exclusive content like this and more!

    About my guest:

    Dr. Todd Ovokaitys was first in his class in High School and at Northwestern University and was accepted after 2 years of college to the premiere program at Johns Hopkins Medical School. He then did further training at Georgetown in Internal Medicine and Pulmonary and Intensive Care Medicine.

    He has become a leader in laser biophysics research and has developed a stem cell protocol that has reversed biological age at the DNA level more than any other method in medical history. Dr Todd was granted multiple patents in stem cells, nutraceuticals, pharmaceuticals, and even agriculture.

    To add, he also composes chorale and instrumental symphonic pieces.

    The combination of the biomedical and esoteric reflect Dr Todd's passion for the full exploration and expansion of the humanpotential.

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    Resources:

    Biological decoding: www.mindbodylogic.com

    Pineal tones and qualifying for the Aloha Choir on Maui 12-12-24: www.pinealtones.com

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  • The war in Israel is upon us and people are in mourning. Our intention is to support those who mourn and understand why there is war how to navigate it.

    This is an organic conversation that underscores the importance of connection to Creation. Moreover, how to live a life through the lens of love and the Creator.

    He talks about the responsibility you have to self, so that you can grow. With that, responsibility has limitations that you need to be aware of in order to cope and navigate a life situation.

    This episode gives profound insight on how to go beyond your life situation. There is a crystal clear message at the end that wraps a bow around the distinctions throughout this talk.

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    Rabbi Yossi bio:

    Yosef Serebryanski is known simply as “Rabbi Yossi.” Underlying his gentle and easy personality is a complexity of understanding and analysis of Torah and creation. Altogether he brings joy, warmth and clarity to those who immerse themselves in his teachings. He is a true friend and confidant that helps thousands who turn to him weekly, so they can have his guidance and wisdom.

    Rabbi Yossi was born Born in Melbourne Australia, and reaps the benefits of being raised in a selfless family that was dedicated to living and spreading the riches and values of the Chabad-Lubavitch movement. In addition, his education was enhanced by the many esoteric teachings that are inherent in the Chassidic understanding of the Creator’s universe so he can bring amazing insight to others today.

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  • Lily Sanders dives deep with author and suicide prevention advocate, Anne Marie Romer and her sister Kathleen Crippen on adult suicide and how to heal and understand it. Although blindsided from their sibling's suicide, it is grace that gave them peace so they can heal.

    Altogether, they are the epitome of resilience, and love. Listen to the story of how two of their adult brothers committed suicide and how they differed. Blindsided by the loss of their second brother, tragedy kept showing up anyway. And so, Kathleen earnestly requests out loud, "Just Give me The Road". With that, her words became the title of Anne Marie Romer's powerful book which is a love letter to her sister.

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    Bios:

    Anne Marie Romer is a writer and author of the book "Just Give Me the Road". She is a Columnist for the Dayton Daily News and a community activist so she can help prevent suicide. Her essays are found on her blog, ⁠Annemarieromer.com⁠ and she writes about the joys and sorrows so we feel connected. Anne is a retired nurse and mother of 4. Perhaps most important, she is the grandmother of 9 and counting. Anne Marie lives in Centerville, Ohio with her husband, Mark.

    Kathleen Crippen is a retired elementary school teacher. During her long and successful career, she worked to unlock each student’s potential so they had learning success. Since her son Conor, suffered a severe traumatic brain injury , Kathleen has become a staunch advocate for alternative therapies so people can maximize the brain’s capacity to heal.

    Kathleen is mother of 3 and has 2 grandchildren. She’s been married to her husband, Phil for 35 years. They live in Centerville, Ohio.

    Just Give Me the Road:

    ⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/Just-Give-Road-Marie-Romer/dp/1970063483/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1693569796&sr=8-1⁠

    Suicide Prevention Resources:

    ⁠https://afsp.org/⁠

    Out Of Darkness (Local Walks):

    ⁠https://supporting.afsp.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=cms.page&id=1370⁠

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  • Lily talks with expert program leader, and CSA educator and activist Patricia Cordona about safety and the critical parenting skills every parent needs to know. It will change the course of your child's safety and well-being for life. This is a powerful download and a must for anyone who is a parent, knows a parent, or wants to become a parent. As a mother, we practice teaching our child everything from crossing the street safely to driving safely again and again. But how many parents know how to effectively take action in the daily practice of child sex abuse prevention. This episode will blow your mind with how vulnerable your children are to predators inside the home and outside the home with people you know. Friends, family members, relatives. Our intention is not to scare you, rather bring you real insight and powerful tools that has the potential to positively change the course of your child's safety and wellbeing for the rest of their life. We believe that a mother is innately the most invested in their child's welfare, safety, and happiness. Afterall, you are the lighthouse that can save your child's life. Patricia and I encourage you to start now, today, the moment you click on this episode. It is your decision as a parent to step up as one. It is up to you as a friend of a parent, a teacher, a bystander, a neighbor, to step up and decide to take the responsibility as a compassionate and empathetic human that can support in a child's safety, security, and wellbeing. Patricia pleads parents to step into that discomfort and practice these steps every day so that you never have to face the trauma of your child experiencing sexual abuse, and so that you never have to live with the guilt and shame and disappointment of failing your children. For Video version subscribe, and it will be available to you along with other exclusive content for subscribers only. Connect with Patricia! IG @The_Patricia_Cardona #podcast #action #parenting #relationshipcoach #coparenting

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  • Lily has an organic conversation with leadership coach and motivational speaker, Jay Chase. If you ever wonder why things don't work out well in your life for very long, listen to this episode.

    Lily has a thorough discussion with her guest as Jay unveils how accidental growth and doing things his way brought him nothing but adversity. Eventually, even when earning good money, he wound up becoming an alcoholic and a felon. And one day, while in a jail cell, he turned his mindset around... and transformed his life.

    You will learn how important it is to stop living by accident and instead, be intentional with everything that you do. Jay tells us how being impeccable with his words is one of the four principles that helped him be a "good person.'

    Lily and Jay talk frankly about how living life with intention is what will get you what you want, and to where you need to be.

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    Would you take a few seconds and share this episode and others as we help shift the world to a culture of love and kindness and success? Thank you. I appreciate you. You may visit my site and contact me here. Jay Chase's site:https://thejaychase.comJay's APP:https://apps.apple.com/us/app/dont-touch-my-mindset/id6452756610

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  • Lily Sanders speaks with Gloria Masters, on what you need to know about child sex abuse and child sex trafficking. It is not what and where you think. In fact, it is happening right under our nose! This is one of the most painful conversations about a woman's journey as a child sex abuse and sex trafficking victim, how she survived, and what she is doing now to save other children from the illicit sex trafficking abuse and child exploitation. Gloria Masters' experiences epitomizes some of the darkest forms of dehumanization by the hands of her own father, brother, and grandmother. As she tells of her story, it just kept getting uglier. Then one day, miraculously, she was able to escape and leave behind 16 years of unfathomable abuse. But there was decades of healing to be had. Today, Gloria Masters is the woman behind the global hand signal for under 16’s just released in June 2023, to resource and protect them from abuse. She is the founder of Handing the Shame Back foundation, a charity dedicated to adult survivors of child sexual abuse. Gloria is also the author of "On Angels Wings", and "Flightpath to Healing" which can be found on Amazon.

    Gloria says that if she had a hand signal to use, she could have been saved. So it is her mission, and all of ours to spread this hand signal around the globe so that you can help save a child.

    She says, "If not you, than who?"

    PLEASE SHARE THIS EPISODE so you can contribute in child safety and exercise human compassion. Thank you! Every share COUNTS!

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  • This is part 4, and final episode of this Series on "The Power of a Family unit, Unfailing love, and Positivity." In this episode Lily Sanders joins Conor Crippen with his Ted Talk mentor, John-Michael Lander. He unveils how walking beyond struggle can magnify your purpose.

    This is a powerful conversation that unfolds with the reality of how we are all intrinsically connected to a much greater power...love. And that love is what transforms, heals, inspires, supports, and unlocks your purpose in life.

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    Thank you for your on-going love and support!

    To contact Conor Crippen: https://www.instagram.com/crippenconor/To contact John-Michael Lander:https://johnmichaellander.com/

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  • This is the 3rd part of Lily's 4-part series on Family Unit and the Effects from Trauma.

    Lily Sanders has an unfiltered conversation with Bridget and Jack Crippen, who are Conor Crippen's siblings.

    They have gone through their own trauma watching their brother lying in a coma for 3 weeks, and then waking to a situation they could never have imagined would ever happen. Only, it did happen, and it did become their current situation.

    Then miraculously Conor wakes, and has a new challenge which is to relearn how to utilize all functions of living. His siblings tell us what this was like, and their different perspectives then and now. This is a beautiful story of family unity, love of siblings, pain, and peace.

    Conor says, "The beauty of my experience was the beauty of the simple."

    Bridget speaks of his brother Conor as the lighthouse for them all during their time of adversity and even now.

    And Jack lovingly admits that it's not easy to get over what he and Conor have been through. But the memories he has of Conor that he enjoys the most are of the recent. Because they developed the new relationship and moved past the hardship.

    All perfect examples of how we can all go Beyond The Current Situation!
    Don't miss this episode.

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  • This is the first of a 4-part series about the power of a family unit, unfailing love, and positivity. Meet Conor Crippen, who was hit by a drunken driver and lost all functionality for living. He suffered a coma for 3 weeks and woke with traumatic brain injury. The doctors gave very little hope for his survival. Defying the odds, it empowered him.

    Today, he is here speaking with Lily Sanders about his accident, his challenging journey, and how it affected every area of his life. He has a beautiful message that he wants the world to hear.

    Be encouraged to leave messages and questions for either Conor or myself right here on this podcast, and please share with those you feel will appreciate this conversation.

    Thank you!

    Connect with Conor:https://www.tiktok.com/@crippenconorhttps://www.conorcrippen.com/

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  • This is part 2 of a four part series about the power of a family unit, and how their team approach, perseverance, and positivity helped their child overcome traumatic brain injury.

    Lily Sanders has an organic conversation with Phil and Kathleen Crippen who undeniably expressed openness and honesty and tells us how they pulled things together for the love of their son, Conor.
    This is a powerful and raw episode that will surely impact any parents with children. We never know when adversity may touch our lives, and this conversation with Kathleen and Phil can open your eyes to what it takes to go beyond the worst situation and come up on the other side of it all gracefully, and with love. Their story depicts what true parenting is, and what a true marriage is.
    There are many messages in this power-packed episode so be sure to watch til the end! Don't miss it!

    Be sure to tune in to the previous episode with their son, Conor Crippen who survived traumatic brain injury and had to re-learn every function for living.
    Please share with other parents and share the love.
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  • This episode depicts the gross act of sexual abuse on young males by a group of "professionals". They groomed John-Michael's mother, and used him for sexual pleasures as he grew up as an athlete.
    Winning gold medals at the Norway and Danish Cups came at a very high emotional, mental, and physical price for John-Michael.

    Only, it seemed as if the confusion began when he was only three, as a young boy. Listen to this episode for his compelling story, powerful insight, how to be aware of predators, and how he went beyond the current situation to freedom.

    Today, John-Michael is actively helping young men and bringing awareness to parents about predator grooming.

    BE ENCOURAGED TO SEND LILY SANDERS (SHOW HOST) ANY MESSAGES OR QUESTIONS FOR HER GUEST ON THIS EPISODE.
    Links to John-Michael's books:
    SURFACE TENSION
    https://www.amazon.com/Surface-Tension-John-Michael-Lander/dp/1635685915
    CRACKED SURFACE
    https://www.amazon.com/Cracked-Surface-John-Michael-Lander/dp/0578686589



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  • Lily talks with her guest Amy B. Chesler. A shocking and organic conversation about the murder of her mother, who her killer was, and what life looks like for Amy now. Learn how to understand the many spectrums of violence and abuse and how to educate yourself and be responsible as a community.

    To listen to this episode and many more on your favorite podcast platform, subscribe to "Beyond the Current Situation" right here, on Spotify.

    My guest:
    Amy B. Chesler is an author, award-winning blogger, & actress from Southern California. She discovered her passion for the literary and film worlds as early as she can remember, and has been voraciously reading, writing, and performing ever since. However, it wasn’t until surviving domestic violence and being freed from an early life of abuse that she began to pursue her dreams professionally. Her recent book- “Working for Justice” can be found on Amazon or whever books on-line are sold.
    https://www.amazon.com/Working-Justice-Familys-Betrayal-Healing/dp/1642937541



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  • Lily talks with angel intuitive, Michael Andre Ford. They have an organic conversation about the existence of angels and how they can assist you in life.   Join Lily Sanders on her podcast "BEYOND THE CURRENT SITUATION" and learn how we can experience angels and how they can help you go beyond a current situation.   
    Subscribe, Comment, and Share if you feel the love in this podcast.   
    To get Michael's book:  Amazon.com/author/angels  
    Michael's website:  MichaelAndreFord.com

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  • Lily talks about a fascinating topic with Dr. Todd Ovokaitys. This is their third episode together which was part of a 3-part series. Learn how the pineal glands expands the human consciousness.  They discuss  the relevance of the pineal gland and how its a way of having a "whole body tune-up" to permit higher energetic flow and balance. It is the highest vibration of the energy centers.
    Dr Todd brings us a pineal tome experiences by walking us through the first three levels of the 24. You do not want to miss this! Tune in. We also are offering you a FREE download of the Lumerian Choir "Victory Song". 
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  • "LEARN HOW WE CAN DOUBLE THE CURRENT HUMAN LIFE SPAN". This is the second episode of a three-part series with Dr. Todd Ovokaitys. Join this fascinating conversation I have with Dr. Todd about AGE REVERSAL. There is a big difference between slowing the aging process and reversing it! You do not want to miss this episode. 
    As a thank you for being an amazing audience, and with Dr. Todd's generously, we are providing you with a GIFT. Please click on this link provided below to claim your free gift. We trust you will enjoy an experience with Pineal Tones, which we discuss within this episode and will prepare you somewhat, for our third episode together that will be a Pineal Tone Experience, here on Beyond the Current Situation. 
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  • Tune in here as we "Unlock the Enigmatic Pathways Behind Brain Health". Your host Lily Sanders talks with Dr. Todd Ovokaitys in an insightful conversation on stem cells, quantum research, and all of the detailed the work he and his team perform to support brain health, and age reversal. This is a powerful download filled with information on healing, life longevity, and the amazing human potential. 
    You will learn that the human life span potential is so much more than you think. Dr Todd discusses their advanced DNA testing method of awakening these new born cells with the genetic clock that is literally set at a new born level. Their method has turned back the biologic clock more than any other method in history! 
    This is the first of a 3 part series that Lily Sanders we be presenting on BEYOND THE CURRENT SITUATION. Subscribe here to listen: https://anchor.fm/lilysanders 
    FREE download for all! Here is your generous gift from DR. Todd Ovokaitys for your expansion: http://www.pinealtones.com/victorysong/ 
    Be encouraged to subscribe here https://anchor.fm/lilysanders to join us for our second episode "DOUBLING THE HUMAN LIFE SPAN" on Friday October 11, 2021 at 9AM PST/ 12PM EST 
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  • Lily Sanders narrates an excerpt from her book "Truth To Triumph" that describes an incident leading into the day she ran for her life. She reads this excerpt from Chapter 8 which is titled, 'How Death Became Life'. This is an abbreviated version of the event. Lily eloquently shares this experience to show how a life situation can lead to claiming your life back and finding your truth.   
    This is a powerful narration that helps you understand your right to have love in your life and let go of shame, disappointment, confusion, and fear. 
    Lily Sanders is available for speaking and inter-active workshops that include guided mediations at Schools and Colleges nationwide. To book an engagement with Lily Sanders inquire here:  Speaking Engagements
    For more stories and insight you may purchase "TRUTH TO TRIUMPH" on her website: lilysanders.live   
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