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Today is Part 2 with our Special Guests - Katie & Michael Bommarito
They will be sharing the second part of their story of brokenness to breakthrough.
Katie and Michael Bommarito met and married in seminary with dreams of pastoring a church together and spending time on the mission field. But after more than a decade of serving in full time ministry, those dreams shattered with the public discovery of Michaelâs pornography use. Having secretly struggled with a porn and sex addiction for 25 years, the revelation came as a shock to everyone around him. A long series of counselors and accountability groups followed, but Michael continued lying to himself and others about the depths of his growing addiction. For 18 years they lived trapped in a cycle of lying, getting caught, and promising this time it would be different. But finally, God broke through, and Michael was able to admit the depths of his addiction. Surrounded by a network of support, Katie and Michael faced the pain of his betrayal, worked hard at restoration, and found hope and love beyond it all.
Today they have been married for almost 34 years. They have two grown sons, a beautiful daughter-in-law, and are expecting their first grandchild soon.
Listen in to this amazing testimony of God's redemption and healing in the midst of sexual addiction and betrayal.
Listen to Part 1 HERE
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Today I have some special guests!
First, my hubby is in the house! So excited to have him by my side as we interview a great couple Katie and Michael Bommarito.
They will be sharing their story of brokenness to breakthrough.
Katie and Michael Bommarito met and married in seminary with dreams of pastoring a church together and spending time on the mission field. But after more than a decade of serving in full time ministry, those dreams shattered with the public discovery of Michaelâs pornography use. Having secretly struggled with a porn and sex addiction for 25 years, the revelation came as a shock to everyone around him. A long series of counselors and accountability groups followed, but Michael continued lying to himself and others about the depths of his growing addiction. For 18 years they lived trapped in a cycle of lying, getting caught, and promising this time it would be different. But finally, God broke through, and Michael was able to admit the depths of his addiction. Surrounded by a network of support, Katie and Michael faced the pain of his betrayal, worked hard at restoration, and found hope and love beyond it all.
Today they have been married for almost 34 years. They have two grown sons, a beautiful daughter-in-law, and are expecting their first grandchild soon.
Listen in to this amazing testimony of God's redemption and healing in the midst of sexual addiction and betrayal.
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If youâve ever felt pressure to âjust move on,â to suppress your emotions, or to act like everything is fine when itâs not, then todayâs episode is for you.
Weâre tackling a powerful truth: Healing doesnât mean pretending it didnât happen. You can rebuild your life and marriage without denying your pain. In fact, true healing requires facing it.
Letâs talk about what that looks like, why suppressing emotions can actually make healing harder, and how to move forward in a way that honors both your pain and Godâs restoration.
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I want to get real with you today...
Healing after betrayal is hard.
Some of you have been doing all the âright things,â yet you still feel stuck, overwhelmed, and unsure if your marriage can be restored.
Why?
Because there are key mistakes that many betrayed wives make that keep them trapped in the cycle of pain.
So today, Iâm breaking down the 3 biggest mistakes that keep women stuck after betrayalâand what you can do instead to move forward in true healing. If youâve ever felt like healing is taking longer than it should or wondered âWill I ever feel normal again?ââthis episode is for you.
And stick around, because at the end, I have a special invitation for those of you who are ready to take the next step toward healing in a safe, supportive community of women who truly get it.
Letâs dive in!
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I am asked this question quite often, "My husband is having and affair and he refuses to stop. What do I do?"
Beautiful, I hear you. I understand that anguish. I was there.
My husband refuses to stop his affair for 1.5 years. It was devastating and exhausting.
Todayâs topic is one that I know weighs heavy on many of you: What do you do when your husband refuses to end the affair? Youâve prayed. Youâve pleaded. Youâve cried more tears than you can count. And yet, heâs still choosing the affair over your marriage. So where does that leave you? What can you do, and just as importantly, what canât you do?
Sis, if this is you today, I want you to know this: You are not powerless. You are not alone. And this is not the end of your story. So letâs dive in and talk about what your next steps should be when your husband wonât end the affair.
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It's NOT too late to register for our next Group Coaching Program that started February 17, 2025: Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way Get in before the doors close March 8th!
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Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
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Why do women fall into the trap of comparing themselves to the affair person after betrayal?
In today's episode, weâre tackling a trap that so many betrayed wives fall intoâcompeting with the affair person. If you've ever felt like you need to âwinâ your spouse back by trying to be sexier, more exciting, or more like the other woman, this episode is for you. Weâre going to break down why this mindset is harmful and give you five powerful ways to stop competing and start reclaiming your God-given worth.
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It's NOT too late to register for our next Group Coaching Program that started February 17, 2025: Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way Get in before the doors close March 8th!
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Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
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Today's episode tackles a tough but necessary question that many Christian couples struggle with:
Is watching pornography or engaging in masturbation outside of intimacy with my spouse really considered cheating?
The world says noâitâs harmless, normal, and even beneficial.
But as Christians, we donât define marriage through the worldâs lensâwe define it through Godâs.
What is the standard for Christian Women and Men and What does God say about it?
Weâll explore why most Christian denominations consider these actions a serious sin against marital fidelity, break down the impact they have on a marriage, and give you steps to find healing.
We will also reveal the truth behind the industry and how it is designed to harm you, your marriage and your family.
And if this is something you or your spouse struggle with, donât miss the end of the episode, where Iâll share how you can get the support you need inside my Marriage Redesigned program. Letâs dive in!"*
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It's NOT too late to register for our next Group Coaching Program that started February 17, 2025: Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way Get in before the doors close March 8th!
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Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
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Why Do Women Self-Sabotage After Betrayal?
After betrayal, the emotional pain can feel overwhelming. The enemy wants to keep you stuck in a cycle of fear, doubt, and self-destruction. Self-sabotage is often a subconscious way to protect yourself from further pain, but in reality, it keeps you from experiencing the full healing and restoration that God desires for you. But there is a better way. You can stop the self-sabotage and move forward into true healing.
Wan to know how?
Let's dive in...
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Register for our next Group Coaching Program that starts February 17, 2025: Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way
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One of the most painful aspects of choosing to reconcile after marital betrayal is facing the disapproval of family members who donât agree with your decision. They may believe they are protecting you, or they may struggle to trust your spouse again after seeing your pain. Sometimes, this disapproval can lead to being shut out, leaving you feeling isolated and torn between your marriage and your family.
If you are in this situation, know that you are not alone. Many women who choose the path of reconciliation face resistance from loved ones. While you cannot control their reactions, you can take intentional steps to rebuild communication and foster understanding.
In today's show, I am sharing 3 strategies to help open the door to reconnecting with your family.
Let's do this...
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Register for our next Group Coaching Program that starts February 17, 2025: Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way
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Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
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Are you ready to reclaim your life and restore your marriage after betrayal?
Do you wonder if you could actually find healing inside of a group coaching program?
Will it be safe?
Today, I'm sharing 3 reasons why healing happens faster inside of a group coaching program when you have experienced betrayal trauma.
Let's talk about it...
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Register for our next Group Coaching Program that starts February 17, 2025: Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way
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Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
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If youâve been struggling with overwhelming emotions, confusion, or even physical symptoms after betrayal, you are not alone. Today, weâre going to dive deep into the top five symptoms of betrayal trauma, how they affect you, and how you can begin the healing process.
I also have an exciting opportunity for youâmy 6-month group coaching program, "Roadmap to Recovery: Healing from Marital Betrayal Godâs Way," begins on February 10th. If youâre ready to accelerate your healing in a Christ-centered, supportive community, Iâll share more about how you can join at the end of this episode.
Letâs get started.
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Register for our next Group Coaching Program that starts February 17, 2025: Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way
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Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
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Emotional dysregulation is a state where your emotions feel overwhelming, unpredictable, or out of control. Itâs as if your emotional thermostat is brokenâone moment youâre completely numb, and the next, youâre consumed by anger, grief, or panic. For women experiencing betrayal trauma, this is a common and natural response to the immense emotional shock and pain of discovering infidelity.
In todayâs episode, weâre tackling that important topic: emotional dysregulation from betrayal.
What is it?How does it affect Christian women whoâve experienced the devastating impact of their husbandâs betrayal?How can you begin to re-regulate your nervous system and find peace in Christ?Stay with me because weâll also cover five practical steps you can take to regain emotional balance.
Letâs dive in.
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Register for our next Group Coaching Program that starts February 10, 2025: Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way
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Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
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What Is Betrayal Trauma? And...
Is it even real?
If youâve ever felt dismissed or wondered whether what youâre experiencing is valid, I want you to lean in. Weâll talk about what betrayal trauma is, its symptoms, and, most importantly, three ways to start your healing journey.
So grab a cup of coffee or tea, find a quiet moment, and letâs dive in!
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Register for our next Group Coaching Program that starts February 10, 2025: Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way
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Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
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Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
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D-Dayâdiscovery dayâis a moment that forever alters the landscape of your life. Itâs the day when the truth about your spouseâs betrayal comes to light, whether through confession, discovery, or confrontation.
The emotions you experience can be overwhelming, devastating and complex. But what is really happening to you?
PhysicallySpirituallyEmotionallyIf youâre a Christian woman seeking healing after the devastation of betrayal, youâre in the right place. Today, weâre talking about D-Dayâthe day you discover your spouseâs betrayalâand the emotional whirlwind that comes with it. Weâll also cover three critical steps to take immediately to secure your healing.
Letâs get started.
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Register for our next Group Coaching Program that starts February 10, 2025: Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way
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Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
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2024 was a year of EXPLOSIVE growth for Beauty Beyond Betrayal Podcast! Thank you for being such a loyal listener!
I want to share with you a recap of 2024 and what's to come in 2025. If you are new, WELCOME! We know you are here by divine appointment. God wants to heal you and restore you to wholeness after marital betrayal. And YES, it is possible!
The Story of Us - Our journey from Betrayal to Redemption -- Lisa & Britt Limehouse | E197 The Story of Us - Part 2 | E1985 Ways to Help You get out of Survival Mode due to Betrayal Trauma | E181Unraveling Soul Ties: 3 Signs You May Have a Soul Tie After Infidelity | E179Tips to improve your emotional regulation after betrayal | E180My husband is addicted to Porn. What do I do? | E1885 Reasons why you hold on to the pain of the betrayal | E196What happens when you find out your husband has betrayed you? | E185Why Do I Keep Getting Triggered by My Spouse's Betrayal (and How Do I Stop)?" | E200Behavior Modification VS True Heart Transformation in the unfaithful spouse | E204 5 Practical Ways to Stop Reliving the Pain of Betrayal | E211::
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Register for our next Group Coaching Program that starts February 10, 2025: Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way
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Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: [email protected]
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
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Todayâs episode is one many of you have asked for: "How to Stop Reliving the Pain of Betrayal."
Betrayal is devastating, and itâs all too easy to get stuck replaying the hurt, which only deepens the trauma.
But there is hope, and today, Iâll be sharing 5 practical ways to stop reliving the painâand why doing so is vital for your healing.
Letâs dive in.
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The holiday season can be one of the most beautiful times of the year, but letâs be realâit can also amplify the pain of betrayal and trigger feelings of isolation, resentment, or loss. Today, I want to share three tips that will help you not just survive this holiday season, but truly thrive, even in the midst of betrayal.
If this resonates with you, grab a warm cup of tea, find a quiet spot, and letâs dive into this conversation that I believe could transform your holiday season.
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Today's episode dives into a topic that lies at the heart of healing after betrayal: The Role of Faith in Healing from Betrayal.
Betrayal shakes the foundation of trust, not only in your spouse but sometimes even in God. If you're wrestling with questions like, "Where was God in my pain?" or "Can my faith help me truly heal?", this episode is for you.
We'll explore how faith is a cornerstone of the healing process and share five practical ways to walk in faith while healing. So grab your journal or a cozy spot, and letâs dive in!
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Today, weâre tackling a deeply raw and vulnerable question: How can I, as the betrayed spouse, be thankful for anything when my husbandâs affair has shattered my world? This is a question so many of my clients ask, and itâs understandable. Betrayal shakes the very foundation of trust, love, and hope in a marriage, making gratitude feel impossible.
But today, I want to offer you five practical ways to cultivate thankfulness after betrayalânot as a denial of your pain, but as a path toward healing and restoration.
Grab our Early Black Friday Special: How to Thrive through the Holidays after Betrayal
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Schedule your FREE CONSULT TO RECEIVE YOUR HOLIDAY SPECIALS!
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: [email protected]
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
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Have you completely shutdown since you discovered your husband's betrayal?When he opens his mouth to say something, do you cringe?Do you just want silence and not hear anything he has to say?
If you said YES to any of these, I completely understand.
I remember not wanting to hear a word out of my husband's mouth after I found out about his affair. I remember thinking, "It's all a lie anyway, so why do I want to hear anything he has to say."
I get it, Beautiful.
But, I also know that COMMUNICATION after betrayal is crucial if there is any chance of reconciliation.
Today, weâre tackling one of the most challenging but essential aspects of healing after betrayal: COMMUNICATION. Whether youâre struggling to express your feelings or unsure how to rebuild intimacy and trust through words, this episode is for you.
So, grab your journal or just take a deep breath, and letâs dive into âHow to Communicate With Your Spouse After Betrayal.ââ
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