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Financial abuse remains one of the most powerful yet least understood tactics used by abusers to maintain control. In this raw, emotional conversation, two survivors share their hard-earned strategies for financially preparing to escape dangerous relationships.
The hosts reveal detailed methods that helped them break free—from getting cash back at checkout and removing that portion of receipts, to building reserves through reward programs, gift cards, and couponing. Their advice extends beyond merely saving money to creating comprehensive safety plans, including teaching children emergency protocols and maintaining "grab-and-go" safes with essential documents.
What makes this episode particularly powerful is the authentic vulnerability shared through personal stories. One host reveals the horrifying moment her ex-partner deliberately endangered her infant daughter's life by obstructing her tracheostomy, while another describes preparing end-of-life instructions for her teenage son when she discovered her ex was planning to kill her. These aren't theoretical scenarios but lived experiences that underscore why financial preparation can be life-saving.
The conversation also addresses the judgment survivors often face from those who've never experienced abuse, with a poignant story about confronting a mother who blamed her daughter for staying in an abusive relationship. The comparison between seeking specialized medical care for cancer versus appropriate support for domestic violence survivors resonates deeply.
Whether you're currently planning your exit, supporting someone who is, or simply seeking to understand the complex dynamics of abuse, this episode offers practical wisdom, emotional support, and above all, the reassurance that you are not alone on this journey.Support the show
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When Malcolm Goodwin reached out to thank Victoria for saving his friend's life, it reinforced exactly why the Contagious Smile podcast exists. "I'm not looking for praise or notoriety," Victoria shares with raw honesty. "When I went through this and was laying on the floor bleeding, not wanting to get up, I wished someone could say 'I've got you. You're not alone.'" That connection – knowing someone understands your darkest moments – can transform a tiny remaining spark into a wildfire of healing.
This episode unveils exciting new developments, including Victoria joining Cameo as talent (at just $10 per video) and the creation of the Stucco Squad community, named after Victoria's beloved service dog. The Squad will offer special merchandise including hospital-friendly bracelets for children and families navigating medical challenges. Michael and Victoria's natural, sometimes hilarious banter reveals why their authenticity resonates with millions of listeners worldwide, propelling their podcast into the top 2% globally.
The heart of their mission shines through stories of impact – how Victoria's memoir "Who Kicked First" took a decade to write due to fear but ultimately saved lives, and how her domestic violence advocacy creates practical safety plans for those in danger. Their work extends beyond trauma to celebrate relationships that heal, like Michael's special father-daughter bond with Faith, showcased through weekly movie nights and playful pranks that balance the heavier topics with genuine joy.
Whether you're a survivor seeking connection, a parent navigating challenges, or someone wanting to understand trauma's impact, the Contagious Smile podcast offers a rare blend of unflinching honesty and hopeful perspective. Join the Stucco Squad community on Facebook to participate in upcoming events, contests, and receive updates on their initiatives that turn pain into purpose and isolation into belonging.Support the show
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In this heartfelt episode, It's a colorful tapestry woven from laughter, memories, and the anticipation of what lies ahead.
We discuss the nuances of gifting experiences over material items and reflect on what it means to prioritize relationships and shared moments. We also introduce an upcoming Podcast-a-thon aimed at supporting the Make-A-Wish Foundation, an organization dedicated to bringing joy to children facing life-threatening illnesses, and provide insights into the transformative Give Kids the World charity.
Unpacking the significance of faith in our lives, we celebrate her inspiring journey, remarkable achievements, and how her resilience stirs hope within our community. Join our discussion as we focus on embracing life, encouraging each other to pursue our dreams, and the profound impact of giving back to those in need.
Tune in for a rich conversation that will uplift your heart and inspire action. We encourage you to find joy in the little things while making a difference for loved ones and families in need. Embrace the journey with us, subscribe, share, and become part of our mission to make dreams come true!Support the show
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What does it mean to transform personal trauma into a mission that uplifts others? Join Victoria and Michael as they unveil several groundbreaking initiatives designed to create safe spaces for those who need them most.
The excitement is palpable as Victoria announces their podcast-a-thon benefiting Give Kids the World, an extraordinary organization providing magical experiences for children with critical illnesses. This partnership with Make-A-Wish represents their commitment to creating meaningful moments for families facing unimaginable challenges.
Meet the Stucco Squad – named after Victoria's beloved service dog – a community where extraordinary superheroes can form lifelong friendships and be validated for exactly who they are. Michael shares a touching story about inviting a young woman with special needs to appear on their show, and how her tears of joy illustrated exactly why representation matters.
Drawing from her nearly 20 years of advocacy experience, Victoria introduces the Safe Haven Phoenix Center for survivors of abuse. With courses priced at just $4.99, she explains, "I've been exactly where you've been, but I went there alone, and I don't want anybody to have to go through that alone." This philosophy of paying forward hard-won wisdom permeates everything they create.
The conversation takes a powerful turn when Victoria demonstrates what resilience truly means. As an amputee who hangs pictures with a hammer and nail one-handed, she embodies her philosophy that "impossible" should be reframed as "I'm possible." Through stories of nearly losing their daughter and spending months in ICU, they remind us that life's petty annoyances pale in comparison to what truly matters.
Subscribe to extend your smile with Victoria and Michael as they continue creating platforms that validate voices, heal wounds, and celebrate the extraordinary in all of us. Your voice matters here – whether you're speaking, signing, or simply seeking connection in a world that sometimes forgets to listen.Support the show
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Victoria and Michael open the doors to their new passion project, the "Stucco Squad" – a vibrant, supportive community designed specifically for children with special needs. Named after their service dog (who was in turn named after Victoria's law enforcement nickname), this initiative creates a space where extraordinary kids can connect, celebrate their uniqueness, and participate in engaging activities like coloring contests, themed worksheets, and creative challenges.
Drawing from their personal experiences – Victoria's own special needs journey and raising their daughter with special needs – they understand the profound impact of building self-worth in children who often feel different. "We know what it's like to think of ourselves as not equal," Victoria shares with raw honesty, "and that's not true, because we are way more than equal. We get to travel a journey where every milestone is exciting and celebrated."
What truly sets the Stucco Squad apart is its accessibility. Recognizing the financial constraints many special needs families face, membership costs less than $5 monthly. Children receive official ID cards with badges, and there are plans for a magazine featuring these amazing kids. The Stucco Squad Facebook group serves as the community hub where families can connect and children can showcase their creativity.
Alongside this initiative, they're launching their Podcast Academy with classes on podcasting, social media management, and building a digital footprint – all priced affordably between $24.99 and $49, a stark contrast to similar programs charging thousands. "We want everybody to reach their goals and their dreams," Victoria explains, acknowledging today's economic challenges.
The couple also reveals their upcoming podcast-a-thon partnership with Give Kids the World, an organization working with Make-A-Wish to provide accommodations for families in Florida. Their passion for advocacy extends to domestic violence survivors, with Victoria emphasizing the importance of private communication channels to protect those who've escaped dangerous situations.
Throughout their conversation, Victoria and Michael's genuine connection shines through their playful banter, while their shared commitment to breaking cycles of abuse and creating safe spaces for vulnerable communities forms the foundation of everything they do. Join the Stucco Squad today and become part of this extraordinary journey of celebration, support, and empowerment.Support the show
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Ready to take your podcasting journey to the next level? Join us as we unveil the strategies that have launched our show into the top 1% globally! This episode is packed with invaluable insights into niche selection, content creation, and behind-the-scenes looks at what it takes to grow an audience. Discover the tools that can streamline your production process, plus tips on how to connect with fellow podcasters and build a supportive community. We’re addressing common pitfalls and sharing how our very own Podcast Academy is designed to empower creators at every level. With personal anecdotes and practical advice, you’ll be inspired to elevate your podcasting game and create engaging content that resonates with listeners. Excited for your podcast’s future? Let’s dive in! Subscribe now and transform your journey today.
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Discover the true value of community, love, and support in our latest episode that focuses on how we navigate family dynamics and overcome personal struggles. Co-host Dana bravely shares her recent experiences with illness, showcasing the incredible support found in close friendships. As we discuss the complexities of familial relationships, we delve deep into the dynamics of narcissism and how it can negatively impact our connections with loved ones.
Throughout the conversation, we highlight the importance of building strong bonds and how they can provide resilience against life's hardships. Hear authentic stories from listeners grappling with the challenges of parenting and the emotional toll of unhealthy family relationships. Our discussions empower you to embrace your self-worth and establish healthy boundaries, ultimately promoting personal growth.
Join us as we tackle listener questions, emphasizing the significance of positive communication with children and the need for validation in challenging situations. We encourage everyone to take steps towards nurturing their well-being while seeking loving connections within their communities. Don’t forget to share your thoughts and stories with us! Dive into this engaging episode for heartfelt conversations and practical insights that may inspire you to make meaningful changes in your relationships and life.Support the show
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Imagine a day where your phone takes a backseat, and family fun becomes the main event. We decided to unplug for a while and embrace the simple joys of technology-free bonding. Alongside the initial grumbles, we found laughter, productivity, and a surprising sense of fulfillment. Plus, you'll get a kick out of the prank that almost had Michael believing a beauty mishap — his quick thinking saved the day! Join us as we share heartwarming stories, including our unforgettable experience at Give Kids the World during Faith's Make-A-Wish trip. This magical place taught us about the power of community support and the importance of creating moments that matter.
Beyond the laughter and pranks, we dive into meaningful discussions about the value of family connections over material possessions. It's the little things — like putting our phones away at dinner — that help us appreciate life’s treasured moments. We'll recount personal stories that have reshaped our perspectives, including those involving loss and unexpected changes, reminding us to cherish every moment. We also touch on humor-laden tales about caring for each other, while sneaking in a lighthearted reminder of how important deodorant is in public spaces!
But it's not all lighthearted banter. We tackle serious topics head-on, such as the controversial debate on the death penalty. With passion and a touch of personal conviction, we explore justice, fairness, and the stark realities victims face. Our discussion also touches on personal experiences with cyberstalking and the absurdity of it all, challenging our listeners to rethink their views on justice and accountability. Join us for a rollercoaster of emotions, insights, and laughter, as we aim to inspire and entertain in equal measure.Support the show
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Ever announce your bathroom breaks at home? It might sound strange, but it's all part of the fun and laughter we share in our family. This episode, we introduce my wife Victoria's impactful book on dealing with life's real challenges, like navigating narcissists and setting boundaries with toxic family members. We also touch on the serious issue of cyberstalking, offering practical tips to keep your online presence secure. You'll hear personal stories about the importance of meaningful apologies and supporting those who've always had your back.
Prepare for a rollercoaster of humor and heart as we recount some unforgettable family pranks. Ever tried simulating labor pains with a TENS unit, only to find out it's a muscle relaxer? Well, that was quite the mishap! Plus, the hilarious moment when a father's protective instincts go into overdrive after discovering his daughter's new sports bras in the laundry. And as we wrap things up, discover how our new Podcasting Academy can empower your creative journey with its treasure trove of resources and a vibrant community, all designed to elevate your podcasting endeavors.Support the show
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What do you do when your estranged father becomes your cyberstalker? Victoria and I kick off our return after a rocky January by unraveling this unsettling tale. We share candid reflections and humor as Victoria opens up about her "sperm donor" father, who, despite his obsession, showed zero concern during her daughter Faith's health crises. Through this bizarre saga, we discuss the perplexing behavior of older individuals and the art of resilience and empowerment when facing narcissistic family dynamics. Look out for Victoria's upcoming book, which promises to dig deeper into these familial challenges.
Growing up as the scapegoat in a narcissistic family is a relentless battle of proving innocence. We tackle the ongoing struggle against unjust blame and how past trauma leads to oversharing in adulthood. The narcissist’s aversion to the success of those they seek to control is a key theme, as we recount anecdotes of manipulation and coercion. It’s all about reclaiming personal power and embracing authenticity amidst these toxic dynamics. Listen in to uncover how embracing your truth can be your greatest weapon in overcoming familial deceit and greed.
We're on a mission to break the cycle of trauma for future generations, sharing stories of loyalty, familial conflict, and the sacrifices we make for those we love. From tales of narcissistic behavior and materialism to the journey of choosing motherhood with a vow to change, we explore the importance of healing from past traumas. Our candid conversations underscore the responsibility of being a cycle breaker and preparing for future generations with love and nurturing relationships. Join us as we gear up for our second season, inviting listeners to engage, share, and spread the love.Support the show
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Imagine standing in a courtroom, tears of joy streaming down your face as your daughter reads a poem so touching that even the judge is moved. That's exactly the kind of emotional whirlwind we experienced when my husband officially adopted our daughter, Faith. This episode is all about that pivotal moment, the laughter, the tears, and the symbolic fresh start that came with replacing her birth certificate's past with a future filled with love and safety. We'll talk about how this adoption signifies a new beginning, freeing Faith from the shackles of a painful history while touching on the persistent shadow of challenges like cyber stalking.
But it’s not all seriousness here—we shift gears and dive into the quirky, laughter-filled dynamics of our family life post-adoption. Faith joins us, showcasing her quick wit as we engage in playful debates about who in the family is the true chatterbox and why her dad's nickname is "Burrito." We also invite you to be part of our family fun by sharing your prank ideas for future episodes. Plus, get excited for an extended episode this weekend where we promise more engaging and light-hearted antics. Stick around, because this journey is filled with unbreakable love, resilience, and a hearty dose of humor.Support the show
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What does it take to start anew and shed the past? Let's explore the courageous journey of our daughter Faith, who took the brave step of changing her first name and removing her biological father’s name from her birth certificate, reaching a poignant climax in a courtroom with her heartfelt poem that even brought the judge to tears. Meanwhile, we laugh about Faith's newfound penchant for colorful language, which has added an unexpected layer of humor to our family tapestry. Amidst tales of personal growth and resilience, we also share our excitement and challenges in launching the Podcast Growth Academy, an initiative born out of our experiences growing a podcast business without relying on an outsourced marketing team.
Discovering the secrets to podcast startup success without professional marketing help has not been easy. But our journey has taught us valuable lessons, and now we're eager to share our knowledge through new courses on podcasting skills, social media, and content creation strategies. In candid conversations, we also tackle the real-life frustrations of cyber-stalking and how we’ve developed resilience to overcome negativity. Through humor and intimate storytelling, we aim to inspire other couples to embrace podcasting and confidently navigate the social media world, underlining the importance of enjoying quality time with loved ones in the process.
Amidst all these adventures, we celebrate Stucco's third birthday with stories of his lovable antics as a service dog, and share heartwarming exchanges about family life, societal perceptions of pit bulls, and Valentine's Day plans. A surprise message from Lou Diamond Phillips adds a delightful twist, leading to a playful discussion about dream celebrity messages. We don't shy away from advocating for special needs children, highlighting systemic challenges and calling for a more empathetic healthcare system. Join us for a tapestry of love, laughter, and insights, crafted to leave you with warmth and inspiration.Support the show
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What if the very people meant to nurture and guide you in childhood became the source of your deepest wounds? Join us as we unravel the complexities of growing up with narcissistic parents, especially fathers and father figures, who often leave an indelible mark on one's emotional landscape. Through raw and heartfelt stories, we shine a light on the journey of healing from a troubled upbringing and emphasize the importance of acknowledging past traumas to find solace and peace. We invite you to listen to these candid conversations as a reminder that you're not alone in this struggle and that healing is possible.
Our special guest Dana, the inspiring author of "Gasping for Air" and "Who Kicked First," joins us to share her incredible journey of resilience. Through her narrative, we explore themes of family betrayal, deception, and the courage it takes to break free from the cycle of narcissism. Dana's storytelling acts as a beacon of hope, encouraging those entangled in toxic family dynamics to reclaim their narratives and forge a new path. Hear her powerful insights and celebrate her warrior spirit, which inspires us all to rise above the pain and choose a different legacy.
Throughout this episode, we unravel the long-lasting effects of emotional neglect, abusive family dynamics, and the silent treatment that can pervade familial relationships. Personal stories highlight the struggles of facing manipulation, exclusion, and the battle to maintain self-worth amid toxic interactions. We delve into the emotional turmoil of experiencing betrayal over significant family events and the strength it requires to navigate life with integrity despite false narratives and unjust blame. This episode is a compelling exploration of the human spirit's capacity to endure and transform, offering listeners a chance to reflect on their own journeys and the power to break free from the chains of their past.Support the show
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Did you know that fake fingernails and glitter body wash can lead to household chaos? Faith's mischievous escapades take center stage as we recount the hilarious pranks that had our family in fits of laughter. Amidst the giggles, we also engage in a spirited discussion about politics, sharing our thoughts on leaders like former President Trump and current President Biden. It's a candid exploration of the human side of decision-making in the political realm, filled with anecdotes and unexpected insights that bridge the gap between humor and reflection.
What happens when the complexities of justice collide with the emotional weight of personal experiences? Our conversation takes a serious turn as we debate the efficacy of the judicial system in handling grave crimes, particularly those against children. The discussion becomes deeply personal as we share our impassioned views on capital punishment and the societal attitudes that shape these tough decisions. We also touch on controversial topics like chemical castration and gender identity, questioning the balance between justice and leniency.
Balancing the weighty with the whimsical, we round out our episode by shifting gears to lighter fare. There’s a lively chat about the bizarre world of selling foot pictures online, coupled with the pride of supporting family ventures. We even venture into the creative process, imagining our personal stories as potential film adaptations, complete with casting choices. This eclectic mix of humor, heart, and hard-hitting issues makes for a compelling listen that promises to entertain and provoke thought.Support the show
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What if the F-word was your secret weapon against a narcissistic parent? Join me and my sister, Dr. Victoria, as we share a raw and humorous exploration of our journey surviving a toxic family environment. Together, we unpack the unique language of resilience, where colorful expressions became our shield and solace against the harsh realities of growing up with a narcissistic mother. We also introduce the quirky community of Daughters of Toxic Mothers, offering a glimpse into the healing humor that binds us, with "ding dong" humorously signaling the end of a toxic chapter.
Through poignant stories, we reflect on the painful parallels between abandoned kittens and the unmet expectations of familial love. Our discussion highlights the heartache of living in the shadow of parental favoritism and the identity crises it spawns. We delve into the complex emotions around being born as a "savior child," challenging listeners to reconsider the compassion and empathy needed to navigate these intricate dynamics. The episode offers a compassionate exploration of how familial roles, like the golden child and scapegoat, shape sibling relationships and self-worth.
In the final chapters, we focus on finding strength and support from unexpected places. Personal stories of emancipation and the pursuit of self-identity reveal the resilience required to overcome the scars of narcissistic abuse. We celebrate the hidden networks of allies ready to support us, highlighting the significance of setting boundaries and recognizing one's worth beyond external validation. The episode closes with a hopeful message: within the chaos of family dynamics, there is always room for empathy, understanding, and the potential for healing and reconciliation.Support the show
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Can a jump scare change the course of a conversation? It certainly did for Victoria and me as we kicked off our latest episode with a hilarious anecdote that left us both in stitches. From there, we plunged into the world of current events, giving a nod to Michael J. Fox's incredible honor of receiving the Medal of Honor and touching on the dynamic roles of public figures like Hillary Clinton and Kamala Harris. Our conversation took an intriguing twist as we considered the evolution of video games, comparing the nostalgic allure of classics to today's ever-changing trends and how they subtly impact our society.
Celebrating unexpected moments of joy, we shared the heartwarming pride of a parent when their daughter's artwork went viral, capturing the admiration of thousands. Her upcoming poetry book, already sparking excitement with pre-orders, is something we can't wait to see. Our admiration extended to Johnny Depp, whose resilience and compassion, especially towards children and abuse survivors, left us inspired and hopeful for a potential interview. We delved into personal stories that echoed the beauty of humility and the power of simple gestures, celebrating creativity and genuine human connections.
Relationships can be a maze, and we unraveled some of their complexities by exploring love, sacrifice, and commitment. We didn't shy away from tough topics, such as the emotional turbulence when one partner unintentionally causes harm and the essential role of personal growth and therapy. Offering practical advice, we talked about the importance of open communication, trust-building, and quality time sans electronics to nurture a healthy marriage. Drawing from personal experiences, we emphasized adapting to each other's needs and keeping humor alive to manage disagreements, ensuring a partnership full of mutual appreciation and understanding.Support the show
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Nearly getting kicked in the face is not how most conversations begin, but when Victoria and I recount a hilarious jump scare incident, things take a playful spin. Our chat playfully careened into the realm of politics as we pondered Michael J. Fox's rumored Medal of Honor award, sparking dialogue about public figures like Hillary Clinton and Kamala Harris. With laughter as our backdrop, we tackled serious societal issues, from terror threats to the impact of video games on violence, all while reminiscing about the innocence of classics like My Little Pony and The Smurfs.
Pivoting from public musings to personal triumphs, we celebrated a profound moment as our daughter's artwork soared to 50,000 views. Her humility in the face of this viral success warmed our hearts, much like our admiration for Johnny Depp's resilient spirit and charitable deeds. Amidst this whirlwind, I shared a sweet anecdote about my wife's humble Christmas wish for silver hoops, exemplifying the simplicity and contentment we strive for. If anyone can connect us with Johnny Depp, we'd welcome the chance to discuss his inspiring journey and philanthropy.
Love and communication in marriage are no walk in the park, but we've tackled this head-on with candid discussions about navigating emotional challenges. Through personal stories, we highlighted the power of open communication and trust in resolving conflicts and maintaining a strong bond. From debating corporal punishment in schools to emphasizing the importance of quality time without digital distractions, our insights aim to guide couples through tough times. We hope to share practical advice to help partners understand each other's needs and reinforce their connection.Support the show
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This episode explores the experiences of individuals raised by narcissistic parents and the impact on self-worth and identity. The hosts discuss stories from listeners about the pain of exclusion, battling the approval of family, and the differences in treatment between siblings, while emphasizing the importance of community and self-acceptance in the healing journey.
• Examining the pain of neglect and conditional love
• Personal stories of missing out on significant moments
• The role of the golden child and feelings of isolation
• Seeking validation within oneself, rather than from toxic relationships
• The importance of community in healing and understanding
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Can your sense of security be restored after witnessing a threat firsthand? Join us as we reflect on our holiday season spent amongst family and our three golden retrievers, all while navigating the alarming incidents of domestic violence and terrorist attacks that have shaken our nation. As a former police officer, I recount a personal story of stepping in during a dire domestic violence situation, underscoring the need for proactive advocacy. We also touch on a frustrating encounter with Xfinity over a promotional offer, revealing the challenges faced by those with unique needs, such as being an amputee, in a world that often lacks understanding.
Our holiday season wouldn't be complete without some customer service chaos. From a FedEx delivery debacle to a puzzling interaction with Xfinity, we recount our challenges in dealing with customer service representatives who fail to accommodate specific needs. Despite the setbacks, we find humor and determination in these experiences, advocating against discriminatory practices and pushing for better accommodations for those facing disabilities. My husband adds his comic touch and admiration for my independence, emphasizing the importance of self-advocacy and resilience in overcoming life's obstacles.
Are video games really a gateway to violence, or are we overreacting to their impact? We explore this controversial topic, comparing classic games to modern, graphic content and questioning the societal shifts they've inspired. Our conversation extends to societal censorship, examining the logic behind banning classic Christmas songs while allowing more contentious modern music. Wrapping up, we share insights from my memoir "Who Kicked First," an empowering journey through trauma and survival. With unwavering support from my husband, we invite you to explore these narratives and find strength in standing up for others within our community.Support the show
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