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Welcome to episode 317 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Sebastian Harris. In this episode, we discuss how you can keep a long term relationship hot, the importance of seduction, tips on how you can get better at seducing your partner and how to create more space in your relationship to allow for sexy time!
Sebastian Harris is a dating coach and sex coach who is on a mission to help men to live more fulfilling dating and sex lives.
In this episode, you will hear:
What inspired Sebastian to write his book Rise of the Phoenix: How to Get the Hottest Girls in a World That Wants You to Fail Keeping a long-term relationship hot Why it’s important for you to seduce your partner Mistakes men often make when it comes to seduction How it’s easy to get lazy in a long-term relationship Tips on ways to break out of the laziness Steps you can take to really turn your partner on Keeping communication open so you can be honest about what is and isn’t working Creating space in your relationship to allow for sexy time Looking at the pillars of seductive touchCozy Earth
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Welcome to episode 404 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Daniel Watter. In this conversation, we discuss his insightful book: “The Existential Importance of the Penis: A Guide to Understanding Male Sexuality”. Dr. Watter explains how childhood trauma can influence sexual dysfunction, why men might experience erectile unpredictability in deepening relationships, and how existential crises can lead men to seek a functioning penis at great lengths.
Dr. Watter is an AASECT-certified sex therapy supervisor and has been elected to Fellowship Status in the International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health (ISSWSH) and the Sexual Medicine Society of North America (SMSNA). In addition to his clinical practice, Dr. Watter has held several faculty appointments. Currently, he is a faculty member at the University of Michigan School of Social Work’s Sexual Certification Program and the Modern Sex Therapy Institutes.
A frequent lecturer at professional meetings throughout North America, Dr. Watter is the author of more than 30 professional articles and book chapters on topics such as sexual function and dysfunction, and ethics in healthcare practice. He is the author of the recently released book, “The Existential Importance of the Penis: A Guide to Understanding Male Sexuality”.
In this episode, you will hear:
● Understanding Male Sexual Communication
● War Veterans and the Existential Crisis of Losing the Penis
● Medical Interventions and Psychological Impacts
● The Deepening Relationship and Erectile Unpredictability
● Existential Psychotherapy and Sexual Addiction
● Sexual Addiction and Existential Psychotherapy
● Confrontation with Mortality and Sexual Behavior
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Welcome to episode 379 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Sadaf Lodhi, who discusses the inadequacies of sexual education within the medical field, especially concerning women's sexual health issues during premenopausal and postmenopausal stages.
Dr. Sadaf Lodhi, with over two decades as an OBGYN in New York, champions women's holistic health, blending her professional expertise with personal insights as a Muslim woman. She extends her practice beyond conventional medicine, focusing on comprehensive well-being and sexual empowerment, encouraging self-discovery and autonomy in sexual matters.
Dr. Lodhi's educational path includes an honors degree in Biochemistry from the University of Michigan, Dearborn, and a Doctorate of Osteopathic Medicine from Michigan State University College of Osteopathic Medicine, earned in 2000. After completing her residency at St. Joseph Mercy in Michigan, she moved to New York, engaging in diverse medical roles across private practices, hospitals, and clinics serving underprivileged communities.
Her career is marked by a commitment to diagnosing and managing gynecological issues, advocating for reproductive wellness, and offering tailored care in sexual health and infertility. Dr. Lodhi stands out for her dedication to nurturing pregnant patients through to childbirth.
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The Gap in Sex Education for Healthcare Professionals Challenges and Misconceptions Around Menopause Addressing Sexual Dysfunction and Solutions in Menopause Exploring FDA Approved Medications and Interventions for Women's Libido The Importance of Vulvar Health and Preventive Measures Addressing Sexual Dysfunction and Advocating for Women's Sexual HealthA Woman’s Guide to Reviving Sex Drive
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Welcome to episode 390 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Kirk Honda. In this conversation, we discuss the complex and often misunderstood topic of infidelity. Dr. Honda debunks several pervasive myths, such as 'it takes two to cheat,' 'once a cheater, always a cheater,' and gendered reasons for cheating. We also explore the notion of forgiveness, the multifaceted process of recovery, and the critical role of therapy for both the individual and the couple.
Dr. Kirk Honda, PsyD, LMFT, is the esteemed host of The Psychology in Seattle® podcast and YouTube channel. The mission of this platform is to enhance the world by delivering educational and engaging content focused on psychology, psychotherapy, and culture.
Established in 2008, the podcast and YouTube channel have expanded significantly, now boasting over 4,000 episodes, 350,000 YouTube subscribers, and thousands of paying members on Patreon and YouTube. Currently, we release approximately 12 episodes per week. Dr. Honda holds a Doctorate in Psychology and a Master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy. With a career spanning back to 1996 as a psychotherapist and 1998 as a professor, he brings extensive experience and insight to the show.
In this episode, you will hear:
● Common Myths About Cheating
● The Impact of Infidelity on Relationships
● How Patriarchy Historically Blames Women for Men's Infidelity
● Navigating the Aftermath of Cheating
● Factors Contributing to Infidelity
● Understanding that forgiveness is an intentional process
● The Complexities of Forgiveness
● Looking at Infidelity as an Opportunity to Strengthen Relationships
● Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity
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Welcome to episode 392 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with August McLaughlin. In this conversation, we discuss the complexities and richness of orgasms, how societal myths influence sexual experiences, and the importance of sexual education. August shares her journey and insights on overcoming taboos around discussions of sex and pleasure. We also talk about accidental orgasms, sleepgasms, and the impact of mindset and fantasy on sexual experiences.
August McLaughlin is a journalist, author, sex educator and host/producer of the true story podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which was named “one of the best sex podcasts you should be listening to” by Romper and a top feminist podcast by Bellesa.
August's articles and expertise have been featured in a range of publications, including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, O: The Oprah Magazine and Shape. And her Girl Boner book, called a "refreshingly inclusive...welcome addition to sexual health literature" by Publisher's Weekly, is currently in its second printing.
In this episode, you will hear:
· The Importance of Orgasms
· Overcoming Orgasm Myths
· The Power of Fantasy and the Mind
· Exploring Different Types of Orgasms
· The Debate on Female Ejaculation
· Accidental Orgasms: Stories and Experiences
· Sleepgasms and Sexual Curiosity
· Erotic Audiobooks and Sexy Experiments
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Welcome to episode 397 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Irene Fehr. In this conversation, we discuss the various forms of sensitivity, including sensory, energetic, and emotional, and how these impact a person's daily life and intimate relationships.
Irene Fehr, MA, CCPC, SEP, Sex & Intimacy Coach helps couples make love and sex work in a long-term relationship and bring sex and passion into sexless ones. Weaving together somatic coaching, mindfulness, emotional communication work and experience around the intricate dynamics of women's sexual desire in a long-term relationship, Irene has developed and successfully applied her holistic Connection SexTM approach with couples who come to her as a last resort before divorce to turn their relationships around towards to include sexual intimacy and passion. Irene is no stranger to her clients’ issues.
Her personal story of losing her libido and ending up in a sexless marriage all by the time she was 29 has been featured worldwide in more than 40 podcast interviews and in articles in major publications such as HuffPost, Cosmopolitan, Refinery29, Bustle, EliteDaily, and ScaryMommy.
In this episode, you will hear:
· Understanding Highly Sensitive Individuals
· Sensory Sensitivity Explained
· Energetic and Emotional Sensitivity
· Impact of Trauma on Sensitivity
· Recognizing a Highly Sensitive Partner
· Navigating Sensitivity in Relationships
· Pre-Sex Needs for Highly Sensitive People
· Couple Dynamics and Sensitivity
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Welcome to episode 400 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm thrilled to be speaking with Susan Morgan Taylor. In our conversation, we delve into the sexual polarity that draws partners together, highlighting the significance of embodying and shifting between masculine and feminine energies. We also explore ways for couples to reconnect, focusing on the importance of conscious intimacy practices and effective communication, including the idea of 'sacred dialogue'.
Susan Morgan Taylor graduated from UC Santa Barbara in 1998 and soon after became a licensed massage therapist. However, her true calling lay elsewhere. In 2008, she began formal training in alternative energy healing and the intuitive arts, leading her to a new path as a spiritual teacher, somatic sex therapist, and intuitive healer. Susan's journey was filled with challenges, mistakes, and growth. Her friend and mentor, Teresa Tingle, played a crucial role in her development, providing guidance that went beyond classroom learning. By 2008, Susan was working professionally as a medical intuitive and spiritual guide.
In 2011, Susan earned a master’s degree in Professional Counseling and pursued sex therapy, building a successful practice in Austin, TX. After ten years, she transitioned to focus solely on intimacy and somatic sex coaching for couples and individuals, continuing her dedication to healing and personal growth.
In this episode, you will hear:
· Understanding the Loss of Sexual Charge
· Reviving Sexual Polarity
· Embodied Intimacy Practices
· Creating Space for Passion
· The Dance of Desire and Communication
· Clarifying Sexual Intentions
· Navigating Oral Sex Preferences
· Blowjob Tips for Enjoyment
· Cultivating Self-Pleasure
· Reigniting Passion in Relationships
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Welcome to episode 401 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Evan Goldstein. In this conversation, we discuss his new comprehensive book on anal sex ‘Butt Seriously’, safe practices for anal engagement, the impact of diet on anal health, and the exploration of anal orgasms.
Dr. Evan Goldstein is the leading anal health expert in the United States, founder of Future Method, and one of the few surgeons in the world whose practice, Bespoke Surgical, is dedicated to treating and restoring the human butt. He holds a perennial spot on the list of top doctors for the New York metro area, and Crain’s New York Business lists him as one of its notable LGBTQ+ leaders and executives.
He has been featured in national publications including GQ, Well+Good, Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, New York Magazine, Forbes, Fast Company, Out, and Shape; is a popular podcast guest; and in demand as a speaker for both medical and sex-positive industries.
In this episode, you will hear:
· Understanding Anal Sex Myths
· Anatomy and Safe Practices
· Exploring Anal Play
· Fisting and Safety
· Diet and Hygiene for Anal Health
· Hemorrhoids and Anal Sex
· Anal Orgasms and Prostate Stimulation
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Welcome to episode 402 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with a professional dominatrix and author - Tina Horn. In this conversation, we discuss her book, Why Are People Into That?: A Cultural Investigation of Kink, the evolution of Internet platforms for sex workers, and the politics surrounding sex work and bodily autonomy.
Tina Horn is a writer, educatrix, and media-maker. Her book of fetish cultural criticism based on her long-running indie podcast Why Are People Into That?! will be out in June 2024 from Hachette.
Tina is the creator/writer of the sci-fi sex-rebel comic book series Safe Sex (Image), and the cult detective thriller Deprog; she was also the host/cowriter of the phone sex podcast Operator (Wondery). Her reporting on sexual subcultures has appeared in Rolling Stone, Playboy, Hazlitt, Glamour, Jezebel and elsewhere; she is the author of two nonfiction books and has contributed to numerous anthologies including We Too: Essays on Sex Work and Survival, which she also coedited.
Tina has lectured on adult entertainment politics and queer BDSM identities at universities and community centers all over North America, and works as an on-set consultant for theater, film, and television including the dominatrix scenes of Pose. She is a LAMBDA Literary Fellow, an AVN nominee, the recipient of two Feminist Porn Awards, and holds an MFA in Creative Nonfiction Writing from Sarah Lawrence.
In this episode, you will hear:
· Understanding Anal Sex Myths
· Anatomy and Safe Practices
· Exploring Anal Play
· Fisting and Safety
· Diet and Hygiene for Anal Health
· Hemorrhoids and Anal Sex
· Anal Orgasms and Prostate Stimulation
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Welcome to episode 319 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Kevin Anthony. In this episode, we discuss pussy worship, how you can use pussy worship to please your partner, analysing the scent of a pussy and taking the pressure off women to have an orgasm.
Kevin Anthony 'The Truth Warrior' is a former tech guy who turned Men's Relationship Coach and Certified Tantra Counselor. Kevin is truly a modern-day warrior who brings both his heart and sword of truth to everything he does.
Kevin has spent over 20 years on a personal quest to redefine and discover what it means to be a man and a warrior. In an era of social programming and mass confusion of what it means to be a man and a warrior in life, relationships, and sex - he is consistently challenging his edge and searching for the truth so that he can help others.
He is the co-creator of the course Sexual Power and Mastery with his lover and wife Céline, "The Intimacy Angel," which is the complete training to develop man's stamina, boost his confidence, and enhance his sexual abilities. He and his wife also co-host "The Love Lab Podcast."
His passion is helping other men find and discover their hero's journey of being a warrior; to learn how to be deeply connected to their partner and allow intimacy to show up in all areas of their life while still feeling balanced as a man.
In this episode, you will hear:
· How many women haven’t properly looked at their own pussy
· Analyzing the scent of a pussy
· Why it’s important to embrace the natural smell of pussy
· The importance of present with your partner
· Why you need to show your partner your invested in pussy worship
· Taking the pressure off women to have an orgasm
· Ways in which to make your partner comfortable and more relaxed
· Understanding pussy worship doesn’t need to lead to orgasm
· How you can immerse yourself in experiencing pleasure through pussy worship
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Welcome to episode 320 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Miranda (@PleasureBhabie). In this episode, we discuss how Miranda became involved in Sex Education, looking at the best techniques for thrusting, using lube to your advantage and cultivating your sexual energy for great sex.
In this episode, you will hear:
How Miranda became involved in Sex Education Looking at the best techniques for thrusting Common mistakes men make with thrusting Why don’t need to “Jackhammer” your partner for them to orgasm Using lube to your advantage Looking at some of Miranda’s favorite choice of lubes Understanding the importance of consent and communication How to use sexual positions to their best effect Cultivating your sexual energy for great sex Why women shouldn’t have to fake an orgasmCozy Earth
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Welcome to episode 322 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Stefan Buntrock. In this episode, we discuss prostate orgasms and stimulation, the sex toys available to reach a prostate orgasm, and we also analyze the g-spot and female ejaculation.
Dr. Stefan Buntrock is a board-certified urologist in Göttingen, Germany. He is a Fellow of the European Board of Urology (FEBU) and received European certification as a sexologist and Fellow of the European Committee of Sexual Medicine (FECSM).
For many years as chief physician at the Klinik am Kurpark, one of the largest German rehabilitation clinics for urology, he treated many patients after radical surgical interventions on the prostate and bladder.
In this episode, you will hear:
How Dr. Stefan became interested in this line of work Looking at the research for men reaching orgasm through prostate stimulation Analyzing sex toys and vibrators for men Understanding the g spot; Does it exist? How does it work? Is the g spot linked to female ejaculation? Understanding what a prostate massage is Looking at the the types of stimulation that can cause a prostate orgasm How this area is very mis-understood by the wider public9 Foreplay Ideas
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Welcome to episode 321 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Anya Laeta. In this episode, we discuss the different ways people can experience an orgasm, understanding orgasmic breathing and we also hear a sample of a breathing exercise from Anya.
Given that sex was a shameful and taboo topic in her culture, it is miraculous that her attitude toward sex was always one of curiosity and experimentation. Despite being open-minded and comfortable with sex, all her relationships would start lacking passion and excitement after about a year or so. Anya would conclude that she “fell out of love” and looked for a new relationship. Only to repeat this pattern all over 6-12 months later.
Not being able to have a sustainable, fulfilling sex life made her feel like a failure in relationships. It is this challenge that ultimately led her to study human sexuality, Tantra, and relationship psychology.
Understanding how her erotic mind, desire, arousal, sexual polarity, and anatomy work empowers Anya to create and re-create excitement, passion, and sexual satisfaction every day.
She would be lying if she said it’s easy. Yet, having a roadmap to do it made it possible for Anya to have a happy and sexy long-term relationship that she was dreaming about.
Today Anya is honored to help you meet your erotic potential and relationship needs.
In this episode, you will hear:
· Looking at the different ways people can experience an orgasm
· Analyzing emotional v genital-based orgasms
· Looking at the way your brain wires your thinking of orgasms
· Understanding the concept of embodiment
· What is orgasmic breathing?
· Can anyone practice orgasmic breathing?
· How you can learn to deepen your breath to enhance your sexual experience
· A sample of a breathing exercise from Anya
· Using music to enrich your breathing exercises
· The different ways vulva and penis owners can benefit from these exercises
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Welcome to episode 326 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Shemeka Thorpe. In this episode, we discuss sexual self-consciousness, incorporating your spirituality into your sex life and recommendations to improve your sexual confidence.
Dr. Shemeka Thorpe is an alum of Florida State and UNCG, a North Carolina native, and a proud Ravenclaw with first-generation college student status.
A lover of the beach who also loves to read books, her passion for research began during her undergraduate studies. Earning her PhD in Community Health Education has enabled this public health professional's goal facilitating positive sexology narratives about Black people rather than deficit-based ones; she strives to create representative teams that consider community needs when disseminating important information from academic journals into meaningful impacts on population health outcomes.
With over 10 years of research under her belt, she is a wheelhouse of knowledge when it comes to sexuality education. As someone deeply embedded in the community and highly active on social media, not only has she been able gather insights from conversations with Black women - but all these experiences also inform her ongoing studies.
Furthermore, this expertise also sees her playing an important role by sitting on editorial review boards for two well-respected journals dedicated to comprehensive sexology counsels and sexual wellness as a whole.
In this episode, you will hear:
What sexual self-consciousness means Recommendations to improve your sexual confidence Overcoming the shame spiral that can happen around sex Looking at studies of black women’s sexual experiences How many black women defined pleasure as liberating Analyzing the different sexual experiences of queer and straight people Understanding the difference between pleasure and orgasm Incorporating your spirituality into your sex life The importance of sexual mindfulnessThank you to our sponsor FirmTech.
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Welcome to episode 327 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Alexandra Solomon. In this episode, we discuss maintaining great sex in a long-term relationship, boosting your sexual confidence and learning to step into your erotic self.
Over the last two decades, Dr. Alexandra H. Solomon has become one of today’s most trusted voices in the world of relationships, and her work on Relational Self-Awareness has reached millions of people around the world.
Dr. Solomon is a licensed clinical psychologist at The Family Institute at Northwestern University, and she is on faculty in the School of Education and Social Policy at Northwestern University where she teaches the internationally renowned course, Building Loving and Lasting Relationships: Marriage 101. In addition to writing articles and chapters for leading academic journals and books in the field of marriage and family, she is the author of two bestselling books, Loving Bravely and Taking Sexy Back.
Dr. Solomon regularly presents to diverse groups that include the United States Military Academy at West Point and Microsoft, and she is frequently asked to talk about relationships with media outlets like The Today Show, O Magazine, The Atlantic, Vogue, and Scientific American.
In this episode, you will hear:
Maintaining great sex in a long-term relationship Understanding the dynamics of sex and intimacy Cultivating self-awareness and relational safety How you can repair damaged parts of your sex life Ways in which you can boost your sexual confidence Tools you can use to better communicate with your partner Cultivating the positive aspects of your relationship inside and outside the bedroom Learning to step into your erotic selfThank you to our sponsor FirmTech.
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Welcome to episode 328 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Veronica Cisneros. In this episode, we discuss the weaponization of sex, the need for mutual pleasure in a healthy relationship and learning to step out of your comfort zone for excitement.
Veronica Cisneros is a force to be reckoned with. With a sparkling personality and a passion for helping couples feel heard, loved, and respected, she's transformed countless marriages from feeling like they're on life-support to thriving in a place of deep understanding and connection.
As a licensed marriage and family therapist, marriage coach, course creator, retreat host, and podcast host, she's leaving her mark on the world – and inspiring her listeners to live their best lives.
But it wasn't always this way. For years, Veronica found herself losing herself in an effort to meet the needs of her family. She was on the brink of losing her marriage – until she took the reins and fought back. Today, she's a true inspiration – and proof that with hard work and dedication, anything is possible.
In this episode, you will hear:
What does it mean to weaponize sex? How many women don’t feel seen in their relationship Understanding what sex represents to your partner Ways of not letting day to day life get in the way of sex The need for mutual pleasure in a healthy sexual relationship Knowing the best place to start to improve sex in a relationship The importance of communication and improving communication Learning to step out of your comfort zone for excitement What you will experience at Veronica’s retreatThank you to our sponsor Green Chef!
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Welcome to episode 329 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Eric Sprankle. In this episode, we discuss Eric’s upcoming book on masturbation, the misconceptions about masturbation, and how masturbation positively and negatively affects relationships.
Dr. Eric Sprankle is an Associate Professor of Clinical Psychology and Co-Director of the Sexuality Studies program at Minnesota State University, Mankato. He is a licensed clinical psychologist and an AASECT-certified sex therapist affiliated with the Minnesota Sexual Health Institute. He is also the Director of the Secular Therapy Project, a subsidiary of Recovering from Religion.
Dr. Sprankle received his doctorate in clinical psychology from Xavier University in 2009, completed a postdoctoral fellowship in sexual health at the University of Minnesota Medical School in 2011, and was awarded tenure in the Department of Psychology at Minnesota State University in 2017.
He currently leads the Sexual Health Research Team at Minnesota State examining sexuality, stigma, and secularism, and has published articles on the effects of sexually explicit material, older adult sexuality, and sex worker affirmative therapy.
In this episode, you will hear:
Looking at the content of Eric’s upcoming book around masturbation How Eric became interested in this subject area The misconceptions around masturbation Analyzing the differences between low, moderate and excessive masturbation Is masturbation beneficial for your wellness? Understanding the context of masturbation Masturbating healthily while in a relationship Making sure your value systems around masturbation align with your partners value system Communicating to your partner about masturbation How masturbation can positively and negatively affect relationshipsGreen Chef
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Welcome to episode 330 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Niki Davis-Fainbloom. In this episode, we discuss the common misconceptions around fetishes, dealing with internalized shame and understanding that not all fetishes are sexually connected.
Niki Davis-Fainbloom is a Canadian-born, New York-based sex educator, writer, and coach. Since receiving her Master’s degree studying the psychology of sexual dysfunction from NYU, she has facilitated hundreds of sexual education workshops at locations including Planned Parenthood, New York University, and The United Nations.
Her writing has also been featured in publications such as Mind Body Green, Cosmopolitan, Refinery 29, and Pornhub Sexual Wellness Center. Her work uses up-to-date research, humor, and practical advice to help people develop the skills to have healthier and more satisfying romantic and sexual relationships.
She is an expert in fetishes, and much of her coaching involves working with folks with unique desires as well as navigating ethical non-monogamy and pleasure.
In this episode, you will hear:
What inspired Niki to delve into this line of work Looking at the common fetishes people may desire Understanding the misconceptions around fetishes Analyzing uncommon fetishes such as sneeze fetishes The importance of knowing you’re not alone if you do have a fetish How you can communicate to your partner you have a fetish Why there can be a lot of internalized shame around fetishes Communities you can seek out to bond with others around this How not all fetishes are sexually connected The importance of consent around fetishesGreen Chef
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Welcome to episode 334 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome David Khalili to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the challenges men face due to traditional ideas of masculinity and how this impacts their relationships and communication with partners.
David F. Khalili, MA, LMFT is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist whose practice is focused on working with men, adolescents, couples therapy, and multi-ethnic individuals. He received his master's degree in counseling psychology from Golden Gate University and a master's degree in Sexuality Studies from San Francisco State University.
During his graduate studies, David completed his practicum internship at UCSF AIDS Health Project and followed up with a post-graduate psychodynamic intensive program at The Psychotherapy Institute. Additionally, he has extensive experience working with teenagers, as well as with those experiencing grief, trauma and substance abuse issues. His expertise also lies in working with multi-ethnic individuals and those who have recently immigrated or are first-generation American born.
David specializes in issues ranging from sex and sexuality, sexual disorders and anxiety, to trauma and PTSD, and men's groups. His approach focuses on helping his clients improve their self-awareness - guiding them to understand how they relate to themselves and their life experiences, and how to reach the goals they desire.
In this episode, you will hear:
The limitations traditional masculinity imposes on men in terms of emotional expression. How traditional masculinity encourages men to only rely on themselves How men often experience a narrow spectrum of emotions and struggle to communicate their feelings with their partner The impacts David had growing up in a multicultural household, witnessing the impact of cultural expectations on the expression of emotions. The way toxic positivity and uncommunicated expectations can cause resentment and psychological distress in relationships. Understanding the concept of "soul murder" where individuals kill off parts of themselves to conform to societal norms. How sexual response cycles can help individuals better accept and manage their emotions and reactions in relationships.Anxiously Intimate
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Welcome to episode 335 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Ness Cooper to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss shower sex experiences, benefits, drawbacks, techniques, and accommodating diverse preferences and situations.
Ness Cooper is a Sex and Relationship Expert with over ten years of experience. She has helped individuals, couples, and those in polyamorous relationships find fluidity in intimacy and pleasure. She has a background in counselling with a focus on sex and relationships and has trained in the UK as well as internationally.
Ness has trained in youth sex education and is part of the esteem network by acet. Her favorite study has been studying with the Kinsey Institute of Human Sexuality, and therapy courses run by TASHRA. Ness is kink positive and has trained in kink education and has a paper on BDSM and disabilities coming out in 2022.
She runs a popular Sex Toy review blog. Ness is regularly quoted in the press and has been mentioned in a book about female sexual fantasies "Garden of Desire". Not only does Ness coach people in human sexuality, but she also teaches other professionals on various subjects around sexual wellbeing.
Wanting to learn as much as possible, she has also trained in Pelvic Floor Biomechanics, sea sponges, pessaries, and mental health safeguarding.
In this episode, you will hear:
How most people prefer shower sex over beach sex based on a recent poll. The benefits of shower sex including different sensations, temperature variations, privacy, and different positions. Establishing boundaries in shower sex, consider order of entry, temperature preferences, lubricant choice, and sex toy integration. Recommended sex toys for shower use include heated vibrators, glass and metal toys, suction handrails, and specialized furniture. Health concerns during shower sex may include proper cleaning of the shower head How positions such as spooning while standing can be a good introduction to shower sex. The importance of aftercare for vulva owners and neurodivergent individuals.Foreplay Checklist
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