Avsnitt

  • if you’re constantly overthinking texts, stuck in situationships, comparing yourself to girls in relationships, or feeling like everyone else finds love so easily except you...this reality check is for you ❤️ in today's video, we’re talking about self concept, attachment styles, manifestation, boundaries, confidence, detachment, and the small daily choices that either move you closer to healthy love or keep you stuck in the same toxic cycle. if you’re tired of settling, obsessing over unavailable people, or feeling like you always have to earn love, this video is for you. because the healthy, secure relationship you want starts with becoming the version of you who truly believes she deserves it ✨

    🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
    Shop my Abbott Lyon Collection
    use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 buy one get one FREE sitewide!
    SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
    MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
    PODCAST INSTAGRAM
    LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
    ORDER MY BOOK

    THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER

    STAY CONNECTED:
    MY INSTAGRAM
    MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
    MY YOUTUBE
    MY VLOGS
    MY OTHER LINKS

    For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

    Music Used:
    *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!
    Epidemic Sound

  • this is your mid-year reminder that you do not need to wait until january to become the woman you said you wanted to be. in this video, we reset your space, your phone, your mind, and your habits so you can stop avoiding your goals and start rebuilding discipline, self-trust, and momentum before 2026 slips away. if you have been feeling stuck, burnt out, inconsistent, or disconnected from your future self, this is your 30-day reset to get back in alignment ✨

    ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
    02:30 Chapter 1: The Reset
    12:59 Chapter 2: The Method

    🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
    Shop my Abbott Lyon Collection
    use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 buy one get one FREE sitewide!
    SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
    MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
    PODCAST INSTAGRAM
    LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
    ORDER MY BOOK

    THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER

    STAY CONNECTED:
    MY INSTAGRAM
    MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
    MY YOUTUBE
    MY VLOGS
    MY OTHER LINKS\

    For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

    Music Used:
    *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

  • Saknas det avsnitt?

    Klicka här för att uppdatera flödet manuellt.

  • this one is for the woman who has already done the work. who knows the tools. who has grown and who keeps hitting the same wall every time she tries to go higher. your inner critic does not disappear when you evolve. it evolves with you. it gets quieter, subtler, and far more dangerous. it stops sounding like self-hate and starts sounding like wisdom. and that is when it does the most damage. this video covers the neuroscience behind why the inner critic gets loudest exactly when you are closest to your next level, the specific methods to silence it at the root, and the daily identity work that makes the silence permanent. this is not beginner self-help. this is the advanced version. watch until the end.

    ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
    02:30 Chapter 1: Meet Your Built-in Bully
    10:09 Chapter 2: The Self-love Protocol
    16:12 Chapter 3: Identity Homework

    🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
    Shop my Abbott Lyon Collection
    use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 buy one get one FREE sitewide!
    SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
    MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
    PODCAST INSTAGRAM
    LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
    ORDER MY BOOK

    THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER

    STAY CONNECTED:
    MY INSTAGRAM
    MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
    MY YOUTUBE
    MY VLOGS
    MY OTHER LINKS

    For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

    Music Used:
    *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

  • you already know how to be a b*tch. parts one, two, and three gave you the tools. part four goes somewhere the others never did. this one is about the bigger picture. why being nice is quietly sabotaging your goals, your self-esteem, your energy, and the company you keep. why your body is paying a physical price for every emotion you've swallowed to keep the peace. why the women who get treated well in relationships aren't always the kindest...they're the most self-possessed. and how to build a daily life that actually reflects the woman you are becoming, not the one you were conditioned to be.

    ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
    01:06 Chapter 1: Good Girl Syndrome
    07:34 Chapter 2: The New Mindset
    16:05 Chapter 3: The Bad B*tch Lifestyle

    🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
    Shop my Abbott Lyon Collection
    use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 buy one get one FREE sitewide!
    SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
    MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
    PODCAST INSTAGRAM
    LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
    ORDER MY BOOK

    THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER

    STAY CONNECTED:
    MY INSTAGRAM
    MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
    MY YOUTUBE
    MY VLOGS
    MY OTHER LINKS

    For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

    Music Used:
    *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

  • for the woman who has always been the reliable one. the one who shows up, gives everything, and somehow still ends up last on her own list — without being able to explain why. this video is the explanation. and the way out. there is a system built into friendships, families, relationships, and culture itself that keeps women small. it does not announce itself loudly. it uses guilt, shame, and a single word to ensure you never fully choose yourself. this video dismantles it completely. we cover the cultural mechanism behind why women are punished for self-prioritisation, the exact patterns keeping you stuck at level one of your own life, and five non-negotiable actions to finally ascend.featuring lola and athena of course. watch until the end.

    ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
    01:18 Chapter 1: The Con
    07:06 Chapter 2: The Proof
    16:52 Chapter 3: The Ascent

    🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
    Shop my Abbott Lyon Collection
    use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 buy one get one FREE sitewide!
    SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
    MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
    PODCAST INSTAGRAM
    LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
    ORDER MY BOOK

    THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER

    STAY CONNECTED:
    MY INSTAGRAM
    MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
    MY YOUTUBE
    MY VLOGS
    MY OTHER LINKS

    For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

    Music Used:
    *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

  • feeling disconnected from yourself and tired of second-guessing everything you say, do, and want? in this video, i’m talking about how people-pleasing, fear of rejection, and old survival patterns can quietly pull you away from who you really are, until you barely recognize your own voice. we’re getting into why authenticity can feel so hard, how social media, relationships, and the need to be liked can shape a version of you that feels safe but not fully true, and what it actually looks like to come back to yourself with more honesty, self-trust, and confidence.

    ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
    02:34 Chapter 1: Why You Lost Yourself in the First Place (The Diagnosis Before the Cure)
    08:18 Chapter 2: What Authenticity Actually Means (It's Not What You Think)
    15:06 Chapter 3: Homework and Actionable Steps

    🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
    Shop my Abbott Lyon Collection
    use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 buy one get one FREE sitewide!
    SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
    MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
    PODCAST INSTAGRAM
    LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
    ORDER MY BOOK

    THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER

    STAY CONNECTED:
    MY INSTAGRAM
    MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
    MY YOUTUBE
    MY VLOGS
    MY OTHER LINKS

    For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

    Music Used:
    *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

  • hey girlies, i lost the outro clip during filming, so that’s why the ending is a little abrupt 😭 but i hope you guys still enjoyed the video. let me know your favorite part in the comments 💌

    becoming the IT girl starts with realizing you were never missing “it” you just needed to stop searching for it in trends, attention, or other people’s validation. in this video, we’re talking about what it really takes to become her through mindset shifts, self trust, and the daily habits that shape the way you move, present yourself, and create your life. this is for the girl who knows she is meant for more, is outgrowing old versions of herself, and is learning how to stop shrinking, stop trying to fit in, and fully step into her own energy 🩷

    ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
    00:00 Introduction
    01:18 Chapter 1: Redefining the "It Girl" (The New Mindset)
    08:22 Chapter 2: The Transformation

    🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
    Shop my Abbott Lyon Collection
    use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide!
    SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
    MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
    PODCAST INSTAGRAM
    LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
    ORDER MY BOOK

    THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER

    STAY CONNECTED:
    MY INSTAGRAM
    MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
    MY YOUTUBE
    MY VLOGS
    MY OTHER LINKS

    For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

    Music Used:
    *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

  • watch this when you want to give up and need a reminder that this difficult season of your life is not where your story ends. in this episode, we’re talking about feeling stuck, unmotivated, behind, or like nothing is working even though you’re trying your best. this is for the girl in a slump or in the messy middle who wants to keep going, trust her journey, and stay committed to becoming the woman she knows she can be. if you’ve been feeling discouraged, let this be the video you return to when you need perspective, comfort, and a push to keep going.

    ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
    00:00 Introduction
    01:06 Closest to Change
    03:15 The Messy Middle
    04:24 Brain vs Comfort
    05:23 Hindsight is Clarity
    06:22 Future You Begs to Not Give Up
    07:29 Nothing Is Permanent
    09:00 Outgrowing Yourself
    09:33 You Are Doing Better Than You Think
    10:55 Baby Steps Only
    12:05 Future Self Thanks You
    14:50 Final Reminders

    🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
    Shop my Abbott Lyon Collection
    use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide!
    SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
    MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
    PODCAST INSTAGRAM
    LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
    ORDER MY BOOK

    THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER

    STAY CONNECTED:
    MY INSTAGRAM
    MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
    MY YOUTUBE
    MY VLOGS
    MY OTHER LINKS

    For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

    Music Used:
    *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

  • hi girlies! guess what... it’s my 400th video! 🎉 i’m so grateful for your continued support and love through the years ❤️ and since you have also come a long way in your self-love journey, give yourself a pat on the back for your consistency because that’s a big deal.

    to celebrate my 400th video, we’re talking fake friends and why they’re not always obvious. i’m breaking down the signs of toxic friendships and jealous friends like constant comparison, “i could never” comments, disrespect disguised as jokes, gossip, and the weird energy when you’re winning. if you’re outgrowing friends or going through a friendship breakup, i’ll share how to protect your peace with self-love, boundaries, self-respect, aligned values, and slowing down who you trust because you deserve friendships that feel safe, supportive, and aligned with the woman you’re becoming.

    ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
    00:00 Introduction
    01:48 Chapter 1: Signs You Have a Fake Friend
    09:23 Chapter 2: Getting the F*ck Over It
    14:04 Chapter 3: Protecting Yourself
    20:12 Final Reminders

    🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
    Shop my Abbott Lyon Collection
    use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 buy one get one FREE sitewide!
    SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
    MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
    PODCAST INSTAGRAM
    LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
    ORDER MY BOOK

    THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER

    STAY CONNECTED:
    MY INSTAGRAM
    MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
    MY YOUTUBE
    MY VLOGS
    MY OTHER LINKS

    For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

    Music Used:
    *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

  • Sign up today for your $1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today at http://shopify.com/AU

    💐 LAST CHANCE TO ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters!
    AMZ

    if you’ve been feeling stuck, here are 8 harsh truths i wish someone told me sooner. in today’s video, we’re breaking down mindset, limiting beliefs, and why the version of “reality” you’re living in is often shaped by old stories and identity patterns. i’m also sharing why discomfort, embarrassment, and imposter syndrome are actually signs you’re growing, and how choosing self-respect over people-pleasing and family expectations is what builds real confidence and higher standards. if your glow up or personal growth feels stagnant, this video is for you 🤍

    ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
    00:00 Introduction
    01:37 Harsh Truth #1: Dating Is On You
    03:54 Harsh Truth #2: Reality Is A Choice
    05:58 Harsh Truth #3: Run Toward Fear
    07:52 Harsh Truth #4: Alignment Over Popularity
    11:53 Harsh Truth #5: Adversity Has Purpose
    13:42 Harsh Truth #6: Pick Your Struggle
    16:20 Harsh Truth #7: Self-Love Sets Limits
    18:20 Harsh Truth #8: Stop Living For Others
    22:14 Final Encouragement

    🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
    SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTION
    use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide!
    SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
    MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
    ORDER MY BOOK
    THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER

    STAY CONNECTED:
    MY INSTAGRAM
    MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
    MY YOUTUBE
    MY VLOGS
    LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
    PODCAST INSTAGRAM
    MY OTHER LINKS

    For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

    Music Used:
    *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

  • Sign up today for your $1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today at http://shopify.com/AU

    💐 LAST CHANCE TO ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters!
    AMZ

    it’s that time again, girlies!!! 💌✨ girl talk: valentine’s edition!!! in today’s episode, we’re having a cozy one-on-one bestie chat where i’m answering your juiciest dating questions, relationship dilemmas, situationship scenarios, and more. plus, i’m sharing self-love tips, confidence mindset shifts, and actionable steps you can actually apply to your self-love journey all year round. so grab your favorite beverage, a little snack, get comfy and let’s get into it. 🤍

    ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:

    00:00 Introduction: Happy Valentine's!

    00:55 Relationship & Dating

    19:46 Self-Love

    28:52 Final Thoughts

    🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
    SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTION
    use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide!
    SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
    MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
    ORDER MY BOOK
    THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER

    STAY CONNECTED:
    MY INSTAGRAM
    MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
    MY YOUTUBE
    MY VLOGS
    LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
    PODCAST INSTAGRAM
    MY OTHER LINKS

    For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

    Music Used:

    Epidemic Sound*my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

  • Sign up today for your £1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today at http://shopify.co.uk/


    Sign up today for your $1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today at http://shopify.com/AU

    💐 ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters!
    WTS | AMZ

    dating gets easier when you’re already anchored in self-love ✨ in this video, we’re talking about healing old patterns, rewiring your beliefs about love, and dating from confidence — not craving. we’ll cover high standards, staying loyal to your solo life, and the shift from auditioning to observing (because you’re not here to convince anyone to choose you) 💐

    ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
    00:00 Introduction to Self-Love Journey
    03:44 Step 1: Learning that Love is Safe
    06:17 Step 2: Condition Your Mind
    08:44 Step 3: Rewiring Your Belief
    12:38 Step 4: Self-love Is an Ongoing Process
    14:53 Step 5: Revisit Your Expectations and Standards
    18:44 Step 6: Find the Balance With Your Independence
    20:07 Step 7: Be Prepared to be Disappointed
    24:15 Step 8: Observe Instead of Auditioning for Love
    26:03 Conclusion

    🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
    SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTION
    use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide!
    SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
    MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
    ORDER MY BOOK
    THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER

    STAY CONNECTED:
    MY INSTAGRAM
    MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
    MY YOUTUBE
    MY VLOGS
    LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
    PODCAST INSTAGRAM
    MY OTHER LINKS

    For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

    Music Used:
    Epidemic Sound
    *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

  • Sign up today for your $1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today at http://shopify.com/AU

    💐 PRE-ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters!
    WTS | AMZ

    self-obsession isn’t selfish— it’s the foundation of confidence, self-love, and emotional discipline ✨ in this video, we’re talking about what it really means to be healthily self-obsessed and how embracing this energy can help you stop people pleasing, build self-trust, and finally raise your standards. i’m sharing the mindset shifts that helped me protect my peace, regulate my emotions, and glow up from the inside out, along with daily habits for self-love, tips to romanticize your life, and how to set boundaries without guilt. if you’ve been craving feminine energy routines, a confidence reset, or practical personal growth advice, this is your guide to becoming your most magnetic, self-assured self. whether you’ve been feeling disconnected or overstimulated, this episode will help you reclaim your energy, realign with your future self, and step fully into your glow-up era 💌

    ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
    01:17 Introduction: Are You Self-Obsessed?
    02:54 Chapter 1: Redefining Self-Obsession
    18:12 Chapter 2: Practical Ways to Be Self-Obsessed in Your Daily Life
    27:11 Chapter 3: Homework

    🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
    SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTION
    use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide!
    SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
    MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
    ORDER MY BOOK
    THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER

    STAY CONNECTED:
    MY INSTAGRAM
    MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
    MY YOUTUBE
    MY VLOGS
    LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
    PODCAST INSTAGRAM
    MY OTHER LINKS

    For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

    Music Used:
    Epidemic Sound

    *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

  • Shopify UK: Sign up today for your £1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today for at ⁠shopify.co.uk

    Shopify AU: Sign up today for your $1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today for at ⁠shopify.com/AU⁠

    💐 PRE-ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters!
    WTS | AMZ

    2026 is the year you will become untouchable ✨ in this episode, we’re talking about what it really means to be healthily self-obsessed. i’m sharing the mindset shifts, self-love habits, and emotional regulation tools that helped me stop caring what people think, stop overreacting, and start prioritizing my future self, peace, and power. if you’ve been giving everyone access to you while abandoning yourself, this is your sign to become the main character for 2026.

    ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
    00:00 Reality Check: Are You Truly Untouchable?
    00:48 The Key to Self-Leadership and Growth
    03:39 Defining Untouchable: Beyond Dating
    04:40 Tips for Becoming Untouchable
    07:28 Resilience and Self-Protection
    10:32 The Power of Self-Love and Self-Obsession
    16:21 Setting High Standards and Boundaries
    22:57 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

    🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
    SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTIONuse my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide!
    SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
    MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
    ORDER MY BOOK
    THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER

    STAY CONNECTED:
    MY INSTAGRAM
    MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
    MY YOUTUBE
    MY VLOGS
    LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
    PODCAST INSTAGRAM
    MY OTHER LINKS

    For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

    Music Used:

    Epidemic Sound

    *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

  • Learn a new language and get up to 60% off your subscription at http://babbel.com/SELFOBSESSED⁠

    Shopify UK: Sign up today for your £1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today for at shopify.co.uk
    Shopify AU: Sign up today for your $1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today for at shopify.com/AU

    💐 PRE-ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters!
    WTS | AMZ

    welcome to your 2026 glow-up mindset reset ✨ in this episode, we’re talking about the subtle ways you self-sabotage without realizing it, and how to shift into future-self energy in a way that’s actually sustainable. i’m sharing the mindset shifts i swear by whenever i’m rebuilding my routine, my confidence, and my overall energy for a new season. this is for the girl who’s ready to stop waiting, stop second-guessing herself, and start moving like the version of her that already has the life she wants. you’re going to love this one 🤍

    ♡ WHAT’S IN THIS VIDEO:

    00:00 Introduction

    04:33 Silent Mistake #1: Stop “Trying” to Be Something You Already Are

    07:46 Silent Mistake #2: Acting With the Most Logical Next Step

    10:50 Silent Mistake #3: Only Acting When You “Feel” Confident

    14:13 Silent Mistake #4: Basing Emotions on Today

    15:54 Silent Mistake #5: Adding Your Way Into a Better Life Without Subtracting Anything

    18:36 Silent Mistake #6: Missing Things or Feeling Nostalgic

    19:59 Silent Mistake #7: Accepting Resistance and Difficulty in Your Life

    22:14 Silent Mistake #8: Trying to Fix Symptoms Instead of the System

    23:46 Silent Mistake #9: Addiction to Routine

    25:41 Silent Mistake #10: Not Scheduling Friendships

    27:50 Conclusion

    🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
    SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTION

    use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide!
    SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
    MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
    ORDER MY BOOK
    THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER

    STAY CONNECTED:
    MY INSTAGRAM
    MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
    MY YOUTUBE
    MY VLOGS
    LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
    PODCAST INSTAGRAM
    MY OTHER LINKS

    For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

    Music Used:

    Epidemic Sound

    *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

  • Find out your Hype Type with the Hype Type Revealer on the FCA InvestSmart website. Become a smarter investor today: https://www.fca.org.uk/investsmart

    💐 PRE-ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters!
    WTS | AMZ

    the 2026 january reset that helps you stay consistent all year round ✨ in this video, i’m sharing my exact january routine for goal setting, discipline, and sustainable habits, plus the mindset shifts that help you stop repeating old patterns and start becoming her. we’re taking big goals and turning them into small, realistic steps, choosing a focus for each month, and building a routine that works on your average day so you can stay consistent even when motivation dips. if you’re ready to lock in and set the standard for 2026, this is your sign 💌

    ♡ WHAT’S IN THIS VIDEO:
    00:00 Introduction: Embracing January's Energy
    01:58 Chapter 1: Breaking Down January
    12:48 Chapter 2: January Mindset Shifts
    17:46 Chapter 3: Self-Obsessed Habits and Homework
    21:25 Conclusion: Making 2026 Your Best Year

    🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
    SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTION

    use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide!
    SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
    MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
    ORDER MY BOOK
    THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER

    STAY CONNECTED:
    MY INSTAGRAM
    MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
    MY YOUTUBE
    MY VLOGS
    LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
    PODCAST INSTAGRAM
    MY OTHER LINKS

    For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

    Music Used:Epidemic Sound*my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

  • Find out your Hype Type with the Hype Type Revealer on the FCA InvestSmart website. Become a smarter investor today: https://www.fca.org.uk/investsmart

    💐 PRE-ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters!
    WTS | AMZ

    it’s time to level up in 2026 and rebrand yourself like a billion dollar company ✨ in this video i’m breaking down personal growth the same way businesses do a real rebrand from the inside out. we’re redefining your identity, raising your standards, and building new habits that actually stick so you stop “trying” to change and start embodying the new you. i’ll show you how to upgrade your routines, mindset, and daily behaviors, plus the visual shifts that make your life match who you’re becoming. by the end you’ll have a clear blueprint to step into your next level and make this rebrand permanent for 2026.

    ♡ WHAT’S IN THIS VIDEO:
    00:00 Introduction: The Ultimate Rebrand for 2026
    01:43 Chapter One: Who the F*ck Do You Think You Are?
    03:00 1. List Every Single Small Win
    04:03 2. Dress Like the Person You Want to Be
    05:28 3. Figure Out Your Story
    09:05 Chapter Two: Character Creation and Rebranding
    09:15 1. Rebrand Your Identity
    10:25 2. Structural Rebrand
    12:32 3. Change Your "Culture"
    13:50 4. Change Your Value Proposition
    14:52 5. Talk Like Your Future Self
    15:35 6. Market Exit Strategy
    16:31 7. Your Rebrand Vibe
    18:39 8. Change Your Aesthetic
    19:58 Conclusion: Embrace Your CEO Mindset

    🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
    SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTION

    use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide!
    SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
    MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
    ORDER MY BOOK
    THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER

    STAY CONNECTED:
    MY INSTAGRAM
    MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
    MY YOUTUBE
    MY VLOGS
    LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
    PODCAST INSTAGRAM
    MY OTHER LINKS

    For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

    Music Used:

    Epidemic Sound

    *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

  • Find out your Hype Type with the Hype Type Revealer on the FCA InvestSmart website. Become a smarter investor today: https://www.fca.org.uk/investsmart

    💐 PRE-ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters!
    WTS | AMZ

    2026 is right around the corner, and in today’s video i’m taking you along for a 30 day 2026 glow up plan to help you glow up before january 1st! this is not just about aesthetics, it’s about upgrading your identity, habits, and standards so your new year reset actually lasts. i’m sharing 30 actionable things to do before 2026 — from closing unfinished business, checking your progress, and auditing your calendar, to rewriting your inner narrative, curating your social media so your environment supports your goals, and so much more! if you want real self improvement and a glow up that changes your life, this is your sign ✨💌

    ♡ WHAT’S IN THIS VIDEO:
    00:00 Introduction: Preparing for Your Best Year Yet
    02:13 30-Day Glow Up Plan: Step-by-Step Guide
    03:33 Evaluating Your Progress and Calendar
    08:09 Closing Loose Ends and Rewriting Your Narrative
    10:50 Digital Detox and Prioritizing Your Well-being
    20:52 Financial Tips and Minimum Glow Up Routine
    22:43 Building Consistency and Healing
    23:51 Upgrading Your Daily Foundation
    25:09 Shifting from Outcome to Identity
    26:10 Creating a Portfolio of Proof
    27:06 Choosing Health Non-Negotiables
    28:39 Honoring Your Inner Teen
    30:10 Addressing Money Shame
    31:35 Writing Your Future Self Letter
    33:02 Upgrading Your Environment
    34:44 Turning Envy into Action
    35:41 Planning Your Year Ahead
    37:04 Preparing for Financial Goals
    38:15 Exploring New Paths and Interests
    40:30 Planning Every Aspect of Your Life
    42:08 Final Thoughts

    🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
    SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTION
    use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide!
    SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
    MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
    ORDER MY BOOK
    THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER

    STAY CONNECTED:
    MY INSTAGRAM
    MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
    MY YOUTUBE
    MY VLOGS
    LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
    PODCAST INSTAGRAM
    MY OTHER LINKS

    For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

    Music Used:
    Epidemic Sound
    *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

  • Find out your Hype Type with the Hype Type Revealer on the FCA InvestSmart website. Become a smarter investor today: https://www.fca.org.uk/investsmart

    💐 PRE-ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters!
    WTS AMZ

    i’m showing you exactly how i made my 2026 vision board — from what came true on my 2025 board to how i’m planning my dream life this year. we’re talking manifestation, aligned goal setting, inner work, and the science behind vision boarding (because yes… there’s a method to the magic ✨). if you’re ready to reset your mindset, glow up, and fully become her in 2026, this video is for you!

    ♡ WHAT’S IN THIS VIDEO:
    00:00 Introduction
    01:13 Chapter 1: Everything I Manifested on My 2025 Vision Board
    14:04 Chapter 2: The Science Behind Vision Boarding
    16:30 Chapter 3: My Brand New Vision Board Tips
    23:45 Chapter 4: My 2026 Master Plan
    30:26 Chapter 5: Making My 2026 Digital Pinterest Vision Board
    32:16 Chapter 6: Making My 2026 Physical Vision Board
    39:07 Final Thoughts

    🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
    SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTIONuse my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide!
    SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
    MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
    ORDER MY BOOK
    THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER

    STAY CONNECTED:
    MY INSTAGRAM
    MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
    MY YOUTUBE
    MY VLOGS
    LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
    PODCAST INSTAGRAM
    MY OTHER LINKS

    For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

    Music Used:
    Epidemic Sound

    my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

  • feeling behind in your 20s? comparing yourself to friends? struggling with dating or confidence? in this girl talk q&a, i’m answering your real dilemmas — from friendship jealousy and dating rejection to self-worth, glow-ups, and navigating your own timeline. whether you’re dealing with unrequited love, envy in friendships, or just trying to figure out your dream career, this is your reminder you’re not alone. grab a matcha, plug in, and let’s get honest. 🤍☕️

    ♡ WHAT’S IN THIS VIDEO:
    00:00 Introduction
    01:18 Dilemmas in Love and Dating
    06:46 Navigating Friendships
    14:46 Self-Love and Confidence
    22:19 Goals and Career Advice
    30:25 Conclusion

    🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
    SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTION

    use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide!
    SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
    PRE-ORDER MY MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
    ORDER MY BOOK
    THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER

    STAY CONNECTED:
    MY INSTAGRAM
    MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
    MY YOUTUBE
    MY VLOGS
    LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
    PODCAST INSTAGRAM
    MY OTHER LINKS

    For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

    Music Used:

    Epidemic Sound

    *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!