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In this episode of After Reality, I’m opening up about a deeply personal chapter: my decision to file for divorce after eight years.
Joined by my friend Alanna Noel, I share what this season has looked like behind the scenes — the heartbreak, the loss of trust, and the painful process of accepting that the life I thought I was building has changed.
@lannanoel
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In this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by Joshua Fields Millburn, creator of Netflix’s hit documentary The Minimalists: Less Is Now, for a conversation about clutter, consumer culture, and what it really means to live with less.
As a mom of three, the clutter can feel endless — toys, baby gear, school papers, sentimental items, and all the “just in case” things we keep tucked away. Joshua breaks down minimalism in a way that feels practical and realistic, not extreme, and explains how letting go of physical clutter can create more time, peace, clarity, and freedom.
We talk about his personal journey from corporate success and constant consumerism to a more intentional life, the emotional weight of clearing out his late mother’s belongings, and why our memories live in us — not in our things.
Joshua also shares helpful tools like the “20/20 rule” for letting go of just-in-case items, the “seasonality rule” for deciding what still serves you, and how boundaries around stuff can lead to a calmer home and a more meaningful life.
This conversation is about emotional clutter, identity clutter, money stress, motherhood, grief, and redefining the new American dream — not as more stuff, but as more freedom, meaning, and room for what actually matters.
@joshuafieldsmillburn
@theminimalists
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In Part Two of my After Reality Flashback with Kalon McMahon, we go even deeper into what life was really like after being labeled one of Bachelor Nation’s most unforgettable villains.
Kalon opens up about returning for Men Tell All, why he says he was pulled back into the drama after he had already moved on, and what that experience revealed about the behind-the-scenes reality of the franchise. We talk producer pressure, lack of privacy while filming, villain edits, house dynamics, and the little loopholes contestants used to avoid being caught in moments they knew could be used against them.
We also get into the harder side of life after reality TV: the strange transition back to normal life, the mental toll of being briefly famous, dating in Bachelor Nation, his relationship with Lindzi Cox, and what it was like working for TMZ after being on the other side of the headlines. Kalon shares what Harvey Levin is really like to work for, how stories get chased, and how celebrity headlines are really made.
Kalon also shares where life has taken him now — from moving back to Texas to building a successful career in real estate and home staging alongside his wife, Emily.
It’s honest, funny, and full of show truths from someone who lived through one of the most ruthless eras of reality TV and later saw the celebrity news machine from the inside.
@kalonmcm
@hadleighs
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I’m kicking off the brand-new After Reality Flashback series with Kalon McMahon, one of the most unforgettable villains from Emily Maynard’s season of The Bachelorette. He also reveals the truth behind his iconic helicopter entrance — what was real, what was production, and how that over-the-top arrival put a target on his back from night one.
As two former Bachelor Nation villains from the old-school era, Kalon and I go all the way back — before TikTok, podcasts, Instagram statements, influencer careers, and contestants having any real way to tell their side of the story.
Kalon looks back on the moments that defined his time on reality TV, from the helicopter entrance and “sorry not sorry” to the infamous “baggage” scene that followed him for years. We unpack how that moment really played out behind the scenes, what viewers didn’t see, and what filming was actually like when the edit was everything.
We also get into producer pressure, house dynamics, villain edits, Bachelor fashion, who Kalon was hoping the Bachelorette would be — spoiler alert, it was me — dating after the show, how Bachelor Pad changed the audience’s perception of him, the very first season of Bachelor in Paradise, and where life has taken him since, including Texas, pickleball, and married life with his wife Emily.
Juicy, nostalgic, and full of show truths, this is a candid look back at a completely different era of Bachelor Nation — when the fashion was questionable, the storylines were ruthless, and one sound bite could follow you forever.
@kalonmcm
@hadleighs
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In this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by my husband, Humberto Preciado, for a little summer life update and a deeper legal conversation. We talk about the chaos of parenting three young kids during summer break, from camp schedules to trying to make sweet memories while also feeling completely exhausted.
Humberto, a former prosecutor, also shares the surprising story of recently being served with legal documents at our home related to a years-old white-collar crime case. From there, we dive into the ongoing criminal case involving former Bachelor star Clayton Echard.
Humberto breaks down how plea deals work in Arizona, what might be motivating the defense, and why taking a deal could be a way to avoid the much bigger risks of going to trial. This episode blends real family life, marriage banter, and Humberto’s legal insight into one of the most high-profile Bachelor Nation legal battles.
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I’m back with a quick summer update before diving into Netflix’s The Crash and the Mackenzie Shirilla case that has completely taken over my algorithm.
After watching multiple documentaries, I went down the TikTok rabbit hole of Shyann Topping — Mackenzie’s ex-girlfriend from prison — and her viral storytelling about what life is really like for women behind bars. Let’s just say, Kim Kardashian is not coming to save you.
Then I’m getting into the Perfect Match finale — the drama, the strategy, the couples, and who actually felt real by the end. I also play a clip from Nick Viall’s podcast that ties into the conversation.
I wrap with a few Bachelor Nation headlines, including the latest on Clayton Echard vs. Laura Owens — and whether she’s really going to accept a plea deal that could mean just two months in jail. A little true crime, a little reality TV chaos, and a lot to unpack.
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What happens when a celebrity scandal breaks, the internet is on fire, and everyone is waiting for the perfect statement? According to veteran publicist Juliet Harris, nothing is ever really “off record.”
This week on After Reality, I’m joined by the founder of IT Girl Productions for a behind-the-scenes look at crisis PR, celebrity scandals, and reputation management. Juliet has worked with major names including Nelly, The Backstreet Boys, La Toya Jackson, and Rachel Leviss, and she knows exactly what it takes to help a public figure survive a public storm. But what does accountability actually look like when the spotlight is on you — and is a statement ever enough?
Juliet shares how she went from studying criminology to managing high-profile reputations, and what really happens behind the scenes when a headline starts spiraling. We talk about how social media has changed the PR game, why accountability matters, and how publicists decide what to say — and what not to say — when the internet is watching.
We also get into the latest celebrity PR parallels, from Taylor Frankie Paul to Blake Lively, Spencer Pratt’s run for mayor, and how reality TV personas can collide with real-life consequences. Plus, Juliet shares her thoughts on The Bachelorette PR team, what they may be navigating behind the scenes, and how a franchise handles headlines when the story starts moving faster than the official messaging.
Juliet also opens up about balancing a demanding career with motherhood, staying organized under pressure, and why great PR is really a strategic chess game built on instinct, relationships, and knowing when to make the right move.
@itgirlpublicrelations
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In this solo episode of After Reality, I’m coming off a very glamorous Mother’s Day — and by glamorous, I mean I did absolutely nothing. I sat in silence, recharged, binge-watched an intense Peacock crime drama, and then immediately needed to cleanse my nervous system with Farmer Wants a Wife. Honestly, my kind of holiday.
I’m also sharing more about the beautiful response to my Mother’s Day episode with my 98-year-old Grandma Angie, and why it made me want to open up about something much more personal: the disappearance of my Aunt Elaine Robertson, who went missing in Mount Rainier National Park in the 1970s.
Then we get into the mess. Taylor Frankie Paul’s never-ending battle continues, and I’m breaking down the latest back-and-forth with Mikayla Matthews, the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives fallout, the questions around loyalty, boundaries, and whether Taylor is unraveling in real time. And yes — will she go live again?
I’m also talking about what feels missing from ABC’s summer reality lineup, plus Kaitlyn Bristowe and Jenn Tran joining the new reality show Reality Retreat.
And because this episode somehow has even more range, I’m getting into Spencer Pratt’s mayoral debate moment. I used to run in the same circles as Spencer, and I’m sharing why I’m not surprised he showed up fired up, sharp, and ready to talk fire safety, law enforcement, homelessness, and the future of Los Angeles.
It’s Mother’s Day, family secrets, Mormon Wives drama, Bachelor Nation news, politics, and a little reality TV chaos — exactly how we like it.
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In this special Mother’s Day episode of After Reality, I’m sharing a heartwarming phone call with my 98-year-old grandmother, Angie.
We catch up on life, motherhood, my real estate career, the podcast, and the beautiful chaos of raising three young kids. Grandma Angie gives me a little window into her life now — enjoying the sunshine, playing blackjack, getting visits from her sons, and keeping everyone laughing with her honesty.
We also talk about the beautiful Hawaiian quilt she made me — a true labor of love — and she jokes about how she’s supposed to be teaching the ladies how to sew now, but honestly… she just doesn’t want to do it.
This conversation also carries a tender piece of our family story. Grandma Angie shares how much she still misses her daughter, Elaine Robertson, who went missing in May of 1979, and how she continues to hold out hope and pray for her after all these years.
At 98, Grandma Angie reminds me what really matters: family, faith, a positive attitude, and not taking life too seriously. This conversation is a sweet multi-generational reminder to slow down, stay grateful, and cherish the people who helped shape us.
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I’m joined by Nick Pellecchia, the winner of Netflix’s Million Dollar Secret, for a behind-the-scenes look at how he pulled off the win.
Nick opens up about his strategy, how he identified the secret millionaire, and what was going through his mind when he made the bold box swap in the finale that secured him the grand prize. We also talk about the casting process, his transition from finance into reality TV, and what it was really like trying to complete secret agendas while filming at the château.
Of course, we get into his flirtations on the show, his chemistry with Umeko Peterson, and what fans can expect from his upcoming appearance on Perfect Match Season 4. And yes — I ask the million-dollar questions: has he actually been paid yet, and what does he plan to do with the money?
Nick also shares how emotional intelligence, staying calm under pressure, and reading the room helped him navigate one of Netflix’s most fascinating social strategy games.
@nickypill
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Was Taylor Frankie Paul’s Bachelorette opportunity collateral damage in the fallout with Dakota Mortensen?
In this bonus breaking news episode of After Reality, I’m diving into the latest legal turmoil and personal drama surrounding Taylor Frankie Paul and Dakota Mortensen — from the leaked audio involving Jessi Draper to the outcome of yesterday’s court hearing.
I’m joined by Reality Steve to break down the latest court update, including the three-year mutual protective order issued to keep Taylor and Dakota separated. But the bigger question is: can these two actually quit each other — and what could all of this mean for Taylor’s future on reality TV?
Beyond the headlines, TikToks, leaked audio, and reality TV speculation, this conversation is really about what happens when a relationship becomes toxic — and why the safety and well-being of their young son has to come first.
@realitysteve
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In this episode, I’m catching up with former Bachelor producer Alanna Noel after she went completely radio silent for the last year.
She opens up about stepping away, what she was dealing with behind the scenes, and what it’s been like finding her way back.
Then we get straight into Bachelor Nation — where the franchise stands, what’s shifting behind the curtain, and the headlines surrounding Taylor Frankie Paul.
We also get into the dynamic between Gabby Windey and Rachel Recchia, and how much of what we saw was real versus situational.
I ask about former producer Julie LaPlaca’s upcoming book, The Love Producer: My Unscripted Journey from a Reality TV Career to My Own Happily Ever After, and what it actually takes to tell that story — NDAs, unspoken rules, and what may still be off limits.
We get into the realities of production — uncredited ideas, shaping storylines, and how much is mapped out before filming even begins. And yes… Alanna shuts down the rumor about producer bonuses.
It’s candid, direct, and full of the kind of behind-the-scenes insight Bachelor fans don’t usually hear.
@lannanoel
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On this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Stefanie Parker, top-charting podcast host of She’s All Bach, for a fun catch-up between two close friends. We talk about her new solo era, what led to her professional split from her longtime co-host, and why this next chapter is rooted in growth, not drama.
We also get into some of the biggest Bachelor Nation headlines, from Nick Viall’s alleged treatment of guests to the fallout surrounding Taylor Frankie Paul’s canceled Bachelorette season. We share some gentle thoughts on the latest controversy and ask the question: is Dakota Mortensen actually capable of going off the grid?
We also talk about following your dreams, even with imposter syndrome, and I open up about shooting my shot for Dancing with the Stars.
Such a fun, honest conversation with plenty of tea and a little real-life encouragement mixed in.
@shesallbach
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In this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Chris Lancaster to talk about his experience being in the running to become the next Bachelor. He opens up about the intense casting process—from background checks and psychological evaluations to even being asked by producers to cut his hair to fit the show’s aesthetic.
But just as things were gaining momentum, everything shifted. The network pivoted to The Bachelorette with Taylor Frankie Paul, and Chris shares how producers then encouraged him to join her season as a contestant instead.
He was told that going on her season could eventually lead to him becoming the Bachelor—but ultimately, he chose to walk away. For Chris, it came down to authenticity and wanting something real.
We talk about what that decision meant for him, how the experience pushed him to grow, and why it helped clarify what he’s truly looking for in a committed relationship—outside of reality TV.
He also shares advice for anyone considering the process, emphasizing the importance of staying grounded, trusting your instincts, and protecting your heart in an industry that can be incredibly high-pressure
@_chrislancaster_
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On this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Noah Erb, the inaugural winner of Bachelor Mansion Takeover. And I’ll say it—Bachelor Mansion Takeover is officially the best Bachelor spin-off series. We get into what it was really like for him navigating intense DIY design challenges while carrying the emotional weight of his mother’s terminal illness.
We get into what it was really like for him navigating intense DIY design challenges while carrying the emotional weight of his mother’s illness.
Noah opens up about his journey from working in the ICU to stepping into the high-pressure world of reality TV, and how those experiences shaped the way he handled competition, stress, and vulnerability.
We also talk about grief—how losing his mom impacted him, why he chose to stay in the competition, and how he honored her throughout that experience. It’s a really honest and meaningful conversation.
Of course, we lighten things up too—getting into the behind-the-scenes moments from Bachelor Mansion Takeover, including his headline-making win, flying home with that silver suitcase in hand, and where things currently stand with Dean Bell. I had to ask… is the rivalry still alive? And more importantly—has he been paid yet?
Plus, we talk about what’s next for Noah, including his future goals, the possibility of a home renovation show (yes please), and teaming up with his wife, Abigail Erb on future projects or maybe Dean Bell?
This episode is an intimate look at the intersection of reality TV, resilience, and real-life loss—with a little competition and chaos mixed in—and one I won’t forget anytime soon.
@noah_erb
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On this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by Chad Kultgen, from Game of Roses, to break down my recent experience on Bachelor Mansion Takeover. Chad reveals his behind-the-scenes role as my “secret strategist,” helping me craft specific speeches and moments during filming to capture producer attention and maximize screen time. We also get into the controversial casting of Taylor Frankie Paul, with Chad sharing his thoughts on where the franchise stands today — why it may be lacking clear creative direction after recent production shakeups, and weighing in on where we go from here casting-wise, including whether we’ll ever actually see Taylor Frankie Paul’s season come to life.
Chad and I dive into the real mechanics of reality TV and why your relationship with producers can matter even more than the actual rules of the game.
And of course, we go a little deeper. We talk about Chad’s interest in metaphysics, his experiences with lucid dreaming, and even his one-of-a-kind political podcast featuring his parents, The Necessary Conversation.
@bachelorclues
@gameofrosespod
@thenecessaryconversationpod
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On this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Christopher Stallworth to talk about his unique experience filming not one, but two reality shows alongside Joan Vassos—The Golden Bachelorette and HGTV’s Bachelor Mansion Takeover.
We get into his unexpected casting story, what really goes on behind the scenes, and how he stayed grounded while navigating it all—including the reason he ultimately turned down Bachelor in Paradise. Christopher opens up about leading with authenticity, being a positive force on set, and why being a team player mattered so much to him throughout the experience.
He also drops some real wisdom on finding your “why” and stepping into your purpose, sharing how faith and manifestation have guided his path into the entertainment world. More than anything, this conversation reflects the genuine friendship we built and our shared gratitude for the wild, once-in-a-lifetime opportunities that come from being part of Bachelor Nation.
@christopher_stallworth_nyc
@contracting_spec
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Today on After Reality, I’m sitting down with the incredibly talented builder and TV personality, Mitch Oaks—also known as Mitch the Maker!
We recently filmed Bachelor Mansion Takeover together, and let me just say… this man does not mess around when it comes to bringing big ideas to life. From swinging hammers to creating jaw-dropping transformations, Mitch is the real deal—and he’s quickly becoming a fan favorite in the HGTV world.
In this episode, we get into his backstory—how he got started, what it really takes to make it in the building world, and what it’s like filming for HGTV versus reality TV. We also talk about the pressure of seeing your work on screen, whether he actually watches himself back, and yes… we get into his relationship status.
From craftsmanship to camera time, this episode is all about what happens when creativity meets reality TV—and trust me, you’re going to love getting to know Mitch beyond the tools.
@mitch.the.maker
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In this episode of After Reality, I’m sharing my heart and my journey on Bachelor Mansion Takeover—the highs, the growing pains, and the moment it all came to an end. From navigating creative differences with my team during the fireplace renovation to finding my voice in a high-pressure environment, this experience truly pushed me in ways I didn’t expect.
I was also showing up and competing while playing hurt most days, which made every challenge that much more personal. Getting a second chance through the redemption twist meant so much to me, especially hearing such kind words from guest judge Nate Berkus. It gave me the confidence to step into my first solo challenge—designing and building a terrace bar that felt like me. Even though that moment marked the end of my time on the show, it was something I’m incredibly proud of.
At the core of it all was my “why”—wanting to win that prize money to build a pool for my kids. That dream carried me through every long day, every tough moment, and every small win along the way.
I’m walking away with so much gratitude. I stayed true to myself, trusted my instincts, and built friendships I’ll cherish long after the cameras stopped rolling. This one means a lot 🤍
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On this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by former Bachelor producer Adam Mansfield, who weighs in on the current state of the franchise, the pressure to evolve, and what today’s audiences are really looking for. We also get into the buzz around Taylor Frankie Paul potentially stepping in as the next Bachelorette—and what that kind of casting could mean for the future of the show.
From there, we go behind the scenes of Adam’s time on The Bachelor, where he shares what it’s really like producing a 24/7 reality show, the emotional connections formed with contestants, and how he mastered the ultimate producer poker face. We also revisit the magic of “Happy Couple” weekends (yes, he was part of making those happen) and what it takes to pull off international filming and travel at that level.
Now a dad and producing for the Food Network, Adam opens up about how his career has evolved and where life has taken him after stepping away from the franchise.
If you’ve ever wondered what’s happening behind the curtain—and what’s next for The Bachelor—this is an episode you don’t want to miss.
@themansfield
@meatcutebbq
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