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  • In this episode of ITASS, we sit down with content creator and Influencer Iremide - one of the earliest TikTok creators in Nigeria - to talk about her journey from making her own costumes to start and join viral TikTok trends, to becoming a law student balancing content creation with her studies.

    We talk about:

    🎬 Her early days as a Nigerian TikTok creator

    ✂️ Singlehandedly creating costumes for TikTok trends

    ⚖️ Life as a law student while building an online career

    🏙️ Her move to Lagos to grow her career

    ✈️ Going on brand-sponsored trips

    ✨ Her skincare journey with Eucerin, including the Even Pigment Perfector set

    This episode is fully sponsored by Eucerin, with a special focus on the Eucerin Sun Fluid containing Thiamidol — designed to help protect skin and even out skin tone.

    🔔 Subscribe to ITASS for more honest, inspiring conversations with creators, students, and young professionals navigating life, career, and everything in between.

    #ITASS #Eucerin #ThiamidolEucerin #NigerianTikTok #Iremide #LawSchool #SkincareJourney #ContentCreator #LagosLife #TikTokNigeria #PigmentPerfector #SunscreenSkincare

  • Domina Havi is a Lagos-based dominatrix — and she's here to explain everything. Why do successful Nigerian men pay to be controlled? What does a session actually involve? And how did she build a business around it? This is one of the most honest conversations about male psychology, power dynamics, and modern relationships in Nigeria.

    In this episode we cover:

    - What a dominatrix actually does - online and in person

    - The psychology of why men seek control and dominance

    - How Domina Havi built a business around this in Lagos

    - Power dynamics and gender expectations in Nigerian society

    - How she handles client boundaries and safety

    - What surprised her most about her clients

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    #Dominatrix #LagosDominatrix #PowerDynamics #NigerianPodcast #TabooConversations #LagosPodcast #ITASSPod #IsThisASafeSpace #MaleSubjects #NigerianRelationships #ModernRelationships #DominaHavi #ITASSSeason3

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  • In this exciting episode of ITASS, we sit down with Oyinademii, a renowned Lagos-based mixologist and the creative mind behind Omutiexpress. She shares her inspiring journey, from her fun-filled childhood to boldly stepping into opportunities and building a unique brand in Nigeria’s vibrant mixology scene.

    This episode is proudly sponsored by Lasgidi Crush, and we take things up a notch by creating colorful cocktails inspired by the brand’s signature variants.

    If you love content creation, entrepreneurship, personal branding, and mixology, this episode is for you!

    👉 Watch, share, and join the conversation.

    👉 Subscribe now and join a community that isn’t afraid to talk about real issues.

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    Oyinademii's socials

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oyinademii

    Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@oyinademii

    OmutiExpress Socials

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/omutiexpress

    Lasgidicrush"s SOCIALS

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lasgidinigeria

    Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lasgidinigeria

  • Dara was wrongfully arrested alongside her mother, sister, and neighbours by Nigerian police after a dispute over a wrongly sent bank transfer. What followed was police intimidation, violence, illegal detention — and being denied pads during her period. This is the story of how she turned that trauma into PADANIMATE, an initiative fighting period poverty in Nigerian prisons.

    In this episode we cover:

    - How a simple request for a refund led to wrongful arrest

    - Police harassment and violence against her and her family

    - Being denied sanitary products during menstruation while in detention

    - Illegal transfer to a distant prison

    - How PADANIMATE was born from this experience

    - Period poverty and women's rights in Nigerian prisons

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    #NigerianPoliceBrutality #WrongfulArrest #PeriodPoverty #PADANIMATE #WomenRightsNigeria #NigerianPodcast #HumanRightsNigeria #LagosPodcast #ITASSPod #IsThisASafeSpace #NigerianWomen #EndSARS

  • Tobi of Tobicloset was a teenager when she found out she was pregnant. What followed was a journey most people face alone and in silence — leaving home, hiding her bump in university lectures, and facing judgment in the hospital when she needed support most. This episode is one of the most important conversations on this podcast.

    In this episode we cover:

    - How Tobi discovered she was pregnant as a teenager

    - Being preyed upon by an older man

    - Having to leave her family home

    - Hiding her pregnancy throughout university

    - Hospital discrimination and stigma during childbirth

    - Family rejection and eventual acceptance

    - Her message to young girls facing the same situation

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    #TeenagePregnancy #NigerianWomen #NigerianPodcast #TeenMomNigeria #WomensStories #LagosPodcast #ITASSPod #IsThisASafeSpace #Tobicloset #NigerianStories #YoungMothers #ITASSSeason3

  • In today’s society, body shaming has become far too common, but what are the real consequences? In this powerful episode of Is This A Safe Space (ITASS), I sit down with the author of OROBO KIBO KIBO, April Ifunanya (aka Aprilboldchic), to have an honest and vulnerable conversation.

    She opens up about her personal experiences with body shaming, how it shaped her self-image, and the life decisions it influenced. This episode dives deep into sensitive but important topics that affect many people in silence.

    💬 In this episode, we discuss:

    Body shaming and its emotional impact

    Marriage and relationship struggles

    Divorce and healing

    Sexual assault and finding your voice

    This is more than a conversation—it’s a safe space to learn, reflect, and grow.

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    Substack: https://www.osasbaby.substack.com

    April’s socials

    Instagram: instagram.com/aprilboldchic

    Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@aprilboldchic

  • Skin doctor Dr Mariam Adetoun joins Osasbaby to break down one of the most searched topics in Nigerian beauty: hyperpigmentation. From the real cause of dark spots, to the dangers of bleaching, to what Thiamidol actually does — this is the skincare education most Nigerians never get. Sponsored by Eucerin Even Pigment Perfector.

    In this episode we cover:

    - What hyperpigmentation is and why it's so common for Black skin

    - The dangers of skin bleaching in Nigeria

    - The truth about sun exposure and sunscreen for dark skin

    - How Eucerin's Even Pigment Perfector range and Thiamidol work

    - Skincare routines for hyperpigmentation-prone skin

    - Dr Mariam's advice on what to avoid and what actually works

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    #Hyperpigmentation #SkincareNigeria #EucerinNigeria #BlackSkincare #NigerianSkincare #BleachingDangers #SunscreenAfrica #LagosPodcast #NigerianPodcast #ITASSPod #IsThisASafeSpace #DrMariam #EvenPigmentPerfector

  • In this International Women's Day episode, Dr Adefunke joins Osasbaby to discuss the injustices Nigerian women still face — medically, sexually, and socially. From being shamed for expressing pain during childbirth, to the ongoing reality of FGM, fibroids, and sexual health denial, this conversation is one every Nigerian woman (and man) needs to hear. Sponsored by Lasgidi Crush.

    In this episode we cover:

    - Why women in Nigeria are shamed for screaming during childbirth

    - The reality of fibroids and reproductive health in Nigeria

    - FGM: what it is and why it still happens

    - Period health and what women aren't being told

    - Sexual health rights and access in Nigeria

    - Dr Adefunke's message to Nigerian women about knowing their rights

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    #WomensHealthNigeria #IWD #FGMNigeria #NigerianWomen #ReproductiveHealth #FibroidsNigeria #NigerianPodcast #LagosPodcast #ITASSPod #IsThisASafeSpace #DrAdefunke #LasgidiCrush #WomensRightsNigeria

  • To kick off the season, I sit down with a recovering drug addict and advocate against the use of hard drugs - Ellams, as he shares the long and hard journey about getting into the use of hard drugs, the effects and the quitting.

    Ellams talks about the challenges, the loses, the down times and the recovery process. This conversation highlights the ills of drug abuse and how it affects society at large.

    Topics we cover:

    Ellam's childhood

    Ellam's intoduction to hard drugs

    The downside of hard drug usage

    The impact of hard drugs in the society

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    Substack: https://www.osasbaby.substack.com

    Ellam's socials

    Instagram: instagram.com/cute_ellams

    Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/cutie_ellams

  • In this powerful episode, I sit down with spoken word artist Ibquake as she shares the emotional journey behind discovering her love for spoken word poetry. She opens up about finding her voice, embracing her gift, and watching spoken word grow into a recognized and paying career path.

    Ibquake talks about the challenges, the wins, and the moments that shaped her — and how her talent has taken her farther than she ever imagined. This conversation is a celebration of creativity, courage, and the future of spoken word poetry.

    If you're a lover of poetry, storytelling, or creative expression, this episode will inspire you deeply.

    Topics we cover:

    Ibquake’s personal journey into spoken word

    The rise and acceptance of spoken word as a profession

    Turning passion and talent into opportunities

    The impact of poetry and performance

    Her vision for spoken word to reach the top

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    Substack: https://www.osasbaby.substack.com

    Ibquake's socials

    Instagram: instagram.com/ibquake

    Twitter: twitter.com/ibquake

    Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/ibquake

  • In this episode of ITASS titled "Marriage, Breakups, Body Struggles & Lipo: Victoire’s Raw, Honest Journey", I sit down with Victoire, a vibrant content creator from Benin Republic who moved to Lagos to start her content creation journey. She opens up about getting married and separated within a year, rebuilding her identity, and transitioning from hair and beauty content to lifestyle creation.

    Victoire also speaks honestly about her struggles with body image, the pressure to look a certain way, and how she eventually opted for liposuction after realizing the body she wanted wasn’t achievable through the gym alone.

    This is a deep, inspiring, and honest conversation about growth, resilience, courage, and choosing yourself.

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    Victoire’s socials

    Instagram: instagram.com/victoire_mahounou

    Twitter: twitter.com/victoire_mahoun

    Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/victoire_mahounou

  • In this episode of Is This a Safe Space? titled “Balancing Business, Creativity & Identity in the Music Industry", I sit with Lammy A, a dynamic marketing lead turned creative entrepreneur. Lammy’s journey took her from working at Empire, one of the leading names in the music industry, to co-founding her own creative and music agency - KVLT World.

    She also runs The DIY Collective, a growing community that nurtures young talents, helping them build confidence, skill, and visibility in the creative market.

    Together, we dive into her thoughts on:

    💰 Making money and defining success on her own terms

    💍 Her views on marriage and modern womanhood

    🌱 How her childhood and early experiences shaped her creative path

    If you’re passionate about music, marketing, creativity, or personal growth, this episode will definitely inspire you.

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    Substack: https://www.osasbaby.substack.com

    Lammy’s socials

    Instagram: instagram.com/lammy.a

    Twitter: twitter.com/lammyy_a

    Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/lammy.a

    Lammy’s brands

    KVLT - https://www.instagram.com/kvltwrld

    DIY collective - https://www.instagram.com/the_diycollective

  • In this episode of Is This a Safe Space? titled “Symbol of Hope: Zlatan Ibile Thinks He’ll Make a Great Pastor”, I sit down with the one and only Zlatan Ibile for a real, unfiltered conversation about life, music, and purpose.

    From growing up as a pastor’s kid and playing instruments in church, to stumbling on the opportunity that changed his life forever, Zlatan opens up about his humble beginnings, his rise to fame, and the reality of life as a celebrity in Nigeria.

    We talk about everything — juggling being an artist and a dad, running his clothing brand ZTTW, and what truly keeps him grounded in an industry that never stops moving.

    If you love good gist, inspiring stories, and behind-the-scenes moments from your favorite Nigerian artists, this episode is for you.

    👇🏾 Tell me in the comments — what’s your favorite song from Zlatan’s album? Let’s chat!

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    Zlatan’s socials

    Instagram: instagram.com/zlatan_ibile

    Twitter: twitter.com/zlatan_ibile

    Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/zlatan_ibile

  • In this episode of Is This A Safe Space? titled “The Super Unserious Episode: Perliks Definition Believes Aliens Are Made Up”, I sit down with the creative genius and director Perliks Definition for a conversation that’s equal parts unserious and inspiring.

    From starting out as a set assistant to becoming one of the most in-demand directors in the country, Perliks walks us through his journey - and yes, we get into some very unserious hot takes along the way 👽✨

    With an insane portfolio featuring Simi, Rema, Adekunle Gold, Falz, Fireboy DML, Darkoo, Shallipopi, Asake, Johnny Drille, Blaqbonez, Young John, BNXN, L.A.X and more, he breaks down his creative process from wild idea to full-blown masterpiece.

    If you’re a curious creative or just love gist with a sprinkle of chaos, this episode is for you.

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    Perliks socials

    Instagram: instagram.com/perliksdefinition

    Twitter: twitter.com/perliksdefinition

    Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@perliksdefinition_

    Youtube: https://youtube.com/@UCaCYoYaodmSTruPRWJ4eENQ

  • Polygamy is more than just a concept, it’s a lived reality for many families. In this episode of "Is This A Safe Space?" titled "More Wives, More Drama: A Child’s View of Polygamy", we sit down with someone who grew up in a polygamous household to unpack what that experience really looks like.

    We talk about:

    - The emotional dynamics of having multiple mothers and siblings

    - How polygamy shapes childhood, identity, and family bonds

    - Navigating love, loyalty, and rivalry within the same home

    - Breaking stereotypes and confronting uncomfortable truths

    This is a raw, honest, and necessary conversation about family structures that many don’t talk about openly.

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    #Polygamy #IsThisASafeSpace #Podcast #NigerianStories #FamilyDynamics #HonestConversations

  • On this episode of "Is This A Safe Space?" titled "Motherhood, Healing & Identity: Postpartum with Thayour B", I sit with content creator, business mogul, and new mom, Thayour B, to have an honest conversation about postpartum- what it really means, how it feels, and the realities many women face after childbirth. From physical recovery to emotional shifts and identity changes, this episode sheds light on a journey often left in the dark.

    If you’re a mom, expecting, or simply curious, this episode is a must-watch.

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    Thayour B’s socials

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thayour_b

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jan.deux

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebodymagicng

  • Season 2, Episode 2 of "Is This A Safe Space?" titled "World Contraception Day: Why are Nigerians still afraid of Family planning?" focuses on contraceptives in Nigeria, released in light of World Contraception Day.

    Our guest, a nurse, helps break down:

    ✅ Why contraceptive methods face resistance in Nigeria

    ✅ How cultural and religious beliefs affect family planning

    ✅ Why some Nigerian men believe contraceptives “emasculate” them

    ✅ Myths vs facts about contraceptive use in Nigeria

    ✅ 7790 and the role they play in helping Nigerians understand sexual health

    If you want to understand the real issues around family planning, contraceptives, and gender dynamics in Nigeria, this episode is for you.

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    Honey and Banana: http://www.instagram.com/honeyandbanana

    #worldcontraceptionday #itass #itasspod #familyplanning

  • In Season 2, Episode 1 of Is This A Safe Space? titled "The Benin to Lagos Hustle: Tobe Szn on Risk, Growth, Law School & Content Creation", we sit with Nigerian Influencer and travel content creator - Tobe Ugeh aka Tobe Szn.

    He opens up about:

    Starting content creation in Benin City

    Travelling overnight to Lagos for collaborations & events

    Balancing law school with influencer life

    Growing from shy and people-pleasing to bold and unapologetic

    Transitioning into being a Travel content creator

    If you've ever wondered what it's like to chase a creative career while studying law in Nigeria, this conversation is for you.

    Subscribe for more inspiring conversations from creatives shaping culture.

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  • Is This A Safe Space? To wrap up the season, Chinasa Anukam, founder and host of “Is This Seat Taken?” sits with Osas in her safe space to discuss her journey as a stand-up comedian while navigating the hurdles of being a creative in and out of Nigeria.

    Osas’ note: Ironically, we filmed this while there was a lot of noise around us, it’s so poetic how on the day we decided to speak on our struggles, I was facing a serious struggle. A lot has been cut out to save your ears from the screeching. Special thanks to Chinasa for honoring my invitation.

    This is my final episode for the season and while we gear up for Season 2, please be sure to stick around. Love you always 💜

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    It’s a safe space, talk to me.

  • Navigating Loss: Hameedah’s Journey Through Grief | Is This A Safe Space? In this episode, model, and businesswoman, Hameedah sits down with Osas to talk about loss, grief, and guilt. She speaks on how she has managed to live through losing her mother and how much the friendships she has built have held her down through the journey.

    Osas’ note: This is quite an emotional episode for both parties, I’d love to encourage anyone dealing with any form of loss to watch this and share their stories as it is these stories that keep us together.

    Special thanks to Hameedah for coming to my safe space, please say a heartfelt wish for Hameedah in the comment section.

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    https://www.instagram.com/hameedah_xx

    https://www.instagram.com/mielofficial__

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    It’s a safe space, talk to me.