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最后一期的星际穿越节目～聊的更加深入～
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On the show today we’re talking to someone who has suffered immense emotional trauma but who has come out the other side stronger, wiser and ready to love again. Our guest really inspires those who have been through divorce, a partner’s infidelity, miscarriage or have been dealt an unfair hand, sharing openly about her two failed marriages, suffering multiple miscarriages and discovering her husband’s affair while pregnant in their first year of marriage.
To add to our guest’s array of disappointments, she poignantly tells us about the letter that ended her second marriage and which left her devastated and alone. Having a partner abandon her after what she believed to have been twelve wonderful years, she had to work through the difficult circumstances all on her own, including managing the business they owned together, while he effectively disappeared for weeks.
She talks about struggling with feelings of guilt and not being enough, and how therapy and support from friends and family restored her hope of finding love again. For more about how this woman conquered the many obstacles in her life, don’t miss out on this episode of the Bad Girls Bible Podcast!
Key Points From This Episode:
More about Susan’s background and being adopted into a wonderful family. How she met her second husband and their early days together. The age gap and her thought processes around it. Falling pregnant a second time and having a series of miscarriages following the first. Why it is so difficult for Australian citizens to adopt. Her unfulfilling first marriage and their lack of intimacy. Her gut feeling about her second husband’s infidelity. How her partner’s infidelity consumed her and realizing that she needed to forgive. The devastating letter that ended their marriage. Being concerned for her husband’s mental state and worrying that he might end his own life. The hardest thing about his abandonment and how it impacted her daughter. Struggling with feelings of inadequacy and feeling partly responsible for his decision to leave. Having to deal with her pain, their business and sharing the news with others by herself. Getting to a place where she is ready to pursue love again. The importance of not being reactive is such circumstances. And much more!Tweetables:
“I thought, hang on a minute, I’m pregnant, we’re in our first year of marriage and you are cheating on me? I was really devastated.” — Susan [0:15:56]
“I felt like he was my soul mate, that’s why it was just so soul-destroying when he left me in the manner that he left me.” — Susan [0:24:01]
“I’m a hopeless romantic, I believe in love still, so, I’m willing to put myself out there.” — Susan [0:31:40]
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这是《别任性》新栏目#任性歌单# 的第二期。这个系列里，我们会请女音乐人们来做音乐推荐。这期的歌单来自后朋克乐队 Sonicave。
Sonicave 的成员是四位女孩：祁麟+包子+狒狒+Cherry。
这张歌单的音乐从 dark wave（暗潮）、new wave（新浪潮）、post-punk（后朋克）到 dream pop 什么都有，但你也不用管这些标签，你的耳朵喜欢就够了。
祁麟（主唱）
04‘20: Nick Cave & the Bad Seeds - Where the Wild Roses Grow
07‘50: Lebanon Hanover - Your Fork Moves
10‘40: Lilies and Remains - Final Cut
14‘07: Portishead - Strangers
包子（鼓手）
20‘25: Tears for Fears - Elemental
25‘40: Modest Mouse - Heart Cooks Brain
29‘45: Archers of Loaf - Web in Front
31‘45: Dinosaur Jr. - I Don't Wanna Go There
狒狒（贝斯）
42‘15: Little Nemo - Diskover
47‘05: Little Nemo - Love is a Lie
50‘26: Pulp - This is Hardcore
56‘50: Gang of Four - To Hell with Poverty
Cherry（吉他）
62‘25: The Danse Society - Come Inside
69‘23: Second Still - Judgement
74‘00: The Cure - Love Song
77‘26: Cocteau Twins - Rilkean Heart -
本期节目的内容涉及癌症、精神疾病、生死观、安乐死，可能产生不适，请谨慎收听。
如果你不确定，也可以先读读“别的女孩”上配合的文案，根据我总结的内容时间点选择收听。
这期的嘉宾有三位：媒体/环保从业者常远，艺术从业者郭锦泓（aka 郭师傅），文化从业者刘宽（Kiva）。后两位是女孩，最近一年各自被诊断出癌症，现在分别开始疗养/恢复良好。 -
Ann Hallenberg's wonderful exploration of the Venice Carnival in 1729 is our September Recording of the Month. The Swedish mezzo joins Il Pomo d'Oro and Stefano Montanari for a programme of Albinoni, Giacomelli, Leo, Vinci and others on this Pentatone Recording.
Find out more and hear extracts from the disc in this podcast presented by editor Oliver Condy and reviews editor Rebecca Franks.
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This second episode in the five episode series focuses on all the different techniques you can use to masturbate and finger yourself. In total, you're going to learn 20 different techniques to pleasure yourself with. And keep in mind that you can also use a lot of these techniques during sex too!
You can see diagrams and demonstrations explaining each of these techniques in these three articles:
http://badgirlsbible.com/masturbation-techniques
http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-finger-yourself
http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-find-your-g-spotShow Highlights
1.35 Masturbation Tip 1 - Discover the very easy-to-perform Up & Down masturbation technique.
2.15 Tip 2 - Learn why the "Long, Slow Stroke" is perfect for teasing yourself and almost acts like masturbation foreplay.
3.10 Tip 3 - The deceptively pleasurable Side-to-Side stroking technique that you can also use during sex for added stimulation to push you over the edge.
4.35 Tip 4 - The MOST effective masturbation technique you can use.
5.10 Tip 5 - U Spot Orgasms. Discover how this secret area can unlock incredible pleasure. See a diagram here: http://badgirlsbible.com/masturbation-techniques
6.35 Tip 6 - Loving your shower head. Discover why you can climax in a totally different way by using your shower head or a faucet.
8.05 Tip 7 - Using your clitoral hood. If your clitoris gets too sensitive, then you need to use this technique.
9.05 Tip 8 - How to easily expose more of your clit to experience more sensations. Perfect if your clit is NOT particularly sensitive. See a demonstration here: http://badgirlsbible.com/masturbation-techniques
10.30 Tip 9 - Orgasmic Meditation. This technique requires your man and will give you a prolonged orgasm (up to 10 minutes!). See a demonstration here: http://badgirlsbible.com/masturbation-techniques
12.50 Tip 10 - The Squeeze. A little known technique to 'jerk' yourself off.
14.25 Tip 11 - Why you should NEVER ignore your labia.
15.05 Tip 12 - Humping & Grinding. A great way to enjoy different and new sensations when masturbating.
17.05 Tip 13 - The Pearl Necklace. Yet another way to experience completely new physical sensations during masturbation.
19.20 Tip 14 - The basic technique to finger yourself. See it demonstrated here: http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-finger-yourself
21.50 Tip 15 - The exact movements your fingers should be making as your finger yourself. 3 techniques: stroke-stroke-stroke, pressing the 'magic' button, rubbing it. Demonstrations here: http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-finger-yourself
24.55 Tip 16 - G Spot Orgasms, learn exactly how to have them when masturbating. Learn more about your G Spot here: http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-find-your-g-spot
27.30 Tip 17 - The pressure pressing technique. This technique is designed for women who struggle to have G Spot orgasms. See it demonstrated here: http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-finger-yourself
28.45 Tip 18 - Fingering yourself from behind.
29.30 Tip 19 - Doubling your fun. A powerful way to reach orgasm easily requiring both hands.
30.10 Tip 20 - Anal fingering. This one is not for everyone, but it's super powerful.
Just a quick reminder. If you want to see demonstrations of these techniques, make sure to check out these three articles:
http://badgirlsbible.com/masturbation-techniques
http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-finger-yourself
http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-find-your-g-spot -
Learn 22 powerful foreplay tips that will make sex much more intense and enjoyable in today's episode. You'll discover how to turn your man on and have him begging you for more.
Show Highlights
1.40 - Tip 1 - Why mental foreplay is key and how to use it to your advantage.
3.45 - Tip 2 - Why how you look matters and what to do about it.
5.20 - Tip 3 - The secret to perfect foreplay.
6.45 - Tip 4 - Foreplay at the bar. Seriously.
8.00 - Tip 5 - Pinching, grabbing, groping and touching your man the right way.
10.10 - Tip 6 - How to take your foreplay into the shower.
11.30 - Tip 7 - How to kiss your man with passion.
13.05 - Tip 8 - A simple way to massage your man using just 3 massage techniques.
15.25 - Tip 9 - Why you should put on a show for your man.
17.25 - Tip 10 - Foreplay that shows your man what you enjoy.
18.36 - Tip 11 - How to smoothly move from kissing your man to giving him a blow job.
19.35 - Tip 12 - A really fun game with your vibrator.
20.20 - Tip 13 - How Dominance & Submission (D&S) can help your foreplay game.
22.20 - Tip 14 - Why Play fighting is key.
24.00 - Tip 15 - The Hot & Cold game.
25.15 - Tip 16 - Why sex dice may be right for you and your man.
27.15 - Tip 17 - How to make a foreplay checklist (for both of you).
28.45 - Tip 18 - Using "The Countdown" to supercharge the sexual tension.
29.50 - Tip 19 - Why porn can sometimes be a good thing for foreplay.
30.50 - Tip 20 - Driving stick & Licking his lolly pop.
32.05 - Tip 21 - V is for Variation. This is key.
33.10 - Tip 22 - Why communication is the key to great foreplay.
Show Notes
Throughout the episode, I also mention:
The Blow Job Bible: http://badgirlsbible.com/bible
The kissing section: http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-kiss
How to give a great handjob: http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-give-a-hand-job
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BDSM ist absolut unvernünftig, macht aber unglaublich viel Spaß. Hier stelle ich den Podcast in 8 Minuten vor und beschreibe das Konzept.
Nehmt euch diese 8 Minuten Zeit, dann machen die anderen Folgen viel mehr Spaß.
Das Wichtigste:
- Ich bin Sebastian Stix, aktiver SMer.
- Ein Podcast von und für Menschen, die BDSM lieben und leben.
- Es geht um BDSM
- Der Podcast besteht aus einer Reihe an Interviews mit Menschen, die BDSM praktizieren.
- Es gibt zweiwöchentliche Live-Sendungen
- Dieser Podcast möchte ohne erhobenen Zeigefinger auskommen. Wir reden hier über Dinge, die Spaß machen. Aber auch über Sachen, die nicht so schön sind.
- Die Webseite: https://kunstderunvernunft.de
- Jeder kann mitmachen. -
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