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Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. In today's episode, we're diving into an emotionally charged and incredible journey of resilience with our guest, Lisa Steven. Lisa opens up about her life-altering experience as a 17-year-old teen mom in 1986. Amidst historical events like the Space Shuttle Challenger disaster, Lisa navigated an unexpected pregnancy, ultimately choosing to keep her child and marry her boyfriend, John. With insight into her tumultuous upbringing and the profound impact of supportive in-laws, Lisa paints a vivid picture of the challenges and triumphs she faced. She also shares how these experiences inspired her to cofound Hope House Colorado, a beacon of support for teen moms, and discusses the importance of being there for young mothers who need a guiding hand. Join us as we delve into Lisa's journey of faith, perseverance, and the power of community in transforming struggles into a mission for change. Don't miss this inspiring and heartfelt episode that promises to touch your heart and offer hope for those in need.
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Lisa Steven reflects on her past, recalling her teenage years marked by a challenging and turbulent home environment. As the eldest of three siblings, she often witnessed her parents' relationship plagued by frequent and intense conflicts that sometimes turned violent. Despite the instability at home, Lisa found solace and support in her budding relationship with her boyfriend, who would later become her husband. Their bond, forged during those tumultuous times, provided a source of stability and resilience for Lisa as she navigated her formative years.
Timestamped Overview
00:00 Oldest of 4; brother's death caused turmoil.
05:58 Telling his family about pregnancy was difficult.
07:18 Supportive talk about marriage, no abortion considered.
10:29 God has a soft spot for single moms.
14:12 Teen moms need support and connections for hope.
Introduction Welcome and introduction to the Warfare Parenting Podcast by Lane Lawson Craft Mention of the episode's theme: parenting prodigals and stories of hope Guest Introduction: Lisa Steven Introduction of Lisa Steven as a special guest Mention of Lisa's story bringing glory to God Lisa's excitement to share her story and meet listeners Lisa Steven's Personal Story Brief overview of Lisa's book and life in 1986 Overview of societal events in 1986 Lisa's pregnancy and decision to keep the baby and marry Lisa's Teen Years Description of Lisa's unstable home environment Parents' fights and violence Loss of Lisa's little brother, Christopher Lisa's role in caring for siblings Meeting John (Future Husband) How Lisa met John through cruising John's background and more stable family environment Introduction to John's family and their caring nature Pregnancy and Marriage Telling John's parents and their supportive response Discussions on marriage and responsibility Marriage proposal and subsequent wedding Challenges of Young Marriage Difficulties of marriage at a young age Comparison of teenage marriage challenges to general marriage difficulties Reflection and Faith Impact of Lisa's mother-in-law's calm and supportive response Lisa's reflection on childhood challenges and God's plan Modern Family Structures Discussion on current crisis with family units and single parenting Lisa's belief in God's support for teen and single moms Encouragement for Teen and Single Moms Encouragement for those struggling with motherhood Reminder of God's purpose and choice in being a mother Hope House and Current Work Introduction to Lisa's work with teen moms via Hope House Invitation to learn more about Hope House and associated groups Closing Information on how to learn more about Lisa, the book, and Hope House Invitation to join the next episode Outro by Lane Lawson Craft with resources and encouragement
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Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. Today, we are delving into the emotional and enlightening journey outlined in the book "Unconditional: How a Mother's Love Rescued Her Rebellious Son" by Suzanne Roragen. Joining us today is the author herself, Suzanne Roragen, who shares her personal experiences as a mother navigating the turbulent waters of raising a rebellious child. Through deep reflections and pivotal moments, Suzanne offers insights into how her faith and unwavering love guided her through the challenges she faced with her son, Nick. Discover how building a community of support, maintaining boundaries, and relying on faith can impact the journey of parenting. Whether you're a parent in the thick of similar struggles or someone looking for a story of hope and resilience, this episode is sure to resonate and inspire. Stay tuned as we explore Suzanne's narrative of strength, faith, and the power of a mother's love.
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Suzanne Roragen is an emerging author who embarked on a deeply personal journey through her writings. Initially keeping her reflections as a private journal, Suzanne contemplated transforming it into a book, intending it for herself and her son. However, upon sharing the memoir with her husband, his emotional reaction and belief in its universal appeal led to a pivotal decision. Encouraged by his response and motivated by a sense of purpose, Suzanne embraced the idea of publishing her story to reach a broader audience, hoping that others might find inspiration and comfort in her experiences. With her husband's support and a belief that it was meant to be, Suzanne set out to share her journey with the world.
Timestamped Overview00:00 Publishing timely book about modern parenting struggles.
03:50 Subconscious trauma should address with therapy.
08:55 Therapists can't change hard-hearted rebellious teens.
12:37 Poor school experience led to decreased effort.
14:34 Create community and boundaries to guide behavior.
18:18 Pray and guide children spiritually and morally.
20:27 CEO's prayer softened his heart significantly.
24:35 Be vulnerable, prioritize values over acceptance.
Overview of Topics Covered
Introduction to the Podcast Welcome by Laine Lawson Craft Overview of the podcast’s focus on parenting prodigals Overview of Suzanne Roragen's Book Title: “Unconditional, How a Mother's Love Rescued Her Rebellious Son” Suzanne’s intention for the book as a memoir and sharing her journey Decision points on sharing the story as a book and publicly The Impact of Trauma on Parenting Experience of a friend's son's suicide and its impact Influence on parenting style and the heightened awareness of potential warning signs Challenges Faced During Parenting Dealing with rebellious behavior during teenage years Strategies to manage difficult situations and experiences Specific challenging events with her son, Nick Strategies and Approaches to Parenting Creating a community and setting boundaries Engaging with other parents for mutual support Maintaining close communication with Nick The Role of Faith in Parenting Development of faith and reliance on prayer Influence of faith on Suzanne's journey and parenting The significance of community prayer and support Reflecting on Past Choices and Offering Advice Suzanne’s reflections on what she might have done differently Advice to other parents with rebellious children Emphasis on family and faith as foundational Closing Remarks Encouragement for parents to share their journey Information on where to find Suzanne’s book Final thoughts and gratitude from Suzanne and Laine Conclusion of the Episode Laine’s closing remarks Invitation to access additional resources Encouragement and reminder of the power of faith -
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Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. Today, we continue our enlightening conversation with Nancy Landrum on the critical and transformative topic of "Potent Boundaries." As a seasoned author and experienced parent, Nancy shares her profound journey through personal tragedies and the invaluable lessons she learned along the way. In this episode, we'll delve into the differences between rules and boundaries, understand the roots of resentment, and explore the challenging landscape of parenting in today's tech-driven world. With heartfelt stories and actionable insights, Nancy guides us towards the path of self-discovery and healing in our families. Whether you're dealing with young children or estranged adult children, this episode promises hope and strategy for creating a home filled with peace and respect. Join us as we uncover how establishing boundaries can lead to healthier relationships and personal empowerment. Don't miss this opportunity to gain wisdom that could transform your parenting journey!
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Nancy Landrum grew up in a family where maintaining appearances was paramount, a rule she followed diligently despite underlying unhappiness and conflict at home. This cultural norm was akin to a law in her household, much like wearing a seat belt in a car. However, Nancy eventually broke free from this constraint as she embarked on a journey of self-discovery. She courageously delved into the resentment and detrimental relationship habits that stemmed from her upbringing, choosing authenticity over façade. Through this transformative process, Nancy redefined her boundaries and reshaped her life, prioritizing genuine happiness and healthy relationships.
Timestamps
00:00 Loss and purpose inspire her teachings on boundaries.
03:13 Chose counseling over faith; set protective boundaries.
09:16 Clear boundaries yield consequences; expect children's anger.
11:11 Set house rules for peace and consistency.
14:51 Reflecting on personal growth through challenging beliefs.
18:31 It's never too late to make changes.
20:41 Allow children freedom to learn independently.
24:06 Self-growth and sharing our journey is worthwhile.
Warfare Parenting Podcast, parenting challenges, prodigal children, hope and faith, pungtent boundaries, Nancy Landrum, loss and tragedy, coping with loss, grief to purpose, setting boundaries, rules vs boundaries, resentment, parenting techniques, parenting techniques, teenage behavior, dysfunctional family, codependency, healing journey, self-worth, self-respect, counseling and support, social media boundaries, addiction recovery, overcoming addiction, redemption, family dynamics, parental authority, communication, personal growth, boundary consequences.
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Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. In today's episode, we're thrilled to continue our incredible series with Nancy Landrum, a remarkable guest who has been sharing her journey and the profound lessons she's learned along the way. Nancy has already opened up about her past experiences, including tragic losses and the challenges of parenting her son, Steven, which led her to write her insightful book, "Pungent Boundaries." In this episode, we'll be diving deep into the concept of codependency, exploring the invisible barriers it creates in relationships, and Nancy will offer guidance on how to identify and deconstruct these barriers. Through personal stories and wisdom, Nancy and I will explore the characteristics of codependency, the emotions it stirs, and the steps towards healthier boundaries. This is an episode rich with hope and practical advice, ensuring a path to healing and empowerment. Whether you're dealing with similar struggles or seeking inspiration, you won't want to miss it. Join us as we unravel these crucial themes and prepare for the final episode with Nancy that you won't want to miss!
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Nancy Landrum is a relationship expert who has delved deeply into the dynamics of codependency, a complex pattern where interlocking beliefs between two people often lead to unhealthy relationships. With a keen understanding of these entwined behaviors, Nancy has dedicated her work to unraveling the destructive patterns that occur when one person assumes excessive responsibility, driven by the belief that love is demonstrated through caregiving and problem-solving for another. Conversely, the other person adopts a mindset of irresponsibility, assured that someone else will always handle the repercussions. Through her insightful exploration of these dynamics, Nancy aims to enlighten individuals about the importance of fostering healthier, more balanced relationships.
Timestamps
00:00 Nancy discusses loss, lessons, and overcoming codependency.
04:04 Struggled with son's addiction and consequences.
07:34 Sorting responsibilities between myself and Steven.
11:45 Expressed sympathy and allowed self-reliance.
14:00 Barriers block genuine relationships; responsibility clarifies boundaries.
16:57 Set boundaries with consequences for healthy relationships.
20:28 Nothing is too hard for our God.
Key Topics Covered
Introduction to the Podcast Welcome to the Warfare Parenting Podcast Host: Lane Lawson Craft Series with guest Nancy Landrum Introduction to Nancy Landrum Nancy's personal story of loss and lessons from her son, Steven Writing of the book "Pungent Boundaries" Main Topic: Codependency in Relationships Description of codependency and its characteristics Explanation of the "Velcro" illustration Codependency Barriers and Emotions Types of negative feelings: resentment, blame, guilt, pity, shame Impact of codependency on relationships Nancy’s personal experience with her son Steven Boundaries and Responsibilities Differentiation between responsibilities of self and others Nancy's decision to set a boundary with her son Effectiveness of establishing healthy boundaries Identifying Symptoms of Codependency Checklist from "Pungent Boundaries" to identify barriers Nancy's reflections on control and approval addiction Deconstructing Codependency Barriers Responsibility for one's own feelings Steps to hand back responsibility to the appropriate person Not rescuing but allowing natural consequences to occur Conclusion and Next Steps Reiteration of healthier environments post-boundary setting Encouragement for listeners/viewers to explore their own codependent behaviors Book and Resources Promotion Information on where to find Nancy’s book "Pungent Boundaries" Options for obtaining the book: Nancy’s website or Amazon Final Remarks Lane's gratitude for Nancy’s insights Invitation to listeners to stay connected and utilize available resources Encouragement to rely on faith in difficult times -
Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. In today's episode, we're delighted to have Nancy Landrum with us once again as we continue our insightful series on setting healthy boundaries and overcoming codependency. Nancy, author of "Pungent Boundaries," shares her personal experiences and expertise, explaining how codependency can lead to unhealthy Velcro-like relationships and detailing the path to liberation through setting boundaries. Together, we'll explore the transformational journey from resentment to freedom, offering hope and practical strategies for parents facing similar challenges. Stay with us as we uncover how making the right decisions for ourselves can positively impact everyone around us, and prepare to deconstruct the barriers of codependency in future episodes. Don't miss out on this powerful discussion that's set to inspire and guide you in reclaiming peace and strength in your parenting journey.
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Nancy Landrum is an insightful individual who has explored the dynamics of unhealthy relationships, notably through the lens of codependency. She identifies codependency as a pattern of interlocking beliefs that create imbalanced dynamics, where one person assumes excessive responsibility for another's happiness and well-being. This can result in what she terms a "Velcro relationship," where both parties become stuck together due to their intertwined but unhealthy beliefs. Nancy's understanding highlights the need for balance and independence in relationships to ensure the well-being of all involved.
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00:00 Codependency stems from shielding son from consequences.
04:37 Set boundaries; allow others to learn independently.
10:42 Authentically loving decisions benefit everyone's best interests.
12:54 Liberate both from resentment through boundary setting.
15:39 God handles everything; nothing's too difficult.
Warfare Parenting Podcast, Laine Lawson Craft, Parenting Prodigal, hope, faith, healing, pungent boundaries, codependency, Nancy Landrum, setting boundaries, responsibility, feelings, behavior, consequences, self-destructive behavior, blame, parenting struggles, rescuing, learning lessons, Velcro relationship, respect, functional adult, resentment, boundary setting, invisible barrier, deconstructing codependency, liberation, healthy decision, God’s economy, resources, spiritual strategy, prodigal home.
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Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. In this episode, host Laine Lawson Craft continues her enlightening conversation with Nancy Landrum, a seasoned author and expert on setting healthy boundaries in parenting, particularly for challenging situations. Nancy shares her profound journey of navigating immense personal loss and the valuable lessons she learned through her experiences with her late son, Steven. Together, Laine and Nancy delve into the intricacies of codependency, exploring how it interrelates with boundary-setting, and discuss why establishing clear consequences is crucial to fostering healthy relationships. Tune in to discover insightful strategies for reclaiming freedom and growth in your parenting journey, and learn how to transform codependent dynamics into empowering connections. Whether dealing with a rebellious teen or an adult child, this episode promises practical wisdom and encouragement for parents striving to cultivate healthier family dynamics.
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Nancy Landrum is a woman who experienced a significant personal revelation while managing a home improvement project during her children's early years. Faced with an unreliable carpenter who repeatedly failed to complete her sewing room cabinets despite numerous promises, Nancy was challenged to reassess her longstanding belief that love equated to being perpetually nice and patient. After enduring nine months of delays and unfulfilled commitments, she discovered that true love sometimes involves setting boundaries and assertively addressing issues. This experience led her to redefine her understanding of love and assertiveness, blending her Christian values with a more pragmatic approach to relationships and commitments.
TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Redefining love: not always nice or patient.
05:08 Codependence creates resentment; boundaries foster healthier relationships.
08:40 Codependency arises from fear, not love.
13:29 Steven endured anger to eventually get rescue.
14:15 Codependency involves boundaries; next episode explores.Comprehensive sequence of topics covered
Introduction to the Podcast and Guest Welcome to the Warfare Parenting Podcast Introduction of the host, Laine Lawson Craft Introduction of guest, Nancy Landrum Brief overview of Nancy's life experiences and wisdom Background of Nancy Landrum Personal experiences of loss: First husband’s tragic death at a softball game Second husband's untimely death from cancer The passing of her son, Steven Purpose behind writing "Pungent Boundaries" Defining Codependency Nancy’s definition: Imbalance of responsibility Example of codependency with the cabinet carpenter Importance of Setting Boundaries Explanation of boundary setting Example with Nancy's son Steven and the motorcycle engine Interrelation of Codependency and Boundaries Fear of setting boundaries due to potential loss of love or disconnection The role of fear, pity, and erroneous beliefs Codependency resulting in resentment Personal Reflections Laine's personal experience with rescuing her children Self-Care for Parents The importance of taking care of oneself as a parent Nancy's experiences as a single parent Codependency and Parenting Codependency’s impact on parenting, particularly with difficult children The setup of codependency by false beliefs Closure and Resources Information on acquiring Nancy Landrum's book, "Pungent Boundaries" Mention of resources available on Laine Lawson Craft's website
The text ultimately provides insights into codependency, boundary setting, and healthy parenting strategies based on Nancy Landrum's experiences and authored work. -
Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. In this episode, host Laine Lawson Craft introduce us to guest, Nancy Landrum. Nancy is an author who has navigated the turbulent waters of parenting, dealing with profound grief and loss, and setting healthy boundaries. Her book, Pungent Boundaries, serves as a practical guide for parents struggling with codependency and boundary-setting. Throughout the conversation, Nancy candidly shares her journey, from the sudden death of her first husband to the challenges of raising her son Steven, who battled deep emotional pain and behavioral issues. Join us as Nancy's inspiring story sheds light on the importance of empathy, resilience, and breaking free from shame in parenting. Tune in for a heartwarming and insightful discussion that offers hope and practical advice for parents dealing with similar struggles.
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TIMESTAMPS
Comprehensive Sequence of Topics Covered Introduction to the Podcast and Series Welcome by Lane Lawson Craft Explanation of the podcast’s mission Introduction of the new series featuring Nancy Landrum Guest Introduction Introduction of Nancy Landrum by Lane Wollstonecraft Mention of Nancy Landrum’s book, "Pungent Boundaries" Nancy Landrum's Personal Background Nancy’s goal for a happy marriage First marriage and early family life The sudden death of Nancy's first husband Impact of father's death on Steven (Nancy's son) Steven's behavioral and emotional changes post-tragedy Nancy's Personal Struggles and Experiences Struggles of being a single mom for 13 years Meeting and marrying Jim Landrum Parenting and communication challenges in the second marriage The influence of a life coach on improving the marriage Jim’s death after 17 years of marriage Steven's Adolescence and Struggles Steven’s problematic behaviors during adolescence School issues and getting in trouble with the law Nancy’s feelings of hopelessness and personal collapse Purpose and Content of "Pungent Boundaries" Nancy’s rationale behind writing the book Coaching experience informing the need for better parenting boundaries Highlights of what the book covers in terms of setting boundaries and dealing with codependency Steven's role as a teacher in Nancy's journey of learning boundaries Expectations for the Series Upcoming discussions on defining and understanding codependency Setting loving and successful boundaries Stories and wisdom from Nancy's journey with Steven Personal Growth and Compassion Nancy's journey from being judgmental to empathetic Realization about children as individuals making their own choices Breaking away from shame associated with parenting Encouragement for Parents Nancy’s empathy and understanding for parents currently struggling Lane Wollstonecraft’s experience with parenting challenges Importance of breaking the cycle of shame Conclusion and Next Steps Appreciation for Nancy's courage and sharing her story Information on where to find Nancy’s book and other resources Lane Lawson Craft’s closing messages Invitation to access free resources on her website Encouragement and hope for parents in similar situations
00:00 Unhappy upbringing, early marriage, husband died suddenly.
05:38 Blended family struggled, sought help, improved communication.
08:38 Book on setting boundaries inspired by coaching experience.
11:47 Gained empathy, less judgmental toward struggling parents.
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Hey, listeners! Welcome back to the Warfare Parenting Podcast. I'm your host, Laine Lawson Craft, here to guide you through the trials and triumphs of parenting. In today's episode, we're excited to welcome back Dr. Chris Rappazini, author of the transformative book "Moving Forward After Messing Up: A New Future with the God of Second Chances."
Chris opens up about the inspiration behind his book, which speaks to those who've hit rock bottom and the loved ones walking the tough journey with them. From addressing themes of forgiveness and humility, to practical advice on rebuilding trust and overcoming guilt, this episode is packed with insight and hope. Whether you're wrestling with personal setbacks or supporting someone who is, Dr. Rappazini offers a compassionate roadmap to turn setbacks into comebacks.
Join us as we explore resilient paths to healing, inspired by faith and the relentless love of God, who grants us not just second chances, but countless opportunities to renew and restore. Don't miss this uplifting conversation that promises to leave you with a heart full of hope. Let's dive in!Chris Rappazini is a compelling storyteller who openly acknowledges the human propensity to err, whether publicly or privately. He uses the term "functioning prodigals" to describe individuals navigating life despite their mistakes. Chris draws from personal experience, highlighting his brother's tumultuous journey involving substance abuse and legal troubles, as a public example of missteps. Yet, he humbly admits to his own share of errors, underscoring a universal truth about the human condition: we all falter, but continue striving for redemption and growth.
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TIMESTAMPS
00:00 God of second chances, redemption for all.
05:40 The older brother failed his responsibility; realized.
09:24 Forgiveness stems from understanding divine forgiveness.
12:10 Guilt and shame overcome through Christ's power.
16:06 Warfare parenting small groups in churches nationwide.
17:11 Resilience: overcoming failures to grow stronger.
20:18 Dedicated to those turning setbacks into comebacks.TOPICS COVERED
Comprehensive Sequence of Topics Covered Introduction and Welcome Opening remarks by Laine Lawson Craft Episode overview and introduction of Dr. Chris Rappazini Chris Rappazini's Book Discussion Brief introduction of the book: "Moving Forward After Messing Up, A New Future with the God of Second Chances" Book's main message: God as a deity of multiple chances Personal motivation for writing the book Personal Stories and Biblical References Historical and personal context of Chris’s brother as a prodigal The story of the thief on the cross next to Jesus Parable of the prodigal sons Explanation of the older brother's responsibility Parental Concerns and Guidance Guidance for parents dealing with prodigal children Steps after parental mess-ups Identifying reality and deeper issues Story of David and Bathsheba Importance of humility and forgiveness in parental relationships Power of Forgiveness Examples of forgiveness from personal experiences Emphasis on the power of Jesus Christ in forgiveness Encouragement to forgive oneself and others Overcoming Guilt and Shame Importance of recognizing individual choices and their consequences Role of Jesus in alleviating shame Strategies for releasing guilt and shame Practical Steps for Rebuilding Trust Importance of trustworthy connections Suggested connections: support groups, churches, trustworthy individuals Announcement of Warfare Parenting small groups Resilience and Hope Modeling resilience through personal stories Importance of resilience and grit Encouragement to perceive trials as teaching moments Book Highlights Chapter summaries Key themes: setbacks, humility, forgiveness, resilience Final Thoughts and Encouragement Dedication message of the book Courage required to turn setbacks into comebacks Encouragement for families and individuals Closing and Resources Information on where to find more about Chris Rappazini and his work Website: faithfulstepsforward.com Mention of additional resources like Moody Publishing and Amazon Invitation to explore resources at lamelawsoncraft.com Final encouraging remarks by Laine Lawson CraftWarfare Parenting Podcast, Laine Lawson Craft, parenting struggles, prodigal children, faith, hope, Doctor Chris Rappazini, second chances, moving forward, forgiveness, resilience, inspirational stories, navigating mess-ups, humility, guilt, shame, rebuilding trust, support groups, spiritual warfare, toxic relationships, addiction recovery, mental health, downward spiral, religious spirit, trials, setbacks, redemption, God's love, personal growth, overcoming obstacles, life transformation, parenting advice.
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Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. I’m your host, Laine Lawson Craft, and today we embark on an inspiring journey with Dr. Chris Rappazini, the author of “Moving Forward After Messing Up: A New Future with the God of Second Chances.” In part one of our two-part series, Chris shares his compelling testimony, detailing his own walk of faith that began in a mixed-denomination household and was profoundly shaped by a transformative youth pastor during his high school years. We also delve into the deeply personal and ongoing story of Chris’s brother, Nick, who has faced significant struggles, including homelessness and addiction. Chris candidly discusses the challenges and the hope that drives his mission to support not just those who have taken a downward spiral, but also the loved ones walking alongside them. Join us as we explore how faith and perseverance can pave the way for healing and redemption, no matter how far one has strayed. Don’t miss this episode filled with wisdom, encouragement, and the enduring power of God’s love.
Chris Rappazini grew up in a spiritually diverse household, with a Roman Catholic father and a Lutheran mother. After relocating to Florida from Michigan, his family attended a Methodist church, drawn by the preacher’s appeal. Though Chris’s family attended church regularly, it wasn’t until high school that his faith deepened significantly. This transformation occurred thanks to a new youth pastor whose dedicated discipleship played a pivotal role in Chris’s spiritual journey. The youth pastor’s investment in Chris and his peers had a lasting impact, solidifying Chris’s faith and guiding his path.
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Timestamps
00:00 Discussing “Moving Forward After Messing Up” with author.
03:23 Transitioned from aspiring pastor to teaching leadership.
08:22 Relief from loved one’s arrest, journey begins.
11:01 Patience and purpose: impacting others’ lives significantly.Questions
Faith and Conversion: What role did Chris Rappazini’s youth pastor play in his faith journey, and how can mentorship shape a young person’s spiritual development? Family Dynamics: How did Chris’s upbringing in a household with mixed religious backgrounds (Roman Catholic and Lutheran) influence his spiritual path and ultimate conversion? Relatable Struggles: Chris’s book, “Moving Forward After Messing Up,” is aimed at two audiences. How does his personal experience with his brother shape the message and relevance of the book for these groups? The Prodigal’s Journey: Chris mentions that his brother was influenced by their father’s passing due to cancer. How do such pivotal family events impact individuals differently, leading to divergent life paths? Hope and Perseverance: Laine and Chris both emphasize the importance of maintaining hope for those who seem far from God. How do you maintain hope and faith when a loved one is struggling with serious issues? Support Networks: What are some effective ways to support and walk alongside a loved one who is struggling with addiction or other life challenges, as illustrated by Chris’s relationship with his brother? Personal Transformation: Discuss the significance of Chris’s brother’s journey from addiction and arrest to some level of recovery. What does this illustrate about the process of redemption and the concept of “a new future with the God of second chances”? Book Insights: Based on Chris and Laine’s discussion, what do you think are the key themes and messages of “Moving Forward After Messing Up”? How might these insights help someone dealing with personal failures or supporting a prodigal? Resilience and Realism: Laine emphasizes the importance of not being Pollyanna about struggles. How can we balance maintaining a hopeful outlook with acknowledging the ongoing difficulties in supporting a prodigal? Impactful Conversations: Chris talks about every interaction potentially being an answer to someone’s prayer. How can we be intentional about our daily interactions to support and potentially guide those who are struggling?Warfare Parenting Podcast, Laine Lawson Craft, parenting prodigal, spiritual warfare, Dr. Chris Rappazini, Moving Forward After Messing Up, God of second chances, faith, parent struggles, testimony, Roman Catholic background, Lutheran background, Methodist church, youth pastor, discipleship, surrender to God, Moody Bible Institute, Bible college, pastor, seminary, Anderson University, leadership program, corporate faith, prodigal son, drug addiction, homelessness, jail, reconciliation, hope, spiritual strategy, free resources.
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Laine Lawson Craft is the host of the Warfare Parenting Podcast, where she explores the intricate journey of raising children who may have strayed. With a heartfelt and authentic approach, Laine shares stories of struggle and triumph, emphasizing the transformative power of faith. Her mission is to inspire, encourage, and equip parents facing similar challenges, providing them with actionable insights to foster healing and hope within their families. Passionate about her role, Laine eagerly anticipates each episode, aiming to leave her audience with meaningful takeaways they can apply in their everyday lives.
Welcome to another episode of the “Warfare Parenting Podcast"! I'm your host, Laine Lawson Craft, and today we're diving into something truly transformative for parents and teens alike. Joining us is Dr. Ken Castor, an experienced youth minister and editor of the "Make A Difference Youth Bible."
In this episode, we explore the challenges modern parents face while guiding their children through spiritual warfare in today’s tech-driven world. Dr. Castor shares his invaluable insights on engaging teens with the Bible, discussing how this special edition is designed to make scripture come alive for them. We'll uncover practical tips for parents to model a godly lifestyle and initiate meaningful conversations with their kids.
Whether you’re seeking to deepen your family’s faith or looking for actionable advice on nurturing spiritual growth, this episode promises to equip you with the tools and encouragement you need. Let's get started on discovering how faith can truly make a difference in your home!
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TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Warfare Parenting Podcast: Hope, struggles, and faith.
06:12 Encouragements from Bible to live altruistically.
09:14 Model godly lifestyle; make Bible visible, accessible.
10:52 Reading the Bible daily transforms lives and families.
15:34 Teen prays to resist negative influence, love God.
19:27 Trust that God is guiding your child.
20:06 Parenting with God to guide troubled teenagers.
23:16 Stay connected, subscribe. With love, Lane Craft.
POINTS AND TOPICS COVERED
### 1. Introduction
- Host Introduction
- Goals of the Episode
- Inspiration and encouragement
- Practical takeaways for listeners
### 2. Guest Introduction
- Ken Castor’s Background
- Journey of faith since age 8
- Over 30 years of youth ministry experience
- Work in the US and Canada
- Personal life (father of three)
### 3. Changes in Parenting Over Time
- Impact of Technology
- Increased dangers and challenges due to easy access to harmful content
- Comparison between past and present difficulties in youth exposure
### 4. Make A Difference Youth Bible
- Purpose and Approach
- Engagement and relevance for youth
- Action-oriented commentary
- Partnership with Dare to Share evangelistic ministry
### 5. Supporting Parents in Spiritual Warfare
- Prompts and Action Steps
- Encouragement for kids to make decisions for Jesus
- Addressing negative behaviors
- Promoting altruistic actions
### 6. Conversation Starters
- Ease of initiating conversations
- Modeling behavior through scripture
- Establishing a culture of dialogue around the Bible
### 7. Introducing the Bible to the Family
- Engaging Parents’ Role
- Modeling lifestyle and values (Deuteronomy 6)
- Keeping the Bible visible and central in the home
- Active engagement with scripture by parents
### 8. Testimonies and Impact
- Story of a Teen Girl Making Notes in the Bible
- Personal experience shared by a parent
- Teen focusing on resisting bad influences through scripture
### 9. Relevance for Today’s Families
- Contemporary Approach
- Making faith active and participatory
- Engagement in community and helpful actions
- Strengthening family values
### 10. Closing Remarks
- Reassurances to Parents
- God’s control and plan for their children
- Partnership with God in the parenting journey
- Encouragement and Comfort
### 11. Resources and Further Information
- How to Connect with Ken Castor
- Books and resources available online
- Website: makeadifferencebible.com
- Host’s Final Remarks
- Inviting listeners to access further resources
- Encouragement to subscribe and stay connected
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In this episode of the Warfare Parenting Podcast, host Laine Lawson Craft dives into a powerful conversation with Amanda Florczykowski, founder of Able Moms, and author of Unraveled. They discuss Amanda's inspiring journey as a mother of 5 and her mission to help others after her daughter's abduction experience. Amanda shares her deep passion for empowering moms to become capable in their everyday practical parenting, unshakable in their faith, and memorable in their mentorship. Through Able Moms, Amanda aims to provide moms with the support and resources they need to navigate the challenges of motherhood. They also touch upon the success stories within Able Moms and the future goals to expand and reach more moms across the country. Tune in for an episode filled with hope, faith, and practical strategies for parenting in today's world.
About Amanda
Amanda Florczykowski, a career woman and mother of two, realized the true value of motherhood when she became pregnant with her second child. Despite being on the verge of receiving awards for her company, she had a profound realization that her children were what truly mattered to her. Understanding the eternal impact of motherhood, Amanda embraced her role as a mother and continued to view her work as a ministry. She found fulfillment in balancing her career and motherhood, recognizing the importance of both in her life.
Timestamps
00:00 Successful career woman prioritizes family over accolades.
03:31 Shifted focus to motherhood, joined moms group.
07:13 Military mom finds support in vital community.
11:50 Laine Lawson Craft offers hope and support.Key topics and points
Primary Topic: Amanda’s Mission and Experience
Sub-topics:
- Brief overview of Amanda’s experience with child abduction
- God’s role in shaping Amanda’s mission
- Amanda’s involvement with Able Moms
Primary Topic: Core Mission of Able Moms
Sub-topics:
- The purpose of Able Moms for mothers
- Description of the resources and events provided by Able Moms
- Emphasis on the spiritual and emotional support available through Able Moms
Primary Topic: Testimonial - Impact of Able Moms
Sub-topics:
- Highlights of a specific success story from Able Moms
- Stress on the importance of community and support for struggling moms
- The impact of Able Moms’ model on the participants
Primary Topic: Future Goals for Able Moms
Sub-topics:
- Vision for expanding Able Moms to every state
- The significance of more moms stepping up as leaders
- The potential impact of Able Moms’ growth on mothers nationwide
Primary Topic: Able Moms Curriculum and Resources
Sub-topics:
- Description of the curriculum and video content
- Explanation of how the resources are utilized by local moms' groups
- Emphasis on the simplicity and accessibility of the resources
Primary Topic: How to Get Involved with Able Moms
Sub-topics:
- Guidelines for moms interested in joining Able Moms
- Details on where to find information and how to contact Able Moms
- Availability of coaching and support for those interested in starting a local group
Primary Topic: Conclusion and Next Episode
Sub-topics:
- Gratitude for Amanda’s time and contribution
- Teaser for the next episode
- Encouragement for listeners to engage with the podcast and host's other resourcesWarfare Parenting Podcast, parenting prodigals, struggles, faith, healing, hope, episode 2, Amanda, Able Moms, Unraveled Author, child abduction, child trafficking, trafficking epidemic, United States, parenting tips, spiritual side of parenting, mentorship, community, practical parenting, faith, leadership, loneliness, COVID impact on moms, future goals, curriculum, mom leaders, Ablemoms.org, busy moms, spiritual strategies, prodigal children, free resources, Laine Lawson Craft
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In this episode of Warfare Parenting, we dive into the incredible and harrowing story of Amanda Florczykowski. With host Laine Lawson Craft, Amanda shares the chilling account of her toddler's near-abduction in a grocery store, and how this life-altering event propelled her into a mission to combat trafficking and protect children. As Amanda shares her story, we explore her founding of Able Moms International Ministry and her book, "Unraveled: Mothering Fiercely in a World Full of Fears." Join us as we uncover the powerful journey of faith, perseverance, and advocacy that has emerged from this traumatic experience, and how Amanda has transformed it into a mission of hope and healing.
About Amanda
Amanda Florczykowski's life changed when her family's life collided with the trafficking epidemic in the United States. As a college-educated mother of four, she was unaware of the issue happening in their own backyards. This realization prompted her to become an advocate and raise awareness about trafficking, especially within the church. Amanda sees the hand of the Lord in her life, building up to this moment, where she is using her voice to make a difference.
Timestamps
00:00 Realizing divine purpose through unexpected encounter with trafficking.
04:05 Helping couple at checkout, reflecting Christian values.
09:18 Stranger takes daughter, disappears, leaving no trace.
12:00 Believes daughter was likely being groomed for abduction.
13:18 Series of divine connections lead to transformation.
18:20 Church addressing social issues, confronting moral responsibility.
21:16 Warfare parenting podcast: Hope, faith, and resources.Key topics and points
Primary Topic: Introduction to Amanda and her experience
- Introduction to Amanda's background and her role as founder of Able Moms International Ministry
- Discussion of Amanda's book, "Unraveled: Mothering Fiercely in a World Full of Fears"
- Laine expressing excitement about the upcoming episodes featuring Amanda's story
Primary Topic: The Abduction Attempt
- Amanda recounts her traumatic experience of a nearly-abducted toddler in a grocery store
- Detailed account of the encounter with the suspicious couple and the man who tried to engage Amanda in conversation about her children
- Description of the frightening moment when the woman tried to forcibly take Amanda's daughter from her
- Amanda's realization and response to the potential danger, and the subsequent encounter with the cashier and the suspicious man
Primary Topic: Shocking Discoveries and Pushback
- Amanda shares her shock at the disbelief and pushback she encountered when sharing her experience and delving into the topic of trafficking
- Discussion of the sacrifices and challenges faced by Amanda and her family, including personal tragedies that occurred in the aftermath of the abduction attempt
- Amanda's reflection on the need for awareness and the sacrifices involved in advocating for the issue of child trafficking
Primary Topic: Writing "Unraveled" and Founding Able Moms
- Discussion of the simultaneous development of "Unraveled" and the founding of Able Moms International Ministry
- Amanda's conviction to address the need for awareness and illumination of the dark realities of child trafficking
- Amanda's recounting of the moments of spiritual conviction and motivation that led her to write "Unraveled" and establish Able Moms
Primary Topic: Importance of Faith and Finding Purpose
- The integral role of faith and spiritual conviction in Amanda's journey following the abduction attempt
- Amanda's perspective on how the traumatic experience led her to a deeper connection with her faith and the mission of bringing awareness to child trafficking
- The message of turning pain into purpose and finding strength in faith
Primary Topic: Where to Get "Unraveled"
- Amanda provides information on where to purchase her book, "Unraveled," redirecting potential readers to her website for access
Primary Topic: Next Steps and Conclusion
- An announcement for the next episode, which will delve into how Amanda wrote "Unraveled" and founded Able Moms
- Laine expresses appreciation to Amanda and encourages listeners to explore the free resources available on Laine Lawson Craft's website
- A reminder to stay connected through social media and subscribe to the podcastparenting, prodigals, struggles, faith, hope, mothering, fears, ministry, abduction, safety, awareness, trafficking, caution, intuition, gut feeling, advocacy, sacrifice, family, trauma, survivors, rescue, dark reality, faith, mission, unraveling, surrender, intimacy, parenting strategies, hope, encouragement
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Welcome to the Warfare Parenting podcast, where we bring you real-life stories of faith, hope, and healing for families. In this episode titled "Faith and Healing for Families," we dive into a powerful conversation about the struggles of parenting prodigals. Laine Lawson Craft and Monica Schmelter share personal experiences and stories of hope, discussing how faith can turn things around for families facing crises when a child abandons the faith they were raised with. Hear about the transformative power of God's intervention in the lives of three children, offering encouragement and tangible examples of how God can bring prodigals back home. Join us as we explore the path to healing and hope together.
Laine Lawson Craft's life took a dark turn when her son, Stephen, fell into a 15-year struggle with drug addiction. However, a chance encounter with an Uber driver, who happened to be a pastor, changed everything. The Uber driver felt compelled to pray for Stephen, and as he prayed, the presence of God filled the car, leading to a powerful transformation in Stephen's life. This experience has inspired Laine to share a message of hope, emphasizing that Stephen didn't have to clean up his life for God to rescue him.
Key Topics
Primary Topic: Introduction to Warfare Parenting Podcast
- Introduction to the podcast's purpose
- Introduction to the guests and their personal experiences
- Overview of the importance of faith and healing for families
Primary Topic: God's Intervention in Family Healing
- Personal testimony of how God intervened in the guest's marriage
- The role of faith in turning things around
- Drawing on past experiences of God's interventions for hope in the present
Primary Topic: Stories of Prodigals
- Sharing personal experiences of the host's prodigal children
- Personal struggles and dark periods faced by the prodigal children
- The impact of negative influences on the prodigal children's lives
Primary Topic: Miraculous Interventions in Prodigal Children's Lives
- Testimony of miraculous interventions in the prodigal children's lives
- Unexpected catalysts leading to spiritual transformations
- The role of prayer and God's diverse methods of intervention
Primary Topic: Unforeseen Paths to Healing
- Emphasizing that God can use unexpected means to bring about healing
- Acknowledging that human plans may not align with God's plans
- Highlighting the tangible nature of God's presence in personal experiences
Primary Topic: Dealing with Depressive Thoughts
- Sharing personal experiences of depression in one of the prodigal children
- The transformative power of God's presence in alleviating depressive thoughts
- The role of prayer in dealing with depression and God's timely intervention
Primary Topic: Tying It All Together
- Encouraging listeners with the message of hope and faith
- Reiterating the availability of tangible, tangible support from God
- Encouraging engagement with the podcast's resources and social media platforms
Primary Topic: Conclusion
- Closing remarks from the host
- Promotion of resources, including a free chapter of the host's book
- Encouragement to subscribe and stay connected with the podcast communityTimestamps
00:00 Monica hosts discussion on children leaving faith. 03:21 Happy child, dark influence, life transformation miracle. 08:42 Fighting for children's mental health amid faith. 11:11 Parenting podcast offers hope and spiritual strategies.Keywords
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Welcome to another episode of the Warfare Parenting Podcast. Today, we'll be delving into the complex and often challenging topic of navigating the crisis of prodigal children. Today, Monica Schmelter and Laine Lawson Craft, continue sharing personal insights and experiences as they discuss the struggles and hope that come with parenting prodigal children. From the impact of social media and peer pressure to the importance of taking authority as a parent, they candidly address the prevalent issues families are facing today. They also provide practical strategies and a message of hope for parents and guardians who are walking a similar path. Tune in as we explore this critical topic and discover the ways faith and resilience can bring healing and restoration to families.
Laine Lawson Craft, host of the Warfare Parenting Podcast, offers a guiding light for parents navigating the challenges of raising a prodigal child. With a mission to provide support and share stories of hope, Laine offers practical advice and spiritual strategies to help bring wayward children back home. Through her podcast, she aims to show that with faith and determination, anything is possible. Join Laine on the journey to healing and hope, knowing that you are not alone in the struggles of parenting a prodigal child.
00:00 Warfare Parenting Podcast: Faith, hope, and support. 05:47 Parents must be aware and take action. 09:20 Parents and grandparents have spiritual authority to pray. 11:12 Understanding mental health struggles in young people. 17:21 Parents under attack, prodigal and bringing home. 18:05 Parents lean liberal, being friends, lacking discipline. 23:25 Establish boundaries, listen, and affirm children's choices. 25:09 Ensuring safety and guidance for children. 27:16 Encouraging parenting podcast with Laine Lawson Craft.Primary Topic: Introduction to Prodigal Children Crisis
- Discuss the prevalence and impact of prodigal children in families today
- Explore the influence of social media and technology on peer pressure and exposure to harmful contentPrimary Topic: Authority and Parenting
- Emphasize the importance of parental authority and engagement in children's lives
- Discuss the challenges faced by parents in the current cultural and technological landscape
- Highlight the need for parents to take authority and constantly reevaluate and adapt their approach as children agePrimary Topic: Parental Responsibility and Influence
- Discuss the impact of influencers and media on children's behavior and perspectives
- Emphasize the need for parents to take proactive measures in protecting and guiding their children
- Discuss the prevalent issues of mental health, anxiety, and depression in young children and teenagersPrimary Topic: Resetting Family Dynamics
- Emphasize the power of apology and the concept of starting a "reset" as a family
- Discuss the importance of setting new rules and implementing changes together as a family
- Encourage open communication and collaboration between parents and children in establishing boundaries and consequencesPrimary Topic: Parent-Child Relationship
- Discuss the challenges of wanting to be a friend to the child while maintaining parental authority
- Highlight the need for open and honest communication between parents and children of all ages
- Emphasize the role of parents as coaches and guides, particularly with adult children
Primary Topic: Path Forward and Nurturing Change
- Discuss the importance of prayer, honesty, and flexibility in nurturing positive changes within the family
- Emphasize the impact of involving children in setting rules, boundaries, and consequences
- Highlight the power of having signed agreements and clear expectations within the familyPrimary Topic: Resources and Support
- Invite listeners to access free resources, podcasts, and books for further guidance and support
- Empower parents with practical strategies, encouragement, and reminders of the power of faith and love in parenting
This comprehensive sequence covers the major topics and sub-topics addressed in the conversation about navigating the crisis of prodigal children.Parenting prodigal, Hope and faith, Spiritual strategies, Parenting podcast, Crisis of prodigal children, Navigating crisis, Warfare parenting, Prodigal children, Lane Lawson Craft, Award-winning author, Technology and children, Social media impact, Peer pressure, Influence of influencers, Parental influence, Authority in parenting, School dynamics, Peer relationships, Mental health issues, Anxiety and depression, Suicide rates, Comparison and self-harm, Parent-child communication, Parental accountability, Resetting family dynamics, Spiritual leadership in parenting, Conversations with children, Parent-child relationship, Establishing boundaries, Flexibility in parenting
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In this episode of Warfare Parenting, Laine Lawson Craft and Monica Schmelter delve into the emotional and practical challenges that come with having prodigal children. Laine shares her personal experience of having three prodigals in her family and discusses the initial shock and emotional turmoil that parents often experience when they realize their children have rejected the faith they were raised with. She highlights the importance of setting healthy boundaries, maintaining a calm disposition, and trusting in God's sovereignty when dealing with prodigal children. The conversation provides hope and encouragement for parents who may be facing similar struggles, reminding them of the importance of prayer and the potential for miraculous life transformations. Join us as we explore the complex journey of parenting prodigal children and discover valuable insights for navigating this challenging experience.
Timestamps
00:00 Challenges of prodigal children in Christian families. 05:02 Book shares spiritual approach to guiding children. 08:07 Worried about potential consequences of destructive choices. 10:05 Accept parental guilt, then release it to God. 14:26 Monica talks about prodigal children and emotions. 19:07 Seeking divine guidance with patience and faith. 22:40 Encourage prodigal's return home with faith. 24:34 Praying for prodigals and facing family struggles. 27:36 "I'll see you next week."Key Topics
Primary topic: Emotional Experience of Parents with Prodigal Children
- Initial shock, anger, and resentment
- Numbness and panic reactions
- Emotional whirlwind of anger, resentment, shame, and guilt
- Impact on marriage and family dynamics
- Strategies to cope with emotional turmoil, such as leaning on faith and managing guiltPrimary topic: Practical Strategies for Dealing with Prodigal Children
- Setting healthy boundaries
- Navigating parental guilt and the process of laying down children's lives to God
- Prayer and waiting for God's intervention
- Understanding and addressing the impact on the whole familyPrimary topic: Faith and Hope in Parenting Prodigal Children
- Understanding the prodigal child as "lost" and in need of miracles
- Sharing stories of transformation and miraculous experiences
- Planting seeds of faith and hope while waiting for God's interventionPrimary topic: Persistence and Connection with Parents of Prodigal Children
- Offering encouragement to parents with long-term prodigal children
- Maintaining the emotional connection and support for parents
- Providing resources and information for parents dealing with prodigal childrenKeywords
parenting podcast, Christian faith, prodigal children, crisis, challenges, award-winning author, family, shock, anger, resentment, sacrifices, faith, mistakes, boundaries, self-destructive choices, contemporary, spiritual mindset, battle, strategies, emotions, guilt, shame, hope, parental prayer, brokenhearted, darkness, lost, skepticism, miracles, marriage, connection
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Welcome to the the Warfare Parenting podcast! In today's episode, "When Life Hurts," we delve into the challenging topic of parenting when faced with a prodigal child. Laine Lawson Craft, joined Monica Schmelter On Bridges to discuss the harsh realities and emotional toll of raising a child who walks away from their Christian faith. They explore the misconceptions and pressures faced by parents, offering valuable insights and guidance for navigating this complex issue. Tune in for an honest and uplifting conversation that will bring hope and encouragement to parents facing similar struggles. Please stay connected with us by following the podcast and joining the conversation on our social media platforms. Thank you for joining us on this impactful episode of the Warfare Parenting podcast!
Laine Lawson Craft is a well-known figure in the world of parenting and family dynamics. With a passion for helping others navigate the challenges of raising children, Laine hosts the popular podcast "Warfare Parenting". Through her show, she offers encouragement, helpful advice, and insightful discussions with guests to support her audience on their journey through parenthood. Laine also actively engages with her followers on social media, making it easy for them to connect with her and stay updated on the latest episodes of the podcast. With her expertise and dedication to her community, Laine continues to make a positive impact in the lives of parents and families everywhere.
00:00 Discussion about painful times, specifically with prodigal children. 04:37 Cognitive choice to stand together for kids. 07:52 Pray for non-judgmental support for troubled families. 10:42 Believe in second chances, love until the end. 12:32 Join for parenting advice, stay tuned!Primary Topic: Understanding Prodigal Children
- The widespread issue of prodigal children in Christian families
- Exploring root causes of children walking away from their Christian faith
- Dispelling the misconception of bad parenting leading to children becoming prodigals
- The impact of the current culture including peer pressure and social media on prodigal childrenPrimary Topic: Navigating Complex Issues
- Recognizing that chaos in the home can affect children
- The importance of unified and supportive parenting, even in separated or divorced households
- Addressing misconceptions and common beliefs about parenting and prodigal children
- Combating isolation and stigma by seeking support and prayer from trusted individualsPrimary Topic: Family Reconnect Phase
- The belief in the possibility of turning around the situation
- Initiating open communication and maintaining dialogue with prodigal children
- Seeding positive words and nurturing hope for a turnaround in the prodigal child
- Depicting how God's Word has the potential to soften hardened hearts and bring about changePrimary Topic: Conclusion and Podcast Information
- Providing encouragement and helpful information to parents
- Call to action for audience engagement and feedback
- Directing the audience to stay connected and offering ways to do so
- Inviting feedback and support in the form of ratings and reviews for the showparenting, prodigal child, Christian faith, church, Christian parents, self-destructive choices, guilt, shame, isolation, peer pressure, chaotic homes, raising children, teenage children, prodigal, misconceptions, stigma, prayer, family, reconnect, communication, grace, mercy, turnaround, seeds, nurturing, God's word, encouragement, Instagram, Facebook, connection
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Can you identify your spiritual gifting and understand God's purpose for your life? If you find yourself struggling to say yes, you aren't alone.
That is why I am so excited to welcome Author Andy Reese to this week's episode of the Warfare Parenting Podcast. Andy is the author of The Spiritual Gifts Blueprint, a book that offers us insight into what spiritual giftings are and which one God has called us to use in our lives. Andy talks about what led him to analyzing spiritual giftings and how that helped him write this book. He also shares the transformational impacts that understanding spiritual giftings has had on his friends, coworkers and even himself.
If you are wondering what spiritual gifting God has for your life or how you can use it to it's full potential, I highly encourage you to listen to this episode and then purchase Andy's book using the link below!
Who is Andy Reese?
Andy Reese is a thankful follower of God, husband, father of four, grandfather, ex-military officer, engineer, writer, and serial idea entrepreneur. From Minnesota, he is a graduate of Cornell University in Ithaca NY (civil engineering), with master’s degrees from Colorado State (water engineering), and Boston University (business).
In ministry, he has a long history as a church leader and minister in inner healing and freedom. He is the Co-author of a book (Freedom Tools, Chosen Books, 2nd ed.) and co-founder of a non-profit ministry (Freedom Prayer) that seeks to help bring greater freedom and spiritual vitality to believers. This book’s simple, God-led and biblical approach is used in a fast-growing number of churches in the USA and in many countries; and it has been published in several languages.
Things We Talk About in this Episode:
What challenges do christians face in understanding and using their spiritual gifts? How does Andy's book address these? What does transformation look like in understanding your spiritual gifts? What do the next steps look like for us after reading through Andy's book?Resources:
Order Andy's book, Spiritual Gifts Blueprint, using the link here: www.amazon.com/Spiritual-Gifts-Blueprint-Talents-Purpose/dp/0800763254/ref=monarch_sidesheet
To learn more about Andy's work in ministry and access additional resources, visit his website: www.andyreese.org
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Order Laine's New Book, The Parent's Battle Plan: Warfare Strategies to Win Back Your Prodigal, here: www.amazon.com/Parents-Battle-Plan-Strategies-ProdigalThank you so much for joining me for this episode of Warfare Parenting. I hope you've found some encouragement or helpful info in this episode to help you on your journey. If you have a specific topic, you'd like me to talk about or a guest you'd like me to have on the show. Please feel free to send me a message on Instagram or Facebook. You can even text "Hi Laine" to 55444. Follow the podcast, so you never miss an episode, and leave me a rating and review. I would be so grateful!
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It's the holiday season and many are welcoming in a time of family and fellowship as we celebrate the birth of Christ Jesus. However, for some, the holidays can magnify disfunction. Whether it is a rough divorce, financial hardships or other trauma, these disfunctions can harm what is supposed to be one of the most joyous times of the year.
That is why I am so blessed to welcome my friend, preacher Jacon Coyne back to the Warfare Parenting Podcast. Jacob talks about how difficult the holidays can be for families and what we can do to work through those traumas to reclaim our mental health in Christ. He shares with us his own story of seeking therapy and that there is strength, not weakness, in reaching out to seek help when we are struggling with our mental health.
Jacob also speaks about the resources his organization, Stay Here, offers for those that may need someone to reach out to or can't afford therapy visits. I highly recommend you check out his website www.stayhere.live and also check out his new book, Stay Here: Uncovering God's Plan to Restore Your Mental Health, using the link below!
Who is Jacon Coyne?
Jacob Coyne is a preacher, Christian content creator, and founder of Stay Here, a mental health organization that raises awareness through bold and encouraging messaging, training and equipping others to save lives from suicide, and heal the broken-hearted. Jacob, his wife, Mariah, and their three daughters live in east Tennessee.
Things We Talk About in this Episode:
What should we do if we are struggling this holiday season? Where can we find hope and help? Why is it a sign of strength and not weakness when we reach out to others to seek help? Why is seeking help, especially during the holiday season, so important for our mental health?Resources:
To learn more about Jacob's mission with Stay Here, access free resources, contact his team and more on his website: www.stayhere.live
Order Jason's Book, Stay Here: Uncovering God's Plan to Restore Your Mental Health, at the link here: www.amazon.com/Stay-Here-Uncovering-Restore-Mental/dp/0800763564
Read the Free 1st Chapter FREE of The Parent's Battle Plan: Warfare Strategies to Win Back Your Prodigal https://www.LaineLawsonCraft.com
Follow Laine on Instagram: @lainelawsoncraft
Join Laine's Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/LaineLawsonCraft
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Invite Laine to speak at your next event today: Media Kit - Laine Lawson Craft
Please send prayer requests to [email protected]
Order Laine's New Book, The Parent's Battle Plan: Warfare Strategies to Win Back Your Prodigal, here: www.amazon.com/Parents-Battle-Plan-Strategies-ProdigalThank you so much for joining me for this episode of Warfare Parenting. I hope you've found some encouragement or helpful info in this episode to help you on your journey. If you have a specific topic, you'd like me to talk about or a guest you'd like me to have on the show. Please feel free to send me a message on Instagram or Facebook. You can even text "Hi Laine" to 55444. Follow the podcast, so you never miss an episode, and leave me a rating and review. I would be so grateful!
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We all know how important it is to instill Biblical character into our childrens lives, but what can we do to lay that foundation for our kids?
In this final episode of our three part series with Dr. Kathy Koch, we are going to be talking about teaching Biblical characer. Kathy talks about how parents can instill these values of Biblical character in a way that naturally shows children the importance of Biblical values. She explains that teaching character isn't just important for developing young minds, but also allows us as parents to feel empowered in sharing the love of God with our family.
I highly encourage you all to purchase Kathy's new book, Parent Differently: Raise Kids with Biblical Character That Changes Culture, on her website Celebratekids.com or using the links below!
Who is Kathy Koch?
Dr. Kathy Koch (pronounced “cook”) is the Founder and President of Celebrate Kids, Inc., based in Fort Worth, TX, and a cofounder of Ignite the Family, based in Alpharetta, GA. She has influenced thousands of parents, teachers, and children in 30 countries through keynote messages, seminars, chapels, and other events. She is proud to be represented by the Ambassador Speakers Bureau of Nashville, TN. She is a featured speaker for the Great Homeschool Conventions, on the faculty of Summit Ministries, and a frequent presenter for Care Net, Axis, and other organizations. She speaks regularly at schools, churches, and pregnancy resource centers.
Things We Talk About in this Episode:
Why is teaching character to our children an ongoing process? How can I be a good role model to my children as I teach them character? Why should we emphasize choice when correcting our children?Resources:
To learn more about Kathy's Resources for parents and to see all the books she has authored, visit her website: www.celebratekids.com
Purchase Kathy's Book, Parent Differently: Raise Kids with Biblical Character That Changes Culture, at the link here: www.amazon.com/Parent-Differently-Biblical-Character-Changes/dp/0802431186
Read the Free 1st Chapter FREE of The Parent's Battle Plan: Warfare Strategies to Win Back Your Prodigal https://www.LaineLawsonCraft.com
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Last week we talked about instilling character in our children, but what is the correlation between character and obedience? Why is it more important to focus on developing character in our kids rather than obedience?
We are so blessed to have Dr. Kathy Koch back for her second episode on the Warfare Parenting Podcast. Kathy shares more from her new book, Parent Differently: Raise Kids with Biblical Character That Changes Culture, about how we can instill obedience in our children through developing their character. She describes how creating character in children leads to them becoming obedient as well.
Kathy discusses why focusing on building character over obedience leads to a greater development in children as a whole, and often will allow them to be more obedient as a result.
Who is Kathy Koch?
Dr. Kathy Koch (pronounced “cook”) is the Founder and President of Celebrate Kids, Inc., based in Fort Worth, TX, and a cofounder of Ignite the Family, based in Alpharetta, GA. She has influenced thousands of parents, teachers, and children in 30 countries through keynote messages, seminars, chapels, and other events. She is proud to be represented by the Ambassador Speakers Bureau of Nashville, TN. She is a featured speaker for the Great Homeschool Conventions, on the faculty of Summit Ministries, and a frequent presenter for Care Net, Axis, and other organizations. She speaks regularly at schools, churches, and pregnancy resource centers.
Things We Talk About in this Episode:
How are character and obedience connected to each other and why is that important to know? How can you use misbehavior to teach character values to your children? What are the three foundational traits that support character and obedience?Resources:
To learn more about Kathy's Resources for parents and to see all the books she has authored, visit her website: www.celebratekids.com
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Invite Laine to speak at your next event today: Media Kit - Laine Lawson Craft
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Order Laine's New Book, The Parent's Battle Plan: Warfare Strategies to Win Back Your Prodigal, here: www.amazon.com/Parents-Battle-Plan-Strategies-ProdigalThank you so much for joining me for this episode of Warfare Parenting. I hope you've found some encouragement or helpful info in this episode to help you on your journey. If you have a specific topic, you'd like me to talk about or a guest you'd like me to have on the show. Please feel free to send me a message on Instagram or Facebook. You can even text "Hi Laine" to 55444. Follow the podcast, so you never miss an episode, and leave me a rating and review. I would be so grateful!
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