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Throwback Episode:
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Do Diaspora Jews Care (Orthodox Conundrum)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JdIh-tnFszE
In this episode of The Franciska Show, host Francisca interviews Fradel Neuman, an ultra-Orthodox Hasidic woman from Monroe, about her personal journey through child sexual abuse, depression, and her ongoing healing process. Fradel reveals the impact of her upbringing on her mental health and spiritual life, her struggles with trust and emotional intimacy, and the steps she took toward recovery. Despite the challenges, she has found support in her husband and professional therapy. Fradel also discusses the importance of addressing shame, the need for supportive environments, and shares her aspirations of becoming a professional singer. This powerful episode highlights Fradel's resilience and offers hope and understanding to survivors and those supporting them. 00:00 Introduction and Warm Wishes 01:12 Reflecting on the Hostage Situation 01:49 Revco Fox's Blind Date Initiative 02:27 Throwback Episode and No More Silence Series 03:02 Interview with Freidel Newman Begins 03:15 Freidel's Background and Family Life 03:50 Discussing Child Sexual Abuse 07:48 Therapy and Healing Journey 17:35 Confronting the Abusers 26:11 Witnessing Abuse and Emotional Neglect 28:17 Therapy and Healing Journey 30:33 Impact on Marriage and Trust Issues 33:21 Struggles with Depression 39:32 Religious Life and Personal Changes 44:28 Emotional Intimacy and Family Relationships 47:56 Message to Survivors and Mothers 56:10 Hopes and Dreams for the FutureFradel Neuman is a mental health advocate, survivor of sexual abuse and photographer sharing her mental health journey.
www.instagram.com/Fradelneuman
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In this episode of The Franciska Show, Rivkie Feiner, CEO and owner of a consulting firm specializing in nonprofit funding, shares her unique experiences as an Orthodox Jewish woman balancing religious beliefs with professional demands. Rivkie discusses her journey from a secretary to owner of a firm that helps clients secure millions in government grants. She also elaborates on her advocacy work, especially in the East Ramapo Central School District, and the challenges posed by systemic funding inequities. Rivkie provides insights into the media's portrayal of the Orthodox community and her efforts to correct stereotypes. Additionally, she addresses issues of education, voting rights, and the impact of bureaucratic decisions on her community. Through her efforts, Rivkie emphasizes the importance of giving back, speaking up, and fostering growth within her community. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 00:45 Rivkie Feiner's Background and Professional Journey 03:00 Grant Writing and Advocacy Work 08:04 Challenges in East Ramapo Central School District 17:58 Media Representation and Community Advocacy 24:06 Supporting Nonprofits and Future Goals 30:02 Introduction to the World Zionist Organization 30:13 Joining Eretz HaKodesh 31:23 Experiences and Challenges in the Organization 33:01 Family Legacy and Personal Reflections 34:29 Addressing Corruption and Bureaucracy 37:42 Community Advocacy and Political Engagement 39:53 Fighting for Fair Education Funding 49:09 Advocacy for Abuse and Community Support 50:50 Balancing Family and Community Work 55:26 Conclusion and Final Thoughts About Our Guest:
My bio:
Rivkie Feiner is a community activist and the CEO of Feiner Grant Strategies (FGS), a consulting firm that has raised hundreds of millions in funding for nonprofits. Her efforts have significantly advanced Jewish fundraising and supported the growth of numerous nonprofits globally. Rivkie's commitment to community service is evident through her roles as Program Director at Agudath Israel of America, a Fellow in JCRCNY’s Community Connections Fellowship, and board member positions at Rockland Federation and JCC Rockland County. A skilled motivational speaker, Rivkie has participated in various forums on funding and community issues. Recently, she mobilized 1,000 people for a pro-Israel rally in response to a pro-Palestinian demonstration in Rockland County, showcasing her leadership and communication skills. Rivkie continues to foster collaboration among diverse populations, seeking common ground in her advocacy work.
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In this episode of the Franciska Show, host Franciska speaks with Chumi Friedman and Yonina Kaufman from ATIME's HUG program, which provides support to Jewish couples experiencing perinatal and infant loss. They discuss the complexities of emotional and physical grief, common misconceptions around pregnancy loss, and the importance of community and cultural sensitivity. The conversation also includes insights into how HUG offers medical, emotional, and spiritual support, along with details on personalized care packages and training doulas and medical staff to help families through these challenging experiences. The episode aims to raise awareness and offer practical advice for listeners who might be supporting someone undergoing a similar journey. 00:00 Welcome Back to the Franciska Show 00:40 Updates on Personal Projects 01:59 Introducing Today's Guests 02:21 Meet Chumi Friedman 03:37 Meet Yonina Kaufman 04:50 Personal Stories of Loss 12:12 Halakhic and Cultural Considerations 16:54 Day-to-Day Operations of ATIME Hug 25:54 Impact on Marriages and Personal Stories 32:16 Emotional Turmoil and Grief 32:44 Communicating Needs and Self-Care 33:20 Navigating Trauma and Community Support 34:25 Coping with Loss in a Baby-Filled World 35:29 The Struggle with Faith and Internal Conflict 36:42 Seeking Therapy and Understanding Grief 40:30 Physical Aspects of Loss 41:50 Navigating Mikvah and Physical Triggers 56:47 Training and Support for Doulas 01:04:29 Closing Remarks and Organizational Support About Chumi Friedman: Chumi Friedman is the Director of HUG, a program of ATIME supporting couples who have experienced perinatal and infant loss. She is a trained peer support counselor, doula and chaplain. @atimehug About Yonina Kaufman: Yonina is a specialist in Perinatal and Reproductive Mental Health which includes infertility, perinatal loss, and Postpartum Depression and / or Anxiety. Yonina is clinically trained in maternal mental health, grief and bereavement, trauma, child development and parent training. Yonina presents nationally on compassionate bereavement support, on issues facing women post perinatal death and on other women's health matters. While using evidenced based approaches, Yonina helps clients untangle their thoughts and feelings, while they go through their grieving, mourning, and/or parenting journey. As the Clinical Coordinator for ATIME HUG, Yonina supports women and couples experiencing perinatal and infant loss. In Yonina’s private practice, she provides tele-mental health services by phone or online. Additionally, Yonina provides clinical supervision for therapists and social work interns, as well as conduct parenting classes for parents with children of all ages and stages. @yoninakaufman
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Women in Tanach SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/album/01QmPoPVFrdXoxsli21of5?si=G39hZX17QV6qxzdS4I73zw
Mark Trencher offered to have a conversation with a Franciska Show podcast listener David Sheril about his latest survey on the topic of Midos/Midot in the Jewish Orthodox Community as an interem episode while Franciska is on podcast Hiatus.
Enjoy the podcast and here is a link to the Orthonomics Podcast itself: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-orthonomics-podcast/id1607753307
About David Sheril:
David Sheril grew up in Chigwell, a suburb of London. His family became baalei teshuvah when he was nine years old. When David was eleven, his family moved to the Bayit Vagan in Jerusalem. He moved to the U.S. at age 22, in 2005. David’s yeshivah education includes Mir Yerushalayim and Ner Yisroel. He served as a rebbe at a Russian-American Jewish high school in Brooklyn for several years before going to law school. He is currently General Counsel for a privately-held real estate transactional, management, and lending company. David resides in Clifton, New Jersey, with his wife Miriam (formerly an officer at the Federal Reserve Bank and now Head of Product at an international fintech startup) and their three children
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Thanks for tuning in for a RERUN episode.
To join the discussion group: email: [email protected]
About Our Guest:
CP is a client-centered, humanistic therapist who believes that it’s the human within the therapist that creates the space for recovery and self-actualization. CP’s holistic approach to treatment was born out of a deep appreciation for the mind-body connection. After working in vastly different populations, CP discovered early in her career that trauma and mental illness do not discriminate.
CP has worked in juvenile prison, methadone maintenance, inner-city homes and schools, residential treatment, foster care and private practice. CP is the co-founder of Atideinu, a non-profit organization that fosters social and emotional development in children.
After years of working as a therapist, clinical supervisor, consultant and trainer, CP created Resonant Therapies to help streamline all of these services and more.
https://resonanttherapies.com/
https://www.facebook.com/cp.handler/
Episode with Randy: https://www.franciskakosman.com/podcast/episode/1d765ce3/part-2-randys-story-with-juvie-transformation-and-cp
Episode 1 with Emilio: https://www.franciskakosman.com/podcast/episode/3af9d486/emilios-story-with-juvie-transformation-and-cp-p1?fbclid=IwAR18DRT-yVQ6SfnLyCsQQR_V0uLHT7gbvTlzABh1hsMigq21cBaHyruCOP0
Episode 2 with Emilio: https://www.franciskakosman.com/podcast/episode/1b866122/emilios-story-with-juvie-transformation-and-cp-p2?fbclid=IwAR1-X4hdCK0y4WMyXlNicE4nPQuLRn-B2kG0A0qZOZaB3WKt-rT75T4ZsrY
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Thanks for tuning in for a RERUN episode.
Was the women's ASIFA a success? Why was it so inspiring? Why were so many many turned off? What did they do right? How could have it been better? How does Charedi leadership feel about women, their roles and right for self expression? Listen to this episode to hear a frank discussion that brings up all sides.
Check out the original episode on this show with Dr. Efrat Bruck:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lets-talk-about-the-issues-brought-up-in-my/id1316933734?i=1000529763337
Link to the latest music release "Times Of Our Lives":
Kol Isha
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LypQ6opliv4&feature=youtu.be
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ABOUT OUR GUEST:
Efrat Bruck, MD, graduated from the Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai in New York City and is now an anesthesiology resident at the Mount Sinai Hospital. Before medical school, she taught Judaic studies, Hebrew, and Biology to 1000 now-alumni of Be’er Hagolah Institutes, in Brooklyn, NY. Dr. Bruck has worked as a content specialist for Khan Academy and created over 30 MCAT preparation videos on topics in molecular biology, DNA, and genetics that have also recently been translated into foreign languages. Her videos have been published on the AAMC (American Association of Medical Colleges) website, Khan Academy, and YouTube, accruing millions of views on the latter. Dr. Bruck has published research in Nature, the Journal of the American Society of Nephrology, and Obstetrics and Gynecology.
Dr. Bruck founded and leads the JOWMA PreMed Society that aims to advance Jewish women, from all backgrounds, in medicine. Dr. Bruck is a fierce advocate for premed students from insular and underrepresented backgrounds and strives to provide them with the resources and tools necessary to compete. (www.jowma.org/pre-med). She was among two out of 200 graduating MDs, PhDs, and MD/PhDs at Sinai’s recent commencement to be awarded the Patricia Levinson Award for the Advancement and Inclusion of Women in Medicine. Dr. Bruck, along with her colleagues at JOWMA, is also currently in the process of constructing a cultural competency curriculum that will help healthcare professionals in New York City hospitals provide culturally sensitive medical care to Jewish populations across the entire spectrum of Orthodoxy.
Dr. Bruck’s experiences in education, acceptance to nearly 10 US MD programs, and service on the admissions committee of the Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai have led her to have a highly successful track record helping premeds navigate the medical school application process. She is the founder and CEO of MDInspire, a medical school admissions consultancy that provides professional consulting for fees that are reasonable and a fraction of the standard costs. Dr. Bruck specializes in helping people weave their stories seamlessly through their application, building stellar personal statements and activities sections, interview preparation, and coaching students on how to study smarter, not harder. For more information, please visit: www.MDInspire.com.
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Message Franciska to share how a specific episode has impacted YOU. [email protected] In this episode, Franciska engages in a conversation with Dr. Marcy Forta, who provides insights into her background in business, her personal struggle with an eating disorder, and her efforts to help prevent eating disorders in the Jewish community. Dr. Forta discusses her organization Atzmi, which focuses on addressing body image, self-compassion, and emotion regulation through various age-specific curriculum and parental support. The discussion also covers the pervasive impact of weight stigma, the importance of not commenting on others' bodies, and the need for a cultural shift in how we discuss appearance. Practical advice on managing children's eating habits, dealing with external food influences, and promoting healthy body image within religious constraints is provided. The episode emphasizes the importance of parents' self-care and mindset in modeling positive behavior for their children. 00:00 Introduction and Upcoming Events 01:06 Personal Struggles and Biases 01:33 Interview with Dr. Marcy Forta 01:42 Dr. Forta's Background and Journey 04:03 Understanding Eating Disorders in the Jewish Community 06:07 Prevention Programs and Their Impact 11:40 Challenges and Cultural Factors 14:09 Addressing Weight Stigma and Bullying 20:23 Healthy Eating and Body Image 26:40 Religious Lifestyle and Eating Habits 27:28 Navigating Tishrei: Balancing Tradition and Modern Parenting 27:59 Teaching Kids About Hunger and Fullness 28:45 Handling Food Rewards and Treats 29:11 Recognizing Hunger and Fullness in Children 31:19 Balancing Control and Freedom in Children's Diets 32:15 Parental Influence on Children's Eating Habits 35:17 Addressing Body Image and Self-Perception 39:20 The Importance of Positive Reinforcement 47:03 Shifting Mindsets About Health and Body Image 49:12 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
Dr. Marcy Forta EdD, MBA is the founder and director of Atzmi, an organization dedicated to supporting the mental health of Jewish girls through programs that improve their self-esteem, body acceptance, and reduce the focus on outward appearances. She specializes in eating disorder education, awareness, and prevention, focusing specifically on risk factors and prevention within the Jewish Orthodox Adolescent Female Community. She is also a Body Project Facilitator, and a Certified Holistic Nutritionist.
Dr. Forta’s doctoral research focused on community healthcare stakeholders descriptions of religious and environmental risk factors unique to the Jewish orthodox adolescent female community. Community healthcare stakeholders include rabbis, teachers, principals, mental and physical health professionals. Her research was conducted over a period of several years and focused on the U.S. Midwest region. There is long established evidence supporting prevention programs and their impact, this being the impetus to create Atzmi as the evidence suggests that their efficacy is vastly improved when tailored to specific demographics. Her research forms the basis of the eating disorder awareness, education, and prevention programs designed for this community.
Dr. Forta lives in Oak Park, Michigan. She is a lecturer, blogger, and sought after expert in the eating disorder field. Her personal website is marcyforta.com.
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In a 2012 analysis of 12,000 adults, researchers found that lifestyle habits were a better predictor of mortality than BMI because regardless of someone’s weight class, people lived longer when they practiced healthy habits like not smoking, drinking alcohol in moderation, eating 5 or more servings of fruits and vegetables daily and exercising 12 or more times per month. -https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22218619/
https://www.cnet.com/health/medical/the-obesity-paradox-how-fat-can-be-good-for-you/
https://www.cnn.com/2013/01/16/health/weight-study/index.html https://qz.com/550527/obesity-paradox-scientists-now-think-that-being-overweight-is-sometimes-good-for-your-healthCheck out: www.JewishCoffeeHouse.com for more Jewish Podcasts on our network.
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In this episode Rivka Neriya-Ben Shahar shares her unique journeys and research related to Ultra Orthodox Jewish and Amish communities. Rivka Neria-Ben Shahar discusses her path from growing up in a National Ultra Orthodox community in Israel to earning a Ph.D. with pioneering research on ultra-Orthodox women and media. Rivka recounts her adaptation from Jerusalem to Amish country, highlighting cultural exchanges and genuine friendships formed along the way. The episode delves into the challenges women face balancing motherhood and career, exploring themes of feminism, societal expectations, and personal fulfillment within strict religious frameworks. Through personal anecdotes and rigorous research, the episode contrasts traditional roles with modern lifestyles, providing deep insights into the lives of women in these unique communities. 00:00 Welcome and Introduction 00:34 Rivka's Religious and Professional Background 05:21 Journey to Feminism 07:28 Challenges and Conflicts 10:43 Research on Ultra Orthodox Women and Media 14:47 Strictly Observant: The Book 26:51 Fascination with the Amish 31:05 Exploring Community and Tradition 31:48 Admiration and Conflict 32:38 Life Choices and Happiness 33:54 Balancing Career and Family 36:35 Cultural Observations and Personal Reflections 42:33 Religious Practices and Personal Stories 49:05 Cultural Shocks and Comparisons 56:54 Podcast Journey and Reflections 01:00:36 Editing and Reflections on MotherhoodAbout Our Guest:
Dr. Rivka Neriya-Ben Shahar is a Ruth Melzer fellow at the Katz Center for Advanced Judaic Studies at Penn University. She is a senior lecturer at Sapir Academic College in Sderot, Israel, where she teaches courses on research methods, communication, religion, and gender. She is also a scholar at the Israel Democracy Institute, where she studies media usage among the Ultra-Orthodox Jewish community. Dr. Neriya Ben-Shahar investigates mass media from the perspectives of religion and gender. Her research addresses the tensions existing between religious values and new media technologies among women in Old Order Amish and Ultra-Orthodox Jewish communities. Her book, Strictly Observant: Amish and Ultra-Orthodox Jewish Women Negotiating Media, was published by Rutgers University Press in January 2024.
Buy The Book: https://www.amazon.com/Strictly-Observant-Ultra-Orthodox-Jewish-Negotiating/dp/1978805225
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New Song: "Together Again" #Kolisha YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ESSraPI2vJA Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/track/2pFt5drG98vA3iSZz1JVdL?si=5b323f0d276c45fa Message Franciska to share how a specific episode has impacted YOU. [email protected] Healing from Narcissistic Parental Wounds: Perspectives and Practical Advice In this episode, host Franciska has an enlightening conversation with therapist Esther Moskovitz on navigating relationships with narcissistic parents and healing from relational trauma. They discuss the broad spectrum of narcissism, from flamboyant extroverts to psychosomatic narcissists, and its significant impact on parenting and children's sense of self. Key topics include recognizing parental double standards, setting personal boundaries, and the importance of supportive religious leaders within specific cultural contexts. The episode offers practical advice on healing, including dance therapy, journaling, and selecting the right literature and therapist. Esther also emphasizes understanding narcissistic parents as flawed individuals while maintaining self-identity and autonomy. About Our Guest: Esther Moskovitz, LCSW, from Monsey, NY, specializes in addressing relational trauma and narcissistic wounding. Empowering her clients to heal emotional wounds and rebuild their connection with themselves and others with kindness, compassion, and boundaries, Esther has recently discovered the transformative power of dance and somatic work, recognizing their pivotal role in restoring wholeness and a healthy sense of self. ReclaimingYourself.net and RhythmicReflections.net Resources: Dr. Karyl McBride's website: https://willieverbegoodenough.com/ She offers self-paced on-line workshops, and in-person intensives. She also has 3 books Will the Drama Ever End? Untangling and Healing from the Harmful Effects of Parental Narcissism Will I Ever Be Free of You? How to Navigate a High-Conflict Divorce from a Narcissist, and Heal Your Family Will I Ever Be Good Enough? Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers Books Gifts From A Challenging Childhood: Creating A Practice for Becoming Your Healthiest Self by Jan Bergstrom LMHC Facing Codependence: What It Is, Where It Comes from, How It Sabotages Our Lives by Pia Mellody , Andrea Wells Miller , et al. Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson Article https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-legacy-distorted-love/202010/understanding-narcissistic-injury Check out www.JewishCoffeeHouse.com for more Jewish Podcasts on our network.
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New Song: "Together Again" #Kolisha YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ESSraPI2vJA Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/track/2pFt5drG98vA3iSZz1JVdL?si=5b323f0d276c45fa Message Franciska to share how a specific episode has impacted YOU. [email protected] Navigating ADHD: Insights, Strategies, and Community Support with Dr. Sara Markowitz In this episode of the Jewish Coffee Podcast, the host introduces a heartfelt new song dedicated to hostage families before welcoming Dr. Sara Markowitz, a clinical psychologist and co-author of 'Kosher ADHD'. The conversation explores the multifaceted nature of ADHD and its impact on the Jewish community. Dr. Markowitz shares her extensive background and discusses comprehensive treatment approaches, including the role of medication, developmentally attuned parenting, and the significance of fostering self-esteem and self-control in children. The episode delves into practical strategies like the 'Five Ps' approach: Perspective, Planning, Practicing, Performing, and Praising, and emphasizes the importance of mindfulness, compassion, and community support. Listeners gain valuable insights into balancing expectations, setting appropriate goals, and understanding the challenges faced by individuals with ADHD. 00:00 Introduction and New Song Announcement 01:04 Welcoming the Guest: Dr. Sarah Markowitz 01:14 Understanding ADHD: Personal and Professional Insights 04:38 The Role of Medication in ADHD Treatment 10:21 Developmentally Attuned Parenting for ADHD 22:10 Setting Specific Goals for Children 23:04 Balancing Expectations in Jewish Parenting 25:03 Understanding Individual Development 28:24 Encouraging Children's Strengths 32:04 Managing ADHD in a Stimulating World 37:19 Personal Reflections and Strategies 39:14 Concluding Thoughts and Community Support Buy The Book: https://www.amazon.com/Kosher-ADHD-Surviving-Thriving-Torah-Observant/dp/B0CLY8TNB8 Listen to the episode on Orthodox Conundrum: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/overcoming-the-eisav-complex-raising-orthodox-adhd/id1289716034?i=1000646809711 About Our Guest:
Dr. Sara Markowitz, Ph.D. has achieved an incredible amount, in large part due to her personal “ADHD” superpowers. In addition to obtaining a Ph.D. in clinical psychology from Farleigh Dickinson University, Dr. Markowitz is is the founding director of an Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) for Jewish Women at Achieve Behavioral Health, the largest behavioral health center serving the greater Jewish community. Dr. Markowitz continues to develop curriculum and measure clinical outcome research for ADHD parenting groups and integration of ADHD individuals within the Jewish community. She has developed curricula, currently utilized in schools and families focusing on overcoming challenges of multiple origins.
In addition to her formal professional activities, Dr. Markowitz is a mother to five awesome children and is the Rebbetzin of Congregation Shomrei Torah in Fairlawn, New Jersey.
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Message Franciska to share how a specific episode has impacted YOU. [email protected] In this episode, Elissa Felder shares her journey from growing up in London with a Jewish background to her life in the U.S., working for a nonprofit organization called CORE. She discusses her personal religious transformation and professional path, as well as the profound experiences following the loss of her child. Elissa delves into the cultural and religious aspects of Jewish mourning traditions, her involvement with the Chevra Kadisha, and how these experiences inspired her to write a book. She also offers insights into understanding grief, the concept of the soul in Jewish teachings, and the broader communal support for those who have lost loved ones. Alyssa's story is one of growth, learning, and the strength found within community and tradition. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 01:08 Elissa's Background and Journey 02:00 Life in America and Professional Work 03:08 Personal Story and Book Inspiration 03:52 The Journey of Loss and Learning 06:11 Understanding and Sharing Grief 09:42 The Role of Chevra Kadisha 13:16 Jewish Burial Traditions and Beliefs 18:12 Reflections on Life and Death 30:05 The Power of Silence in Mourning 30:47 Personal Reflections on Shiva 33:04 Jewish Mourning Traditions and Practices 34:12 The Journey of the Soul 37:34 Losing a Child: A Deep Personal Loss 42:24 The Role of Chevra Kadisha 53:06 The Hierarchy of Loss and Grieving 58:01 Finding Meaning and Moving Forward
About Our Guest:
Elissa is the Coordinator of Core’s Communities of Practice (CoP). In this role she facilitates connections, conversations and development of all the Core communities, provides essential support to CoP leaders and oversees the seamless execution of events. She plays a key role in enhancing the professional growth and community building efforts within each community. (www.CoreTorah.org) In addition, Elissa is the Founding Director of Core Connects RI, a non-profit organization that aims to deepen women’s connections to one another, to Jewish wisdom and Jewish values, to empower each other to find greater meaning, purpose and possibility in life and to cultivate unity without uniformity.
Elissa was born in London, England and in 1985 married her American husband and they started their married life in Washington, DC. After the death of her first child, Elissa started to explore Judaism in much greater depth. In her quest to understand the loss of her baby she explored Jewish sources in general and more specifically regarding death and the afterlife. She is very active on her local Chevra Kadisha, and she speaks widely on this topic. Elissa started and actively manages Core’s community of practice for women engaged with traditional Chevra Kadisha. To date it is truly an international community of hundreds of women from all over the US and Canada, the UK, France, Sweden, Holland, France, Italy, Israel, Chile, Panama, Mexico, South Africa and even Australia. The mission of the community is to share experiences, give encouragement, network and help to develop and support each other.
Elissa is responsible for providing on-going professional development for the community. The knowledge she has acquired motivated her to write a book which is a personal memoir of loss and grief with the Jewish teachings about life, death and the afterlife woven into the story. The book, “From One Life to the Next Life; The Sacred Passage After Death,” is due to be released at the beginning of the summer with Mosaica Press. Through all of these experiences Elissa mentors and encourages others on their journeys
Buy The Book: https://www.amazon.com/One-Life-Next-sacred-passage/dp/1961602474
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In this deeply moving episode of The Franciska Show, Tehila Simantov shares her harrowing journey through legal battles and immigration issues in South Africa while struggling to maintain custody of her two young children. From being caught in a toxic and abusive relationship to fighting through the courts with the support of the Jewish community, Tehillah reveals the sacrifices and resilience required to protect her family. Through her emotional and candid story, she highlights the importance of mental health, community support, and the unyielding drive to provide a stable future for her children. 00:00 A Personal Loss and Introduction 03:24 Meet Tehila Simantov 04:05 Early Life and Family Background 05:38 First Marriage and Immigration Challenges 07:15 A New Relationship and Legal Troubles 09:50 Abuse and Custody Battle 12:48 Desperation and Community Support 15:29 Legal Struggles and Imprisonment 18:21 Fighting for Custody and Future Hopes 29:09 Overwhelming Support and Charity 30:40 Living Situation and Support System 32:11 Custody Battle and Emotional Struggles 33:19 Family Support and Personal Reflections 36:09 Recognizing and Addressing Abuse 40:43 Marriage, Divorce, and Co-Parenting Challenges 48:09 Single Parenting Realities 52:02 Final Thoughts and Support https://www.backabuddy.co.za/campaign/help-tehilah-return-home-her-boys
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What I Want- NEW RELEASE
#kolisha
https://open.spotify.com/track/0QnLu5EiUAllFSLJN1LRyv?si=pJLYlimQQxKMkKD9UwaM_w&context=spotify%3Aalbum%3A2WHwhZjmWjdeqejDWFzL1D
https://youtu.be/Q6UT8CkkaBs?si=h39wJjtbFkva--5Q
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In this episode, Gol Kalev, an Israeli author and thinker, discusses his insights on the evolving nature of Judaism and the modern threats it faces. He delves into topics such as the ideological shift of Judaism with Zionism becoming its anchor, the perceived threats from the West, and the role of the International Criminal Court. The episose also touches on the differences in religious and secular perspectives between Israeli and American Jews. Kalev discusses his new book, 'The Assault on Judaism,' and outlines specific actions that could be taken to counter these modern assaults. Additionally, announcements include the host's new song release and the promotion of the podcast, encouraging listeners to send in feedback and share their experiences. 00:00 Introduction and Announcements 01:28 Meet Gol Kalev: Background and Career 03:13 Judaism 3.0 and the Evolution of Zionism 06:55 Personal Religious Journey 09:16 Secularism in Israel vs. America 17:38 The New Book: The Assault on Judaism 28:36 Historical Context of European Anti-Semitism 30:11 Herzl's Realization and the Dreyfus Affair 31:54 Modern European Opposition to Israel 33:44 Comparing 20th and 21st Century Anti-Semitism 38:55 The Role of the ICC and Global Politics 41:44 Strategies to Combat Modern Anti-Semitism 49:48 Book Launch and Final ThoughtsAbout our Guest:
GOL KALEV is a former Wall Street investment banker who, for the last decade, has been researching Theodor Herzl and Zionism. He writes for The Jerusalem Post and chairs the America-Israel Friendship League Think Tank. Growing up in Tel Aviv and serving in the Israeli Defense Forces, he spent much of his adult life in New York. He now lives in Jerusalem.
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Message Franciska to share how a specific episode has impacted YOU. [email protected] In this episode, Parkoff shares her personal journey, highlighting her roles as a wife, mother, and grandmother, her struggles with an eating disorder, and her spiritual reconnection with Judaism. She discusses her professional evolution from teaching childbirth classes to attaining a Master’s in Social Work, ultimately developing a deep passion for sharing the wisdom of Judaism and helping others. A significant part of the discussion focuses on Abigail Shrier's book 'Bad Therapy', addressing the rise in anxiety and depression among young people despite increased therapy access. Parkoff emphasizes the importance of parental involvement over relying solely on therapy and critiques the current trends in talk therapy, medication, and social-emotional learning in schools. The episode concludes with a hopeful message on the power of resilience, connection, and helping others as cornerstones for mental and emotional well-being. 00:00 Introduction to Parkoff's Life 01:01 Struggles and Spiritual Journey 03:00 Teaching and Sharing Passions 04:44 Parenting and Professional Growth 07:39 Discussing 'Bad Therapy' by Abigail Schreier 10:13 Therapy for Young People 14:19 The Role of Parents in Therapy 19:13 Challenges with Diagnoses and Labels 26:46 Impact of Technology on Mental Health 29:25 Navigating Technology and Self-Esteem in Kids 30:18 The Role of Parents vs. Experts in Child Development 30:36 The Limitations of Traditional Talk Therapy 32:13 Understanding and Addressing Anxiety in Children 34:06 The Debate on Medication for Mental Health 38:03 The Importance of Parental Involvement in Education 40:36 Critique of Gentle Parenting 44:57 The Impact of Bad Therapy on Gender Identity 48:38 Lessons from Israeli Society 51:11 The Therapeutic Power of Helping Others 55:44 Harlow's Monkey Experiments and Emotional Needs 57:34 Conclusion and Call to Action
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Chaya Parkoff is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Trained Life Coach, Torah Educator, sought after speaker and altruistic kidney donor. Raised in a secular Jewish home, Chaya's journey back to her Torah roots and to the psychological wisdom of Torah began over 30 years ago during the process of her own recovery from an eating disorder through a 12 Step program. Chaya brings a warm-hearted blend of compassion, clinical skills, and life experience to her roles, weaving together her diverse background to offer inspiration and healing to her clients, students and audiences.. Chaya has a thriving private practice providing therapy to clients in New Jersey, Colorado, Texas, and soon to be Pennsylvania, and coaches women and families worldwide. Chaya is trained in a number of therapeutic approaches, primarily using Brainspotting, an extremely effective brain-body based modality, and integrates it with Internal Family Systems (IFS). Her The mix of personal growth and professional skills allows Chaya to seamlessly integrate timeless Torah wisdom into her therapy sessions, coaching sessions, and engaging classes and talks. Chaya’s down-to-earth authentic demeanor, coupled with her wealth of experience, allows her to connect deeply with individuals seeking transformative healing and change. Most of all, Chaya cherishes her 33-year marriage to her husband Seth, alongside the joy of raising five children and relishing in the new role of Bobbi to her 7-month-old grandson.
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In this episode Franciska engages in a deep conversation with Miriam Campbell, a speech therapist and social worker, about parenting, social-emotional learning, and connection. Miriam shares her personal journey from growing up in Atlanta to her professional development in New York and eventually making Aliyah to Israel. They discuss the importance of understanding children's underlying issues, the efficacy of social-emotional learning programs, and the integration of internal family systems (IFS) in therapy. Miriam also elaborates on her program, 'Skills for Connection,' which aims to help parents model and teach essential skills for genuine connections with their children. The episode concludes with Miriam’s thoughts on social media and suggestions for parents to navigate their roles more effectively. 00:00 Introduction to the Franciska Show Podcast 00:38 Parenting Challenges and Insights 01:41 Guest Introduction: Miriam Campbell 01:47 Miriam's Background and Journey 03:51 Professional Growth and Speech Therapy 06:50 Addressing Social Skills and Emotional Challenges 13:07 Skills for Connection: A Holistic Approach 16:58 Incorporating Internal Family Systems (IFS) 19:28 Understanding the Theory of IFS 20:47 Practical Examples of IFS in Parenting 22:26 Addressing Problem-Solving Skills in Children 23:54 Teaching Flexible Thinking 28:48 Evaluating Social Emotional Learning Programs 34:20 The Role of Empathy in Parenting 36:31 The Value of Different Coaching Approaches 38:38 Conclusion and Contact Information About Our Guest:
Miriam Campbell, MA SLP-CCC, MSW, is a Speech Language Pathologist and Social Worker who empowers parents with practical tools to support their children’s social emotional development. Skills for Connection addresses emotional, language, and cognitive needs to transform conflicts and challenges into growing opportunities. Her social skills book, Bubble Double has already helped thousands of parents, teachers and therapists to guide social skill development. To join her Parent WhatsApp Group or find out about 1:1 coaching and upcoming courses, email [email protected].
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In this deeply personal and informative episode, Franciska discusses the severe condition of Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG) with her sister, Rachel. They explore the extreme nausea and vomiting that women with HG experience during pregnancy, often lasting for several months. Rachel candidly shares her own journey with HG across three pregnancies, highlighting the physical, emotional, and relational challenges she faced. The conversation touches upon coping strategies, the impact on family dynamics, and the essential support systems needed to manage this debilitating condition. The episode also includes a call to action for increased awareness and support for women suffering from HG, along with practical advice for those affected. 00:00 Navigating Pregnancy and Food Sensitivities 00:55 Housekeeping Announcements and Listener Engagement 01:42 Addressing Recent Tragic Events 02:28 Introducing Today's Guest and Topic 03:17 Understanding Hyperemesis Gravidarum 04:57 Personal Experiences with Hyperemesis 06:36 Challenges and Coping Mechanisms 11:24 Impact on Relationships and Seeking Support 16:10 Triggers and Managing Symptoms 20:42 Public Struggles and Despair 21:22 Extreme Cases and Survival Windows 22:38 Managing Nausea and Medication 24:54 Teaching and Personal Experiences 27:45 Support Systems and Coping Strategies 38:13 Emotional and Spiritual Resilience 42:55 Final Thoughts and Encouragement Check out: www.JewishCoffeeHouse.com for more Jewish Podcasts on our network.
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Exploring Jewish Identity and Community with Tuvia Tenenbom In this episode Franciska interviews Tuvia Tenenbom, an author and journalist, about his experiences and perspectives on Jewish identity, community, and culture. Tuvia shares his background, his journey from an Orthodox upbringing in Israel to his work in journalism and writing. He discusses his time living in Mea Shearim, the dynamics within the ultra-Orthodox and Chasidic communities, and the cultural nuances he observed. The conversation delves into themes of religious practices, community support, humor, and the complexities of modern Jewish life. 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview 00:25 Recent Projects and Song Release 00:59 Guest Introduction: Tuvia Tenenbaum 01:13 Tuvia's Background and Early Life 03:21 Military Service and Move to the US 04:39 Career in Writing and Journalism 05:06 Exploring Themes in Tuvia's Books 06:06 Living in Mea Shearim 09:59 Questioning Religious Beliefs 12:15 Critique of Rabbinic Authority 19:28 Experiences with Chasidic Communities 30:22 Imagined Beliefs and Healing Practices 31:09 Personal Encounters with the Rebbe 31:48 Sexuality and Community Dynamics 32:31 Support and Humor in the Community 33:25 Obsessions with Modesty and Sexuality 34:23 Comparing Cultural Obsessions 36:57 Book Reception and Community Reactions 43:46 Violence and Extremism in Hasidic Groups 48:12 Cultural and Religious Critiques 59:43 Personal Reflections and Discoveries 01:04:59 Closing Remarks and Future EpisodesAbout Our Guest:
TUVIA TENENBOM is a bestselling author, journalist, playwright, and director whose books and dramas have been translated into many languages. He holds advanced degrees in fine arts and science and is the founder of the Jewish Theater of New York. Tuvia’s articles and essays have appeared in leading Western media, including Die Zeit and Der Spiegel of Germany, Corriere della Sera of Italy, the Jerusalem Post, Yedioth Ahronoth, and Israel Hayom of Israel, and the Forward and National Review of America. His plays include Father of the Angels, Like Two Eagles, One Hundred Gates, The Last Virgin, The Diary of Adolf Eichmann, The Beggar of Borough Park, and Last Jew in Europe. His previous books include Catch the Jew!, The Lies They Tell, I Sleep in Hitler’s Room, Hello Refugees!, The Taming of the Jew, and From New York to Brno.
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In this episode, Dr. Jen Simmons returns to discuss her new book, her experiences, and her transformative journey from being a top breast surgeon to facing her own health crisis. Dr. Simmons shares her insights on breast cancer, the limitations of the current health care system, and her advocacy against mammograms. She introduces QT imaging as a revolutionary alternative for breast cancer screening and emphasizes the importance of holistic health practices, including diet, environmental awareness, and hormone replacement therapy. Dr. Simmons aims to redefine the narrative around breast cancer and promote a more proactive approach to health care. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome Back 01:10 Personal Journey with Breast Cancer 04:05 Becoming a Breast Surgeon 04:50 Facing Personal Illness 09:59 Critique of the Healthcare System 11:11 Issues with Mammograms 17:22 New Breast Cancer Screening Technology 23:26 The Opioid Crisis and Medical Trust 28:33 The Role of Patients in Modern Healthcare 30:23 Balancing Cancer Treatments and Environmental Factors 31:42 Addressing Environmental Exposures and Health 34:57 Diet and Lifestyle Choices for Better Health 45:26 The Importance of Hormone Replacement Therapy 52:27 Concluding Thoughts and Future DirectionsBuy The Book:
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Integrative Oncologist, Author, Podcast Host, and the founder of PerfeQTion Imaging Her journey into breast cancer care began with a personal tragedy. At the age of 16, Dr. Jenn's cousin, acclaimed singer-songwriter Linda Creed, died of metastatic breast cancer just weeks after Whitney Houston's recording of her iconic song, "The Greatest Love of All," topped the charts. This loss became a defining moment, inspiring Dr. Jenn to dedicate her life to transforming how we approach breast cancer treatment and prevention.
Dr. Jenn became Philadelphia's first fellowship-trained breast surgeon and spent 17 years leading the field. This personal journey led her to create Real Health MD in 2019, a practice dedicated to holistic healing for breast cancer. It integrates conventional wisdom with root cause medicine and the drivers of health: nutrition, lifestyle changes, detoxification, and stress management. Dr. Jenn's innovative approach doesn't stop there. As the founder of PerfeQTion Imaging, she is establishing safe imaging centers across the nation, armed with revolutionary technology that promises to redefine breast cancer screening. This technology is not only fast and safe but also comfortable, affordable, radiation-free, and boasts 40 times the resolution of MRI. It has received FDA clearance, signaling a new era in breast health and breast cancer screening.
Beyond her professional endeavors, Dr. Jenn is a devoted wife, mother, stepmother, grandmother, and athlete. Her life's mission is deeply personal, rooted in her cousin's memory, and driven by a desire to make a lasting impact on all those who desire breast health. As she famously says, "Breast Health is Health!" Check out: www.JewishCoffeeHouse.com for more Jewish Podcasts on our network. - Visa fler
